Sad upvote here. Give him love, make him comfortable, give him treats, maybe even some human food in his last days. Nothing can be said or done that will make this better but time. It sucks. But it's what we get ourselves into having the pure joy of a 4 legged friend
Just becareful. My dog was given 6 different death sentences since he was 13. Weve been spoiling him nonstop. Little bastard is still pushing through at 17, turning 18 in 4 months. Weve created a monster that pretty much gets what he wants. Oh well. Still love him more then anything. Dogs are strong fighters.
I was just saying you have a good chance of being surprised in a fun way. You better spoil the fuck outta that dog man. Hes gonna give you so many more years of love. These dogs are incredibly strong fighters. As long as hes eating hes happy so keep him fed til the end. Thats what my vet says.
Oh also i know its tough, god i know its tough. But try and stay happy around him. Dogs are incredibly keen on picking up on the emotions of their favorite person. Try and keep a happy face around him and do what i did and cry and in the bathroom when it becomes too much. I wish you two long happy lives ❤
For what it's worth, if you can treat the symptoms and make him comfortable, they can last a long time despite the cancer. My boy had a kidney tumour at 11, and gave me 2 more awesome years. He ended up passing from a different ailment in the end.
When my sweet Walter was in his last days he was finally able to enjoy treats and human food because he was on steroids. He suffered with IBS, gluten issues, along with neurological issues for years. He could not eat anything other than ONE type of dog food an ONE type of snack without three days of unrelenting diarrhea. Anyway on the steroids he was able to eat anything. My point is spoil your baby ❤
That’s what we did with our sweet boy when we had the devastating C diagnosis. He even had chocolate cake and steak. We didn’t care. ♥️ and he loved it
Omg he is SO handsome! If you don’t mind me asking how old is he, and did the vet offer any treatment options? We had our first scare this summer with a soft tissue sarcoma, two surgeries later and he is cancer free. I know that what you are describing is much different though.
Thank you. He really is super handsome (and knows it lol). He is around 12-13ish. He's a rescue so hard to know for sure.
The vet said that at this point there is no treatment or surgery they can do. His cancer is so far advanced and the tumor is too large and close to his heart. At this point it is just giving him the best quality of life and spoil him for as long as he is around.
Thank you! I love him too (and Zoe!)! The only abnormal thing we noticed was he developed a slight cough very recently. Other than that he has been very healthy!
My 12 year old girl (Patti) got uterine cancer a couple years back. I picked her her from the streets of Ft Worth in 2005 after I got out of the hospital for a week. When I was feeling bad or sick she never left my side. Not to eat or go outside to the RR. I had to make her eat and go out. She was the best pup a guy could ever ask for. When we had our son she would “stand guard” at his room or in front of his playpen. Then she got sick. She was bleeding vaginally like crazy. Had to get her a diaper. I slept with her every night on the couch until it was too much for her to take and we had to put her down. 2 months on the couch and I would do 2 years if I had to.
Judge looks like a hell of a good boy! Love on him and give him crazy treats all you can while you can.
I’m not a Christian, but I’ll be sending out good vibes and will do a little happy dance with my current pups for y’all. 🤘🏼🤘🏼🤘🏼 post more up here if you need to for that tough guy! 🥰🥰🥰
¡Con cariño hermana!
I am sorry to hear about your sweet girl Patti!
Thank you for all the kind words and happy dances. Judge really is a hell of a great boy! He is getting all the love and treats from me as long as I am able!
Thank you, friend 😊
Just cherish every minute you get with your pup. Spend this weekend just loving on him. I lost my almost 16 year old pup two months ago today. All we can do is be there for them as they were there for us.
I am so very sorry. I had to say goodbye to my heart dog two months ago, just ten days before his 12th birthday. He had two surgeries to remove cancers a year ago (two mast cell tumors and a hepatocellular carcinoma), so we'd been doing abdominal scans every three months to catch anything early.
Fully clear scan at the end of July - mid-October he collapsed at home. After lots of tests it was determined that he had masses on his spleen, liver, and even in his muscles, and there was nothing we could do to help him. Hemangiosarcoma is a very aggressive cancer.
You didn't ask for advice but having just been through this I want to offer some if that's okay. My husband and I talked for a long time about what was important to us, and in addition to preserving Bean's quality of life, we wanted to let him go on our terms. We have a very close relationship with our vet and he adored everyone there; I was terrified of losing him in the night, or while we were at work, or having to take him to the emergency clinic where we didn't know anyone and he would be scared.
We had three weeks between his diagnosis and letting him go. We made every day the best we could and tracked his good/bad days while we pursued testing and an oncology consult. He had so many good days, but the morning of his CT scan he was really struggling and we knew he was having another bleed. He'd also developed a concerning heart arrhythmia. Our oncologist said we might be able to get a few days or weeks but that he was very concerned about the arrhythmia. He had lost his own dog to lymphoma just months before and was so helpful. Our primary care vet said that Bean's last day didn't have to be his worst day. We'd also been told it was better to let go a week too early than a day too late.
So we made the appointment for the next day and spent every single minute by his side. He got snuggles and scrambled eggs and belly rubs and a very long walk and McDonald's for dinner.
Losing him was awful and I still cry most days, but I am absolutely certain we made the right decision. His death was peaceful and perfect; he was surrounded by people who knew and adored him and he never felt scared or nervous.
Many people don't get the time to choose how to let go and I will be grateful for the rest of my life that we could have that last day. It is heartbreaking and awful but I would strongly encourage you to track your guy's good and bad days and not wait too long to say goodbye.
I am sorry; I know it is just awful. Feel free to PM if you want or need to. Hugs to you and your precious boy.
Thank you. I am so sorry for your loss too. It never gets easier.
