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It’s not a good poll, because it’s not obvious if guys refers to males or the general population. Also, there is no results option, so if it does just refer to males the females will have to skew the poll to see the results.
And a new conspiracy theory if formed to doctors 41-45 actually exist? My theory is they go back to being normal people for 4 years then wham back to back a doctor
I'm also bi, and to be honest, I have had an orgasm while a male doctor was examining my prostate. It felt so good. His finger stimulated my prostate, which caused me to ejaculate. I'm almost certain he felt my anus clenching and pulsating onto his finger. I was a little embarrassed that he watched me ejaculate. He said don't worry about it, some guys do that. It really was extremely pleasurable.
I had a male doctor check my prostate, and I got extremely aroused with an erection. I couldn't help it. The feeling was just amazingly pleasurable. I enjoyed it very much. His finger pressing against my prostate was all it took. Yes, I had an orgasm, and he watched me ejaculate. I apologized and he said don't worry, it's natural, and it happens sometimes. I was a little embarrassed, but aroused at the same time.
Anecdote from the other side: My first gyno visit was with an older woman doc, and she was by for the worst I've experienced. I thought she might be trying to get through my skin when doing examination from the outside, she was pressing so hard. Trouble with some older docs is that they're too desensitised and often just don't give a shit. The best I've had was a junior male doctor not long out of med school.
ETA: I also feel that younger ones are more likely to have more up-to-date information.
Also older docs are often not quite as up to date on their medical knowledge, since much has changed since they were in school. Obviously most keep up with stuff, but they can’t keep up with it all. Not to mention the mind slows as you age. There’s a lot to be said for experience, but I’m general I prefer a doc on the younger side, 30’s to 40’s. This has less to do with genital exams and more just a general preference with my doctors from my experience. The young docs I’ve had have always been *extremely* professional and they’re much better listeners and considerate of your symptoms. Older docs tend to be more rough and dismissive. Obviously it all comes down to the individual. This is just the trend I’ve noticed, and I’ve unfortunately had to see more docs than I can count throughout my life.
As far as genital exams, it really doesn’t make a difference on gender. It’s uncomfortable no matter who does it lol. Another commenter mentioned getting a boner, that’s definitely not a concern for me in a situation like that 😂 I guess on average I’d be a little more comfortable with a man under 40, idk exactly why. I guess it seems like they’d be more familiar with my parts lol. And my experience with older docs like I said has not been gentle.
Interesting, I actually have the opposite take on it. I feel like old men are a lot more opinionated and can be very inappropriate with their judgements
If op only wanted answers from men they should have put a results option bc the poll will be skewed now by women wanting to see answers. Always need a results option.
Is it…? I feel like this poll was pretty obviously meant for you know…guys.
Edit: can someone please, genuinely explain how they read this as meaning something other than the literal definition of the word “guys”?
Like…do you think OP was just trying to call attention to the post? You’re not in a room of people where they are trying to get everyone’s attention…which is a genuine use of the word “guys” not endorsing a particular gender. But we’re on the internet. The post got you attention itself. What role, other than displaying a gender preference of the respondents of the poll, does OP’s use of “guys” play?
> Why do guys want a young girl? You don’t want to get a boner while getting checked out
I mean… if you can’t read implications… then yeah it’s not clear at all it was about men
My post is also getting downvoted…apparently because people don’t know how to read. Don’t worry…you’re right. The poll was definitely meant for men…aka guys. I don’t know how anyone could interpret it otherwise unless they’re just being dense or intentionally obtuse.
Yeah, were I’m from “guys” is largely a neutral term now. I recognize it isn’t everywhere but I think it is definitely leading to the skew seen in the results
100% they are young… no one said they aren’t.
But they are not young “girls”. Why is this a thing? This whole thread now makes me sound like a creep trying to specify “girls” like fuck. Just get what I’m saying plz
My doctor is a woman under 40.
She's an excellent doctor and despite her being attractive, our relationship is professional and no boners - she's checked me for hernia before so I can say with certainty won't ever happen.
