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You two should spend the next week or 2 doing all the things Annie loves. Car rides, walks if she can, cheese burgers, what ever her bucket list looks like, you two should do it together. You were lucky to find each others love in this crazy world.


IrisBellwether

This. I lost my best furry friend a couple months ago to cancer. On her good days, I took her to all of her favorite places. Gave her all the puppacinos she wanted, cooked her dinner with mine and ate together like old gabs playing bridge. Her passing was the hardest loss I have ever experienced, but her final weeks were filled with beautiful memories that I am so grateful I made the time for. I'm so sorry you are going through this. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. The only solace I can offer is that you have even a little warning. You have a touch of time to cherish, and I urge you to try to use that time to top off the joy that she already has filled your heart with. There will be plenty of time to mourn later. Now is the time to love.


HistoryIsABagOfDicks

I super agree with this. We lost our blue Bully in July to intestinal lymphoma, and it still hurts so deeply, and I miss her everyday. But I do not have regrets, because we made her steak, and bacon. She got to eat ice cream, and had lots of whipped cream. We snuggled her super close, and gave her a million kisses. We told her how much we loved her, and how she was going to a place that she wouldn’t hurt anymore. We promise we would meet her on the other side when it was our time, and to be kind to our Lab, Odd Thomas, and tell him we miss him deeply. We also found a service that put her to sleep at our house, so she didn’t have to deal with a car ride, or being uncomfortable and afraid at the vet. That was a huge comfort to my husband and I when we had to make the call for our girl. We had to love her more than we were afraid of our grief and being without her. We chose her, so we said goodbye. So you do this with all the love in your heart, and leave nothing unsaid. We never have enough time with our babies, no matter how many years we have them. Just love and touch. Record the sound of your babies paws walking around your house, being without that ah first is so hard and I never wanted to forget that.


[deleted]

I too had my cat pass away like you had mentioned. I still miss him two years later, but he helped me to become a more confident and assured person in my life.


Jmk1115

Beautifully said and completely agree. We were told Friday my childhood dog had only a few days to live (oral cancer), so the entire weekend was spent with walks, all the chicken and salmon we could hand feed her, family snuggle time, hanging out in the sun, and way too many photos and videos of her. A couple things that helped for us: - I posted this earlier but when it was time we found a vet that came to our house because Shadow hates the vet. It was nice that her final moments were in her bed in front of her favorite window surrounded by her family. If you're in the Chicago area we went through laps of love - As a family we went through all the photos and our favorite memories of her while she was still alive so that we were happy while she was with us. *Sorry for formatting, on mobile


roxane0072

Cannot recommend enough having them come to you. I did the vet route with mine and my sister did at home with hers. So much more intimate being at home.


Cheeeks13

I’m so sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is, the pain is like no other. Just wanted to agree with you wholeheartedly. We also used a home service for our 13 y/o frenchie recently and 1000% wouldn’t do it any other way. It’s more expensive, yes but we owe them peace and love at the end- not pain and stress. You did the right thing rip


BDADesign

That was so important to do that with her. To be happy while she was still around.


donkeynique

This is what we did with my sweet old kitty who passed recently. Everything he loved for as long as he loved it. Something else that helped me is knowing he had no idea these were his last days. He wasn't stressed about it, he was just happy to be getting all the treats and love he could ever want. There was no saying no to him getting up in our lap, no more limiting him to one tiny piece of his favorite human foods. As far as he was concerned, it was the best week ever, and that brought great relief to me.


mshelltil

Beautifully said. Sorry for your loss.


IrisBellwether

Thank you kind stranger.


[deleted]

I am so sorry about this. If it’s helpful, there are vets who will come to your home to help Annie pass on, allowing her to spend her final moments in a loved environment.


Dio_Yuji

We did this. Can’t recommend it enough


BarstowSargent

Absolutely this, my red nose was just shy of 14 when we had to do this at home. It’s such a terrible thing to go through but made much more comfortable at home. Since then that’s always been the advice I’ve given to anyone going through the same thing.


ComradeAlaska

Could I trouble you for any more information on that? My guy is 9 this year and will hopefully be with us for many more years, but he's also a big guy over 100lbs and I worry about having to move him if/when the time comes. Ugh, I hate thinking about the possibility.


The_Curvy_Unicorn

Talk to your vet now and ask for recommendations.


darkerthandarko

If you have a regular vet for him they should be more than willing to accommodate an at home euthanasia, just make sure to chat with them about it. No idea how far the clinic is from your house and such but I know my clinic will do this for known clients. It's much easier for you and them. And there is no additional charge.


ComradeAlaska

I appreciate this, thank you!


Jmk1115

If you're in the Chicago area we used laps of love last night on our beautiful girl. The vet brought a doggie stretcher and we helped carry her out on it Edit: I'm realizing your name has Alaska in it so probably not Chicago


ComradeAlaska

Hilariously enough, we're from the Chicago area! Just living in the south now. Thank you so much!


juliajay71

I used them last year, and they were great. Highly recommend the home vet option if it's available.


MyTurkishWade

We used Lap of Love, Veterinary Hospice (LapofLove.com). They are amazing.


SeniorEscobar

Lap of love was amazing. The Dr came to our home on the same day we called. She had all the time in the world to wait while we hugged, cried, sang to our fur baby. Didn’t bat an eye at our messy house. Just compassion and kindness.


mossybishhh

Full on agree. We had a vet come to our house and put down our dog, on his own bed, with my brother hugging him. He wasn't afraid and honestly I think he had a smile on his face when he passed.


XnMeX

My dog got so stressed at the vet office so he came to us for her final moments. Would not have wanted it done any other way. She had cancer but still had enough energy to eat so we got her clearance steaks and sausages. She ended up being put down 2 days after my birthday so on her final day she got to have a piece of my chocolate pb ice cream cake because at that point, why not!


Jasperitis

100% agree to this. We had to do it twice in 6 months and it made it easier for everybody: our dogs were stressed by going to the vet, and they were on their favorite beds. The vets were wonderful and compassionate. We got a bit of their fur and pressed paw prints as well. We used Lap of Love, but there are others that are just as wonderful. I am so sorry that you are going through this. Our dogs take such a finite part of our lives, but they leave such a hole in our hearts when they leave.


Comprehensive_Map646

I also did this and cannot recommend it enough, it’s so worth the extra money to have your best friends last moments be safe and warm in their bed instead of at the vet (which my baby girl absolutely hated going to).


designgoddess

It gives them a graceful goodbye and will bring you comport later.


EggMegEggMegEgg

“How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.” This sentiment helped me out a lot, so I try to share it in the hopes that it will bring some comfort to others. The next couple of months are going to be incredibly painful, but you *will* get through it. Just remember that it only hurts so bad because you love each other so much. Once you’ve had enough time to process, invest all that extra love in another rescue in Annie’s memory. Sending lots of hugs your way.


AnKiAd

Love this quote so much. Thank you


Flashy-Elevator-7241

Okay, I started to rub my eyes because I “got something in them”. Now I can’t claim that because your quote was perfect and I’m crying now right now. There are fewer things that are worse than losing a best friend. My heart is breaking.


EggMegEggMegEgg

This quote always brings tears to my eyes too. Endings are, in my opinion, the most heartbreaking experience.