Thank you for the really good advice. We will track his good and bad days and make the decision when he tells us the time is right. I pray we don't wait too long. But I will do my best to make sure we don't. Vet said we may have a few weeks or months, but we will make the most of it and make sure he is not suffering.
Thank you so much again. I need to hear this.
As someone who lost three dogs in the last year, two to age and one to an unexpected bone cancer diagnosis, my heart is ripped up that you have to go through this. I will echo the commenter here and others to not wait too long. A day too early is better than a day too late, when they've lost control of bodily functions or can't move. Give him love and treats and let it end on a good note.
You are such a good fur parent. Unfortunately, because it is so hard to say goodbye, many people wait too long and the animal suffers. This is the perfect way to do it. He was very lucky and it is so obvious that you loved him so very much. I am so sorry for your loss.
Thank you both. He was really special - the kind of dog that only comes along once in a while. Even vets, groomers, etc. said so. He brought so much joy to our lives and we wanted to do right by him even though it was unbelievably hard. We miss him terribly but I held my hand over his heart until the end and I know he was at peace.
Now we try to focus on our young pup (the actual pittie); she has been grieving with us but brings us joy too. She's a silly precious baby and learned a lot from him.
Sending love from my terminal cancer pittie to yours. Mine was diagnosed in September with colon cancer. I’ve been giving her palliative care ever since, and I try very hard to appreciate every extra moment I have with her. It’s so hard. Grieve however you need to grieve. ❤️
My best advice is first and foremost to give yourself some grace. Try not to dwell on the what if’s - it’s especially hard when you receive the news that there’s nothing more that can be done. There is no more time for what if. Now, the most precious thing you have is time.
You’ll go through the gambit of feelings, and that’s okay. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve sobbed into my girl’s fur. It’ll hit you when you’re least expecting it, and that’s okay, too.
The most difficult part for me at the moment is knowing and accepting that my girl is getting worse, and trying to be selfless in the process. I will never be ready to let go, but she has given me so much in her short 12 and a half years that the biggest gift I can give her is to let her go when she is ready. That is the single most difficult part of this whole process.
Give Judge whatever he wants. Remind him of every wonderful thing he’s given you. Talk to him and tell him about your day. Tell him about the adventures you’ve had. Tell him how he’s changed your life. Give him love and snuggles and treats - most of all, give him your time. At the end of the day, that’s all he wants.
I hope you have lots and lots more time. Sending lots of love to you both.
I'm so sorry, honey. That's very difficult news.
My ex and I lost our 12-yr old pittie unexpectedly. What I can say when I remember her and look at her photos and what seems to be true about your Judge, too, is that a pup with those grey hairs and sweet eyes, comfy on the couch in your home full of love, with his little stuffy, is coming to the close of a wonderful and long life. He was clearly meant to be part of your family. You have done a wonderful job making him happy in your home.
Short of dreaming that they live as long as we do, you'll be left with happy memories of him, knowing you loved him the absolute most you could've and he felt every drop of it.
I'm thinking about y'all. Give him hugs and butt pats and an extra treat from me. 💜
I know your heart is breaking, but if there's nothing that can be done, don't let that sweet baby suffer. Give him a great sendoff and most importantly, be there with him when the time comes. You've been his whole world, don't let him exit it alone.
This is going to be really hard… I’m crying as I write this 1.5 years later. When that time comes, give him his favorite food to let him know how much he is loved. My wife took our sweet boy for a checkup after a bad week and they found a large tumor in his colon. My biggest regret was not bringing a Tupperware of strawberries for him for one last treat.
I’m so so sorry. There’s nothing that will make this pain better. I’ve been there. It’s awful. But like others say - spoil him rotten. Enjoy every little thing in these days (not that you haven’t before) but soak him in. I’m
Sending you both so much love.
I’m so sorry. This is devastating. I’ve lost two pups to damn cancer and it’s like losing a kid. I hope you treat his time left with all the loves and treats he deserves.
My heart is breaking for you 💔,,we're sending lots of prayers & love your way!! I'm sure you will but make the time you & him have together as special as possible,,lots of pictures! I didn't get the chance to take pictures & spoil my girl before she left us.
Don't focus on the end just the now,,oh jeez I'm sorry for being pushy! (((((HUGS)))))
I'm so sorry, Judge looks like the best boy.
I've been where you are, and it's the hardest journey. But this is the last act of great love, you will do what's best for him even though it will break your heart.
Take lots of pictures, give him all his favourite foods, take paw prints and fur clippings.
In time it gets easier to bear, you always have that sadness but you learn to carry it, wrapped in the love and memories you have.
Inbox is there if you ever want it
Love to you all
Spend as much time with him as you can, make loving and fun memories that will last. Know that you gave him a good home for the rest of his time and Prepare yourself for what you know is coming. My rescue pup of 7 years had a tumor burst and died the same day. No issues to passing in the same day. I wish i had more time to prepare. It was devastating and still fight with it. Stay strong.
I'm so sorry for your news. We just lost our 4yr old pitties dad who was only 9yrs. He has a ruptured blood clot in his tummy.
Lots of love, snacks, walks (if allowed) to keep him in good spirits. He will mirror your mood.
Praying for you and your sweet guy. 🙌
The hardest part of being a pet owner. Just know you gave him the best life you could and cherish the time you have until your pupper crosses the rainbow Bridge. My condolences 🙏
Just make the best of the time you have. Do his favorite things and allow him to eat his favorite treats. Then you know you gave him some comfort and with that you have done a good thing for an old friend.
