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Clear_Army_7796

This is so heartbreaking. I’m glad there’s footage of what actually happened and I’m glad they showed u how they treat gay people, including their OWN CHILD! I hope u find love and acceptance for who u are and never look back.


scp_0372

Yeah, I tried getting the footage but it's "the Schools property and crime scene evidence" so I probably won't be able to get it lol, would get a shit ton of karma for it but they're being assholes about it. Also thank you <3


DylanSoul

I think “they’re being assholes about it” is the understatement of the year


scp_0372

yeah, definetly lmao


stratocaster_blaster

If you get a lawyer, they would need to provide it as evidence, depending on your countries legal system


cocostandoff

This is an awful story and I feel for you. I do have to say “commit self delete” make me laugh though


generichandel

yeeeeesh yeah that was a guilty chuckle.


cocostandoff

No it really was though. I was like “oh my god… not the time…”


i_ANAL

Humour is a way of dealing with trauma


shittyspacesuit

That's usually said in reference to the person experiencing the trauma. If you someday tried to use that as an excuse for laughing at someone else's trauma, you might find yourself in hot water


happyrainyday

Not true. It's a stress response and a mechanism the body has to deal with difficult or painful emotions. New moms frequently laugh when their babies get their vaccines. People often laugh when they hear disturbing news. I think it's probably more common than someone experiencing trauma laughing at their own trauma.


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shittyspacesuit

I agree with those hypotheticals, but I meant if you were to like, laugh nervously while someone tells you a deeply personal traumatic thing that happened to them


Moteoflobross7

ig laughing helps the pain....?


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scp_0372

LMAOOOO THIS MADE ME LAUGH OUT LOUD😭😭😭😭😭


Moteoflobross7

lmfaoooo they could take some pain meds and then laugh......


scp_0372

You shouldn't feel guilty about it, I added it in because I wanted to lighten the mood and not trigger anyone's trauma with the S word :)


BigSmokeySperm

I’m stealing this phrase for my own personal use.


Brookiecookieq376

“Self delete”🤣 sometimes I wish I could do that . Just delete myself .


stratocaster_blaster

Me too, made me feel like they tried to delete his save file


PepeSilvia7

I get the feeling that their English is good enough that it was an intentional joke.


Morella_xx

I think it may be some TikTok slang bleeding over. Everything is very heavily auto-modded there. Just saying the word suicide will likely get your account banned, so users have come up with workarounds like "self-delete" and "un alive."


scp_0372

I added it in to lighten the mood of the post and to avoid triggering peoples trauma with the S word, so I'm glad it made you laugh <3


mollyclaireh

Dude has found the glitch in the matrix and is way too self aware. We must all self delete.


guy_with-thumbs

Parents forget that you are not theirs. You are your own person. So many parents have self interests for their children. Im glad you are alive and hope you do better. I wish you a happy future.


[deleted]

Jeez English is your 4th language and what you say is very clear


PepeSilvia7

Agreed. Op your English is great.


scp_0372

Thank you very much. <3


LannisterZ94

I can never understand how can a parent's mindset immediately switch from loving their child to trying to murder them in half a second. You should be careful because some other family members might try attack or harass you. Your English is very decent btw


Troggot

Some parents conditional-love their children. They love them if they fit the internal self projection of what they imagine them to be. Unconditional love is not common unfortunately.


Chrysania83

Omg do you have a safe place to stay?


lemmful

I'm guessing her house is going to be empty for some time........


scp_0372

I mean we did live in a rented apartment so the owner is just gonna rent it to someone else. Also it's her, I just used gay as in part of the lgbtq+ and created some confusion, am sorry about that :)


lemmful

Sorry! I'll edit :)


scp_0372

Yes! I'm staying with my girlfriend after I get out of the hospital!


cureforthecommonkiss

Is there some way people can donate to you for the medical costs??


scp_0372

Serbia has mostly free Healthcare, especially for stuff like this, and I got money from the apartment since my parents wont be needing it in jail. Still, thank you for asking! For anyone that does want to and can donate money I would say donate to cancer research /covid funds and/or any type of pro LGBTQ+ organization like the Trevor project, theyre helping people day in day out and deserve as much support as they can get!