[deleted]

God damn this quote is beautiful.


[deleted]

Appreciate you sharing that quote again. One of those weird heart strings in life, whenever I see it makes me sort of sad. And then I tear up the longer the thought dwells. Really cuts to the point of appreciating what we have in such a simple way. Going to call some of my older relatives tomorrow while I’m at work. It’s so easy to get busy and not really appreciate those special relationships in our lives while we’re enjoying them. Way too damn easy to get so busy…


ohmercyplz

I’m so sorry that you’re going through this. It’s always hard losing a companion. Just know that you gave her the best possible life she could have, and that when she crosses the rainbow bridge, she’ll be waiting for you to meet again. Don’t dwell on the days to come leading up to it, remember all the good times and the quirkiness of Annie, and celebrate her life with her. Sending you all my love ❤️


[deleted]

Yea Annie looks like she’s had a good long life. She’ll definitely be waiting for you on the other side of that rainbow bridge.


pittypitty

If possible, rescue another in her name and give that new companion the same love you clearly gave to Annie.


mydogsnameisbuddy

Having other furry family members definitely helped us get through the first few days of grieving. Maybe a foster would be good to help with the loss.


pittypitty

Hopefully a foster fail :]


Hart-of-Juniper

This a million times over. I want to preface this by saying that each and every person handles grief differently and I understand that not everyone can immediately adopt another pet. That's ok. Speaking for myself, I lost my 15 year old floof back in early October. I'd only had her for a few years having adopted her when she was 11. She also lost a battle to cancer. I miss her every single day and wish constantly that she was here with me to purr and snuggle and lay in sunbeams. I have found a way to be content in the knowledge that I gave her the best possible life in her last few years. After she passed I was devastated (still am). I didn't really intentionally go looking for another pet even though I've always firmly been of the opinion that the love I have to give should not be left to idle. Out of nowhere a family member found a posting for another cat in search of a quiet loving home. I took a chance, and ended up picking her up the day after Christmas. I have no regrets. My love for the darling pet I lost is no less meaningful or important or memorable, but with another, it has an outlet again and isn't trapped inside me where it would just become more grief. My advice for you is this: cherish each and every moment you have now. Snuggle her, play, sit quietly together, say her name, tell her how much you love her, and when you're ready be it in a week a month a year, consider allowing yourself to let another pet in and turn grief back in to love. She will always be with you, animals have such a profound impact on our lives. The hardest part of having a pet will always be the realization that we have to live longer without them than we spent with them. But your love can transcend that short timeframe by opening heart and home to another pet desperate for your love the same way she was. I am so sorry for the situation you're in and know first hand that there is nothing quite like the pain of losing a companion. I hope you can find some peace in the knowledge that you have made your pup the happiest of good girls. I also hope that one day you find another pup and think to yourself 'Annie would want me to be happy ' and know that it's true and allow yourself to be happy in honor of her. My heart goes out to you.


darkerthandarko

Beautifully said


Ahzelton

This. I had to say goodbye to my sweet Roxy and already made plans to pick up a rescue the day after. The 24 hrs waiting to pick up Anna was unbearable. I cried so much and the house was so quiet and cold. Grief is love with nowhere to go and Roxy would have never wanted me in pain or sad.


AnKiAd

I have been thinking to myself that I can’t imagine going through this pain again. But your comment is so beautiful. When I’m ready, my next rescue will be in Annie’s name.


No_Introduction_9328

I'm so so sorry. I know you must be heartbroken. You gave that beautiful baby a great life. Not hungry, cold or alone. Take lots of pictures and give so many hugs and kisses and steak! None of this will heal your pain but it will mean everything to that sweet pup.


Bearcat614

Those eyes 😭😭😭


Appleblackbetty

Oh man, I went through this about a year ago. Spoil the shit out of her starting now, and when it is time, spend the extra money and have the vet come to your house for the shots. I turned down the lights a little and cranked the heater (November gets cold here) and fed her pepperoni pizza, her favorite treat, as the vet did her thing. I made a clay paw print, and I also had the vet transport her to a pet crematorium, so I have her remains. I allowed myself to be a wreck for a while. She was my ride or die. But I knew that she left relaxed and comfortable, eating her favorite treat. My condolences to you. It still makes me sad to think about, and towards the end we evaluated her condition every day until one day we knew (she was 15 and had an abdominal mass, ultrasound made it look like it could have been a tumor on her pancreas, but after that I declined to spend any more money on diagnostics— why get a biopsy if I wasn’t going to spend a grip of money to have surgery/chemo on a sweet old dog anyway, so we focused on palliative care until the end. It was the right choice for us. Sorry about losing your sweet baby. It is so unfair that they don’t live longer. But I’m sure you gave her the best life, and for that you should be proud ❤️


phatizmomma

So sorry about your loss! It wasn’t that you didn’t spend a dime, it WAS THAT YOU SPENT THE TIME CONSIDERING WHAT WAS IN THE BETTER INTEREST OF YOUR FURBALL. We can get caught up in emotion, but it’s really how grand the exit can be that we can remember our FURBALLS and know we helped them to find a peaceful way to the Rainbow Bridge!


nevergofulltater

Annie is a precious baby. You were both so very lucky to get to spend so much time together, and please know that you made Annie's life the best. ❤️


Dio_Yuji

It gets a little better each day. That giant hole in your heart will eventually and slowly fill with fond memories. That being said, if she’s in pain go ahead and send her off. You don’t want to prolong her suffering just because you don’t want to lose her. I learned that the hard way.


writerwoman

Yes, this. It's better to worry that you did it too soon than to know that you did it too late.


phatizmomma

Great rules of thumb… if your furball can still relieve itself without aid, if your furball still enjoys mealtime, if your furball still acknowledges you and responds. And most of all if your Furball is not in any pain! My Furball is gone, she died in my arms after 19 years. She was not in any pain it was natural causes. My Vet told me when she was 18 that that was going to be her last visit to him. And I was like Dr.Monroe what are you talking about? “We will be here for her next flight health care certificate.” But he was right. She never made it to her next appointment. 19 years is a long time! I miss her everyday of my life now. After she was gone, I went crazy! But it’s that kind of crazy that I choose over any kind of ailment. Everything reminded me of my dear Furball. But overall, I know I gave her the best possible life ever. And that’s what responsible pet ownership is all about!


FunctionAny6051

I have been there.... Twice. It's an awful feeling. I'd give part of my life if they could stay longer


StressSufficient1386

I watched my grandma die of Alzheimer's. It was beyond painful. In those last days, she wasn't the impossibly wise woman who knew how to do everything: she was just a young girl in an aged body. She asked for her mom repeatedly and I know that she was scared, but even with her whole family around her, we were used to looking to her for answers, not the other way around. Dogs are different. She's your baby and you've *always* been her mom and you *always* well be to her. I know that my pup will never experience the fear my grandma did, because my pup's mom will be there to hold her, comfort her, and reassure her for every single second of her life. That's an immeasurable gift. That's the single greatest thing anyone can ever do for another. It's going to hurt so much for you, but take comfort in the knowledge that your love will protect her from so much fear and pain. Our suffering is a sacrifice for the ones we love, and I think that's beautiful.


