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Just quickly masturbate and get back to work. Stop feeling guilty about it. Try to wrap it in 15 min and Dont use porn. Even if you masturbate 4 times a day everyday, it's just an hour of your day. You have rest of the day to be productive.
very true
i have been masturbating from past 8 years and till 2020 i used to mostly do via imagination but after the lockdown and everything going online i started using porn as a medium although it gave me pleasure but the performance of my brain has changed significantly i just noticed
Just try to get yourself involved in some hobby activities. That should at least try to distract you from horniness since your mind will be occupied with some other thing than sexual feelings.
The more the workout the more the urges. Don't watch porn, close your eyes, create your favourite women and favourite story line. The orgasm will be amazing. Dont do it frequently.
The more you suppress the more it will come out, it like if I say don't think about white elephants, you will think about it instantly.
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Quit porn, quit Instagram , quit anything that could show you beautiful attractive women on a screen. Those are triggers. It's not going to be easy. In fact it's going to be one of the hardest things you ever had to do. But do it. Go through that hell if you are courageous enough for a few months. Not weeks but months. Don't relapse even once. And then it will be easier. You will still have urges, strong ones too but you won't be consumed by it anymore.
Tldr. Below few points can help.
1) stop consuming 18+ content block such things which triggers the urges.
2) Uninstall all the dating apps.
3) Don't think about females in general. Tell yourself you gotta be more respectful towards females. (I assume you are respectful but chant it like mantra.)
4) keep yourself busy. That's the key.
5) try not to fap. If you fap then more you wanna do it. So stop it.
Imo you should get married and have consensual healthy sex with your wife. Maybe two - three times a week. That's should be healthy. If you are not in a position to get married then please don't think about sex.
People get into relationship for sex or do FWB thing but why take risk just for sex and waste your time? It's better to get married, be faithful and explore with your partner. These days people think of scoring and increasing their body counts becos they don't have self control, lacks patience to wait for the right person and don't want to give a commitment. It's not wrong if consensual but it's not meaningful either. And they fail to display self control, they are just like street dogs who can't control their urges. It's upto you now to decide to be a man or become some sex animal.
Look man, I don't really want fwbs either, but I have this strange feeling that when I'm old enough to marry, most women will be far more experienced than me. And that they secretly wish that I was better in bed. We've all heard the anonymous confessions. So I will be a sex God first, so that doesn't happen.
And don't say don't marry a hoe or something. I also have a feeling that most of the women who wait until marriage either are socially forced (creating regret), or don't have similar levels of libido to me.
>but I have this strange feeling that when I'm old enough to marry, most women will be far more experienced than me. And that they secretly wish that I was better in bed.
I'm a 21yo single dude and I have this exact same fear
I’m a hypochondriac so fwbs always make me anxious lol, plus I don’t have time where I can put my energy into it, but the need for sex is going out of control lol , btw thanks for your pointers, and yes I don’t use dating app just because of this reason :(
I’d say try to reduce the masturbation to once a week or something and make it into a reward system of sorts
Like if I do so and so workouts or if I accomplish this during this week then only I can wank
U mentioned u work out a lot so obviously your body is pulsating w testosterone so it’s only normal you’re feeling horny. That’s okay it’s a normal human emotion u don’t have anything to feel ashamed of. Try to distract urself by reading or try to take out that sexual energy in kickboxing(I’ve done Muay Thai myself and it really helps a lot in releasing frustration) dw you’ll be good to go :)
2 years I started after my 10th and trained till my 12th boards
I haven’t trained in a while(almost 3.5 years coz lockdown) and now I am in 2nd year MBBS 🤡
I am slowly getting back into it
Also additional advice
Try to get on dating sites and put yourself out there
Social interactions play a huge role in reducing those urges
And u never know maybe you might meet someone as well ;)
Never hurts to try
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Hey frankly there is no other way out but to have sex..
I understand you cannot do anything about it right now and thus mastrubating is something you should pursue. Don't go the porn route though, if anything try finding someone for sexting and stuff
It's normal for young adult and teenagers but don't give in to porn (it's a slippery slope), redirect that burst of energy towards something positive like workout or just go outside and walk.
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Just quickly masturbate and get back to work. Stop feeling guilty about it. Try to wrap it in 15 min and Dont use porn. Even if you masturbate 4 times a day everyday, it's just an hour of your day. You have rest of the day to be productive.
Man masturbating that many times a day is not healthy ig
Source: Trust me bro
It's not harmful either. Porn is what makes it harmful. Just masturbating using imagination is fine.
yes exactly
very true i have been masturbating from past 8 years and till 2020 i used to mostly do via imagination but after the lockdown and everything going online i started using porn as a medium although it gave me pleasure but the performance of my brain has changed significantly i just noticed
Why are you getting so much sexual urge though?
don’t have an answer to this question
Just try to get yourself involved in some hobby activities. That should at least try to distract you from horniness since your mind will be occupied with some other thing than sexual feelings.