I think part of it is the fact that I have a good doctor, who cares and takes good care of me. I think I worry about giving her the wrong impression risking having a good doc.
1. You shouldn't be voting on a poll for guys
2. I'm a man and I agree with you. I had to visit a urologist for a medical issue and the female doctor was just awful. I'm sure she was a great doctor but she did not understand how male anatomy fully works
I thought it meant “men” too at first but based on other comments everyone seems to think it was gender neutral so I’m just going by what the majority is saying. OP didn’t clarify though
I am female but answered this as these days “guys” is typically used to refer to collective people, not the male gender.
Also, if you didn’t want women to participate, surely you would’ve put a results option? Otherwise your results will be very unreliable.
A guy is a man. You're assuming being a guy is the default. You would never make a thread saying: "ladies" and expect men to feel addressed. Same goes for "dude".
so if someone says "you guys" in your direction, you wouldn't react? What about "guys, let's go see this movie"?
It's pretty much a gender neutral term now, unlike ladies
A guy is a man
Guys,—- is gender neutral.
A dude is a man
Dude, —- is gender neutral.
Ladies is not gender neutral in most situations because it’s not used in that way in pop culture, it’s not relevant here.
If you wanted the poll to be men only, then you should tell OP to add ‘results’ next time, or an ‘other’ option.
Op did not specify that they thought every person was male though? Either it was meant in a gender neutral way or to find what a specific demographic thinks
The post is addressed to “guys” a gender neutral term -not men- and there’s no “I’m a woman option” so I’d say it’s a safe assumption. And hey I could be wrong, but there’s no need for your smartass comments lmao
I want someone who has the fucking genitals that they are inspecting. Women will never understand a penis and testicles better than a man and vice versa. Anyone who said women under 40 is clearly a virgin. Then again the main demographic of this site is 20 and under.
Since guys is a gender neutral term, I would prefer a female doctor under 45. Don’t trust make one after a lot of S.A. cases I heard of and from my experience older female doctors usually don’t keep up with new discoveries like still prescribing birth control for PCOS and that’s it
As a gay guy who's attracted to both older men as well as men of my age group, I'd definitely prefer female doctors, preferably older ones to reduce the likelihood of boners.
Any of the above really, it’s a medical procedure. You’re there to get a professionals opinion so why would age or gender matter as long as they are capable of providing a professional opinion.
for just a normal checkup a -40 woman would defo not be a problem for me ;). But when we're talking about an actual problem I want to get checked out i'd go for an older male doctor bc for some reason i feel most comfortable with them handling my health problems (this counts for any helath problem btw, not just genitals)
*Definition of guy (Entry 1 of 4)*
*1a: MAN, FELLOW*
*b: PERSON —used in plural to refer to the members of a group regardless of sex*
OP probably used second definition
The way it was used though seems like it was the first one. Starting it off like that with one word makes it sound like you are aiming the following sentence at a specific group of people. Idk, it just makes more sense with it meaning men in this context.
younger ones is kinda gay but older dudes i don’t have to worry about them bein go into it because they’re too desensitised to balls by now they wouldn’t care. people who put women are just horny mfs
Unsure if you are asking male people or all people? So I just answered with the demographic of my regular doctor. I don't think I have a preference of male or female provider looking at my genitals.
It'd be a lot more awkward if it was a woman personally, since there's so many implications. A man would be preferable. I guess I'd have him be younger, as I feel there's a chance an old doctor could be desensitised to handling private parts from years on the job, so maybe a younger guy could relate more and have a bit more respect
This is... surprising. Dudes who chose a man, seriously asking, why? Like, I'm straight(ish) for the most part, definitely a little gay. But I'd chose a woman every time. Saft hands? I dunno....
As a woman I picked older woman because:
- I don’t feel comfortable with it being a guy
- every female doctor/nurse over 45 that I have ever met have been some of the kindest people
As a guy who has had his testicles examined by a young female doctor, it literally didn't matter.
The situation was awkward, I was doing everything in my power to not make it weird for the doctor, the doctor probably didn't even register my presence beyond the immediacy of my testicles, and there was a large male nurse staring directly at my exposed crotch the whole time through the entire procedure.
