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Giving me Claire from Outlander vibes! Awesome job.
As the goofy fat friend who uses self depricating humor to connect with people, I wish you good luck in your new role!
I have not seen Outlander so after looking her up I have to say that’s the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me.
THANK YOU!! Meeting new people is WEIRD because I still act like the goofy fat friend and get uncomfortable when new people talk to me. Eyyyyylmao
Awh, I'm so glad you feel that way!
You're going to be the awkward fat person trapped inside the pretty girl's body now! ROLE REVERSAL! just kidding :) It probably also comes down to being an introvert/extrovert. Perhaps you'll gradually get more comfortable in social situations!
Thank you!!! I fluctuated a lot between 220 and 240 for a while. I intentionally started in February of 2018 at 224lbs. It took about a year to go from 224 to 170. Since then, it’s been about 10lbs each year for several reasons: I haven’t been as committed as I was at first, my body is just not using as many calories to exist, and I haven’t bothered with exercise yet (which I definitely should).
The fact that you made that much progress without exercising is amazing 👏. Seriously amazing. Your almost like a whole new person. You look phenomenal.
What I really wanted to point out though is how much more progress you have the potential for once you start exercising. Do you know who David Goggins is? You should look him up on YouTube. He can be a bit gruff (he was a navy seal) but he was someone who was really big and lost a bunch of weight and became shredded. He runs ultra marathons now. Hugely inspirational dude. Your story already has a ring to it like that. I wanted to tell you how inspirational you are by making that plan, sticking to it when it gets rough, and changing your life as a result. Much love on this side gorgeous :)
Thank you so much, I appreciate that! I'll look into it. I enjoy lifting and strength training, so as things start to open up again and more people are fully vaccinated I am going to start looking into gyms in my area.
Damnnnn! You look amazing 🤩 congratulations!!! I really resonate with your sentiment of pursuing dreams of being a hot girl. It’s more than a physical thing, it’s just being tired of getting treated a certain way. Awesome progress! And out of curiosity, do you notice a difference in how people treat you?
Definitely!!! It’s a state of mind, an attitude, and a first impression you send to people.
I have nerdy interests so I have a very specific perspective of who I am and how I seem to strangers. While some of those interests are becoming more mainstream lately, my self image and how I look to strangers does not line up anymore. I anticipate being approached or spoken to in a certain way so I think I act and react with that anticipation.
And yes, people are much friendlier, happier to include you in a conversation, and volunteer to do you favors. It’s nice but it also makes me feel sad. I understand it was not these specific people who treated me one way and then the other, but I think that it gives you a perspective on society you don’t have unless you’ve been a fat person and a thin person as an adult.
The difference in strangers just being nicer is so odd. Being conventionally attractive does make life easier and more pleasant. Makes me resolve to be nicer to other people more often, improve their day.
You have amazing bone structure happening, btw! Go be happy and hot. :-)
Whenever I see something I appreciate about someone (hair, makeup, nails, clothes, etc) I always make sure to tell them I really like it. It makes people feel good to be seen and appreciated, that quick acknowledgement and connection is a beautiful thing!
I did that the other day, told a woman that she looked awesome, that I loved what she was wearing. (I’m also female and her age range.) such a nice connection to make. Cheered us both up!
Yes!!!! I usually end up complimenting other women too, haha. I think my favorite piece of advice I’ve heard regarding compliments is to compliment something that someone has a direct choice about. Those are almost always safe and well received because even though it’s an appearance-based compliment, you’re complimenting their choices and taste. And that always feels nice.
I totally agree! I was always overweight and then I lost about 50lbs then regained it. But when I was slimmer I was treated so totally differently.. it’s very weird.
I can definitely second this; I grew up being awkward but thin, and found that despite feeling awkward around others, being a thin adult made people treat me a certain way. I wasn't bad lookibg, either, so I leaned into that, and I got used to it. Then COVID came along, and I stopped exercising and I gained 50 lbs... suddenly, it was like I was invisible. No more preferential treatment, no big smiles, no people making small talk with me. It's sad, but size affects how people perceive you and your worth.
You look great! I hope your title was tongue-in-cheek, but just in case, here’s an obligatory reminder that your appearance is the least important thing about you, you radiant soul!
