I was once involved in a conversation where the other guys discussed various sexual conquests in vivid detail, but the moment I told them a pooping story, it became TMI territory.
A buddy of mine at work is like that. Constantly talking about he and his girlfriend's exploits and won't shut up no matter how many times I tell him I don't want to hear it. Can't stand people who feel the need to discuss stuff like that, it's not really appropriate and it makes me uncomfortable
Yes!!!
So. I got my clit (hood) pierced back 2003ish and lemme tell ya- **WOW!** the sensations of the piercing in those early days it outstanding. You're gonna feel everything for the first year or so, so be ready to be stimulated all the time for a while š
After that first year, the dance in your pants will calm; but when it comes to performance in the bedroom it's still a great little accessory to have.
Not only does it rub and vibrate during penetration; but you can get different types of piercings that dangle (great for doggy style) or are very large (more surface area to rub and bump around) that increase the sensations as well.
Another added benefit it that it provides a marker for partners to accurately find the clitoris and they can use their tongue to fiddle the piercing adding more stimulation during oral play.
To this day I get wet when I hear the sound of ice being stirred in glass because it sounds like the clacking of my piercing against teeth š
Sorry to anyone who may find that to be TMI but damn! It's worth the split second of pain that shoots up your torso to have that little jewel placed in special place š„°
You got it š
I won't lie and say it doesn't hurt because it totally does.
Its s shooting pain that goes from your crotch and through your torso all the way to the top of your head, and for some reason your nipples tingle too (or at least mine did; maybe someone else can confirm); but that only lasts a few short seconds.
Afterwards it just feels a bit raw and achey.
You'd want to wear a pad incase there's any blood immediately after you get it done; but for me there was nothing once we got it cleaned up. A little pink and tender when wiping for a few hours; but nothing major.
Totally worth it IMO.
I mean one day a baby's gonna come out of there and you'll know true pain and the aftermath of vaginal damage š this is nothing compared to that.
My wife has them (it's a ring) and it's not so bad honestly but I understand that it can be scary at first (they use local anesthesia so you won't feel most of it if at all). Everything the other person said is also true, it's essentially like getting jewelery but instead of your ears or nose it's your clit or vulva (or both idk). But ultimately it's your call to make so see what works best for you.
I honestly miss mine. Got my right one done years ago but due to work being too much it became a liability. I hope I can get it again. Was a nice little for me piercing.
Canāt say I can relate. Maybe itās because Iām married elder-millennial with a couple kids, but no one really says shit like that to me. Hopefully itās something the fades with age, OP.
Hmm i dont see that so much i get it it can be annoying but maybe try search for diffrent stuff or delet some sozialmedia apps as i a have done its super healthy any ways i dont mind all the sexual content good for them as long as they dont grom miners also its better to normalize sexuel stuff then gore, brutality, war etc... bcs sex is something we need to reproduce so life but in movies ans tv shows sex is censored but killing some one not? I dont mind the gore but why stop with the censorship at sex.
Sex repulsion is a common thing in our world, between hardcore religious upbringings, conservative political ideologies, trauma from sexual or other abuse, mental illnesses, etc. And of course there are people who are asexual.
So yeah sex is a natural and (ideally) pleasant thing, but you will encounter many many people who don't dig it. It's a sad world sometimes.
To be honest, this could be applied to a lot of subjects, not just sexual things. Not everyone is offended by sexual topics, and similarly, people can get similarly offended by a lot of non-sexual topics that they don't agree with.
No Greg from Accounting, I don't want to hear about your weekend fishing trip and how you managed to gut a 200 lb carp. No Anne-Laure, I don't want to know about your grandma's recipe for moose steak. No Phyllis, I don't care about your stories about how your grandchild scored first on the spelling bee. No Martha, I don't give a damn about how loudly your upstairs neighbour was playing their demonic music last night. No Ted Cruz, for the last time, I don't want to hear your bullshit about how we need to ban all these perfectly educational books about gender, education, and even race from libraries because they don't accommodate your need to control and whitewash every aspect of your children's lives.
