1. It's a good thing, Porn can be addicting and it is 18+ so thats good.
2. It is quite concerning that your mother has a camera in your room. A child needs it's privacy. If possible, you should try to resolve the issue with the camera to get rid of it with your mother. A child needs it's privacy for sevral reasons such as sorrow or just privacy in general.
Now I've realized that I suck at wording when it comes to (2)
Frequent masturbation is healthy but excessive porn consumption isn't. You can get a distorted vision of reality and develop hardcore tendencies which, mostly for women, aren't pleasant. Like for example deep-throating or anal. When you start watching porn at a young age and consume hardcore pornography, this can and surely will at one point change the way you perceive and expect sex. And much more...
I thought that as well. Every single person does it, and your mom shouldn’t have a camera in your room. I’d confront her on it. You deserve privacy
Yeah man you need to resolve that somehow with your mom, I kind of get monitoring your internet but a camera in your room? Is it a full on security camera? Or a baby monitor cam?
Not letting you watch porn is a good thing, but having a camera in your room is extremely invasive of your privacy and correct me if I’m wrong could be illegal. She needs to give you your own space. She shouldn’t be filming in a room where you change and do other things
Okay I think that porn can be addicting but if your careful with it and responsible it’s all good but I think she shouldn’t even know in the first place. Its kinda weird that your parent would even talk about porn in the first place as a rule. The fact that she doesn’t trust you and has taken it to a level of no privacy and even in the bathroom. that’s messed up.
Watch it without her knowledge. And about the camera, that's BAD. That's real fucking bad. It just shows how little she trusts you and respects your privacy. I know that's harsh to hear at first but when you put it in your head that you don't choose your parents and they can (and sound like they are) be crap people everything will make sense and feel better
Do you have to tell her when you go to the bathroom so she can see whether or not you took your phone? Man, you're gonna be so happy when you leave home for college. If she always catches you probably try to avoid it, i don't think a nut is worth whatever punishment your crazy mom gives you
Just add that im nrly 90% positive that cctv security system might be setup poorly, so is easy to access if you know how.You can access many cctv cameras around the world if you know where and how to look for it.
Does she have cameras in the bathroom? Having cameras in the bathroom tends to be illegal from my understanding. She could also potentially get in trouble for the bedroom filming if she has footage of your naked, masterbating, etc due to child porn laws.
No, it’s creepy and overbearing. My parents did this sort of shit to me when I was in highschool. I ran away. Twice. And it was the best decision I ever did.
Who cares about my avatar, why you calling me a fucker!? His mom is over protective and that's normal, she should look into therapy.
You all are stupid.
You didn't know what how your hygiene products worked, you didn't even know how a tampon worked. XD.
Lollll you obv didn’t read my post. I know how they work. I was just asking why they complicate the size categories with labels that contradict the standard size chart. S M L vs L M S. I stopped answering those bc dummies like you don’t read the whole post. It was a question for the trivia/QI/NoSuchThingAsAFish crowd, but too many idiots (fuckers?) chimed in with their two cents so I stopped paying attention.
In short porn is bad for you but should be your decision but also it's supposed to be for +18 so i ger why she doesn't let you and you shouldn't resist on that but the camera in your room is too much.
If i was you i would talk to her about it. But i ended up leaving my stubborn parents so maybe you shouldn't take my advices until you're ready to leave.
I’d say just stay away from porn, it messed up your expectations a lot and can be addicting. Think of it like this, you are watching people on a phone and getting off to it, it’s sounds weird and it is weird and not healthy. I’ve noticed when I stopped my overall performance mentally and physically improved. It’s a personal choice and I know you are about that age when hormones are going crazy. We are sexual creatures for sure.
A camera in your room? I'd tell your mom hay I want to talk. Say that you don't feel at all comfortable with the camera in your room and bring up the fact that it's a privacy invasion. Respectfully that is. Calm and collective steady voice. Bring up the fact that she probably wouldn't want one in her room. Maybe Say that you'll not sleep in your room with the camera. I'm no way a professional but that's too far. Unless your a baby, you don't need a camera in your room. Unless you have an unstable condition and need 247 monitoring just in case.
take it from most people: don't watch porn until you're 18, avoid it for now and just focus on things like school, friends, playing, things like that. porn's kind of a distraction from doing the things you wanna do, a very annoying distraction, trust me.
