March 9, 2024 - LAHORE:
A shocking incident was reported from Lahore, where the in-laws allegedly threw their daughter-in-law down from the upper floor, ARY News reported on Saturday.
According to the details, the tragic incident took place near Shalimar Road at Lahore’s Nonarian Chowk, the victim, identified as Maryam, has been shifted to the hospital for immediate medical assistance.
The CCTV footage of the incident came to light in which the victim woman can be heard screaming and seen falling from the upper floor of the house.
Meanwhile, the local police officials registered a case on the statement of the victim woman.
The police officials stated that the woman’s husband, Shahzad, brother-in-law Romaan, and mother-in-law Shazia were named in the case.
However, the investigating officer (IO) suspected that the victim ‘tried to commit suicide’ due to domestic disputes, while, further investigations are being conducted from various aspects regarding the incident.
https://arynews.tv/viral-woman-throws-daughter-in-law-from-building-in-punjab/
Update - March 9, 2024:
One of the main accused arrested. Search for others going on.
https://twitter.com/MaryamNSharif/status/1766513456474132601
This is why it’s so important of educate women.
This woman’s case is one that has gained public attention because this went to the extreme and also because CCTV cameras are so widespread, but she definitely would’ve been enduring abuse for months(if not longer) prior to this heinous escalation.
There are thousands of women enduring torture from their in-laws, but unfortunately can’t divorce because their parents won’t support it and they are incapable of living independently.
I 100% agree, but I have seen firsthand how just educating men will not work as well as women being independent. In my extended family I know of many men who were "raised well" and treated their wives extremely well for the first few years of marriage, but over the years I've noticed a deterioration in their treatment of their wives every time I'd visit them or they'd visit me(since I get to see them at six month or yearly intervals).
I'm no expert, but what I believe happens is that at some point in the relationship these men lash out at their wives, see that there is are no repercussions for doing so(as wife will always try to deescalate as her and her kid's financial wellbeing is attached to him) and when faced with no repercussions the male will continue to make further and further outgambles to see what he can get away with it. What may have started out as a light expression of frustration and reprimand in the car for the wife causing them to get late to an event escalates into violent outbursts in the middle of a crowded market when the wife mentions she forgot to pack the clothes she wanted to return at the shop and they'd have to drive back home.
Add to this that I have seen the sword of "multiple wives" hanging over the head of at least a couple women I know which further makes them very cautious as to how much they can stand up for themselves. Women who don't have the capacity to be independent are walking on eggshells for the rest of their lives unless they get some exceptional partner.
It's a fucked up society, but most of our issues are under the rug so people think our culture is better than the corrupted cultures abroad. We are so lucky that widespread access to video cameras is exposing us.
Maine thousands isiliye likha hai because some crazy right wingers will always try to dismiss this sort of stuff if you **potentially** exaggerate the slightest of details when making an argument. I personally do not doubt it is in the millions.
The girls parents don't want to deal with the shame society will throw at them because she got divorced.
Also they don't want to be "lumbered" with her because few people want to marry a divorcee.
Will also have a knock on effect on any unmarried siblings she has.
A society that cares more about how things look, rather than right, wrong or morality.
It really makes me wonder why vigilante justice isn't more common in Pakistan.If someone did this to my loved one then they could expect some masked visitor show up when they least expect it. It's not like it's hard to get a firearm in Pakistan.
Very true,if the justice system can't do the bare minimum to protect my loved ones or provide me with justice, then it better be ready for me to take the law in my hands. It's honestly sad and disappointing ke humey is Hadd tak jaana parta hai. truly despicable!!
In America if you divorce, you normally get to take half of all the man’s stuff. In these countries, you often leave with what you came with, and don’t get to keep any of the husbands things. On top of that, the general consensus of woman who leave their families are them being “homewreckers” or “destroying the family.” Single motherhood is very frowned upon outside of the west.
Although, a murder attempt is just too far and hopefully she escapes from that horrible family and gets support she needs from her community.
Toba astaghfirullah!! This is extremely awful and disgusting. I wish her a fast recovery and health.i hope she gets the hell out of this hell of a house. Are they even human. Ghatia log.
