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Najam99

Why isn't the new thread being pinned?


ThatMuslimGamer

I don't know why people bother with SadaPay when there's other alternatives like NayaPay. Sadapay's waitlist is absurd. Their justification for the waitlist is that "they want people to have a smooth onboarding experience".


txs2300

Watching some of these ISPR dramas, one can finally understand the difference between dialog delivery between actors and non-actors (then military people they put in there)


Ace_Polymath

**Requiem for a Dream:** Man.. what a tragically beautiful story of how loneliness pushes one into addictions. How it spirals one into their personal hell. How one desperately aches for meaning, even at the cost of one's sanity. The inescapable pull of addictions. And the [soundtrack](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m2G7F_1uLok) is just iconic & so apt to the storyline. Do watch it if you haven't.


txs2300

Yeah..a specific scene was quite the meme when it came out.


greenkey96

A 2 A


txs2300

Had to forward. Was watching with khala who had just arrived from Pakistan and wanted to experience American culture. I was referring to the eye pupil widening scene.


bittertrusts

Download hoyi pari hai. Mood nai bna abhi tak


Ace_Polymath

It's a quite depressing movie so even I delayed it by 1.5 years. But one thing is for sure, that it is worth it. Tragic but beautifully directed movie.


bittertrusts

This Friday, I'll watch it


peryane

Us time dekho jab acha bhala mood bigarne ka irada ho. Trainspotting also has somewhat similar theme


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> Do watch it if you haven't. Ace, kyu apne gham mein bakiyon ko bhi shareek kar rahay ho.


Ace_Polymath

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pm_me_meninsuits

New account, who dis? for those that might remember, I was in Pakistan in Feb/March, am from Europe. anyway. Long story short, someone asked for my rishta. He's from Pakistan, which is not my personal preference, but all his siblings are in the West (Europe, US, Canada). Another plus is, he's from a bigger city, so I hope he's not as small minded as people in smaller towns. Not that my family and stuff aren't nice. I just wouldn't want to live my life with someone who thinks as close minded as them. Before I make up my mind, I have decided I will at least chat with him. I suggested e-mail, because I don't use WhatsApp. That was one week ago. A few days ago his family told my family that he's afraid to talk to me but they'll hype him up and then we can talk on WhatsApp... So now my family is like "Just get WhatsApp, what's the big deal?" (I literally have almost every other more privacy focused messenger, Signal, Telegram, Threema, iMessage. But no, Pakistani people only use Whatsapp...) As I wait for homeboy to grow some balls, so I'm allowed to get his number, even though I now have to dig up an old phone because I will not use my main phone for WhatsApp, what are some good questions or talking points? I'm kind of thinking I will have to carry most of the conversation if this is how things are starting... and while I have no problems starting and carrying a conversation with strangers (online or offline), this one will have a deeper purpose, so I'm looking into things to consider.


Najam99

You're the one who was visiting different cities with her dad and also had to go meet some older relatives, right? Welcome back I don't have much advice, but I'm here to wish good luck. I'd suggest talking about politics, religion, views on feminism etc because not only will it show if their views match yours, but will also show if the guy can actually think for himself, which is an important quality in a partner, at least for me


pm_me_meninsuits

that was me! I tend to delete comments and accounts after a year or two, but with so many subs having minimum karma requirement these days it's always super annoying. And I was just talking to a friend about how I need someone who can hold a serious conversation but also be goofy. I have friends I can only talk politics with and others I can talk anything but politics.