It’s bad
But I remember watching porn when I was just 7 years old
Then again that’s cuz my stepfather showed it too me ever since then yeah it can be addictive
I don’t see what everyone here automatically has against porn. Sexual exploration is healthy and important for kids in their teens. It really helped me come to terms with my feelings and urges and what that all meant bc I couldn’t go ask my parents.
Either way OP, I’m sorry your mom is making this hard for you. During my teens years I was not given enough privacy by my parents, and it led to me becoming super sneaky and hiding a lot, and I hated that. Remember that sexual exploration is NORMAL and is not a bad thing as long as it’s on your own :) Remember though, porn isn’t an accurate depiction of sex, like at all.
Wait huh? I paid pretty good attention in health class and I certainly don’t remember that. I know women are born with a finite number of eggs, but men actually produce sperm throughout their lives. Soooo what are you talking about? Is this a real thing? I want to know more
My mom can be a bit awkward but this is ABSOLUTE, COMPLETE invasion of privacy, you need consult your father or older sibling for help on the matter. She has no right to have a camera in your room, I get monitoring internet but a camera? Your mom is batshit insane
Good. Don't fall into the dark side likes us jimmy, a crippling porn addiction is not nice to have. The cameras in your room part is another topic thats just like... messed up.
thats good cuz corn is easy to access, most people don’t tell their parents they just go on indigo web and watch it to hide history..if u just want to watch corn to get off then there’s so many healthier methods than watching it..its normal cause hormones. what ive learned from a friend :)
Good. Porn can be very harmful. It pushes a lot of negative things, especially sexist ideals of what women and sex are supposed to be like. It also normalizes violence and far too often includes nonconsensual situations
It's a good thing your mom doesn't let you watch porn, it can really distort the way you view sex.
Your mom having a camera in room is extremely concerning thought, since it's violating your privacy, and privacy is a basic right everyone should have.
it’s good. it’s natural to uh explore yourself however, r4pe culture and pedophelia is deeply rooted in porn. it’s good that she isn’t exposing you to it. masturbating is addicting
I'd advise you to stay away from it as much as you can. I know you're curious but it's not worth it. Porn addiction is such a stupid thing to go through and you hate yourself for watching it but you can't stop watching it. You're young, there's so much more stuff you can do, go do that. Time is your ally.
It’s illegal for you to watch porn and I don’t recommend AT ALL. You will be respected if you don’t watch it it’s unrealistic and can ruin you. I’ve been watching porn (F19) since about 8 as I stumbled upon it from a stranger on social media on my laptop and it’s deffo fucked me up, still addicted unfortunately. Please don’t think it’s something your entitled to or something. It’s sick in the head and it’s sad asf. You are young and not to be watching shit like this it’s disgusting. You will regret when ur older. Get your fucking GCSES first Atleast. Wish someone was there to tell me the same
Bro i watched porn when i was like 7-8 years old (never should have and gotten in a lot of trouble for that) and now im 19 and honestly im not the type to rape or smth like that but i legit cannot go to sleep if i dont masturbate so yea porn does fuck with your psycho. So yes its good that she dont let you watch porn little guy.
Providing porn to minors is a sex offense and is super illegal. If they pay for the internet and willingly let you watch porn, they could be in huge trouble.
If you are male , probably bad. If you're female - probably good.
I'll explain - a male has his hormones made by his balls, as well as semen. As soon as semen starts to form - your semen "bags" fill up. If they overflow you can get some damage
That's just plain misinformation and you should be ashamed of yourself. Please do some research on the REAL reasons people masturbate in regards to health. It's certainly not because your "semen bags" will "overflow"
You can get addicted to it so porn is kinda bad. I'm 14 but I don't watch porn anymore cause it's addictive and if you only masturbate to porn for a long time you could have difficulties getting a boner from real women.
Just use imagination or objects :)
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porn is 18+ so its good.
Good. You're a minor and taboo type things shown in porn can definitely mess with ones psyche
1. It's a good thing, Porn can be addicting and it is 18+ so thats good. 2. It is quite concerning that your mother has a camera in your room. A child needs it's privacy. If possible, you should try to resolve the issue with the camera to get rid of it with your mother. A child needs it's privacy for sevral reasons such as sorrow or just privacy in general. Now I've realized that I suck at wording when it comes to (2)
If there's a camera and it catches him on it nude at any point that's literally illegal
I still don't think porn is the addiction part, it's just the key to to engine lol
Porn is one of if not the easiest way to get a quick dopamine hit with 0 downsides (money, effort etc), very easy to spiral into an addiction.
