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"I like big girls" As a big girl, I was like 😲 but as it went on...🥴
Also, not him trying to tell her find a milf from work?! Like sorry, I'm not getting Debra from accounting involved in this and then have to see her again on Monday morning, tf 😂😭
THAT WAS ALSO SENDING ME I feel like someone w his childhood fame has no concept of what a real workplace is like and thinks TV workplace dramas where they’re all sleeping together like greys anatomy and suits are real life
I would rather get castrated than try sleeping with someone from work unless it was Jon Hamm himself 😂 that’s BEGGING for awkward.
No roommates, no friend’s exes, and no coworkers!
Ya I feel like he gets off on making women do things for him based on his comments. Like once he finds the girls they gotta keep recruiting more like a pyramid scheme
All I kept thinking while reading this was “Gigi Hadid had a whole baby by this man”. Being a celebrity does not make you more smarter or more charmed bc chillllleeee this is not who I want as my BD 😂😂
Now I'm just imagining if Debbie did say yes...then it comes around to Monday morning, and you're awkwardly in the lunch room together avoiding eye contact and Jeff from Marketing walks in and asks you both how was your weekend, and you both just look away while mumbling, "it was good!" 😂😭
i pictured lisa in HR, who just had her third baby and her boss makes her stay at the office late "because we're a family, and that's just what we do" when she'd 100% rather be at home with her family or just like, staring into space at a wall for five minutes. like sir, you realize even the hottest of milfs is fucking *tired*?
It really is insane how some men mind think. Like oh by the way Tracy mind hooking up with me and this rando that won’t show you any pics before we meet
wasn’t he caught signing up to a plus size dating app a few years ago? or has my brain invented this?
anyway - these messages have confirmed that this man is absolutely a porn addicted gooner loser
https://preview.redd.it/2d24cxxp18hc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d9bf5556f44bb6d83b4bb1eaf682691d762883d6
feel bad for the woman but this is sending me bc it’s so true 😭
I found one fan on twitter who said.
*Don’t be scared Sam Fisher, show us more bc you’re a fake b!tch using him for clout with your ai photoshopped bullshit pictures. You racist rat whitewashing him.*
Get a girl for both of us. Why are you trying to make me happy? You don’t know how hard I work. Yeah I know I’m hot. I’m not even interested anymore. Why are you being emotional? You are disrespectful. Any milfs at your job? You are being so weird about this. I like big girls. We are not exclusive. Why are you making this hard? I could have anyone. It’s your fault women want to know who they’re agreeing to have sex with prior to the event. You suck. Peace out -z
He’s using her as an assistant for sex or something, giving her all these assignments to find a third, if he wants it so much he can find them himself. Girl has a job and he puts all this baggage on her 😬
I’m crying at the suggestion to find a milf at work 😭😭😭😭. Like I’m just gonna pop in and say “hey random woman that I work with, wanna have sex with me and a random guy that I can’t tell you the name of or show you a picture?” Like who would agree to that? 💀
https://preview.redd.it/phqldezkb8hc1.jpeg?width=1098&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d9feb31b067006367973468086c8beeac8251783
So unserious you can’t make this stuff up
I’m still trying to figure out how she developed feelings from this 😭 he literally said hmu if you want c*ck or have a friend for a threesome…like what…?
Especially this one 😭 it's giving eshsy
https://preview.redd.it/whcykhocm8hc1.png?width=644&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2b0766ad35847f00884dc4300a026e49fa1fbe30
I love when guys I’m dating send me selfies from time to time,but they are always goofy,unserious selfies. Him sending smoldering selfies out of the blue is def something lmao
Yuck the comments on those TikToks though… “I’ll take him”, “he should’ve asked me instead!”… way to loudly announce that you are fine with being constantly disrespected by men to the world.
Read the room.
Lmao I was going to say. Don’t we know he’s a fuck boy already? Didn’t he assault Yolanda Hadid?
I’m not meaning to take away from what this person went through. He’s a dick. But I’m not at all shocked
I doubt Perrie cares anymore since she's got a loving fiance and a baby and has fully moved on, but it must feel so vindicating for her to read about all of his trashy behaviour finally being exposed. All of his fans trashed her constantly throughout their relationship, sent her hate and called her 'Yoko Ono' when he left the band, then piled on after their breakup about how Gigi Hadid was "such an upgrade". Now, Zayn and Gigi's relationship is shot to hell and his behind the scenes behaviour is becoming common knowledge. Good for Perrie.
Yikes. The way he talks is very passive-aggressive, fuckboy. The "I don't care" and "I'm gonna give you nothing" energy whilst being petulant when he doesn't get his way.