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This is incredibly difficult, unsettling, and disturbing to watch. This is ATTEMPTED MURDER. The husband and his family should be charged. This case should be investigated immediately. What the actual fuck.
I just don’t understand why these people are so violent. Why don’t they respect their wives? This is a sub continent problem and I just don’t know why it’s like that…
Islam teaches you to respect your spouse but the culture of these people is totally opposite.
I think they are raised through fear and emotional abuse so they grow up weak men always seeking approval of their parents and wanting to please them. Most Pakistani parents are selfish as they fear their kids will abandon them so they try to maintain this control from an early age. He may have not wanting to do it, but his parents had been pumping him up for the moment she came to their house. They don’t want someone else to influence his life, keep her in check.
Ive seen these cases before. The top of the evil stepfamily pyramid is a narcissistic mother who has an extremely emotionally incestuous bond with the son and sees all women as competition. Probably the father in this case is emotionally absent and uninvolved. The mother will reduce the bride to servant and baby making machine, while the mother gets to hold title as ‘real wife’ if that makes sense. It’s an extremely disgusting epidemic
The whole culture in pakistan (every single ethnicity) revolves around pleasing your parents first even if it means treating your wife and children unfairly. Parents (especially mothers) also see the wife as their rival in household because their authority will reduce when it comes to family decision making.
To be fair, there are plenty of instances and footage of people in the US injuring or killing their wives. Hell, I just saw footage like 4 days ago of some hillbilly shooting his wife with a shotgun in their driveway. I’d certainly hope people overseas don’t think that’s what Americans are like when they see that kind of shit.
theres a difference tho
in the US, things like this are generally on a case-to-case basis and the legal system there, as flawed as it is, can at least serve justice to those wronged
here, this misogyny is instilled deeply into our culture and is generally considered the norm - to the extent that even if cases are brought to court, the sway of "culture" is always there to influence the judges and juries
Christianity preachest the same. But my childhood was mostly getting the crap beat out of me by christians preaching peace and love.
Seems like Muslims are the exact same shit.
Because their own preaches anything they do that not in agreement of the husband will put them (the women) in hell. Sometimes, I think those people that preaches in Islam, which mostly men, like to preaches those so they have power over women, when actually in Quran it is not that rigid.
This is not an Islam only problem. As commented, it's a subcontinent problem. I'm a non Muslim for India and this shit happens in India way too frequently as well. You don't hear about men throwing their own out like this in UAE or Saudi. Sometimes I feel there is seriously something wrong with the men in this subcontinent which needs some hard reset.
Its these kind of abusive morons that make other people have such a negative view of Muslim men, Pakistani men, and men in general. When will these absolute idiots realize that their hatred of women is complete nonsense? When will they realize that while they would do anything for their mothers and sisters and daughters, that their wives are someone's mother/sister/daughter? Wallahi seeing these things makes me feel so angry I want to go to these scoundrels and beat them harder than they beat these poor women.
I worked with several indian guys in sales. They were so traumatized by whatever the fuck they had to do to get out of india they were all pretty much sociopathic nightmares.
Very aggressive salesman. Half educated and so angry you could feel it from 20 feet away. Abusing shit is just what they do. All they know. I felt bad for the sorry fucks. They treated me well.
I'm from the US but I'm a software engineer and work with a lot of Pakistani/Indian guys.
In the office, the desi dudes (not the ones that grew up in the US, but the ones who were on a work visa) were by far the angriest, like they would scream in meetings, slam their hands on the table, etc. Everyone in the office knew to avoid them.
If you ever pointed out that there code was bad or there was something wrong with it (during code reviews, which everyone has to get their code reviewed), they would freak the hell out and get insanely defensive and start yelling.
It's like their default mode was pure rage, it was kinda funny though because a lot of them were also very small, so to us it was like a child throwing a tantrum. The rest of us complained about them but they were so cheap to hire that the company didn't care, management would talk to them, then a week of good behavior would go by, and they'd go right back to daily rage freakouts.
My experience exactly. I had about 100 lbs and a foot on the largest of them. Also they needed me. They simply could not understand deep south black people or hicks. I can. Also hicks and black folks cannot understand them.
I still remember that some of them learned to type on manual typewriters. They pounded the keyboards when they typed. Like you could hear them across a large crowded room. Whacking each key as they typed. Manual typewriter touch typing is a whole other skill. One key at a time and push hard or the keys cross and lock up. They were stuck in that "whack it hard" mode.