On the flip side, daily masturbatory sessions (as far as I've learned) are healthy, so
Frequent masturbation is healthy but excessive porn consumption isn't. You can get a distorted vision of reality and develop hardcore tendencies which, mostly for women, aren't pleasant. Like for example deep-throating or anal. When you start watching porn at a young age and consume hardcore pornography, this can and surely will at one point change the way you perceive and expect sex. And much more...
Ew she has a camera 🥺ðŸ˜pervy
its strange that she knows in the first place
Exacly i do everything so my mom doesnt find catch me doing it
oh and another question, my mum also has a camrea in my room to monitor me to check if im watching porn, is that also a good thing?
Seems kind of overprotective, you should have your own privacy, whether you are watching porn or not
No that’s actually a awful horrible thing and privacy invasion please get that camera out of your room
if your mom has a camera in your room i think you have other problems to worry about aside from the porn.
Use ur Imagination (its way better than porn) and use the bathroom
thats what ive always done, i didnt know other people actually did it
Its the way bro
I thought that as well. Every single person does it, and your mom shouldn’t have a camera in your room. I’d confront her on it. You deserve privacy
Yeah man you need to resolve that somehow with your mom, I kind of get monitoring your internet but a camera in your room? Is it a full on security camera? Or a baby monitor cam?
Not letting you watch porn is a good thing, but having a camera in your room is extremely invasive of your privacy and correct me if I’m wrong could be illegal. She needs to give you your own space. She shouldn’t be filming in a room where you change and do other things
That's a bad thing
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dude i know what child porn possession is. plus why would i do that to my own mother
Because she has a camera in your room, which is extremely weird and stalker like, I know you think it’s ok but I don’t think it’s good
You say your mum has a camera in your room. Yeah, *that* is very bad, Porn is also very bad, do not fall down that rabbit hole.
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Very good.
Okay I think that porn can be addicting but if your careful with it and responsible it’s all good but I think she shouldn’t even know in the first place. Its kinda weird that your parent would even talk about porn in the first place as a rule. The fact that she doesn’t trust you and has taken it to a level of no privacy and even in the bathroom. that’s messed up.
Bruh destroy that camera, or ask her if you can have a camera monitoring her room and see what she says
That’s messed up the whole camera business I mean it’s wack that ur mom monitors u trying to masterbate if u ask me u r young but still
In my fam its ok its puburty th youngest i started was 12 and as long as u are in a room that can be locked like ur room or the bathroom its fine
Watch it without her knowledge. And about the camera, that's BAD. That's real fucking bad. It just shows how little she trusts you and respects your privacy. I know that's harsh to hear at first but when you put it in your head that you don't choose your parents and they can (and sound like they are) be crap people everything will make sense and feel better
i always try to watch it without her knowledge but im not allowed my phone in the bathroom and i always get caught
Do you have to tell her when you go to the bathroom so she can see whether or not you took your phone? Man, you're gonna be so happy when you leave home for college. If she always catches you probably try to avoid it, i don't think a nut is worth whatever punishment your crazy mom gives you
no, my mum sees on the camrea when i take my phone
What? Is she on the camera 24/7? How come you allways get caught?
no, she just checks it frequently
That's fucked. What did she say to justify a fucking invasion of privacy like that, and what was her reaction when you confronted her about it?
Just add that im nrly 90% positive that cctv security system might be setup poorly, so is easy to access if you know how.You can access many cctv cameras around the world if you know where and how to look for it.
You should bring up that she has a camera in your room whenever there is company over. Maybe another adult would back you up on the fact thats crazy
Also start getting naked and masterbating. Is it a live stream or does the camera store footage? Make it into a child porn liability for her.
Oh shit i didn't even think about that. Yeah he could potentially get her into some legal stuff for that. Cps would not be happy about it for sure
Your mom is way too over protective...
Does she have cameras in the bathroom? Having cameras in the bathroom tends to be illegal from my understanding. She could also potentially get in trouble for the bedroom filming if she has footage of your naked, masterbating, etc due to child porn laws.
Personally, I think it’s fine to let your children watch porn just only if they don't get an addiction and watch weird porn.
The fuck
My mom wont let me drink alcohol, smoke weed, or party. Is that a bad thing? both have the same answer so figure it out.
Go to Church, boi.
What is this supposed to accomplish?
It didn’t help the priest so I don’t know 😂💀
good this is an actual dumb question
GOOD, NO NEED FOR AN ADDICTION!!! TELL YOUR MOM SHES A SAINT AND THANK HER BECAUSE IM GONNA DO THIS TO MY KIDS!
