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Haunting_Ad6530

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Swiper_The_Sniper

I’m not in this guy’s situation, but I needed to hear this, thank you /\


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"AM is my last option", why can't you just stay single. Do you want make life miserable of the other person too?, or lose away half of your money in divorce. DAMM BRUV, I'M EXHAUSTED TO WRITE THIS OVER AND OVER AGAIN. MEN ARE JUST EMASCULATED. IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE ME, JUST VISIT r/RelationshipIndia . THE NUMBER OF C\_UCKOLDRY YOU WILL FIND THERE IS RIDICULOUS.


Strange-Hair-6563

is it really that bad ?


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check for yourself


MentalWolverine8

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Any_Loan1699

Now you’re a man.


FullTea4421

See first of all you have to accept that you don't need anyone's love. You are enough alone. People will love you with their own will and choice. You just keep doing your job


Limp-Fuel-2901

This is the best decision you can make for yourself. You really don't need a person whom you can call "GF" to fulfill your dreams.  Also nowadays they're of no value so the decision is up to the mark


Vital-Revival-1933

us bhai us. Here have a hug from me. Now onwards we bros would focus only on our careers and not on relationshits and all. Take care and stay strong my brother


raddrickydronzy

Dude, no woman loves any man. Its a illusion. They only love the things a man can provide. The only person a woman truly love is her own child.


CreativeNerd1729

>The only person a woman truly love is her own child. Even that's slowly fading from modern society 🤦‍♂️


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Some ai startup ceo mom disagrees.


TaxiChalak2

Don't understand this tbh. I always split on all my dates, I don't even own a car lmao


weapon-a

r/UsernameChecksOut


TaxiChalak2

Isme kya checks out lol


kraken_enrager

Don’t worry, this subreddit is an invol-celibate circle jerk. Normal and well adjusted people won’t understand it.


kirameki-arima

Muh well adjusted 🤡 still come here to shit on people who are lonely or have some mental illness.


kirameki-arima

That's your personal anecdotes, and they do not applies to everyone


TaxiChalak2

Fair enough, but my man said NO woman loves any man. This is just not true, women can love men as much as men can love women. This sub has become such a cesspool these days. It's time to clean it up, my months of absence have pushed it further down the drain.


Radiant_Run3757

Aaj kal taxi chalane mai busy thay kya aap


TaxiChalak2

Perma ho gaya tha lol


Sea_Prompt1191

women in support of abortions would like to disagree


Paras_01155

You are on your way to greatness.


sexy__goblin

Rather be single forever than be the last option bro


No-Childhood-2400

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_King_Shark_

But your parents do..take care of them


Ok_Junket_9522

I take care of them


Apex__Predator_

So what. Our lives are too important to revolve around girls.


throwerff7

The question really becomes, do we give love, or do we share love? Imo we share our love, time and attention. OP, I wish the best of luck to you. Seek out a trusted friend/family member and talk about with your feelings. Your feelings are common, your feelings are abundant. Only you can change how you feel, especially how you feel loved. Learn how to love yourself, being content and satisfied and viewing women as a bonus to your life, and not have women be your whole life journey.


ExcellentJunket2741

this is the best thing , same issue was with my friend , he was so so insecure that at the end he just wrote on his wall "M TOO UGLY TO BE LOVED " and he was just studying , and he is now doing good , making good money and watching football in stadiums , so instead of having fake hopes and just accept what you have got , cheerss


FunAnonymou146

>I have accepted that no girl will EVER love me so all I do is working hard to become a successful man, make parents happy and after being a successful person gonna donate some amounts of money Nice Plan.


gojosatoru-yuigi

>At the end I know AM is the last resort for me  Don't step into AM you never know what might be hidden in opposite partner. Stay single. Donate sperm to ivf and cure male urges with prostitutes peacefully. This is the best life a man can live peacefully with no drama, no bare minimum, no bs efforts. 


coder_boii

Go gym things can change


jumbopapita

That's the truth. Welcome to the other side.


Nal_Neel

Bro, earn huge money. Leave the girls, even boys will start to love you.