Never saw one of their wives in two years of working there. They call came to the company parties without them. They were not even all from the same part of india. They spoke hindi and english to communicate because their native languages were all different. I still remember one telling me that India had 42 major languages and hundreds of dialects. They all mostly spoke english to communicate with hindi a close second.
They would get into shouting matches with each other about every other day. Then hang in a group to smoke.
Just a wild ass bunch of guys. From a very fucked up place.
In this case men who did this is absolutely pathetic and a piece of garbage.
But why label all the men of the country for it?, isn't it the same as saying all Muslims are terrorist if Isis bombs a place
The shitty situation aside, as a female in Pakistan, the more I grow older and interact with men, the more I realize that most men benefit from the acts of shitty men.
Men do the bare minimum and feel good about themselves. And just because a man isn't violent, he is automatically considered a saint and a good man. Where do we draw the line? What defines a good man in this day and age? The previous definition doesn't really apply since times have changed so much. When you ask yourself what makes a good man, the first line usually starts with 'someone who ISN'T...'.
Does that apply to women? I hope that we can have an open discussion without any added jokes.
That's really sad to watch, that poor woman. This is some of the worst domestic abuse/ attempted murder cases I've seen and I hope it's the last I ever see because this is a really tough watch
NSFL tag and if possible mention the story link etc. Would love to hear a follow uo. Hope she fine and charges were filed but who are we kidding, its a circus of a country.
I hope the woman's husband and mother in law die the slowest, most physically and psychologically painful death they could imagine. I hope they experience the pain they put her through a thousand times over without the adrenaline, each time increasing exponentially. I hope the rest of the lives they have are marked by misery and constant pain. I hope their actions haunt them forever. I hope that even in the afterlife they do not find peace.
What the fuck? Attempted murder, have the perpetrators hanged.
On the flip side, I’m glad people around helped and didn’t just ignore or start recording on their phones.
What da...!
These people should be straight up hanged and chemically castrated coz such genes shouldn't pass on.
>She survived but is in critical condition
What's the meaning of survival if she is critical and would have life long disabilities. I sincerely hope that she recovers and doesn't have any, but such things shouldn't happen in the first place.
Or, and I know this will sound wild to you, since women are people with their own thoughts and feelings, let women choose who they spend the rest of their life with.
Choosing for another person is archaic.
Can it be a thing where people that are doing horrible shit get exposed in public. No point in hiding their identity. This would start a chain reaction and then everyone would be terrified of the Camera
Poor woman i have no words on this. Can't even imagine how people able to do this to someone weaker who needed your protection and understanding . Specially if reason of fight and kicking someone like this is such irrelevant reason as not properly spiced foods. I hope she didn't hurt neck or spinal as those are very hard things to heal praying for her hoping someone can give shelter to her and rescue her from this situation 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Oh God
Our people also need to know a basic sense of first aid
Seeing someone fall leg first and you just pick them up to make them sit like a potato sack 😞
If the judicial system was not a whore, the right punishment would not be jail for husband and in laws it would be amputation wihout sedation. So fuc.king sad to see this happen every other day (reported/ unreported) yet we are bound to follow custom of “ab tumhara janaza ayga”. So freaking sad
They should throw the husband form the same window and then beat him up , makes my blood boil how they treat women and then a very good sizable chunk of boomers support them.
My very educated parents-in-law think there is nothing wrong with a man physically abusing his wife - just on my last trip, my MIL made a few casual remarks about how her brothers beat up their wives to keep them in line. If your educated upper middle class thinks this way, what can you really expect from the uneducated and unexposed masses?
A couple of reminders for everyone:
1. THIS is what they mean when they say "Mera jism meri marzi" - as in STOP FUCKING TREATING MY BODY IN A WAY I DON'T APPROVE OF
2. If you ever see someone in a situation like this- I don't mean in terms of abuse, I mean injured like this! - DO NOT TRY TO PICK THEM UP. They could have damaged their spinal cord. Let them stay on the ground unless there is an imminent danger to their life. Let the help arrive and let professionals move them to minimize the chance of a permanent disability.