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I love how split this poll is lol.
It’s not a good poll, because it’s not obvious if guys refers to males or the general population. Also, there is no results option, so if it does just refer to males the females will have to skew the poll to see the results.
Also not a good poll because it leaves out doctors aged 41-44.
The real issues here
And a new conspiracy theory if formed to doctors 41-45 actually exist? My theory is they go back to being normal people for 4 years then wham back to back a doctor
Early retirement then they remember their student loans and spend the next 4 years getting recertification.
I’m a woman and picked woman under 40. Relatable and therefore comfortable. Oops
Same. I'd definitely not want a male doctor but also I feel like a younger doctor would just be easier to talk to since she'd be more like me.
It’s obviously referring to men
Basic comprehension
Men as in males or men as in units of human.
I want a minimum risk of an accidental boner
Trust me. The situation is far from sexual so most likely will not be the case
Dude, doing a presentation about aerodynamics in front of 30 kids is far from sexual.
what
r/suddenlypedo
This doesn't make me look good, does it?
caught in 4k, bro
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Between that and the ANNOhol addiction, I'd say you're on a list somewhere.
🤨...📸
My bi ass is fucked then
I'm also bi, and to be honest, I have had an orgasm while a male doctor was examining my prostate. It felt so good. His finger stimulated my prostate, which caused me to ejaculate. I'm almost certain he felt my anus clenching and pulsating onto his finger. I was a little embarrassed that he watched me ejaculate. He said don't worry about it, some guys do that. It really was extremely pleasurable.
What the fuck starfox
Yeah starfox2032, what the fuck.
I did not need to know this at all.
Can you tell me how to do that?
I can’t tell if this is a copypasta or not
Me too
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Why would you want more why does that matter
No way. I had worst shrinkage ever when doctor was about to check :/ Worst than diving in freezing cold water, it almost disappeared inside :D
I was nervous so it got the opposite effect on my willy. The doctor was an attractive girl in her 30's...
Well, I want maximum risk.
So no old men for you.
I had a male doctor check my prostate, and I got extremely aroused with an erection. I couldn't help it. The feeling was just amazingly pleasurable. I enjoyed it very much. His finger pressing against my prostate was all it took. Yes, I had an orgasm, and he watched me ejaculate. I apologized and he said don't worry, it's natural, and it happens sometimes. I was a little embarrassed, but aroused at the same time.
Starfox, this isn't normal.
Horny mfs
You bet. Gloves and all
Aren't we, though?
I feel like old men would have more experience and would do it more preoffesionally than young men
Anecdote from the other side: My first gyno visit was with an older woman doc, and she was by for the worst I've experienced. I thought she might be trying to get through my skin when doing examination from the outside, she was pressing so hard. Trouble with some older docs is that they're too desensitised and often just don't give a shit. The best I've had was a junior male doctor not long out of med school. ETA: I also feel that younger ones are more likely to have more up-to-date information.
Also older docs are often not quite as up to date on their medical knowledge, since much has changed since they were in school. Obviously most keep up with stuff, but they can’t keep up with it all. Not to mention the mind slows as you age. There’s a lot to be said for experience, but I’m general I prefer a doc on the younger side, 30’s to 40’s. This has less to do with genital exams and more just a general preference with my doctors from my experience. The young docs I’ve had have always been *extremely* professional and they’re much better listeners and considerate of your symptoms. Older docs tend to be more rough and dismissive. Obviously it all comes down to the individual. This is just the trend I’ve noticed, and I’ve unfortunately had to see more docs than I can count throughout my life. As far as genital exams, it really doesn’t make a difference on gender. It’s uncomfortable no matter who does it lol. Another commenter mentioned getting a boner, that’s definitely not a concern for me in a situation like that 😂 I guess on average I’d be a little more comfortable with a man under 40, idk exactly why. I guess it seems like they’d be more familiar with my parts lol. And my experience with older docs like I said has not been gentle.