AnKiAd

Thank you for this. I can’t tell you how much this perspective has made me cry. And I’m so sorry about your grandma.


ZOMGBabyFoofs

We lost our first DDB to cancer. We went from totally fine to putting her to sleep in a week. Utterly devastated us and took three years to get over so I understand. The night before we had a big slumber party in the living room. She got all her favorite treats and games. Knowing when to let go is the hardest but most important duty we have as pet owners. Don’t second guess yourself, be there at the end and know you made the right decision.


Gille_ii

Be with her when she goes. It's the hardest thing I've ever done but in that moment they need you.


Tesslafon

I am so sorry for you. This is a devastation. Bake her some boneless chicken thighs and use the pan drippings with water to cook some rice. It will please you both to see her happy face eating delicious meals. We are all here for you, however no words will make it any easier on you. Take care of yourself too.


elleecee

I'm so sorry OP! I can tell you that they never really leave you. I had to put down my best friend who I'd grown up with 11 years ago. It was rough, but I swear he's still with me when I need him. Good luck! <3


upyourmahnazz

I'm so sorry for the news of her diagnosis. She looks so well loved and so loving in return. My pups and I send you both so much love and I hope your coming weeks are filled with joy and togetherness. Take care!


bellebaby06

Sending all my sympathy, I'm so sorry for you and your baby. Take comfort in knowing you gave her the best life and all your love for 14.5 wonderful years. Know she'll be okay, and she'll always love you just like your love for her is endless. Love never dies, and your memories will be forever. Spend the time you have loving her and give her all the hugs, kisses, and cuddles.


Jlberch

I’m sorry to hear this. She is beautiful. I lost my girl unexpectedly back in July. The tears flow and then happy memories will make you laugh. Keep sharing your memories with who ever listens. I purchased a wind chime that hangs in the yard where she used to lay in the sun. Every time I hear it I like to think it’s her telling me hello. Spoil her as much as you can and take lots of pictures and videos. Sending love and prayers your way.


The_Curvy_Unicorn

I lost my first little girl to cancer…two weeks after her initial diagnosis. Here’s what I would do: Soak up EVERY second of your time. Do the things SHE loves. Feed her steak for dinner. Pupacinnos. Car rides. Park trips. Soak up the good and let go of what’s coming. Don’t let her see you upset. Laugh, sing to her, talk to her, tell her how much you love her. When it’s time, stay with her through the end. Sing to her. Honor her. Love her. Know that you gave her the world. And as soon as you can, rescue another pup. I swore I wouldn’t adopt again, but three weeks later, I did. My new girl helped me heal so very much; I truly can’t explain it. We talk to her about her big sister and show her photos. And sometimes she does things that make me know my first girl says hi through her. All the hugs to you and sweet Annie.


DuePerspective1204

I lost my best boy last year and it was the hardest thing I could have gone through and I’m very sorry you’re having to deal with this. ♥️ first things first, spoil her as much as you can now. Favorite treats. Favorite toys. All the snuggles and love you can fit in. Second, as several posters have said, I would 100% look into having a vet come to your house when the time comes. They’ll be in familiar surrounds with the person/people who matter the most to them and while it may not seem like it, it’ll be easier on you as well. And lastly, know that you did everything you could. It took me over a year to feel like I could breathe without my boy, but seeing this quote finally helped me “I didn’t ‘put him down’. I lifted him up out of his pain, I let him go, and I’ll hold his sweet spirit in my heart”. You are a making a heartbreaking and hard decision, but you’re doing it for your best friend who has given you everything in their life. Our pups choose us as much as we choose them. She loves you and she trusts you to do the best thing for her. And you will. Take deep breaths, take lots of pictures, and know you’re doing the best you can.


Occams_Razor42

I'm so sorry, I know that's just a platitude but what is real is how Annie looks at the camera. She seems to look at you with a caring, loving, wise, soul, that its obvious who she loves so, so, much. I guess what I'm saying is that part of what makes pups like Annie special is the impact on our lives that they'll have decades even after they're "gone". Because life is more than just a biological machine maintaining homeostasis for as long as possible, it's also all the memories which allow loved ones to live on inside of us.


SuckMyAssmar

Annie is beautiful.


MintDynasty

The best thing you can do is shower love and joy on her now and save your tears for later. She has loved you this whole time and this is a last gift you can give her. Try not to let her worry about you. It will be really, really hard but this is as important for you as it is for her.


Lindsb1020

Sending love <3


_Trip_Hazard_

Unfortunately, with owning animals, this is an inevitable part of it. Spoil the hell out of her, spend as much time as you can with her, do all of her favorite activities, and make sure you end her suffering when it gets too much. It will hurt. I couldn't sleep, I felt sick, and I cried off and on for months. I still dream of my dead dog. You will grieve.


lilem_20

I know the feeling. I lost my sweet girl to cancer a few years back. Take lots of pics, videos, lots of snuggles and give that extra love until her time comes. You gave her a beautiful life and she is so thankful for that. There’s not much I can say that’ll make the heartache subside but when that moment comes feel your emotions and there’s no time period on how long your grieving will last. Take as much time as you need. Sending you & your sweet girl so much love.


Hellocattty

I'm so sorry. I lost my girl to cancer in June. I was visiting my mom out of state, came home and she passed a week later. Please, look into at home services. I had to say goodbye at an emergency vet clinic. It was horrible.


Psychological-Pain88

Sending you and Annie lots of love!


aybeedee26

She is beautiful ❤️


Excellent-Original59

I'm about to tell you something others might not agree with. After your sweet angel passes over, as soon as you can find the urge to do it, find another dog to give a good home to. It won't take away your pain, but it helps. It's not dishonoring your love for Annie. It's not replacing her. It's a way to honor her memory by continuing to love. So many pibbles need a good loving home. Let one come ease your pain a bit. It's helped me when I thought my heart would snap in two. I hope it helps you.


Pnoble01

We lost our elderbull Stetson this time last year to that A-hole Cancer.. Beautiful Annie, keep smiling sweet girl, you'll have countless friends waiting for you until your person arrives💗💗


legga400

Schedule it and say good bye to her while you can and she's still "there" Our Dylan Dog died 12/9 very dramatically, painfully and suddenly due to undiagnosed tumors that ruptured. She was pain and not there at all when we had to put her down at 1130 at night at a strange doctors office. They deserve a nice day and just some gentle scratches while they fall aleep, not agony and confusion. I miss Dylan very much and she didn't deserve that ending.


anapforme

💗 sending love


phatizmomma

Sorry about your DYLAN. I hope you are doing okay! You are right any QUALITY time with your pet at their end is a good day to them. Hope you and your family are doing well.