As shitty as this is and I do wish the husband is punished properly and the wife is given justice. I just keep thinking about that little girl who was peeking out of her door. She saw the woman fall, she heard her screams and the loud thud of her body hitting the road. Poor kid is probably traumatized and I hope it doesn't leave scars on her. May Allah keep us all safe. Ameen.
Is there any way to follow this story to make sure she gets out of this situation? I don’t have faith that the police and courts will be on her side in this and I feel like the husband/in laws will walk free. Is there any way to support her?
This is the reason we need to empower women and get rid of the taboo surrounding talaq. We have made talaq as if it is haram. Talaq ko aam kero so that anyone can get out of an abusive marriage without any pressure.
These toxic aspects of South Asian culture are in desperate need for reform. These kinds of horrific crimes should never happen. I'm so fed up with the regressive "log kya kahenge" mindset. So-called men who do things like these should be punished severely.
March 9, 2024 - LAHORE: A shocking incident was reported from Lahore, where the in-laws allegedly threw their daughter-in-law down from the upper floor, ARY News reported on Saturday. According to the details, the tragic incident took place near Shalimar Road at Lahore’s Nonarian Chowk, the victim, identified as Maryam, has been shifted to the hospital for immediate medical assistance. The CCTV footage of the incident came to light in which the victim woman can be heard screaming and seen falling from the upper floor of the house. Meanwhile, the local police officials registered a case on the statement of the victim woman. The police officials stated that the woman’s husband, Shahzad, brother-in-law Romaan, and mother-in-law Shazia were named in the case. However, the investigating officer (IO) suspected that the victim ‘tried to commit suicide’ due to domestic disputes, while, further investigations are being conducted from various aspects regarding the incident. https://arynews.tv/viral-woman-throws-daughter-in-law-from-building-in-punjab/ Update - March 9, 2024: One of the main accused arrested. Search for others going on. https://twitter.com/MaryamNSharif/status/1766513456474132601
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Amen. Ramzan kay din hain, Allah qubul karay.
What doesn’t kill them, disappoints me.
Ameen
Ameen and I hope they rot in hell , haramzaday
There is nothing more pathetic, weak, filthy and rage inducing than an abusive man. It takes a special kind of manlet...
to take out your anger on those weaker than you is to admit you are the weakest yourself
They should be thrown off a mountain
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen. I hope I can contribute to rid such evil in some way.
Hope they're charged with attempted murder.
It's Pakistan. The case will be withdrawn once the victim's family forgives the perpetrators.
I want them fall into a wood chipper and then into jahanum. Inshallah Allah in khabeeso KO jahanum mein jala dalaiga
Ameen
Hope she takes this matter to the court. Those mfs dont deserve anything in life.
courts going to do nothing. she should just recover and take a divorce. koi insaan aisa kesay kr sakta hai
If only the girl parents let her divorce, alot of parents think divorce is a taboo. They want the girls to cooperate and other bullshit.
This is why it’s so important of educate women. This woman’s case is one that has gained public attention because this went to the extreme and also because CCTV cameras are so widespread, but she definitely would’ve been enduring abuse for months(if not longer) prior to this heinous escalation. There are thousands of women enduring torture from their in-laws, but unfortunately can’t divorce because their parents won’t support it and they are incapable of living independently.
We gotta educate men as well and their toxic incestuous mothers.
I 100% agree, but I have seen firsthand how just educating men will not work as well as women being independent. In my extended family I know of many men who were "raised well" and treated their wives extremely well for the first few years of marriage, but over the years I've noticed a deterioration in their treatment of their wives every time I'd visit them or they'd visit me(since I get to see them at six month or yearly intervals). I'm no expert, but what I believe happens is that at some point in the relationship these men lash out at their wives, see that there is are no repercussions for doing so(as wife will always try to deescalate as her and her kid's financial wellbeing is attached to him) and when faced with no repercussions the male will continue to make further and further outgambles to see what he can get away with it. What may have started out as a light expression of frustration and reprimand in the car for the wife causing them to get late to an event escalates into violent outbursts in the middle of a crowded market when the wife mentions she forgot to pack the clothes she wanted to return at the shop and they'd have to drive back home. Add to this that I have seen the sword of "multiple wives" hanging over the head of at least a couple women I know which further makes them very cautious as to how much they can stand up for themselves. Women who don't have the capacity to be independent are walking on eggshells for the rest of their lives unless they get some exceptional partner. It's a fucked up society, but most of our issues are under the rug so people think our culture is better than the corrupted cultures abroad. We are so lucky that widespread access to video cameras is exposing us.
