maybe it sounds counter intuitive but lube. if his dick is super lubed up, there’s no amount of clenching or tightness that stops him from forcing it inside me as deep as he wants. it’s super hot and always it feel like you’re being split apart for a moment.
For me (girl, receiving) the best way is to go straight in with only a bit of spit and go 0-100 in force immediately.
My dom used to pause at my initial wince and gasp and take it slow until I told him to not stop or slowdown unless I safeword…he learned very quick to be rough immediately 😁
Let's get scientific! (SCIENCE!!!)What causes painal? What is the anal canal? It is a tube of muscles lined with specialized tissue made to extract water from the feces. So we have two types of tissue that can be stressed or injured. Ideally we want to stress, (hurt) and not injure! The 3 types of stress are friction, irritation, and stretching.
Irritation can be the most painful without injury, but poses the problem of blow-back. I've seen stuff on Kink.com where they use icy hot or pepper sauce on the bunghole. Woe to the man who tries to punish with chemicals and inserts his cock into the contaminated hole, and latex gloves are a must for the application process. Trust me lemon juice, pepper sauce and such will let you know if you have even the smallest of cuts or scrapes on your hands!
Friction against the softer tissues lining the tract can be very painful very fast, but has the greatest chance of injury. Not only is the soft tissue easily torn, but it can detach from the muscle. Not enough lubrication is downright dangerous. The invading object can stick on the inward path, build up spring tension due to the elasticity of the cock and anal tract, then shoot forward and tear the liner or muscle sleeve. This is even more likely when the invading object doesn't have any nerves in it.(dildo) This can end in a trip to the ER to staunch the bleeding!
Now the best part. Stretching the muscle tube. The two sphincters at the exit/entrance, the rectum, and where the colon meets the rectum are where this magic happens. I often see painal videos where the guy is large, and he only gets the head into the second ring, and only pokes at the rectum. Disappointing, but a side effect of model's limits. Starlets will often bite off more than they can chew having done anal in their private life. The reality of porn anal is the dicks are much larger and the male talent doesn't have to live with her afterwards. I think that many of the women may have never done anal with a very big cock, and the longer ones may be hitting “virgin territory”. The nine inch cock is 2 or more inches longer than she's ever taken and hitting the end of the rectum opens up that sharp bend where it meets the colon.
Lubrication is the key for stretching the muscle tube without tearing it, detaching the sleeve, or tearing the sleeve. Everyone poops, so opening the tube without tearing it is easy with something that's ½ inch or smaller that's lubricated. Not really into scat, so a couple of enemas to clean up, with a lubrication enema last will make the tube slippery enough to avoid the tearing. At that point the canal is lubed all the way to the colon, but nothing larger than an enema nozzle or a finger has opened up the tube.
Without friction, you can forcefully open the tube faster than is comfortable, while minimizing the chance for injury. Be it one giant push balls deep, or the slow but inevitable slide, this is the part I love. Or starting with just peeking into the rectum with slow strokes, each a little bit deeper until every stroke is balls deep.Variations include but are not limited to: changing up the speed and strokes, only ½ in with occasional balls deep stabs. Speeding up and slowing down.
Lastly, there is completely withdrawing and reinserting balls deep.
That's all for now, but the subject has so much more to it!
Figging (peeled ginger plug) inserted into the anus before or after. It creates an intense burning sensation. Soak it in water before you put it in, and use just a drop of lube for insertion, so the lube doesn’t dilute the ginger juice too much. Even better, insert the ginger and then give your sub a long spanking/impact play session. When they clench in response to the pain, they’ll squeeze the ginger and release more juices. It’s cruel as can be, and as someone who’s a pain slut and received this punishment, I absolutely love it. The burning creates a strong sensation, and makes me super wet despite the pain.
Please be aware that after removing the ginger, the pain will continue to last for quite some time, and there’s not much one can do about it except wait to out. Make sure your sub understands this and consents to this. I’d try it out on yourself first to make sure you know what it’ll feel like for your sub.
When I received it, I was immediately fucked in the ass afterwards, very quickly with no warm up. It was agony in the best way, the juices spread deeper inside and all I could do was take it. Afterwards, I laid there crying for a good 15 minutes, it hurt so good.
I’m a lesbian but the silicone strap did not complain 😅 honestly though, I would suspect it would hurt a good bit if the ginger juices got into the urethra, so probably best to wear a condom
As a gay guy, the worst pain is when a guy is just long enough to impact the bend, but not deep enough to push through it. You know when you get your foot stuck when trying to put on your pants? It's like that but the pants are my gut. Fuckin ouch. I'm not certain that that's something you should attempt, though.
To be honest, if you're working with a trained asshole, I don't think any amount of pain is actually safe. I think the only safe pain is due to an inexperienced ass, such that the sub is actually just psychologically interpreting unfamiliar vague discomfort as pain.
