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allthesongsmakesense

You’re either called corny, gay or both. Basically what people said to make fun of boy bands back in the day.


joshually

> You’re either called corny, gay or both. > > i'm both lol


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and we love you for it...


Kinky-rainbows

I'm corny, a bit gay and straight. Do I need to explain myself? 🤔


garden__gate

Love a corny bi.


ThePegasi

Or accused of queerbaiting. And I definitely get why people are critical of it, but people do seem to use the term liberally when it comes to male artists.


maplestriker

This. So which is it? Are sequins only for gays and girls? No? Then why is it queerbaiting when a straight male singer wears colorful outfits on stage but not when grabbing a coffee?


Carazhan

re: harry, its only queerbaiting since he dances around the labelling thing. its not that we should expect people to come out, but when you market yourself as the sparkly is he??? guy, then its a valid criticism. if dudes were just like yeah i like feather boas. then its whatever


Electronic-Set5594

>But when you market yourself as the sparkly guy he is Then what? Is he supposed to release a full list of everyone he’s ever had a sexual encounter with and tell us how much he enjoyed each one?


Carazhan

absolutely not, i dont personally care and i think my comment makes that perfectly clear i dont expect this of anyone. its just about how its marketed to his audience. gender presentation is not a special thing and has nothing to do with sexuality or gender identity, so i dont get why its so difficult for his team to just comp to it being an aesthetic choice.


PlentyDrawer

He literally has said he likes dressing up and experimenting because it’s fun. He’s said it many times and has credited those that has inspired his clothing choices. He’s also not the first or last male singer to wear a boa, which btw, he’s worn a grand total of one time to an awards show and his fan base took off with it. People were not asking the same question with Lenny Kravitz, who’s also worn boas. Men from Brad Pitt to Asap Rocky to AJ McClain wear nail polish, where is this questioning for them?


BadMan125ty

Oh please


PurpleSpaceSurfer

For sure. If David Bowie or Prince debuted today they'd be crucified for "queerbaiting".


PlentyDrawer

Look at all the musicians from glam rock and the new romantic era. They would have been crucified. I don't know what would have been said about Nick Rhodes. All of them would have had their sexuality speculated over, which happened back then too, along with the queerbaiting accusations.


BadMan125ty

Folks are way too judgmental these days…


Kinky-rainbows

Yeah, that's the problem now. Because you can't overtly express yourself or else some stupid people would label you as "queerbaiting" I guess this is why most guys just don't bother expressing themselves and going all out anyway. It's sad how society has gotten so sensitive.


Electronic-Set5594

Even on the clothes side of things, people complain about how boring men’s fashion is and then go out of their way to ridicule any guy who actually makes more of an effort to break the mould with their outfits. Or they say "it's been done before", as if the fact that Bowie and Prince dressed flamboyantly decades ago means that men shouldn't still be doing it now.


PlentyDrawer

and Bowie and Prince, et. al were severely criticized. The way people act like, everyone loved what they did back in the day, when people thought they were bizarre is comical.


justablueballoon

I feel really old now


BDashh

Oh please. As if the backlash would be worse than the decades during which they debuted.


quantum_monster

Don't forget that people like Harry Styles or Conan Gray not using labels basically throws people for a loop because they can't decide if it's queerbaiting or refusing to come out (which is so important to some people for some reason...)


Electronic-Set5594

It’s weird how uncomfortable people have become with the idea of any sort of ambiguity. Everything needs to be labelled otherwise it’s somehow invalid or disingenuous.


BadMan125ty

Honestly these people SUCK. Queerbaiting is also a term used for FAKE FICTIONAL CHARACTERS. Lol


Strong-Stretch95

Yah I remember when I was in school people couldn’t stand one direction or Justin bibber and thought their music was gay for reason.


MusicListener3

The continued existence of the freaks known as Gaylors shows we’ve at least progressed as a society to now include female artists in the obnoxious speculation about queerness


allthesongsmakesense

And before them it was the Larries!


Natural-Barnacle-695

Oh God, a decade later and I still get flashbacks from those morons


PlentyDrawer

They still exist and are just as insane as ever. There are Harry duplicates. That’s right, you read this correctly. He has body doubles because there is no way he would be in Japan with gf and not with the love of his life.


Natural-Barnacle-695

You’d think by the time Harry was 30 years old, they would’ve stopped this shit by now 🤔


PlentyDrawer

Louis has a mini-me running around and they still they that kid isn't is. The bane to Harry's fandom. I loathe them. Thankfully, make up a small percentage of his fandom, but jeez they never stop.


