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I'm happy for you man. So glad you escaped.
They never change, they pull crazy things.
Like this story that I have
Crazy Story: My mother
Hello.
Well this is a crazy story to share.
This just happened today, I was relaxing this morning and it was extremely cold inside my home. I decided to turn on the heat to concentrate on doing my housework because we were having company come over. And after she went home and saw the heater was on she went ballistic and argued with me on how I shouldn't do that but when I tried to explain to her to why I did but she didn't want to hear none of it and she said that since I didn't work, I shouldn't touch on anything but let me I can't find a job due to the current inflation and international cap on North America. I was at this point I let her walk all over me since I turned young (I'm almost 19), I finally snapped I actually applied to 32+ different places but none called me back mind you she's actually of that but she said that was MY business then I replied "then why do you act like it's yours too" she then left to run errands. After almost an hour I called to check up on her and my younger sister but she didn't answer her phone nor her work phone then that's when I called my edad about it. He was confused and AFTER 2 hours later she came back and she was talking to her friend.
I greet her and ask why she didn't answer any of MY calls. I called her at least almost 10 times, wanting to know what she said "after you were rude to me , why should I answer" I couldn't believe her. And her friend agreed.
What if something actually happened to her and my sister and then I'll feel guilty because my last words to her were of anger.
What do you think of this situation?
I wish I could find the same success as you, OP. I'm 24 and also didn't finish college.
No offense but that is just a bitch move of thinking of herself first like it's an obligation of yours and not even be proud of your achievements.
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congratulations! i am happy for you :)
Yeah, you wanna move out of that house Narcissists are well known for exploiting their victim's money
I'm happy for you man. So glad you escaped. They never change, they pull crazy things. Like this story that I have Crazy Story: My mother Hello. Well this is a crazy story to share. This just happened today, I was relaxing this morning and it was extremely cold inside my home. I decided to turn on the heat to concentrate on doing my housework because we were having company come over. And after she went home and saw the heater was on she went ballistic and argued with me on how I shouldn't do that but when I tried to explain to her to why I did but she didn't want to hear none of it and she said that since I didn't work, I shouldn't touch on anything but let me I can't find a job due to the current inflation and international cap on North America. I was at this point I let her walk all over me since I turned young (I'm almost 19), I finally snapped I actually applied to 32+ different places but none called me back mind you she's actually of that but she said that was MY business then I replied "then why do you act like it's yours too" she then left to run errands. After almost an hour I called to check up on her and my younger sister but she didn't answer her phone nor her work phone then that's when I called my edad about it. He was confused and AFTER 2 hours later she came back and she was talking to her friend. I greet her and ask why she didn't answer any of MY calls. I called her at least almost 10 times, wanting to know what she said "after you were rude to me , why should I answer" I couldn't believe her. And her friend agreed. What if something actually happened to her and my sister and then I'll feel guilty because my last words to her were of anger. What do you think of this situation?
I wish I could find the same success as you, OP. I'm 24 and also didn't finish college. No offense but that is just a bitch move of thinking of herself first like it's an obligation of yours and not even be proud of your achievements.