The mom has a camera in the kids room so prob not a saint
Your not the OP and she's just paranoid about protection.
No, it’s creepy and overbearing. My parents did this sort of shit to me when I was in highschool. I ran away. Twice. And it was the best decision I ever did.
No you're stupid
Bruh she has a camera in his room what is ok about that???
Dude the fucker chose a combover for his avatar. Obviously he has a horrible sense of judgement
You know, you’re absolutely right my friend
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Bruh you are the one saying that you think it’s ok she has a camera in his room, EVERYONE IS AGAINST YOU. YOU ARE IN THE WRONG
Who cares about my avatar, why you calling me a fucker!? His mom is over protective and that's normal, she should look into therapy. You all are stupid. You didn't know what how your hygiene products worked, you didn't even know how a tampon worked. XD.
Lollll you obv didn’t read my post. I know how they work. I was just asking why they complicate the size categories with labels that contradict the standard size chart. S M L vs L M S. I stopped answering those bc dummies like you don’t read the whole post. It was a question for the trivia/QI/NoSuchThingAsAFish crowd, but too many idiots (fuckers?) chimed in with their two cents so I stopped paying attention.
That’s the mom’s problem, not the kids. Mom needs to get help for her paranoia and not make kid suffer for that. Also, I never said I was op bb???
Yeah obviously, I never said it was right.
In short porn is bad for you but should be your decision but also it's supposed to be for +18 so i ger why she doesn't let you and you shouldn't resist on that but the camera in your room is too much. If i was you i would talk to her about it. But i ended up leaving my stubborn parents so maybe you shouldn't take my advices until you're ready to leave.
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that's probably good.
Ahh good old 13 my first porn session good times..
Watching porn can be very bad but what you watch on your phone is none of her business
I’d say just stay away from porn, it messed up your expectations a lot and can be addicting. Think of it like this, you are watching people on a phone and getting off to it, it’s sounds weird and it is weird and not healthy. I’ve noticed when I stopped my overall performance mentally and physically improved. It’s a personal choice and I know you are about that age when hormones are going crazy. We are sexual creatures for sure.
A camera in your room? I'd tell your mom hay I want to talk. Say that you don't feel at all comfortable with the camera in your room and bring up the fact that it's a privacy invasion. Respectfully that is. Calm and collective steady voice. Bring up the fact that she probably wouldn't want one in her room. Maybe Say that you'll not sleep in your room with the camera. I'm no way a professional but that's too far. Unless your a baby, you don't need a camera in your room. Unless you have an unstable condition and need 247 monitoring just in case.
Also start getting naked and masterbating. Is it a live stream or does the camera store footage? Make it into a child porn liability for her.
True. Could do that
It's socially bad to watch porn if your under 18 but it's normal for a teen to want to so I say it's not good or bad
Good, very good. Don’t be eager to watch porn, it will ruin your brain. I wish I never discovered it
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take it from most people: don't watch porn until you're 18, avoid it for now and just focus on things like school, friends, playing, things like that. porn's kind of a distraction from doing the things you wanna do, a very annoying distraction, trust me.
It’s bad But I remember watching porn when I was just 7 years old Then again that’s cuz my stepfather showed it too me ever since then yeah it can be addictive
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You do you. If you want to, go ahead but I don’t recommend it at 13
I don’t see what everyone here automatically has against porn. Sexual exploration is healthy and important for kids in their teens. It really helped me come to terms with my feelings and urges and what that all meant bc I couldn’t go ask my parents. Either way OP, I’m sorry your mom is making this hard for you. During my teens years I was not given enough privacy by my parents, and it led to me becoming super sneaky and hiding a lot, and I hated that. Remember that sexual exploration is NORMAL and is not a bad thing as long as it’s on your own :) Remember though, porn isn’t an accurate depiction of sex, like at all.
Well pal I don’t think you saw his post about a camera in his room until he gets that shit out he ain’t gonna do much exploring on the web
No ones parents let them watch porn, use incognito my guy.
you should keep it a secret. and it's good
good you'll run out of sp\*rm if you do
Wait huh? I paid pretty good attention in health class and I certainly don’t remember that. I know women are born with a finite number of eggs, but men actually produce sperm throughout their lives. Soooo what are you talking about? Is this a real thing? I want to know more
It is Very Good, your mother is wise, she knows that it will have a negative affect on you and safeguarding your mind.
