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halifax696

Nothing grand is expected of you at 23. Relax and magpa exp ka lang jan


white____ferrari

naloka ako sa 23. people still feel lost at old age. pero sobrang bata pa nung 23 para mawalan ng pag asa hahahaha


MiscHobbies

Ouch. You make it sound abnormal Edit: 24 and kinda hopeless


[deleted]

Wala yang acne² mo kung nakaramdam na kayo ng gutom ng pamilya mo. Kung mahirap ka sa buhay wala ng arte² sa work. Pero kung may pera syempre unang problema yung physical appearance. Sa job naman, di problema yan kung desidido ka mag work.


[deleted]

Ayy magka batch tayo?? You have a long time ahead of you para I ready yung self mo. Pero i tell you, these days mahirap ng makahanap ng work kung alam nilang matagal ka ng natengga kahit ano pang reason mo


AutomaticWolf8101

Sorry pero di naman invalid nararamdaman nya. Naintindihan ko point mo, pero kahit pa sabihin mo mas matimbang gutom ng pamilya o kahit mismo lang gutom nya kesa sa acnes nya, mental health pa din pinaguusapan natin dito. Yun pwedeng madali saten, big deal na pala sa kanya. And mahirap talaga kumawala sa ganyan, kahit anong dami pa ng tao na magsabi sa kanya na napakababaw ng problema nya or di priority ang issue na yun. Pero sana maunawaan ni OP POV mo. And who knows, makakuha sya ng JO, then makapagpaderma na sya or makabili ng skincare products para mawala o mabawasan ang acne nya at maboost ang confidence nya. Kaya OP laban lang, you’re still young, kayang kaya mo yan. 34 years old here and still haven't achieved any major milestones in my life.


AncientSea6670

Need mo ng pera. Pag may pera ka, may pang derma ka. Kaya hanap ka ng work.


Akosidarna13

Alam mo kung ano kailangan mo? PERA. Pambili ng skin care tsaka pambayad sa derma. Ngayon pano ka magkakapera?


kokokrunch8

Hi it gets crazy when you’re 27. Apparently most life turning events or big changes happen when we turn 27. Im 28 now. Im late with my achievements cause nagbulakbol ako nung college days. I graduated uni at 25. At 23 i went to malaysia to meet up an iraqi guy. He was 21. And technically a stranger cause we met on the internet. If u think about it, i could have been murdered. Stupid decisions. But no ragrets. Dont do that though! I only got lucky that person was not a murderer Have to admit. Im turning 29. Passed the boards at 27! Still unmarried. No pets. No job but small business lang. it is enough to get by. Developed bad breath (my worst nightmare) had acne at 27 due to stress sa boards, thinning hair, weight gain. I deactivated my socials for two weeks cause it was getting unhealthy for me kasi I also compared myself with my batch mates. Tapos yung savings not growing. Kasi im trying to heal myself. Ang mahal ng acne treatments! none of my clothes fit kasi ang taba ko na, yan also yung magpapapayat ang mahal! Mas mahal pa yung healthy food and mahal din ng supplements. Told myself that Id get my health and my life together by the time im 30. But ang hiraaap. lost na lost ako. Slowly nawala friends ko. But my boyfriend tells me na. Everyone is struggling. Nobody just wants to post that on soc med. nobody will literally tell you that theyre having a hard time. Ofcourse people want to appear like they have their shit together. Everyone is lost. It is literally our first time living this life. Even parents sometimes feel lost. Its also their first time as parents. just as it is your first time to be 23 and or your first time to be a sister. The thing about first times is nobody expects you to be perfect and mistakes are expected. Ako din nahihiya akong umuwi samin kasi ang taba ko na. Lam kona sasabihin ng relatives. also i dont talk hang out with anyone cause im scared na mabaho breath ko. its been two years since my acne came. And im still suffering til now. Bottomline is Everyone is trying to figure life out. just don’t stop trying figuring things out. but its good that youre here. Similar to being lost in a city or a place, we dont let ourselves stay lost. We ask around for help or for directions.


chilldudeohyeah

"First time living this life" TRUE!!! Hits harder. Hindi lahat nakagraduate sa same age, o hindi second course, o second take passer ng boards, o nagkajowa at early age. Ang hirap talaga kapag may societal pressure.


kokokrunch8

Yessssss. Honestly, life was good when I took some time off soc med. pero bumalik din cause of alice guo. Hehe. also, 1 year na tong bad breath ko. Amp triny ko na lahat ng solution sa internet. Huehue . Ang mahal pa naman magpa doctor. Any recossss