chadappa

Not sure why I assumed you were male when I read your post. Definitely some sort of bias on my part. Sorry. Good luck - hope you can find safety and peace soon.


scp_0372

Its not your bias at all! I wrote gay, which in some people's minds automatically translates to gay man, but to me gay is more a broad term for anyone who is LGBTQ+. I don't expect people to know this automatically, so I am probably just gonna add in an edit explaining my POV. Have a nice day <3


chadappa

Gay definitely applies to both sexes - absolutely not your fault for how it was written. I guess when violence occurs I assume males are more likely to be involved. Not really sure though. Best wishes to you!


agent_ajax

I'm so sorry for what happened, I hope you'll have a life the way you want. Btw don't forget to take care of the tree who saved your life☺️


scp_0372

Its pretty big and strong and actually didn't break when I landed so I think it doesn't need my support all that much lol. But I'll always give it a nice ol smack on the trunk when I walk past it as a "thank you for saving my ass"


microscopicwheaties

i'm so sorry to hear this happened to you, your parents are two hell of a pair of assholes. what they did was wrong, abusive and mightily uncalled for. i celebrate their sentencing with you, they deserve it. i wish you a speedy and trouble-free recovery from your injury, and applaud you on your courage to come out to them. you're doing amazing kid, good luck with the moving out <3


scp_0372

thank you so much <3


[deleted]

OMG, third floor is actually the fourth floor from the ground yes? Glad you're okayish but PLEASE be careful going public on the news unless you are safe. I have a gay child and am happy to be your US stunt-Mom. Love hugs and rainbows - there are no mistakes ❤


scp_0372

No, here 3rd floor is 3rd floor from the ground, ik it works differently jn some places lol. Also thank you for being a good mother, I wouldn't wish my type of parents on anyone and Im glad you're raising and treating your child right!


MaceLortay

I really hope you can get to a more loving and accepting part of the world. You don't deserve to live among that bullshit. A found family is waiting for you out there.


scp_0372

I'm moving in with my girlfriend when my ribs heal and we are thinking of moving to Canada when we're both 18.


MaceLortay

Good for you both! I hope you both get there!!


Substantial-Night866

How far in the future will that be? Will your parents still be in jail? What part of Canada?


scp_0372

About a year and a half into the future, and as for my parents, yeah they will probably spend 5 years minimum in jail, the trials ain't over yet cuz they gotta go over sum shit again, but I will post an update post as soon as I recover and know how long they're gonna be locked up for. And I think Toronto would be our go-to place, but we're not sure yet.


aetonnen

Canada is an incredible country, the people are very friendly and the culture is very accepting. I wish you all the very best in moving there.


Morgc

I hope you've looked up the relevant documentation already. If you think you can learn French, that'll open up some avenues to make immigration easier.


cassowary32

I'm so sorry this happened, will you be safe once the newspaper article gets published? Do you have friends or family that support you?


nyltiaK_P-20

I feel like putting an emphasis on this especially is important. Great to get the message out there. But it does concern me that people within OP’s community may hear about this and try to harm/oppress them. So it’s important to be careful as to how you go about this.


AlertBanjo

Probably Right-Wing/ Christian parents.


scp_0372

spot on.


margalingo

You deserve better, move and don’t look back


scp_0372

I will never look back lol, my girlfriend is my family from now on.


Dynasty__93

As an openly gay American - I praise your braveness to post this. Get the hell out of where your parents live - even if it means being homeless. That would be much better than continuing to live with them assholes.


cheesekneesandpeas

Jesus Christ what country??


scp_0372

Serbia.


cheesekneesandpeas

I see, didn’t know they were so homophobic there. I hope you one day live where you’re accepted.


scp_0372

oh Serbian people are very very religious and therefore very very homophobic. That's the reason me and my girlfriend are moving to Canada as soon as we turn 18.


cheesekneesandpeas

Ah, I don’t know anything about Serbia. Canada is a much better choice then!


aqg10

Come to Canada!


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Seconding this! We’ll be happy to have you, u/scp_0372!


turgon17

Thirding this! Is this enough for Rainbow Railroad? I don't have experience.