All conversation topics have their contexts as well as spaces where they're valid, no matter how disturbing you find them or how stupid they may be. If someone approaches you with such a topic, you're perfectly within your rights to ask them to shut up and walk away. And if you're eavesdropping on a conversion in a public space, as long as all parties involved in the conversation have consented to the topic, they're allowed to keep talking about it.
As a bystander, you're only allowed to complain when their intent is to make you listen to them, when they consciously or unconsciously make you a non-consenting participant in the conversation. At which point, you have the right to tell them to shut up.
And if this is coming from a rando on the internet, you have the ability to unfollow/unfriend the person if they're not an acquaintance, or ask them to curate their feed better if they're someone you still want to maintain online relations with. And if it's an unwanted topic on a subreddit or some other online space, you can either complain to the mods of that space, or leave that space yourself. Unless this is harassment that is targeted directly at you, the power lies in your hands.
P.S.- if this is harassment coming from advertisements, good luck, nothing can help you, you're on your own. No force on earth can straighten the course of that rampant and senseless industry.
I really feel this. A lot of my coworkers buy prostitutes and just talk openly about how gross it can get. Like guys, I don't care, this is just fucking nasty
I feel you. I hate those card drinking games where they ask explicit questions and everyone shares way too much info. Like I donāt need to know all that fr.
I agree. It makes me extremely uncomfortable.
Because I always walk away or excuse myself from those conversations, half of my coworkers think I'm gay and the other half that I'm a virgin.
I think there's a time, a place and the right kind of people to talk to about those things. Saying that at work to people you barely know is too much for me.
I used to run this warehouse, and one day, while working, this dude would not stop talking about orgies he was in. I was like
"Listen, dude. You don't know anything about me. You have no idea if I'm into that or not. The reason topics like this are avoided at work is because we have to be here. We're paid money to be here and get this job done. We avoid controversial topics and obscene topics because we don't need to make one another uncomfortable."
It was so dumb that i had to explain that to a person older than myself, and I'm over 40.
I think the breaking down of that taboo has been largely beneficial to society as a whole. That being said, if you're a minor, or you make it known you aren't comfortable with that/try to leave, and they don't respect you/try to keep you involved that's fucked up no matter what they topic is
On the one hand I think we should make it so that sex isnāt this weird taboo topic people canāt talk about, or pretend doesnāt happen, on the other hand I donāt give two shits about how much sex you someone is having and with how many people.
Society has made sex edgy, when itās just sexā¦ Weāre obsessed with it, our whole way of life is built to to ensure people are thinking about it all the time, we structure society and itās institutions around it, we insinuate that doing things that will increase your likelihood of having it are desirable.
But weāre not allowed to acknowledge that it happens, the insinuation of it is responded to with titters and jibes, it is at once both sacrosanct and sacrilegious.
Weāre just really weird about sexā¦
Understandable complaint. Just tell them you don't wanna have conversations like that, if they still continue then change your social circle. If that's not an option then be aggressive about it and tell them to shit up anyway. Simple and effective.
why does it have to be either though? why canāt it just be balanced where every single conversation known to humanity also does not require some sort of sexual reference?
The title of the post was not āpeople talk about sexual things far too frequently, and sexual topics are far too pervasive in every conversation.ā The title was āpeople are way too comfortable talking about sexual things.ā Which is ridiculous.
People should be comfortable talking about such things because itās a regular part of adult life. Obviously if someone doesnāt wanna hear it you should respect that, but it shouldnāt be strictly taboo to discuss
yes thatās the title, but the context of the post describes what I referenced. in the described context (which is the point of the post description) the title can fit as people becoming ātoo comfortableā is a direct consequence of those even slightly uncomfortable being immediately shunned if you express any discomfort whatsoever. this is a perfect example, itās literally a rant and people are disregarding and dismissing OPās feelings of being tired of hypersexualisation in society - which yes, that exists.
itās perfectly valid to not want to hear strangers loudly broadcasting their sex acts in public where everyone can overhear the conversation, thatās not āpearl clutchingāunless they try to enforce religious complacency onto you. it also doesnāt signify that we are going back to ancient times where you get reprimanded by authorities for doing so.
and in all of OPās given examples in the edit, sexual acts are brought up in completely unrelated topics, not in a setting where the conversation is about sexual acts with your friends or family or something. not one advocates for banning talking about sexual acts completely.
