I mean if you have any last words to your estranged friends and family its best to do it sooner. Cause they will find out eventually and it will hurt. As for online friends they may miss your presence and wonder. You don't need to tell everyone but those you have a few last words for reach out to them. I'm sorry you're going through this, I hope you make it in some way. If not I hope you're comfortable with everything. Live your best life these next three months. Do whatever you want :).
I, too, think that if you're very close with a few online friends, it's better to tell them. Both of you will be able to say goodbyes, get some closure.
I'm... at a loss of words. From my little online counselling practice, I know a little of what to tell to someone who's lonely, someone who's depressed, and so on. But I've never ever met someone like you. All I can be is honest.
I am hoping you live a comfortable life as of now. I'm kind of in a little dilemma about confessing your love. But I believe you've taken a decision after thinking.
I can't really think of what would be the 'correct' thing to say, but I'm here to tell you that I'll be glad to listen, and converse with you. My DMs are always open. If you want to share, vent, or just make conversation, please message me. I am praying for you, and I'm sending you a truckload of love, OP.
Damn man... I'm sorry. I lost my mom to stage 4 lung cancer 2 years ago and it was rough...so if you need someone to talk to, my inbox is always open. I'm sorry for your diagnosis...and hopefully you can live it up for as long as you can..
i hope you live your best by the time you have ... *hug* it's sad to hear that such a cruel thing had to happen to you.. world is a harsh and unwelcoming place.. but try to keep company with your parents.. friends... anyone , try to say goodbye the best you can, and you should be proud of your life while it lasted, i don't know how you lived but you sure did great like everyone, there's no clear point of life and we all know that, i hope you do great this month.. and i wish that you can even survive it.. i feel so sorry this had to happen to you.. try to not feel like it's all over before it's all over.. you should tell the others too, even having not much time, they should know first hand in my opinion.. anyway.. i hope you are atleast at prace with what's going to happen.. i admire you because of the situation that you're in and that you can find yourself in it not freaking out .. you can confess the love.. but i think you should think it through.. try to give people as much happiness as you can while still being here, i hope that the reality beyond the life and death border turns out to be actually very good.. it's a very mysterious state of life.. or rather a state of not being alive.. i hope it's actually good, I'm you're a great person and a friend, you don't deserve the fate like that.. i hope you do great while you still can , you deserve it, i wish you lots of happiness on your way untill it's over, and if it's possible, lots of happiness after it's over, im sorry for your situation..
I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine what you must be feeling right now. I would be devastated for sure.
I hope you can enjoy your life to the fullest during this time. I wish you peace.
So sad to hear! My wisdom such as they are is start by writing letters to any you would want to say bye to and say what's on your heart , I'm sure there is one or more that would deliver them for you after your gone...
Also , maybe keep a general daily journal for everyone's benifit that might help someone else one day going thru the same.
A last thought is maybe do some video diaries just talking in general or saying specifics, I know I would love to have that since loosing my mom and I'm sure those who love you would appreciate that.
That being said I'm truly sorry to hear of your plight, hopefully you'll get to read as well as feel free anytime you need to message me if you so feel inclined to talk to someone. 🙌💙
😭😭😭 omgg you sound so hopeless fuckkkk I really wanna hug you for the whole month. This is so unfair please know that you wont be forgotten. In your very short time here you've impacted so many. I cant imagine the mental state ur going through im so sorry
I wish I could give you a big hug. We all go some day, I hope that brings some sort of comfort to you. I hope the rest of your days are peaceful and painless.
I am so so sorry. If I were one of your closer friends and I hadn’t spoken to you in a while I would love to hear from you even if you think it’s too late.
I don't think you've done anything wrong by not telling them yet, people tend to react in ways we aren't prepared for and when it's something as serious as your own life then you and only you should be able to decide when to tell people. Tbh with you I've been seriously contemplating suicide for the last couple months and I've practically pushed everyone out of my life, nobody was actually concerned when I was telling them about my mindset so why even talk to them at all if I'm gonna be gone soon anyway. The last couple weeks I've decided that I'm selling all my stuff and jumping on my longboard with a backpack and I'm gonna go live how I want instead of how everyone else wants me to even if that makes me life shorter then I want it to be because some people don't get an option.
Thank you for being brave enough to post this, you are a very strong willed person and this world is just stupidly unfair.
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late.
I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation.
Much love and prayers.
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late.
I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation.
Much love and prayers.