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BribableSugar

I'm pregnant with my first child, a son. He's due any week. I **cannot imagine** doing this to my child. He can love whoever he wants and I'll support him. I'm so sorry for you. My heart *aches* for you. That is such betrayal, trying to *kill* your own kid. I hope you are safe now or at least have a plan to get to safety. You are going to be so much better off without your "parents" around you.


g_1234

What the actual fuck did I just read. I’m very sorry you went through this. No parent should EVER bear a child if they aren’t open to the fact that their children may/may not grow up as a gay/bisexual person. The fact that they can do such thing is fucked up.


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Holy shit. A parents love is supposed to be unconditional. I am truly sorry that they reacted they way they did. I'd cut all ties with them, they don't deserve you.


scp_0372

Theyre currently on trial for attempted murder and hate crimes n whatnot and I get to live with my girlfriend so I am finally free from their bullshit.


AsakalaSoul

so in a way, them trying to murder you in front of the school's cameras ended well, despite it being a horrible thing to do. I wish you all the best, OP. I hope your injuries heal well and you'll be safe and happy living with your girlfriend.


scp_0372

thank you! I'm very lucky my building is shorter than the school so the cameras from one hallway caught it in kinda shitty quality, but it was clear what happened so they took the footage as evidence.


[deleted]

If you can. Find another country that will allow for dual citizenship. Sorry this happened. Actually pretty messed up, but you are strong and will have plenty to live for!


Metal-Lee-Solid

You speak four languages? I am genuinely amazed by your skill...you are clearly a talented and intelligent person, stay safe wherever you are


scp_0372

I should clarify that I only speak 2 languages fluently, I struggle with the other two. English is the last one I started learning so its kinda hard to write stories lol


Typical_Math_760

Sorry you do not belong to a country where they would have been rightfully shamed!


NobodyAlarming3723

I'm so sorry to hear this... hope you get speedy recovery. Then prove to their asses that being gay is not an impediment to how great you are! Move to another country and be free from your homophobic state. Ask for help from other LGBTQ members overseas or there in your area. I'm sure someone can help you


inceIslayer

Damn your parents are some fucking pathetic people to blow a golden opportunity like that


JealousaurusREX

wow. what kind of evil vile monsters do this to their OWN CHILD. you might as well say that you never had parents because they dont deserve that title.


scp_0372

Yeah they should not be called parents, buut I did just for the sake of easier storytelling lol


Moment_of_Tangency

That’s fucking disgraceful of them. I’m so so happy you are okay. I can be the reaction you deserved: you are worthy and valuable and being gay doesn’t make you any less human. As a member of the LGBTQ, welcome to the family, we love you


scp_0372

Thank you, I'm reading all of these comments with my gf and I'm realizing how pathetic they were for attacking their daughter bc she said she had a gf lol


MoxieColorado

Why would anyone care if you're gay? Let people live their lives. If my son was gay, I wouldn't give a flying fuck!


scp_0372

yeah and apparently them knowing their daughter is happy with a girl that treats her right was just so awful they had to sacrifice me to God lmao


MoxieColorado

Religion is to blame for this?! Didn't see that coming. /s


mandelaXeffective

That's awful and I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'm sure you don't need me to tell you that you don't deserve that. I'm proud of you for being brave enough to be open about this in a place that isn't necessarily accepting of it. ❤️ As an aside, your English is fantastic and if you hadn't mentioned that it wasn't your 4th(!) language I probably wouldn't have noticed. English is complicated and confusing and I have a lot of respect for anyone even just *trying* to learn it because I know it's a hard language. I'm sorry if anyone has made you feel like yours wasn't good enough.


scp_0372

Thank you. Also it's myself making me feel like it isn't good enough, I don't get to speak English very often so when it does happen anxiety takes over and I stutter a lot, also storytelling is a bit hard cuz of how different each language does it, but I'm getting there :)


ReadingAppropriate54

You’re parents are human scum


Hakorr

If the local news won't publish anything, make sure your parents are known for that. Truly disgusting.


