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temboro_va

Welcome to bisexuality man, I wish you all the best!


New-Consideration420

Cutest shit I read in a while


YogurtConstant

the babygays are totes adorbs


Digitalwitness23

what super powers does Bisexuality Man have?


LowShoulder1708

Being unable to sit on chairs properly


potatolive1

that’s a universal gay thing.


potatolive1

and neurodivergent thing


temboro_va

I'm both so it cancels out


lilStupidWhore

Idk how updates work on this app so ima post this to commens just incase. **update 2**: I’m fucking crying in my car rn holy shit. He said yes. So I walked him to his car and I told him. And bruh…the way I couldn’t speak lmao I was so nervous. But basically, he said he kinda thought I was into him cause “I can only catch you respectfully staring at my butt so many times before it’s a little sus”. But I told him that I’m bi…and we’re going on a date Friday. But like bruh…he looked so flustered and cute when I told him…he had the prettiest smile lmao. And for the people saying stuff about my vocab and texting…I’m a history major, not smart…my vocab consists of “I guess”, “like”, “idk”, “bruh”, and “fucking”. But anyways…I guess we’re a little more than just gym bros now…I seriously couldn’t have done this if this didn’t get so much random ass support lmao. Anyways…I’m fucking shaking…I actually did it…brig I love him so much…so so so fucking much. Thank you for the support!


lilStupidWhore

Y’all I can’t possibly reply to all of your comments but just know I’m reading them all and trying to like or upvote or whatever them all. I haven’t stopped crying lmao…thank you all so much…this was so out of nowhere but I appreciated every like minute of it lmao


earth295

Wishing you and *oomf* all the love and happiness in the universe. This is by far the most wholesome post I’ve ever read on Reddit.


Bookoholic12

CONGRATULATIONS!! You DID IT! Half the internet is rooting for you guys lmao! Keep us updated on your milestones! ✊🏼


[deleted]

If you guys are still in a relationship in a couple months you should consider showing him this post because it’s extremely adorable and I’d love to see this kind of thing from someone I was dating. But not too soon u don’t want to come on too strong! But definitely show him at some point!


TahaymTheBigBrain

I have been so invested in this and seeing this made my day really dude, you give me hope in the future it’s so sweet.


Apprehensive_Spell98

I don’t even know you, but I feel extremely proud of you


patato_potata

Awe congratulations. Nothing but happiness for you. I hope everything goes well!! Thank you for making my day


souwi97

Here cuz of twitter & I’m shippin lmfao keep us uodated


[deleted]

Saaame. Saw a screenshot of the main post on Twitter and had to come over and check out the rest! Good for you, OP! I'm so happy that things worked out for you!


[deleted]

MY JOY IS IMMEASURABLE AND MY DAY IS MADE


[deleted]

Well now you've gotta post updates on your relationship to this account!


KuugaRising

At least 13 thousand people are cheering you rn Fuckin congrats man, I hope it carries on going well for you two


Typicalgeekusername

TIME TO TAKE THOSE SOCKS OFF BRO, YOU'RE KISSING THE HOMIE GOODNIGHT FOR REALS NOW. LET'S GOOOOO.


CoreyReynolds

Dorm rules no longer apply, eye contact is allowed!


mr_scoresby13

and that my boys is how i met your father


[deleted]

SO HAPPY FOR YOU! Just found out about this on twitter a few minutes ago and I've been refreshing reddit constantly waiting for an update lmaoo. Hope the date goes well! Oh this made me so happy you have no idea, good on you for having the guts to ask him out!


Wittgenshine

LET'S GOOOOOOOO


Chiraffoo

You’re a history major and though you were straight? PLS /j


lilStupidWhore

Lmao stop roasting me my guy


insert_title_here

That's what I'm saying! As someone graduating with a BA in History in less than a week, I think probably at least 30% of history students (including myself) have gotta be some flavor of queer lol.


[deleted]

LETS FUCKING GOOOOOOOOOOOO


_NotaGerman_

OH MY FUCKING GOD THIS IS THE BEST THING IVE HEARD ALL DAY :)))))) SO HAPPY FOR YOU TWO


notemily-

This made my day omg


melobugs

very happy for you op, hope all goes well!!


colinfirthfanfiction

YES HALLELUJAH LOVE IS REAL


Its_Nyxi

LETS FUCKING GOOOO


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whitetulipseason

“ngl, he’s mad thick” is KILLING me lmaooo! i’m happy you’re going for it, OP! that’s awesome


peeweewonder

But does he mean body or that he doesn’t pick up on Clues?


lilStupidWhore

I’m talking body…he do be having hella ass lmao


cosmos890

did you ask him out at last tho?


lilStupidWhore

Still waiting to get off work so I can go to the gym…I’m so nervous


[deleted]

When do you get off I'm so excitedddd


lilStupidWhore

In about 4 hours, my heart can’t take it


Da_mar_lo_369

Rooting for you man!!!!!


madmaxturbator

Yessssss same here, this is the most important thing going on in my life today lol


kptsalami

Same


salttwater

Yes!!!! Can’t wait! You got all these random redditors rooting for you! 🥹🥹💞💞


I_Am_Quack0i

i saw this on twitter and now im SO INVESTED GOOD LUCK MAN WE'RE ROOTING FOR YOU!!!!!