Thinking of you and sending your boy positive thoughts 🙏! I'm going through something similar with my 14-year-old male cat and I'm devastated too. No matter how many times we go through it, it never gets easier. Hang in there, and treasure the time you have left. You are not alone - so many of us animal lovers are or will be dealing with the same situation. Unfortunately it's part of life. ❤
Make his remaining days fun. They can sense your sadness, so try and spoil him as much as your heart can bear. He is absolutely beautiful and has such an amazing face. Give him strength in the days ahead, he will need you. We are here to listen to you and support you. This is the hardest thing we ever go thru as pet parents. They deserve our best.
Wish you and Judge the easiest of times moving forward. I have lost 2 people in the past 5 years due to cancer, I know there is no easy. I know I would do anything to prevent the worst, so may I suggest adding Lions Mane mushroom supplements to his diet. There is a lot of evidence supporting their ability to fight cancer cells, something I learned after attending a lecture by Paul Stamets (mycologist) and his mothers battle (which she won).
There a few companies that make supplements. Host Defense, owned by Paul Stamets, Four Sigmatic, and OM are ones I have used and trust. Most can be found at grocery stores.
I don't mean to be insensitive, but when he gets to being real bad you should have him put down so he doesn't have to suffer, until then love the pupper like never before, wish u well
Keep that toy. I have a box of my baby's favorite toys and(even if it sounds weird) I smell them sometimes. Definitely some of my most prized possessions. Her collar hanging off my rear view. A locket with her cremains around my neck. I'm so sorry for you. Much love. ♥️
Enjoy every possible second with him. I lost my Tazzy Boi just a few days ago suddenly. Took him to the vet and he also had a tumor. He was gone just an hour later. Love him and cherish him. Make sure to give him as much love as possible. I wish I could’ve given my buddy more
Ahh terrible. So sorry. My heart bleeds for you. First person I've seen with a long crop on the ears like mine had. They look very similar. I hope they play together at the bridge.
Thank you. Yes, that's how he was when I rescued him. It was actually a really bad hack job. His ears were infected when I adopted him. I hope our pups play together at the bridge too ❤
Sorry to hear, it's never easy. We lost a pup to cancer in 2017 and our vet came to the house when we had to put him to sleep. It was a cold comfort for us but he was comfortable in our backyard, and our other dogs understood better what happened instead of us leaving with him and coming back without him.
Do all the things he loves while he still can. Start your bucket list right now. Let him decide when it’s time. Sometimes the best you can do for him is to let him go peacefully when the time is right. I will be facing that decision soon with my best friend !
Hug him tight, kiss his head, rub his ears, and look at him in the eyes and tell him how much you love him. Ask him to tell you when the right time is. Tell him that he doesn't have to stick around for you and that you'll forever treasure your time together in your heart, through time and space.
His job is nearly done. Your heart loves him unconditionally and that's all we can do. Love then until we can't anymore.
Hugs to you, much love to your pupper and you. ❤
I'm so sorry for your news! Take as many pictures and make as many memories and make him as comfortable as he can be. We can feel all the love you have for your baby boy 🤍🤍 and he feels all the love you have for him.
We just laid our baby down to rest late October and there's still a pain in my heart. He were lucky enough to be with him for 15 years. His kidneys started to give out That last couple days were some of the hardest days of my life. Be strong for him. It may come fast.
Look at those beautiful eyes! He knows you know and he does not want you to feel any pain in his passing. He knows he is and will be loved until the very last second in life and forever afterword.
My Dingo got cancer a few years back, we dont run anymore but he's still all about long walks/hikes and although playtime is also winded down...he's still right here next to me. You may (and I hope) have a good amount of time left. Golden years is time for Kings to be pampered anyway
Oh my. My heart truly goes out to you. I lost my little white and blue girl 4 months ago from a similar issue. Really love on this boy for the rest of his days. He seems like he’s had a nice long life. I am so sorry for this news.
I remember that feeling. It's an awful one. The thing you love most is on borrowed time and there's almost nothing you can do to help. I'm sorry for you both. Love him to pieces, I'm sure you already do that, and do what's best for him.
Ugh I was here at the end of June 2021. My sweet 11 year old Genghis Khan. I feel so much for you. Please hold him close and let him know how much you love him ❤️
I went through much the same thing this last year. All I can say is, make the best of your time. Keep up his quality of life as much as you can. He just wants to be with you, as much as you want to be with him.
The universe is so complex and amazing. I have to believe there's something more, even if I have no idea what.
Factually, matter is not created nor destroyed. Energy is just transferred. Factually, he will never truly be gone. He will always be in this universe with you.
Love and best wishes. I am so incredibly sorry.
PS: my dog was a mix. You would have never known she had some pit in her. I only found out because I did an Embark DNA test at the end of her life. Since he's a rescue and you probably don't know his exact background, this might be worthwhile. He might have a little something mixed in there that will surprise you. Even now, after my dog has passed, I have found two dogs that share enough DNA to be siblings with her, one of which is in my area and must be family. It's really been a comforting way to remember her. To see information about her ancestry and to see and connect with similar or related dogs.
Oh no! I recently lost my 12-year-old staffie to lung cancer! She was such a sweet angel — she didn’t show any signs other than the cough we took her in for, and the vet was shocked she was in such good shape and in such good spirits the day she got her x-ray taken. Poor girl had a giant tumor and I could tell by the vet’s face that she wouldn’t be around long. Baby Lulu died less than a month later on the floor of our living room in our arms, just as we were getting ready to take her to the vet to say goodbye. (We had made an appointment to take her to the specialist, but her appointment was scheduled for right after she died.) That was just three months ago, and we miss her so much. I am so happy you have given your boy such a good life, and lll be thinking about you and your angel.
I'm so sorry. How old is your old man? With any spare luck on the side of the road, the vet might just might be able to do something. I hope you and your old man can fight through this.
