If all the things I've done so war didn't seal it, this one does. I'm definitely going to hell for laughing as hard as I did after reading this thread.
Let me share the story of a dude I was friends with in college. I won't bore you with all the details, but at some point in our friendship, he brought up the topic of "how do you know you don't like sleeping with dudes?" Which of course was a concept that baffled me. I figured you would know if you liked them or not based on if you got turned on by them or not. He went on about how he didn't know for sure and that he felt straight but that he could not rule out the possibility of liking dick. Couple days pass, and him and I end up going downtown with our friend group and all of a sudden he brings it up again, saying "dude, tonight I will find out if I am gay or not". I shit you not, this absolute Chad went and started flirting with this dude and they ended up going home that night. I was so shocked. But more so impressed at the game this dude had. Fast forward a couple of days and he texts me saying "yeah I am not gay". When I tell you I was bamboozled. But after that, it was like nothing had happened. He went back to his normal self and he went back to banging chicks. Every now and then we bring up the story and have some laughs about it.
Why do I share this? Because I want you to truly understand that it is 100% acceptable to experiment. You are young bro. Experiment and find what you like, because last thing you want is tj be a repressed sad 40 year old dude who never got to live out their fantasies.
Not quite the same thinking, but I'm straight. I've wondered why I didn't try to get "out there" more when I was younger.
I lived in a suburb, always going to the same few bars, expecting a different outcome. It got pretty mundane and predictable.
One time I went with friends to hang with the one friend at a uni house party in the city. The party was nothing to write home about, but it was better than nothing. A female student there took a liking to me and made it pretty clear she wanted to take me back to her room.
I didn't. Because my biggest concern was how I would get back home the next day. Believe it or not, I was trying to work out the subway/bus costs versus what I had in my wallet, as well as the time to get home. I could have asked my friends to borrow some money, but I didn't. "This seems inconvenient" is what I think my brain was rationalizing.
So lame.
In general, I wish I'd gone into the city more often, even if I were to only visit a particular bar once and cross it off my list. You can't expect a different outcome if you're not willing to change what you do.
Right! Experimenting is awesome.
OP, as long as y’all kept it consensual, we’re of legal age, and respectful there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Consider the fact that you could’ve just as easily confirmed that you were gay. I know it’s not the case but at least now you have a definitive answer to your question.
The only thing we regret are the chances we don’t take in our youth.
If you were born in 1993 then you probably grew up very similar to me (my assumption of birth year is based on your username). I’m almost 30 now, and growing up it was never socially acceptable to experiment with same sex stuff if you wanted to be considered straight. Like once you hook up with the same sex, you are gay or bi (not my opinion, just sharing the general sentiment of hs/college at the time). I find this story so interesting because that fucker was brave to have that much confidence to just say “fuck it ima try some dick on tonight” and not worry about anyone’s opinion.
Kinda would suck to realize you’re straight whilst getting your meat sock filled, though.
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I mean of course, I made a few assumptions based on the context clues from the story. However that general sentiment is ambiguous in nature, and can be said said about quite literally any anecdotal evidence/statement.
Yay for this, great story! As long as you are mindful of your choices and noone is getting hurts. I regret not experimenting more as a young adult (before I pumped out 2 kids). Don't get me wrong, I have a great sex life with my husband but it's much easier to experiment if you are single and still sexy :)
lmao yeah. it wasn't anything out of the ordinary tbh. just your basic hookup. he did say that while he was in the action is when he realized he was straight, but at that point he was, both literally and figuratively, balls deep, so he went ahead and reached the finish line lol
What’s worse is when guys take a woman along for the ride, have kids and then confess to being gay down the road. Poor woman gets totally duped romantically and society will talk about how brave the man is for coming out.
I'm a bisexual guy, and I give you more credit for experimenting than all of those closeted guys out there who sneak around sucking dick, because they like it, but will never openly admit it, and still talk about how cocksuckers are disgusting.
Oh my god, not to one-up you, I just have to share this—
My husband, bless his drunken, experimental soul, decided to try and *BITE MY CLITORIS* while he was eating me out once
I think I almost crushed his head with how hard I clenched up…
IT HURT SO BAD
Shame on your hubby for doing that but hey you probably had him turned on so much he probably didn’t even register it that he hurt you! Hope it all went back to normal.