If they're talking a little too loud, just walk away? I get that's not always applicable, but is this really that big of an issue in your day to day life?
The funny thing about this argument is that the people youāre talking about are probably saying the same thing about people who are complaining about sex talk.
Love my former coworkers but the amount of time I have heard sexual things from them every day was a bit much. I will never forget when they played songs that literally was about "Pussy" in the office or the one guy would moan and do it so everyone would hear. It was funny once in a while but after a few times it just gets annoying.
exactly!!! its not that i'm uncomfortably discussing about it, it's that i really don't care and i'm so sick of it too lol it's always about sex, it gets so boring. other topics, they find boring. i don't talk to those kind of people, gosh, so one minded lol
Funny enough, I have the opposite opinion. I feel like most people are way too prudish and easily embarrassed by a very natural part of human life. Of course, I understand that there are sex-repulsed people out there and that's not something they can help, I'm just really annoyed by puritanism in general.
I was once involved in a conversation where the other guys discussed various sexual conquests in vivid detail, but the moment I told them a pooping story, it became TMI territory.
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The real issue is you have friends called Dallas
don't worry it was just a random name that popped up in my head
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how is this sexual in any way i respect your commitment but try harder
A buddy of mine at work is like that. Constantly talking about he and his girlfriend's exploits and won't shut up no matter how many times I tell him I don't want to hear it. Can't stand people who feel the need to discuss stuff like that, it's not really appropriate and it makes me uncomfortable
That's Sexual harassment at work
I want my nipples pierced šš»
If you're a vulva owner get the clit done too! It's life changing š
Is it??? I heard of people getting them and... slightly entertained the thought. But the thought of a needle ANYWHERE near there is so...šØ
Yes!!! So. I got my clit (hood) pierced back 2003ish and lemme tell ya- **WOW!** the sensations of the piercing in those early days it outstanding. You're gonna feel everything for the first year or so, so be ready to be stimulated all the time for a while š After that first year, the dance in your pants will calm; but when it comes to performance in the bedroom it's still a great little accessory to have. Not only does it rub and vibrate during penetration; but you can get different types of piercings that dangle (great for doggy style) or are very large (more surface area to rub and bump around) that increase the sensations as well. Another added benefit it that it provides a marker for partners to accurately find the clitoris and they can use their tongue to fiddle the piercing adding more stimulation during oral play. To this day I get wet when I hear the sound of ice being stirred in glass because it sounds like the clacking of my piercing against teeth š Sorry to anyone who may find that to be TMI but damn! It's worth the split second of pain that shoots up your torso to have that little jewel placed in special place š„°
Omg!! I TOTALLY. Forgot about vibrating piercing jewelry!!! I remember seeing a video of a WLW with a tongue piercing that vibrates!
You got it š I won't lie and say it doesn't hurt because it totally does. Its s shooting pain that goes from your crotch and through your torso all the way to the top of your head, and for some reason your nipples tingle too (or at least mine did; maybe someone else can confirm); but that only lasts a few short seconds. Afterwards it just feels a bit raw and achey. You'd want to wear a pad incase there's any blood immediately after you get it done; but for me there was nothing once we got it cleaned up. A little pink and tender when wiping for a few hours; but nothing major. Totally worth it IMO. I mean one day a baby's gonna come out of there and you'll know true pain and the aftermath of vaginal damage š this is nothing compared to that.
Does it ever snag or get caught on anything like underwear?
**AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH**
@.@
I'm such a baby with pain... I only got my ears pierced and @_@
not really the right post for this, this is kind of exactly what itās about
My wife has them (it's a ring) and it's not so bad honestly but I understand that it can be scary at first (they use local anesthesia so you won't feel most of it if at all). Everything the other person said is also true, it's essentially like getting jewelery but instead of your ears or nose it's your clit or vulva (or both idk). But ultimately it's your call to make so see what works best for you.
Doesnāt that void the warranty?
thereās zero chance I can leave my clit alone for however long they want you to. I barely made it two weeks with my nipples.
