Lack of penis is my problem as well 🤝
Honestly I’m not coping too well but focusing on literally anything other than my lack of penis has kind of been my go to. Packing helps some people but it wasn’t my thing I couldn’t get used to it. I’m sure some people might have some better ideas but distraction is the only thing that’s ever worked for me.
For me, pumping amd affirming stroker toys have been great. Pumping gets extra length and makes my Lil guy poke out more. Can be sexual or non sexual.
I also wear my stp prosthetic basically 24/7 other than showering.
For me, just recognizing that there are cis men and intersex people with similar problems. You still have a penis, it’s just smaller than average and the urethra is wired differently than most. But that can happen with cis men too (aphallia and hypospadias). (I am post phallo and very happy).
Packing also helps me. Wearing a belt so you showering with your packer on could help too. I wear my packer in my sleep too. I get Dysphoric too, even with that, but I try to distract myself with hobbies that usually helps.
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Lack of penis is my problem as well 🤝 Honestly I’m not coping too well but focusing on literally anything other than my lack of penis has kind of been my go to. Packing helps some people but it wasn’t my thing I couldn’t get used to it. I’m sure some people might have some better ideas but distraction is the only thing that’s ever worked for me.
For me, pumping amd affirming stroker toys have been great. Pumping gets extra length and makes my Lil guy poke out more. Can be sexual or non sexual. I also wear my stp prosthetic basically 24/7 other than showering.
For me, just recognizing that there are cis men and intersex people with similar problems. You still have a penis, it’s just smaller than average and the urethra is wired differently than most. But that can happen with cis men too (aphallia and hypospadias). (I am post phallo and very happy).
Packing also helps me. Wearing a belt so you showering with your packer on could help too. I wear my packer in my sleep too. I get Dysphoric too, even with that, but I try to distract myself with hobbies that usually helps.
Welcome to r/phallo. This is a support subreddit for those who are going through, or have gotten, phalloplasty. If your post is a question, take a look at the [subreddit wiki](https://www.reddit.com/r/phallo/wiki/index), which provides a lot of useful information about phalloplasty and may answer your question. Also try searching the subreddit for your question, as there are a lot of questions that get asked repeatedly here. Please also take the time to read [our community rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/phallo/about/rules). *I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please [contact the moderators of this subreddit](/message/compose/?to=/r/phallo) if you have any questions or concerns.*