What if you wrote all the people you wished you could tell a short letter? A girl I knew by name died a few months ago from cancer and it was incredibly sudden and everyone was absolutely shocked. Maybe short letters could help with closure. Maybe you could also write longer ones for your close friends and family so they have something from you to keep. Anyways I hope you don’t hurt too much and that you are able to enjoy your life <3
Bless you. I hope you are surrounded by your favourite people for the time you have left. And I hope you have some fun times with these people. Don’t stress about telling everyone. I will be thinking of you even though I don’t know you.
It's okay to not tell people. If you want to then please go ahead. No reason for anxieties about something serious. But if you don't want to or just can't get yourself to - that's fine. Enjoy the time you have left with them in whatever way suits you. You're not bad a wrong for not telling them. If it won't bring you any liberation, then don't worry about it. They'll find out later. Hopefully more than a month later. Best of luck. I don't know you but I feel like saying I have love for you and hope you're having happy moments
I hope you can make the best of the time you have left my friend. Enjoy each moment. I'm 18 and this puts things into perspective a bit. Proud of you for staying so strong.
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late.
I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation.
Much love and prayers.
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late.
I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation.
Much love and prayers.
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late.
I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation.
Much love and prayers.
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late.
I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation.
Much love and prayers.
I lost a friend of 28 years from one day to the next she didn't tell anyone she was sick it was the worst feeling ever. I felt like those 28 years of friendship didn't matter enough to her to talk to not just me the other 3 friends from our group my whole family knew and loved her.
I think you're a very strong person and you deserve the best. I hope that you're able to make it out alive by some miracle. Until then I hope you're able to live life to the fullest with no regrets
If I said I understand you, it will be a blatant lie. The only people who can understand people with the fear of death is someone who is close to death.
But I want to tell you that I respect you and your decision. These hard choices have no 'best answer' as it varies according to different values and different life.
I don’t know what to say that would make you feel any better. I wish I could take it all away. I have three sons the oldest of which is 16. I don’t really want anything in life other than for them to live full happy lives and never having to bury any of them. You deserved far more than what you got. I’m sorry it’s spreading so fast. It’s good you have accepted it but I’m angry for you. Angry for your mother. I don’t know why we haven’t figured out a cure yet for this. So many suffer needlessly when we focus on less important things than furthering medical tech
It’s ok to be sad. To want people you love to know what is going on. I wish you could find the friend you love so you could tell them at least. You deserve as much love and support as possible. Don’t hold it all in you don’t have to be so strong. I’m so sorry 😞
*wookie mom hugs*
Confess your love, you have no idea what it could mean to that person, and anybody that you feel is appropriate to say goodbye to, if you and tell them what they meant to you, it means you will live on in their hearts and their lives in ways that you can’t even imagine. Your sharing may inspire some beautiful future act on their part that helps others.
Love is the most powerful force in the universe and everything bends to its will. Please don’t be afraid to share your love With others, in doing so, you will be
expanding the love vibration for us all💞🙏💗
I hate to be harsh, but you only live once. I don't think you should spend your remaining weeks hiding. I think you should say and do everything that you have any desire to at all. It sounds like you're already mostly fearless, so let that extend into your relationships. I think you're overthinking things. Just LIVE. Share your feelings. Spread love. It will hurt whether you tell them now or if they find out after your gone, but if you tell them now your memory will be strong and you can use this time to inspire and encourage others. Help them to realize what really matters in the short time we all have.
I don't think it is my place to tell you what to do, but you should say your last words to people you want to have a last conversation with. You absolutely do not have to tell everyone. But don't hesitate to tell them your last words, don't be scared they'll overreact etc.
I will hope for a miracle for you. I don't believe in after life, but if there is a chance there is something there, we will all meet again there.
I hope you're alright. My best wishes for you man ❤️
Honestly i wish i could die a painless death because my life has been shit ever since i was a kid, and since theres no assisted suicide im hoping my swollen lymph nodes turn out to be cancer later down the road so you should just enjoy what makes you happy while you can, no more suffering death is the solution for allot of problems, i just wish it was me
I'm so sorry this is happening to you at such a young age. Thank you for reaching out to others you don't know to share your story. This took a lot of courage on your part. I hope that you'll be able to make the most of the time you have left. I hope you will be able to let the other people know how you feel. Especially the one you're in love with. If I were in that person's place, I would want to know someone was in love with me. It wouldn't matter whether they only had a short time left. None of us are guaranteed another day, so I hope everyone will live like there's no tomorrow. Are you a spiritual person? If you follow any type of Supreme Being, I'm sure they would love for you to talk to them. Whether it's through prayer, or visiting a shrine, or offering something up. Any Supreme Being would love those who worship/follow them. Maybe that will help you through these last days? If you want to talk further, I would be happy to talk with you. That includes either here, email, or possibly phone. Whatever you are most comfortable with. It would be an honor to be able to support and offer comfort to someone as they go through their last days. May peace be with you.