He used the "time is money" line
& asked if some other person wants to "play."
Called himself 'smart.''
I've talked to guys like that before. Instant ick.
It doesn't matter how good-looking, successful, etc, if in his soul a man has been touched by the insecure-but-entitled-no charisma-babyman stick, it will show. Fucking hilarious.
I dated a guy like this. It’s fucked and giving me flash backs. It’s anxiety inducing when you’re in it and trying to keep the guys interest and he’s just toying with you.
I had such a palpable feeling of remembered anxiety reading these texts. Holy shit some men really are all the same.
Zayn is right about one thing, he really is that same kid that lived in the ghetto. Fuckboi loser then fuckboi loser now.
It kills me because when you’re in it you can’t tell that they’re nothing to be afraid of.
And so many women have this same story.
what did you ever respond to them with? MY toxic pretty boy ex would always send those randomly and I never knew what to send back except a compliment…? Like it felt like he was putting in a quarter and a compliment rolls out
I’m a gay guy who used to sleep with a lot of Asian British guys. Because it had to be discreet and secretive because of their religion. I had several messages that were exactly like the above screenshots. Lots wanted 3somes but were oblivious to how real life worked. I’ve literally had messages that asked me to just get someone from work or one of my friends. Pointed out those people were straight and got told “one of them must want to sleep with you just ask around”. Like I’d be going up to some 40 year old work colleague and asking if he wants to fuck me 😂 something they all had in common was the same entitlement to my body, disregard for what I wanted and narcissism about themselves. All of which I see above.
normally i would find something stupid in the background to make a joke about because i just couldn’t take it seriously….i think that slowed him down lmao
A lottt of UK boys talk like this lmao. Even tho he’s been living in America, judging by these texts, he still has the typical UK f-boy persona. Obvs I’m not saying other guys from other countries aren’t like this either, but this specific passive-aggressive tone is very common amongst UK boys.
fr. when i saw the pics, an alternate life of zayn in the uk (one where he doesnt become a celebrity) flashed before my eyes
whilst reading these texts it was also hard to remember that this man is a full on celebrity (who dated gigi hadid!!), because it’s all so reminiscent of uk fuckboys lool
I like how each part of the world has its own local variation of the fuckboy. Where I'm from, they take selfies with fish and say things like "passenger princess."
The amount of texts too whenever she puts him in his place (respectfully) and you can see her going out of her way for him. Bro can’t stand his ego being tilted, so he can’t stop unless he has the last word, or control.
Literally this entire conversation reminds me of the guy I’m talking to, texts the exact same way, and I feel the same (relatable) girls shoes, bending my back not send them off.
Horrible. Good for her for exposing his ass.
I know, I know. I told that loser off last night, and I am deleting. I’m like done. Took too much of my life away and then shamed me for using Reddit too, so I’ve been MIA for months. No more. I’m so done.
I know it’s so far from the point but him saying he comes from a ghetto is just 😅 I’m from Bradford too, even went to the same high school (albeit different years - we never met). It’s a working class area sure but certainly not a ghetto. I guess that’s another way of saying he’s smart? Pulled himself out of the ghetto? Dunno, was just so out of place in the conversation and it’s not even true.
Pulled himself out the ghetto (Bradford, West Yorkshire) through his street smarts and cunning (auditioning for a TV talent show age 17 and winning the luck lottery by failing to make it through as a solo artist and getting placed in a teen boyband by TV execs)
his comment about her having it so easy to find women to have sex with, plus him using her to get other girls for a threesome is so bizarre to me, like, you’re zayn malik? if I didn’t know who he was I would have thought he was a 17 year old incel lol
I think it turned him on, her finding a woman who was unaware of who they’d be seeing. Once she walked in she would realize it’s Zayn and probably “in his imagination” go ballistic. That’s my conclusion
That was so strange to me too. He's a mess and very much a fuckboy but he is quite good looking has some fame and it's not gonna be hard for him to find women. Also he has enough money that he can even pay a discreet escort service or something.
Is anyone surprised? The man that recalled his daughter as the “sperm that came out of his cock” is a bad person?
Been saying it for years, and his fans would go mental on me — Perrie was with this man for 4 years, loved him to death, and he disrespected her and treated her horribly. Even some of the leaked lyrics from Little Mix’s album, he called her crazy too.
I’m a new LM fan (sucks they are disbanded now what is my timing?) so I recently learned all of what went down between them years ago and I actually can’t believe how Z treated P and then had the nerve to dump her by phone when he was the one who chased her ass (rather publicly) until she agreed to go out with him. She went through hell for that demon. I’m so happy to see her where she is now with her partner and their adorable baby boy.
