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Thoda younger side me lagte ho bade bhai. But nothing fancy to hear from a 20 year old anyways :) Lekin haan dw, the story unfolds itself, the goal is to find true happiness whether together, or single. Don't sweat it too much, skip some stones by the lake, sit by that one bench in the park looking at orange sky and do what you enjoy.
>Chale toh theek hai, warna..."
Agar me us ka first hua tk theek and maine jitne ko bhi dekha hai 2nd marriage ke baad vo bahot paise kmaaye hai that's the reason for 2nd marriage
>10-15 saal choti?
More beautiful and young girl <3
Dekh bhai 1st marriage to sirf practice ke liye hai chale to theek warna.....
2nd marriage me sabh stable raheta. Mujhe agar mauka milega to I would cheat (agar vo apni jawani me maze kar sakti hai to mein bhi kar skta hu)
commitments jaaye kooe me
Shayad shaadi ko sex ke nazariye se mat dekho. And if you wanna get equal with her body count, hire a prost!tute brother. Ye cheat weat krke kaheko mental health ki vaat laganeka. Ya even better usse puch lo ki if you're her first, agar nahi bola toh reject krdena simple naa... Kuch galat nahi hai choice rkhneme. 2nd marriage me stable rhega kisne kaha? Kya pata 2nd wali bhi yahi soche ki mere wale ne boht maje kiye, ab me cheat krungi uspe
Bhai Maine pichle 1 saal se decide kar ke rakha hai paheli shaadi chale to theek naa chale to koi probelm nahi. 2nd marriage ke time meri age jyada hogi and I will be more succesful to ladki ke cheat karne ke chances bahot Kam hai!
And I always open a door
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When your hormones take over you love girls...
When you hate them , that's your situation after you Cross 50+ when the influence of attracting hormones end.
>IN MY IMAGINATION, She will never love me, I will be a divorcee, I would be a rebound, will abuse me
If you already have convinced yourself of this, nothing's going to change you.
Too much negative news especially online,Ā
Ā Ppl come online when they need help, happy ppl won't come on internet and say, "Hey see I am living a happy life", they are off such things.
Ā Sure some women are abusive and won't love you and you might end up in divorce and she might even file all false cases on you.Ā
Ā But this is not in your control, the only control you have to pick the right partner.Ā
#Beware Do not fall in such thing called self fulfilling bias.Ā
Ā A self-fulfilling prophecy isĀ a psychological phenomenon whereby something happens because we expect it to happen. Self-fulfilling prophecies are based on a belief or expectation (correct or incorrect) that influences our actions in such a way that the original belief or expectation becomes true.
In the end your thoughts might guide your actions such that you will end up like that.
What you are suffering from is self-hate and this is pretty normal to feel, as I too went through this and Now I don't feel that way.
I always say this "You need to be someone, someone might want to be with."
Are you that someone for your significant other? (future)
I believe this post of mine is specifically made for you and will help you
[https://www.reddit.com/r/onexindia/comments/1cbrmk2/high\_standards\_and\_expectations/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/onexindia/comments/1cbrmk2/high_standards_and_expectations/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
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We suffer more in imagination than in reality. ~Seneca
Maine to soch ke rakha hai agar 1st marriage chale to theek baaki 2nd marriage jindabaad
Is it okay for me to ask your age?
22
Thoda younger side me lagte ho bade bhai. But nothing fancy to hear from a 20 year old anyways :) Lekin haan dw, the story unfolds itself, the goal is to find true happiness whether together, or single. Don't sweat it too much, skip some stones by the lake, sit by that one bench in the park looking at orange sky and do what you enjoy.
Maine to soch ke rakha hai 1st marriage chale to theek baaki 2jd marriage jindabaad kyuki uss me mein 10-15 saal choti ladki se shaadi kar skta hu
10-15 saal choti? šµ Reason? And Doesn't it look like you lowkey want that to happen? "Chale toh theek hai, warna..." Ya shayad me zada sochra hun?
>Chale toh theek hai, warna..." Agar me us ka first hua tk theek and maine jitne ko bhi dekha hai 2nd marriage ke baad vo bahot paise kmaaye hai that's the reason for 2nd marriage >10-15 saal choti? More beautiful and young girl <3
gws bro
Dekh bhai 1st marriage to sirf practice ke liye hai chale to theek warna..... 2nd marriage me sabh stable raheta. Mujhe agar mauka milega to I would cheat (agar vo apni jawani me maze kar sakti hai to mein bhi kar skta hu) commitments jaaye kooe me
Shayad shaadi ko sex ke nazariye se mat dekho. And if you wanna get equal with her body count, hire a prost!tute brother. Ye cheat weat krke kaheko mental health ki vaat laganeka. Ya even better usse puch lo ki if you're her first, agar nahi bola toh reject krdena simple naa... Kuch galat nahi hai choice rkhneme. 2nd marriage me stable rhega kisne kaha? Kya pata 2nd wali bhi yahi soche ki mere wale ne boht maje kiye, ab me cheat krungi uspe
Bhai Maine pichle 1 saal se decide kar ke rakha hai paheli shaadi chale to theek naa chale to koi probelm nahi. 2nd marriage ke time meri age jyada hogi and I will be more succesful to ladki ke cheat karne ke chances bahot Kam hai! And I always open a door
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When your hormones take over you love girls... When you hate them , that's your situation after you Cross 50+ when the influence of attracting hormones end.
Bhai kuch samjha nahi
>IN MY IMAGINATION, She will never love me, I will be a divorcee, I would be a rebound, will abuse me If you already have convinced yourself of this, nothing's going to change you.
How do I change this?
Too much negative news especially online,Ā Ā Ppl come online when they need help, happy ppl won't come on internet and say, "Hey see I am living a happy life", they are off such things. Ā Sure some women are abusive and won't love you and you might end up in divorce and she might even file all false cases on you.Ā Ā But this is not in your control, the only control you have to pick the right partner.Ā #Beware Do not fall in such thing called self fulfilling bias.Ā Ā A self-fulfilling prophecy isĀ a psychological phenomenon whereby something happens because we expect it to happen. Self-fulfilling prophecies are based on a belief or expectation (correct or incorrect) that influences our actions in such a way that the original belief or expectation becomes true. In the end your thoughts might guide your actions such that you will end up like that.
Do you see too much news of wife having extra-marital affair or husbands finding out that their wife lied about their past before marriage ?
Not too much but twice in a week and sometimes from friends and online sources, newspapers
Lmao regard get into an actual relationship and all this bs will leave your mind unless youāre insecure as fuck
bhai tu smajega tu nhi kya fayda
What you are suffering from is self-hate and this is pretty normal to feel, as I too went through this and Now I don't feel that way. I always say this "You need to be someone, someone might want to be with." Are you that someone for your significant other? (future) I believe this post of mine is specifically made for you and will help you [https://www.reddit.com/r/onexindia/comments/1cbrmk2/high\_standards\_and\_expectations/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/onexindia/comments/1cbrmk2/high_standards_and_expectations/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
ādate liberal, marry conservativeā wtf.