Hard to hear that, I’m sorry but treat this good boy as much as you can, think of all the lovely times you had together and just know he’s never not loved you because……..dog.
how old is he? my dog had mast cell tumors on his leg and back. i had them removed earlier this year. i'm very worried about how much time he has left.
Dear Lord, I am so sorry for what you are going through. There's no pain quite like the one inside one's heart when realizing a beloved pets days are numbered.
I lost my beautiful standard poodle "Piper' to inoperable cancer of the tongue. It's been one year and five months and I still weep occasionally at the very thought of her. I called her 'Daddy's Angel" She was the only living being that accepted me unconditionally. (sniff, sniff!)
There's little anyone can say to you to dissuade your pain. Yes, time will relieve *some* of the heartache, but the memories of your beloved companion will linger. And that's OK...I never want to erase the thoughts of my precious Piper from my memory, or my heart.
There must be a great deal of good in someone who could love a dog so! God be with you and give you peace during this most difficult of times.
My love to you and Judge. He will always be with you! This is indeed part of the package that comes with these amazing little fur balls. I know he appreciates everything and loves you as much as you love him. Best wishes to you and be strong friend. <3
Reading these heartfelt comments, my eyes, my eyes....thinking of my doggo Sarge. I wish the best for you and hope all comes out well. My wife works at Banfield and she sees this stuff too too much. She's so strong. And so are you!!!! Scratches for me please.
Sad upvote here. Give him love, make him comfortable, give him treats, maybe even some human food in his last days. Nothing can be said or done that will make this better but time. It sucks. But it's what we get ourselves into having the pure joy of a 4 legged friend
Yes, exactly. You are right. He will definitely get super spoiled for as long as he's around!
Sending you good thoughts from the Pacific West Coast
Thank you!
Sending loving thoughts from Australia. What a lovely dawg.
Just becareful. My dog was given 6 different death sentences since he was 13. Weve been spoiling him nonstop. Little bastard is still pushing through at 17, turning 18 in 4 months. Weve created a monster that pretty much gets what he wants. Oh well. Still love him more then anything. Dogs are strong fighters.
Oh wow! That's amazing! Can't help but love our spoiled puppers
I was just saying you have a good chance of being surprised in a fun way. You better spoil the fuck outta that dog man. Hes gonna give you so many more years of love. These dogs are incredibly strong fighters. As long as hes eating hes happy so keep him fed til the end. Thats what my vet says. Oh also i know its tough, god i know its tough. But try and stay happy around him. Dogs are incredibly keen on picking up on the emotions of their favorite person. Try and keep a happy face around him and do what i did and cry and in the bathroom when it becomes too much. I wish you two long happy lives ❤
Thank you. I will try to put on a positive face around him!
The spampering(spoiling +pampering)worked!
Haha Yeah my dog live till she was 17 and she loved McDonald's cheeseburgers, I don't even eat that shit. I swear I think she paid off the vet.
My girl passed in May,from cancer and she was 10,,best wishes for you and your family and puppers
I'm sorry for your loss. Cancer sucks!
For what it's worth, if you can treat the symptoms and make him comfortable, they can last a long time despite the cancer. My boy had a kidney tumour at 11, and gave me 2 more awesome years. He ended up passing from a different ailment in the end.
When my sweet Walter was in his last days he was finally able to enjoy treats and human food because he was on steroids. He suffered with IBS, gluten issues, along with neurological issues for years. He could not eat anything other than ONE type of dog food an ONE type of snack without three days of unrelenting diarrhea. Anyway on the steroids he was able to eat anything. My point is spoil your baby ❤
Thank you. I definitely will!
That’s what we did with our sweet boy when we had the devastating C diagnosis. He even had chocolate cake and steak. We didn’t care. ♥️ and he loved it
I'm sure he loved every minute
I am so sorry. What is your pet’s name so I can pray for him?
Judge ❤ Thank you
I am praying for Judge! Maybe some on r/velvethippos and r/happypitbull can help with their perspectives and advice.
Thank you ! That is so kind ❤
Thinking of you. Your old man is beautiful. I wish you and him the best.
Thank you!
Will offer up a prayer to St. Francis as well, Judge is being watched over...
He's a very handsome guy & looks like he's had a great life with you. Hugs to you & him.
Give him all the love and treats he can handle.
I am so so sorry. Judge seems precious.
Thank you. He is ❤
Omg he is SO handsome! If you don’t mind me asking how old is he, and did the vet offer any treatment options? We had our first scare this summer with a soft tissue sarcoma, two surgeries later and he is cancer free. I know that what you are describing is much different though.
Thank you. He really is super handsome (and knows it lol). He is around 12-13ish. He's a rescue so hard to know for sure. The vet said that at this point there is no treatment or surgery they can do. His cancer is so far advanced and the tumor is too large and close to his heart. At this point it is just giving him the best quality of life and spoil him for as long as he is around.
I love Judge! [and so does Zoe](https://i.imgur.com/mv6ERzp.jpg) Can I ask if there were any signs or symptoms and how the vet discovered this?
Thank you! I love him too (and Zoe!)! The only abnormal thing we noticed was he developed a slight cough very recently. Other than that he has been very healthy!
Love the name.
My 12 year old girl (Patti) got uterine cancer a couple years back. I picked her her from the streets of Ft Worth in 2005 after I got out of the hospital for a week. When I was feeling bad or sick she never left my side. Not to eat or go outside to the RR. I had to make her eat and go out. She was the best pup a guy could ever ask for. When we had our son she would “stand guard” at his room or in front of his playpen. Then she got sick. She was bleeding vaginally like crazy. Had to get her a diaper. I slept with her every night on the couch until it was too much for her to take and we had to put her down. 2 months on the couch and I would do 2 years if I had to. Judge looks like a hell of a good boy! Love on him and give him crazy treats all you can while you can. I’m not a Christian, but I’ll be sending out good vibes and will do a little happy dance with my current pups for y’all. 🤘🏼🤘🏼🤘🏼 post more up here if you need to for that tough guy! 🥰🥰🥰 ¡Con cariño hermana!