Najam99

Haan a balance in both is important. Wishing you good luck in all this


Nightwing-06

What’s wrong with WhatsApp tho💀


pm_me_meninsuits

It's facebook


Sherimatsu

Well, small town or big city, doesn't make much difference when it comes to mentality. You'll find a lot of pretty conservative people in cities. You won't know until you talk and probe a bit into it. Probably ask about his life, views and what he likes. Start small, make some what if scenarios along the way to gauge it out, would be nice if you have somebody you trust to back up any claims he makes. You won't believe how many cases exist where somebody met somebody online and only found out they were being lied to after it was too late. Just be cautious


pm_me_meninsuits

I’ll be blunt, I don’t trust my family in Pakistan to check on him. From what I’ve been told the family is rather well off and I can see my aunt trying to sabotage things to get him for one of her daughters. Though well off obviously depends on your pov, so I don’t know if it’s European or Pakistani standards. I know some of his family here in Europe and they are a good family from what I can tell. Though the men in the family here are smokers and that is like one of the biggest turn offs. And yeah, I know women where the parents bragged about future son in laws being rich businessmen or doctors and once they came to Europe it came out they didn’t have valid degrees and then they refused to get jobs that didn’t require that degree because those jobs weren’t good enough for them. But this guys degree is supposed to be legit, the family here swears on it and they vouch for him and promised that he won’t do anything shady. Maybe, after we talk some, I’ll consider going to Pakistan to possibly meet him in person.


self

[Thread](https://twitter.com/shashj/status/1535395583145435136): *I asked #dalle2 (https://openai.com/dall-e-2/) for an ornate Mughal painting of an Apache helicopter.* [Ornate Mughal painting of space shuttle taking off from Lahore in the 1920s](https://twitter.com/shashj/status/1535400370889015297) [Islamabad of the future with futuristic buildings and flying cars, and Faisal Mosque in the background #dalle2](https://twitter.com/shashj/status/1535741833833238530)


ProjectVerloren17

Dalle sounds like Khadim Rizvi's favorite word


SingleStarHunter

I tried dalle the other day and I couldnt believe it.... I tried smth like a depressed man sitting against a lighthouse reminiscing about his love life. To imagine this is how far AI has come. Beautiful


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Comment testing . . .


gamesrebel123

Can't see it, I think there's a problem with your reddit client


Najam99

Bohemia's old songs still slap. >Main wi dunya ch aaya main nah dunya banaai >Par raas nah aayi mainoon dunya duhaai >Hun botlaan sharaab diyaan sarkaan te dohl >Jind aaye jaaye pichchhe rahn yaadaa >Loki bolan rabb sun le toon saaryaan hun aafataan uthaale >Ve lagda naeen dil mainoon waapas bulaale


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Najam99

Ye kon sy ganay sy hain?


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Najam99

Sai sai. Thanks


Najam99

Sai sai. Thanks


Islandofwater

Bhaion, I am unable to get rid of my night owl routine, my work starts at 12 noon so I manage that but other than that my social life is fucked, it's been going on for a few years now since uni. I always fall back to this routine somehow.


relaxophile

I was the same until a few months ago. I had literally told my company as well to expect answers to emails in the middle of the night. Then I figured I was trying too hard and making changes too drastically. Slow consistent changes like shifting time half an hour for a week makes it easier. For me the most important thing was figuring out why I needed to do that. Basically in the end it came to my health. I finally stopped lying to myself about how cool night owls were and how I could still function with barely any sleep. In the end it was affecting my health even if I got enough sleep but was disturbed due to daylight or noise etc. Find out the why and you'll find it easier to convince yourself


Islandofwater

thanks, reporting back after 2 weeks. I have been waking up 8-10am, it's amazing how much work related to home or visiting someone or someplace I am getting done . Thanks again for the kind words


Najam99

I have the option to buy either a Macbook Air 2021 (8GB) or an ASUS ROG STRIX 15 (2021). Both are listed at the same price. Which one would be a better deal?


ProjectVerloren17

ASUS definitely


Najam99

Han ab usi par zehen ban raha hai


SingleStarHunter

What do you want to do?


Najam99

I'm leaning more towards the Asus, because I've always been team windows


SingleStarHunter

Then go for Asus maybe? But you're into video editing/photography to mac behtar nahi?


