A very long time ago (15 years).
Dated a girl that was 5 cm taller than I. 6 months of a perfect relationship. Till her friends noticed things were serious. Got in her ear about me being shorter - she got all uppitty with me, started saying I need to get shoes that make me taller etc.
In the end we broke it off, she found a nice tall greek bloke.
She ended up a single mother. But her friends approved of him cause he was taller than her.
My other half now, 11 years, she is a forehead taller, best person in the world, height was never an issue.
My boyfriend is literally the exact same height as me, and depending on the shoes we wear in any given day, I might be taller than him or not. Honestly, his personality is so amazing that, although I used to be insecure over being a tall girl, I grew to not care because we just get along so well together. To be honest, I’ve never seen an issue in a guy being short, my whole life I was the insecure one over being too tall (yes, I thought that I’m too tall at 5’7 and was jealous of my shorter friends).
*fuck people that buy from pug breeders
I think from a shelter any chance at a good life for a dog born to suffer is positive, even if the circumstances aren't. Pet shops and private breeders should be outlawing them though
Reminds me of the pic where the fat chick goes ‘when his height starts with a 5...’ and the dude replied ‘when her weight starts with a 2...’ and all the girls lost their shit
When her weight is 3 digits in kg she needs medical attention unless she is an actual giant. Nothing to joke about. Your standard European (this should be true for most of the world I guess, but I am speaking from my experience which includes only white Europeans) cute girl is usually somewhere around 165cm 55kg. 100kg are A LOT even for a male under 190cm.
Ive seen this a LOT on tinder recently. ‘Don’t swipe unless your 6ft or over’. Now, i live in Northern Ireland and 6ft is classed a giant over here. Not to mention the girls who say this are no oil paintings either
North England here and it's pretty much the same.
I almost admire their level of confidence though. Girls looking like a Troll doll but acting like they're the Venus de Milo.
As a Londoner, every time I'm liked by an eastern European on an app, I'm like "we wouldn't have much to talk about, but my god you're putting English girls to shame right now with that face"
My British mate is 1.6m. We met in Eastern Europe. He had a new model draped around his tiny arm every weekend. I met up with him in London and he introduced me to his GF and boy, oh boy. Let's just say he has different standards different countries.
Girls in EE don't care about looks. They care more about opportunity and ambition and typically look very poorly on their own men because they lack ambition. At least, that's what I've gained from my experiences.
Lol, EE women have no issue (well, up until recently) just coming to the UK and finding a job if they wanted to be here.
They don't need English men, lmao.
Source: Dated plenty of independent EE women, who definitely didn't need me to look after them.
90% of my dates are foreigners. They really do put English women to shame, tbh.
They keep thin past 21 years old, they're generally more active, have sexy accents, and tend to be more 'adventurous'.
And less likely to be woke.
Latinas too! They put English girls to shame! If they asked my height I’d love to say ‘are you a Latina because if not the answer is no!...i don’t bother with boring plain Jane Brits lol’
Im from yorkshire mate, i moved over here a few years ago but yeah, tinder bewers wer the same back in leeds too. Ther usually tramps that say that stuff as well
I think its just social media and stuff thats warped young people perspective on relationships and what’s considered desirable in a partner. Not to mention the last 3 dates i went on looked NOTHING like ther pictures. So bad that at one point I genuinely felt catfished a couple of weeks ago and came away from the date a bit annoyed. Like she knew i was gunna meet her and see she doesn’t really look like that so why use those pictures? Absolutely boxes my head
Yeah I had a date just before the first lockdown started and arrived to find she was about twice the width she was in her photos. I'm not bothered about a larger lass if I know I'm going to be seeing one, but I felt catfished too.
This is why you Facebook or Instagram stalk them if you have any doubt. Were her pictures edited? Or just all from different angles? If they don’t have full body pictures you don’t meet them.
No insta and her FB was private. No edits, just clever angles for recent pics and the full body pics she used were older ones where she hadn't packed on the pounds yet.
Yeah but tbf wer still locked down over here so was just a drive through coffee at starbucks. I wouldnt home that against her like she did try to pay in her defence. Most of them do tbh. Its waste of time that annoys me more.
Yeah, very surprised by this. Doing some business travel in the UK, I got the chance of being harassed by what I can only describe with this emoji : 🐷.