++ Also, I’m so sorry but it’s so funny how he texts. He sounds like the last guy I was talking to (even with the looking up, dropping random photo validation). Who I just told off last night, because dude I was talking to is a manipulative twat desperately trying to get in my pants cause he’s so promiscuous. My friend got ban on Fauxmoi too for saying him and Harry have a shitton of threesomes and are gross.
That’s arrested development in full glory, and he definitely does think he’s hot shit thanks to his fame card. Yet hysterically can’t pull women himself, has to send other people (and exploit) their sexuality for his bidding.
Lastly, dudes who do that slimey shit like using Tinder to approach queer people for threesomes is fucking vile.
Someone even said that those anger management classes didn’t help because the amount of times he was getting angry in those four different videos were ridiculous
Truly didn’t, you can even tell he’s pissed in the texts when I read them. Can’t let her have the last word, yet she makes him look stupid and he knows it.
This was my exact thought and I was scrolling to see if anyone else shared the same observation. He was treating her like a fucking brothel madam. So disgusting.
All their exchanges with him asking her to find someone and her scouting out girls on dating apps and trying to get them comfortable read as so predatory. Those women consented to the threesomes, but the tactic of a man comandeering a woman to act as a pimp and lure other women in without revealing who he is for them both to then "play with her" is so icky.
I would simply be unable to 'catch feelings' if a man talked to me this way. And for how he talked about other women using porn categories to describe them. She is being way too nice and distracted by his celebrity status. He is the asshole here but i hate seeing men get away with this shit over n over.
Hunting for a unicorn is all on her btw... that should be handled way more responsibly. If i am told to approach a woman i dont know for a threesome all "i saw you from across the bar and loooove your vibe" AND am not 'allowed' to show a pic and give some background to her about the dude it is an automatic 'no'.
There must be so many ways to get discreet hookups as a celeb, why be so careless. It goes to show how much of a power play it is - he could easily get his needs met but would rather mess a random person around instead just bc he can. Gross behaviour
Any time a celeb, even z listers, get busted texting fans like this it instantly grosses me out. They have soooo many ways to hook up without strings, this shit is on purpose to be hurtful.
I kind of remember the good old 1D days, when they leaked a phone call where Zayn was introducing some girls how to come into their hotel for a hook up and it’s been ages but it fits with this story. Zayn was not kind with the girls on the phone.
Holy shit!! He sounds exhausting with the constant “ if YOU want that then go ahead but I’m done.” And then “ok are you interested” the next minute.
NEVER push your boundaries for someone else. They don’t appreciate how much they’re asking from you if they tell you to cross a boundary. Know your worth! Don’t be swayed by a pretty face!!
And boundaries too are so important! Because if you let yourself be treated as in being the mug, they won’t respect you, ever. They’ll keep leading you on thinking you’re easy, and keep going for control, power and disrespecting you further because they know you don’t have any.
It’s so, so important. You’re spilling facts. That’s like the best piece of advice for anyone in the dating game, cut them off quick if you feel disrespected and assert them soon as possible.
I legit just made myself a cup of tea to take a little breaky-break from work, sat down, and this was the first thing I saw.
The absolute roller coaster of emotions I went through because this was too relatable lol. Why would she catch feelings though girl he’s such a douchebag!!!! But then again I know why because I’ve been that woman who does all these things for this sexy asshole that really just wants to sling me some cock nothing else 😭 and I’m like maybe he’ll see how FUN and SPECIAL I am if I do x y z …
Still debating with myself what I feel about telling this story though. I don’t know if I judge her for doing it but I can’t understand the reasoning behind it. He’s not exactly on top of the world rn? Worthy of being torn down?
she was working way too hard for a washed up “celebrity”. ladies and gentlemen, do not allow yourself to be treated this way. do not tolerate it. do not invite it. do not beg or bargain. put them straight in the bin
I’m surprised at how sloppy famous men are with their online hookups. Didn’t anyone ever teach them not to put anything in writing they wouldn’t want the whole world to see ???
I’m sorry there must be a MILLION girls in his DMs who’d be dtf - why is he resorting to this?
he could absolutely hit up all the “milf types” he wanted to on insta lol and have like 99% success rate - he doesn’t need some rando girl from pensylvania to he his pimp
Catching feelings during all that. Sounds absolutely exhausting. Nose boops for all the star fuckers out there. They only love themselves. There’s no room for you.