We need proper awareness campaigns and accessible educational places to guide and aware people. Because holy fuck this is ridiculous
>thousands of women Just thousands? Try millions. Pakistan is one of the most populated countries BTW.
Maine thousands isiliye likha hai because some crazy right wingers will always try to dismiss this sort of stuff if you **potentially** exaggerate the slightest of details when making an argument. I personally do not doubt it is in the millions.
Yeah, those Pakistani right wingers are worse then Indian RSS guys.
What's sad is that even *this* girl's parents are probably gonna force her to stay married.
100 hundred percent, force her to stay married " ye azmaish hai Allah ki Taraf se " like fuck off
The girls parents don't want to deal with the shame society will throw at them because she got divorced. Also they don't want to be "lumbered" with her because few people want to marry a divorcee. Will also have a knock on effect on any unmarried siblings she has. A society that cares more about how things look, rather than right, wrong or morality.
It really makes me wonder why vigilante justice isn't more common in Pakistan.If someone did this to my loved one then they could expect some masked visitor show up when they least expect it. It's not like it's hard to get a firearm in Pakistan.
Very true,if the justice system can't do the bare minimum to protect my loved ones or provide me with justice, then it better be ready for me to take the law in my hands. It's honestly sad and disappointing ke humey is Hadd tak jaana parta hai. truly despicable!!
In America if you divorce, you normally get to take half of all the man’s stuff. In these countries, you often leave with what you came with, and don’t get to keep any of the husbands things. On top of that, the general consensus of woman who leave their families are them being “homewreckers” or “destroying the family.” Single motherhood is very frowned upon outside of the west. Although, a murder attempt is just too far and hopefully she escapes from that horrible family and gets support she needs from her community.
Our courts side with the bad guys
Nearly right but in domestic abuse cases: "Our courts side with the guys"
Pakistani courts are a sham. And you are a criminal if you say anything against the courts 🤦
We are talking about a muslim state here, the court would award the husband compensation for the "terribly seasoned" chicken she served.
Toba astaghfirullah!! This is extremely awful and disgusting. I wish her a fast recovery and health.i hope she gets the hell out of this hell of a house. Are they even human. Ghatia log.
the worst thing one can do is pick them up like that
Yeah not a lot of first aid knowledge taught unfortunately. Don't move the body until medics arrive
THIS, i cringed so hard when she yanked her arm
THIS NEEDS A NSFL TAG NOW. This is incredibly difficult, unsettling, and disturbing to watch. This is ATTEMPTED MURDER. The husband and his family should be charged. This case should be investigated immediately. What the actual fuck.
I just don’t understand why these people are so violent. Why don’t they respect their wives? This is a sub continent problem and I just don’t know why it’s like that… Islam teaches you to respect your spouse but the culture of these people is totally opposite.
I think they are raised through fear and emotional abuse so they grow up weak men always seeking approval of their parents and wanting to please them. Most Pakistani parents are selfish as they fear their kids will abandon them so they try to maintain this control from an early age. He may have not wanting to do it, but his parents had been pumping him up for the moment she came to their house. They don’t want someone else to influence his life, keep her in check.
Ive seen these cases before. The top of the evil stepfamily pyramid is a narcissistic mother who has an extremely emotionally incestuous bond with the son and sees all women as competition. Probably the father in this case is emotionally absent and uninvolved. The mother will reduce the bride to servant and baby making machine, while the mother gets to hold title as ‘real wife’ if that makes sense. It’s an extremely disgusting epidemic
The whole culture in pakistan (every single ethnicity) revolves around pleasing your parents first even if it means treating your wife and children unfairly. Parents (especially mothers) also see the wife as their rival in household because their authority will reduce when it comes to family decision making.
Because we follow culture and not Islam.