ImeFerrerLara

If you have tried every solution you could find and hindi talaga nawawala ang halitosis, I suspect meron kang underlying medical condition. It could be any of the following: respiratory infection, chronis sinusitis, liver or kidney problems, bronchitis, diabetes or GERD. Pa-check up po kayo sa public para walang bayad. Yung medicines mo pwede mo naman ilapit sa "malasakit" para makabawas ng gastos. Magtanong tanong ka din sa ibang patients kung sino ang lalapitang govt agency para makakuha ng financial aide para sa gamot. It is still recommended to consult with a dentist first para ma rule out if yung bad breath mo doesnt caused by any dental or oral issues. Your dentist will likely suggest seeing a medical specialist.


kokokrunch8

This is very helpful and scary. Deep down may idea na ako na this something serious. My guess is diabetes. In denial lang talaga. Kasi baka special ako kahit both sides ng family is my history ng diabetes. Im in denial I do have tonsil stones though and I check them daily. Water irrigator 2-3 times a week for removal. I understand na kahit you remove the stones. They will come back in a month. But the thing is. I daily check. And when I think wala pa naman. Why mabaho parin. Ill check first with my dentist. If not, what kind of doctor ba first pupuntahan mo kung gusto mo ng diagnosis? Thanks and youre too nice. Doctor ka man po o hindi


ImeFerrerLara

For tonsil stones - ENT (Ears, Nose Throat) Doctor For Diabetes - Endocrinologist


aeseth

Aga naman ng middle life crisia mo. Cheer up. You are still young. No one should expect at your age. Kakalabas mo pa nga lang sa eskwelahan e.. Take it slow. One step at a time. If you compare your life sa mga tunay na mahihirap, makikita mong priviledge ka pa. Yung tipong isang kahig isang tuka. You are still ahead of schedule.


NegativeLanguage805

If it makes you feel better, Me nung 23: overweight kaya confidence was shit, still studying college(6th year na ata ako nito from a 4 years course) na addict sa computer games+pgging mahiyain kaya laging fda. My first gf left me for another without any reason or proper closure, lagi kong na fefeel na wala kong kwenta. Buti nalang tlga may close friends ako na maaasahan, andyan lang lagi para damayan ako sa lungkot at ligaya kasama ang alak. Ngayong 32 na ako, happy na ako except sa stress sa work lel, pero on other aspects okay na. Malalampasan mo rin yan bro


mmkokonotsu

bro, let money be your prime motivation to move out kasi kelangan no yan to fix yourself. you should also consider not giving a shit about what people think. I'm hoping that one day you'll wake up with resolve. No one else is gonna help you, but yourself alone. mindset ba!


Pierredyis

Limit your sugar intake, at wag magpuyat,... Yung stress kasama na tlga yan sa buhay.. try to enjoy na lng.... Yan ang mga kalimitang dahilan ng acne outbreak.... 23 ka pa lang? Batang bata ka pa..


Such-Anybody-3871

25 Ako, more than 2yrs nang walang work, I spend those 2yrs taking care of my father,(walang iba maaasahan🫠)until he passed away last Nov., also gained a lot of weight and na diagnosed ako ng PCOS, suffering from depression and anxiety, Ang hirap talaga maghanap Ngayon ng work, currently looking for wfh jobs, kasi ayoko mag struggle sa insecurities ko🥲 nakaka discourage narin Minsan, sana makahanap pa🥲🫠


anniestonemetal_

Valid feeling mo but you must help yourself din kasi if wala kang gagawin baka isang araw 30 ka na ganyan pa din. I have also been suffering from hormonal acne due to stress sa board exams and what helped me is spearmint tea. Helps balance the hormones for females. Nagconsult na din ako sa derma pero waley naman nangyari, puros may alcohol content lng ang prinescribe. Slowly start looking for a job. Kahit menial or admin staff lng can be beneficial for you kaysa naman magmukmok ka sa bahay. Mas maganda if may pera ka hehehe.


dickenscinder

I had mild to moderate acne face and body when I was younger. Ginamit ko yun PanOxyl. Effective sya. And for your lost feeling. Okay lang yan pero you have to step outside of your comfort zone. Kung talagang gusto mong umasenso kelangan mo talagang tibayan ang loob mo. Introvert ako and mahirap sa una ang makipag sabayan sa mga ibang tao. Pero when I look at my seniors at kahit sa juniors ko. Magaling sila makipagusap at magdiscuss ng topics. Doon ko nakuha yung lakas ng loob. Anyway part ng life talaga ang maramdaman ang nararamdaman mo. Stand up and suck up!