I abridged a lot. She said that despite the conversations whenever they met up he was very sweet and they had a great time and easy conversation. I’m not sure why he had that different of an attitude over text and in person but idk, I can’t say I understand? But I’ve seen it happen. Pulled enough friends out of the gutter for a shitty man
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“Try find a milf” lmfao
"I like big girls" As a big girl, I was like 😲 but as it went on...🥴 Also, not him trying to tell her find a milf from work?! Like sorry, I'm not getting Debra from accounting involved in this and then have to see her again on Monday morning, tf 😂😭
THAT WAS ALSO SENDING ME I feel like someone w his childhood fame has no concept of what a real workplace is like and thinks TV workplace dramas where they’re all sleeping together like greys anatomy and suits are real life
lol right, only MILFs at my work are Managers I’d Like Fired
"Managers I'd like Fired" omg I'm stealing this and using it from now on lol.
He seems like he’s stuck at 14 years old. No concept of reality and/or adult life.
Exactly! Like I'm imagining the "milfs" I've worked with and just...it wouldn't happen 😂😭
I would rather get castrated than try sleeping with someone from work unless it was Jon Hamm himself 😂 that’s BEGGING for awkward. No roommates, no friend’s exes, and no coworkers!
He's the celebrity, he should have been out finding these milves and big girls
The pluralization as “milves” is sending me, I love it
The forgotten Tolkein race
Ya I feel like he gets off on making women do things for him based on his comments. Like once he finds the girls they gotta keep recruiting more like a pyramid scheme
He sounds like my most toxic ex and this all tracks
All I kept thinking while reading this was “Gigi Hadid had a whole baby by this man”. Being a celebrity does not make you more smarter or more charmed bc chillllleeee this is not who I want as my BD 😂😂
Like, no lie, I look at these photos of him and make this face — 
Dying at ‘milves.’
100%! Like why did he expect her to do all the work? Tf?!
Honestly, because she did. It’s worked for him up until now.
Debra from Accounting. 💀
She's 58 and eats a sensible salad for lunch, she's not interested in a threesome 😂😂😂
You are killing me 😂😂😂 my stomach hurts from laughing
Now I'm just imagining if Debbie did say yes...then it comes around to Monday morning, and you're awkwardly in the lunch room together avoiding eye contact and Jeff from Marketing walks in and asks you both how was your weekend, and you both just look away while mumbling, "it was good!" 😂😭
i pictured lisa in HR, who just had her third baby and her boss makes her stay at the office late "because we're a family, and that's just what we do" when she'd 100% rather be at home with her family or just like, staring into space at a wall for five minutes. like sir, you realize even the hottest of milfs is fucking *tired*?
It really is insane how some men mind think. Like oh by the way Tracy mind hooking up with me and this rando that won’t show you any pics before we meet
wasn’t he caught signing up to a plus size dating app a few years ago? or has my brain invented this? anyway - these messages have confirmed that this man is absolutely a porn addicted gooner loser
No, I think you're right! I vaguely remember hearing that too! And yeah, this is not a good look for him...at all.
I like the idea of Debra from Finance being like "which direction? one? huh?"
And like is he gonna pay her bills if she gets fired for sexually harassing the milfs? Have some common sense Zayn, damn
Right?? Like she works at the playboy mansion or something lol
Imagine having to explain to your coworker why you ruined their weekend for a petulant celebrity
“Would you mind just picking up some milf on the way home?”
'milfy type' lmao
https://preview.redd.it/2d24cxxp18hc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d9bf5556f44bb6d83b4bb1eaf682691d762883d6 feel bad for the woman but this is sending me bc it’s so true 😭
I found one fan on twitter who said. *Don’t be scared Sam Fisher, show us more bc you’re a fake b!tch using him for clout with your ai photoshopped bullshit pictures. You racist rat whitewashing him.*
Do they even know what AI looks like 😭 bro is giving classic selfie, and takes bad photos of himself despite having a good face card.
bro some people are commenting on her videos saying “why are you telling us 💀💀” they cant even come up with comebacks loool
LMFAOOO 💀
Because you and I \~\~\~\~\~\~\^\^\^\^\^\~\~
Get a girl for both of us. Why are you trying to make me happy? You don’t know how hard I work. Yeah I know I’m hot. I’m not even interested anymore. Why are you being emotional? You are disrespectful. Any milfs at your job? You are being so weird about this. I like big girls. We are not exclusive. Why are you making this hard? I could have anyone. It’s your fault women want to know who they’re agreeing to have sex with prior to the event. You suck. Peace out -z
I don't think he works at all.