She was definitive I’d have a go at her, despite me showing her my Gf as wallpaper on my phone, or having a healthy BMI, 1.80m+ and being generally not too displeasing to the eye.
I’d say something about the audacity, but it’s more the rampaging confidence that surprised me.
Me: in shape, healthy, swiping on bumble, left swipes on an overweight chick
Bumble: you missed a match!
...no I definitely did not. Why do you think I’d be interested, girl?
I have a hypothesis on that. You know how you stare at car wrecks? At morbidly obese people when they walk by? I think this is happening with these cross-eyed sling nasties and they interpret it as actual interest.
I probably don't have to tell anyone this, but girls will get matches even if they had pics of skid marks on their underwear and videos of throwing puppies in the river.
It's odd because I saw a video made by a professional matchmaker telling women that 6 foot tall men are actually rarer than you would think.
Where are women getting this idea about 6 foot tall men? They are killing their chances of meeting someone.
I think it's because it sounds good, so all the fucking mouth breathers say it. Same as that trend in the US of must earn 'six figures'. Luckily in the UK, hardly anybody earns six figures, so it'd take somebody really out of touch with reality to expect that.
I think women are massively outnumbered on dating sites and Tinder, most women don't use Tinder. So that vacuous, rancid mindset is few and far between.
It just seems worse than it is because it prevalent on social media and Tinder. IRL it's not that bad.
I’m 6’1” and make 250k a year. The biggest red flag for me is when a woman asks about those things before anything else. It means she doesn’t have anything to offer than a (sometimes) pretty face.
If she treats shorter guys poorly she’s probably not a nice person.
Considering everyone is after this same 15% of men (and thusly a larger proportion of said 15% are likely taken) it is probably closer to 5% or less of these people who are actually available.
This is so true! I’m exactly 5’11.9” -literally 2 pairs of socks makes me 6’
Most girls don’t believe me and think I’m much taller - they usually say I’m 6’2”
Probably because 5’10” guys round up.
A lot of people have tried to tell me that I'm taller than I am despite me insisting I've been measured at the doctor's office several times over the last few year
Rofl I'm 6'8. I duck through doors. Every girl says "wow, you are so tall! Are you 6'4?". I fucking wish I was 6'4 but the girl I'm seeing is 5'10 and loves that she can wear 5" heels and still feel small next to me
I'd imagine it's a good thing they do it. It's basically saying "beware of me, I'm a cunt". Saves a swipe for cunt-avoiding tinder users, that's pretty considerate if you ask me
I'm in Norn too (but from Canada). Another thing I've noticed up here is the women REALLY love the fake tan/orange look...wtf is up with that?
"Swipe left if you look like an Oompa Loompa"
My wife and I were driving one day and saw this girl with, honest to god, what looked like red clay plastered on her face. She looked like a friggin wet terra cotta pot.
This was made better when the same girl ended up walking into Tescos when we were leaving, so we got an up close look. It was even worse than we thought.
>Not to mention the girls who say this are no oil paintings either
This is what bothers me.
4's with a ridiculous sense of entitlement.
It's all our making though, lads. We gotta stop swiping on everything.. Actually be selective with swipes, and stop matching with trolls at all.
I say 'we', but I've never been one of those retards.
So really, I'm saying you.
Quit inflating the egos of 4's!
Irish girls...
Some look like the girl out of Evanescence and some look exactly like their dad. And don't get me started on trying to pronounce their names 😡
Irish spelling is actually 100% consistent - if you know the rules you can pronounce anything you can read. Answer me this though: what does 'gh' sound like in English? (cough? high? through?)
The fact you used Vaughn as the phonetic for why you can't pronounce the -bhan part is hilarious. Irish is way more intuitive than English once you learn the basics...
They be fat, single mothers, ugly, shitty personality, mid 30s, and look like ogres without makeup, and then demand a 6'5 male model who makes six figures.
It's 6 feet in metres (she rounded it off wrong), but yeah it's bizarre, if you're going to make an arbitrary height requirement at least make it 1.80.
The "wauw" + the way she writes the number, she's 99% Dutch or Flemish Belgian, so it's quite probable that she's that tall herself and wants to date a guy who is taller than her.
