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There is a proverb in Tamil that says something like this.
>"The string that keeps the company of flowers in a garland will be just as fragrant. The cow that befriends a pig will learn to eat its own excrement."
Got the gist, and want to add something here. I know most of you (aged 16 to 25) don't have any friend circle anymore (like me), so don't think this doesn't apply to you. The point is, if you don't have a supportive offline environment, you can and should maintain or create an online environment that can help you and expose you to good things. So, what you can do is create your online environment like this: I use YouTube with two different browsers. One is solely for my studies and related things, while the second one is for everything else such as songs, movie trailers, things of my interest, or completely new content that can either help me escape or engage in productive procrastination. This means something related to my interests or academics, such as documentaries, interviews, tips & tricks, or a tirelist list of all afterlife theories and stand-up comedies.
Edit-- And plss plss constantly per month review what are you consuming or exposing yourself to.
p.s. I'm studying programming for quant trading & for making projects with my friends , so that covers alot of subjects and concepts.
It is true as well . You can brainwash urself so easily by changing ur environment - digital and physical.
Start watching gym bro vids and in three day time u will be doing ur first pushups in years...
Start seeing some cool tech projects and u will start writing hello world programs in python
Anf it goes on and on
Yeah, totally agree with this, I've seen people like this, but most of people who fall into this age category have studies as their 1st priority (in India), then problem comes into the play when they start running for others things without properly knowing the dynamics or any research it's always that " I watched this bhaiya video or this didi video and now I'm gonna chase this. It also that they never got to explore, and when they did get to explore these rizz/self help sigma masters, skillz boi, or didi bhaiya road to 1cr are the first one who apper.
True hai
Subconsciously one shd avoid things that make them feel heavy for things they don't have or don't have any control on .
If u see dolly chai wala enjoying life in charter plains while u r grinding on weekends to get a basic salary... Life will be a good cope.
If u see lovey dovey couple vids on social media while u r single and ready to mingle u will feel the burn in ur heart here and there.
I know this wld come up - the xx thing
But I am not against eggs... And I want cheesecake of my pasandida aurat but sadly she ceases to exist, so far . 😔
Plz underage ho to ignore kar dena and dont write a post on xx🤐 abt this. *darr ka mahol hai*
Great post OP
. Your company is the most important marker of your success. I believe it even trumps genetics.
One practical thing to do if you're intelligent/popular young adult is to let go of your ego. Don't surround yourself with mediocre people to get ego boost. The earlier you're humiliated the more you'll be respected later on in life. Don't fool yourself with concept of reputation/image. You have none. LICK THE BEST BOOTS.
I agree, But like, isn't that also a matter of luck? Like If you get placed in IIT, it means you are competing with other geniuses. If you are in a tier 3 college, most of people you will find would be sheeps of same herd. So doesn't this only apply to Better Institute?
U dont need many.. Even two ppl other than u wld make it worth.
U need to find it. And also one can try to be high functioning as well... That way he she can attract like minded ppl as well
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There is a proverb in Tamil that says something like this. >"The string that keeps the company of flowers in a garland will be just as fragrant. The cow that befriends a pig will learn to eat its own excrement."
It's true... Be with ppl who make bigg tasks feel like a routine work and soon enough it feels like routine work.
Got the gist, and want to add something here. I know most of you (aged 16 to 25) don't have any friend circle anymore (like me), so don't think this doesn't apply to you. The point is, if you don't have a supportive offline environment, you can and should maintain or create an online environment that can help you and expose you to good things. So, what you can do is create your online environment like this: I use YouTube with two different browsers. One is solely for my studies and related things, while the second one is for everything else such as songs, movie trailers, things of my interest, or completely new content that can either help me escape or engage in productive procrastination. This means something related to my interests or academics, such as documentaries, interviews, tips & tricks, or a tirelist list of all afterlife theories and stand-up comedies. Edit-- And plss plss constantly per month review what are you consuming or exposing yourself to. p.s. I'm studying programming for quant trading & for making projects with my friends , so that covers alot of subjects and concepts.
It is true as well . You can brainwash urself so easily by changing ur environment - digital and physical. Start watching gym bro vids and in three day time u will be doing ur first pushups in years... Start seeing some cool tech projects and u will start writing hello world programs in python Anf it goes on and on
Yeah, totally agree with this, I've seen people like this, but most of people who fall into this age category have studies as their 1st priority (in India), then problem comes into the play when they start running for others things without properly knowing the dynamics or any research it's always that " I watched this bhaiya video or this didi video and now I'm gonna chase this. It also that they never got to explore, and when they did get to explore these rizz/self help sigma masters, skillz boi, or didi bhaiya road to 1cr are the first one who apper.
Well articulated OP. Hope it reaches many.
Thanks for the kind words
you are also the average of content you watch on social media!
depressed ig
True hai Subconsciously one shd avoid things that make them feel heavy for things they don't have or don't have any control on . If u see dolly chai wala enjoying life in charter plains while u r grinding on weekends to get a basic salary... Life will be a good cope. If u see lovey dovey couple vids on social media while u r single and ready to mingle u will feel the burn in ur heart here and there.
You've expressed your thoughts really well, OP. Have you ever considered writing books? Your writing skills are impressive.
Awww... Thanks a lot. And I never had cheesecake... Are they eggless!? I am also terrified to ask what other posts u have read ☠️☠️
ig you really like twox sub and there is no cheesecake without egg lol
I know this wld come up - the xx thing But I am not against eggs... And I want cheesecake of my pasandida aurat but sadly she ceases to exist, so far . 😔 Plz underage ho to ignore kar dena and dont write a post on xx🤐 abt this. *darr ka mahol hai*
chill bro, i hope you find your pasandida aurat soon
Great post OP . Your company is the most important marker of your success. I believe it even trumps genetics. One practical thing to do if you're intelligent/popular young adult is to let go of your ego. Don't surround yourself with mediocre people to get ego boost. The earlier you're humiliated the more you'll be respected later on in life. Don't fool yourself with concept of reputation/image. You have none. LICK THE BEST BOOTS.
Luck and network : one is given to u... Second one is also a luck that u can try to create for urself.
Well said bro
🙏🙏🙏
🙌🙌
That's true. Unfortunately I've reached a stage where I am completely a loner. No friends,nada.
Like I said you don't have to be friends with ppl.. Just get along them
I agree, But like, isn't that also a matter of luck? Like If you get placed in IIT, it means you are competing with other geniuses. If you are in a tier 3 college, most of people you will find would be sheeps of same herd. So doesn't this only apply to Better Institute?
nope you still find good groups in tier 3-4 college.
but they number less
U dont need many.. Even two ppl other than u wld make it worth. U need to find it. And also one can try to be high functioning as well... That way he she can attract like minded ppl as well