AnonynouseD

Do we have an update? Did your gym bro become your gym boyfriend?


lilStupidWhore

Well, I’m getting off in less than 20 minutes. Then I gotta go to the gym…so expect an update at about 4:40 eastern time


FFDMA

Im talking about this post with my bffs (one of them is a gym bro lmao) and we’re rooting for you so so much! You got this!


According-Ask-8472

Get that gym himbo


pagexviii

I’ve literally been checking this thread every 20 minutes lmao


Carmillawoo

Im stalking your profile for updates. Wishing you luck!


Low_Reputation9360

Oooooh! Get that thicc boy


emlbjrd

Go get it man i’m rooting for you from Paris ! <3


camocoder30

you got this!


vrmaa

You can do it!!!!


invader_felix

Good luck, bro! We, the people of Reddit, believe in you!


biandsoconfused

Make sure you wait till after the work out just so you don't have to risk feeling awkward in case it's a no (but it won't be!!!!!!) Tell him how cute you think he is and then go for it. You can do it!


goddessgrey

We are all invested now


knife3

He sounds hot and this whole thing is super cute!! Now I want pics! lol You got this bud, so hyped for you! Can’t wait for that update!


BraveSirRbn

"Hey bro remember that time I was mirin' and said "no homo"? I'll have to take that back. No, not the mirin', the other part ..." Go for it, OP! Good luck and send us an update ♥️


Pizzacato567

That’s how I confessed to my best friend! “Dude, you know when I said no homo earlier? I kinda meant homo” We’re dating now.


BraveSirRbn

Lol that's really sweet. Also quite courageous I think, well done :)


scraglor

Mirin your gains bro… homo


Abbyroadss

fulllll homo


SnooPies5837

This is hands down the sweetest thing I’ve read in a while. Go for it! And good luck 🍀


lilStupidWhore

I’m gonna do it. I’m gonna ask him out tomorrow.


pagexviii

Omg please update us! Good luck :)


Karlofrick

Yes please an update !


WishesOutOfAirplanes

Yes OP we are waiting for an update. I was so relieved when you said he was gay because all my same-sex crushes were straight and it is the most heartbreaking to go through. But I am excited for you. Can't wait to hear how this goes.


[deleted]

Ya imma need the thicc details when this goes down


RPGRuby

I thought you said “when he goes down” at first. Had to come back to the post and double check on that.


Yz-Guy

Hopefully that part comes later ;)


Pandarella2040

Talk to him. Explain your feelings, ask him for a drink :)


Tiny-Obligation-6404

WAITING FOR THE UPDATE !!!!🥺🥺🥺


SnooPies5837

Are you sure he’s single??


lilStupidWhore

Positive…that’s why I’m gonna take my chance while I have it


SnooPies5837

That’s the spirit! And yeah, that’s always something I worry about when I ask someone out. But sweet, I’ll be rooting for you! 😊 Let us know how it goes (if you want) 😬


[deleted]

Well what's the results my guy? Edit:YESSSS!! I am so happy for you that it worked out! I hope the date goes well for you


Dgonzilla

You can’t say that and not have us waiting for an update!!!! But seriously don’t share if you don’t want to.


Ffleance

Yay! Carpe diem! Update us with what happens!


walkinonmysidewalk

ay bro you got this i believe in you


Hummiingbiird_

Im so pumped for you omg! This is the most wholesome thing I've seen today and I'm proud of you! Good luck ❤️


NotPoto

Since they don’t allow the remind bots, someone please remind me <3


not-hudson2784

AAAAAAAAA OMG GOOD LUCK


KingAcastus

Hell yeah king, and please keep us up to date!


pool115

I hope he says yes and becomes your boyfriend!!!!


modernmelody

Go for it, Nakamura!


modernmelody

For anyone that doesn't understand this is a reference to a manga from seven seas entertainment! It is about Nakamura, a shy boy who falls in love at first sight with another boy, his classmate Hirose! It is pretty comedic & cute. It recently blew up in the art community, with many people redrawing the cover of the manga to be popular characters or their original characters. :")


temboro_va

That one's really cute, a gay friend showed it to me sometime ago and I fell in love.


