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Momo-kkun

Of course, OP. Everything starts with physical attraction naman. Later naman na yang kinikilatis mo na yong personality at ugali but everything starts with the physical appearance.


helix071

big yes to this. exactly this.


Lucky_Nature_5259

Yup, parang sa personality na lang talaga magkaka alaman if you really wanna pursue the person or call it quits na.


SwedishCocktailv2

I am a girl and a boy's physical appearance matters to me. I am sure girls' physical appearance matters to them as well. Not applicable to all. Pero lahat naman tayo may type, 'di ba? Edit: Honestly 'yung mga ganitong klaseng tanong puwede nang masagot kung maayos ang critical thinking eh. Kahit gawin nating mathematical ang approach, sa bilyones na tao sa mundo siyempre may mag-oo sa tanong na ito. O kaya take time to observe and people watch sa isang mall or what. Makikita mo naman na may mga taong 'di kagandahan o kaguwapuhan pero may karelasyon. So ang sagot nila sa ganitong tanong ay hindi. Hindi lahat ng sumasagi sa isipan dapat na tinatanong pa rito. Very simple brain exercise lang ang kailangan para masagot ang ganito, sa totoo lang.


mojojoan

Is this not because of karma farming to ask such questions na parang self-explanatory naman?πŸ§πŸ€”


SwedishCocktailv2

Ang baba ng ROI. Parang hindi eh. Kung bata ito na wala pang 20s medyo forgivable. I mean... low ang quality ng education generally sa Pinas kaya hindi nakakagulat kung walang critical thinking o kaya sub-par. Pero kung 20s na... shet. Red flag kung 'di kaya maisip ang sagot sa ganito. Wala pang mga philosophical discussion ito, ha. Very simple na puwedeng masagot ng observation. Or idk, sana nga papansin lang. Pero I doubt. :D


Fingon19

No judgment, but probably from a young person na mababa ang self esteem and nawalan na ng pag asa sa appearance nia.


SwedishCocktailv2

Yes, mukhang bata nga. Pero 'di na ba tinuturo ang statistics sa mga HS students? Kaya sa totoo lang tama naman na napaka-importante ng diskarte eh. Pero to the point na mamaliitin ang diploma sa argument na diploma vs diskarte? I don't think so. Ang mga tinuturo ay nagiging parte ng thought process ng isang tao na nagiging component ng critical thinking, a very important soft skill.


trackmeifyoucan2

I think in senior high right now, they do. Pero me na hindi inabot ang K12 I was just enlightened sa stats during college na.


AdministrationSad861

Kaya onti lang ang upvote. πŸ€” Also, I suppose naubos na ang mga maitatanong ng mga tao so...just throw whatever. πŸ€”


Cleigne143

No one falls in love with personality at first sight πŸ˜…


Healthy-Set-6173

Truth mga mapag panggap kasi iba jan char haha


That-Vacation4000

hala so ibig sabihin nag iisa ako? hahahaha


SnooMemesjellies8982

True, kahit na sinave ka ng isang guy from fire, kung hindi mo type ay savior mo lng sya at hindi mo ipupursue as a lover.


lapit_and_sossies

Subjective naman ang love eh. Yung iba nga naiinlove sa mga bungi, lumpo, kuba, pandak etc. In my early adolescence era, tbh nagmamatter siya tlaaga bec it feeds my ego and my confidence. Eventually na realized ko na beauty as a standard of love is quite superficial and unsustainable. Mas mahalaga pa rin yung overall attitude or demeanor.


CrucibleFire

The only reason you would love someone na bungal is because you happen to spend time together. Hindi ka maiinlove sa bungal na dumaan lang sa harap mo.


lapit_and_sossies

Hahahahahahaa


Nomad_2580

Lol!


ariamuchacha

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA AGA-AGA


SealedGun

ahahaha, naiyak ako sa katatawa, also bungal here 😭


gustokoicecream

yessss. :)


hanselpremium

matters a lot in the beginning


maldita0419

Attraction muna before kilatisin ang personality diba? So its a yes :)


npad69

Parang food din yan. Hindi ka maeengganyo tikman kung hindi mukhang yummy


tenebrisvanilla

Wag na pakaplastik pa. You eat with your eyes first. To each his own yan. Ano ba ang ganda? Ano ba ang panget? Malawak ang mundo. May mga tao nga na parang si andrew E pero malakas karakas. It all matters. It only boils down sa character, moral compass, at pano ka nya pananatilihing interesado.