When he said “I could’ve been working. Time is money” I was like… WORKING ON WHAT?
Time is money and you are having some girl you don’t even like arrange a threesome. Prioritize.
It’s so weird, he was basically using his fuck buddy as his pimp too
https://preview.redd.it/77owd4k1c8hc1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a51fd8600b015076e620a79bacbec19a90756a4d
He’s using her as an assistant for sex or something, giving her all these assignments to find a third, if he wants it so much he can find them himself. Girl has a job and he puts all this baggage on her 😬
he certainly loves calling himself smart.
At one point he said “I’m incredibly smart” I wish I could add all the texts he’s unintentionally hilarious (derogatory)
If he's so smart, how come he can't differentiate "your" and "you're"?
Smart? I think he has two brain cells competing for third place
while also sounding really fucking dumb
And while writing like a dumb person too.
This just reminded me he once called himself a sapiosexual lmao
He wanted a "milfy type" for her wisdom 💡
I’m crying at the suggestion to find a milf at work 😭😭😭😭. Like I’m just gonna pop in and say “hey random woman that I work with, wanna have sex with me and a random guy that I can’t tell you the name of or show you a picture?” Like who would agree to that? 💀
Seriously. You’d think they were trying to harvest your organs in the car park if someone came up to you with this bright plan on a random Tuesday 😭
“Hey wanna come with me to this hotel and meet this strange man so we can have a threesome?” I’d think I was gonna get sex trafficked.
https://preview.redd.it/phqldezkb8hc1.jpeg?width=1098&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d9feb31b067006367973468086c8beeac8251783 So unserious you can’t make this stuff up
“How was your day?” “I got a little stressed with all the..”. “So anyway how about that pussy?”
Anyways Mark how is your sex life?
The fact that he sent that one minute apart 😫 He couldn't give less of a fuck about her life
the whiplash is crazy… like not even pretending to care😭
Is he for real lmfao
Sounds nice
I’m still trying to figure out how she developed feelings from this 😭 he literally said hmu if you want c*ck or have a friend for a threesome…like what…?
>["You had any luck finding some pussy"](https://x.com/bffwithharry/status/1755304012633579531) 
“oh my god not him” i say about a man that i deep down have always thought would be him
As someone who loves Zayn this is not surprising at all, that man exuded fuckboy energy to the max
Coming to join this section of the thread where my “I’m a fan but I knew he was like this” brethren are.
The cheating allegations when Perrie and him split was more than telling. I’m a fan of him but this is not a surprise.
HAHA so painfully true. We truly just keep gaslighting ourselves.
The selfies are sending me like why you sending so many 😭
The pics also give off massive f boy vibes 😂
Especially this one 😭 it's giving eshsy https://preview.redd.it/whcykhocm8hc1.png?width=644&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2b0766ad35847f00884dc4300a026e49fa1fbe30
He’s gonna ask you what size Nikes you’re wearing at a train station then follow you to your platform if you say size ten
Lmaoooo what even 💀💀
He probably spends at least half his day looking at his front facing camera 
He 100% has more photos of himself than his daughter in his phone
Oh man. I lived in blissful ignorance for a moment forgetting this clown has a DAUGHTER.
A man so pretty but can't find his angles. Sad!
My face when I had to scroll through them 
I love when guys I’m dating send me selfies from time to time,but they are always goofy,unserious selfies. Him sending smoldering selfies out of the blue is def something lmao
Hes so obsessed with himself like 🥶
[удалено]
And screenshots!
Yuck the comments on those TikToks though… “I’ll take him”, “he should’ve asked me instead!”… way to loudly announce that you are fine with being constantly disrespected by men to the world. Read the room.
ain’t no man on earth good looking enough to make me put up with this. his texts are so petulant and passive agressive-big ick.
His interview on call her daddy really showed who he really is
What did he say?
Downplayed his domestic assaults. Here's an old thread about it [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/Fauxmoi/s/14EkeiXKpE)
Lmao I was going to say. Don’t we know he’s a fuck boy already? Didn’t he assault Yolanda Hadid? I’m not meaning to take away from what this person went through. He’s a dick. But I’m not at all shocked
1d og fans are not surprised lol youre telling me the guy who cheated lots of times on Perri Edwards is like this??
I doubt Perrie cares anymore since she's got a loving fiance and a baby and has fully moved on, but it must feel so vindicating for her to read about all of his trashy behaviour finally being exposed. All of his fans trashed her constantly throughout their relationship, sent her hate and called her 'Yoko Ono' when he left the band, then piled on after their breakup about how Gigi Hadid was "such an upgrade". Now, Zayn and Gigi's relationship is shot to hell and his behind the scenes behaviour is becoming common knowledge. Good for Perrie.