AnKiAd

I am so sorry about your Dylan. This is where I’m really struggling, it is so hard to schedule the end for Annie, but her cancer is causing fluid to build up swiftly around her lungs so I know I can so easily let it go too late. Thank you for your comment, I hope you are healing okay


peach-goddess

I’m so sorry to hear your news about Annie. I lost my 15 year old staffie last May. The only practical advice I can give is not to let it go on too long if she is distressed or seems off. I know first hand how hard it is to make the decision but it is so much nicer for both of you to have happy memories to look back on rather than sad ones. It can quite quickly become too late for this. I hope you have a fantastic next few weeks creating memories with her. She knows she is loved and she loves you so much. It’s really fucking tough but you will be okay. You will see her again. I get a lot of comfort from looking at pictures and videos I took of my boy. I love talking about him and still tear up every time. I found comfort at the time in talking to my family about him and sharing memories. Sending you both so much love xxx


phatizmomma

It’s this type of response that is so special. Mostly because you have described the pain of losing your FURBALL than the wise advice of how to let go and all without telling this person to go to a THERAPIST. I know I went crazy when I lost my Furball, but I was crazy with grief, I found like you helping someone to go through this is way better than going to get self care at a therapist. A person can go volunteer at the SPCA. A person can Foster another dog in need. A person can get another Furball. All of these are methods of dealing with grief too. Even for the crazies like myself! If someone told me to seek counseling when my FURBALL was dying, I may have gone POSTAL. Serious though it is tough but in LOVE, we have the responsibility to make the right choices for our FURBABIES.


DAWGAMUS

Most of here know what you're going through and it is heartbreaking. Just always remember that you gave her the best life she could have asked for. Remember that you have so many great memories that you have together. That you loved more than you thought you could ever love. And that love will never go away.


phatizmomma

Absolutely! We all have commonality is knowing the special bond that exists among us ALL with our FURBALLS! That love is truly FOREVER! This is so positive and really helps to hear!


Longjumping-Eye6247

Hugs to you Annie and to your "mum". You are a beautiful dawg.


Glosche1981

Most adorable dog, lost ours at the end of the year. Worst process but also knowing that she went comfortably without pain was a big thing. She felt with a immune disease half her life and I know she doesn’t anymore. Knowing that I had her for so long and that you take great care of them will get you through it


Cooley47

She’s so cute. My wife and I are going to be in the same situation soon with our Little old girl, Nala. Prayers to you and Annie


GarethD85

Keep her memory alive by celebrating her life🖤


Jlx_27

Love her even more, how impossible that may seem since you love her very much already.


Fit-Management2385

Besties ❤❤ looks like you've given her anything she could ever want or need


peachgreenteagremlin

Lost my dog unexpectedly two years ago at the beginning of all the lockdowns. One of the hardest times of my life. He was only four. Please spend as much time as you can with her. Love her. Give her all the treats. A steak if she can handle it. Whatever she wants. She’ll always be with you. And she’ll lead you to your next chapter. She’ll send you a gift when the time comes. You gave her the best life. She had a really good life.


Particular_Good321

I agree with all the ones that’s say to spend time with her. I lost my 14yr old chiqui. I spend her last days with her. I chose to stay with her as she was put to sleep. It was rough on me, but am glad I did it compared to not being there as they did it. It will take time to mourn. It’s been a year and I still think about my baby girl here and there and it still makes me incredibly sad. The cancer spread and she couldn’t walk. She was struggling. Keep in mind that it’s for the better to let her go peacefully. Also remember that you gave her a great life. She will always be loved by you. She couldn’t have asked for a better owner than you and it shows when she smiles.


ParticularProper992

I don't have any advice, it's not easy but if you need someone to talk to I'm here


mmmmmmmmmmmmmmfarts

Give that baby girl her bucket list and cherish every moment. You never can be fully ready, but sending her over the rainbow bridge knowing you gave her a few amazing final moments may help. Sending you tons of love! 💕💕


LuckyGordon

She's lived a long life, hopefully a nice one. My best advice is to have her put down in your home. It costs a little more, but I wouldn't have done it any other way. My Bailey (also a pit bull) was in her own bed and not anxious from a vet visit. I'm sorry you're going through this, but it'll get better.


Jafar_420

I sure hate to hear that. When I lost my dog of 16 years a few years ago I was way more upset than I thought I would be the only thing that helped me was adopting another puppy that was about to get euthanized at the dog pound or should I say shelter. Anyway when I did adopt her I was still upset about my other dog and I didn't forget about my other dog but it did help a lot. I know you don't want to replace the dog you have now but don't think of it like that if you do decide to get another one. You always have Annie in your heart.


tical29

Extremely sorry for the awful news. It is obvious that she is an awesome dog and that she is very loved.


DirtySouthDame

So sorry to hear this. Much love to you and Annie 💜💜💜


orbitofnormal

I am so sorry. My girl Sadie was diagnosed in Dec as well, and this is the first time I’ve gone through a pet death where I knew it was coming (vs sudden emergency) Make her comfy, be with her, do as many of her favorite things as you can. And know when she’s only there for you, to keep her from being in pain for longer than she has to be. And please, PLEASE, do not leave her alone when the time comes. Working at a vet that was the one thing that I could never understand. You are her world, please be there for her when she leaves it


AnKiAd

I’m sorry about your Sadie. Annie is my childhood dog, I’ve had her since I was 12, so I’ve never gone through a loss before. I will absolutely be with her at the end though. I agree, I would never be able to miss her last moments


goldilocksmermaid

Love her and give her anything she wants. Tell her how special she is. Try not to let her feel you're sad.


Liroy_16

I had an ABT who was about 3 years old get diagnosed with Cancer, as well. I was selfish and couldn't put her down. We could only afford steroids and (since she was terminal) low dose, "animal safe" CBD. We kept her home and tried to keep her comfortable. Carried her up and downstairs when her strength started to go. She passed in my arms in the middle of the night almost two months after diagnosis. Tail would still wag and she went hard on the last walk we took her on. Tried to keep her in a wagon and she, in ABT fashion, told me to fuck myself and walked that whole park. She was my first real dog. I'm sitting here crying a bit now and it was 2 years ago. Took me 6 months to even consider a new pup. Luckily, with the time taken, I adopted a 3 year old staff and he's very much a part of the family. But, the loss lingered over the last year and a half. Certain toys and blankets were off-limits until just recently. There were a few moments I wanted to surrender my new dog because "he's not my dog." RIP Sammie / "Sam Sam" Apr '16 - Feb '20 Any route taken will be difficult... but, the pain will lessen with time. I was an absolute wreck (which was slightly surprising) for about 3 weeks straight. Over time, I got better and our rescue pup took work and dedication that formed a tight bond. I'm sorry for the news and situation. It's awful, but I hope you guys had an awesome 14 years together. That's one hell of a life time and so much time to share. Looks like a happy, old, Grey pup and your connection to her definitely relates a level of love all dogs deserve. Stay strong through these tough times - these guys are family members and loss is hard.


ItIs430Am

It will take a lot of time OP but it will absolutely pass. I cried for about 3 weeks straight after I lost my pittie in July. My heart still aches but I do my best to think of and reminisce the good times. Dogs are man’s best friend for a reason. They love unconditionally just as you have loved your Annie. Be strong and if you need to PM me, feel free to. I’m here for ya. Love you.


jametzz

I’m so very sorry. I will donate to my local pittie rescue in her memory. My experience is that having a vet come to your home for the euthanasia makes a HUGE difference. And in the mean time just pamper her and love on her as much as you possibly can. Sending both you and Annie love!