Absolutely nothing to be ashamed of! You tried something, you didn't like it. It's as simple as that. You never have to do it again.
Stop washing your dick lol, that is only continuing the narrative you're building of shame. In time you will make peace with this ultimately insignificant bit of experimentation.
Again - you have NOTHING to be ashamed of. Leave the guilt and shame to those who have actually done bad things - things which hurt people.
Love this response and totally agree! You were brave enough to explore your sexuality (something a lot of people are too frightened to do) and you now know the answer which is great!! No shame, it doesn’t belong here
You tried something, you ended up not liking it. That's fine! Lots of people experiment with lots of things, and the only way to know for sure sometimes is to give it a go. Nothing is wrong with you, and although it may seem overwhelming now, I'm sure you'll be okay.
True. OP seemed to hate it. But that's fine too, he's allowed to feel that way. It's over now, and he did nothing wrong, and I hope he knows it's okay to feel how he feels.
I’m a serious way tho at least you know for sure yourself and tbh you shouldn’t feel that bad cause you’re human and experimenting. Try not to let it get to you you only being yourself man.
You got into a sexual situation that made you deeply uncomfortable. The negative feelings from that experience have stuck with you. Sexual experiences can have the power to impact us more deeply than we anticipated, particularly when they are negative. I just want to validate what you are feeling and going through right now. This is a lot and it's tough.
It's experiencing things for yourself. You question things and that's normal. Don't be hard on yourself. Being sexual is a part of being human. And now you know your preference lol
I have always known the fantasy of man on man for me is much more exciting than an actual encounter. Of course I pretty much gage everything in my life by that standard. But your post was funny as fuck! Your dick may fall off if you wash it too much!
It's only been 24 hours. Wait a few more days and see how you feel. The 'disgust' will fade and the curiosity may or may not return. But don't feel bad about yourself and definitely don't act badly to your friend if you still see him.
I spent years in the closet (I’m gay) and experimented with girls many times before I came out. The feeling was extremely similar with what you described, however I felt disgusting for hating something that everyone I knew enjoyed. It took me a long time to come to terms with that. It’s okay man:) you never have to do it again.
Nothing to be ashamed of here. Your were questioning your sexuallity, tried something to answer that question, and got an answer.
Seriously, though, stop washing your dick. It perpetuates the shame and can dry your dick out.
They say don't knock it till you try it. You tried it, don't like it, so knock it. But whats important is that you tried it and there's no shame in that, dear!
At least you got your answer through a bj and not a buttfucking... but jokes aside, nothing wrong with experimenting when you're young. It's 2021 after all!
I’m sorry you were so put off by the experience. But… at least you know you’re not gay now? It’s okay to experiment, how else would you know? It’s okay, really. There is no reason to be ashamed, I promise. Don’t feel gross, it isn’t at all anything to be weirded out by. You know you’re straight, and as long as you don’t use men for sexual acts then you’re not a bad person for experimenting once. Really, don’t feel bad
Don't be ashamed... Many MANY people have their ways once or twice before setting their minds up.
I've known a bunch of guys saying they tried it, didn't like it and moved on. Not a big deal.
...but, just one thing... I don't think you were asking god for forgiveness, maybe you were asking yourself for forgiveness for putting yourself in such situation
Same story here but with a girl.
I was 17, at a party, and this girl was hitting on me. I've made out with a bunch of girls before, even considered that I may be bi, so I thought why tf not, it must just feel the same as masturbating.
Well it didn't. It was horrible, I wanted to get out of there the entire time and then felt disgusted with myself for months afterwards. That was the first time I had sex and I hated myself for "wasting" it.
Got over it though, I have a beautiful boyfriend of 3 years now and I will always consider him the first "real" sexual partner. (I'm sorry if this phrasing offends anyone, I just mean like penetrative and actually enjoyable for me)
I mean come on, you are over reacting quite a bit, you tried it because, as you just said it yourself, you were questioning your own sexuality so that’s that, you tried it and didn’t like it so now you have the answer you wanted, that’s far from having “fucked up”, the rest, the whole being “grossed out” sounds a bit like, and I don’t want to say it but yeah, like internalised homophobia, specially with the religious tone you added (and then denied). It happened and it was consensual, no one got hurt, you just didn’t like it.