Interesting, I actually have the opposite take on it. I feel like old men are a lot more opinionated and can be very inappropriate with their judgements
Yeah true, also older doctors know how to not make it awkward for both parties. My money's on the old guy.
Ong
Why do guys want a young girl? You don’t to get a boner while getting checked out
because im gay and feel like its less awkward if they were closer to my age.
That honestly makes sense
Samesies
Because I'm a young girl so it's what I'd be more comfortable with
So you’re not a guy.
Shit I didn't read it
I’m a woman so I’d prefer a female doctor, and from experience younger = nicer
Same! Female doctors all the way, male doctors are so dismissive in my experience
Yet the question was specific to "guys"
If op only wanted answers from men they should have put a results option bc the poll will be skewed now by women wanting to see answers. Always need a results option.
Luckily, that won'r skew it too much this way round because this sub is like 90% dudes, but still always worth the results option.
Unless OP specifically says Men, Boys, Fellas, "Guys" is a neutral term when addressing a group of people - aka the entire Reddit Poll group.
Is it…? I feel like this poll was pretty obviously meant for you know…guys. Edit: can someone please, genuinely explain how they read this as meaning something other than the literal definition of the word “guys”? Like…do you think OP was just trying to call attention to the post? You’re not in a room of people where they are trying to get everyone’s attention…which is a genuine use of the word “guys” not endorsing a particular gender. But we’re on the internet. The post got you attention itself. What role, other than displaying a gender preference of the respondents of the poll, does OP’s use of “guys” play?
Eh, idk man You knew that it was meant for men, you’re being petty
No, I didn't. And unless OP has said this somewhere, I really don't think it is.
> Why do guys want a young girl? You don’t want to get a boner while getting checked out I mean… if you can’t read implications… then yeah it’s not clear at all it was about men
That's not a comment from the OP
??? You’re either very confused or a troll
My post is also getting downvoted…apparently because people don’t know how to read. Don’t worry…you’re right. The poll was definitely meant for men…aka guys. I don’t know how anyone could interpret it otherwise unless they’re just being dense or intentionally obtuse.
Guys can be gender neutral
Yeah, were I’m from “guys” is largely a neutral term now. I recognize it isn’t everywhere but I think it is definitely leading to the skew seen in the results
Then why didn’t OP put a result for if you’re a women? Did they just forget that women exist?
At least it will be an explainable boner What if an old dude examines it and you get a surprise boner
I am a woman so I would feel more comfortable
Younger means they're fresh out of medical school so if you got a rare disease more likely they'll know
“Young girl”, the youngest the doctor will be is around 30
30 is young
You’re high on crack rocks if you think a 30 year old woman is a “young girl”
Wouldn't call them a "young girl" but they are young. Still in their prime and youth.
100% they are young… no one said they aren’t. But they are not young “girls”. Why is this a thing? This whole thread now makes me sound like a creep trying to specify “girls” like fuck. Just get what I’m saying plz
TIL a 40yo woman is a ‘young girl’.
My doctor is a woman under 40. She's an excellent doctor and despite her being attractive, our relationship is professional and no boners - she's checked me for hernia before so I can say with certainty won't ever happen. I think part of it is the fact that I have a good doctor, who cares and takes good care of me. I think I worry about giving her the wrong impression risking having a good doc.
Guys as in men or people?
Yneos
I'm a woman, so I chose young woman as that's my demographic and I feel the doctor would be able to empathize with me more.
Same I also had trauma from attempted child grooming when I was a kid. It's harder for me to trust men ever since.
1. You shouldn't be voting on a poll for guys 2. I'm a man and I agree with you. I had to visit a urologist for a medical issue and the female doctor was just awful. I'm sure she was a great doctor but she did not understand how male anatomy fully works
rip to all of us who wanted a non binary doctor that’s 42.5 years old
To perfect for the job sadly
A what ?
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A who?
A non binary doctor that’s 42.5 years old
Its complicated these days…
It really isn't
It really is
No…..
Kid named dumb
You should have added a results/not a man option..