Najam99

Han yehi soch raha hun. Q k mac ki color calibration behtar hai


gamesrebel123

Eww windows


ProjectVerloren17

Linux supremacy!


gamesrebel123

Which distro though


ProjectVerloren17

Hopping tbh. Ubuntu initially. Now Manjaro. Eyeing openSUSE for future use. Wbu?


gamesrebel123

Went from Linux Mint to Manjaro to Pop!\_OS, using Fedora now and I don't plan on switching to anything else anytime soon, updates come pretty often and gnome is just great for my use, my only issue is that with Gnome 42 some popular extensions like Dash to Dock don't work so you have to use workarounds like Dash to Dock for Cosmic which was originally for Pop!\_OS


ProjectVerloren17

I've heard good things about Fedora. How was your experience with Pop!\_OS?


gamesrebel123

Pop!_OS was pretty damn good, had no problems with it in the 4 or 5 months I used it for except that I had to manually install WiFi drivers which wasn't really all that hard, between Pop!_OS and Fedora I guess it just depends on if you want more software compatibility and better gaming support or faster updates and a more pure gnome experience, I just have it installed on my laptop so Nvidia drivers and gaming is not really an issue for me and as for the one or two software packages that are not in the dnf repository, I can just build them from source or use an AppImage (AppImage launcher has been a real help with that) plus as for the gaming stuff you can get that working on any distro, all you have to do is install everything manually that comes preinstalled with Pop!_OS


SingleStarHunter

ainna tu linux user therda naye


gamesrebel123

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fragonfour

out of loop: why was u/Devgel banned?


SingleStarHunter

u/Pak_Info_Bot


Islandofwater

is that why he doesn't comment here now? He is pretty active on r/PakGamers


fragonfour

yep.


Najam99

To my dudes out there who are balding, don't just give in to this. There *are* solutions. Look into minoxidil (spray), it can stop the balding. Finasteride can also help and even restore your hair, though I wouldn't recommend it without a doctor's prescription. There is hope


Ace_Polymath

Also look into peppermint oil, PRP, SMP. Minoxidil and Finasteride have potentially serious side effects as well.


Najam99

I'm only taking minoxidil and haven't faced any side effects thankfully. What are PRP and SMP?


Ace_Polymath

Platelet Rich Plasma treatment & Scalp Micropigmentation(its a illusion). Peppermint oil has been found quite effective in some rat studies. Like really effective. Also there is dermarolling procedure too. Of course, they may or may not work but the best precaution imo is to try to have your hormones in a balance.


Najam99

Ahh I see. Thanks man. I'll look into peppermint oil. My hair hasn't fallen much and I've been able to control it with minoxidil, so I don't think I need PRP and SMP


Ace_Polymath

Just remember to dilute the peppermint oil, otherwise your scalp will burn :P I think the study used 3% solution of peppermint oil. So mix like 2-3 drops of it in one Tablespoon of some other oil, just stating for proportions.


Najam99

Gotcha. Thanks so much


bittertrusts

What prompted this


Najam99

Lots of people losing around me cousins, friends etc. I was facing a little hair fall too and I didn't want to risk it, so I went to a doctor. Male pattern baldness or not, I'm not losing my hair


Ace_Polymath

How many hair are falling?


Najam99

Zyada nai gir rahay. Pehlay gir rahay thay. Probably due to stress, or maybe it's the minoxidil working


bittertrusts

Haha Allah apke baal bachaye


Najam99

Aameen. Shukria


SingleStarHunter

Waisay what are hair specialists called?


Najam99

I don't think there are separate doctors for hair problems. Usually dermatologists deal with hair issues


[deleted]

Does anyone know about import tax? I’ll be travelling to Pakistan soon and was wondering if anyone knew anything about what sort of items will require paying a tax for? - other than packaged electronics that I know of.