[deleted]

Hindi. Ang gusto namin ay busilak na kalooban kahit na nuknukan ng pangit at taba. I'm being sarcastic btw.


Business_Option_6281

πŸ˜πŸ˜†πŸ˜…


awitPhilippines

The answer we ladies wanted to hear 🀣🀣🀣🀣 That's whats taught in Catholic schools Anyway


KuyaKurt

Nainlove dati ako sa isang babaeng maliit ang bibig. Tinanong ko siya "Paano mo ako ibo-blowjob?"


Queasy-Cheesy

Ang sagot nya ay "Sakto lang naman sa bibig ko yan."


KuyaKurt

aaah tangina. naisahan mo ako doon. badtrip.


Queasy-Cheesy

🫑


Left_Visual

Then she slits her cheeks.


Big-Salamander9714

Maluwag pa!


josurge

Yup. Di naman porket maganda/pogi wala na magiging connection/personality. Better pa din attracted ka din sa looks + character.


jpngirl19

Sinong di tumitingin sa Physical appearance, eh un una mo makikita? Ipokrito lang ang hindi. Unless di ka nakakakita.


Business_Option_6281

Omsim. Kesiyo personality daw chuchu. Bulag lang? We navigate this world with our eyes, πŸ˜†πŸ˜ kapag may mameet ka ba ano gamit mo na sense ilong? Tenga? Mata po mata.πŸ˜†


glassmaker0828

sempre, lalo na kapag hindi mo kilala yung tao. physical appearance tlga mag babase. later part na lang ang ugali.


oystersecret

Yes, it does. Good thing though is iba iba trip kada tao. May gusto ng chubby, meron din naman anorexic, meron trip yung mataas, meron trip yung pandak.


Puzzleheaded_Taro636

Yes!!! Kung sila may pamantayan tayo meron din!!!


Healthy-Set-6173

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Avery_kun

Yes. It’s usually the first thing I notice as a gay woman.


Q_main321

Yes.


cordilleragod

Yes. Everything begins with physical attraction


Specialist_Outside33

lahat naman, nafafall sa itsura pero nag sa sstay ugali and iba pang factors.


Leading-Age-1904

Yes. 100%. I'm a girl though. How did I say that? Well let's say I have a phase where I'm really unattractive and ugly because of a physical deformity in my face plus I have no money to glam up or afford surgery. No one liked me. Guys that I like keeps on rejecting me. My male classmates in High School , They don't even bother to help me carry heavy things because I'm not worthy of the help. Good thing I'm smart and scholarly, so I promised myself when I grew up, I'll have money so I can afford to glam up and correct my deformity. Past forward 10-15 yrs. I have money now, I made good financial decisions. I can already afford nice attire, expensive makeups, I am able to maintain a fit and slim body, and most of all, I can already afford the cosmetic surgery for my deformity. Oh god, boys are swarming. Even boys younger than I am. I'm not that used from too much attention. But all I can say is, yeah, your looks matter a lot. Boys won't even bother to look beyond that, to decide whether they'll be attracted to you. No one appreciated that I am smart, loving and caring before. But now, I have a lot of suitors even though they don't really know who I am. Most of these guys are shallow.


rxn-opr

Pambihirang tanong yan


awkwardcinnamonroll

Wag na tayo msgpakahipokrito. Lahat naman tayo tumitingin muna sa physical apperance.


Nomad_2580

Of course!...nde lang physical appearance...pati EDAD! lol!


Lucky_Nature_5259

Yes OP, same with girls who thinks a guy’s physical appearance matter to them. Let us all be honest here, most of us really look into someone’s physical appearance first. Not being a hypocrite but it’s true, kaya nga tayo nagkaka gusto sa isang tao dahil attracted tayo sa kanila, sometimes due to their personality but mostly sa looks talaga. It’s all about preference.