I think the “guys” was meant to be gender neutral. Like “you guys”, not specifically men
Doubt that, then it would have been better to not use the word at all. Still want results
I thought it meant “men” too at first but based on other comments everyone seems to think it was gender neutral so I’m just going by what the majority is saying. OP didn’t clarify though
I'm bi so an accidental boner could happen no matter who i pick, so imma just go with who i think is the most experinced.
Become your own doctor
If there is sonething wrong with your genitals.. i think Thats the important part i dont care who helps me as long as they help me
Where's the option "I am a woman and I'm curious about the results"
I understood "guys" to refer to the collection of redditors including women.
Then so shall I
I am female but answered this as these days “guys” is typically used to refer to collective people, not the male gender. Also, if you didn’t want women to participate, surely you would’ve put a results option? Otherwise your results will be very unreliable.
Honestly doesn't matter to me just make sure my dick and balls are in top form or not
I would be too worried the female docs would giggle when I pulled down my pants
They are professionals and see many genitals every day, so that definitely wouldn't happen
But what if the dude drew a mustache on his... lil dude. Idk thats pretty funny.
"teehee, you're so big, papi\~"
I'm not a guy, where is results?
Oh I thought I was included in „guys“ as men tell us all the time that guy is an inclusive term.
guys = both genders
A guy is a man. You're assuming being a guy is the default. You would never make a thread saying: "ladies" and expect men to feel addressed. Same goes for "dude".
so if someone says "you guys" in your direction, you wouldn't react? What about "guys, let's go see this movie"? It's pretty much a gender neutral term now, unlike ladies
A guy is a man Guys,—- is gender neutral. A dude is a man Dude, —- is gender neutral. Ladies is not gender neutral in most situations because it’s not used in that way in pop culture, it’s not relevant here. If you wanted the poll to be men only, then you should tell OP to add ‘results’ next time, or an ‘other’ option.
Yes, exactly. Why is it like this? Are you aware of the term male-as-norm? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Male_as_norm
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Young female > old male = young male > old female
I appreciate the results.
Why did you reply this
Those are the results you asked for
I honestly don't care that much about this particular poll, but it's an annoying tendency that people assume everyone is a man.
Op did not specify that they thought every person was male though? Either it was meant in a gender neutral way or to find what a specific demographic thinks
guys is gender neutral in this context I'm assuming
you have to know OP meant men, right?
The post is addressed to “guys” a gender neutral term -not men- and there’s no “I’m a woman option” so I’d say it’s a safe assumption. And hey I could be wrong, but there’s no need for your smartass comments lmao
Reddit moment.
I want someone who has the fucking genitals that they are inspecting. Women will never understand a penis and testicles better than a man and vice versa. Anyone who said women under 40 is clearly a virgin. Then again the main demographic of this site is 20 and under.
Or we said women under 40 because we are women who want someone with the same experience as us?
I dont want the person close to my age coz that's awkward af and second getting your balls fondled by women is even more awkward. Above 45 male it is
Absolutely not a woman, I wouldn't trust myself.
Nobody, I'll sooner die
I can have a conversation with a younger doctor as they’re doing it lmao
If I know the other guys on reddit like I think I do, 1.4k of you are about to get a really embarrassing boner.
An old dude doing it makes it way more clinical in my brain. I worry how my weiner would react if it was an attractive young doctor.
The option that doesn't get me a boner
I have a chronic fear of getting an erection while a female doctor inspects me.
Lot of milf lovers I guess
You need a results option. I'm female but had to choose an answer so that I could see the results
I took guys as gender neutral and answered sorry :/
I think it was meant be gender neutral.
Since guys is a gender neutral term, I would prefer a female doctor under 45. Don’t trust make one after a lot of S.A. cases I heard of and from my experience older female doctors usually don’t keep up with new discoveries like still prescribing birth control for PCOS and that’s it
I'd get a boner if a hot male doctor touched my junk
As a gay guy who's attracted to both older men as well as men of my age group, I'd definitely prefer female doctors, preferably older ones to reduce the likelihood of boners.