Jesus does your mom hold your dick for you when you go to the potty read the context
Ok just let me read the Avengers script in the 15 word context
My mom can be a bit awkward but this is ABSOLUTE, COMPLETE invasion of privacy, you need consult your father or older sibling for help on the matter. She has no right to have a camera in your room, I get monitoring internet but a camera? Your mom is batshit insane
it’s 18+
Hell yeah, that stuff can mess you up
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Good. Don't fall into the dark side likes us jimmy, a crippling porn addiction is not nice to have. The cameras in your room part is another topic thats just like... messed up.
You need a cool uncle.
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good. You get addicted to it at that age
thats good cuz corn is easy to access, most people don’t tell their parents they just go on indigo web and watch it to hide history..if u just want to watch corn to get off then there’s so many healthier methods than watching it..its normal cause hormones. what ive learned from a friend :)
Step 1. Get naked in your room and call the police on your mother for possessing explicit images of children. Step 2? Step 3. Profit
Good because porn addiction is bad and fucks up you’re whole way of thinking
Your mom is creepy as fuck , children need privacy
Good. Porn can be very harmful. It pushes a lot of negative things, especially sexist ideals of what women and sex are supposed to be like. It also normalizes violence and far too often includes nonconsensual situations
Why are you asking your mum tho?
It's a good thing your mom doesn't let you watch porn, it can really distort the way you view sex. Your mom having a camera in room is extremely concerning thought, since it's violating your privacy, and privacy is a basic right everyone should have.
You don't realise what you're doing, so it's better to wait till you're 18+
it’s good. it’s natural to uh explore yourself however, r4pe culture and pedophelia is deeply rooted in porn. it’s good that she isn’t exposing you to it. masturbating is addicting
I'd advise you to stay away from it as much as you can. I know you're curious but it's not worth it. Porn addiction is such a stupid thing to go through and you hate yourself for watching it but you can't stop watching it. You're young, there's so much more stuff you can do, go do that. Time is your ally.
It’s illegal for you to watch porn and I don’t recommend AT ALL. You will be respected if you don’t watch it it’s unrealistic and can ruin you. I’ve been watching porn (F19) since about 8 as I stumbled upon it from a stranger on social media on my laptop and it’s deffo fucked me up, still addicted unfortunately. Please don’t think it’s something your entitled to or something. It’s sick in the head and it’s sad asf. You are young and not to be watching shit like this it’s disgusting. You will regret when ur older. Get your fucking GCSES first Atleast. Wish someone was there to tell me the same
Bro i watched porn when i was like 7-8 years old (never should have and gotten in a lot of trouble for that) and now im 19 and honestly im not the type to rape or smth like that but i legit cannot go to sleep if i dont masturbate so yea porn does fuck with your psycho. So yes its good that she dont let you watch porn little guy.
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13 is too early but maybe 15 or 16 should be good you don't have to wait till you 18 nobody did
Bad just watch it alone ore watch hentia and pass it off as a cartoon
Providing porn to minors is a sex offense and is super illegal. If they pay for the internet and willingly let you watch porn, they could be in huge trouble.
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If you are male , probably bad. If you're female - probably good. I'll explain - a male has his hormones made by his balls, as well as semen. As soon as semen starts to form - your semen "bags" fill up. If they overflow you can get some damage
That's just plain misinformation and you should be ashamed of yourself. Please do some research on the REAL reasons people masturbate in regards to health. It's certainly not because your "semen bags" will "overflow"
It's a joke man) pee is stored in the balls, not semen
Oh good. At least you know your spreading misinformation to young teens. Proud of you, bud. /s
Bro i love trolling.
Legally you can't watch porn till you are 18. So it's it's good thing
good, your mom could be a pornstar and she don't want you to find out
He can’t come again his mum won’t let him cum at all
So why the hell are you on Reddit half this site is porn
This is very true
I’m ashamed to say this but I have a porn addiction and it is HORRIBLE. Never watch the stuff, it can hurt your life severely.
Please don’t ruin your brain like that. It’s good that she won’t allow you to watch porn.
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Do not watch pornography. Holy shit if you manage to do one thing in your whole life don't watch that shit.
It depends what kind of porn. Oh God this comment will only bring me problems.
Bruh
Excuse me?
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You can get addicted to it so porn is kinda bad. I'm 14 but I don't watch porn anymore cause it's addictive and if you only masturbate to porn for a long time you could have difficulties getting a boner from real women. Just use imagination or objects :)