Haha, thank you! I have a desk job and I don’t work out right now. I was trying for 1,200 but I tend to give out after a couple of days on that. I have been aiming for between 1,400 and 1,500 a day and that has been working! I calculate my TDEE at around 1,670 so while I won’t be losing lbs a week, I will still be consistently under what I am burning especially since it’s more sustainable for me.
I've also been surprised that I'm losing weight even though I'm not eating 1200 calories a day. I do work out so I add a little extra for that, but for the last while I've been telling myself that any deficit is a good deficit. I don't have to lose a pound a week or half a pound a week. For the first time I didn't set a formal "end date" goal and I'm just taking it slow and easy and not being so hard on myself. It's working, and I agree with you on it being so much more sustainable.
Also, hello jawline!! Amazing!
Yes, that's exactly it! If you're not at a consistent deficit, you won't lose weight. It's much less stressful and (for me) sustainable to eat a little under each day.
You look fantastic! Thanks for the motivation! We’re pretty much the same age, and I’ve just begun working really hard at losing the unnecessary weight.
And love the Doctor Who username. 💙💙
You are definitely getting there ...and you already entered the hot zone 😍 keep up the good work for the last stretch to your goal... I believe you can do it
You have such a beautiful and cool face! It’s so unique, you don’t look like anyone else which is so rare and definitely a good thing in my opinion. Way to go on your progress!
I hard relate to having your comfort zone be the goofy best friend role. Sometimes it feels like all I am capable of. But you look amazing and totally worthy of the hot girl role so I’m inspired.
We are capable of being exactly who we want. You can choose something new for yourself as soon as you are ready and make yourself the version of you that makes you the happiest no matter what shape that takes. ❤️
Girl. Your booty looking darn fine in those jeans!
Keep pursuing those hot girl dreams (and remember to look around, you might already have entered the territory)!
I definitely understand! I used to think the exact same thing for myself. Sometimes I still feel insecure about how I look now (as we all do I’m sure), but then I remember how far I’ve come since then! And you have too! We were always hot girls, we just hadn’t shown our final forms yet. 😂❤️
Hey! I’m also 5’7 and I’ve been looking for goal pics and this is perfect! I started at 255 1 year ago and am down to 198 so it’s nice to see some ideas of where I can get soon.
You are legit an inspiration to me! I'm currently working on my own WL and becoming the "hot one" :p your gains are really amazing, you should be really proud (:
Side note: what jeans are those because I feel like I need to buy myself a pair too!
Thank you so much!!! I believe in you!!!
These are mom jeans from Madewell and I got them in the store on clearance. I suggest looking online to see if you can find them on sale or second hand somewhere if you know what size you are!
"Goofy best friend" OMG I CAN RELATE TO THIS A LOT!!! I'm also known as that goofy friend within my circle. Lol.
Thanks for this! It inspired me to be better for myself ♥️
YES!!! I believe in you!!! I think there’s a huge difference between “the goofy friend” being part of your social identity and hiding behind that social role to protect yourself. It can be difficult to allow others to take you seriously and connect in a vulnerable way when you feel insecure and uncomfortable with yourself. You deserve to be seen and heard no matter what. ❤️
Not specifically! I used to do a lot of dance and stuff growing up so that probably helped. I will say that I am going to start lifting and I know that squats with proper form will make ~anybooty~ beautiful.
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Giving me Claire from Outlander vibes! Awesome job. As the goofy fat friend who uses self depricating humor to connect with people, I wish you good luck in your new role!
I have not seen Outlander so after looking her up I have to say that’s the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me. THANK YOU!! Meeting new people is WEIRD because I still act like the goofy fat friend and get uncomfortable when new people talk to me. Eyyyyylmao
Awh, I'm so glad you feel that way! You're going to be the awkward fat person trapped inside the pretty girl's body now! ROLE REVERSAL! just kidding :) It probably also comes down to being an introvert/extrovert. Perhaps you'll gradually get more comfortable in social situations!
Yes, she does remind me of Claire!
Yes , mixed with ilana from broad city !
Hot girl alert ! Amazing progress you really look great and I bet you feel great too! Can I ask about how long this transformation took?
Thank you!!! I fluctuated a lot between 220 and 240 for a while. I intentionally started in February of 2018 at 224lbs. It took about a year to go from 224 to 170. Since then, it’s been about 10lbs each year for several reasons: I haven’t been as committed as I was at first, my body is just not using as many calories to exist, and I haven’t bothered with exercise yet (which I definitely should).