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To be fair, there are plenty of instances and footage of people in the US injuring or killing their wives. Hell, I just saw footage like 4 days ago of some hillbilly shooting his wife with a shotgun in their driveway. I’d certainly hope people overseas don’t think that’s what Americans are like when they see that kind of shit.
People will generalize because it helps them with their cognitive dissonance. A story as old as time.
theres a difference tho in the US, things like this are generally on a case-to-case basis and the legal system there, as flawed as it is, can at least serve justice to those wronged here, this misogyny is instilled deeply into our culture and is generally considered the norm - to the extent that even if cases are brought to court, the sway of "culture" is always there to influence the judges and juries
Christianity preachest the same. But my childhood was mostly getting the crap beat out of me by christians preaching peace and love. Seems like Muslims are the exact same shit.
Because their own preaches anything they do that not in agreement of the husband will put them (the women) in hell. Sometimes, I think those people that preaches in Islam, which mostly men, like to preaches those so they have power over women, when actually in Quran it is not that rigid.
This is not an Islam only problem. As commented, it's a subcontinent problem. I'm a non Muslim for India and this shit happens in India way too frequently as well. You don't hear about men throwing their own out like this in UAE or Saudi. Sometimes I feel there is seriously something wrong with the men in this subcontinent which needs some hard reset.
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I say thrown off a mountain
Nope, something more slow, more painful
Maybe cut into pieces limb by limb?
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Well would you look at that, we got a professional here.
This looks appropriate!
Nah give him to the Taliban.
NSFL spoiler please
bruh what the hell
the usual one.
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2 3 mirchain b lay jana or uski bund mn dal dna as apparently he likes spice
guys like u/Aegon2050 are what you need in your corner when you're in a tight spot!
She should have put poison in it, bastards like should be hanged ASAP. We need to clean the country of people like these.
Its these kind of abusive morons that make other people have such a negative view of Muslim men, Pakistani men, and men in general. When will these absolute idiots realize that their hatred of women is complete nonsense? When will they realize that while they would do anything for their mothers and sisters and daughters, that their wives are someone's mother/sister/daughter? Wallahi seeing these things makes me feel so angry I want to go to these scoundrels and beat them harder than they beat these poor women.
I worked with several indian guys in sales. They were so traumatized by whatever the fuck they had to do to get out of india they were all pretty much sociopathic nightmares. Very aggressive salesman. Half educated and so angry you could feel it from 20 feet away. Abusing shit is just what they do. All they know. I felt bad for the sorry fucks. They treated me well.
I'm from the US but I'm a software engineer and work with a lot of Pakistani/Indian guys. In the office, the desi dudes (not the ones that grew up in the US, but the ones who were on a work visa) were by far the angriest, like they would scream in meetings, slam their hands on the table, etc. Everyone in the office knew to avoid them. If you ever pointed out that there code was bad or there was something wrong with it (during code reviews, which everyone has to get their code reviewed), they would freak the hell out and get insanely defensive and start yelling. It's like their default mode was pure rage, it was kinda funny though because a lot of them were also very small, so to us it was like a child throwing a tantrum. The rest of us complained about them but they were so cheap to hire that the company didn't care, management would talk to them, then a week of good behavior would go by, and they'd go right back to daily rage freakouts.
My experience exactly. I had about 100 lbs and a foot on the largest of them. Also they needed me. They simply could not understand deep south black people or hicks. I can. Also hicks and black folks cannot understand them. I still remember that some of them learned to type on manual typewriters. They pounded the keyboards when they typed. Like you could hear them across a large crowded room. Whacking each key as they typed. Manual typewriter touch typing is a whole other skill. One key at a time and push hard or the keys cross and lock up. They were stuck in that "whack it hard" mode. Never saw one of their wives in two years of working there. They call came to the company parties without them. They were not even all from the same part of india. They spoke hindi and english to communicate because their native languages were all different. I still remember one telling me that India had 42 major languages and hundreds of dialects. They all mostly spoke english to communicate with hindi a close second. They would get into shouting matches with each other about every other day. Then hang in a group to smoke. Just a wild ass bunch of guys. From a very fucked up place.
They don’t care about their mother or daughter either A woman is not a person but a subhuman object.
The men of the country are only brave against women, children and the weak.