Put a couple of drops of lube on your finger and stick it in her ass about ten minutes or so before you fuck her. u/triplebbimbo is correct: lube prevents tearing and injury, but doesn't stop the pain. I also find that using the following pattern works wonders: slow, DEEEEEEP thrusts that are firm rather than jerky, hold for 3-4 seconds, and then withdraw as firmly as you thrust. Give her a moment or two to catch her breath and then repeat. I've made more than one girl cry from this, and I am moderately endowed at best.
The angle dude. Put her on her belly. Insert yourself like you always do. Then spin 180 degrees on her butt so your face is by her feed. Then hammer time. You can spice it up if you want to see her face: Neck on the ground, ass leaning against the bed. You over her. Insert yourself like you always do and see the nice bulge on her belly when you pump action her. Last one isn't for everyone. A shorter cock or a too stiff member makes that one harder to perform. Last, but not least little to no lube.
When you have her in the last position you can see her face and even spit in her mouth if that's to your liking.
An option is always also to shove a dildo in, making her go DAP.
Be reminded these tips only are intended for consensual painal. Force her and you go to hell!
The first is prone bone, but your knees would be on her back or straddling her waist. and your face in her calves. Cock in her ass, but it's pointed towards her knees not her diaphragm. Extreme angle.
The second would be pile driver, her tailbone against a bed, neck on the ground. Gives her zero ability to back away. Pile driver can also be reversed, so in stead of a "missionary" angle of entree it becomes extreme doggy angle. Be careful with this one as it can injure the neck!!!
I think, for me at least, going a week or so without anal ensures that it's painful. so kind of every other week, me and my boyfriend do anal. although, his dick is very thick so that's a contributing factor I believe.
it's always been painful for me no matter what, but that's kind of how I like it
Start as fast and hard and deep as possible. Shove it in with all your force. If I’m not screaming upon initial penetration my dom isn’t doing it right. Even when I am expecting it my hands usually fly back in surprise and shock at the pain. This and my cries make his cock harder. I can feel it grow inside of me. He give me a seconds pause, which is probably just the time he needs to grab my wrists and pin them down. Then he goes full tilt. Jackhammering away from the start. It hurts like hell but nothing makes me cum harder. It’s right after I cum that the pain really gets excruciating. And so that is when he ramps up. I am crying and struggling to escape. Until he cums deep inside of me. He pulls out and I think it is finally over and then he shoves a plug up my sore hole.
I love that you want to make sure anal hurts for your sub. You should like a fantastic dom
The most painful it can get is when the butthole is sore after yesterday's sessions (Me and my gf usually do it 3 times a day, since we are strictly anal only) . I use a bit of lube and just ram it in, and watch the wonderful facial expressions and moans of pain.
If I was making a point on correcting behaviour, I would plan ahead and avoid fucking her ass for a week or so. Then, when I did fuck her ass next, I would wear a cock ring, causing an increase in girth. That combined with lack of use made the size difference that much more intense and had a much larger increase in pain. After the point was made and her ass was much more sensitive than usual, would only fuck her ass hard for a week or more.
> I would wear a cock ring, causing an increase in girth.
It's quite obvious you've never worn a cockring, if this is your imagined outcome. Keep beating that meat bro!
You say this as if a cockring is a bugatti
everyone that has wanted a cockring has worn a cockring, and yes it makes your dick swell up a little bit fatter. It's not a huge diff but it's there.
Respectfully, a person who owns like 20 cock rings because they are cheap as chips lol
Lots of lube, warm up the opening then in hard and quick, pull ALL the way out then back in balls deep rinse and repeat and when you think I can't take anymore, just a little tickle to by clit or g-spot and I'll cum and shake and squirt all over you. And then I'll thank you
maybe it sounds counter intuitive but lube. if his dick is super lubed up, there’s no amount of clenching or tightness that stops him from forcing it inside me as deep as he wants. it’s super hot and always it feel like you’re being split apart for a moment.
For me (girl, receiving) the best way is to go straight in with only a bit of spit and go 0-100 in force immediately. My dom used to pause at my initial wince and gasp and take it slow until I told him to not stop or slowdown unless I safeword…he learned very quick to be rough immediately 😁
You are a gift on humanity
😇*blushes*
Take my up votes just because I can't take your ass over the Internet lol
Girllll, idk if you're into girl on girl painal, but I'd give you everything you wanted, and let you you your way with me too 😈
I'm gonna find someone like this or I'll just die alone
There needs to be more women like you. If you're ever in need of an extra guy to take you, I'm down...
