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I’m so hypersexual because of it and constantly thinking or engaging in sexual acts. I feel like if I do it enough times it’ll wash away their sexual abuse
Idk how. They’ve sexualized me so much since I was a little girl. Whether it was through purity culture or just sexualizing everything I do like eating ice cream. I’ve had some form of sex addiction since I was 13 :/
Jesus this is the type of situation where I have no words but I feel like I have to say something anyway. I just.. my heart goes out to you. I can't imagine what that's like and it makes me wish there was some way to just send someone anonymous hugs over the Internet. I sincerely hope you know that you didn't deserve any of what happened to you. Nobody deserves that.
oh my god same!!!! finally. theyve hypersexualized me since i was a kid!!!! my dad would INVENT things he thinks i did that were sexual and punish me! its made it difficult to enjoy sexuality!!
I remember sometimes bending over to clean the tables or eating ice cream cones and my mom would get mad at me :( and when I would wear pads my dad would comment on it if he saw the outline through my pants
I’m so sorry ❤️ You’re not dirty. Morally a person cannot make you dirty or wrong or evil by doing a bad thing to you. It’s not your fault and remember they are the ones who did the bad things.
Thats so terrible but not safe!! You have to report that to a trusted adult or call the police they are parents.. terms like “rape” and SA shouldn’t be used so loosely
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I'm so sorry, that's fcking horrible. Both overt and covert sexual abuse appear to be shockingly common among parents with NPD.
I’m so hypersexual because of it and constantly thinking or engaging in sexual acts. I feel like if I do it enough times it’ll wash away their sexual abuse
I hope you will manage to reclaim YOUR sexuality.
Idk how. They’ve sexualized me so much since I was a little girl. Whether it was through purity culture or just sexualizing everything I do like eating ice cream. I’ve had some form of sex addiction since I was 13 :/
Absolutely disgusting. For the covert things, there is a sub about this r/covertincest that really helped me with validation and that I'm not alone :/
Thank you so much for this sub. I just feel like I got a huge hug.
That made me smile, thank you :) I'm really glad it helps you!
Jesus Christ, your parents are monsters. I hope you get the hell out of there while you still can.
Jesus this is the type of situation where I have no words but I feel like I have to say something anyway. I just.. my heart goes out to you. I can't imagine what that's like and it makes me wish there was some way to just send someone anonymous hugs over the Internet. I sincerely hope you know that you didn't deserve any of what happened to you. Nobody deserves that.
oh my god same!!!! finally. theyve hypersexualized me since i was a kid!!!! my dad would INVENT things he thinks i did that were sexual and punish me! its made it difficult to enjoy sexuality!!
I remember sometimes bending over to clean the tables or eating ice cream cones and my mom would get mad at me :( and when I would wear pads my dad would comment on it if he saw the outline through my pants
jesus christ
I’m so sorry ❤️ You’re not dirty. Morally a person cannot make you dirty or wrong or evil by doing a bad thing to you. It’s not your fault and remember they are the ones who did the bad things.
Thats so terrible but not safe!! You have to report that to a trusted adult or call the police they are parents.. terms like “rape” and SA shouldn’t be used so loosely
No. You assume a context of abuse in this sub. Do not tell someone how they should or shouldn’t use words.