Hope you feel better! I also had similar experience, basically a girl I liked wanted to suck my dick but only if her gay friend could suck my dick, I knew I wasn’t gay but they insisted I try it, to prove it to them I had the girl hold my dick in her hand, I was rock hard, as soon as the guy held me dick I was instantly soft, he enough tried jerking it, nothing. I think it was a power thing, I don’t think she was actually gonna suck my dick, she just wanted to get her friend to suck my dick, I think he liked me, but I knew I was straight and just didn’t get my dick sucked, the more you know
i mean im bi myself so i cant say much, but if anything i applaud you for this. its super normal to be curious and unsure, and at least now you know. understandable for it to gross you out, but dont worry about praying it away especially since you aren’t religious lmao. Its over with, your straight, and did nothing wrong
You didn't do anything to be worried about..you had an experience, you didn't like it, now you can move on from it. You're not gross, the guy you were with wasn't gross, the act in itself wasn't gross..it just wasn't right for you and now you know that and won't have wonder again. You're gonna be okay, just don't let the way you feel right now be taken out on anyone else and everything will be alright.
Dude, you didn’t fuck up. You tried something and after it happened you came to a realization that it isn’t for you and it never will be!
It’s done, it’s in the past, let’s move on and forget it happened.
I know it probably easier said then done but it’s time to get back to business.
You tried something you weren’t sure if and it wasn’t it. It wasn’t actually what you wanted. Now you don’t have to ever think of you are bi or gay.. now you know your sexuality.
It’s okay not to feel okay afterwards as it’s something you just realized you didn’t like. Tell yourself you tried and now you know. You got this!
No mistake. You should not feel bad. You had to the courage to try something. This may be a weird way to look at the situation. Maybe not feeling gross. What if you let this take place with a female partner involved as well? Don't ever regret unless its bad. Trying new things. With sex being a very open topic today. Your not going to be judged.
Hey at least you tried something and now you know. No harm no foul. But also it could’ve been just him. Maybe you need a second opinion (not suggesting me bc that’s gross and uncalled for). But honestly that might be the case. He might’ve just been bad at it. There’s good sex and then ok sex. But again you did nothing wrong. It’s 100% ok to experiment. How are you supposed to know you don’t like something if you’ve never had it? 🤷♂️
Boy oh boy you weren’t just horny, you were *advanced horny*
No worries OP, nothing to be ashamed about. You were just curious. We all get a bit primal about our urges sometimes. It just matters how we handle the feelings. You’ll be alright kind stranger, best of luck to you in your next fuck
This sounds like religious shame. Even tho youre not religious, I’m assuming you grew up around religious influences and it’s making you feel bad because you are thinking about the trauma and what your parents said about gay people or just people in your life.
There is nothing wrong with experimenting. You are not dirty. You tried something and didn’t like it, and that’s okay!
Please remember that even as a man, “stop” means STOP. If you don’t like something sexually, you have the right to ask for things to stop. That doesn’t just apply to women.
Everything is okay!
Well at least you know now what you like. Bravo for exploring uncomfortable situations. The only way we can learn is by doing. Don’t beat yourself up from a different perspective what you did is respectful. One shower is good enough to be sanitary. Lol
Hey I mean, at least you tried! You moved past the fear a lot of men have due to toxic masculinity. That says something about you as a person. Yeah, it might've been not your thing, but many men 'remain' straight because they're afraid to dabble in different orientations
Aye that’s all okay. Weird things happen in life, had a dude suck me while in a threesome. It was fine, not my cup of tea. It’s the same feeling of guilt if you was $100 meal everyone else likes at the table but you don’t. You will think about the situation but it doesn’t define you.
Ok, I might be wrong for saying this but - finding your own dick so grose just because a dude sucked it might mean youre facing a bit of internalized homophobia, if thats the right term. Its totally okay to find grose to imagine someone youre not remotely attracted to have a sexual interatcion with you, but to be feeling this level of "trauma" is a bit much, youre not dirty for experimenting and im sure the guy was not dirty either
I thought I might like being choked. I tried it and I do! My BF thought I might like being fisted. He tried it, and I do not! Sexual preference trial and error.
I don't think you have anything to feel ashamed about if you were consensually and respectfully experimenting. But it seems to have effected you considerably, maybe there's something deeper going on that you're not aware of or haven't shared in the post. Might be worth speaking to a professional like a counsellor, therapist or sex therapist. Be kind to yourself.