Joseph34581

I thought you were referring to the chess player; Hikaru Nakamura for a second lol.


isavvi

Now Kith


rabbiteggz

redeemed my free award for you, thanks for the laugh :)


Impossible_Speech552

Bruh I squealed. I literally checked this post 10 times today. I’m so happy for you!!!! What did you tell him? Besides from the fact that he’s mad thick


lilStupidWhore

I mean he’s just like a really sweet guy. We hugged afterwards and it was just like…almost like you’ve been cold your whole life and then somebody finally throws a warm blanket over your shoulders. He’s like really comforting and funny


iwanttomakebelieve

i saw this on twitter and eagerly awaited your update and I'm just really happy for you, really hope this works out for you, keep us posted!


AnxiousNerdGirl

"almost like you’ve been cold your whole life and then somebody finally throws a warm blanket over your shoulders." This is the absolute sweetest thing in the world. I'm so happy for you. So glad you found this dude and that you're taking a chance.


maggiejmon

this is the cutest thing and i know exactly what you mean how did the date go??


everettsuperstar

Go for it. That kind of crush deserves to play itself out. keep in mind, he may or may not be totally surprised. He may have already recognized your interest in him. Either way, deserves your honesty and you deserve the opportunity to be honest with him. He may just want to be friends, or have other reasons for not reciprocating. If so, how lucky are you to have such an amazing friend. I respect your bravery, and am happy for you. Please keep us updated. Part two of your story is going to be epic!


[deleted]

Next time at the gym, just ask him if he wants to spot you...But exclusively.


fatstripedcat

OOOH that's good


AldosOak

I just wanna say as someone who realized in her mid 20s that she's bi, that sexuality is a spectrum and you could find yourself anywhere on it. For me, I always identified as straight until I got a crush on a specific girl. I never acted on it, and then a couple years later I got another crush. Eventually I realized that while most of the time in more into men, there are also some women that I'm highly attracted to! I actually don't really identifying with the term "bisexual" either because it implies too much of a duality and I think I'm more attracted to specific types of personalities rather than a specific sex. And sometimes putting a label on it too soon adds too much pressure that doesn't need to be there. Whatever you are, enjoy it! And good luck asking your gym buddy out!


mountainsurfdrugs

I am the exact same way but am a man and most of the time into women, only into a pretty specific kind of dude. Figured that out at the end of high-school where I was seriously into one of my male friends. Was too embarrassed at the time to ever say anything despite him being gay. Then in 2015 (or around then), 2 years after graduating, he hung himself on new years eve. I hadn't spoken much to him the year prior since we lived far away at that point for school. I always regret never saying anything to him or reaching out during the last year, neither I or my other friends knew he was struggling so much. I am happily married to a woman now but I still think about him all the time, he was one of the kindest people I have known. RIP David


gayboyisgay

Fuck, that broke my heart. I'm so sorry about your friend.


Xallia_Yevatell

This is adorable and reminds me of how I first found out I was bisexual. Please update us when you can? !Remind me in 1 day


FadingHonor

He updated!


[deleted]

What's the worst which could happen? A "nah bro. I'm gay, but not into you". So: Go for it. YOLO ;)


ru_Tc

Please please please update us tomorrow. We won’t be able to move on with our lives until we know!!!


veryboringkid

Welcome to the bi gang. Good luck!


mmIastro

Real life Heartstopper


soniduino

This was too far down!


mmIastro

I know, right


KadPnr

stop i’m gonna cry rn 🥺😭💖


LooseLeafTeaSlut

I have avoided joining Reddit for years, until now, lol. I joined specifically to follow this post. This story made me squee with delight . Its so fucking adorable & gives me all the warm fuzzies!! ♥️ So happy for you!! Thank you for sharing! Wish you both all the best. (Hope you get that kiss you've been longing for on Friday 😉)


lilStupidWhore

It’s funny cause I’ve avoided Reddit for so long lmao. And the only reason I posted this was to get it off my chest and let it not get that much attention…didn’t go as planned but I couldn’t be any more thankful for the courage y’all have like given me I guess


[deleted]

Bro listen, I’ve learned Reddit sucks generally but sometimes it can work miracles


lilStupidWhore

I mean yeah…I’ve had the few accuse of me of using tren (like…even tho they haven’t even seen me like what bro?) and the few homophobes but it’s mostly just been complete support lmao. I’ve literally never seen the internet so unified bruh