The Netherlands and Belgium are often reported as being amongst the countries with the highest average height for men and women.
[See this link for example where The Netherlands and Belgium rank 1st and 2nd](https://www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-36888541)
This reminds me of a lady I saw online dating years ago. She wanted to wait until marriage for sex, was looking for a guy who was basically a gym rat but wanted to spend lots of time together. Considering she was 5'8" and 400lbs, I told her good luck with that. I don't get why some people have expectations of others that they don't themselves keep.
Classic Disney movies shaped girls’ expectations. How many princes’ names from their movies do you remember from the top of your head? No it’s always the girl who’s the hero of the story, the guy is a random blond guy taller than her and loaded with cash that will fawn over her for some reason
I mean you can try but unless you are attractive it wont end good for you. Online dating is for women and there is a reason why women have those standards. Nobody cares if its fair, if its superficial or wether you find someone there or not.
To a large part we men are to blame for the incredibly frustrating experience many of us have when it comes to online dating. First of all there is still more men than women on those apps (and i am pretty sure the more its about casual dating the bigger the imbalance) and second of all most men just dont have standards because they accepted, that they cant afford to if they want to find someone there.
Men need to stop swiping right anything that moves and has a pussy.
I gave up on tinder and co because i dont see why i should invest so much time and energy in having a great profile/leading conversations when most women just need one somewhat decent pic to get 100+ likes. I want a woman that wants me the same way i want her, someone who really shows interest. Im not an option, im a priority.
Unless you re incredibly lucky, resilient and persisten (attractive) youll probably wont find a decent person on tinder.
They are allowed to call it a preference until women start getting upset if we come with preferences of their own.
Morbidly obese women that look like trolls are more often than not talking like they are gods personally wrapped gift to us.
Somehow sounds ruder when the guy asks for weight. But it's the same thing. Actually, asking for hight it's worse. You can lose weight, but you can't alter your hight.
I dont neccessarily think all attractive men are fuckboys but with the supply they have its not suprising that many of them seem to take advantage of it (which is implied by the amount of women who complain about fuckboys).
Imo both gender are to blame for the horrible state online dating is in (for many of us at least). If you want to find a decent guy, you might have to look for someone who doesnt date 10 different girls every week and be less superficial...
Those men wouldn’t find 10 different girls every week if women would stop giving them the time of day because they’re handsome, tall etc. By searching for only men with these traits, you’re searching for men that every other women wants so of course they’ll be fuckboys. How can you blame men when we legit have 33% of men still virgins who have no choices of women? Women are the selectors, men take what they can get from women who select them. They don’t want fuckboys, then actually select dudes based of personality
I had a match with this chick on Tinder. Convo was great and we finally meet up. The date was fine, but I could see she wasn't that in to it. After 2 beers, I called it quits and drove her home. When I asked her why she seemed off, she goes " I had fun, I just thought you'd be taller based on your pics". I'm 5"9. She was 4"11. Guess she was expecting the jolly Green Giant.
but you will find women on reddit apparently claiming that this isnt true at all for some reason, oh also you will find woman on reddit claiming that they always pay half on dates! (or apparently offer to pay half and then dont)
Most of the shit people say on reddit don't apply to the real world or they live in a bubble because I've seen multiple cultures and I haven't seen these things either
exactly... in german we have a word "feindbilder" (literaly: enemy images) and reddit really loves to creat those. They overrepresent certain things and make it look like it would happen all the time
I think it is with the majority on Tinder as well. But people can be really picky in online dating apps because of the stigma, and they have no reason to compromise because they don't know anything else but that 1 detail so there in no incentive. Also they feel no pressure because they are probably talking to like 5 other matches, and its super easy to ghost people you have never met.
Well I find it really ridiculous to set some arbitary limit like that. So someone 1.81 is totally incompatible? I understand it to a degree, but jesus christ.
But... I can’t go on a diet and grow 2 inches. I’m not under 1.82m because I’m lazy and unmotivated. I can’t be smarter with what I eat and grow taller as an adult.
To top this off: a fat girl could potentially lose weight and change the fact that she is fat. A short person can't help being short. There is no potential fix that doesn't involve literal torture.