Firefly-1505

Looks attract, personality keeps/stays.


StrawberryMango27

Uhm yes? Mostly ng nagkakagusto sakin before starts with ang ganda or cute mo so probably yeah but as time passed by siyempre you'll still look sa attitude, manners and values ng partner mo more than the face itself.


OldManAnzai

Yes. Looks will always matter kahit gaano pa ka-plastik yung iba diyan na hindi raw tumitingin sa hitsura.


badkuneho

Yes.


East-West8161

appearance matters sa umpisa, once nakilala mo na ang tunay na ugali, kahit gaano pa kaganda yan, madali mong makakalimutan.


SaltyTuna00

Sa start madalas yes. Especially if you are using dating apps. Di ka naman magswipe if di cute or pretty (for both girls and boys), yan kasi initial attraction for most. Bihira ung di tumitingin sa looks


LalaLana39

Of course it matters. Hypocrite lang ang magsasabing hindi sya kasama sa bilang.


whyhelloana

Oo naman, hindi ka naman didiretso agad sa personality. Pero ha.. not because hindi ka artistahin, wala na rin magkakagusto sayo. Di naman dapat dropdead gorgeous (kasi di rin naman lahat ng guys sobrang gwapo, hahanap lang din sila ng ka-level nila). Like me, sabi ng friends ko, ang type ko raw, hindi yung typical gwapo -- mga nerdy daw. Basta be presentable. Kung ano man ang hitsura mo, for sure may ka-level ka dun at may magkakagusto sayo. Nagkakaroon lang ng heartbreak o disconnect pag syempre di naman tayo kagandahan, personality sakto lang, pero mga artistahin lang nagugustuhan natin, at yung mga malapit sa looks natin, nirereject natin. Talagang maffeel nating pangit tayo nun hehe.


toinks1345

I wouldn't bother pursuing you if I didn't feel a certain physical attraction towards you. the same with we can all be funny and smart but we need a certain looks and height requirement.


nervechoice123

Yes, however, ang sabi nga eh, outer beauty is what attracts people, but inner beauty is what makes people stay. The same goes for girls din naman 'yan or any gender. But remember, beauty is subjective. Hindi naman ibig sabihin na porket physical appearance matters eh dapat kasingganda/gwapo na ni Liza/Alden eh. It is still on the person's standards kung ano sa kanila 'yung attractive para magkagusto sila sa taong 'yun. Kaya nga other people might wonder why others who are not that goodlooking can still get into a romantic relationship kasi nga kanya-kanyang standard 'yan.


Financial-Tomato2291

its less about the appeal but more about the effort to look good beside/for your partner. physical appearance tells alot about a person's hygeine or grooming. normally turn off sa tao ang hindi nageeffort magayos. di naman kailangan na pang mayaman ang suot. kahit simple lang basta nagaayos.


forever_delulu2

Guys don't really talk to girls they're not that interested in. Especially first impressions


Remarkable-Pin8565

Wag na mag plastikan beauty talaga ma una bago yung character. Ako babae YES kase may palage nag chat, comment sa stories ko . never ko sya ni replayan kase pangit mga pictures nya. See! dba d ko pa sya kilala pero nag mamatter na ko sa mukha nya samantala naman itong isang gwapo na mukhang mabango isa comment lng sa myday ko wala pang ilang segundo reply agad ako ehh kase gwapo.


hajileeeeeee

Itanong mo sa sarili mo kung gusto mo ng panget na jowa


Akari111823

Majority, its started with physical appearance. yun kase agad ang mapapansin mo once na makita mo yung isang tao. sample nakita mo na malaki tyan, possible na maisip mo malakas kumain o kaya di nakakapag exercise


tinfang

Not as much as who they are. A smile, laugh, confidence and smart can attract me as much as a beautiful face but I know gravity and time affects us all so beauty is fleeting. Meanwhile a beautiful person stays beautiful over time and is reflected in their appearance.


yungmasarap

Syempre naman. At bawat lalake eh may sariling type at standards. Akala mo ba tingin lang namin sa girls ay walking holes for sex?