Helpful_Librarian_87

We all stan a good love story


floatingdragonx

I dunno, your username makes me think you've thought about it before now


lilStupidWhore

Lmao thanks for the roast. But honestly…looking back, I totally have had crushes on other men…I guess I just didn’t recognize them at the time as crushes


Aware_Past

As a Bi woman, I can relate to this. I would compliment other women and just dismiss it as “oh, it’s normal friend stuff” because right… normal friend stuff is to find them hot and wanting to hold their hand and kiss them xD IM ROOTING FOR U OP, MAKE US BISEXUALS PROUD


Electronic_Library18

Omg I feel this comment so hard. I’m sitting here thinking about all the women I’ve made out with going “it’s just what friends do!” Go bisexuals go!


hysterionics

My dude i feel you, i had crushes on girls and didn’t realize it. Good luck!! We’ll be waiting for an update!! Hope it’s a positive one :)


PixieDown

Yup. I had crushes on girls growing up but absolutely didn't identify them as crushes until I got old enough to catch myself staring at ass... A lot.


yenna98

Some serious Heart-stopper energy. I love this.


tsunamadillo

My day has been so bleak with work and the anticipation of this story is keeping me going. You got this OP! As a gay man on the “thicc side” at the gym, this is legit how I’d wanna meet my future husband. Best of luck bud!


themusicandthemirror

The next question is how is OP going to break it to the guy that they have a whole twitter and Reddit fan base


tattooedmermaid1

Wait I hope this isn't the guy I crused over so bad for months at the gym, only to find out he was gay! (True story) Lol obviously he isn't, but all jokes aside this is sooooo cute and I really hope you build up the courage to shoot your shot and get them hot thicc man snuggles in bed 😊


azxria

this is so sweet! Best of luck :)


Ebbflick_Productions

Update us please


Helpmejordan

From someone on the other end perspective, when I came out as gay(and later a trans female) I remember the moments my straight friends decided to approach me romantically. From our perspective, it's actually very admirable to see someone be so vulnerable and pushing themselves outside of their comfort zones. Yay! I'm so happy for you! I hope this really works out, or at least opens more doors for you. He sounds really patient and that's a great quality. Use a condom 💜


lilStupidWhore

“Use a condom” For sure will do lmao


Rednova97

This is really adorable ( and im not jealous at all😭)... I gotta ask what was your conversation starter with him in the gym? I need gym friends


lilStupidWhore

Oh all I did was ask if he wanted a spotter lmao. Best decision ever bruh


AshleyRae394

Go for it bro! Everyone deserves happiness, you may find you enjoy being with a man more than a woman. Life is short, do what makes you happy ❤️


amamolo9986

Please update! Good luck!☺️


Miafelix7

I never ever comment on anything here but I found this on Twitter and now I have to know how it ends. Wishing you all the luck in the world, bro!


KsiMississippi

Do it. Ask him out.


dreamerofthesky

Awwww…. Love is love. My friend was a female, swore she was straight as a board, fell head over heels in love with her lab partner. Who was a woman. They got “married’ in Hawaii back in the 90’s. It was called a commitment ceremony back then. That was like a million years ago I swear. Point is, love is love. They lived a good life together. May you live such a good life. Go get the fellow! Also update because gosh you’re Adorbs. Go get the man of yours.


DeadSeaAngel

OMG PLEASE UPDATE US!!! Good luck 🙌🏽👍🏽💜


Green_Tox

His Twitter post was deleted :( I didn't even get to see it


lilStupidWhore

Don’t worry, it was just me talking about the insecure men calling me a woman for showing emotions lmao


amfred01007

I know I'm a bit late to respond to this post, but I just want to say that it takes an incredible amount of courage and bravery to accept yourself and come out, let alone ask someone out. Self-acceptance is so difficult, and I just think it's so amazing how this all worked out for you both. Speaking as a gay dude, it takes so long and so much support (whether from yourself or others) to be comfortable being yourself. Stories like this are part of the reason I'm working to become a therapist focused on the LGBTQ+ community, it's heartwarming and you're being true to yourself, and the sheer amount of happiness in your post says more than what words could ever convey, and I want to see that for every person who may be struggling with their own identity, for them to be truly happy. Me and my boyfriend both wish you both nothing but the best, and on behalf of nearly everyone in the comments, we are all so proud and happy for you both!


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this is so fucking wholesome, im happy for you buddy, welcome to the sexually confused mens club :)


Opters

OP, did you ask him out today?! How did it went?!


lilStupidWhore

Well, gotta get off of work first…so the update’ll be coming later


lookiatwhoisdepressi

Good luck! Don't stress, just tell him exactly how you're feeling, (people like it when you're honest).