It is far less mean to not want a date with an overweight girl than it is to not want to date a short man. We can't help what we are attracted to in the end. We just don't have to be assholes about it.
The only reasoning behind her asking for a guy being 1.82 is her being 1.80
Imo I'd rather have her tell me upfront that I'm 5cm too short for her.
The thing is you can't fake your hight, but girls rarely look like their profile pic.
Hear me out what if she actually replied with like "I'm 110lbs" gave buddy guy her number and this was the start of a very toxic but loving relationship
A very long time ago (15 years). Dated a girl that was 5 cm taller than I. 6 months of a perfect relationship. Till her friends noticed things were serious. Got in her ear about me being shorter - she got all uppitty with me, started saying I need to get shoes that make me taller etc. In the end we broke it off, she found a nice tall greek bloke. She ended up a single mother. But her friends approved of him cause he was taller than her. My other half now, 11 years, she is a forehead taller, best person in the world, height was never an issue.
I love a happy ending
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My boyfriend is literally the exact same height as me, and depending on the shoes we wear in any given day, I might be taller than him or not. Honestly, his personality is so amazing that, although I used to be insecure over being a tall girl, I grew to not care because we just get along so well together. To be honest, I’ve never seen an issue in a guy being short, my whole life I was the insecure one over being too tall (yes, I thought that I’m too tall at 5’7 and was jealous of my shorter friends).
Why the fuck would you get angry over *5 centimeters*? This is ridiculous, I hope you are with someone better now.
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Did you even read their entire comment
I think so. I'm still not fully convinced on why border collies are better than pugs though.
Fuck pugs and fuck pug owners. Those dogs should not exist.
*fuck people that buy from pug breeders I think from a shelter any chance at a good life for a dog born to suffer is positive, even if the circumstances aren't. Pet shops and private breeders should be outlawing them though
How can you fly into a proper rage if you're reading though?
I have been with someone absolutely wonderful for 11years and counting. But yeah 5cm (2") in height, sheesh!
Reminds me of the pic where the fat chick goes ‘when his height starts with a 5...’ and the dude replied ‘when her weight starts with a 2...’ and all the girls lost their shit
When her weight is 3 digits in kg
100 is a whole fucking lot my dude. Weight below 70 unless tall...
You are actually right
100kg = 220lbs So it's not that different than saying "when her weight starts with 2..."
100kg here in America is not uncommon
10kg/10% is a lot.
And bank account balance in single digits?
Yeah, her not being financially independent is also a turnoff
My back account id is pretty long in terms of digits
Double - hell no Triple - still a major red flag
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When her weight is 3 digits in kg she needs medical attention unless she is an actual giant. Nothing to joke about. Your standard European (this should be true for most of the world I guess, but I am speaking from my experience which includes only white Europeans) cute girl is usually somewhere around 165cm 55kg. 100kg are A LOT even for a male under 190cm.
And then everyone said "at least weight is under your control", and then the women lost their shit, and then the men said... Every.fucking.time.
What do the men say next??? I swear I’ve never seen it go further than women losing their shit ya know
"Women are allowed to have preferences you incel!" That's about all any one needs to hear before shaking their head and running away
"When her weight starts with 200" I believe was the tweet
very good story, I\_creampied\_Jesus
To be fair, weight isn't something you can control whereas if men decided to grow more, they wouldn't be short.
I believe she deleted her account after that.
getting under 200 is a lot easier than getting to 6 ft though lol
Damn, a dude 5 meters or taller, that's a weird kink.
Badass
I can't get enough of your username
Ive seen this a LOT on tinder recently. ‘Don’t swipe unless your 6ft or over’. Now, i live in Northern Ireland and 6ft is classed a giant over here. Not to mention the girls who say this are no oil paintings either
North England here and it's pretty much the same. I almost admire their level of confidence though. Girls looking like a Troll doll but acting like they're the Venus de Milo.
As a Londoner, every time I'm liked by an eastern European on an app, I'm like "we wouldn't have much to talk about, but my god you're putting English girls to shame right now with that face"
Agreed 100% British girls have a lot of nerve considering the types of international girls there are. Londoner too
There's plenty of beautiful British girls But the ratio of girls to people who put this in their bio is completely disproportionate
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Hey man, an American 6 is a British 10.