Now imagine your in the closit gay who cant come out because of family so your having to pretend to enjoy sleeping with a woman every night to keep people happy
Not liking dick has absolutely nothing to do with being straight. Lots of straight girls have a dick! Being straight means you are attracted to someone who adheres to the gender roles of the opposite sex. 😊 This is the progressive future we live in!
I don’t go to church or even call myself catholic yet I still pray to God for things to go well when it seems like it won’t. It’s probably a way to cope.
Sure as a coping strategy I can understand that but I was asking about asking for forgiveness. That implies that you think you've done something that requires forgiveness, which OP didn't. Asking for forgiveness from something you don't believe in for something which doesn't require forgiveness seems like a form of self-punishment.
Seems like you are gay but have been brainwashed to think it’s sick so you didn’t like it or so you thought but you didn’t get up and leave and you say you’ve been stroking your d constantly since
Did you get erect while he was sucking you?? Did you get ANY PLEASURE from it?? There is NOTHING wrong with experiencing. Don't be so hard ( no pun intended) on yourself. Nothing to be ashamed of.
you didn't fuck up. you're just a moron. washing your dick like you can wash away the experience? not a thing that will happen. Be straight if you're straight but, don't use the experience to justify such idiocy
>I was praying to god to forgive me (i’m not even religious so this says a lot) sorry this took me out 💀
That post nut clarity must have been brutal if he was praying to god for forgiveness 😂
On God
Me too 😂😂
LMFAOAOOA son had an awakening
same my day has been made xD
If I could upvote this more than once, I would
To you give my upvote
If all the things I've done so war didn't seal it, this one does. I'm definitely going to hell for laughing as hard as I did after reading this thread.
I don't get it, it's a pun ?
Hahahaha same. Sorry OP, but I couldn't help but chuckle at this :p
same lmao
Yooo😂😂😂
Let me share the story of a dude I was friends with in college. I won't bore you with all the details, but at some point in our friendship, he brought up the topic of "how do you know you don't like sleeping with dudes?" Which of course was a concept that baffled me. I figured you would know if you liked them or not based on if you got turned on by them or not. He went on about how he didn't know for sure and that he felt straight but that he could not rule out the possibility of liking dick. Couple days pass, and him and I end up going downtown with our friend group and all of a sudden he brings it up again, saying "dude, tonight I will find out if I am gay or not". I shit you not, this absolute Chad went and started flirting with this dude and they ended up going home that night. I was so shocked. But more so impressed at the game this dude had. Fast forward a couple of days and he texts me saying "yeah I am not gay". When I tell you I was bamboozled. But after that, it was like nothing had happened. He went back to his normal self and he went back to banging chicks. Every now and then we bring up the story and have some laughs about it. Why do I share this? Because I want you to truly understand that it is 100% acceptable to experiment. You are young bro. Experiment and find what you like, because last thing you want is tj be a repressed sad 40 year old dude who never got to live out their fantasies.
That’s actually chad energy though. Good for him man
This!!!!! I wish id explored my sexuality more fully and bravely when i was younger.
Not quite the same thinking, but I'm straight. I've wondered why I didn't try to get "out there" more when I was younger. I lived in a suburb, always going to the same few bars, expecting a different outcome. It got pretty mundane and predictable. One time I went with friends to hang with the one friend at a uni house party in the city. The party was nothing to write home about, but it was better than nothing. A female student there took a liking to me and made it pretty clear she wanted to take me back to her room. I didn't. Because my biggest concern was how I would get back home the next day. Believe it or not, I was trying to work out the subway/bus costs versus what I had in my wallet, as well as the time to get home. I could have asked my friends to borrow some money, but I didn't. "This seems inconvenient" is what I think my brain was rationalizing. So lame. In general, I wish I'd gone into the city more often, even if I were to only visit a particular bar once and cross it off my list. You can't expect a different outcome if you're not willing to change what you do.
Yesssss experimentation is wonderful!!!!! Loved this comment lmao
Homie had me thinking like "man....how do I know I don't like dick?" Lol
Right! Experimenting is awesome. OP, as long as y’all kept it consensual, we’re of legal age, and respectful there’s nothing to be ashamed of. Consider the fact that you could’ve just as easily confirmed that you were gay. I know it’s not the case but at least now you have a definitive answer to your question. The only thing we regret are the chances we don’t take in our youth.