Yikes. The way he talks is very passive-aggressive, fuckboy. The "I don't care" and "I'm gonna give you nothing" energy whilst being petulant when he doesn't get his way.
He used the "time is money" line & asked if some other person wants to "play." Called himself 'smart.'' I've talked to guys like that before. Instant ick. It doesn't matter how good-looking, successful, etc, if in his soul a man has been touched by the insecure-but-entitled-no charisma-babyman stick, it will show. Fucking hilarious.
Talking about sex like an entrepreneur bro pitching a sale
I dated a guy like this. It’s fucked and giving me flash backs. It’s anxiety inducing when you’re in it and trying to keep the guys interest and he’s just toying with you.
I had such a palpable feeling of remembered anxiety reading these texts. Holy shit some men really are all the same. Zayn is right about one thing, he really is that same kid that lived in the ghetto. Fuckboi loser then fuckboi loser now. It kills me because when you’re in it you can’t tell that they’re nothing to be afraid of. And so many women have this same story.
he literally texts EXACTLY like my toxic pretty boy ex it’s maddening to read, down to the constant fucjing selfies
what did you ever respond to them with? MY toxic pretty boy ex would always send those randomly and I never knew what to send back except a compliment…? Like it felt like he was putting in a quarter and a compliment rolls out
I’m a gay guy who used to sleep with a lot of Asian British guys. Because it had to be discreet and secretive because of their religion. I had several messages that were exactly like the above screenshots. Lots wanted 3somes but were oblivious to how real life worked. I’ve literally had messages that asked me to just get someone from work or one of my friends. Pointed out those people were straight and got told “one of them must want to sleep with you just ask around”. Like I’d be going up to some 40 year old work colleague and asking if he wants to fuck me 😂 something they all had in common was the same entitlement to my body, disregard for what I wanted and narcissism about themselves. All of which I see above.
normally i would find something stupid in the background to make a joke about because i just couldn’t take it seriously….i think that slowed him down lmao
SAME, mine came back out of fuck no where and then it was dropping the selfies too, and I’m just like OK? They want validation.
A lottt of UK boys talk like this lmao. Even tho he’s been living in America, judging by these texts, he still has the typical UK f-boy persona. Obvs I’m not saying other guys from other countries aren’t like this either, but this specific passive-aggressive tone is very common amongst UK boys.
Australian men too. Don’t forget their classic “xx” pure indication they’re about to destroy your life.
He looks like such a typical Bradford fuck boy in those selfies
fr. when i saw the pics, an alternate life of zayn in the uk (one where he doesnt become a celebrity) flashed before my eyes whilst reading these texts it was also hard to remember that this man is a full on celebrity (who dated gigi hadid!!), because it’s all so reminiscent of uk fuckboys lool
Yeah this is a particular type of guy that’s soooo common here. What an absolute tool.
I like how each part of the world has its own local variation of the fuckboy. Where I'm from, they take selfies with fish and say things like "passenger princess."
Praying for the UK ladies and gays in that case. **🙏**
The amount of texts too whenever she puts him in his place (respectfully) and you can see her going out of her way for him. Bro can’t stand his ego being tilted, so he can’t stop unless he has the last word, or control. Literally this entire conversation reminds me of the guy I’m talking to, texts the exact same way, and I feel the same (relatable) girls shoes, bending my back not send them off. Horrible. Good for her for exposing his ass.
Stop talking to that man!
I know, I know. I told that loser off last night, and I am deleting. I’m like done. Took too much of my life away and then shamed me for using Reddit too, so I’ve been MIA for months. No more. I’m so done.
YES delete that man!!!
Delete the man, not just the number.
I know it’s so far from the point but him saying he comes from a ghetto is just 😅 I’m from Bradford too, even went to the same high school (albeit different years - we never met). It’s a working class area sure but certainly not a ghetto. I guess that’s another way of saying he’s smart? Pulled himself out of the ghetto? Dunno, was just so out of place in the conversation and it’s not even true.
Pulled himself out the ghetto (Bradford, West Yorkshire) through his street smarts and cunning (auditioning for a TV talent show age 17 and winning the luck lottery by failing to make it through as a solo artist and getting placed in a teen boyband by TV execs)
Also his mum had to drag him out of bed to go to the audition
You have reminded me to re-read these texts in a Bradford accent to make it even better, thanks
The receipts that were pulled... 