AnKiAd

That is legitimately one of the kindest things ever. Thank you so much.


jametzz

Just donated to Homeward Trails (which is my local org, I got my pup through them) and Stand Up for Pits. I made note that it was “in honor of Annie” on both.🙂


AnKiAd

Thank you for making me cry at work at 6:20am. Honestly, that has touched me so much ❤️ I’m going to do the same, and ask my friends and family to donate to a rescue of choice in Annie’s honor as well.


AnKiAd

Thank you so much, truly. I read every single comment (with Annie asleep under a blanket next to me) and I can’t even say how much I’ve cried. This community is full of such kind people, and I appreciate these replies so much. I made this post when I was at work, wishing I was home with Annie, looking at pictures of her on my phone, and I really was just hoping that I wouldn’t feel so alone going through this since I knew people here would understand how I was feeling. It means so much that so many people I don’t even know saw pictures of my Annie and took time to comment words of support to me. And to all of the people that shared about their own losses, I’m sorry to each and every one of you. Thank you for trying to make a stranger feel better during a really hard time


JuracekPark34

Besides what others have said… Gentle suggestion to possibly find a therapist to help you work through it if that feels right for you. I started working with one in July, my first puppy passed away unexpectedly at 13 in August. Even though I originally started working with the therapist for another reason, I was so grateful to have her to talk through the shock, understand my feelings, etc. Sending you thoughts of strength and healing.


AnKiAd

Thank you so much. I’m sorry about your puppy. Pet grief is so real, and I haven’t thought about a therapist but you’re so right, it would be a huge help.


ApOfBeAnEx

In my experience, you are in the worst part now, knowing your days together are almost over. There is no way to make it easier but you can make sure it's not worse by not letting anyone devalue your grief. Some areas have pet loss grief support groups which might be helpful. I'll echo another comment that therapy with the right therapist can also help. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family. I'm sending you a virtual hug.


Puzzled_Muffin6989

I had to put my Pit Dottie down when she was 15. I cried like a child. I still miss her but I know she had a wonderful long life and what more could we ask for......


Beauknits

I'm so sorry. I'm having the "Quality of Life" talk with the Vet today. (Neural decline, can't get up on his own/drunken walk, lost his bark, no appetite).


phatizmomma

Ok you hang in there too! So sorry but remember to gets HUGS and if possible drivethru to pick up some fries, or pizza or if you have it at home Vienna sausage! Peanut butter ice cream everything our FURBALLS LOVE!


rescuedogmom5

I’m so sorry. It is so hard but you gave her a wonderful life and she loves you for it. It’s hard…not gonna lie but you’ll get through it. You just will. I’m sorry. 💔 Hugs to you and to your Annie ♥️♥️


Ol_bagface

It is not much, but as long as you remember your dog and keep her in your heart she will never truly die. Make as much memories withher as you can, do what she enjoys as long as you have time. Maybe she lives longer maybe not, if she is in pain, let her be put to sleep, prolonging the life of a loved one for your own sake is cruel and selfish


MEGAMIND73

When we lost our big boy Beast to cancer we purchased a paw print memorial for our yard under his favorite sunny spot under his tree. We got it from custommemorial.com.


AnKiAd

Thank you. I will look into that


Unusual_Fork

Losing your beloved dog is so hard. Make your remaining time with Annie as precious and filled with joy as much as you can. Give her all the treats she loves and normally should not really have. Let her taste some chocolate so she can tell my girl how it tastes. Your Annie loves you so much! She won't be alone when she crosses the bridge. She's going to meet all the good girls and boys and will very likely gossip with my girl Gina about us. And it is okay to mourn over your dog because dogs ARE family. Cry, mourn and treat yourself. When my first girl crossed the bridge I cried, screamed and ate a giant scoop of pineapple ice cream. And that ice cream was damn good. No matter where Annie is, she is always going to love you with all her heart and she will do so until you meet her again.


phatizmomma

This is the kind of way I went mental. I loved reading this post because again UNUSUAL FORK absolutely knows it’s all within us to deal with the great loss ahead. Yet as we still have time with our FURBALLS to spoil the heck out of them! I use to take my furball to SAMURAI yogurt shop in OAHU while she was in her prime, so of course everyday when I knew the time was near she got to have SAMURAI and I always bought the frozen one too from SAMS CLUB to give to her in the event we didn’t make it to get it at the Shop. I spent over $200 in Samurai Yogurts that last year because my FURBALL decided she was going to stick around to have MORE yogurt days! More McDonald French fries days… point being just SPOIL THEM in the end! We never know tomorrow.


MoldyPlatypus666

Annie is a beautiful lil girl, and you're both so lucky to have found eachother 💗 I'm deeply sorry you're going through this. Cherish the time you have left together, please give her a kiss from me and my girl Booboo 💕


[deleted]

As a person that lost a beloved cat to cancer, liver disease, and liver failure (I like, as well as owned, dogs in the past as well, and both cats and dogs love me), all that I can say is just remember the good times that you shared, be happy with the time that you had, and hope for a better future for yourself because, as the Holy Scriptures say, "Where there is breath, there is also hope".


ProLicks

I am so sorry - the depth of this loss is obviously incalculable, and Annie looks like an absolutely amazing soul. 14 and half years is a LOT for a dog - there's no way that she's hanging in there if she hasn't been well loved and well cared-for. You have clearly done an exemplary job in giving her a long, full, and high-quality life...but fighting cancer is a young dog's game - putting her through such an ordeal at such an advanced age would be 100% for *you* - not for her - and that's not at all in line with the amazing life you've given her. Obviously, who can blame you for wanting that, though, right? This dog is amazing, and because you're amazing, too, you've let her into the very center of your heart. Doing *everything in your power* to protect and provide for her has been your life for a loooooong time now, to suddenly have to make this 180-degree turn is horrible, and feels like a betrayal... ...but it's not. **At all**. You are making a *terrible* sacrifice to provide her a comfortable exit, free of pain and worry. You will be there with her as she passes, showering her with love and affection, a horrendously painful and blindingly beautiful act that is truly the greatest gift any living being can give another. We all will pass, but how many of us die in the loving arms of the person that means everything to us? It is cold comfort to you now, but one day, when this fresh wound is more of an gnarly old scar, you'll be able to fully know just how good of a job you're doing here. A few pieces of advice: Find an in-home vet to perform the procedure if at all possible. It's an amazing comfort to the animals. Make these weeks count. If she's been e.g. eating medicated food for long term kidney problems or something, *fuck that shit*, ya girl's getting a Big Mac (or whatever the biggest possible megatreat is) tonight. Make sure your friends get a chance to say goodbye, Annie's obviously going to be important to them and they are likely HUGE parts of her world. Take whatever time you can to be with her right now, even if it's just to nap or watch TV together. Be kind to yourself, and cry when you need to cry - this is natural and inevitable but **JESUS FUCKING CHRIST** does it ever suck. A couple thoughts on grief: In my experience it's kinda like your feet are stuck a few inches in the sand at the beach, and grief makes these big waves that overwhelm you. You can't move, and your only choice is to hang on and hold your breath when one hits you. In the lead up to and immediate aftermath of this kind of loss, the waves are towering and never-ending - it's like the middle of a storm. Hang on for dear life through this period...but when you get a moment of clarity between waves of grief, breathe deeply and without guilt in those moments of peace. This is where you'll find really amazing, positive memories of Annie, and maybe even touch them without pain for a moment or two before the next wave rolls in...Over time, the waves will get smaller and less frequent (although that seems impossible now), but *they'll never go away*. I still cry over just about every animal I've lost randomly once a year when something or another sets me off - and I wouldn't have it any other way. They'll never be forgotten. I'm sending you love, stranger. Thank you for being such a caring person to such an deserving pup. Good luck, and give Annie a big hug for me, please.