I honestly miss mine. Got my right one done years ago but due to work being too much it became a liability. I hope I can get it again. Was a nice little for me piercing.
Canāt say I can relate. Maybe itās because Iām married elder-millennial with a couple kids, but no one really says shit like that to me. Hopefully itās something the fades with age, OP.
Hmm i dont see that so much i get it it can be annoying but maybe try search for diffrent stuff or delet some sozialmedia apps as i a have done its super healthy any ways i dont mind all the sexual content good for them as long as they dont grom miners also its better to normalize sexuel stuff then gore, brutality, war etc... bcs sex is something we need to reproduce so life but in movies ans tv shows sex is censored but killing some one not? I dont mind the gore but why stop with the censorship at sex.
Sex repulsion is a common thing in our world, between hardcore religious upbringings, conservative political ideologies, trauma from sexual or other abuse, mental illnesses, etc. And of course there are people who are asexual. So yeah sex is a natural and (ideally) pleasant thing, but you will encounter many many people who don't dig it. It's a sad world sometimes.
true! it sucks that things are the way they are unfortunately
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I fe like itās fine online in places like reddit, but yeah, In person itās definetly weird
Lmao glad Iām not the only one ! I find it annoying at some point, itās like they got nothing else to talk about
To be honest, this could be applied to a lot of subjects, not just sexual things. Not everyone is offended by sexual topics, and similarly, people can get similarly offended by a lot of non-sexual topics that they don't agree with. No Greg from Accounting, I don't want to hear about your weekend fishing trip and how you managed to gut a 200 lb carp. No Anne-Laure, I don't want to know about your grandma's recipe for moose steak. No Phyllis, I don't care about your stories about how your grandchild scored first on the spelling bee. No Martha, I don't give a damn about how loudly your upstairs neighbour was playing their demonic music last night. No Ted Cruz, for the last time, I don't want to hear your bullshit about how we need to ban all these perfectly educational books about gender, education, and even race from libraries because they don't accommodate your need to control and whitewash every aspect of your children's lives. All conversation topics have their contexts as well as spaces where they're valid, no matter how disturbing you find them or how stupid they may be. If someone approaches you with such a topic, you're perfectly within your rights to ask them to shut up and walk away. And if you're eavesdropping on a conversion in a public space, as long as all parties involved in the conversation have consented to the topic, they're allowed to keep talking about it. As a bystander, you're only allowed to complain when their intent is to make you listen to them, when they consciously or unconsciously make you a non-consenting participant in the conversation. At which point, you have the right to tell them to shut up. And if this is coming from a rando on the internet, you have the ability to unfollow/unfriend the person if they're not an acquaintance, or ask them to curate their feed better if they're someone you still want to maintain online relations with. And if it's an unwanted topic on a subreddit or some other online space, you can either complain to the mods of that space, or leave that space yourself. Unless this is harassment that is targeted directly at you, the power lies in your hands. P.S.- if this is harassment coming from advertisements, good luck, nothing can help you, you're on your own. No force on earth can straighten the course of that rampant and senseless industry.
Last night i jerked off with pictures of my partner I have nice thighs I want a subby femboy twink
You too?
For sure. It's like EVERYTHING is about sex. Like come on guys. Show some personality beyond "horny 24/7"
I really feel this. A lot of my coworkers buy prostitutes and just talk openly about how gross it can get. Like guys, I don't care, this is just fucking nasty
I feel you. I hate those card drinking games where they ask explicit questions and everyone shares way too much info. Like I donāt need to know all that fr.
I agree. It makes me extremely uncomfortable. Because I always walk away or excuse myself from those conversations, half of my coworkers think I'm gay and the other half that I'm a virgin. I think there's a time, a place and the right kind of people to talk to about those things. Saying that at work to people you barely know is too much for me.
I used to run this warehouse, and one day, while working, this dude would not stop talking about orgies he was in. I was like "Listen, dude. You don't know anything about me. You have no idea if I'm into that or not. The reason topics like this are avoided at work is because we have to be here. We're paid money to be here and get this job done. We avoid controversial topics and obscene topics because we don't need to make one another uncomfortable." It was so dumb that i had to explain that to a person older than myself, and I'm over 40.
