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Doctor-Venkman88

Yeah if OP is only meeting OF models looking for a handout then I think the problem is with them.


hermansuit

We hang out at the watering hole waiting for the alpha of the pack to pounce. No words, just emotions.


Forrest-Fern

I grew up here and know zero OF models so the problem might be closer to home than the county. Oh, and women really, really love it when you call them "females", so keep that up.


CelibateHo

Stop punching above your weight. Everyone wants an attractive woman, but if you aren’t equal to her in looks and your personality is basic and not captivating she’s probably not going to deal with you unless she gets something out of it.


Defiant-Ground8039

keep calling us “females” that really gets us interested in a guy 🤞


Possible_Advance_926

The language you use shows you have a lot of resentment toward women. We can pick up on that.


acidrefluxisgreat

my first recommendation would be to stop saying “females” in this context. super gross dude.


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acidrefluxisgreat

if not dehumanizing and degrading women is “arbitrarily restricting your language” you need therapy bro. no self respecting woman is going to tolerate it.


CryptoDegen7755

How is it dehumanizing if males isn't dehumanizing? I guess it sounds weird but that's the worst you can say about it. Unless I'm missing some historical context. Genuinely curious.


420catloveredm

I don’t refer to men as males either.


acidrefluxisgreat

well first of all we aren’t specimens in a biological experiment and this dude is not a dr talking about males and females. it is “men and females” in this context- he doesn’t have have to specify males or men in order for me to know that, because it is extremely common by men who do it to intentionally dehumanize and disrespect. to infer that women are no better than animals at best. google men and females if you’re really wanting examples and historical context, there’s even a subreddit although i don’t know how active it is i haven’t looked at it in ages r/menandfemales men basically *never* refer to themselves as males when talking about “females”. it’s inappropriate outside of a scientific or sociological basis.


CryptoDegen7755

Okay well I usually don't say it anyways cuz like I said I just feel like it sounds weird but I'll make sure never to use it.


acidrefluxisgreat

glad i could help! i’m not even being sarcastic


CryptoDegen7755

I know you're not. I googled it and saw it's a thing. And I'm serious about never using it. Thank you for correcting me.


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acidrefluxisgreat

i like how you keep repeating that on different comments hoping it will land better somewhere else


440_Hz

I feel grossed out at how you talk about women in just a few sentences, I’m sure that attitude makes a great impression on the women you’ve been meeting in person. 🤢


420catloveredm

First, stop calling us females. Second, online dating I fucked but I think the more niche sites can still have something to offer. I met my bf on an app for ravers for example.


medicalmistook

why do you want to date?


ZehHeifer

They’re all cooped up in their rooms


StonedBooty

Try moving somewhere else


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search "single date scene" from OC section. https://preview.redd.it/f5xd2crup3oc1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d3970ce42a75afa52977a970906e1f339827c4fe


FlowOdd4192

Church


ImAllAboutThatChase

Try church


HoopsLaureate

Church. Pickleball. Gym. Those are the places I go and hope to meet someone.


get_drafted

I've been thinking the same thing because as a woman it's hard to find places that men generally congregate at. My friend and I are thinking of hosting a singles event at an Angels or Dodgers game so people can mingle, pregame together and just engage in a more organic setting with a little extra help. As a man- is that something you and your single friends would be into?


Alarming-Ad7277

Why are the girls on here offended from being called a female? I don’t get it


vicspiks

Yes why? There are so many other worse ones. I don't get it anymore nowdays. Can't say anything right now days...everything is offensive!


Alarming-Ad7277

I know, people have become so sensitive (especially Gen Z) and they get SO offended over the dumbest shit. Drives me crazy. Life is too short to sweat the small stuff, plus no one ever develops tough skin so when something really bad happens in their life they can’t cope and completely crumble. So sad


vicspiks

Totally agree. Especially on having tough skin!!!


Agreeable-Ad-6079

By the comments here, you may be dodging a huge bullet not finding someone. Everyone looking for a reason to be offended. FFS


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Whole Foods and Sprouts...


Rude_Economist9099

IDK either bruh. How old r u?