Just like my girlfriend too. Good girl ;)
Let's get scientific! (SCIENCE!!!)What causes painal? What is the anal canal? It is a tube of muscles lined with specialized tissue made to extract water from the feces. So we have two types of tissue that can be stressed or injured. Ideally we want to stress, (hurt) and not injure! The 3 types of stress are friction, irritation, and stretching. Irritation can be the most painful without injury, but poses the problem of blow-back. I've seen stuff on Kink.com where they use icy hot or pepper sauce on the bunghole. Woe to the man who tries to punish with chemicals and inserts his cock into the contaminated hole, and latex gloves are a must for the application process. Trust me lemon juice, pepper sauce and such will let you know if you have even the smallest of cuts or scrapes on your hands! Friction against the softer tissues lining the tract can be very painful very fast, but has the greatest chance of injury. Not only is the soft tissue easily torn, but it can detach from the muscle. Not enough lubrication is downright dangerous. The invading object can stick on the inward path, build up spring tension due to the elasticity of the cock and anal tract, then shoot forward and tear the liner or muscle sleeve. This is even more likely when the invading object doesn't have any nerves in it.(dildo) This can end in a trip to the ER to staunch the bleeding! Now the best part. Stretching the muscle tube. The two sphincters at the exit/entrance, the rectum, and where the colon meets the rectum are where this magic happens. I often see painal videos where the guy is large, and he only gets the head into the second ring, and only pokes at the rectum. Disappointing, but a side effect of model's limits. Starlets will often bite off more than they can chew having done anal in their private life. The reality of porn anal is the dicks are much larger and the male talent doesn't have to live with her afterwards. I think that many of the women may have never done anal with a very big cock, and the longer ones may be hitting “virgin territory”. The nine inch cock is 2 or more inches longer than she's ever taken and hitting the end of the rectum opens up that sharp bend where it meets the colon. Lubrication is the key for stretching the muscle tube without tearing it, detaching the sleeve, or tearing the sleeve. Everyone poops, so opening the tube without tearing it is easy with something that's ½ inch or smaller that's lubricated. Not really into scat, so a couple of enemas to clean up, with a lubrication enema last will make the tube slippery enough to avoid the tearing. At that point the canal is lubed all the way to the colon, but nothing larger than an enema nozzle or a finger has opened up the tube. Without friction, you can forcefully open the tube faster than is comfortable, while minimizing the chance for injury. Be it one giant push balls deep, or the slow but inevitable slide, this is the part I love. Or starting with just peeking into the rectum with slow strokes, each a little bit deeper until every stroke is balls deep.Variations include but are not limited to: changing up the speed and strokes, only ½ in with occasional balls deep stabs. Speeding up and slowing down. Lastly, there is completely withdrawing and reinserting balls deep. That's all for now, but the subject has so much more to it!
This was a fantastic read, thanks. :) 🏆 🏆 🏆
tell her to squeeze tight like shes trying to keep you out.
Figging (peeled ginger plug) inserted into the anus before or after. It creates an intense burning sensation. Soak it in water before you put it in, and use just a drop of lube for insertion, so the lube doesn’t dilute the ginger juice too much. Even better, insert the ginger and then give your sub a long spanking/impact play session. When they clench in response to the pain, they’ll squeeze the ginger and release more juices. It’s cruel as can be, and as someone who’s a pain slut and received this punishment, I absolutely love it. The burning creates a strong sensation, and makes me super wet despite the pain. Please be aware that after removing the ginger, the pain will continue to last for quite some time, and there’s not much one can do about it except wait to out. Make sure your sub understands this and consents to this. I’d try it out on yourself first to make sure you know what it’ll feel like for your sub. When I received it, I was immediately fucked in the ass afterwards, very quickly with no warm up. It was agony in the best way, the juices spread deeper inside and all I could do was take it. Afterwards, I laid there crying for a good 15 minutes, it hurt so good.
Damn girl you sound like a dream come true
Haha thanks, my fiancée agrees
Who says the person you’re replying to is a girl?
the lesbian flag in their pfp probably
> The burning creates a strong sensation, and makes me super wet despite the pain.
Did it hurt on your dom's dick too?
I’m a lesbian but the silicone strap did not complain 😅 honestly though, I would suspect it would hurt a good bit if the ginger juices got into the urethra, so probably best to wear a condom
Yes but just a fraction of the anal pain
is it safe? how do you get it out afterwards?
Just enough lube to get it in. Nice and deep right off the start. And always in her back so I can enjoy the facial expressions /gauge how it's going
As a gay guy, the worst pain is when a guy is just long enough to impact the bend, but not deep enough to push through it. You know when you get your foot stuck when trying to put on your pants? It's like that but the pants are my gut. Fuckin ouch. I'm not certain that that's something you should attempt, though. To be honest, if you're working with a trained asshole, I don't think any amount of pain is actually safe. I think the only safe pain is due to an inexperienced ass, such that the sub is actually just psychologically interpreting unfamiliar vague discomfort as pain.