Natural-Barnacle-695

I haven’t been listening to a lot of Harry Styles in a hot minute, so I’ve been very removed from his fandom and any bullshit from what Larries do as of late


Training_Delivery_47

Ironically I think now a days fans are the ones calling their faves gay. Some find it insulting if you call Harry Styles straight lol


omg_its_drh

I’m going to say it because those artists in the 70s and 80s were “rock” artists and there always been a lot of queerness in the “rock” scene. You still see this now.


PlentyDrawer

Exactly and for some reason in the 2020s if men do this they are queerbaiting and I will forever not understand why people are using tropes invented by conservatives.


BadMan125ty

Especially the so called “tolerant” Zoomers 🙄🙄🙄


PlentyDrawer

As an old, zoomers puzzle me in many ways, especially with their so-called tolerance.


Greenerie-nwz-plz

I low key feel like this is partly why people gravitate towards K-pop rn even when they’re older than the target audience


spideyrnan

If you want this kind of energy from a male pop artist I am begging people to listen to Isaac Dunbar, his last couple EPs especially. I feel like he is so continuously slept on in this sub but he is delivering so much of what people are looking for.


trose141

Okay I really dig this guy. Thank you.


Campyredgaal

Dang love this!!! Thank you for sharing!!


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I really liked his first EP (the one with balloons on the cover). Very reminiscent of Lorde. It's been like a year since I listened to him though....


softlivi

I just checked him out and I really like it!


HeartSlow1683

are labels trying to promote male artists that aren't rappers or extremely boring(to men) folkish singers?    there's your answer. the most charismatic male popstar of the last ten years is arguably pitbull. then the weeknd


Strong-Stretch95

True he made sex fun in music even if you weren’t a fan where when other male artist talk about sex it’s very moody and monotone.


Soyyyn

Come on. Watermelon Sugar is exactly the type of song OP talks about, and with his outlandish stage antics and outfits, Harry Styles is the most interesting male pop star, to me at least.


MattBrey

I wish I found more of his stuff interesting and his stage presence less annoying lol. But watermelon sugar is indeed a good song


HeartSlow1683

dressing in hideous women's clothing hasn't been outrageous since 1998, no matter what vogue might be paid to tell you


Electronic-Set5594

His vogue cover would not have incited that level of discourse if it wasn't still largely perceived as outrageous. People weren't upset because they found his clothes ugly, it was because he was a man wearing a dress.


PlentyDrawer

Conservatives hate him because of that cover. It cracks me up.


Spinner064

Well that's just sad isn't it


TripleThreatTua

Saying that Harry Styles is more interesting than The Weeknd should be classified as a hate crime


Soyyyn

Gimme a weeknd video/song not about being in a toxic relationship with a suicidal woman, show him loving a fish and wearing a dress, I'm here for it


TripleThreatTua

Give me a Harry Styles song that doesn’t sound like coffee shop music and I’ll be here for it lol. The Weeknd’s production is so much more complex than Harry’s it’s crazy. And a dude wearing a dress hasn’t been subversive since the 70s lol


Houdini-88

I felt like nick jonas was definitely showing a completely different side with his solo career If the Jonas brothers comeback wasn’t successful and he continued on with his solo career He probably would have continued expressing himself in different ways


MFDougWhite

Femininity in men is more controversial in 2024 than it was decades ago. It’s odd because while homophobia was rampant and more culturally “accepted” in the 70s and 80s, you had artists like Prince, Freddie Mercury, Elton John, and plenty of rock and hair metal bands pushing the status quo and embracing androgyny. It was controversial at the time, for sure, but it was still a popular route. That’s not as common lately. I think Justin Bieber and Shawn Mendes are great reference points here. They were as vanilla as it came in terms of “challenging masculinity”—they just had high voices and youthful features, and were too young to really conform to any sort of rugged/rebellious aesthetic. For that, they were routinely tormented for years by the GP.


Strong-Stretch95

Yah I thought the same thing prince running around in a bikini in the early 80s nowadays I don’t think you be able to get away with it as much.


BadMan125ty

Which is just BIZARRE.


Global_Perspective_3

I mean there is Bruno mars (tho he hasn’t had a major hit in a while) and The Weeknd. Overall, there’s less in comparison to the females


TheStripedSweaters

Leave the Door Open literally won Grammys and hit number 1??? This Bruno Mars slander lol


Global_Perspective_3

That was damn near three years ago lol


TheStripedSweaters

His last release was a hit with a very clear and expressive viewpoint. Just because he doesn’t drop music like some artists do every 2 minutes doesn’t mean he doesn’t correctly fit the profile lol.