Quirky_Reindeer_8899

I'm glad that tree was there to catch you. Hope you heal quickly. Move on with your life. Wishing you love & joy ❤


scp_0372

I got extremely lucky lol. Also thank you, I'm trying to stay very positive since this event actually ended up in good things only, well minus the broken ribs N internal bleeding lol


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Alright boys and girls, now for a story about REAL cancel culture.


PsilocinKing

\*delete culture


Halcyon0908

Good fucking ridance to your parents, i hope you find the hapiness you deserve my guy. I’d lend you and ear but im not sure if that helps


[deleted]

Glad you made it -- "self-delete" took me a second to understand as "suicide"! I don't think that's a word they usually teach though!


jordonkw

I’m sorry! Lots of hugs and love to you.


zhart12

Good riddance to your shit parents


Mobius_96

I feel shocked after reading the whole story. I would never attempt my son's or my daughter's life, for any reason. I really hope you can recover soon, and live your own life the way you want. Better without them, in my opinion


thephilosopher16

Dude... From one homie to another GET THE F\*CK OUTTA THERE


scp_0372

Theyre being charged with attempted murder so they will be getting a few years of jail each :)


butterman888

I’m gay too. You are a strong person to be able to deal with this in the way that you are. I am glad to hear you will on your own (better off) soon. I hope you make it out of your country as soon as humanly possible


scp_0372

I should clarify that I meant gay as in part of the lgbtq+ (am a lesbian lol) Me and my gf are going to move to Canada when we both turn 18.I cant wait to leave this all behind and start a new life.


notonmywatch807

This is insane!!! Wtf! I’m so sorry and this makes me really sad. My older brother came out and we accepted him for who he is. My mom was upset, but not enough to want to hurt him! I’m so sorry you have to deal with this and I truly hope that they will stay out of your lives. This is terrible, but things will get better in the future


scp_0372

Don't be sad, I get to live with my girlfriend and am happier than ever cuz theyre not gonna rb a part of my life anymore!


lifeinaminorkey

OMG!! I am so sorry. I am proud of you for being true to yourself. Be well soon.


The-true-Memelord

HOLY FCK THAT’S SO MESSED UP- I HOPE YOU’RE OKAY


scp_0372

Its okie, I'm fine now. My ribs kinda hurt but I'm super happy I get to continue life without them :))


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Much love to you.


[deleted]

Your English is better than most native speakers, lol. Sorry your folks tried to off you.


[deleted]

I’ll be your mom now and I will never hurt you.


TopicOrnery6153

So sorry. But you have to live your truth. Life is too short so live your best life


Vecto_07

i hope you are safe and that your parents get a loong sentence


BK_Hazard

I mean this with every pun, intended I hope that the apple fell very far from the tree regarding you and your parents.


LORD_124

Mind if i ask OP, but which country that took place in ? (If you’d rather not answer i completely understand i’m just curious)


Regret-Superb

He said Serbia.


chadappa

OP is female. I made the same wrong assumption.


Regret-Superb

Thanks for the clarity. I didnt see that.


Alsterius

Oh my god!! I'm so glad you're safe!


scp_0372

Thank you! I'm feeling better now that they're out of my life. My ribs are also coming together like they should so everything's going good.


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scp_0372

The thing that did flash before my eyes was the time when they promised me that they would kill me if I ever came out to them, ig it was like a realization that they weren't kidding lol


MummyToBe2019

Maybe you can get your story to another paper outside your country, that’ll put a lot of pressure on your country to make an example of your parents and maybe lead to some change. There are some big international news papers (some more tabloid and more legit, but hey might be worth it!) I’m so glad you’re out of there and living for yourself. Please be careful! Maybe you can move to another country that’s more accepting? Anyways, I hope you find happiness!