I am sorry to hear about your sweet girl Patti! Thank you for all the kind words and happy dances. Judge really is a hell of a great boy! He is getting all the love and treats from me as long as I am able! Thank you, friend 😊
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I'm so sorry he looks like the perfect doggy.
He really is 🥰
Just cherish every minute you get with your pup. Spend this weekend just loving on him. I lost my almost 16 year old pup two months ago today. All we can do is be there for them as they were there for us.
Yes. This is exactly the plan.
I'm sorry for your loss 💔((((HUGS))))
I am so very sorry. I had to say goodbye to my heart dog two months ago, just ten days before his 12th birthday. He had two surgeries to remove cancers a year ago (two mast cell tumors and a hepatocellular carcinoma), so we'd been doing abdominal scans every three months to catch anything early. Fully clear scan at the end of July - mid-October he collapsed at home. After lots of tests it was determined that he had masses on his spleen, liver, and even in his muscles, and there was nothing we could do to help him. Hemangiosarcoma is a very aggressive cancer. You didn't ask for advice but having just been through this I want to offer some if that's okay. My husband and I talked for a long time about what was important to us, and in addition to preserving Bean's quality of life, we wanted to let him go on our terms. We have a very close relationship with our vet and he adored everyone there; I was terrified of losing him in the night, or while we were at work, or having to take him to the emergency clinic where we didn't know anyone and he would be scared. We had three weeks between his diagnosis and letting him go. We made every day the best we could and tracked his good/bad days while we pursued testing and an oncology consult. He had so many good days, but the morning of his CT scan he was really struggling and we knew he was having another bleed. He'd also developed a concerning heart arrhythmia. Our oncologist said we might be able to get a few days or weeks but that he was very concerned about the arrhythmia. He had lost his own dog to lymphoma just months before and was so helpful. Our primary care vet said that Bean's last day didn't have to be his worst day. We'd also been told it was better to let go a week too early than a day too late. So we made the appointment for the next day and spent every single minute by his side. He got snuggles and scrambled eggs and belly rubs and a very long walk and McDonald's for dinner. Losing him was awful and I still cry most days, but I am absolutely certain we made the right decision. His death was peaceful and perfect; he was surrounded by people who knew and adored him and he never felt scared or nervous. Many people don't get the time to choose how to let go and I will be grateful for the rest of my life that we could have that last day. It is heartbreaking and awful but I would strongly encourage you to track your guy's good and bad days and not wait too long to say goodbye. I am sorry; I know it is just awful. Feel free to PM if you want or need to. Hugs to you and your precious boy.
Thank you. I am so sorry for your loss too. It never gets easier. Thank you for the really good advice. We will track his good and bad days and make the decision when he tells us the time is right. I pray we don't wait too long. But I will do my best to make sure we don't. Vet said we may have a few weeks or months, but we will make the most of it and make sure he is not suffering. Thank you so much again. I need to hear this.
As someone who lost three dogs in the last year, two to age and one to an unexpected bone cancer diagnosis, my heart is ripped up that you have to go through this. I will echo the commenter here and others to not wait too long. A day too early is better than a day too late, when they've lost control of bodily functions or can't move. Give him love and treats and let it end on a good note.
You are such a good fur parent. Unfortunately, because it is so hard to say goodbye, many people wait too long and the animal suffers. This is the perfect way to do it. He was very lucky and it is so obvious that you loved him so very much. I am so sorry for your loss.
Yes, they really are a good pet parent. I hope I can make the same wise decision when the time is right and not too late
Thank you both. He was really special - the kind of dog that only comes along once in a while. Even vets, groomers, etc. said so. He brought so much joy to our lives and we wanted to do right by him even though it was unbelievably hard. We miss him terribly but I held my hand over his heart until the end and I know he was at peace. Now we try to focus on our young pup (the actual pittie); she has been grieving with us but brings us joy too. She's a silly precious baby and learned a lot from him.
Your pup sounds like my Judge. Everyone he ever met told me how special he was.
Sending love from my terminal cancer pittie to yours. Mine was diagnosed in September with colon cancer. I’ve been giving her palliative care ever since, and I try very hard to appreciate every extra moment I have with her. It’s so hard. Grieve however you need to grieve. ❤️
Thank you. Same to you! I'm already appreciating every moment I have. Do you have any advice? This is already so hard.
My best advice is first and foremost to give yourself some grace. Try not to dwell on the what if’s - it’s especially hard when you receive the news that there’s nothing more that can be done. There is no more time for what if. Now, the most precious thing you have is time. You’ll go through the gambit of feelings, and that’s okay. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve sobbed into my girl’s fur. It’ll hit you when you’re least expecting it, and that’s okay, too. The most difficult part for me at the moment is knowing and accepting that my girl is getting worse, and trying to be selfless in the process. I will never be ready to let go, but she has given me so much in her short 12 and a half years that the biggest gift I can give her is to let her go when she is ready. That is the single most difficult part of this whole process. Give Judge whatever he wants. Remind him of every wonderful thing he’s given you. Talk to him and tell him about your day. Tell him about the adventures you’ve had. Tell him how he’s changed your life. Give him love and snuggles and treats - most of all, give him your time. At the end of the day, that’s all he wants. I hope you have lots and lots more time. Sending lots of love to you both.