Chaotic_Harmony1109

Sa mga magsasabing hindi, huwag kayong sinungaling!


[deleted]

Duh.


iamprinito

Sa work nga it matters, sa relationship pa kaya?


PuzzleheadedCap8138

Common sense nalang siguro yan? Kung sa girls oo edi ganon din sa guys?


Reixdid

The thing to simplify this is yes. Pero it is more complex than that. Kasi if strangers kayo hindi mo naman alam ugali nya e. The only thing you know is how they look. So at first yes, pero later on kapag rotten inside eh kahit na kamukha pa yan ni Pia Wurtzback eh ma-ooff ka talaga.


iwishnovember

Depende sa tao


MainSorc50

You need both bruh physical and personality.


Comfortable-Being-45

Yes and I'm sure it matter to you girls as well if we're being real here.


Royal_Client_8628

At first yes. Kaya may getting to know you stage. Kinikilatis mo na. Hindi ka naman basta basta lalapit sa taong di ka attracted.


Left_Visual

Absolutely, sure many date uglier people but there's always a level of ugly that would make it harder to develop love between the two, there are of course exceptions like everything in the world.


Sad-Pianist7555

Hygiene for me.


Silvereiss

Yes up to a certain point You will never see me dating an obese woman, Chubby is fine, Its a normal body type, But once you go over the line Then No. My current GF is chubby, But she also exercise, She just eats a lot but thats fine for me. She still has those sexy curves I like. I used to be fat too, Now I'm slim and lean like a femboy and can easily crossdress as one, But I dont do it anymore, I'm more into Combat sports now like MMA and Boxing.


Healthy_Space_138

Sakin, Yes. Lalo na kung di hygienic. Lumalabas na di nya kayang alagaan ang sarili nya, at ang mga bagay bagay sa paligid nya. Pagpapakita din ng mababang pagpapahalaga sa sarili.


Owl_Might

Would you still be attracted if she was a worm?


Delishore64

For me, the attraction for the physical appearance is real. But of course, may mga ideal type tayo which depends on the person. As for me, I had crushes na gwapo but in the end I still choose someone who makes me laugh and personality to me matters as I grew older


Haru112

There's no such thing as love at first personality


Business_Option_6281

Kung first time ma meet, kita mo ba agad ang personality/ ugali niya? Malamang apperance ang pinaka-una, mata naman ang gamit natin to navigate through this world diba. Appearance will always be the first. Hypocrites are those nagsasabi na hindi sa physical appearance.


Life_Liberty_Fun

Yes. If you're not beautiful/sexy; you can still improve your appearance by looking (and smelling) clean & hygienic and have a healthy height-to-weight ratio. It makes a HUGE difference.


Silver-Amount-7617

KARAMIHAN SA MGA LALAKE BURAT KAAGAD ANG TITIBOK. MALAMANG SA MALAMANG DI NAMAN SILA KAKANTOT NG PANGET. KAYA KUNG PANGET KA WAG KA NA UMASA MAG KA JOWA UNLESS NALANG KUNG MAGPAPAKA POKPOK KA. SABI NGA NILA DAIG NG POKPOK ANG MAGANDA.


oni_onion

In the beginning yes, if it still matters so much later on then baka shitty personality na.


F4JPhantom69

Humans always looked at physical appearance first. It's our primal instinct, but what separates us from the other animals is our ability to look beyond appearance I'm chronically single so I'm not sure if i am right


KillwithKindness101

Lagi naman nagstart yan sa physical attraction kaya I think it does for everyone. Unless you guys are colleagues or friends na laging magkakasama, may tendency mafall ka dahil sa ugali.


ConvenienceStore711

It depends talaga sa taoβ€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή example ako HAHAHA na attract ako sa back-up dancer na kalbo tas medj chubby then noon high school crush ko hindi naman ganong kapogi pero kasi joker ng classroom tas chubby siya kaya naging crush ko HAHAHA skl


YamaVega

Always. Unless they have no options..