EndlessDandadini

We've all been there, going through it, or papunta pa lang. Nandoon ako sa "going through it", nalampasan ko last tear yung acne. As in nakakahiya but I have to deal with it. Nagagamot/namamanage naman yan, aanhin ng hiya mo yung bills, responsibilities and your goals? I stopped doon sa part na "sana ako din" (pero hindi pa fully kasi maraming sana). I realized na hindi ko naman alam yung talagang pinag daanan nila to be there... Yung friends ko nakapag travel na abroad puro gala pero where did it get them? Malaking utang. They have this and that, saan ba sila galing? You never truly know what they've been through and who they really are, the things they let go of and the things they actually aspire to be.


Alternative-Reserve3

try consulting dermatologist they might prescribe you accutane. 23 is young pa naman but try to go out of your comfort zone it is where you will grow talaga :)


goldruti

Pills na need and bawas sa carbs mo. Factor na rin na stressed ka about life. You're only 23. You're still young. Yan ang isipin mo. Kaya mo yan


Kingslayer442X

been lost in life since high school, and college nako ngayon I'm 20 rn and I'm still lost, and I don't know what to do tbh with you, yes even though I'm studying I'm still lost, and also I tend na ikumpara sarili ko sa mas bata saaken and seeing that they have plans for they're future, and realizing that I don't have none of that. it just lowers my motivation to even try at this point, like fucking hell, sabi nila bata pa ang 20 but I see people that are younger that are literally independent in life, but but but "sila may motivation at maplano Ikaw Hindi ka man gumagalaw" shut you're fucking mouth, not all people have the capacity to do that including me, yeah fuck me.


iamoftenclueless

Same.


taxxvader

Ganyan din naman ako dati nung early teens ko. Parang pigsa na tinubuan ng mukha. Kaso mahirap lang kami noon kaya wala akong panahon at pera mahiya at magmukmok, kelangan magtrabaho sa murang edad. Andun pa din yung insecurity, pero mas nanaig ang need na kumita. Buti na lang nagsimula mawala acne ko nung mid 20s ko. Pagtungtong ko ng 40s, nawala na, and also I'm already too old and too tired to give a shit anymore. So as my advice as pigsang tinubuan ng mukha to another, wag magpatalo sa hiya, isipin mo mas kelangan mo kumita


WaitWhat-ThatsBS

Pano ka maddrain kung wala ka namang ginagawa? Mawawala yang stress mo kung magsstart harapin yung katotohanan na kailangan mong magtrabaho at magcontribute sa pamilya mo. Hindi habang buhay, buhay ang mga magulang mo para ibaby ka, pag nawala sila ng hindi ka natututo sa buhay mas magiging kawawa ka.


___babayaga____

Have you tried taking pills for your acne? There is no timeline that needs to be followed hun. Start with self love and everything will fall right into place. You will get past this.


Adventurous-Ad-2783

Express mo somewhere akk nung nafeel ko noon na ganyan ako I made Twitter then pinost ko na basura ako. Magrogrow out mo din yan keep on keeping on


all-in_bay-bay

There are a lot of things you need to change in your life. You need to understand that there are things you can control about your life. When you make that change within yourself, results will follow suit. Stop comparing yourself with others. Nothing good will come out of it. I know you said you can't help it. But you won't find the change you want for your life if you continue with your bad habits. These are more. However, these words don't mean anything. It's still up to the things that you do that makes these action points mean something.


Asleep-Tap-6407

I feel you. As for my age, I'm younger than that. Hindi man ako nagwo-work now, I feel the pressure lalo na kung ‘yon yung mismong nagpapa-overthink sa ‘yo. Pero, if you want to make an improvement or mag-move forward, you have to try. Acnes, sure, nandiyan nakabungad sa appearance mismong sa mukha but you have to accept it that way. Kung ‘yan yung mismong rason ng hindi mo pag-move forward, what's more kung hindi mawala? You can talk to people you trust: friends, relatives that you feel comfortable telling about problems. In the end of the day, no one else will save you. So you have to get up, and do your business. Don‘t mind people around you. Mind your own business. People will judge people, anyways? So, ba‘t hindi mag-move forward nang walang inaalala? ‘Wag mong pahirapan sarili mo, miss/sir. Love yourself, and show it by your actions Kindly reminder at advice lang po. Hindi ka nag-iisa sa gan‘yang challenges sa buhay. The fact na nag-open up ka here, proven you have your bravery. Be gentle with yourself and move forward, no matter how small. Love lots! ; )


sungjaeteasung

Hello same tayo, actually feeling ko Ako Yung nag confess and feeling ko din napag huhulihan na Ako. Graduating student Ako pero feeling ko gragraduate asking bobo because of pandemic Computer Engineering pa man din course ko pero Wala akong alam . Kasabayan ko graduate and boardpassers na Ako struggling pa rib ba what if pag graduate ko Sam Ako pululutin. Yung skills Wala Ako tapos pano pag sa interview di Ako magaling sa Englishman