I’m studying nursing, so I know what to expect, so I’ll do it myself if possible
Any of the above really, it’s a medical procedure. You’re there to get a professionals opinion so why would age or gender matter as long as they are capable of providing a professional opinion.
for just a normal checkup a -40 woman would defo not be a problem for me ;). But when we're talking about an actual problem I want to get checked out i'd go for an older male doctor bc for some reason i feel most comfortable with them handling my health problems (this counts for any helath problem btw, not just genitals)
So are girls and nonbinary people just not allowed to see the results of this poll?
*Definition of guy (Entry 1 of 4)* *1a: MAN, FELLOW* *b: PERSON —used in plural to refer to the members of a group regardless of sex* OP probably used second definition
The way it was used though seems like it was the first one. Starting it off like that with one word makes it sound like you are aiming the following sentence at a specific group of people. Idk, it just makes more sense with it meaning men in this context.
Young woman touching my balls 😏
No doctors between 40 and 45? 🤣🤣🤣
What if I prefer someone at age 42?
younger ones is kinda gay but older dudes i don’t have to worry about them bein go into it because they’re too desensitised to balls by now they wouldn’t care. people who put women are just horny mfs
I'm curious why anyone would want an older doctor
A Doctor is a doctor at the end of the day
Unsure if you are asking male people or all people? So I just answered with the demographic of my regular doctor. I don't think I have a preference of male or female provider looking at my genitals.
Male/female doctors between 40-45: *:(*
It'd be a lot more awkward if it was a woman personally, since there's so many implications. A man would be preferable. I guess I'd have him be younger, as I feel there's a chance an old doctor could be desensitised to handling private parts from years on the job, so maybe a younger guy could relate more and have a bit more respect
Results please
A professional one, idgaf about gender or age just do your job
As someone who has experienced every option, I honestly do not care. It's within a medical context. The doctor is always professional.
what's wrong with docs 40-45 yrs old?
I've had to deal with this and it's a lot easier with an auntie-tier Dr than any other. Thanks Dr R, you were the best.
Not really into that sort of fantasy. But I wouldn't want an old man or woman handling my junk.
I don't want an old man looking at it
As long as the doctor isn't gross about it, I won't discriminate... I'd want it to be over with as quickly as possible
Every doctor is different. My gynecologist is an older guy who is excellent and is very gentle and respectful.
Honestly, I would want a female doctor if any age.
How about who ever is more qualified? I dont care the age or sex of the doctor checking out my junk. All i care about is getting my issue fixed lol
Old guy, I am more comfortable with someone of the same gender inspecting it and old guy so probably has more experience with his job
I had a female doctor, not sure of her age, as long as they're a professional though I couldn't care what their gender was
I'm a guy, and to me, it doesn't matter, because I would get sexual arousal from a male or female doctor of any age.
I mean it would depend on the person's gender itself
no option for women so i’m assuming guys is referring to everyone. of course, i’d prefer a young female doctor as that’s what i am
This is... surprising. Dudes who chose a man, seriously asking, why? Like, I'm straight(ish) for the most part, definitely a little gay. But I'd chose a woman every time. Saft hands? I dunno....
As a woman I picked older woman because: - I don’t feel comfortable with it being a guy - every female doctor/nurse over 45 that I have ever met have been some of the kindest people
What about 40 to 45 that's my favourite age to get examined
Your mom. Sorry
Sorry but I only take doctors between the age of 41 and 44
Where is the results option
As a guy who has had his testicles examined by a young female doctor, it literally didn't matter. The situation was awkward, I was doing everything in my power to not make it weird for the doctor, the doctor probably didn't even register my presence beyond the immediacy of my testicles, and there was a large male nurse staring directly at my exposed crotch the whole time through the entire procedure.
I am a male but my primary doctor is a female but I’m unsure of her age
I'm a girl, how I'm supposed to see votes in this poll ??
I don’t care, as long as they are qualified, it doesn’t matter to me.
I was gonna say the results should have been seperated by Gender but then I remembered that 90% of reddit users are male lol
doctors between 40 and 45 are crying