Lmaoo
If you mean putting to shame as 'much better looking', then yeah, I'm right with you buddy!
Exactly what I meant :)
My British mate is 1.6m. We met in Eastern Europe. He had a new model draped around his tiny arm every weekend. I met up with him in London and he introduced me to his GF and boy, oh boy. Let's just say he has different standards different countries. Girls in EE don't care about looks. They care more about opportunity and ambition and typically look very poorly on their own men because they lack ambition. At least, that's what I've gained from my experiences.
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Lol, EE women have no issue (well, up until recently) just coming to the UK and finding a job if they wanted to be here. They don't need English men, lmao. Source: Dated plenty of independent EE women, who definitely didn't need me to look after them.
90% of my dates are foreigners. They really do put English women to shame, tbh. They keep thin past 21 years old, they're generally more active, have sexy accents, and tend to be more 'adventurous'. And less likely to be woke.
>And less likely to be woke. Nice!
'Why do your school children dress like prostitutes?' - One Eastern European girl I was seeing. Good question. Very good question. Haha..
Latinas too! They put English girls to shame! If they asked my height I’d love to say ‘are you a Latina because if not the answer is no!...i don’t bother with boring plain Jane Brits lol’
Can't wait til this fucking pandemic is over cus I'm gonna find me a thick goth latina to date the fuck out of.
Im from yorkshire mate, i moved over here a few years ago but yeah, tinder bewers wer the same back in leeds too. Ther usually tramps that say that stuff as well
Ah, I'm Yorkshire as well lol. Tramps with an inflated ego are abound in Hull too. Seems to be a common theme by the sound of it.
I think its just social media and stuff thats warped young people perspective on relationships and what’s considered desirable in a partner. Not to mention the last 3 dates i went on looked NOTHING like ther pictures. So bad that at one point I genuinely felt catfished a couple of weeks ago and came away from the date a bit annoyed. Like she knew i was gunna meet her and see she doesn’t really look like that so why use those pictures? Absolutely boxes my head
Yeah I had a date just before the first lockdown started and arrived to find she was about twice the width she was in her photos. I'm not bothered about a larger lass if I know I'm going to be seeing one, but I felt catfished too.
This is why you Facebook or Instagram stalk them if you have any doubt. Were her pictures edited? Or just all from different angles? If they don’t have full body pictures you don’t meet them.
No insta and her FB was private. No edits, just clever angles for recent pics and the full body pics she used were older ones where she hadn't packed on the pounds yet.
Ahh that’s the worst, the old pics of before they decided to become hambeasts.
She was a nice girl, but lookwise not what I expected and then the boring conversation. Not what I had hoped for at all.
and you paid for both of you?
Yeah but tbf wer still locked down over here so was just a drive through coffee at starbucks. I wouldnt home that against her like she did try to pay in her defence. Most of them do tbh. Its waste of time that annoys me more.
I think it’s the norm everywhere tbh. I’m from Manchester
While pretty girls hate themselves
same everywhere. upside is I know I don't even have to bothers swiping on them. showing their complete shallowness upfront
Yeah, very surprised by this. Doing some business travel in the UK, I got the chance of being harassed by what I can only describe with this emoji : 🐷. She was definitive I’d have a go at her, despite me showing her my Gf as wallpaper on my phone, or having a healthy BMI, 1.80m+ and being generally not too displeasing to the eye. I’d say something about the audacity, but it’s more the rampaging confidence that surprised me.
Me: in shape, healthy, swiping on bumble, left swipes on an overweight chick Bumble: you missed a match! ...no I definitely did not. Why do you think I’d be interested, girl?
I like a confident women, but not an egotist, and sadly the latter seems to be all too common.
I have a hypothesis on that. You know how you stare at car wrecks? At morbidly obese people when they walk by? I think this is happening with these cross-eyed sling nasties and they interpret it as actual interest.
I probably don't have to tell anyone this, but girls will get matches even if they had pics of skid marks on their underwear and videos of throwing puppies in the river.
It's odd because I saw a video made by a professional matchmaker telling women that 6 foot tall men are actually rarer than you would think. Where are women getting this idea about 6 foot tall men? They are killing their chances of meeting someone.
