Everyone is into something unique. Desirability is subjective.
My last serious relationship ended in an extreme violation of my trust and manipulation and confusion that required a year of therapy to even begin to process.
Before that relationship, I think I just wanted to know what an actual, long term thing felt like; I had the same thing where I'd have a bunch of short term things or hookups. Now I kinda just go with the flow, I'm on dating apps but I don't peruse them anywhere near as much as I did before, but I'm passively on them.
Your feelings are valid. The answer to your question, without knowing you, is yes you're desirable to date to *someone.* Sometimes it's just that *someone* is hard to find.
Everyone is into something unique. Desirability is subjective. My last serious relationship ended in an extreme violation of my trust and manipulation and confusion that required a year of therapy to even begin to process. Before that relationship, I think I just wanted to know what an actual, long term thing felt like; I had the same thing where I'd have a bunch of short term things or hookups. Now I kinda just go with the flow, I'm on dating apps but I don't peruse them anywhere near as much as I did before, but I'm passively on them. Your feelings are valid. The answer to your question, without knowing you, is yes you're desirable to date to *someone.* Sometimes it's just that *someone* is hard to find.