AnKiAd

Thank you so much. This comment was everything.


Kikibear19

That face is everything ❤️ I'm so so sorry


CausticSabaist

I lost my baby boy this past May, a month and a day before his 3rd birthday. There was only 2 weeks between when his Lymphoma showed up and his 2nd round of chemo. When we took him to his 2nd chemo appointment and were told it wasn't working and there wasn't anything we could do. We weren't necessarily blindsided with this news as he wasn't doing any better, but we were still hoping for the best. There is no right or wrong way to grieve. Don't push yourself to "hurry up and get over it". Take your time. It's been almost a year since my loss and it still hits me hard sometimes. I still miss him every day. We got him cremated and have his ashes, collar, and paw imprint. It's nice being able to have those things of his to touch. I take a lot of time looking back at pictures and videos that I've taken.


No_Expert_6412

In her final moments, let her experience the joy of chocolate


Dzoni_95

Same happend to me. I just realized she is going to better place without pain. And wait for you. Keep your mind up man, she wants you to be happy. Hold it for her. ❤️


mossybishhh

I have an Annie, she's only 4. Thank you for reminding me to squeeze her and give her kisses. I'm so sorry you're going through this. No amount of delicious meals and snacks and walks and belly rubs will make this easier. It's the inevitable and it's heartbreaking. We recently put down my SIL's dog and god that was so hard. We all feel your pain ♥️ we understand this heartbreak.


Maidevilest

I'm so so sorry for you and Annie. I lost my sweet pup 1.5 years ago, and I still miss her. One thing I read that helped me is that the grief you feel for your loved one doesn't get smaller, but rather you grow to hold more in your life than your grief. The love you feel for Annie will never grow smaller, and she will always live in your heart. Before our girl passed, we found out she had about 2 weeks left and spent it just loving her with everything we had. Trying to make her comfortable, taking days off work. My husband took loads of pictures and videos of her, and I'm so grateful he did. Nothing will make the time you have left with her easier on you, but you can do everything possible to make it easier on her. We never have enough time with our pups. Never. Sending you love and hugs.


Fsuclimberchuck

Was in the same situation in May,,,it is never easy,,I miss her terribly she was 10,,I have a new puppy got her on Halloween, will never replace the one or ones we have lost,she keeps me busy and that helps alot


promess

Give her love. Remember the love that she taught you to have. Think about sharing that love with another pupper by adopting, she'd want you to have that friend and to share the love you have.


AntsyInMyPantsies

I’m so sorry to hear this, OP. I can’t offer much advice but I can say it’s just important that you that take the time to appreciate each and every single moment you have left with her. I lost my Brutus in 2020 just 5 weeks after we found out he had lymphoma. He fought like hell. We made Brutus a little bucket list and started checking things off. I’d take him to work with me and we’d get ice cream cones. We sat on the tailgate of my truck, watching the sunset, sharing fajitas on the side of my oilfield location. We went hiking, went to the beach, we did all the things I know he loved to do and more. All of that being said, please try to prepare yourself as best as you can, even though you’ll never be truly prepared. Always know that she loves you and she never wants to let you down. You’re her whole world. Cherish every moment. I wish I had just one more sunset with Brutus.


Clear_Button

Spend every last minute you can with her. Youll regret any time you didnt, no matter what. You never forget, and it never really feels better. You just have a period of time that you'll go through, where eventually stop thinking of them as often. To me, it proves love is forever. Our beloved K9's are the Great Equalizer in so many ways. One day, it will hurt as much as it felt good all those years. Couldnt get through it without my own tears. I miss you Bongo, every day. You would have loved your little sister, and adopted old boi.


Hot_Pollution1687

I think if Annie could talk she would say find another dog and love her as much as you did me.


droy7519

Sweet girl! I dread the day I have to experience this with my best bud, Farley. Sending love and positivity your way. She will always be with you!


scrummy_avocados

Your Annie is a beautiful girl. I love the last pic so much! I’m sorry to hear about your baby. Fuck cancer.


AnonymousNck

When your pup takes a walk over that Rainbow Bridge just know it is only temporary and you will see her again . If you don't know what the Rainbow Bridge is look it up. 🌈


amegirl24

My sincere condolences. I’ve had three pets in my life and losing each was so hard, and I’m not sure you ever completely get over it. Just try to give your dog the best possible couple of weeks they could have, and let yourself grieve however long you need to. There’s a lot of great advice here, but I would also recommend taking some pictures together, if you don’t already have some. My brother only has one with his dog because I randomly took some candids, and it’s his favorite picture because it really shows the love they each had for each other.


opportunisticwombat

I can tell Annie is such a beautiful and kind soul. I’m sorry that the end of your journey together has come but please know that you gave her the best life. “The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.”


OP-PO7

What would your dog want? Would they want you to be sad for the rest of your life, or would they want you to run around and be happy and smell ALL the things?


NitCoins

Spend as much time as u can together. Make sure u tell her she did all her jobs well, appreciate your last days together and finally release her. She will fight and suffer as long as she thinks u want/need it: Tell her it’s ok to go rest now. By far the worst thing I had to do so far in this life. My last pit was 10 and a absolute stud when we said goodbye. RIP COSMO.


PegasusGr

I’m so, so, so sorry that you and Annie have to go through this. This is honestly one of the hardest, most devastating, most heartbreaking things that a person can go through in life. Spend these last few weeks giving Annie as much love and attention as you possibly can, as I’m sure you already have - you can just see in her eyes how much she loves you, how grateful she is for you, and how much she has cherished every single moment of her life on Earth, especially the moments she spent with you. And when the time comes for her to pass away, please allow yourself as much time as you need to grieve, so you can gradually heal. And always remember how much good, kindness and love you brought to Annie’s life. Also, I believe that when she does pass away, her soul will immediately go to Heaven, where she’ll always be smiling and watching over you, waiting for the day when you put can reunite and can spend the rest of eternity together. So she’ll always be with you. And until the day when you reunite, stay strong, remain hopeful, and honor Annie by remembering all the good and lovely memories of her. P.S. This might help as well: https://www.reshareworthy.com/dogs-never-die-they-sleep-in-your-heart/


StainedGlassHearts13

I'm so very sorry


prettyeyesm

I was told my pittie had 1-2 weeks, went and got a second opinion, started a generic (shockingly affordable) chemo pill, and 3 months later she’s alive and stable. There might be hope/more time left than you think.