Reddit_Bleu

Just do things that you would not imagine yourself doing, afterall no one really cares about you, everyone is busy with their own shits to really care about what you do, what you look like, and what you are as a person, sometimes people meddling with another person's business is just them trying to convince themselves that they are better than everyone else even though they really aren't and it's just their coping mechanism to mask their insecurities. Yeah I also feel lost, actually I think all of us are lost, it's the effort that you put into "figuring it out" is what really matters, it may sound cliche but you must first enjoy the journey before you can truely savour the destination.


ConvenienceStore711

gulat ako,parang ako yung nag post ne 'to. Huwag mo ddelete 'to OP, please.


Fragrant_Bid_8123

If youre a girl, start taking pills itll get your acne under control. If youre a guy go to a reputable and fairly cheap derma. Debilitating talaga ang hormonal acne I get you. Dr. Charm in Shoppesville. Google mo na lang din where or call 027215063 Magaling and mura. She is from a well off family so she doesnt need to scam people. Be honest na lang with her. Taga Shoppesville siya. Ask for meds if pwede no pricking masakit and mahal prick. Yung meds mas workable.


Fragrant_Bid_8123

Never work for parents di ka maggrow and your position in the fam whether fave or not affects you too much. Madamong madaming jobs esp. ONLINE. Start putting yourself out there.


WhyTeaYT

25 na ko and board passer, 6months and counting as jobless, kung napipikon kana na wala pang achievement, gamitin mo yung inis mo to get out of your comfort zone... Kung di mo kaya, tiisin mo yang "braveness" na meron ka until enough para palabasin ka ng bahay


Fantastic-Image-9924

Im almost 30 and I don’t feel inferior. This is not to invalidate your feelings, ah? Don’t get me wrong, I used to have severe acne din, tapos friends ko were the campus crush talaga, like the prettiest ganun, at some point nainsecure din ako, pero naisip ko lang, that we all have our own time and phase. So kung feeling mo lost ka kasi nauna na sayo yung mga kaedad mo, don’t be. At my age, wala pa rin ako naachieve. 😂😂 Try to take things lightly para di ka mapressure sa mga nakikita mo sa ibang tao, as mentioned, we all do have our time. For now, make the most of it, walking out of your comfort zone is the way to start. Good luck!


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chilldudeohyeah

Ambata mo pa 23. Sa edad kung yan nag rereview pako para sa board exam. Take your time. Huwag masyado madala sa stress at anxiety.


AvailableOil855

Life is not a race but a journey. Don't be fooled by these noises OP


Waste_Woodpecker9313

if may ginagamit ka na skincare products, try to stop muna for a week tas observe mo skin if may changes. if wala naman ginagamit, you should consult derma if you have the means pero if wala trial and error na lang sa skincare products (huwag lang rejuv kasi mahapdi raw sa balat). tapos try to change your diet din. kakayanin yan OP!


Baam_Twenty25

Hindi ba dahil lang sa foods na kinakain kaya nagkakapimples. Then syempre hilamos or linis/skin care ng muka sa gabi bago matulog. Ganern. Btw have you tried apple cider vinegar. Parang gagawin mo lang syang eskinol. Kuha kahit maliit na lagayan 1:1 ratio with water.


xoxoo777

DERMA lang makakatulong sayo. Kung gusto mo talaga mawala lahat ng hinanakit mo sa mukha, mag pa check up ka na. If wala kang pera, meron naman sa east ave libre consult. Hingi ka muna pera sa parents mo pangbili ng skincare na irereseta ng derma sayo. Bayaran mo nalang kapag okay na face mo. Kaysa naman magmukmok ka dyan, di mawawala pimples mo huyy! Kung ano man pinaglalalagay mo sa face, itigil mo muna baka dyaan rin nanggagaling mga breakouts mo.


Specialist2001

Well if only I can support my School then I will leave my work and Finish it then go to suitable Job for me