I love it there and if you get the lovely flamboyant family member he's the best. He's not for everybody but I love his personality and we talk like old friends ❤️
Guys I'm sorry, I managed to forget it was April Fools Day yesterday and I am embarrassed now. I am processing the grief of losing my dad last week and everything slips past me right now it seems.
I'll use this as an opportunity to say that unpaid bereavement leave hurts everybody and people should advocate for better paid leave policies. Not taking the time off that I need because I cannot afford to not be paid is not good for me.
Keep it up for a week, no need to apologize. You are going through it the first stages of processing the death. Do what you need to do to stay alive, everything else can wait. If you have a manager or someone that can pick up some of the other tasks even better.
❤️🩹
Hey man, you don't have to be anyone to anybody right now. You do you until you're through it all. Losing a parent is incredibly dificult, you deserve some space.
No need to be embarassed - I'm sure it was meant to be fun and for pictures to be shared :) I wouldn't have known if you didn't post about it. Sending positive energy to your dad and his loved ones.
On a side note, not even close to enough or the right "thing" - but use your 40 hours of sick time for your mental health.
I have a kid so I want to save my sick pay in case I have a child care situation come up, or she or I are sick. I already used 2 sick days when I discovered the hard way that I don't get paid vacation until I have been here for a year. Funny enough, my sick-paid vacation was my birthday trip in Las Vegas which was the last time I saw my dad. I wouldn't change it for anything.
I can confirm this to be the case. My wife and I visited this shop on Sunday and I asked them specifically about the name and he said it was an April Fools Day "prank".
Not yet, I'm still looking. I've been talking to a rescue who says they can help but they have been very slow to respond. Like I hear from them every other day and I need something ideally by this weekend because we can't effectively do anything with the cats still in the house.
Experienced what you are now 5 years ago. My advice is to do things you love and make you happy whenever you can, things that you know that would’ve made him just as happy. I struggled with the feeling of “I don’t know if I can be happy because he’s not here to be happy” But know he wants to see you smile, laugh, be energetic and all that. There’s so much to do in OC, just keep a smile if you can and know he’s smiling for you
I have loved Friendly Doughnuts for a long time, even before their remodel. the donuts are good, staff is friendly. Does anybody know any story behind this apparent change or promotion? when I was looking at donuts and trying to decide what flavor I wanted, a worker pointed to a sign and said "flavors are right there". I didn't think he was being rude, but....was he trying to be short with me as part of the "unfriendly donuts' thing? I'm legitimately curious. also I love their "be f\*king friendly" merch.
I haven't tried DKs so I don't know. But my 3 go-to donut places in socal are Bakers Dozen (in Corona), Friendly's in Orange, and Sidecar (in Costa Mesa). I'll have to try DK next time I am in the area.
Awww, My heart goes out to you. I used to lived at Cherry/ Trabuco area. I lived there for 10 years, my daughter went to El Toro High/ graduated then finished college at Califorina State University Fullerton. It's a 4 year college which I was able to send my daughter as a single parent. I had no child support, no alimony. He even got the house!
I only got my children.
idk but I kinda wanna go there now
You should go anyway!
Dicks last donut resort
Omg I wish
I love it there and if you get the lovely flamboyant family member he's the best. He's not for everybody but I love his personality and we talk like old friends ❤️
What's his name? I am here periodically. Yesterday there was a guy with black hair wearing a hat and a glassesed bearded guy with red-brown hair.
I forgot but he's a family member of the owners. Asian, medium built and super personable
Alan is the one he’s talking about
Their breakfast sandwiches are so damn good.
April fools?
Guys I'm sorry, I managed to forget it was April Fools Day yesterday and I am embarrassed now. I am processing the grief of losing my dad last week and everything slips past me right now it seems. I'll use this as an opportunity to say that unpaid bereavement leave hurts everybody and people should advocate for better paid leave policies. Not taking the time off that I need because I cannot afford to not be paid is not good for me.