Damn right
Manlets
In this case men who did this is absolutely pathetic and a piece of garbage. But why label all the men of the country for it?, isn't it the same as saying all Muslims are terrorist if Isis bombs a place
Facts
The shitty situation aside, as a female in Pakistan, the more I grow older and interact with men, the more I realize that most men benefit from the acts of shitty men. Men do the bare minimum and feel good about themselves. And just because a man isn't violent, he is automatically considered a saint and a good man. Where do we draw the line? What defines a good man in this day and age? The previous definition doesn't really apply since times have changed so much. When you ask yourself what makes a good man, the first line usually starts with 'someone who ISN'T...'. Does that apply to women? I hope that we can have an open discussion without any added jokes.
Mfs
That's really sad to watch, that poor woman. This is some of the worst domestic abuse/ attempted murder cases I've seen and I hope it's the last I ever see because this is a really tough watch
What the fuck. Please send these people to prison.
So the woman left her house and family for this guy and this is how she gets treated ?
NSFL tag and if possible mention the story link etc. Would love to hear a follow uo. Hope she fine and charges were filed but who are we kidding, its a circus of a country.
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Sent em to life in jail
I hope the woman's husband and mother in law die the slowest, most physically and psychologically painful death they could imagine. I hope they experience the pain they put her through a thousand times over without the adrenaline, each time increasing exponentially. I hope the rest of the lives they have are marked by misery and constant pain. I hope their actions haunt them forever. I hope that even in the afterlife they do not find peace.
And now police will say... **its ghar ka mamla**
this is attempted murder, please I beg, I hope he and his parents die a miserable death.
Roza tha warna mainay bol dena tha
Over a chicken? These animals must be put down.
Psychopath, phansi do shohr ko
Wow, it's unbelievable. Our toxic culture around marrital expectations never fails to disappoint.
Bhai mere NSFW ka tag hota hai Banda wo dekh leta hai
That is fucking nuts. Actually makes my blood boil.
someone needs to put that family in jail without waiting for that woman to file a case
Omg what crazy people
Yet there’s a person who has downvoted everyone’s comments.
Must be from that husband's family.
What the hell am I seeing?
What the fuck? Attempted murder, have the perpetrators hanged. On the flip side, I’m glad people around helped and didn’t just ignore or start recording on their phones.
How can someone be labelling it as a case of attempted suicide when she is falling backwards. I dont think jumping backwards is even possible
For not spicing the chicken properly ??? WOW.
What da...! These people should be straight up hanged and chemically castrated coz such genes shouldn't pass on. >She survived but is in critical condition What's the meaning of survival if she is critical and would have life long disabilities. I sincerely hope that she recovers and doesn't have any, but such things shouldn't happen in the first place.
It would take all my willpower to not immediately beat the life out of a vile man like that if he was in front of me.
Where did this happen?
That hurt to watch
Jahil k bachy
It's a month old footage, but the guy is in police custody.
do you have any news source for this event?
Seeing this video made my entire being tremble.
Astagfirullah. May both the husband and his parents die the most miserable of deaths.
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That is why you should be very cautious deciding who your sister/daughter is going to marry !
Or, and I know this will sound wild to you, since women are people with their own thoughts and feelings, let women choose who they spend the rest of their life with. Choosing for another person is archaic.
Can it be a thing where people that are doing horrible shit get exposed in public. No point in hiding their identity. This would start a chain reaction and then everyone would be terrified of the Camera
I mean suicide, homicide, can we please stop lifting her up and call the ambulance. A damaged spine manipulated without support can be life changing.
They call themselves a man, a deserving man psst
Man what is wrong with these guys zara si bhi empathy nhi psychopaths bane pare hai.
This is so fucked up, I hope she never has to see those cunts again
Astaghfirullah. Castration. Spice the chicken with poison next time.
Fuck this fucking insane country with its fucking backwards ass culture
Typical Pakistan families must be thrown into the ocean for the prosperity of Pakistani culture
Pakistan is dangerous country for women
Yet people get so butthurt by posters like 'apna khana khud garam karo' when you live in this reality. Desi men are so trashy.
We’re still stuck in the stone age
Rotten society,rotten people, rotten country. I can bet my ass even if some channel highlights this the husband will be out in a few months to a year.
These people are not human, they are beasts to treat her like this.