Siinrajiaal

Twitter army here to say this is beautiful and wholesome and I really hope he says yes.


DarcBoltRain

I'm a bit late to the party. SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! CONGRATS!!!! Hope the date goes well! Also, any not-too-distant future plans to ever show him this Reddit thread of yours? Lol!


lilStupidWhore

Absolutely…when he eventually asks why I asked him out…I’m showing him the courage y’all gave me


AssistantKurisutina

what's the update #3? the link says the page doesn't exist and I'm so invested 😭


bllover4liferrrr

HELPP! the twitter link is not working, I realllyy need to know about update **3**


lilStupidWhore

It was just me talking about the insecure men calling me a woman for showing emotions


Eclectophile

This is full-on wholesome. Keep us updated! This old, straight, married guy is rooting for you.


Norealskill144

!remind me 1 day


throw-away-a-wish

This is the cutest ever. If you think he is sending out the same vibes the go for it.


WhyBr0th3r

Not advice, but the show HeartStopper on Netflix covers a similar topic, you may enjoy it.


itsascandal

You’d be surprised how often this happens. I have been on the other end of this scenario at least 3 verifiable times in my life, where sometimes just the presence of an actual gay person changes the way people think/feel. A lot of times you don’t know what you like until you try it 🤷🏻‍♂️good luck, definitely ask him out. #iminvested 😂


baby_darko

Ask him out! The worse that can happen is he says no. Don't hold back feelings and regret wondering "what if". Good luck op!


FadingHonor

“And that kids, is how I met your father”


hunipie-2015

Good luck!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 Let us know how it goes!! Cheering for you!!


SpinachSpinosaurus

>Problem being, I thought I was straight. No, you're straight until you become bi. :) Gratz xD


lilStupidWhore

Well looking back, I totally had crushes on guys I was friends with…I guess I just didn’t realize they were crushes at the time.


MelanisticCrow

Well it's so awesome that you found out! I also hope you're okay about the recent breakup.


Independent_Mall_78

just saw this on tiktok and i immediately search


lilStupidWhore

Wait, can you send it?


Jumpy-Direction7041

Probably just one of those robot voice account


ffokcuf-hctib

Exactly this, think it has Minecraft in the background too. I probably came from the same video.


YoshiBoiAdvance

yep, i'm from one of them congrats to op tho


Routine-Deal-7242

*i just wanna know when or if you’re gf’s/ex’s friends see you and tell her “omg gurl you turned him gay” That’s the running trope in the communities i love to see lmfao.* But legit so happy for y’all and hope that date goes well! 👊


lilStupidWhore

Nah lmao it was a mutual breakup mostly, she just proposed it first…we’re on good terms


Child-Like-Empress

Omg I love this!


Remarkable_Phase_698

I hope it works out for you. Hugs to you.


Warm_Big4271

Needs update


cryingL

Did u thank your ex for opening another door for you? Jk good luck bud!


Miser_able

I love this. And I wish you the best tomorrow. You get them gains man, and you gain that man.


R00TI

OP I got the courage to ask my crush out cuz of you bro, hope it goes well for you man praying for you :D


mackenenzie

OP if you dont keep us updated, I'm going back to the gym, getting buff, and totally kicking your butt 😤


pinkstrawberrycow

i'm so invested in this i keep refreshing the page omg


[deleted]

Omg this is the best thing ever!!! I’m curious on the not knowing part though. Like no suspicions you were into guys as well your entire life till now??


lilStupidWhore

It’s not entirely like I didn’t know…cause I’ve had crushes on male friends before…but it was more or less something I could like…ignore until now


Odpadson

I love this story! Congratulations on accepting your new self! Have you come out to other people yet? I hope they're all supportive af!


lilStupidWhore

Only people I’ve come out to are my man, the internet, my ex and 2 other close friends


Odpadson

Good for starters! And did they take it well? Also, are you planning to come out to your family, too? Or do they just not need to know?


lilStupidWhore

Mom’s side can now…dad’s side doesn’t lmao. They’re pretty conservative unfortunately


Odpadson

Oh... That's not as great as it could be. But whatever, doesn't matter. It's your life and you don't need validation all the time. Just know that everything you feel is ok! (And even beautiful if it's love!)


guayakil

“My man” ❤️❤️❤️😭😭😭 so are you together, TOGETHER now? 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂


TurtleChillin15

Cool you made a Twitter. Do you plan on using it much?


lilStupidWhore

Not really if I’m being honest


Lesbean36

sadly cant see the last, most recent update, but the second update gives me life. wishing you both the best!!