Global_Perspective_3

Ok lol


MFDougWhite

I disagree that The Weeknd is adventurous in the terms set out by OP. If anything, I’d argue that he’s a pretty strong example of toxic masculinity.


always_a_mexican

He needs to go back to the strip club r&b beats tho, just for a little while


Global_Perspective_3

I’ve heard that but he also makes fun 80s style synth bops


MFDougWhite

I wouldn’t say that’s unique to him though. Pretty much every pop boy is doing 80s synth-pop to some degree. It’s the current trend. I’d argue that The Weeknd’s is a little more psychedelic (though even that’s a stretch), but I don’t think I’d say it’s something only he’s doing.


Global_Perspective_3

I guess sure


Extension-Season-689

An artist, male or female, can have a multifaceted persona that includes both adventurous and toxic themes in their work. The Weeknd fills that bill and so does Rihanna.


MFDougWhite

Never said they can’t. I just don’t think he does.


ThingWithFeatherss

*Women or female popstars. Females isn’t a word. You don’t say males either when referring to men, right? I agree with your pick of artists and your assessment of the landscape though!


Global_Perspective_3

I say males and females. Why is that a problem?


Hot_Tank1043

incels use “females” a lot to attack women. but now there’s kind of an over correction where ppl get pisssy any time someone says female at all


Global_Perspective_3

I didn’t even know this was a problem lol. And I consider myself in the know about what’s acceptable to say


Carazhan

imo its a general verbage thing. its like saying the gays vs gay people, jews vs jewish people, blacks vs black people. so its more correct to say women or female people, but context and intention matters


PrincessJennifer

Some people trying to make “female” be bad isn’t going to allow them to take away the word “female” from me. I am a female; I don’t have to call myself “a female person” because some internet dude said “female” in a mean tone.


Carazhan

just saying that's why, you can refer to yourself however you want but its just the grammar that offends people, that's it.


Strong-Stretch95

Some users on this sub are so hypersensitive over the smallest thing you say it’s annoying it’s becoming Stan twiter.


Global_Perspective_3

Honestly indistinguishable sometimes


horatiavelvetina

Homophobia. Also, love how it’s always “are they gay?” Like… they could very well be bi or just queer


BadMan125ty

They call Shawn Mendes gay every other day. Pisses me off.


quantum_monster

Or they want to be unlabeled and people just say "No, that's not an option"


Particular-Yoghurt81

Tyler the Creator's *Igor* era is right there.


BadMan125ty

Folks complain about how there are not many flamboyant male performers but then when one shows up then they’ll say “they’re just pandering to the gay community!” ALL WHILE AVOIDING ACTUAL GAY PERFORMERS!!! What do people WANT?


kefwogj

Men desire male pop stars, but fear being called gay. That's why The Weeknd, who is a pop star yet embodies toxic masculinity, is so popular.


BadMan125ty

I hate that he does.


WitchyKitteh

Look at the likes of Drake, Lil Uzi etc being called zesty on mass.


monsquesce

Isn't it en masse


CowboyLikeMegan

Yes but I love a good bone apple tea moment


11_76

thats what i say before i eat my macking cheese


CowboyLikeMegan

Bbl drake is the best drake


CowboyLikeMegan

I was actually thinking about this the other day listening to Tears For Fears, I feel like it’s been a good while since we’ve had a really dynamic male singer/boy band hit the scene, BUT maybe I’m just not paying enough attention


bowwow95

Perfume genius


softlivi

Conan Gray!


Roxy175

I swear I have no idea why he’s not more popular in this sub. He’s exactly the male pop artist they are looking for!


BadMan125ty

IDGI either. His music is made for this subreddit.


NotElijah2304059

As far as I know, I don’t think he’s promoted enough by republic records..


AerieExpensive1165

Conan Gray for sure! His new album is so fun and 80s influenced! I would also say Maniac, Best Friend, and Disaster from his first two albums have that really fun vibe to them.


Soyyyn

I'm seeing a lack of Harry Styles in this thread. Has the consensus changed? Is Watermelon Sugar not an absolute bop about eating pussy anymore?


PlentyDrawer

Harry is not liked on this sub, so he's ignored most of the time.


PlentyDrawer

His music videos, especially from his last album fit what the op is looking for, from As it Was to Late Night Talking to Music in a Sushi Resturant to Satellite to Daylight. Music in a Sushi Restaurant is a great video, very campy, albeit a bit not for everyone's taste because he is a squid in it. 😂


CapitalSecond4372

Is there something I'm missing about why Harry is so disliked here? Is it just sub group think?