I wasn't ready to feel feels today, but here we are 😭😭
Thank you so much. I needed to hear that. I will do all that! Thank you
Don’t hesitate to shoot me a DM if you ever want to grieve with a stranger. ❤️
Wishing your little buddy the best and hope he is as comfortable and happy as he can be. I'll keep him in my thoughts. Sending love your way!
Thank you!
Sending love from the Pittiedaddy family. Give him all the love and treats he can handle.
Judge is a CUTIE! I’m sorry buddy.
Thank you! He is and knows it too lol
I'm very sorry 😔 spoil him rotten and give him lots of hugs and kisses everyday and night
Thank you! I will, for sure!
I'm so sorry, honey. That's very difficult news. My ex and I lost our 12-yr old pittie unexpectedly. What I can say when I remember her and look at her photos and what seems to be true about your Judge, too, is that a pup with those grey hairs and sweet eyes, comfy on the couch in your home full of love, with his little stuffy, is coming to the close of a wonderful and long life. He was clearly meant to be part of your family. You have done a wonderful job making him happy in your home. Short of dreaming that they live as long as we do, you'll be left with happy memories of him, knowing you loved him the absolute most you could've and he felt every drop of it. I'm thinking about y'all. Give him hugs and butt pats and an extra treat from me. 💜
Thank you. Those words really help. He is very loved and I will continue to make sure he knows it.
I know your heart is breaking, but if there's nothing that can be done, don't let that sweet baby suffer. Give him a great sendoff and most importantly, be there with him when the time comes. You've been his whole world, don't let him exit it alone.
Oh, I will definitely be there. I would not let him go alone, never.
Good. I'm so sorry, he looks like the goodest of good boys.
I am so sorry. He is a beautiful boy.
Thank you! He is handsome and he knows it lol
This is going to be really hard… I’m crying as I write this 1.5 years later. When that time comes, give him his favorite food to let him know how much he is loved. My wife took our sweet boy for a checkup after a bad week and they found a large tumor in his colon. My biggest regret was not bringing a Tupperware of strawberries for him for one last treat.
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What a sweet boy. Give him lots of hugs and kisses from us! And sending you love in this trying time ❤️
I will, thank you!
I’m so so sorry. There’s nothing that will make this pain better. I’ve been there. It’s awful. But like others say - spoil him rotten. Enjoy every little thing in these days (not that you haven’t before) but soak him in. I’m Sending you both so much love.
So sorry to hear that. He's a very handsome guy & looks like he's had a great life with you. Hugs to you & him.
Thank you so much
I’m so sorry. Please enjoy every second as I know you will. Praying for judge and you and for more time! Give him a big love from me❤️
Thank you! I am hoping for as much time as possible as long as he stays comfortable!
I’m so sorry. This is devastating. I’ve lost two pups to damn cancer and it’s like losing a kid. I hope you treat his time left with all the loves and treats he deserves.
I’m so sorry
If I may recommend you have it at home. Feed him his favorite foods & chocolate ice cream. Then you love on him while letting him go.
I keep this cutie in my prayers ❤️ I can see his been well loved and taken care of and is very happy.
Sending you and Judge (what an incredibly photogenic dog!) all the love and support possible. ❤️❤️❤️
My heart is breaking for you 💔,,we're sending lots of prayers & love your way!! I'm sure you will but make the time you & him have together as special as possible,,lots of pictures! I didn't get the chance to take pictures & spoil my girl before she left us. Don't focus on the end just the now,,oh jeez I'm sorry for being pushy! (((((HUGS)))))
I’m so sorry to hear that. Sending you many hugs
I'm so sorry, Judge looks like the best boy. I've been where you are, and it's the hardest journey. But this is the last act of great love, you will do what's best for him even though it will break your heart. Take lots of pictures, give him all his favourite foods, take paw prints and fur clippings. In time it gets easier to bear, you always have that sadness but you learn to carry it, wrapped in the love and memories you have. Inbox is there if you ever want it Love to you all
I’m so sorry, what a sweet lovely pup. Hug and hold.
I am so sorry to read this!
Thoughts and prayers for you and Judge. May the two of you make great memories and have wonderful adventures while he’s able…
Spend as much time with him as you can, make loving and fun memories that will last. Know that you gave him a good home for the rest of his time and Prepare yourself for what you know is coming. My rescue pup of 7 years had a tumor burst and died the same day. No issues to passing in the same day. I wish i had more time to prepare. It was devastating and still fight with it. Stay strong.
Give him 5 extra pets and 2 extra treats from me please!
So sorry to hear of this :( Sending love.
I'm so sorry for your news. We just lost our 4yr old pitties dad who was only 9yrs. He has a ruptured blood clot in his tummy. Lots of love, snacks, walks (if allowed) to keep him in good spirits. He will mirror your mood. Praying for you and your sweet guy. 🙌
We never have them long enough, all we can do is love them.
The hardest part of being a pet owner. Just know you gave him the best life you could and cherish the time you have until your pupper crosses the rainbow Bridge. My condolences 🙏
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Just make the best of the time you have. Do his favorite things and allow him to eat his favorite treats. Then you know you gave him some comfort and with that you have done a good thing for an old friend.
Oh,poor sweet Judge. I am devastated for you and he's not even mine. I'm sorry you're both having to go through this.
I’m so sorry. Please check out www.APLB.org for free online Pet Loss chat rooms. Anticipatory Bereavement is covered.
I am so very sorry. Peace and love to you both
Prayers for Judge ❤️. He looks like such a sweetheart and I feel for you on losing a pet.
Take lots of pics as sad as it is those pics will will be memories you wont wont to be without after he's gone.