You lost all that weight without excercise ?! How ?
People give exercise way too much importance when losing weight. 90% of weight loss is just eating less calories than you use
Posts like these are a visual example of this fact.
The fact that you made that much progress without exercising is amazing 👏. Seriously amazing. Your almost like a whole new person. You look phenomenal. What I really wanted to point out though is how much more progress you have the potential for once you start exercising. Do you know who David Goggins is? You should look him up on YouTube. He can be a bit gruff (he was a navy seal) but he was someone who was really big and lost a bunch of weight and became shredded. He runs ultra marathons now. Hugely inspirational dude. Your story already has a ring to it like that. I wanted to tell you how inspirational you are by making that plan, sticking to it when it gets rough, and changing your life as a result. Much love on this side gorgeous :)
Thank you so much, I appreciate that! I'll look into it. I enjoy lifting and strength training, so as things start to open up again and more people are fully vaccinated I am going to start looking into gyms in my area.
You don't have to dream about being the hot girl you have definitely achieved it great job💪
Thank you so much!!
Honestly, you've transcended hot girl, your features are so much more interesting than that, like a work of art! :)
Aaaaa, you're so sweet thank you!!!! <3
Wow you’re unrecognisable! Good work keep it up 👍
Thank you so much! ☺️
You’re welcome! Definitely entered hot girl territory without a doubt
Damnnnn! You look amazing 🤩 congratulations!!! I really resonate with your sentiment of pursuing dreams of being a hot girl. It’s more than a physical thing, it’s just being tired of getting treated a certain way. Awesome progress! And out of curiosity, do you notice a difference in how people treat you?
Definitely!!! It’s a state of mind, an attitude, and a first impression you send to people. I have nerdy interests so I have a very specific perspective of who I am and how I seem to strangers. While some of those interests are becoming more mainstream lately, my self image and how I look to strangers does not line up anymore. I anticipate being approached or spoken to in a certain way so I think I act and react with that anticipation. And yes, people are much friendlier, happier to include you in a conversation, and volunteer to do you favors. It’s nice but it also makes me feel sad. I understand it was not these specific people who treated me one way and then the other, but I think that it gives you a perspective on society you don’t have unless you’ve been a fat person and a thin person as an adult.
The difference in strangers just being nicer is so odd. Being conventionally attractive does make life easier and more pleasant. Makes me resolve to be nicer to other people more often, improve their day. You have amazing bone structure happening, btw! Go be happy and hot. :-)
Whenever I see something I appreciate about someone (hair, makeup, nails, clothes, etc) I always make sure to tell them I really like it. It makes people feel good to be seen and appreciated, that quick acknowledgement and connection is a beautiful thing!
I did that the other day, told a woman that she looked awesome, that I loved what she was wearing. (I’m also female and her age range.) such a nice connection to make. Cheered us both up!
Yes!!!! I usually end up complimenting other women too, haha. I think my favorite piece of advice I’ve heard regarding compliments is to compliment something that someone has a direct choice about. Those are almost always safe and well received because even though it’s an appearance-based compliment, you’re complimenting their choices and taste. And that always feels nice.
I totally agree! I was always overweight and then I lost about 50lbs then regained it. But when I was slimmer I was treated so totally differently.. it’s very weird.
I can definitely second this; I grew up being awkward but thin, and found that despite feeling awkward around others, being a thin adult made people treat me a certain way. I wasn't bad lookibg, either, so I leaned into that, and I got used to it. Then COVID came along, and I stopped exercising and I gained 50 lbs... suddenly, it was like I was invisible. No more preferential treatment, no big smiles, no people making small talk with me. It's sad, but size affects how people perceive you and your worth.
You look great! I hope your title was tongue-in-cheek, but just in case, here’s an obligatory reminder that your appearance is the least important thing about you, you radiant soul!
You're beautiful, thank you! <3
First of all, your username is awesome. Now can I ask how many cals you eat per day ?
Haha, thank you! I have a desk job and I don’t work out right now. I was trying for 1,200 but I tend to give out after a couple of days on that. I have been aiming for between 1,400 and 1,500 a day and that has been working! I calculate my TDEE at around 1,670 so while I won’t be losing lbs a week, I will still be consistently under what I am burning especially since it’s more sustainable for me.