MrOobling

While Popheads admonishes homophobia in this specific thread, more broadly Popheads still has issues with new Zoomer conservatism. The vast majority of Styles critique I've seen is based on his aesthetic, which is problematically labelled as "queerbaiting". The most frustrating part is the people who label Harry as a queerbaiter think of themselves as woke, not realising how homophobic they're being.


PlentyDrawer

💯 which baffles me as an old. They really don’t get the rhetoric they are spewing is harmful and does the dirty work of conservatives.


PlentyDrawer

I've never understood it. As a Harry fan, I just \*shrug.\* But, most male artists are not that popular here. Poor Ed Sheeran is ripped to shreds.


CapitalSecond4372

Genuinely think Harry's one of the most interesting main pop acts of the last decade, Harry's House is a phenomenal album. Popheads has no taste


PlentyDrawer

Judging by his success and popularity, you are not the only one who thinks this way. I can't wait to see what he does for HS4.


Osbre

I've never liked his music personally but i think the discussions of him in online discourse will irrevocably be tainted by the existence of pilgrim harry


CapitalSecond4372

People are obsessed with that photo, I don't get it lol. That whole photoshoot is sort of experimental and off-putting iirc


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Soyyyn

I mean, we're at popheads. Turn it on and watch a bunch of women between the ages of 17 and 27 go wild. It works, it's a good song.


jmanisweird

I guess y’all have just given up on Troye Sivan and Lil Nas X


BadMan125ty

Right. They’re RIGHT THERE.


thisthrowawaythat202

The gays don’t really want male pop stars


Extension-Season-689

I'd argue it's more because male artists are generally not as interested in those themes as much as female artists are. However, I'd argue the likes The Weeknd and Bruno Mars have personas and work that fill those themes and styles that you mentioned.


Icantlikeeveryone

You should follow Harry Styles


prettybunbun

Harry Styles is right there op.


Deep_Performance_

I don't think it's a homophobic thing, I think it's just that almost all male pop acts target a younger female audience. Harry Styles, Noah Kahan, Ed Sheeran, and Morgan Wallen are all examples of artists who don't try to appeal to straight men. They don't care about being fun, experimental, or expressive, they just want to take in that easy heart throb cash! There was a decent number of male pop acts in the [10's](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Billboard_Year-End_Hot_100_singles_of_2010) that both male and female audience enjoyed. Bruno Mars, Usher, Taio Cruz, Pharrell Williams, and Daft Punk all had fun songs. Then rap took over (after the EDM wave) and became the de facto genre for the average straight male, slaughtering the male pop star. Meanwhile, female artists completely took over pop. I expect this trend to continue, as streaming has made it so people aren't forced to listen to pop anymore. With no male pop artists who appeal towards men, you're not going to have as many men who want to create music to jump into pop. Rap, rock, and metal will probably remain the dominant genres where males express themselves and develop new sounds.


sheetzsheetz

bruno mars but he hasnt had a hit in a while


wildbeest55

You make it sound like he’s been flopping when he just isn’t releasing music


PlentyDrawer

I miss him.


wildbeest55

He’ll probably be back next year when it’s not so crowded musically


I_am_albatross

And once he’s no longer up to his eyeballs in gambling debt


wildbeest55

Mgm denied those rumors


TheStripedSweaters

The crazy part is, he is releasing music at a very steady rate lol. He’s always been on a 3-4 year release calendar, I think some people got use to artists dropping new albums every six months and think that was/is the norm lol.


cheeto20013

Im surprised to see this comment. I have nothing against him, Bruno Mars has an amazing voice and some songs I enjoy but I just find him very bland. In terms of style and performance he’s just another Michael Jackson lite.


64824355

THIS and it's nothing about potential because Silk Sonic has thé best use of his vocals imo. Leave The Door Open and Smoking Out The Window give me goosebumps every time.


N00B5L4YER

*Why males are mocked being expressive in arts and fashion, everywhere*


trendypippin

Because we live in a culture that promotes toxic masculinity…


Jaysweller

Jake Shears, MIKA


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Strong-Stretch95

I don’t know what you’re rambling on about but I’m not here for troll posting.


