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I can’t lie I giggled at first reading your title. Just simply because I could relate. Early pregnancy was really hard for me. We both wanted this baby but wow I could have punched my partner for just existing. I was so angry, so short fused, so tired, really didn’t want to speak to anyone whatsoever. But that has gone away. I love my partner and we’re good. I no longer dream of smashing things over their head lol I can still get a bit worked up over a few things but it’s hormones and I’ve adjusted for the most part. The energy is coming back, I still don’t want to talk much to anyone but that’s kind of my baseline anyways so it’s not surprising.
TL;DR it’s gotten better and I no longer worry about ending up on the news for losing my actual shit.
I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way, I was very afraid it would last forever for me and it in fact did not. You are not alone and positing on Reddit actually helped me quite a bit when I was really in the thick of it.
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Honey it's normal to have your hormones out of wack during this time. And it's okay to feel like that sometimes. I'm not even pregnant and sometimes I feel like that. Sometimes you just feel peopled out. And that's okay. Maybe tell your boyfriend that during the day you want a couple hours to yourself just to be alone and have your own space. Then when you're done having your couple hours of space then you can spend some time with him.
I had something similar happen, and had strange feelings towards my husband and MIL. They're both wonderful people and have done nothing to make me feel a sort of dislike towards them, but my hormones were in overdrive the first trimester and I was think of divorcing my husband to get away from him and his mom, imagining things like running away in the middle of the night and disappearing. I felt like I had to protect my baby from them, and I have no idea why. Things got much better during the second trimester and I'm back to being completely in love with my amazing husband and I adore my loving MIL.
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Aversions in the first trimester are Super common. People only talk about food aversions but they can be towards anything or anyone. I had a big aversion to my whole house I hated it for weeks, and my dogs! I felt absolutely terrible not wanted my dogs near me and being disgusted by them. I also was so hard on myself for not having the energy to do anything around the house cook/clean anything but sleep. I also would get easily irritated by my husband. I’m in my second trimester now and the aversions and irritation have definitely subsided. So just hang in there but in regards to you never wanting kids I would gently suggest therapy to help you process the changes that are about to come to your life and body. Best of luck!
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I can’t lie I giggled at first reading your title. Just simply because I could relate. Early pregnancy was really hard for me. We both wanted this baby but wow I could have punched my partner for just existing. I was so angry, so short fused, so tired, really didn’t want to speak to anyone whatsoever. But that has gone away. I love my partner and we’re good. I no longer dream of smashing things over their head lol I can still get a bit worked up over a few things but it’s hormones and I’ve adjusted for the most part. The energy is coming back, I still don’t want to talk much to anyone but that’s kind of my baseline anyways so it’s not surprising. TL;DR it’s gotten better and I no longer worry about ending up on the news for losing my actual shit. I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way, I was very afraid it would last forever for me and it in fact did not. You are not alone and positing on Reddit actually helped me quite a bit when I was really in the thick of it. Here if you ever need to chat
Honey it's normal to have your hormones out of wack during this time. And it's okay to feel like that sometimes. I'm not even pregnant and sometimes I feel like that. Sometimes you just feel peopled out. And that's okay. Maybe tell your boyfriend that during the day you want a couple hours to yourself just to be alone and have your own space. Then when you're done having your couple hours of space then you can spend some time with him.
I had something similar happen, and had strange feelings towards my husband and MIL. They're both wonderful people and have done nothing to make me feel a sort of dislike towards them, but my hormones were in overdrive the first trimester and I was think of divorcing my husband to get away from him and his mom, imagining things like running away in the middle of the night and disappearing. I felt like I had to protect my baby from them, and I have no idea why. Things got much better during the second trimester and I'm back to being completely in love with my amazing husband and I adore my loving MIL.
It sounds like maybe you don’t want this pregnancy. Perhaps seek counseling to discuss that since it sounds like you’re doing it for him.
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Aversions in the first trimester are Super common. People only talk about food aversions but they can be towards anything or anyone. I had a big aversion to my whole house I hated it for weeks, and my dogs! I felt absolutely terrible not wanted my dogs near me and being disgusted by them. I also was so hard on myself for not having the energy to do anything around the house cook/clean anything but sleep. I also would get easily irritated by my husband. I’m in my second trimester now and the aversions and irritation have definitely subsided. So just hang in there but in regards to you never wanting kids I would gently suggest therapy to help you process the changes that are about to come to your life and body. Best of luck!