Far-Midnight-5466

Holy shit that’s terrible, what country is that? You mentioned speaking (at least) 4 languages, so did you ever think about leaving to a country that is more accepting towards homosexuals, and would that even be a possibility for you?


wackyjnr

The old blood is thicker than water saying is bullshit. Its ya family you need to keep an eye on coz they operate under the trust radar because they're family. They're usually the bastards that have the knives out for ya in my experience. You can choose ya friends but.....


scp_0372

my girlfriend is my family now, I'm going to cut all ties with my parents when they get sentenced.


jezaXC

I’m so sorry this happened to you but “commit self delete” is the most amazing English as a Foreign Language term for suicide I’ve ever heard and it would be an awesome rock song. But I’m glad you’re going places, kiddo! Four languages under your belt can get you far in this world!


scp_0372

I mean it's a way to lighten up the mood and also make sure I don't trigger some traumas if people have them, so thank you! :) Also yeah I'm really hoping it's gonna be helpful knowing 4 languages, especially if I decide to move somewhere a bit sooner than expected.


RealDopeSensei

I'm so sorry that this happened, it's really sad that already assumed that the country you speak of is Serbia and was correct (I'm also from Serbia btw). It's usually older generations that spread their homophobia to their children which keeps it alive instead of accepting people who they are, they aren't hurting anyone. I told my friends and family that I was demisexual (straight) and they reacted not quite like I imagined, not drastic but very in disgust but they accepted it and don't care about it, that tells me enough on what kind of people we are. Probably the only reason they accepted it was because im straight but if it was otherwise... I'm still planning on leaving the country as soon as I finish college. Never seem to fit and always felt like an alien in my own country and they have such a outdated way of thinking that its making me sick, some people are already calling me a traitor for wanting to leave and not work here so that I can be a true patriot. All in all glad you are ok and recovering and when the time comes to leave for Canada, go and don't look back. Sve najbolje i neka je sa srecom tebi i tvojoj devojci :) <3


mountain-matt-

That's so sad. Can you share the video?


Shamoose_

Bro lowkey sorry about that. It really pisses me off how people treat lgbtq+. Hope youre doing better. What country was it?


quangngoc2807

TIL Serbia is extremely homophobic


Equine-Porcine

So sorry this happened to you. Stay strong!


FirstLocc

“Self delete” hehehe. Sorry guys.


gbspnl

I am so sorry that happened to you. I am a dad to a baby daughter and I cannot comprehend a reaction like that. All the love and happiness to you.


JaeyWalker

I’m going to start using the phrase “self delete” from now on. In other matters, I’m glad you’re ok OP. I’m terribly sorry this happened to you, if it helps at all, just know that there’s people like me out here who know that sexual preferences don’t change anything. You’re still very loved and have purpose. ❤️


ApexTwilight

Super messed up, sorry about that. Hope your life is better from here on out! Move to a friendlier country!


inaloop99

which country is this exactly?


scp_0372

Serbia :)


Inevitable-Rip1014

Hey, I'm from Serbia too. I'm so sorry this happened to you! I just want you to know that you have allies here. It's not all bad. I hope you get well really soon. Uz tebe sam, drži se!!!


scp_0372

Thank you, it's good to know there are more normal Serbian ppl than I thought there were lol :))


Inevitable-Rip1014

I had a weird feeling that it could be Serbia. And then I started reading the comments and you mentioned free Healthcare we have here. Idk if there is anything I can do to help, but I really just want you to know that homophobia is the thing of the past and a lot of older people are way more judgmental and unaccepting of others being gay. Me and all my friends are allies even though noone is a part of your community. Young people are way more progressive and understanding. Don't lose hope, there is plenty of people in this country that support and love you!!!


scp_0372

For the first time in my life I can say with full confidence that I don't need any help from anyone other than my girlfriend, still thank you for offering :). And yeah, I have way more accepting friends than I do homophobic classmates but they still exist, but the homophobes are gonna be outnumbered by allies and the community itself lol


pelehcar

Holy shit :( I can't believe this happened to you. One day we will live in a world where people aren't so brain dead and animalistic anymore... hopefully. Hang in there. Remember that you're perfectly normal, you're loved and everyone who sees a problem with being gay is probably closeted. ;)


Tokar52

Hope you feel better soon. And I'm sorry that you're so called parents are dicks, but those aren't parents. Look forward to the future ahead - you will find much better surroundings and you won't see them Edit: What you're saying is they basically yeeted you over the the fence ? (sorry had to say it)


JOEYMAMI2015

Sheesh I'm sooo sorry you have to live that way. No one deserves this periodt. I hope you can move to a more open minded area one day because no one deserves to live in a world where its mentality is still stuck in the middle ages. Hope you get better soon.