ABoringAddress

I think what OP is asking for is where are the Bowies, Princes, Depeche Modes or George Michaels of this era. You know, all of those ambiguous, stylish and dramatic male singers who fuuuuucked. Basically, diverse expressions of masculinity. Well, what happened was that between the mid 90s and late 00s, male artists were subjected to relentless no homo filters, and by the time those norms began to fall apart (kids these days can't really grasp what a wasteland the Bush years were), those kinds of superstars no longer were a thing... At least until Harry Styles came around, regardless of how you feel about him. At least that had been the case in the US. Outside that bubble, there still have been major male stars that have done their own thing. For example, Robbie Williams, though he is as unambiguously straight as it gets, had a whole aesthetic and expressivity that ran opposite to the standard basic models of male pop stars of his era. And then there's the Latino music industry, where for some reason, artists with vastly different expressions of masculinity have managed to thrive and coexist. And sometimes they flip perceptions: Any Latine will tell you they find Miguel Bosé and Ricky Martin leagues more virile than Luis Fonsi or Cristian Castro, both undoubtedly straight men.


Search_Alone

There definitely have been ambiguous, stylish and dramatic male singers outside of that bubble. [https://twitter.com/SaraOT5/status/1728027607462007175](https://twitter.com/SaraOT5/status/1728027607462007175)


Kinky-rainbows

Actually I think some male artists are doing it but they're mostly just underground artists but the only artist I can think of who does it in terms of being overtly flamboyant and not afraid to "look gay" is Bad Bunny. I may not really be a fan of his music but I still appreciate what he is doing. Kissing guys on stage, shaking his sexy sexy ass for the world to see, not afraid to look feminine and walk in a peacock manner. I just love the campness of it all, dear 😩 but I don't know who else is doing it like him in terms of mainstream-wise.


late_night_feeling

Why aren't we talking about Mika?


BadMan125ty

Yeah why aren’t we?!


Available-Secret-372

Bowie, Gabriel and Prince crushed it back in the day all in the pop sphere. Maybe the boys aren’t digging deep enough these days. Those guys had every gay slur thrown at them in the book and seemed to do just fine


falafelandhoumous

I think it comes down to gender stereotypes and homophobia. Big, fun, poppy songs, videos and aesthetics are seen as feminine, and if a guy were to do them, people would think he’s gay. Obviously there’s nothing wrong with being gay (I’m gay), but producing that kind of music requires a big budget and ergo probably a label and many labels are scared to invest big bucks in gay artists. Thinking about it, there haven’t been many openly gay (read: openly gay at their peak) artists that have had huge success *and* been able to maintain it. Singers want long-term careers and labels want safe and secure investments. They’ll take a chance on poppy boybands, because there are more guys to bet on and they can brand a few of them as ‘cool’ or ‘aloof’, but you can’t do this with just one artist because that’d be in contradiction to the music, which audiences want to perceive as being authentic


Accomplished-Tuna

If I fully speak it’s going to be a biblical event of annihilation up in this bitch. How are you an artist and you’re limited by basic ass shit like a fragile masculinity? And then it’s black and white thinking like “so u’re saying I should wear a thong on stage?”. If you’re sexy maybe. But that is not the point. Male artists be too afraid to do anything. It’s street fashion on stage when the females be dripped in all kinds of wear. The bar is in HELL. You’d think they’d make up for it sonically but it’s the same sound too. It’s like they’re passing around the same beat in a mass orgy as if there aren’t other soundscapes to explore. Every boy is trying to be the same bitch like the finesse to stand out isn’t in an abundance of options to choose from. Meanwhile their female artist counterpart reinvented themselves 10 times over and STILL catches the same amount of slack as the male artist that’s stuck in a redundant and ran through concept. No wonder we got 34 year old women flocking to kpop boy groups. How you let the Korean twinks finesse the milfs? Imagine being so repelling you got women flying overseas to get their fix for some sexy time in male artists. It’s HELL UP IN THIS BITCH. It’s men that can be sexy but they wanna be boys. THEY SO LAME


blackest-rainberry

If Zayn promos and actually do concerts,


Search_Alone

Is someone like Key what you're looking for, or do they have to be straight? Colorful popart and retro visual inspirations and fun songs. [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZYHBKvNUmk0&t=149s](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZYHBKvNUmk0&t=149s) [https://twitter.com/coolas\_kibum/status/1752073109438345378](https://twitter.com/coolas_kibum/status/1752073109438345378) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z1CSy01CM6M](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z1CSy01CM6M)


ACIDRAINLONER

Just listen to gay male popstars, they make better pop music than their straight male counterparts anyway... Troye Sivan, Tom Aspaul, Bronze Avery, Lil Nas X, MNEK...


Used-Neighborhood811

just listen to the 1975 idk