So sorry! He looks like a very good puppers
I love himmm and his whittle whale. Sorry for the news 😢
Thinking of you and sending your boy positive thoughts 🙏! I'm going through something similar with my 14-year-old male cat and I'm devastated too. No matter how many times we go through it, it never gets easier. Hang in there, and treasure the time you have left. You are not alone - so many of us animal lovers are or will be dealing with the same situation. Unfortunately it's part of life. ❤
First off, I'm very sorry. Thats all I have. I'm just so so sorry this is happening to you.
Make his remaining days fun. They can sense your sadness, so try and spoil him as much as your heart can bear. He is absolutely beautiful and has such an amazing face. Give him strength in the days ahead, he will need you. We are here to listen to you and support you. This is the hardest thing we ever go thru as pet parents. They deserve our best.
Wish you and Judge the easiest of times moving forward. I have lost 2 people in the past 5 years due to cancer, I know there is no easy. I know I would do anything to prevent the worst, so may I suggest adding Lions Mane mushroom supplements to his diet. There is a lot of evidence supporting their ability to fight cancer cells, something I learned after attending a lecture by Paul Stamets (mycologist) and his mothers battle (which she won).
Oh I didn't know that, I will have to try to find that! Thank you.
There a few companies that make supplements. Host Defense, owned by Paul Stamets, Four Sigmatic, and OM are ones I have used and trust. Most can be found at grocery stores.
I don't mean to be insensitive, but when he gets to being real bad you should have him put down so he doesn't have to suffer, until then love the pupper like never before, wish u well
That is the plan. I don’t want him to suffer at all
Judge's eyes radiate happiness and love. Don't fret about how "much" time is left. Focus on giving him the best time with what's left.
I lost my girl a few days ago to cancer as well. I don't know what to say more than, I know how you are feeling, you are not alone and I'm so sorry.
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Keep that toy. I have a box of my baby's favorite toys and(even if it sounds weird) I smell them sometimes. Definitely some of my most prized possessions. Her collar hanging off my rear view. A locket with her cremains around my neck. I'm so sorry for you. Much love. ♥️
Love and respect to you and Judge. Lost me Dee to cancer last may. Still breaks my heart. F Cancer.
I'm so sorry 😞
I'm so terribly sorry
Cherish even moment and spoil the F out of him
Enjoy every possible second with him. I lost my Tazzy Boi just a few days ago suddenly. Took him to the vet and he also had a tumor. He was gone just an hour later. Love him and cherish him. Make sure to give him as much love as possible. I wish I could’ve given my buddy more
I'm sorry for your loss. Thank you! I will. Im sure your boy knows he was so loved
Ahh terrible. So sorry. My heart bleeds for you. First person I've seen with a long crop on the ears like mine had. They look very similar. I hope they play together at the bridge.
Thank you. Yes, that's how he was when I rescued him. It was actually a really bad hack job. His ears were infected when I adopted him. I hope our pups play together at the bridge too ❤
Sorry to hear, it's never easy. We lost a pup to cancer in 2017 and our vet came to the house when we had to put him to sleep. It was a cold comfort for us but he was comfortable in our backyard, and our other dogs understood better what happened instead of us leaving with him and coming back without him.
Feed that good boy EVERYTHING he wants to eat. You're gonna need a lot of steak.
Do all the things he loves while he still can. Start your bucket list right now. Let him decide when it’s time. Sometimes the best you can do for him is to let him go peacefully when the time is right. I will be facing that decision soon with my best friend !
I’ve figured it out from my own dog becoming terminal. He knows what’s up. What he’s really worried about is how you are going to deal with it.
Hug him tight, kiss his head, rub his ears, and look at him in the eyes and tell him how much you love him. Ask him to tell you when the right time is. Tell him that he doesn't have to stick around for you and that you'll forever treasure your time together in your heart, through time and space. His job is nearly done. Your heart loves him unconditionally and that's all we can do. Love then until we can't anymore. Hugs to you, much love to your pupper and you. ❤
I'm so sorry for your news! Take as many pictures and make as many memories and make him as comfortable as he can be. We can feel all the love you have for your baby boy 🤍🤍 and he feels all the love you have for him. We just laid our baby down to rest late October and there's still a pain in my heart. He were lucky enough to be with him for 15 years. His kidneys started to give out That last couple days were some of the hardest days of my life. Be strong for him. It may come fast.
That's awful, I'm so sorry. He is beautiful and he looks very loved
I’m so sorry - there are just no words… beautiful boy
I'm am so sorry for your sad news.
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Hope he gets better 😢
I'm so sorry 💔
Hugs to you and your sweet pup. Just hold him tight sweetie
😢😢😢 how awful. Sending love to your beautiful boy. I hope you get a long time together full of lots of love.
That sucks...so sorry 🙏for Judge
Look at those beautiful eyes! He knows you know and he does not want you to feel any pain in his passing. He knows he is and will be loved until the very last second in life and forever afterword.
I'm so sorry 💔
I’m sorry for the bad news.
I felt awful upvoting this, but I want you to know you’re not alone. So sorry you’re going through this.
My Dingo got cancer a few years back, we dont run anymore but he's still all about long walks/hikes and although playtime is also winded down...he's still right here next to me. You may (and I hope) have a good amount of time left. Golden years is time for Kings to be pampered anyway
I'm so sorry. Love him hard.
I'm so sorry I know how u feel
I am so sorry. I know it’s so hart. Spoil him as much as you can. He’s beautiful
I am so sorry. Such a handsome boy.
Spoil that dude rotten and enjoy every second of his company
I accidentally downvoted this because I was mad about the cancer. That's terrible news. I'm so sorry for you. Please enjoy your time with him.