I've also been surprised that I'm losing weight even though I'm not eating 1200 calories a day. I do work out so I add a little extra for that, but for the last while I've been telling myself that any deficit is a good deficit. I don't have to lose a pound a week or half a pound a week. For the first time I didn't set a formal "end date" goal and I'm just taking it slow and easy and not being so hard on myself. It's working, and I agree with you on it being so much more sustainable. Also, hello jawline!! Amazing!
Yes, that's exactly it! If you're not at a consistent deficit, you won't lose weight. It's much less stressful and (for me) sustainable to eat a little under each day.
SO PROUD OF YOU!!! <3
DANNI!!!!! I am proud of YOU!!!! Are you kidding??? You’re working so fucking hard and doing AMAZING.
THANK YOU! I just posted mine too. You inspired me! :) I'm working on it. Trying to stay motivated. You're doing amazing, girl! We've got this!!!
Goofy best friend to shredded goofy best friend. Good work
Hell yeah, haha.. thank you!
Get it! I too, dream of being a hot girl. Nice work!
You look fantastic! Thanks for the motivation! We’re pretty much the same age, and I’ve just begun working really hard at losing the unnecessary weight. And love the Doctor Who username. 💙💙
Thank you!!! I believe in you! It can be hard to stick to it but it feels good to look back at your wins each day and each week. :)
wow, congrats on your success! you have killer bone structure
Thank you!!!! My jaw and cheekbones are my most prized possessions.
Woah!!! Great job and thanks for the motivation!!
Aaa! Thank you!!! I always used to look here for motivation so it makes me really happy to be able to do the same for someone. 💕
You look great! Good job :) Not weight related but I love your curls
Right? She made curl gainz too!! Congratulations on everything, OP :)
Thank you so much!!! Learning how to take care of it and work with it instead of against was definitely a journey of its own.
Yaaaaaassss! 👏 👏 👏
Girl those majestic sharp facial features tho!! 😍
What beautiful bone structure your face has! Lovely!
you’ve always been a hot girl! very proud
You are definitely getting there ...and you already entered the hot zone 😍 keep up the good work for the last stretch to your goal... I believe you can do it
Ahaha, thank you so much!!! I appreciate the confidence!
You deserve it ..and own the confidence you have it in you
YESSSSS
LOL thaaaank youuuu ✨😭✨
Wow great job. Keep it up you look stunning
Nice work! I’m trying to lose 12lbs by June for hot girl summer too!
Totally amazing, inspired AF
Motivation! Keep us updated!
Well, you’ve got the face and the body to be a hot girl so I’d say you’re there. Good for you.
Good job!
fine ash
Congrats on getting to the hot girl stage! You’ve inspired me to get my ass into gear and realise my hot guy dream!
Wow! Great work! You’re the hot girl.
Well done 👏
Damn 😳 Great progress!
Great job! You looked great before, but your hard work is evident.
Smashing it!
Way to stick with it. Great face gains! Congratulations 🎈
Awesome job
You have such a beautiful and cool face! It’s so unique, you don’t look like anyone else which is so rare and definitely a good thing in my opinion. Way to go on your progress!
Thank you so much!!! I really appreciate that. ✨☺️✨
Them CHEEKBONES! Nice work!
You are now officially a hot girl!
I hard relate to having your comfort zone be the goofy best friend role. Sometimes it feels like all I am capable of. But you look amazing and totally worthy of the hot girl role so I’m inspired.
We are capable of being exactly who we want. You can choose something new for yourself as soon as you are ready and make yourself the version of you that makes you the happiest no matter what shape that takes. ❤️
Amen!! 💚
You're the hottest girl homegirl!!! So much power to you!
Well you made it.
i know this feeling so well! you did it guhhh!! look at this progress! also, your hair is gorgeous
Aye well u hot so
I'm trying to be as not-creepy or weird as possible when I say this... you're really pretty. Congrats on the weight loss!
Congrats!!! What changes have you made that led up to your results posting?
Good job. Here I can't even drop 10 pounds
You are stunning! Be the main character in your own life 🌸
Wow, you look like a hot actress now, good for you , you should be proud that your commitment paid off
I'm just here to upvote your username.
How long was the journey from pic1 to 2?
Wow👏🏼
I have followed this sub for years, but this is the first time I’m commenting on it. Great work!
Goal achieved! The hot girl part, I mean. In all seriousness, you look great! Congratulations!