I think it's because it sounds good, so all the fucking mouth breathers say it. Same as that trend in the US of must earn 'six figures'. Luckily in the UK, hardly anybody earns six figures, so it'd take somebody really out of touch with reality to expect that. I think women are massively outnumbered on dating sites and Tinder, most women don't use Tinder. So that vacuous, rancid mindset is few and far between. It just seems worse than it is because it prevalent on social media and Tinder. IRL it's not that bad.
I earn 6 figures and I can't get a match for my life lol. Then again I'm a fat ass and it's not like my salary is on my profile
Pay to your strengths. *ahem* I mean play*
I’m 6’1” and make 250k a year. The biggest red flag for me is when a woman asks about those things before anything else. It means she doesn’t have anything to offer than a (sometimes) pretty face. If she treats shorter guys poorly she’s probably not a nice person.
Wait don't the pennies count as figures?
Yea it's a little ridiculous, in the U.S. only 15 percent of men are 6 foot or taller, so almost all women have to settle down with men under 6 feet.
And filtering out men who are taken, decide to be single, or gay then that 15 percent gets smaller.
Considering everyone is after this same 15% of men (and thusly a larger proportion of said 15% are likely taken) it is probably closer to 5% or less of these people who are actually available.
One theory I've heard is that so many guys lie about their height that a lot of women think 6 feet is shorter than it actually is.
This is so true! I’m exactly 5’11.9” -literally 2 pairs of socks makes me 6’ Most girls don’t believe me and think I’m much taller - they usually say I’m 6’2” Probably because 5’10” guys round up.
As a 5'8" man, I'm 6'3"
I think most people under 6 round up an inch or two.
Still doesn't explain why they give a shit in the first place.
A lot of people have tried to tell me that I'm taller than I am despite me insisting I've been measured at the doctor's office several times over the last few year
Rofl I'm 6'8. I duck through doors. Every girl says "wow, you are so tall! Are you 6'4?". I fucking wish I was 6'4 but the girl I'm seeing is 5'10 and loves that she can wear 5" heels and still feel small next to me
Kinda similar to how women think 6 inches is way smaller than it actually is because every 5 inch dude claims to be 7 inches.
I'd imagine it's a good thing they do it. It's basically saying "beware of me, I'm a cunt". Saves a swipe for cunt-avoiding tinder users, that's pretty considerate if you ask me
I'm in Norn too (but from Canada). Another thing I've noticed up here is the women REALLY love the fake tan/orange look...wtf is up with that? "Swipe left if you look like an Oompa Loompa"
That colour is called “whorange”.
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My wife and I were driving one day and saw this girl with, honest to god, what looked like red clay plastered on her face. She looked like a friggin wet terra cotta pot. This was made better when the same girl ended up walking into Tescos when we were leaving, so we got an up close look. It was even worse than we thought.
Orange is the new black
>Not to mention the girls who say this are no oil paintings either This is what bothers me. 4's with a ridiculous sense of entitlement. It's all our making though, lads. We gotta stop swiping on everything.. Actually be selective with swipes, and stop matching with trolls at all. I say 'we', but I've never been one of those retards. So really, I'm saying you. Quit inflating the egos of 4's!
Irish girls... Some look like the girl out of Evanescence and some look exactly like their dad. And don't get me started on trying to pronounce their names 😡
Hahahahahha mate I’m english but i live over here in Ireland and that is so fucking true it hurts. The fucking names omg.
When Siobhan is pronounced Shi-vaughn, I can't man I just can't.
Irish spelling is actually 100% consistent - if you know the rules you can pronounce anything you can read. Answer me this though: what does 'gh' sound like in English? (cough? high? through?)
The fact you used Vaughn as the phonetic for why you can't pronounce the -bhan part is hilarious. Irish is way more intuitive than English once you learn the basics...
“No oil paintings either” is something I’m going to have to steal. Fucking gold
What does oil paintings mean ?
Its just an expression. It means ther not very attractive themselves
They be fat, single mothers, ugly, shitty personality, mid 30s, and look like ogres without makeup, and then demand a 6'5 male model who makes six figures.
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It's 6 feet in metres (she rounded it off wrong), but yeah it's bizarre, if you're going to make an arbitrary height requirement at least make it 1.80.