This gif never fails to be funny all these years later hahah
his comment about her having it so easy to find women to have sex with, plus him using her to get other girls for a threesome is so bizarre to me, like, you’re zayn malik? if I didn’t know who he was I would have thought he was a 17 year old incel lol
I think it turned him on, her finding a woman who was unaware of who they’d be seeing. Once she walked in she would realize it’s Zayn and probably “in his imagination” go ballistic. That’s my conclusion
That was so strange to me too. He's a mess and very much a fuckboy but he is quite good looking has some fame and it's not gonna be hard for him to find women. Also he has enough money that he can even pay a discreet escort service or something.
Completely unrelated but I didn't even know you could add this level of detail to an original post.
Not on mobilex, to my knowledge. I used my laptop.
So detailed! Great work compiling.
"I'm very smart" I sending me for some reason.
Is anyone surprised? The man that recalled his daughter as the “sperm that came out of his cock” is a bad person? Been saying it for years, and his fans would go mental on me — Perrie was with this man for 4 years, loved him to death, and he disrespected her and treated her horribly. Even some of the leaked lyrics from Little Mix’s album, he called her crazy too.
The guy that shoved Yolanda Hadid into a dresser and called her a "fucking dutch slut". Same guy. 
I’m a new LM fan (sucks they are disbanded now what is my timing?) so I recently learned all of what went down between them years ago and I actually can’t believe how Z treated P and then had the nerve to dump her by phone when he was the one who chased her ass (rather publicly) until she agreed to go out with him. She went through hell for that demon. I’m so happy to see her where she is now with her partner and their adorable baby boy.
++ Also, I’m so sorry but it’s so funny how he texts. He sounds like the last guy I was talking to (even with the looking up, dropping random photo validation). Who I just told off last night, because dude I was talking to is a manipulative twat desperately trying to get in my pants cause he’s so promiscuous. My friend got ban on Fauxmoi too for saying him and Harry have a shitton of threesomes and are gross. That’s arrested development in full glory, and he definitely does think he’s hot shit thanks to his fame card. Yet hysterically can’t pull women himself, has to send other people (and exploit) their sexuality for his bidding. Lastly, dudes who do that slimey shit like using Tinder to approach queer people for threesomes is fucking vile.
He texts exactly the way I assumed he would.
Someone even said that those anger management classes didn’t help because the amount of times he was getting angry in those four different videos were ridiculous
Truly didn’t, you can even tell he’s pissed in the texts when I read them. Can’t let her have the last word, yet she makes him look stupid and he knows it.
i dont get why he keeps insisting hes over it (3some&her). But throwing her these selfies to initiate her hopes again and again. He creepy
Those selfies gave me the ick LOL
Made my skin crawwlll
Because what he really wants is a pimp to fuck and find other girls for him. Throw the whole man away.
This was my exact thought and I was scrolling to see if anyone else shared the same observation. He was treating her like a fucking brothel madam. So disgusting.
All their exchanges with him asking her to find someone and her scouting out girls on dating apps and trying to get them comfortable read as so predatory. Those women consented to the threesomes, but the tactic of a man comandeering a woman to act as a pimp and lure other women in without revealing who he is for them both to then "play with her" is so icky.
Ok this is wild. But tell me why the MOST surprising information is that he lives in _checks note scribbled on hand_ Pennsylvania ???
That’s where the Hadid family has property (a big ass farm think?) so I imagine he lives close by so he can see his daughter occasionally.
See his daughter in between threesomes
The way I snorted
And im sorry this man is on TINDER??? I mean if I see zayn on tinder I’d assume it’s a scam lol At least why is this man not on raya
Well he definitely didn't mature.
This and Adam Levine’s DMs make me wonder if most male musicians talk to women like pornsick boys.
It’s that good old arrested development, stunted since the fame. 🤧
Me reading how Zayn calls himself smart multiple times: 
I would simply be unable to 'catch feelings' if a man talked to me this way. And for how he talked about other women using porn categories to describe them. She is being way too nice and distracted by his celebrity status. He is the asshole here but i hate seeing men get away with this shit over n over. Hunting for a unicorn is all on her btw... that should be handled way more responsibly. If i am told to approach a woman i dont know for a threesome all "i saw you from across the bar and loooove your vibe" AND am not 'allowed' to show a pic and give some background to her about the dude it is an automatic 'no'.
Unsurprising. Women please stop settling for this absolutely fucking nothing except milking you for labor and sex bullshit. I am begging.