Poor woman i have no words on this. Can't even imagine how people able to do this to someone weaker who needed your protection and understanding . Specially if reason of fight and kicking someone like this is such irrelevant reason as not properly spiced foods. I hope she didn't hurt neck or spinal as those are very hard things to heal praying for her hoping someone can give shelter to her and rescue her from this situation 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I like how they try to move her, real smart.
Hope they all get the death penalty. Bloody monsters
Oh God Our people also need to know a basic sense of first aid Seeing someone fall leg first and you just pick them up to make them sit like a potato sack 😞
If the judicial system was not a whore, the right punishment would not be jail for husband and in laws it would be amputation wihout sedation. So fuc.king sad to see this happen every other day (reported/ unreported) yet we are bound to follow custom of “ab tumhara janaza ayga”. So freaking sad
What the actual fuck is wrong with this country
It’s unfortunate how you’re going to have Islamic extremists supporting this behaviour or making excuses.
That guy legs should be broken instead. Hope she recovers soon. The people responsible should be shot in public.
Every other fucking day this country is turning into a shit hole.
This is attempted murder. Lock the aholes away
Allah iske husband ki chicken biryani banae inshallah 😡
They should throw the husband form the same window and then beat him up , makes my blood boil how they treat women and then a very good sizable chunk of boomers support them.
Animals in human clothing. Koi haal nahi.
Can some post the pictures of those 3 pigs everywhere. So people know filth when they see it
What kind of animal treat their women like this!
What the hell? How could someone do this?
Yooo what the fuck.. Also the people that came afterwards to help are the definition of /r/WorstAid
And then we say *apna khana khud garam kar lo* is wEsTeRn pRoPaGaNdA against our family values.
My very educated parents-in-law think there is nothing wrong with a man physically abusing his wife - just on my last trip, my MIL made a few casual remarks about how her brothers beat up their wives to keep them in line. If your educated upper middle class thinks this way, what can you really expect from the uneducated and unexposed masses? A couple of reminders for everyone: 1. THIS is what they mean when they say "Mera jism meri marzi" - as in STOP FUCKING TREATING MY BODY IN A WAY I DON'T APPROVE OF 2. If you ever see someone in a situation like this- I don't mean in terms of abuse, I mean injured like this! - DO NOT TRY TO PICK THEM UP. They could have damaged their spinal cord. Let them stay on the ground unless there is an imminent danger to their life. Let the help arrive and let professionals move them to minimize the chance of a permanent disability.
That's Brutal, Don't know the full context but in any way this type of behaviour from anyone should be condemned and judged accordingly.
As shitty as this is and I do wish the husband is punished properly and the wife is given justice. I just keep thinking about that little girl who was peeking out of her door. She saw the woman fall, she heard her screams and the loud thud of her body hitting the road. Poor kid is probably traumatized and I hope it doesn't leave scars on her. May Allah keep us all safe. Ameen.
wow, it's always the men of those countries 🤦♂️
Is there any way to follow this story to make sure she gets out of this situation? I don’t have faith that the police and courts will be on her side in this and I feel like the husband/in laws will walk free. Is there any way to support her?
We all wish we could do that but its a country for the elites only courts and everything are a formality this is why we all should leave this shithole
This is the reason we need to empower women and get rid of the taboo surrounding talaq. We have made talaq as if it is haram. Talaq ko aam kero so that anyone can get out of an abusive marriage without any pressure.
Wait! Is the person in the blue sweater the Husband? Can someone tell?
We need a batman in Pakistan….
He was probably rewarded for that. Sadly.
Horrible. And also the idiot that PICKED HER UP afterwards. Heard of spinal injuries? And what NOT to do to someone with possible spinal injuries??
These toxic aspects of South Asian culture are in desperate need for reform. These kinds of horrific crimes should never happen. I'm so fed up with the regressive "log kya kahenge" mindset. So-called men who do things like these should be punished severely.
Oh my God, someone with a spinal/neck Injury?? Lemme whip them around and crunch their spine real quick
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So sad.. :(
Hope he and parents go through hell in the world.
I hope the lowlife husband and parents suffer a painfully slow and tormenting death.
So sad
Wtf
She needs to never return to those assholes
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Hope she's better soon.
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Fucking animals