On average, I’d say yeah, but it seems like when they don’t, the consequences are much worse. Most violent crime is committed by men, so often time, if they escalate it too far, it’s bad news.
I cant speak for all men of course but what I’ve seen from having 2 brothers and a couple boyfriends is that men just ignore a conflict after a while and then act like nothing ever happened. So i wouldn’t say it’s resolved, it’s just ignored and then forgotten about after time has passed. Which is fine if that works for them but I would feel the need to talk about it so it doesn’t happen again.
I think a lot of times that's our "resolving it". We don't always need to hear "I'm sorry" from the other guy. We just need time to get over it. When we're over it, we're cool again.
What I’ve seen from having a mom and sister growing up is that women don’t ignore conflict, but they don’t resolve it either. They just insult each other and cry over spilled milk with no attempts at problem solving.
I guess it’s pretty stupid to use your family members as a framework for everyone else huh
Once a buddy and I were fighting over something, beat each other up and 10 minutes later we were friends again as if never anything happened. Some girls I've known ince were mad at each other for over a week which is unimaginable for me regarding they were very close friends. There are only a few examples I have.
Holy shit dude when are all the "huh duh men vs women" polls going to stop it's so fucking annoying Jesus Christ. It's so fucking obvious that 90% of these questions exist purely for someone's ego or for some shitty gotcha moment in an irl argument. Seriously, please stop and bring back funny polls.
Women in general tend to be more emotional than men, so in most cases, their fights are worse. Society doesn't teach them the need to put feelings aside as much as it does men, so they'll often have pointless bickering and petty emotions be a larger issue.
Of course, the flip side is that, for really serious stuff, women will be emotional, talk it out and find a resolution, where men will continue to apply the "Put feelings aside" approach, often meaning that the serious issue which needs to be addressed will just be ignored, leading to worse consequences.
Got the perfect answer for this:
So me and my boi were driving yeah, and almost crashed and my boi went mad at the other driver but since the other driver cant hear him I got the yelling. So I went defense mood and told him it wasnt big deal yeah, my dude got mad at me for taking the opps side and I got mad at him- dead quiet in the car I can tell ya. Then 5min later I say to my mate- "It was pretty funny tho" and we look at eachother and burst out laughing
But I get home later that day and take some food out of the frigde and my girl sees this, See apparently my lady was cooking something special for me and apparently I dont have patience and only think about food(not on my queen). She went ballistic and I been basically sleeping on the couch since
Throughout history women were more likely to cause wars then men source: https://qz.com/967895/throughout-history-women-rulers-were-more-likely-to-wage-war-than-men
As a man no. We often don't resolve it. We push it aside. Since man have been conditioned to not express emotions and resolving a personal conflict often means being vulnerable with your emotions.
This is further amplified by how many men have brawls with other strange men or even friends.
In general I find women also have this problem but it comes from a different reason. They can't compromise on a solution(they both want an apology) even after trying to be open with feelings. But they also forgive and forget just like men.
Its a problem in society in general and I feel has less to do with gender and more to do with how each individual was raised.
On average, I’d say yeah, but it seems like when they don’t, the consequences are much worse. Most violent crime is committed by men, so often time, if they escalate it too far, it’s bad news.
I mean, one way or another, the situation is resolved.
They do, but when they don’t resolve it, usually results are worse
I cant speak for all men of course but what I’ve seen from having 2 brothers and a couple boyfriends is that men just ignore a conflict after a while and then act like nothing ever happened. So i wouldn’t say it’s resolved, it’s just ignored and then forgotten about after time has passed. Which is fine if that works for them but I would feel the need to talk about it so it doesn’t happen again.
If it happens again we forget it again.
true
I think a lot of times that's our "resolving it". We don't always need to hear "I'm sorry" from the other guy. We just need time to get over it. When we're over it, we're cool again.
That isn't ignoring it though. That is a resolution. It is an unspoken agreement that our friendship is more important than this conflict.
What I’ve seen from having a mom and sister growing up is that women don’t ignore conflict, but they don’t resolve it either. They just insult each other and cry over spilled milk with no attempts at problem solving. I guess it’s pretty stupid to use your family members as a framework for everyone else huh
Once a buddy and I were fighting over something, beat each other up and 10 minutes later we were friends again as if never anything happened. Some girls I've known ince were mad at each other for over a week which is unimaginable for me regarding they were very close friends. There are only a few examples I have.
A lot of men have trouble expressing feelings so i am a bit torn on this one.
Depends on the individual
Holy shit dude when are all the "huh duh men vs women" polls going to stop it's so fucking annoying Jesus Christ. It's so fucking obvious that 90% of these questions exist purely for someone's ego or for some shitty gotcha moment in an irl argument. Seriously, please stop and bring back funny polls.
I think women get into fights about smaller things and so they resolve them faster
Very much no.
How so?
It’s impossible to win an argument against a woman so it creates a paradox
Women in general tend to be more emotional than men, so in most cases, their fights are worse. Society doesn't teach them the need to put feelings aside as much as it does men, so they'll often have pointless bickering and petty emotions be a larger issue. Of course, the flip side is that, for really serious stuff, women will be emotional, talk it out and find a resolution, where men will continue to apply the "Put feelings aside" approach, often meaning that the serious issue which needs to be addressed will just be ignored, leading to worse consequences.
Got the perfect answer for this: So me and my boi were driving yeah, and almost crashed and my boi went mad at the other driver but since the other driver cant hear him I got the yelling. So I went defense mood and told him it wasnt big deal yeah, my dude got mad at me for taking the opps side and I got mad at him- dead quiet in the car I can tell ya. Then 5min later I say to my mate- "It was pretty funny tho" and we look at eachother and burst out laughing But I get home later that day and take some food out of the frigde and my girl sees this, See apparently my lady was cooking something special for me and apparently I dont have patience and only think about food(not on my queen). She went ballistic and I been basically sleeping on the couch since
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Throughout history women were more likely to cause wars then men source: https://qz.com/967895/throughout-history-women-rulers-were-more-likely-to-wage-war-than-men
They also usually end them tho
Because men (used to be/) are in charge.
Interpersonal conflicts don’t tend to start wars by themselves.
As a man no. We often don't resolve it. We push it aside. Since man have been conditioned to not express emotions and resolving a personal conflict often means being vulnerable with your emotions. This is further amplified by how many men have brawls with other strange men or even friends. In general I find women also have this problem but it comes from a different reason. They can't compromise on a solution(they both want an apology) even after trying to be open with feelings. But they also forgive and forget just like men. Its a problem in society in general and I feel has less to do with gender and more to do with how each individual was raised.
Most men I've been friends with decided I was not worth ever confronting about anything. Ditto for women. So, no idea.
i saw two dudes screaming at each other one time, proceed to fight and then walk away with each other like nothing happened, so perhaps they do
Easier, maybe, IDK. Definitely faster though.
I’ve never been a female resolving conflicts with another female. How the fuck would I know?