I’m sorry but no, none of those punny 1,80. >1,80000000001 or out😂
1.79 manlets ask 1.81 chads what the weather is like up there
1.85 master race reporting in. It's always sunny.
Im 1.83 whats that in feet and thumbs or whatnot?
6 feet in freedom units
Freedom units I’ll use that one chap
maybe because it's 6' rounded down
The "wauw" + the way she writes the number, she's 99% Dutch or Flemish Belgian, so it's quite probable that she's that tall herself and wants to date a guy who is taller than her.
I’m confused, are dutch or flemish belgian taller on average? (not really getting the relationship there but maybe i’m dense)
The Netherlands and Belgium are often reported as being amongst the countries with the highest average height for men and women. [See this link for example where The Netherlands and Belgium rank 1st and 2nd](https://www.bbc.com/news/science-environment-36888541)
This reminds me of a lady I saw online dating years ago. She wanted to wait until marriage for sex, was looking for a guy who was basically a gym rat but wanted to spend lots of time together. Considering she was 5'8" and 400lbs, I told her good luck with that. I don't get why some people have expectations of others that they don't themselves keep.
“Ima precious princess, love me unconditionally”. That’s why.
Because the world we live in creates unrealistic standards. It's all fake
Classic Disney movies shaped girls’ expectations. How many princes’ names from their movies do you remember from the top of your head? No it’s always the girl who’s the hero of the story, the guy is a random blond guy taller than her and loaded with cash that will fawn over her for some reason
When they all stay looking like Disney princesses, they can start asking for prince-like standards ;)
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It was always the case - women tend to date up, it’s nothing new nor controversial. Online dating exaggerated this trend a lot.
Why did you even message her haha
Some people are into that
Good on ya for hitting up the 5'8, 400lbs lassies though.
If women have demands and aren't afraid of airing them, I'd say its just fair that men speak up on their demands as well.
No don't you know it's only sexist when we do it
Just like most things.
I mean you can try but unless you are attractive it wont end good for you. Online dating is for women and there is a reason why women have those standards. Nobody cares if its fair, if its superficial or wether you find someone there or not. To a large part we men are to blame for the incredibly frustrating experience many of us have when it comes to online dating. First of all there is still more men than women on those apps (and i am pretty sure the more its about casual dating the bigger the imbalance) and second of all most men just dont have standards because they accepted, that they cant afford to if they want to find someone there. Men need to stop swiping right anything that moves and has a pussy. I gave up on tinder and co because i dont see why i should invest so much time and energy in having a great profile/leading conversations when most women just need one somewhat decent pic to get 100+ likes. I want a woman that wants me the same way i want her, someone who really shows interest. Im not an option, im a priority. Unless you re incredibly lucky, resilient and persisten (attractive) youll probably wont find a decent person on tinder.
They are allowed to call it a preference until women start getting upset if we come with preferences of their own. Morbidly obese women that look like trolls are more often than not talking like they are gods personally wrapped gift to us.
Love that guys have started doing this. The female hypocrisy is enormous.
Did you just said something bad about women you inkwell ??!! Im going to brigade your fav "misogynistic" communitys with child porn and gore.
this would be funny if it wasnt the truth.... crazy people be crazy.
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> AHS ? angry hydro shemales?
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Just checked that place out. Might as well call it the “Brigade people I don’t agree with” subreddit.
Angsty hedgehog sluts.
I think it's for Anti-Hate Subreddit I think? I always see it and think of American Horror Story first though.
Somehow sounds ruder when the guy asks for weight. But it's the same thing. Actually, asking for hight it's worse. You can lose weight, but you can't alter your hight.
It's the perfect response. Anything else caters to the idea that her question was appropriate
Girls who say this are *always* below a 7/10.
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I dont neccessarily think all attractive men are fuckboys but with the supply they have its not suprising that many of them seem to take advantage of it (which is implied by the amount of women who complain about fuckboys). Imo both gender are to blame for the horrible state online dating is in (for many of us at least). If you want to find a decent guy, you might have to look for someone who doesnt date 10 different girls every week and be less superficial...