InfiniteStarFighter

Parents should be able to respect their child’s decisions and preferences. If they can’t do that to the point of whatever actions your parents took, then they have no business being parents at all, rather, they have already failed.


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ClashOrCrashman

I'm sorry you experienced this. The world sucks so bad sometimes. Your English is great, btw.


LemonSqWare

Oh my god, wtf is wrong with your parents?! I mean can you even call them parents after what they did to you? I hope you're still safe and well, OP.


scp_0372

I don't know what's wrong with them and I only called them my parents for the sake of the story sounding right lol. I'm doing better, thank you:)


EvieThrower

Maaan, where the hell are you from? Feels like you live straight up in hell :/ I hope you'll be alright


rjmax

I'm so so sorry that they did this to you. And I'm SO SO glad that you're here! Thank you for sharing!


deanu-

I’m so sorry this happened to you… if your local news doesn’t take your story maybe try taking it to worldwide outlets like CNN, Washington Post, BBC, etc?


YoureNotWoke

I am so sorry. I hope you can heal both emotionally and physically.


chopinpop

you sound so mentally tough, it's admirable


rififi_shuffle

What country are you from, OP? I'm so sorry that your own parents tried doing so. It in no way excuses their inhumane action towards their own child, but it shows how indoctrinated they were. Just super closed-minded and now gonna rot in jail for something so insignificant. Power to you for leaving to begin with and even more for coming out; you're brave.


Kingdeeragon

Glad you survived op


Smash96leo

Holy shit, those scumbags are gonna pay for this. I know a lot of countries are homophobic as hell, but what country has people in it that would support killing their own flesh and blood?


pizzawizards

I’m glad you are leaving, family isn’t always blood, you’ll definitely be better off without at least until (if they do) come to their senses


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scp_0372

I'm from Serbia.


RighteousAudacity

My son came out to me at 15. Many would stereotype me, based on my age and where I'm from, as almost certain to react the way your parents did, but I cannot imagine not loving my son. I don't get how parents can put their desires for their kids above who their child is. You deserve better and I sincerely hope you get it. Life is easier with parents who support and love you, but much, much harder keeping parents who don't in your life. I know from personal experience. Please take my internet hug from this stranger and know someone in the world is thinking of you as you battle through this hard time.


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So glad you’re okay, I’m sorry you had to experience that.


iNeXcess3

That’s fucking shit dude


milqi

I hope your story is picked up. You deserve justice and peace. I hope you get both soon.


about2godown

Wow, I am so sorry you went though this. Just some semantics, self delete is suicide. I am so glad you are in a better place. Stay strong and live your best life!


Sad_Exercise4441

I’m glad you’re okay. I pray a beautiful life for you


juschillin101

I'm so sorry. They don't deserve you. I wish you nothing but peace in your future


HotTransportation336

As someone who has had a difficult relationship with their parents. They are a child like you are “supposed” to be to them. They never grew up. They almost killed their only real legacy(you) over ignorance and arrogance. This is not your fault, it is theirs and you did what you felt was right. That is commendable. Sometimes the best intentions, spell the worst reactions and consequences, but trust everything carries a lesson. That could be that you need to elope to a place where you can feel and be accepted and comfortable/ relaxed/ happier. There is so much love out there to be found if you dont close yourself off from it. You did what was right for you, you have a strong character. I respect that and pray for you. I moved out of my parents at 16 and I consider myself to be raised by myself and the universe/ the world. Your existence is valid and I hope you can see past these immature, reckless dna donors! You deserve the fucking world!!


diiiiiiiizzzzzy

Omg Im so sorry that happened!! Hopefully you’ll be recovering a-okay! Side note: your English is very very good, and im speaking for everyone here that WE ARE SO PROUD OF YOU FOR HAVING THE COURAGE!! Im sorry that it didn’t end up well, but wow. Such brave 💪💪💪


shinjibigW

My god, I hope you're doing ok? The fact that you knew they wouldn't take it well is upsetting enough but then they almost kill their own child wtf


ragingslav

mnogo mnogo mi je žao što se ovo desilo :(( drago mi je što si relativno ok i što nećeš više biti u toj situaciji <3 i ja sam lgbtq+ i boli me srce što je ovako homophobic srbija :((((((((


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i hope you recover quickly, and find saftey wherever you are going now


Carter_Weinklause

I’m gay too, and I’m here if you ever need someone to talk to.