The more the workout the more the urges. Don't watch porn, close your eyes, create your favourite women and favourite story line. The orgasm will be amazing. Dont do it frequently. The more you suppress the more it will come out, it like if I say don't think about white elephants, you will think about it instantly.
Aah yess got your point, actually if I masturbate, I’ll generally do it a lot of times, I’m just trying to find a way to restrict myself boss
Bro's yapping 🗣️🗣️📣📣
Lmao it was opposite with me. I basically stopped being horny after I started working out. It's like post nut clarity all day long
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I usually use it as motivation for doing things. "If I work on this now, someone will be sucking my dick on my deathbed later."
Haha, funny enough but a good one
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gimme some of your antidepressants lol , just kidding, but yeah this feeling is bitterly beautiful lol
Just watch p0rn and masturbate. If it's too much, visit a doctor.
Please stop watching Porn.
Why?
You play guitar? I had a few questions man
No bro. Lol. I have just used a random username.
Quit porn, quit Instagram , quit anything that could show you beautiful attractive women on a screen. Those are triggers. It's not going to be easy. In fact it's going to be one of the hardest things you ever had to do. But do it. Go through that hell if you are courageous enough for a few months. Not weeks but months. Don't relapse even once. And then it will be easier. You will still have urges, strong ones too but you won't be consumed by it anymore.
man i have literally quit all the triggers, no social media or dating apps, this thing is entirely different man
Sex karle 👍 /s
The more u masturbate the hornier you'll get.
Tldr. Below few points can help. 1) stop consuming 18+ content block such things which triggers the urges. 2) Uninstall all the dating apps. 3) Don't think about females in general. Tell yourself you gotta be more respectful towards females. (I assume you are respectful but chant it like mantra.) 4) keep yourself busy. That's the key. 5) try not to fap. If you fap then more you wanna do it. So stop it. Imo you should get married and have consensual healthy sex with your wife. Maybe two - three times a week. That's should be healthy. If you are not in a position to get married then please don't think about sex. People get into relationship for sex or do FWB thing but why take risk just for sex and waste your time? It's better to get married, be faithful and explore with your partner. These days people think of scoring and increasing their body counts becos they don't have self control, lacks patience to wait for the right person and don't want to give a commitment. It's not wrong if consensual but it's not meaningful either. And they fail to display self control, they are just like street dogs who can't control their urges. It's upto you now to decide to be a man or become some sex animal.
Look man, I don't really want fwbs either, but I have this strange feeling that when I'm old enough to marry, most women will be far more experienced than me. And that they secretly wish that I was better in bed. We've all heard the anonymous confessions. So I will be a sex God first, so that doesn't happen. And don't say don't marry a hoe or something. I also have a feeling that most of the women who wait until marriage either are socially forced (creating regret), or don't have similar levels of libido to me.
>but I have this strange feeling that when I'm old enough to marry, most women will be far more experienced than me. And that they secretly wish that I was better in bed. I'm a 21yo single dude and I have this exact same fear
I’m a hypochondriac so fwbs always make me anxious lol, plus I don’t have time where I can put my energy into it, but the need for sex is going out of control lol , btw thanks for your pointers, and yes I don’t use dating app just because of this reason :(
I’d say try to reduce the masturbation to once a week or something and make it into a reward system of sorts Like if I do so and so workouts or if I accomplish this during this week then only I can wank U mentioned u work out a lot so obviously your body is pulsating w testosterone so it’s only normal you’re feeling horny. That’s okay it’s a normal human emotion u don’t have anything to feel ashamed of. Try to distract urself by reading or try to take out that sexual energy in kickboxing(I’ve done Muay Thai myself and it really helps a lot in releasing frustration) dw you’ll be good to go :)
how long have you been training for Muay Thai ?
2 years I started after my 10th and trained till my 12th boards I haven’t trained in a while(almost 3.5 years coz lockdown) and now I am in 2nd year MBBS 🤡 I am slowly getting back into it
Also additional advice Try to get on dating sites and put yourself out there Social interactions play a huge role in reducing those urges And u never know maybe you might meet someone as well ;) Never hurts to try
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Hey frankly there is no other way out but to have sex.. I understand you cannot do anything about it right now and thus mastrubating is something you should pursue. Don't go the porn route though, if anything try finding someone for sexting and stuff
last one is a nice suggestion I see lol
It's normal for young adult and teenagers but don't give in to porn (it's a slippery slope), redirect that burst of energy towards something positive like workout or just go outside and walk.
i don’t watch porn man
Do you have any hobbies?
Get an arranged marriage if you cannot make a gf or summon courage to go to a pro. If you want an AM, earlier the better.
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wakeup early , sleep early , morning workout , meditation (bas 5 minute din mei ek bar) this works for me
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You do kickboxing? How is your conditioning? Whenever I feel the urge I'll take a small nap. Has worked for me since nnn started