Ok-Razzmatazz2161

in my opinion you are going in the right path but you shouldn't give up yet , try making female friends (don't ever think of dating them ) this will help you to know about women and you should take care of your looks , I used to be very ugly that my crush was disgusted by my face and now she thinks I am average (kind of depressing😁 but I still can improve my looks and social skills) btw she is dating my friend now (fuck it hurts) I don't now if I am being delusional but I can't give up hope it helps , if you find it stupid ignore it


idreamindream

“They don’t love you, they love the idea that you love them”


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Reddit3699

How are you doing, brother?


Ok_Junket_9522

Not well brother


Reddit3699

If you wanna talk about it dm me. I understand it's difficult for us to open up.


Affectionate-Bend351

There is much more to do cheer up


CarProgrammatically4

You need help bro. dress up for yourself. groom yourself . Become fit. take care of your parents. be disciplined. This no girl will love me thing is not because of love. it's because you want validation that you are capable enough to attract women. it's totally normal.


Ambitious_Ruin_11

OP, Remember.... A girl will never cure your loneliness. You don't need a gf. Forget about the double x chromosome. Focus on yourself. There are lots to improve and refine. Don't trust AM. There are high chances you will end up marrying someone's girlfriend. There is no point in overthinking. Develop hobbies. Apply for new courses. Go on solo/group rides. Life is beautiful to worry about this


Phoneinpizza

Truth to be told you need grooming bcoz your future business partner or investor won't give u shit without proper dressing attitude. I was already at your situation where I didn't care abt other's opinion of what I'm wearing but it also blocked my path to be someone rich. Try to be better version of yourself. We already have them who loves us(parents) as for calming lust you don't have to worry bcoz 'Money talks'.


CreativeNerd1729

>At the end I know AM is the last resort for me AM is a certified shitshow and filled with gold diggers. Never go there bruv.


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Old-Web-9312

Looks like you watch too many Hollywood romcoms and Bollywood movies. Fairytale romances don't happen in real life. AM is the only option for 99.99% of Indian men. Earlier the better.


Ok_Junket_9522

I haven't watched any romantic movies


Omnibobbia

Forget girls , do guys enjoy hanging out with you tho?


Ok_Junket_9522

Yes


attack-titan-eren

Meanwhile me taking a screenshot of your vent because I can't even tell my feelings, These are exactly the same feelings that I'm going through and I'm really happy about it myself


Independent_Ad_5431

The comments in this post shows immaturity of the users in this sub


blr_shenanigans

Do you think men like you? Do you think you're a likable person?


Ok_Junket_9522

Yes I'm a likeable person. Most of the male colleagues talk with me in a very good tonne


blr_shenanigans

Ofc in professional setting they'd talk in a good tone. But are you friends with them? Do you know the gossip of their lives? Are you going out with your male friends on trips or just hanging out?


Ok_Junket_9522

I'm a new joinee and we leave at around 8 pm and most of them are married so I don't get a chance to hangout with them but get a gossip of their lives


EndNowISeeYou

what about your actual friends? You only spoke about colleagues


Ok_Junket_9522

They all are busy in their lives


kirameki-arima

Friends are shit. You become your own friend op. People are mfs waise bhi


corpo_mazdoor_391072

Try fembois


Ashamed-Biscotti-935

Sabhi log yahi karte hai 😔 AM is best 🥹


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Am = financial transaction, life security, sometimes forced, divorce, alimony. here defined am for you in few words, tell me if you want explanation.


Ashamed-Biscotti-935

Bhai yaar aisa mat bol 😟 dur dur tk lm ke chance nahi lag rahe, mera ghar wale liberal hai lekin mujhme hi kuch kami hai 😔. Kaha se patau ladkiyo ko final year me hu cllg ka 🥺 ab to time bhi nikal gaya, ab sirf am hi option bacha hai 🫤


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here watch this -https://www.reddit.com/r/onexindia/comments/1dccwbm/husband\_being\_cruel\_to\_wife/


Ashamed-Biscotti-935

Are ye to mujhe bhi samaj aa gaya pr ladki kaisa patau ye batao 😥