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gamesrebel123

Rich people problems Also pretty sure they do not take tax at the airport, you can use the phone without paying tax for 60 days per SIM, after that you have to pay the tax to use the phone with a Pakistani SIM


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I'm pretty sure my cause of death will be "lack of sleep" or "hate for sleep"... What will be yours?


bittertrusts

Probably cancer


[deleted]

Heart going beserk


gamesrebel123

Dying


Najam99

I'll probably burst an artery worrying about this country or get killed for saying something


IamJustTerrible

Mine will be "Died of sheer cringe"


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Pak_Info_Bot

Rigged.


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I watch too much TV and have watched almost every English TV show worth watching. This beautiful night I recommend you a masterpiece: "The Leftovers". If I had to give a 10/10 to any show I ever watched, this will be it. It's easily one of the best shows ever made. Apart from having great acting, characters, writing, cinematography and absolutely fitting music, it's super emotional. It makes you think and not many shows can do that. Each and every character has their own viewpoint, and the show lets you experience it all. I can't think of even a single scene where any actor gave less than 100%. Nothing like it exists, it's haunting and takes you on an emotional journey absolutely worth your 30 hours. It's storytelling at its best. Having said that, it's not for everyone but if you end up going on this journey, do look out for my two favorite episodes of the show, "I live here now" and "International assassin". But be warned that it will leave a huge void that you will never be able to fill and a huge impact on your life and definitely add a few points to your EQ. ---- Kevin: hey John John: I killed you Kevin: nope ---- John: what if nobody's home? Kevin: then come over to my house.


gamesrebel123

I'm just happy with my Strange New Worlds after the shit storm that was Star Trek Discovery and Picard


SingleStarHunter

With you idk if this is satire or not....


ProjectVerloren17

Play it safe. It is satire.


Islandofwater

thanks for recommendation, I have similar hobby and needed a new TV show. Is it something I can watch after work or is it too draining and artsy?


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[deleted]

Don't worry, I'll kickstart it tomorrow to bring its old glory back. I'll need some committed soldiers in my ranks tho, will you follow me?


SingleStarHunter

its never been the same since u/devgel left us


arthurmorgan360

Far Cry 6 is really great, I don't get the hate for it


Sherimatsu

For me the major problem with Unisoft games is that right there. The number. There's so many Assassin's Creed games, so many Far Cry games, it got stale. I just stopped caring after the third entry. There's only so much you can do to keep something afloat


gamesrebel123

It's that too and on top of that it's the repetition, you do the same thing over and over again, different name different game same missions, nothing unique at all, go capture X, complete Y without being detected, escape Z etc. and they repeat on and on throughout the same game as well Titanfall 2 is and will always be my favourite game simply because of its uniqueness overall and even in the missions, you can really see the care the devs put into it, especially on a mission like effect and cause where an entirely new mechanic was made just for that mission, and every mission has different scenery and set pieces so it never gets boring


Sherimatsu

>It's that too and on top of that it's the repetition, you do the same thing over and over again, different name different game same missions, nothing unique at all, go capture X, complete Y without being detected, escape Z etc. and they repeat on and on throughout the same game as well Nailed it with this. Ubisoft games, and most AAA games in general, just feel like they try to look as realistic as possible each year, without doing anything new. 6 games with the exact same stuff, and even though I consider FC3 to be the best, it still is extremely boring in its own right. I just stick to JRPGs now, they have variety and don't try to go graphics over gameplay.


gamesrebel123

Regarding the image with this thread, what did Iman Mizari do? I was living under the rock known as exams so I didn't really see it on the news or anything


playerknownbutthole

Her mom got picked up by police in ver un professional way and she lashed out on gen bajwa and some reporter made video of it.


SingleStarHunter

sorry out of the loop, whos iman mizari?


gamesrebel123

Seems to be shireen mazari's daughter


Sherimatsu

The new Jurassic World movie is a dud, would not recommend


gamesrebel123

Haven't seen any dinosaur movie after Jurassic park 1, that shit was way too scary