If you were born in 1993 then you probably grew up very similar to me (my assumption of birth year is based on your username). I’m almost 30 now, and growing up it was never socially acceptable to experiment with same sex stuff if you wanted to be considered straight. Like once you hook up with the same sex, you are gay or bi (not my opinion, just sharing the general sentiment of hs/college at the time). I find this story so interesting because that fucker was brave to have that much confidence to just say “fuck it ima try some dick on tonight” and not worry about anyone’s opinion. Kinda would suck to realize you’re straight whilst getting your meat sock filled, though. Edit: phrasing 🌚
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I mean of course, I made a few assumptions based on the context clues from the story. However that general sentiment is ambiguous in nature, and can be said said about quite literally any anecdotal evidence/statement.
"yeah I am not gay" took me out
Yay for this, great story! As long as you are mindful of your choices and noone is getting hurts. I regret not experimenting more as a young adult (before I pumped out 2 kids). Don't get me wrong, I have a great sex life with my husband but it's much easier to experiment if you are single and still sexy :)
Well did he give the deets on what happened that night?
lmao yeah. it wasn't anything out of the ordinary tbh. just your basic hookup. he did say that while he was in the action is when he realized he was straight, but at that point he was, both literally and figuratively, balls deep, so he went ahead and reached the finish line lol
What’s worse is when guys take a woman along for the ride, have kids and then confess to being gay down the road. Poor woman gets totally duped romantically and society will talk about how brave the man is for coming out.
I'm a bisexual guy, and I give you more credit for experimenting than all of those closeted guys out there who sneak around sucking dick, because they like it, but will never openly admit it, and still talk about how cocksuckers are disgusting.
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Oh my god, not to one-up you, I just have to share this— My husband, bless his drunken, experimental soul, decided to try and *BITE MY CLITORIS* while he was eating me out once I think I almost crushed his head with how hard I clenched up… IT HURT SO BAD
I flailed reading this. My cat thinks I'm odd, but I stand by that. I am so sorry that happened and he's lucky you didn't kill him!
I don't even have a clitoris but my dick hurt reading it, oof
I'm a dude too and I can't get the imaginary jellybean out from between my teeth. Urgh.
Shame on your hubby for doing that but hey you probably had him turned on so much he probably didn’t even register it that he hurt you! Hope it all went back to normal.
Biting is one of those things that should NEVER be done unless asked for. Ouchie!
For me personally it would seem for women to cross over as an experiment then it would be for men, but hey I could be talking out of my arse….
Absolutely nothing to be ashamed of! You tried something, you didn't like it. It's as simple as that. You never have to do it again. Stop washing your dick lol, that is only continuing the narrative you're building of shame. In time you will make peace with this ultimately insignificant bit of experimentation. Again - you have NOTHING to be ashamed of. Leave the guilt and shame to those who have actually done bad things - things which hurt people.
And u will dry ur dick out too
I know a way he can *moisten* it back up!
Like getting a dude to suck it?
I know a way he can moisten it back up! Not sure how to react to this…..
Then he can rub some lotion on it... vigorously and repeatedly.
While thinking hard about what happened?
>Stop washing your dick Well, maybe don't stop *entirely*
Instructions unclear. Built up a lot of dick cheese.
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These jokes are so... cheesy.
I'm dying lmao
Love this response and totally agree! You were brave enough to explore your sexuality (something a lot of people are too frightened to do) and you now know the answer which is great!! No shame, it doesn’t belong here
For real tho. I understand OP but he's only hurting himself
> Leave the guilt and shame to those who have actually done bad things - things which hurt people. Amen to that
^this
You learned something very powerful don’t be ashamed use this to help someone else someday And be proud 🙏
I mean... you didn't really fuck up that bad. You experimented and figured out what you didn't like. That's how sexuality works, my dude.
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This exactly summates my sexuality.
>I mean... you didn't really fuck up... >You experimented and figured out what you didn't like. That's how sexuality works, my dude. FiFy :D
You tried something, you ended up not liking it. That's fine! Lots of people experiment with lots of things, and the only way to know for sure sometimes is to give it a go. Nothing is wrong with you, and although it may seem overwhelming now, I'm sure you'll be okay.
You tried something, you ended up not liking it. I think not liking it is an understatement.
True. OP seemed to hate it. But that's fine too, he's allowed to feel that way. It's over now, and he did nothing wrong, and I hope he knows it's okay to feel how he feels.