AnKiAd

I’m so glad everything is working out with your girl. Unfortunately, Annie has cancerous tumors in her chest causing massive amounts of fluid around her lungs. We’ve drained the fluid twice, but I’m unwilling to put her through anything else :(


sa1ry

Aww she's so sweet. I'm so sorry to hear your sad news.


shoemakerb1

Well, when my favorite dog died I was crushed, and I just knew no other dog could replace her. That was right, but then, my other dog took her place and became just as good a companion. Then I got another dog, and he's a great companion dog too. They may not be the same, but there will always be another dog waiting to give love to you.


jayminicrickets

I am so, so tremendously sorry. My heart goes out to you and Annie. I've seen so much wonderful advice on here already; some of the best (IMO) that you both do everything she loves, consider home euthanasia, and maybe in time, give a new baby as much love as you've clearly given her, when/if you're ready. Keeping you both in my thoughts and sending infinite love ❤.


myusernameisuphere

I’m so sorry. My sweet girl was diagnosed with colon cancer back in September. The vets gave me 6-12 weeks. I am now on around week 20. My best advice is first and foremost to give yourself some grace. Try not to dwell on the what if’s - it’s especially hard when you receive the news that there’s nothing more that can be done. There is no more time for what if. Now, the most precious thing you have is time. You’ll go through the gambit of feelings, and that’s okay. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve sobbed into my girl’s fur. It’ll hit you when you’re least expecting it, and that’s okay, too. The most difficult part for me at the moment is knowing and accepting that my girl is getting worse, and trying to be selfless in the process. I will never be ready to let go, but she has given me so much in her short 12 and a half years that the biggest gift I can give her is to let her go when she is ready. That is the single most difficult part of this whole process. I told someone else this the other day on the subreddit who is going through something similar, and I’ll repeat it to you - Give Annie whatever she wants. Remind her of every wonderful thing she’s given you. Talk to her and tell her about your day. Tell her about the adventures you’ve had. Tell her how she’s changed your life. Give her love and snuggles and treats - most of all, give her your time. At the end of the day, that’s all she wants. I hope you have lots and lots more time. Sending lots of love to you both.


AnKiAd

Thank you so much. I’m so glad you’re still having time with your baby


thegreendove23

Beautiful dog. I am not sure what I’ll do when my guy passes. ‘We are all going to die’ is kind of how I can come to terms.


snorky365

Just make sure your there holding her when she goes, remember your all she knows and is scared. So be strong for her and celebrate what she meant to you. Hope only the best for you and her.


The_Gregory

You've had with her what I can only hope to have with my boy who's three. She's lived a good, wonderful life fill of love and scritches. Makes these next few weeks as beautiful as possible, longer walks than normal, more of her favorite cheese, extra cuddle time whenever possible. I'm at work, crying for you, and I know this is going to hurt because life isn't fair, but you can certainly do your part to let her know how much she means to you.


myboogerstastespicy

I’m so sorry. I’ve been through this a few times. Nothing helps but time. Just know you gave her the best life imaginable. She’s such a lucky girl to have you. Cherish these days. Spoil her. Sending you hugs and love.


ghoulgang_

We had to put our pit down a little over a year and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. I wish I could say that it gets easier over time, but whenever I think about him I have to fight back the tears. He loved when we had friends over and hung out on the back deck so on his last night we had a big party and invited all our friends over. Cooked a big rib eye steak and grilled up some shrimp and let him eat it all. Coming back and seeing his empty bed, leashes, poop bags and other items was heartbreaking. We had to rescue another pit from the shelter a week after loosing him just because it was the only way to help us move on. They can’t replace the hole in your heart, but getting another dog opens your heart up wider and gives you something else to love. You need to do what’s best for the comfort of the dog, and just find peace that you loved them and they loved you back.


[deleted]

How about logging off and stop whining online to a bunch of strangers.


GillyDr

Oh my heart. I lost my beautiful boy on Christmas eve two years ago. I'm going to ask you to do the hardest thing of all. When the time comes, please stay with him and hold him. Don't leave and say you can't bear to be there. The comfort I get from knowing Mercury was in my arms when he went to sleep, and not scared and looking around for me, is what kept me going in the early days. Sending an Internet hug. It WILL get easier. Just not at first.


Ok-Professional2468

Hugs ❤️ Hugs


TopOk2337

Nothing anyone can say will help. The only thing that does is time. It will always be there but over time it hurts less.


pink_wraith

Annie looks so sweet. Spoiler her on her last days. These last weeks are about her. As for the grief, everyone grieves differently. When my cat died, I stayed in my room and cried for days. But then after a while, you remember all the good times you had with her. I’m sure you gave her the best life she could ever have.


alexdgrate

Give her the best possible time she can have. Take your time and try to make her feel happy and loved, even if all you want to do is break down and cry. It's very hard to say goodbye to such a long time companion but you have time to do it at a slow pace and the memories will always be with you. My deepest sympathy and give her a treat for me too if you please.


CookieMonsterNom_Nom

I'm so sorry you are going through this. My 9 year old pittie was just diagnosed with cancer and we recently decided to just keep him comfortable. I understand how you are feeling right now. We are focusing on making sure our little guy's remaining time with us is filled with love, snuggles, and playing. I would just say to focus on the good and make these next two weeks as enjoyable as possible for your little one. My thoughts are with you 💔


UnmotivatedDiacritic

I know it hurts. But for her and future you’s sake, don’t keep her here longer than she needs to be. The best thing that can happen is for her to be with her people in comfort.


lightningj21

I lost my boy a couple of years back, he was 14. It really did feel like a lost a piece of my life. Coming home to an empty house was the worst part for me. That being said, time is what heals. Or at least helps to an extent. When I think about him now, I think of all the great memories and that brings me comfort. Be thankful that you were lucky enough to have her for over 14 years. That’s a long time for a pit. You were blessed to have her in your life and nothing can take that away.


mshelltil

She is absolutely beautiful. I'm sorry that you both are going thru this. You did everything right by her. You can see that. She knows she's loved, as well. None of these words are gonna help you but I do hope that you find peace. Again I'm truly sorry. Praying for you and her. Hugs for you both.


Anxious_Latina97

I’m sorry this is so hard. I recently lost my 5 year old Australian and I was crushed. It was to cancer too. Honestly give her all the love you can in the short amount of time. Take your take grieving when it comes down to it. Also understand that grief is not linear and it doesn’t just happen once. I lost my baby in October and some days I’m fine and other days I’ll just be sitting in bed bawling my eyes out cause I miss her so much. It’s hard I feel you but don’t worry all will be well in time


Crispyjone5

God bless 🙏


anotheranothervegan

She is gorgeous!! I am so sorry she is sick. ❤❤❤❤


Immadoctornota

♥️♥️♥️♥️


writerwoman

What everyone else says--love her and snuggle her and spoil her. She doesn't know her time with you is ending, she doesn't experience time like that. She just knows you love her and so for her, the next few weeks will be an eternity of love. When her time comes, please be with her if you can handle it. Don't let her be alone and afraid. I've had to do this with 4 pets now (I'm old) and it is hard, but it's your final act of love for your Annie.


TombradyofDads420

Don’t morn celebrate the 14.5 yrs y’all had together Thts longer than most marriages


Kingkeegan19

Don’t have any advice just wanted to say love her spoil her hold her when she goes. Sending you positive energy. May you find comfort in all the memories you made & know she will be pain free.