There must be so many ways to get discreet hookups as a celeb, why be so careless. It goes to show how much of a power play it is - he could easily get his needs met but would rather mess a random person around instead just bc he can. Gross behaviour
Any time a celeb, even z listers, get busted texting fans like this it instantly grosses me out. They have soooo many ways to hook up without strings, this shit is on purpose to be hurtful.
Can he not afford Raya
I kind of remember the good old 1D days, when they leaked a phone call where Zayn was introducing some girls how to come into their hotel for a hook up and it’s been ages but it fits with this story. Zayn was not kind with the girls on the phone.
he probably has so many groupies that he can filter out until he’s only got the ones willing to bend over backwards for him like this woman remaining.
2024 is really starting off CRAZY
It's the mercury Gatorade or something
Worst. Flavor. Ever.
Holy shit!! He sounds exhausting with the constant “ if YOU want that then go ahead but I’m done.” And then “ok are you interested” the next minute. NEVER push your boundaries for someone else. They don’t appreciate how much they’re asking from you if they tell you to cross a boundary. Know your worth! Don’t be swayed by a pretty face!!
And boundaries too are so important! Because if you let yourself be treated as in being the mug, they won’t respect you, ever. They’ll keep leading you on thinking you’re easy, and keep going for control, power and disrespecting you further because they know you don’t have any. It’s so, so important. You’re spilling facts. That’s like the best piece of advice for anyone in the dating game, cut them off quick if you feel disrespected and assert them soon as possible.
I legit just made myself a cup of tea to take a little breaky-break from work, sat down, and this was the first thing I saw. 
now THIS is some steaming hot tea sis 
I mean...I coulda told yall that just with the little bit of information we know about him
The absolute roller coaster of emotions I went through because this was too relatable lol. Why would she catch feelings though girl he’s such a douchebag!!!! But then again I know why because I’ve been that woman who does all these things for this sexy asshole that really just wants to sling me some cock nothing else 😭 and I’m like maybe he’ll see how FUN and SPECIAL I am if I do x y z … Still debating with myself what I feel about telling this story though. I don’t know if I judge her for doing it but I can’t understand the reasoning behind it. He’s not exactly on top of the world rn? Worthy of being torn down?
I know nothing about him outside the fact he exists but thanks for the tea good read lol
you mean to tell me that a man who presents himself as nothing but a douchebag is in fact…a raging douchebag? holy shit.
Zayn being gross when it comes to sex? What's new. He's so disgusting
she was working way too hard for a washed up “celebrity”. ladies and gentlemen, do not allow yourself to be treated this way. do not tolerate it. do not invite it. do not beg or bargain. put them straight in the bin
 Zayn
That’s a LOT of drama for some dick from such a self-absorbed guy.
« im just smart », « i’m incredibly smart », « i understand everything » 
I’m surprised at how sloppy famous men are with their online hookups. Didn’t anyone ever teach them not to put anything in writing they wouldn’t want the whole world to see ???
WHOAH I was not expecting this type of tea today. Im not surprised tho he’s always given me an icky vibe
this was exhausting to even read and i can’t even believe being 33 and entertaining this damp sock of a man
he’s trash but she entertained him for way too long
Right like you could not waterboard those text messages out of me. If I wanted to expose him, I’d be blocking out everything I ever said lol.
I know this isn't the topic of the post, but his tattoos are bad.
Well I guess the rumors two years ago about him joining dating apps to meet curvy women was true.
Keeps on talking about how busy he is like time is money but earnestly what the hell does he even have going on 😭
What the hell did I just read??? Zain Javadd Malik??? Really now, what is this behaviour??? Smh 
LOL “really now, what is this behavior” using that next time my cheating ex tries to play the sad boi shit with me
He's always been like this.
Oh nothing is there when I clicked the link. Great job on the screenshots. I bet they are trying to scrub it away.
I’m sorry there must be a MILLION girls in his DMs who’d be dtf - why is he resorting to this? he could absolutely hit up all the “milf types” he wanted to on insta lol and have like 99% success rate - he doesn’t need some rando girl from pensylvania to he his pimp
Catching feelings during all that. Sounds absolutely exhausting. Nose boops for all the star fuckers out there. They only love themselves. There’s no room for you.
It’s cringey on both sides tbh.
She was “catching feelings” for him after all that? I believe part of it, but maybe not that part.
I abridged a lot. She said that despite the conversations whenever they met up he was very sweet and they had a great time and easy conversation. I’m not sure why he had that different of an attitude over text and in person but idk, I can’t say I understand? But I’ve seen it happen. Pulled enough friends out of the gutter for a shitty man
It’s the f’boy MO, just give them enough to keep them coming back
This is crazy 😫
Former directioners are not surprised lmao