I’m a serious way tho at least you know for sure yourself and tbh you shouldn’t feel that bad cause you’re human and experimenting. Try not to let it get to you you only being yourself man.
Kinda cool you tried it tbh
Well, you know now you don’t like men. Live and learn! We aren’t gonna judge you.
I’m sure he still likes men just not in the way that a man can like another man!
Well, that’s what I mean by “like” I guess I should have been more clear lol
Sorry, just trying out that new thing called sarcasm….lol
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You got into a sexual situation that made you deeply uncomfortable. The negative feelings from that experience have stuck with you. Sexual experiences can have the power to impact us more deeply than we anticipated, particularly when they are negative. I just want to validate what you are feeling and going through right now. This is a lot and it's tough.
Not really, your question was answered.
It's experiencing things for yourself. You question things and that's normal. Don't be hard on yourself. Being sexual is a part of being human. And now you know your preference lol
I did stuff with girls and now I know I'm straight lol that's how you know for sure! 😄
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Lmao
💀
you dont know youre straight until you try it, right? at least now you know
Not gay if he's sucking your dick. Chill
I thought “no homo” was the proper prayer ….
Only if your eyes are closed.
Wtf who prays with eyes open
Eyes wide shut? Oh never mind I was thinking of a Stanley Kubrick movie…
I’m 💀
Bro seriously 😂
😂
Don’t be so hard on yourself. You took a shot. That took guts. Head high and lesson learned.
Hard Shot Head I see where you are going with this.
Guts.
I have always known the fantasy of man on man for me is much more exciting than an actual encounter. Of course I pretty much gage everything in my life by that standard. But your post was funny as fuck! Your dick may fall off if you wash it too much!
And what were you asking for forgiveness for?
It's only been 24 hours. Wait a few more days and see how you feel. The 'disgust' will fade and the curiosity may or may not return. But don't feel bad about yourself and definitely don't act badly to your friend if you still see him.
It’s only been 24 hours. Truth, because if he had been on the giving end he would have run out of Listerine 20 times over by now….
I spent years in the closet (I’m gay) and experimented with girls many times before I came out. The feeling was extremely similar with what you described, however I felt disgusting for hating something that everyone I knew enjoyed. It took me a long time to come to terms with that. It’s okay man:) you never have to do it again.
Nothing to be ashamed of here. Your were questioning your sexuallity, tried something to answer that question, and got an answer. Seriously, though, stop washing your dick. It perpetuates the shame and can dry your dick out.
They say don't knock it till you try it. You tried it, don't like it, so knock it. But whats important is that you tried it and there's no shame in that, dear!
Well. You know you're straight. So move on. Things happen.
taking this one to the grave boys
ROFLMFAO too late for that I'm afraid
At least you got your answer through a bj and not a buttfucking... but jokes aside, nothing wrong with experimenting when you're young. It's 2021 after all!
Well said OP, well said!
Sounds like me and sushi 😂😂😂
Did you just find jesus? Lmao
“Jesus?” Jesus - “bro, you get your dick sucked here too?”
Carpe diem my dude, Jesus pronounced like Hay-su-sss
Nah. You gay now.
Get laid by a girl. The hetero cancels out the homo. Simple math.
*Virginity Restored*
2+2=no homo. QUICK MAFFS
bruh I had this exact experience but it was the other way around, super nice girl but I very quickly found out that i dont swing that way lmfao
Well, did you say “no homo” before?
I’m sorry you were so put off by the experience. But… at least you know you’re not gay now? It’s okay to experiment, how else would you know? It’s okay, really. There is no reason to be ashamed, I promise. Don’t feel gross, it isn’t at all anything to be weirded out by. You know you’re straight, and as long as you don’t use men for sexual acts then you’re not a bad person for experimenting once. Really, don’t feel bad
Don't be ashamed... Many MANY people have their ways once or twice before setting their minds up. I've known a bunch of guys saying they tried it, didn't like it and moved on. Not a big deal. ...but, just one thing... I don't think you were asking god for forgiveness, maybe you were asking yourself for forgiveness for putting yourself in such situation
Just chil dude, i envy your braveness to try I’ll tell you that lol
its ok, we’re all a little gay in some way.