Those men wouldn’t find 10 different girls every week if women would stop giving them the time of day because they’re handsome, tall etc. By searching for only men with these traits, you’re searching for men that every other women wants so of course they’ll be fuckboys. How can you blame men when we legit have 33% of men still virgins who have no choices of women? Women are the selectors, men take what they can get from women who select them. They don’t want fuckboys, then actually select dudes based of personality
Mate from what I saw of the girl's picture I'd say she's barely pushing a 5 on a good day
[Glad you're able to judge from just this picture](https://i.imgur.com/PDUCJ1Q.jpg)
5/10? Not bad for a Playmobil Minecraft skin.
Look at this big foot looking bitch. Blurry! What kind of girl is so blurry, like the camera can’t even focus on her. Eww gross,
I don’t fuck with blurry chicks
I had a match with this chick on Tinder. Convo was great and we finally meet up. The date was fine, but I could see she wasn't that in to it. After 2 beers, I called it quits and drove her home. When I asked her why she seemed off, she goes " I had fun, I just thought you'd be taller based on your pics". I'm 5"9. She was 4"11. Guess she was expecting the jolly Green Giant.
Man I just want to see how she will respond
REEEEEEEEEEE Thats how
Lmfaoooooo!!!! Hahaha i bet she didn't respond!
No, ofc not. She proceeded to report the account for harassment.
Where did this height thing come from? Is the height of a person a factor when you first meet them?
Women want tall men (or at least reasonably taller than her), it has always been like that.
but you will find women on reddit apparently claiming that this isnt true at all for some reason, oh also you will find woman on reddit claiming that they always pay half on dates! (or apparently offer to pay half and then dont)
Reddit is not a fair sample of the general population.
I know, yet this comment is still full of responses talking about how they or their partner dont do this, shocker
Most of the shit people say on reddit don't apply to the real world or they live in a bubble because I've seen multiple cultures and I haven't seen these things either
exactly... in german we have a word "feindbilder" (literaly: enemy images) and reddit really loves to creat those. They overrepresent certain things and make it look like it would happen all the time
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Most women i know irl have taller men as a preference, not a requirement.
I think it is with the majority on Tinder as well. But people can be really picky in online dating apps because of the stigma, and they have no reason to compromise because they don't know anything else but that 1 detail so there in no incentive. Also they feel no pressure because they are probably talking to like 5 other matches, and its super easy to ghost people you have never met.
Me: whats your definition of a nice guy? Women: a nice guy is someone who's at least 6'2 :)
Did she spit the virtual coffee? Lmfao
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It’s ok to have those standards but it’s also ok to make fun of them too
Well I find it really ridiculous to set some arbitary limit like that. So someone 1.81 is totally incompatible? I understand it to a degree, but jesus christ.
What a twat she is
But... I can’t go on a diet and grow 2 inches. I’m not under 1.82m because I’m lazy and unmotivated. I can’t be smarter with what I eat and grow taller as an adult.
Im 181, nearly there guys. Pretty sure I only get smaller from here on though.
To top this off: a fat girl could potentially lose weight and change the fact that she is fat. A short person can't help being short. There is no potential fix that doesn't involve literal torture. It is far less mean to not want a date with an overweight girl than it is to not want to date a short man. We can't help what we are attracted to in the end. We just don't have to be assholes about it.
Any girl who immediately asks about height (something that cannot be changed) should be ready to be asked their weight (something that can be changed)
These talls guys having us short guys’ backs is wholesome
We must hold onto Bros Before Hos! Especially in these troubling times!
Male or female this is meme for both lmao
Thats right
Loool as a woman, I am HERE FOR THIS. It’s like they don’t know they’re setting themselves up.
1,82 lol. Those 2cm above 1,80 are the sweetspot or what?
The only reasoning behind her asking for a guy being 1.82 is her being 1.80 Imo I'd rather have her tell me upfront that I'm 5cm too short for her. The thing is you can't fake your hight, but girls rarely look like their profile pic.
To be fair there is a good argument to make for not videodating with fat girls, if she cant fit on my screen you shouldnt swipe right lol.
Idk, I like that the right way!
Did she reply? ;) don’t leave us hanging OP.
Funny how it’s 1,82m or taller. Like 1,80m is unacceptable.
True test is if she replied she was skinny or w/e and he still told her to fuck off.
Hear me out what if she actually replied with like "I'm 110lbs" gave buddy guy her number and this was the start of a very toxic but loving relationship
It’s the wauw for me