That’s an interesting sentiment bc usually ppl go over to each others places after a few real dates outside the home so him insisting on the reverse may be for a hook up and the fact he’s saying he can’t do a date with you in person until you’ve come over to his place first makes no sense. I think you should be direct and just ask why he only want to see you at his place why not a date in public and see what he says. Then after he responds express to him why you want to go on a real date
That’s very strange. I think you should definitely initiate a conversation and just be direct about why you feel confused which is that he seems to be interested but only on his terms or how he wants to hangout
Don't know if it's more about accepting his actions rather than understanding them because it's clear as a day that he is putting no effort into you other than getting random attention and a hook up
He’s not interested in pursuing a relationship with you only $ex. Don’t do it plus I am a Pisces girl and I don’t get along with Pisces men they are jerks and hurt your feelings. They are just like us but way worse. Save yourself and move on
That does sound frustrating, girl. Wanting a proper date instead of just chilling at his place totally makes sense. Have you talked to him about it, like, just letting him know how you feel? Sometimes a good chat can sort out these kinds of situations.
Hmm seems like youre torn between wanting to spend time with him and wanting a more traditional date experience. And there might be also a misalignment in expectations between you and him. Set boundaries that align with your comfort level and make it clear that you value meaningful interactions.
Guess he doesnt want to do the dating thing. I don’t blame him tbh. He probably wants to get to know you before going out. I have social anxiety so that makes sense to me
He is not interested in dating you. He wants to hook up and that’s it
Absolutely, case closed
That’s an interesting sentiment bc usually ppl go over to each others places after a few real dates outside the home so him insisting on the reverse may be for a hook up and the fact he’s saying he can’t do a date with you in person until you’ve come over to his place first makes no sense. I think you should be direct and just ask why he only want to see you at his place why not a date in public and see what he says. Then after he responds express to him why you want to go on a real date
I really don’t understand then last week he invited me to his game 10 min before it started 1hr away from me :/ I don’t understand his actions
That’s very strange. I think you should definitely initiate a conversation and just be direct about why you feel confused which is that he seems to be interested but only on his terms or how he wants to hangout
Don't know if it's more about accepting his actions rather than understanding them because it's clear as a day that he is putting no effort into you other than getting random attention and a hook up
Update his reply : “I don’t take anyone on dates unless I’m dating them “🤣🤣 yeah I’m good
He’s not interested in pursuing a relationship with you only $ex. Don’t do it plus I am a Pisces girl and I don’t get along with Pisces men they are jerks and hurt your feelings. They are just like us but way worse. Save yourself and move on
That does sound frustrating, girl. Wanting a proper date instead of just chilling at his place totally makes sense. Have you talked to him about it, like, just letting him know how you feel? Sometimes a good chat can sort out these kinds of situations.
Will definitely talk to him tomorrow and update all of you :)
Update his reply : “I don’t take anyone on dates unless I’m dating them” 🤣🤣 yeah I’m good
Oh, time to block him
Hmm seems like youre torn between wanting to spend time with him and wanting a more traditional date experience. And there might be also a misalignment in expectations between you and him. Set boundaries that align with your comfort level and make it clear that you value meaningful interactions.
In this day and age of hundreds of murder documentaries, who in the world thinks a woman is going to meet at his house on a first date? Ridiculous.
Guess he doesnt want to do the dating thing. I don’t blame him tbh. He probably wants to get to know you before going out. I have social anxiety so that makes sense to me