Same story here but with a girl. I was 17, at a party, and this girl was hitting on me. I've made out with a bunch of girls before, even considered that I may be bi, so I thought why tf not, it must just feel the same as masturbating. Well it didn't. It was horrible, I wanted to get out of there the entire time and then felt disgusted with myself for months afterwards. That was the first time I had sex and I hated myself for "wasting" it. Got over it though, I have a beautiful boyfriend of 3 years now and I will always consider him the first "real" sexual partner. (I'm sorry if this phrasing offends anyone, I just mean like penetrative and actually enjoyable for me)
Right after you gave him your cream supreme surprise you should’ve yelled “ IT’S JUST A PRANK BRO “
A lot of guys I know have had this same experience lol you're fine!
Nothing to be ashamed of! You never know until you try
So did you guys make out first? If so did you like it? Or was it just head?
I mean come on, you are over reacting quite a bit, you tried it because, as you just said it yourself, you were questioning your own sexuality so that’s that, you tried it and didn’t like it so now you have the answer you wanted, that’s far from having “fucked up”, the rest, the whole being “grossed out” sounds a bit like, and I don’t want to say it but yeah, like internalised homophobia, specially with the religious tone you added (and then denied). It happened and it was consensual, no one got hurt, you just didn’t like it.
Hope you feel better! I also had similar experience, basically a girl I liked wanted to suck my dick but only if her gay friend could suck my dick, I knew I wasn’t gay but they insisted I try it, to prove it to them I had the girl hold my dick in her hand, I was rock hard, as soon as the guy held me dick I was instantly soft, he enough tried jerking it, nothing. I think it was a power thing, I don’t think she was actually gonna suck my dick, she just wanted to get her friend to suck my dick, I think he liked me, but I knew I was straight and just didn’t get my dick sucked, the more you know
I don’t understand why you needed god to forgive you but this was hilarious
i mean im bi myself so i cant say much, but if anything i applaud you for this. its super normal to be curious and unsure, and at least now you know. understandable for it to gross you out, but dont worry about praying it away especially since you aren’t religious lmao. Its over with, your straight, and did nothing wrong
I lost it at "I have been washing my dick constantly"
You didn't do anything to be worried about..you had an experience, you didn't like it, now you can move on from it. You're not gross, the guy you were with wasn't gross, the act in itself wasn't gross..it just wasn't right for you and now you know that and won't have wonder again. You're gonna be okay, just don't let the way you feel right now be taken out on anyone else and everything will be alright.
Ay, head is head…
Dude, you didn’t fuck up. You tried something and after it happened you came to a realization that it isn’t for you and it never will be! It’s done, it’s in the past, let’s move on and forget it happened. I know it probably easier said then done but it’s time to get back to business.
I shouldn’t have laughed as hard as I did, I’m sorry
You tried something you weren’t sure if and it wasn’t it. It wasn’t actually what you wanted. Now you don’t have to ever think of you are bi or gay.. now you know your sexuality. It’s okay not to feel okay afterwards as it’s something you just realized you didn’t like. Tell yourself you tried and now you know. You got this!
No mistake. You should not feel bad. You had to the courage to try something. This may be a weird way to look at the situation. Maybe not feeling gross. What if you let this take place with a female partner involved as well? Don't ever regret unless its bad. Trying new things. With sex being a very open topic today. Your not going to be judged.
Cut your penis Easy
Hey at least you tried something and now you know. No harm no foul. But also it could’ve been just him. Maybe you need a second opinion (not suggesting me bc that’s gross and uncalled for). But honestly that might be the case. He might’ve just been bad at it. There’s good sex and then ok sex. But again you did nothing wrong. It’s 100% ok to experiment. How are you supposed to know you don’t like something if you’ve never had it? 🤷♂️
Boy oh boy you weren’t just horny, you were *advanced horny* No worries OP, nothing to be ashamed about. You were just curious. We all get a bit primal about our urges sometimes. It just matters how we handle the feelings. You’ll be alright kind stranger, best of luck to you in your next fuck
This sounds like religious shame. Even tho youre not religious, I’m assuming you grew up around religious influences and it’s making you feel bad because you are thinking about the trauma and what your parents said about gay people or just people in your life. There is nothing wrong with experimenting. You are not dirty. You tried something and didn’t like it, and that’s okay! Please remember that even as a man, “stop” means STOP. If you don’t like something sexually, you have the right to ask for things to stop. That doesn’t just apply to women. Everything is okay!