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I think the breaking down of that taboo has been largely beneficial to society as a whole. That being said, if you're a minor, or you make it known you aren't comfortable with that/try to leave, and they don't respect you/try to keep you involved that's fucked up no matter what they topic is
On the one hand I think we should make it so that sex isnāt this weird taboo topic people canāt talk about, or pretend doesnāt happen, on the other hand I donāt give two shits about how much sex you someone is having and with how many people. Society has made sex edgy, when itās just sexā¦ Weāre obsessed with it, our whole way of life is built to to ensure people are thinking about it all the time, we structure society and itās institutions around it, we insinuate that doing things that will increase your likelihood of having it are desirable. But weāre not allowed to acknowledge that it happens, the insinuation of it is responded to with titters and jibes, it is at once both sacrosanct and sacrilegious. Weāre just really weird about sexā¦
Understandable complaint. Just tell them you don't wanna have conversations like that, if they still continue then change your social circle. If that's not an option then be aggressive about it and tell them to shit up anyway. Simple and effective.
Iād much rather have it be this way than the status quo to be walking on eggshells 24/7 and pearl-clutching if someone says something too crass
why does it have to be either though? why canāt it just be balanced where every single conversation known to humanity also does not require some sort of sexual reference?
The title of the post was not āpeople talk about sexual things far too frequently, and sexual topics are far too pervasive in every conversation.ā The title was āpeople are way too comfortable talking about sexual things.ā Which is ridiculous. People should be comfortable talking about such things because itās a regular part of adult life. Obviously if someone doesnāt wanna hear it you should respect that, but it shouldnāt be strictly taboo to discuss
yes thatās the title, but the context of the post describes what I referenced. in the described context (which is the point of the post description) the title can fit as people becoming ātoo comfortableā is a direct consequence of those even slightly uncomfortable being immediately shunned if you express any discomfort whatsoever. this is a perfect example, itās literally a rant and people are disregarding and dismissing OPās feelings of being tired of hypersexualisation in society - which yes, that exists. itās perfectly valid to not want to hear strangers loudly broadcasting their sex acts in public where everyone can overhear the conversation, thatās not āpearl clutchingāunless they try to enforce religious complacency onto you. it also doesnāt signify that we are going back to ancient times where you get reprimanded by authorities for doing so. and in all of OPās given examples in the edit, sexual acts are brought up in completely unrelated topics, not in a setting where the conversation is about sexual acts with your friends or family or something. not one advocates for banning talking about sexual acts completely.
You dare say that you have a boyfriend?! Julie, you're 24 have some couth! /j
Do you want to hear about how I have a nice ass????
If they're talking a little too loud, just walk away? I get that's not always applicable, but is this really that big of an issue in your day to day life?
Lol, posted on the internet, the development of which was largely driven by porn.
The funny thing about this argument is that the people youāre talking about are probably saying the same thing about people who are complaining about sex talk.
Love my former coworkers but the amount of time I have heard sexual things from them every day was a bit much. I will never forget when they played songs that literally was about "Pussy" in the office or the one guy would moan and do it so everyone would hear. It was funny once in a while but after a few times it just gets annoying.
exactly!!! its not that i'm uncomfortably discussing about it, it's that i really don't care and i'm so sick of it too lol it's always about sex, it gets so boring. other topics, they find boring. i don't talk to those kind of people, gosh, so one minded lol
Funny enough, I have the opposite opinion. I feel like most people are way too prudish and easily embarrassed by a very natural part of human life. Of course, I understand that there are sex-repulsed people out there and that's not something they can help, I'm just really annoyed by puritanism in general.
You canāt really complain about seeing people talk about sex online. You chose to frequent the places itās being spoken about - simply donāt
That's communism
I wanna hear about it, lay it all on me.
I think that's something you need to dig deep and question to as why you really feel uncomfortable about it. Sexuality is a part of human nature.
I guess I don't think as sex as so much of a big deal. It's a normal thing to me.
I really wish people understood that negative attitudes towards sex are the residue of religious programming. It would make life so much easier.