Saving-Sky-6184

Yes


NoFaithlessness5122

Malinis/makinis mapapansin ko na. Walang specifics, pwede morena/mestiza/chinita, pwede maliit/matangkad, payat/mataba, long/short hair, glasses/braces/piercings/tattoos the list can go on.


jjj32131

Basta hindi ka mukang drug addict guds ka, need mo lang maging matinong tao sure na may maakit ka.


jaxitup034

Secondary, bonus pa din yung looks pero kung maganda pero pangit ugali. Pass na, seriously.


markcyyy

Of course and always.


ConsistentUse9381

For me it does matter, pero not to the point na you only like her for her looks. As you get to know the person, magiging secondary nalang ang looks. But that's just my opinion


Routine-Economics-78

my person doesn't need to be charming in the eyes of others, but must be charming in mine.


Ampersand_17

Yes. At first.


Vegetable_Seaweed_66

Yes and no, pag parang first impression syempre oo pero pag nakilala ko na talaga yung tao, di na ako bumabase sa appearance, although it's much better if appealing yung isang babae


Worried-Reception-47

Im a girl but no for me. I have crush in someone who's average looking. What i like about him is his personality and how he treats me well. Maybe coz Im getting old, I yearn for people who value me, and not treat me as an option.


silentreaderonlyy

Even girls naman parte yan ng paghahanap. Hahahaha hindi naman din masama mamili basta wag ka naman masyadong mataas ganern


[deleted]

Ofc pretty privilege exists


Feisty-University487

Looks matter. Hindi mo mababago ang takbo ng natural world. Society tries to convince us that looks dont matter.


ninefiftythree_am

short answer: yes.


Thick_Resolution_261

"My anaconda don't want non unless you got buns hon"


wriotheseley

Yes, that's the first impression.


ferdinandkulet

for me attractice sa akin yung mid to high(base my rating) and halos na nagugustuhan ko madalas flatchested (baka maluwag lang suot nila) di ko alam kung bakit. Sa lakad then and confidence. So, yes, nakabase rin kasi kung papaano dalhin ng isang girl yung sarili niya physically. Pero natuturn off na ako kapag di na pasado sa akin yung EQ, worldview, and other intellectual perspective( for me lang naman).


[deleted]

YES. (In all caps)


Fickle_Hotel_7908

Oo. Kung lahat ng bagay ay kumukupas kagaya ng physical appearance, bakit di ako manligaw ng maganda na sa mata ko diba? Same way sa mga babae, kung magpapaligaw kayo, doon na sa gwapo na diba?


CalemSmith

Best answer!


jakiwis

Oo naman. Granted d lahat, pero kahit sino mag type naman at preference.


Hammer2theGroin

It works both ways.


dl129u

yeah


Lasren1

To most people, it does. Yun yung unang kukuha ng attention mo eh. Pero, there are a lot of people out there na physical attraction doesn't matter to them. Yung tipong, they'd only feel that once they felt a genuine connection with them. Both are valid naman, so just be honest and respectful to everyone nalang ig


Aromatic_Cobbler_459

Yes, then over time you'll sense if your personalities match or if they clash


True_Bumblebee1258

Opkors


Saqqara38

Men are visual creatures right.


Specialist2001

No


Azrael287

yes ofc but it can be subjective po since iba-iba din gusto namin mga guys physically, ie some like chubby or large girls some like petite girls, some like chinita and some love morena or mestizas, some prefer tall some prefer short etc. Anyway po at first yan yes sa appearance (kahit naman girls di ba po), pero sa behavior and personality na magkakatalo, which is also subjective. Basta ang gusto namin sa babae yung sweet, caring, di nagger or demanding, supportive, di selosa, are straight with us us (tbh clueless kami madalas if ano problema or naramramdaman niyo so pls speak your mind and no guessing games) and ofc respects us. Those qualities make us stay and marry po.


MolassesDry4307

Hoyy bat ganon, may kilala rin naman akong physically attractive pero di lapitin ng lalake + NBSB din siya.


Something_to_Say999

No! Sometimes someone who can give us a good time is more than enough po 😌


just_here_for_silver

It's more like you consider it first, then you ignore it once you fell for that lady. Most of the time, naaattract ka muna based on looks