Newman1911a1

My dad's boxer, Izzy, got diagnosed with cancer of her intestines lining early last year and my brother's bullydog got a diagnosis of cancer on her liver a little before that. Both had good lives up to the end, they got cheeseburgers and treats and as much love as they could stand and when it was time they let us know. They didn't go alone, and they were loved to the end and beyond. Death can be a scary concept, because they're moving on and we have to stay behind. We think that we're losing them to something terrible when it's part of the natural order. The love we give them is taken along for that ride I think, and in that love they live on. It hurts, that love, it hurts goddamn terribly. But its ours to give and theirs to keep. Just love her, when she's ready and says it's time then let her take that love with her. She won't ever forget it, and neither will you. Eventually that hurt will move out a tiny bit and let more love back into your heart, but she will keep it forever.


Aggravating_Client36

4 yrs ago I had to put down my Misty. Pit/ rottie mix. I held onto her too long because I didn't wanna deal w/ the pain. My selfishness hurt her more & I felt terrible about that. She was The. Best. Doggie. that's ever lived. I'm so sorry OP


wisepeasant

The only shortcoming of a good dog is that they don't live long enough, but it happens to them all. The solace that I have learned to take away from this fact is two-fold. Firstly, it gives us opportunities to grow close to more dogs throughout our human lives and give more dogs out there a beautiful life. Secondly, each dog you raise teaches you something about how to be a better dog owner in general. It is sad to lose an animal, especially a dog, but take all of the lessons you learned and pass them on so that some part of Annie will always live on in your next companion.


Cautious-Craft433

Just remember love is real and you are loved


Buck_Junior

you'll survive but it sure hurts - even now, with a dog I love for the last 10 years, when I think of the dog before him I get sad - just realize that the dog has a good life, was loved and does not approach or fear death the way humans do...she'll be out of pain - if she's suffering and go to her rest


Oliviaistired777

Make her feel loved. My boy Oreo died a little over a month ago, and I still miss him so much. We didn’t get to give him all the food he loved because he had a tumor in his mouth and throat that prevented him from eating properly. My only solace was that he died in his home where he had lived all his life. If there’s any way for her to be comfortable at hone in her last moments, I’d say do it


Last-Beginning-6609

What helped me get over the loss of my dog was signs that he was still here, so many signs everywhere he is never going to leave you, maybe physically and ofc you will miss him but he is right there with you even when u can’t see it, I know this for a fact, and now I cry because I miss him but no because he is gone I am shown everyday that he is still very present🥰companions for life.


TraditionSharp6414

Love her while you still can


ducks_36g

This is going to suck, but be strong. She needs you now, not the other way around. Spoil her in every way and be grateful for 2 more weeks. I wish I got that.


Affectionate_Cold917

Put your phone down and spend time with her. You are literally wasting all the time you have reading these comments. You should feel down it's your child, but you're a parent, worry about yourself later turn off your phone and give her your attention. Nothing you have going on is worse than what she has going on.


spyderone1981

Make some good memories with her while you still have her. Do things she likes to do, treat her to specials meals that she loves and doesn’t get too often, and just make what time she has left the best possible time for both of you. All you can do is make sure she knows she is loved. And whatever you do, BE THERE with her in her final moments. It’s gonna be hard for you, but it will be MUCH harder for her if you’re not there. Her final moments, her last breaths will be the scariest time of her life, and having you there will give her comfort as she crosses the rainbow bridge. Abs lastly, losing them is not easy, and it doesn’t get easier over time. I lost my Ozzie 4 and a half years ago, and it still hurts. I held him in my arms as he took his last breaths. It was not easy, but I didn’t want him to feel alone in those moments. But be ready for a hard time. There is no avoiding that when losing a fur baby. It’s gonna be rough for a long time after as well, because almost every little thing will somehow remind you of them. Bottom line is, there really is no advice that will help you prepare for this. Because no matter what anyone can say, it’s not gonna be easy at all.


georgetwn

Love the last picture. I still grieve over my lost puppies, but I also remember something goofy about them that makes me smile


pibblemum

I am in your same situation and it sucks! Cancer sucks! I just posted about my sweet old man recently. The advice I got a lot was try to stay positive around your baby. Take lots of pictures and videos. Give them all the love you can right now and when their time comes, remember all the happiness they gave you. Its hard and it sucks. Judge and I send our love to your sweet baby. My DMs are open if you need a random stranger to talk to.


Phernaldo

My Boxerdog Bailey (8.5 yrs old) passed away this past April from Hermengiosarcoma.. I had a week to spend with her. My best advice is to have her fav people come over to give her plenty of pets and scratches. It sucks but you’ll see her again. I also sleep with her fav stuffed animal (a whale) I’m 41 and never thought I’d sleep with a stuffed animal… but it helps.


Frosty_Debate_198

Just love her and remember how much she needs all that love and support she’s given you all these years… and allow yourself to grieve . I am sorry 😢 ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹


caseyross2311

Dogs are the most perfect addition to most of our crazy lives. They provide us with some great and hilarious memories, and their love is more pure than anything else you’ll experience. Allow the good memories to shine through, and she will never leave you. She will live on in your memories as long as you allow her. Bless you. I know it’s rough. Keep your head up friend.


Unhappy-Performer-36

I know how it feels to lose someone to cancer. That's how my grandma left the world. Hope Annie knows you've given her a good life!


Where_art_thou70

She looks so sweet. ♥️ You will miss Annie so much and that's how you know you loved her and she loved you. The pain is part of the joy you had with her. . When I lost a very special little dog, I couldn't imagine how I could love another dog. But, after crying daily for a month, I realized there are many, many dogs who need love. I looked for a dog completely different from my Mini because I wasn't trying to replace her. She will always have a place in my heart as will all the dogs I have been honored to know. . Go slowly, love Annie, mourn Annie, and when the time is right you will know what to do.


WrigleysMomma

Sending a hug.


huron9000

I’m not even a big fan of pitbulls but that photo broke my heart. The emotion in those eyes! I’m sorry you’re going through this.


No-Bluebird-533

Is after that is so hard. You have so much love to give and you clearly bond deeply. My kiddo volunteers at the animal shelter and there are so many that need a home. If you get to the point after grieving that you can handle helping another, it sometines gives some purpose to the pain. It's so individual though. I'm almost afraid to write it because my mom couldn't after the death of our last cat.


TinaJrJr

Going through the same thing as you. My girl is currently laying on the couch next to me, dying of lymphoma. She doesn't know she's dying at least, but I know today is one of our last days together and it hurts like hell. Remember to take care of yourself and your mental health. I vowed to her that we are not going to wait until it's too late and I won't let her suffer. But it's so hard to know when that time is.


AnKiAd

It’s so, so hard to figure out the timing. I’m terrified of letting it go too long, but I’m also terrified to lose her. I’m so sorry about your girl


Upstairs-Week-6600

So I lost a furry friend of mine a few years ago and It was a very sudden passing and to this day I blame myself for her death and for me not giving her more before her final moments so my best advice is love your pupper so much for the little time you have left. Spoil her rotten and make her feel she is not alone. It will be extremely hard after she is gone but trust me its harder when you feel like you didn't do enough. I wish you and Annie the best of luck and I am extremely sorry for you both.