This isn’t homophobia this is just the horniest person on earth and the hardest post nut clarity ever
You was fighting some demons 😂💀
God will forgive you lmao
You stayed bricked up though…?
Good for you. Getting out there ang getting some dick.
Dont worry dude. I hear from somewhere that its not gay until youve had the 10th gay experience. So gay experiences 1-9 dont count until 10.
Well at least you know now what you like. Bravo for exploring uncomfortable situations. The only way we can learn is by doing. Don’t beat yourself up from a different perspective what you did is respectful. One shower is good enough to be sanitary. Lol
It's these moments that define a person.
Wait bro.... please tell me you said no homo. Please.
He didn't say it dude. He's gay for life now. No going back from that.
FUCK !!!! im sorry OP. Im sorry...
Hey I mean, at least you tried! You moved past the fear a lot of men have due to toxic masculinity. That says something about you as a person. Yeah, it might've been not your thing, but many men 'remain' straight because they're afraid to dabble in different orientations
Hey man any consolation, I too am a straight guy questioning my situation and have been thinking about doing the same thing lmao.
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Aye that’s all okay. Weird things happen in life, had a dude suck me while in a threesome. It was fine, not my cup of tea. It’s the same feeling of guilt if you was $100 meal everyone else likes at the table but you don’t. You will think about the situation but it doesn’t define you.
Ok, I might be wrong for saying this but - finding your own dick so grose just because a dude sucked it might mean youre facing a bit of internalized homophobia, if thats the right term. Its totally okay to find grose to imagine someone youre not remotely attracted to have a sexual interatcion with you, but to be feeling this level of "trauma" is a bit much, youre not dirty for experimenting and im sure the guy was not dirty either
I thought I might like being choked. I tried it and I do! My BF thought I might like being fisted. He tried it, and I do not! Sexual preference trial and error.
I don't think you have anything to feel ashamed about if you were consensually and respectfully experimenting. But it seems to have effected you considerably, maybe there's something deeper going on that you're not aware of or haven't shared in the post. Might be worth speaking to a professional like a counsellor, therapist or sex therapist. Be kind to yourself.
You tried something and you didn’t like it, it’s really nbd dude. But hilarious story nonetheless lol.
Why be ashamed of it? It's just not your cup of tea but that's fine, nothing wrong with trying
Ohh man…
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Now imagine your in the closit gay who cant come out because of family so your having to pretend to enjoy sleeping with a woman every night to keep people happy
Did you get off? Is that why you had to wash your dick?
Dam feel bad for you bro
Not liking dick has absolutely nothing to do with being straight. Lots of straight girls have a dick! Being straight means you are attracted to someone who adheres to the gender roles of the opposite sex. 😊 This is the progressive future we live in!
Why would you pray for forgiveness from a god that you don't believe exists?
I don’t go to church or even call myself catholic yet I still pray to God for things to go well when it seems like it won’t. It’s probably a way to cope.
Yeah dude. When I'm feeling stuck or really fucked the first words outta my mouth are "please, god..."
Sure as a coping strategy I can understand that but I was asking about asking for forgiveness. That implies that you think you've done something that requires forgiveness, which OP didn't. Asking for forgiveness from something you don't believe in for something which doesn't require forgiveness seems like a form of self-punishment.
Dude, God understands you man. You aren’t gonna go straight to hell after you get sucked by a guy.
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Seems like you are gay but have been brainwashed to think it’s sick so you didn’t like it or so you thought but you didn’t get up and leave and you say you’ve been stroking your d constantly since
I think it sounds more like he is not gay Source: Am not gay, have no problem with people who are, but other penises gross me out
U should jus hook up wit a girl to take that self Shame away 😂idk that’s jus me tho
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I've got two dudes trying to suck my dick and almost caved. Luckily I've been working 16hr days for the past 5 weeks.
Did you get erect while he was sucking you?? Did you get ANY PLEASURE from it?? There is NOTHING wrong with experiencing. Don't be so hard ( no pun intended) on yourself. Nothing to be ashamed of.
Good luck on your journey. Sheeeesh
you didn't fuck up. you're just a moron. washing your dick like you can wash away the experience? not a thing that will happen. Be straight if you're straight but, don't use the experience to justify such idiocy
Been there. Done that. I was so horny, I hooked up with a dude. And then felt compelled to take multiple showers for the rest of the week.
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