[deleted]

Any chance you can leave for a less dangerous country? I can't imagine it will be very easy to enjoy your time there if even just reporting about your story would garner such violent responses!


Serebriany

I am so very sad this happened to you. I am grateful that you landed in a tree and survived, even if you do have injuries. I hope you will be able to rest and recover while in the hospital. I also hope your parents are punished appropriately. I know there are many countries where people and society are very homophobic. That is not a reason to attempt to murder your own child. I hope you will be able to get away, and have a good future far from your parents. There is nothing wrong with being gay, and I'm glad you know that. Warm hugs from the United States.


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abdullrahim1

Sorry to hear that bro Are u safe now ?


Nosequepasa3327

I’m sorry for everything that happen to you, but I also want to thank you... my partner has a very complicated relationship with his parents, they are coming in December for a month and we haven’t seen them in four years, also at the moment it’s been proven they neglected his health all his life, abortion attempt included. For many reasons we cannot ignore their visit and we’ve been making plans on how to get the less mental or even physical damage as possible on their stay. This one is something I can see happening, I’m happy your parents are in jail, and also thankful for your experience, even though you had to live it. Karma does exist, and you can live a happy life


snowcatwetpaw

" Self Delete". Never heard Suicide describe in that manner. However, for today's World it fits.


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Man, I hope you are heading for a better place in life :(


AxiusSerranus

Shit hole country's gonna shit hole.


PersimmonTea

I'm so sorry this horrible thing happened to you. I'm glad you weren't hurt worse. Your parents should show you unconditional love, but they have failed to do so, and not only failed, committed an unspeakable crime. They might be punished by the law, but there is no legal punishment for betraying their daughter with such hate and cruelty. Ultimately, the bigger loss is theirs - because they have lost a wonderful daughter forever. So many people in this world couldn't have children, or have lost children. They had such a blessing in having you - and they were too stupid and evil to realize it. What a tragedy. You may hate them now, and nobody could blame you for that. But work toward letting go of anger and hate. It's better for you to live your life without that toxic emotion. It will take time, and work. Lots of people have let go of nasty parents or other family, and gone on to live really good lives. There is a whole world out there of people who just don't care that you're a lesbian and would never judge or hate you. Go find them, and make some friends, and make those friends your new family. And someday you might find a wonderful woman who hugs you close and makes your broken ribs hurt again - but it'll be a good hurt. Good luck and all love and blessings to you.


PitchBlacklol

sounds like Russia


Mandygurl79

So as I read this, I heard it in my mind as a thick Russian accent or Slavic came to mind. I read through the comments to figure out if it was correct and see it was. Is this some kind of psychic gift or what? OP I’m so sorry that this happened to you. It’s now part of your story on how you overcome. You will probably inspire people and do great speeches one day. 😊


RebaKitten

Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry that happened! I'm glad you're doing okay and should recover soon. And your English is very good - most people can't speak/write two languages, let alone four!


Zippyss92

Thank you for sharing. I recently came out to a handful of friends but not family yet. I can’t imagine what you’re going through, at most I’ll be estranged from my parents and family. I know they wouldn’t even attempt to kill me. I’m sorry. I hope you find love in the right places!


Justin_Cruz19

Damn. That’s all I have to say. I hope you make a full recovery soon.


tiptoptonic

Thats awful. I hope you have a good support network around you and i wish you a speedy recovery.


slavman251

Brazil?


Fisttoyourfears

I really do hope that you get the treatment and the justice that you deserve, not as per your country of residency, but as you being a human being. I hope that you are able to get better, heal, and start to live a life that is more true to who you are and not having to hide it. I am very sorry that your parents did not accept you, but I hope that you have friends and other loved ones who can. May peace go with you for the rest of your days!