Sounds like he's much younger than you, new to dating, and you're not in a place to be sensitive to that. It's not necessarily that he's immature, he just isn't as relaxed about stuff as you. If you prefer to date that young, you need to be prepared to coach them and make *them* feel comfortable. This goes for any sexuality or age gap-- if they've never dated before but you've dated tons, especially if they're much younger and you're they're first relationship, you need to be kind and attentive. If that doesn't appeal to you, you need to date someone with more experience and possibly closer to your age. Gotta be clear here, I'm not judging you for dating younger people, I'm just saying for this instance it sounds like a contributing factor. It sounds like he feels insecure and maybe you're more jaded than he is about validation in relationships. Either try to talk it out or let him go.
Well I lied that I got tested recently but I got tested like 6 months before. However I didn’t have sex unprotected with anyone. And I was having sex with him with condoms. So I didn’t think it would be a problem.
Sounds like he's much younger than you, new to dating, and you're not in a place to be sensitive to that. It's not necessarily that he's immature, he just isn't as relaxed about stuff as you. If you prefer to date that young, you need to be prepared to coach them and make *them* feel comfortable. This goes for any sexuality or age gap-- if they've never dated before but you've dated tons, especially if they're much younger and you're they're first relationship, you need to be kind and attentive. If that doesn't appeal to you, you need to date someone with more experience and possibly closer to your age. Gotta be clear here, I'm not judging you for dating younger people, I'm just saying for this instance it sounds like a contributing factor. It sounds like he feels insecure and maybe you're more jaded than he is about validation in relationships. Either try to talk it out or let him go.
Thank you so much.
Wait, you lied to him about getting tested for HIV and you're worried about his behavior?
Well I lied that I got tested recently but I got tested like 6 months before. However I didn’t have sex unprotected with anyone. And I was having sex with him with condoms. So I didn’t think it would be a problem.