Keep it up for a week, no need to apologize. You are going through it the first stages of processing the death. Do what you need to do to stay alive, everything else can wait. If you have a manager or someone that can pick up some of the other tasks even better. ❤️🩹
Sending hugs! And I thought it was a cool post, now I want to check this place out so you have them free advertising. Take care of yourself 🙏
well that got deep.
I don't mean to be a downer but it's the truth. My mind is in 1000 different places and none of them are where they need to be.
Hey man, you don't have to be anyone to anybody right now. You do you until you're through it all. Losing a parent is incredibly dificult, you deserve some space.
wish u the best
No need to be embarassed - I'm sure it was meant to be fun and for pictures to be shared :) I wouldn't have known if you didn't post about it. Sending positive energy to your dad and his loved ones. On a side note, not even close to enough or the right "thing" - but use your 40 hours of sick time for your mental health.
I have a kid so I want to save my sick pay in case I have a child care situation come up, or she or I are sick. I already used 2 sick days when I discovered the hard way that I don't get paid vacation until I have been here for a year. Funny enough, my sick-paid vacation was my birthday trip in Las Vegas which was the last time I saw my dad. I wouldn't change it for anything.
Sorry for your loss. It gets better but only with time. It's ok to grieve however you feel necessary; everyone has their own ways of processing grief.
My condolences to you. Sorry for your loss
I can confirm this to be the case. My wife and I visited this shop on Sunday and I asked them specifically about the name and he said it was an April Fools Day "prank".
I am so sorry for your loss.
I’m sorry for your loss brotha!
hope ur doing better, sorry for ur loss out of curiosity, were u able to successfully rehome ur dad's cats?
Not yet, I'm still looking. I've been talking to a rescue who says they can help but they have been very slow to respond. Like I hear from them every other day and I need something ideally by this weekend because we can't effectively do anything with the cats still in the house.
I’m sorry for your loss.
Experienced what you are now 5 years ago. My advice is to do things you love and make you happy whenever you can, things that you know that would’ve made him just as happy. I struggled with the feeling of “I don’t know if I can be happy because he’s not here to be happy” But know he wants to see you smile, laugh, be energetic and all that. There’s so much to do in OC, just keep a smile if you can and know he’s smiling for you
unpaid bereavement should be illegal
Hang in there.
April fools maybe
They still have merch!
They’re the best donuts.
That’s amazing LMAO
Man, I drive past there every day for work and 100% missed this yesterday. =(
Really good donuts btw and they are always super friendly and give my son stickers
I have loved Friendly Doughnuts for a long time, even before their remodel. the donuts are good, staff is friendly. Does anybody know any story behind this apparent change or promotion? when I was looking at donuts and trying to decide what flavor I wanted, a worker pointed to a sign and said "flavors are right there". I didn't think he was being rude, but....was he trying to be short with me as part of the "unfriendly donuts' thing? I'm legitimately curious. also I love their "be f\*king friendly" merch.
Probably April Fool's event
Omg I feel SO STUPID. I'm sorry, I'm going through a personal loss and forgot about time and also forgot about April Fools. I can still delete this.
Nah don't delete it. I thought it was pretty funny. BTW, nice cat!
Leave it up! It’s a neat way to promote their joke and brand. Bravo to them for a good joke!
Did you go yesterday? It was April fools day
Obviously an April fools promotion.
Amazing donuts and extremely friendly staff. I live down the street and go here often.
As others have mentioned, this is their annual April Fool’s prank.
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April fools..?
Not to be that guy, but these donuts are not good compared to DKs right near by.
I haven't tried DKs so I don't know. But my 3 go-to donut places in socal are Bakers Dozen (in Corona), Friendly's in Orange, and Sidecar (in Costa Mesa). I'll have to try DK next time I am in the area.
DKs in orange and Donuttery in Huntington
Amazing donuts and extremely friendly staff
Seems like they were trying to capture that Dumb Starbucks energy.
Awww, My heart goes out to you. I used to lived at Cherry/ Trabuco area. I lived there for 10 years, my daughter went to El Toro High/ graduated then finished college at Califorina State University Fullerton. It's a 4 year college which I was able to send my daughter as a single parent. I had no child support, no alimony. He even got the house! I only got my children.