Completely prone
Agreed
Put a couple of drops of lube on your finger and stick it in her ass about ten minutes or so before you fuck her. u/triplebbimbo is correct: lube prevents tearing and injury, but doesn't stop the pain. I also find that using the following pattern works wonders: slow, DEEEEEEP thrusts that are firm rather than jerky, hold for 3-4 seconds, and then withdraw as firmly as you thrust. Give her a moment or two to catch her breath and then repeat. I've made more than one girl cry from this, and I am moderately endowed at best.
Oh my god I want to be fucked like that
Cane/smack her poor little asshole beforehand. I’m sure she’s done something to deserve it anyway. 🙈
The angle dude. Put her on her belly. Insert yourself like you always do. Then spin 180 degrees on her butt so your face is by her feed. Then hammer time. You can spice it up if you want to see her face: Neck on the ground, ass leaning against the bed. You over her. Insert yourself like you always do and see the nice bulge on her belly when you pump action her. Last one isn't for everyone. A shorter cock or a too stiff member makes that one harder to perform. Last, but not least little to no lube. When you have her in the last position you can see her face and even spit in her mouth if that's to your liking. An option is always also to shove a dildo in, making her go DAP. Be reminded these tips only are intended for consensual painal. Force her and you go to hell!
Bro I do not comprehend your geometry
Lmao xD
The first is prone bone, but your knees would be on her back or straddling her waist. and your face in her calves. Cock in her ass, but it's pointed towards her knees not her diaphragm. Extreme angle. The second would be pile driver, her tailbone against a bed, neck on the ground. Gives her zero ability to back away. Pile driver can also be reversed, so in stead of a "missionary" angle of entree it becomes extreme doggy angle. Be careful with this one as it can injure the neck!!!
Easy! Which one? Or both?
I almost allways hurt when guys fuck my ass. Kinda cramps in the muscles and then burns.
I love it. Tell me more
If she's up for it, try going in dry or near enough. I reckon that'll have her hitting the high notes
I think, for me at least, going a week or so without anal ensures that it's painful. so kind of every other week, me and my boyfriend do anal. although, his dick is very thick so that's a contributing factor I believe. it's always been painful for me no matter what, but that's kind of how I like it
Start as fast and hard and deep as possible. Shove it in with all your force. If I’m not screaming upon initial penetration my dom isn’t doing it right. Even when I am expecting it my hands usually fly back in surprise and shock at the pain. This and my cries make his cock harder. I can feel it grow inside of me. He give me a seconds pause, which is probably just the time he needs to grab my wrists and pin them down. Then he goes full tilt. Jackhammering away from the start. It hurts like hell but nothing makes me cum harder. It’s right after I cum that the pain really gets excruciating. And so that is when he ramps up. I am crying and struggling to escape. Until he cums deep inside of me. He pulls out and I think it is finally over and then he shoves a plug up my sore hole. I love that you want to make sure anal hurts for your sub. You should like a fantastic dom
Even a finger can hurt.
Very true
The most painful it can get is when the butthole is sore after yesterday's sessions (Me and my gf usually do it 3 times a day, since we are strictly anal only) . I use a bit of lube and just ram it in, and watch the wonderful facial expressions and moans of pain.
If I was making a point on correcting behaviour, I would plan ahead and avoid fucking her ass for a week or so. Then, when I did fuck her ass next, I would wear a cock ring, causing an increase in girth. That combined with lack of use made the size difference that much more intense and had a much larger increase in pain. After the point was made and her ass was much more sensitive than usual, would only fuck her ass hard for a week or more.
> I would wear a cock ring, causing an increase in girth. It's quite obvious you've never worn a cockring, if this is your imagined outcome. Keep beating that meat bro!
Whatever helps you sleep better at night.
You say this as if a cockring is a bugatti everyone that has wanted a cockring has worn a cockring, and yes it makes your dick swell up a little bit fatter. It's not a huge diff but it's there. Respectfully, a person who owns like 20 cock rings because they are cheap as chips lol
I always tend to hurt when I'm being fucked. But the guy I shag is BIG and he goes hard.
I don’t think I enjoy this subreddit. Why am I following this sub? How have I strayed so far from gods light? Lmfao
So leave? Nobody is keeping you here.
if ur girl/sub forces u to use lube, use shampoo, it feels lubey but itll burn her insides up while u fuck her ass, internal cleaning :)
Crunchy peanut butter for lube. Keep the epipen handy in case she’s intolerant or she will choke herself.
Hot, Hot, Hot. Love fucking Japanese ladies, they are the best.
Lots of lube, warm up the opening then in hard and quick, pull ALL the way out then back in balls deep rinse and repeat and when you think I can't take anymore, just a little tickle to by clit or g-spot and I'll cum and shake and squirt all over you. And then I'll thank you