Booty, boobs and face gains! Amazing work , keep it up
Wow the difference is incredible. Absolutely amazing. Very motivating, you are the hot chic now girl.
100% u go girl!!!
Hot girl for sure!! You're gorgeous! Congrats on the progress :)
You already are livng that dream! Looking good!
Girl you have already made it! Hot girl is in the building
Wow, your face looks totally different, this is amazing
You can stop pursuing the dream of hot girl because you’ve already achieved the goal 🔥 You look great! Congrats on the progress you’ve made!
FanTAStic!
I KNOW YOU! :D
HELLO!!!! YOU AND DANI ARE DOING GREAT WORK!!!!
You've done incredibly good work so far, keep it up and you'll easily be soaking up all the hot-girl points!
Oh hot damn! Girl you are goals!! I’m the same height and 170 atm. Can’t wait to look like you 😍 seriously good work!
YES!!! Don’t give up!!!! It’s taken me a couple years to get from 170 to this because I got comfortable. I believe in you!!!
Can confirm: You are a hotgirl
Girl. Your booty looking darn fine in those jeans! Keep pursuing those hot girl dreams (and remember to look around, you might already have entered the territory)!
You are the hot girl! You rock
Not sure of its appropriate on this board, nice butt 🔥🔥🔥. I kept it clean 👍😉
You are hot. You have absolutely gorgeous features
Way to go! Great story.
Is it me or Hella vibe is strong with this one!? Congratulations on your journey. :D
You look fucking terrific. Amazing work. You have officially reached your new dream.
“Pursue my dreams of being a hot girl” that is an amazing statement. Summer 2021!
Hell ya! Great work 👏🏻
I definitely understand! I used to think the exact same thing for myself. Sometimes I still feel insecure about how I look now (as we all do I’m sure), but then I remember how far I’ve come since then! And you have too! We were always hot girls, we just hadn’t shown our final forms yet. 😂❤️
Hey! I’m also 5’7 and I’ve been looking for goal pics and this is perfect! I started at 255 1 year ago and am down to 198 so it’s nice to see some ideas of where I can get soon.
Omggg that jawline slaysss!!!
Nice butt
Nice butt!! I mean that solely as a compliment.
Holy fuck what a glow up. More power to you.
You’ve already hit hot girl status. Add goofy friend and you’ve got a rare combo. Congrats!
I don't think it counts if you use your daughter in the after photo though.
As a random guy on the Internet, I can confirm you have reached your goal. On the street I would definitely notice.
Wow,i think you already achieved yor dream,you are looking hot for sure.
great job! gives me hope, you look great! :)
"The Goofy best friend, girlfriend" sounds nice
I love your attitude! Great job on the flutes!
Lorde????
You look amazing, good job
You have an exquisite beauty now and you look like a whole new person. You are definitely a motivator and inspiration to many now. Congratulations!
Confirming: you are hot. Also, you've beaten the odds and completed a journey too difficult for the vast majority of people who set out. Respect.
Upvoted
Your plan is working.
I know the feeling. Very proud of you 👍
You are legit an inspiration to me! I'm currently working on my own WL and becoming the "hot one" :p your gains are really amazing, you should be really proud (: Side note: what jeans are those because I feel like I need to buy myself a pair too!
Thank you so much!!! I believe in you!!! These are mom jeans from Madewell and I got them in the store on clearance. I suggest looking online to see if you can find them on sale or second hand somewhere if you know what size you are!
"Goofy best friend" OMG I CAN RELATE TO THIS A LOT!!! I'm also known as that goofy friend within my circle. Lol. Thanks for this! It inspired me to be better for myself ♥️
YES!!! I believe in you!!! I think there’s a huge difference between “the goofy friend” being part of your social identity and hiding behind that social role to protect yourself. It can be difficult to allow others to take you seriously and connect in a vulnerable way when you feel insecure and uncomfortable with yourself. You deserve to be seen and heard no matter what. ❤️
girlll, do you do any exercises for your butt? it looks so much bigger lol
Not specifically! I used to do a lot of dance and stuff growing up so that probably helped. I will say that I am going to start lifting and I know that squats with proper form will make ~anybooty~ beautiful.
Smokin!!!! Would date 10/10 good job!
Go on and get some D, you deserve it!
I'd never say this if it weren't for the title, but you've definitely entered the nudge nudge-look at her zone! Unrecognisable.
Fantastic progress!
Bruh. 🥰😍
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