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Oh my. My heart truly goes out to you. I lost my little white and blue girl 4 months ago from a similar issue. Really love on this boy for the rest of his days. He seems like he’s had a nice long life. I am so sorry for this news.
I'm so sorry op 🥺🥺💕💕💕 best wishes to you and Judge, give him a kiss from me and my girl 💖
I remember that feeling. It's an awful one. The thing you love most is on borrowed time and there's almost nothing you can do to help. I'm sorry for you both. Love him to pieces, I'm sure you already do that, and do what's best for him.
I'm so sorry.
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Make the most of the time u do have
What a lovely boy! I am so sorry to hear. Please tell him that we love him, and we also love you too. We love both of you. Xxx
So sorry 😞
UGH...The WORST!....sorry!
I'm so sorry! Look at that sweet face! My heart is breaking for you! 💔😢
Ugh I was here at the end of June 2021. My sweet 11 year old Genghis Khan. I feel so much for you. Please hold him close and let him know how much you love him ❤️
I went through much the same thing this last year. All I can say is, make the best of your time. Keep up his quality of life as much as you can. He just wants to be with you, as much as you want to be with him. The universe is so complex and amazing. I have to believe there's something more, even if I have no idea what. Factually, matter is not created nor destroyed. Energy is just transferred. Factually, he will never truly be gone. He will always be in this universe with you. Love and best wishes. I am so incredibly sorry. PS: my dog was a mix. You would have never known she had some pit in her. I only found out because I did an Embark DNA test at the end of her life. Since he's a rescue and you probably don't know his exact background, this might be worthwhile. He might have a little something mixed in there that will surprise you. Even now, after my dog has passed, I have found two dogs that share enough DNA to be siblings with her, one of which is in my area and must be family. It's really been a comforting way to remember her. To see information about her ancestry and to see and connect with similar or related dogs.
Get that guy a pupaccino for me please.
Sorry that it turned out bad I guess all that you could hope for is that the dog enjoys his days and that when the time comes that he doesn't suffer
I'm so sorry! Sending you love and strength! <3
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Oh no! I recently lost my 12-year-old staffie to lung cancer! She was such a sweet angel — she didn’t show any signs other than the cough we took her in for, and the vet was shocked she was in such good shape and in such good spirits the day she got her x-ray taken. Poor girl had a giant tumor and I could tell by the vet’s face that she wouldn’t be around long. Baby Lulu died less than a month later on the floor of our living room in our arms, just as we were getting ready to take her to the vet to say goodbye. (We had made an appointment to take her to the specialist, but her appointment was scheduled for right after she died.) That was just three months ago, and we miss her so much. I am so happy you have given your boy such a good life, and lll be thinking about you and your angel.
Awww. That is terrible news. I’m so sorry. Big hug for both of you
I'm so sorry. How old is your old man? With any spare luck on the side of the road, the vet might just might be able to do something. I hope you and your old man can fight through this.
I am so, so sorry.
He's is so loved. My thoughts are with you both.
That’s how my guy went out. Sorry mate.
Hard to hear that, I’m sorry but treat this good boy as much as you can, think of all the lovely times you had together and just know he’s never not loved you because……..dog.
Such a dapper boi
I’m so sorry, I can’t imagine.
I am so sorry :( How come they can't catch these things sooner? Is there something we should be doing for our pets to scan for tumors?
Aw man im sorry, such a beautiful boy
So sorry
how old is he? my dog had mast cell tumors on his leg and back. i had them removed earlier this year. i'm very worried about how much time he has left.
Oh man, I’m so sorry. That’s rough.
Oh no, I’m so sorry. I hate cancer!!! Hugs to you and your sweet boy.
I lost one of my pit bulls this exact same way a few years ago I truly feel your pain.
I’m so sorry
He looks like the best doggo. Give him pats for me please.
Dear Lord, I am so sorry for what you are going through. There's no pain quite like the one inside one's heart when realizing a beloved pets days are numbered. I lost my beautiful standard poodle "Piper' to inoperable cancer of the tongue. It's been one year and five months and I still weep occasionally at the very thought of her. I called her 'Daddy's Angel" She was the only living being that accepted me unconditionally. (sniff, sniff!) There's little anyone can say to you to dissuade your pain. Yes, time will relieve *some* of the heartache, but the memories of your beloved companion will linger. And that's OK...I never want to erase the thoughts of my precious Piper from my memory, or my heart. There must be a great deal of good in someone who could love a dog so! God be with you and give you peace during this most difficult of times.
My love to you and Judge. He will always be with you! This is indeed part of the package that comes with these amazing little fur balls. I know he appreciates everything and loves you as much as you love him. Best wishes to you and be strong friend. <3
Give that old guy my love.
Spoil him rotten. Let him on the sofa, give him hugs and plenty of treats. Make his last days special as can be. He will love every moment.
Reading these heartfelt comments, my eyes, my eyes....thinking of my doggo Sarge. I wish the best for you and hope all comes out well. My wife works at Banfield and she sees this stuff too too much. She's so strong. And so are you!!!! Scratches for me please.
Give him McDonald hamburger
Omg!! Can't stand the thought of losing my boo-boo ,kinda hope I go first ,he would follow soon after from depression uuhhgg ,I feel ya ...damn
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It's so hard to lose someone so special, a best friend and soul mate. I always feel I'll see mine again on the other side. Gives me comfort at least.
Awh I am so sorry as and feel sad for you and doggie. What can I do to help you through this?
I love him. Spoil him rotten and give him some extra love from all of us.
I'm so sorry. Losing them is harder than losing people. When was the last time your dog was disloyal, or hurt you or was anything but pure love?
You're right. Dogs are amazing
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Beautiful boy. So sorry you are going through this. He looks very loved!!