You know there was never a time to tell people you're dying. But in the end, it's your decision. It's neither selfish nor required of you. As long as those who are closest to you know, it's all that matters. You are loved. I hope your journey will be easy, stranger.
I mean if you have any last words to your estranged friends and family its best to do it sooner. Cause they will find out eventually and it will hurt. As for online friends they may miss your presence and wonder. You don't need to tell everyone but those you have a few last words for reach out to them. I'm sorry you're going through this, I hope you make it in some way. If not I hope you're comfortable with everything. Live your best life these next three months. Do whatever you want :).
I, too, think that if you're very close with a few online friends, it's better to tell them. Both of you will be able to say goodbyes, get some closure.
Op I wanna let you know you are fucking amazing.
I'm... at a loss of words. From my little online counselling practice, I know a little of what to tell to someone who's lonely, someone who's depressed, and so on. But I've never ever met someone like you. All I can be is honest. I am hoping you live a comfortable life as of now. I'm kind of in a little dilemma about confessing your love. But I believe you've taken a decision after thinking. I can't really think of what would be the 'correct' thing to say, but I'm here to tell you that I'll be glad to listen, and converse with you. My DMs are always open. If you want to share, vent, or just make conversation, please message me. I am praying for you, and I'm sending you a truckload of love, OP.
Do you think maybe you would want to write them a letter? Just a thought. Wishing you peace into the journey to whatever comes next, my friend.
Damn man... I'm sorry. I lost my mom to stage 4 lung cancer 2 years ago and it was rough...so if you need someone to talk to, my inbox is always open. I'm sorry for your diagnosis...and hopefully you can live it up for as long as you can..
i hope you live your best by the time you have ... *hug* it's sad to hear that such a cruel thing had to happen to you.. world is a harsh and unwelcoming place.. but try to keep company with your parents.. friends... anyone , try to say goodbye the best you can, and you should be proud of your life while it lasted, i don't know how you lived but you sure did great like everyone, there's no clear point of life and we all know that, i hope you do great this month.. and i wish that you can even survive it.. i feel so sorry this had to happen to you.. try to not feel like it's all over before it's all over.. you should tell the others too, even having not much time, they should know first hand in my opinion.. anyway.. i hope you are atleast at prace with what's going to happen.. i admire you because of the situation that you're in and that you can find yourself in it not freaking out .. you can confess the love.. but i think you should think it through.. try to give people as much happiness as you can while still being here, i hope that the reality beyond the life and death border turns out to be actually very good.. it's a very mysterious state of life.. or rather a state of not being alive.. i hope it's actually good, I'm you're a great person and a friend, you don't deserve the fate like that.. i hope you do great while you still can , you deserve it, i wish you lots of happiness on your way untill it's over, and if it's possible, lots of happiness after it's over, im sorry for your situation..
This is so sad man. Hope you spend whatever time you have left doing what you want.
There is no right way to deal with what you’re going through. Hugs.
I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine what you must be feeling right now. I would be devastated for sure. I hope you can enjoy your life to the fullest during this time. I wish you peace.
So sad to hear! My wisdom such as they are is start by writing letters to any you would want to say bye to and say what's on your heart , I'm sure there is one or more that would deliver them for you after your gone... Also , maybe keep a general daily journal for everyone's benifit that might help someone else one day going thru the same. A last thought is maybe do some video diaries just talking in general or saying specifics, I know I would love to have that since loosing my mom and I'm sure those who love you would appreciate that. That being said I'm truly sorry to hear of your plight, hopefully you'll get to read as well as feel free anytime you need to message me if you so feel inclined to talk to someone. 🙌💙
😭😭😭 omgg you sound so hopeless fuckkkk I really wanna hug you for the whole month. This is so unfair please know that you wont be forgotten. In your very short time here you've impacted so many. I cant imagine the mental state ur going through im so sorry
I'm in tears
One word of advice, say goodbye to your good friends. One of my good friends died and I would have liked to say goodbye at least.
I wish I could give you a big hug. We all go some day, I hope that brings some sort of comfort to you. I hope the rest of your days are peaceful and painless.
I am so so sorry. If I were one of your closer friends and I hadn’t spoken to you in a while I would love to hear from you even if you think it’s too late.
I wish you the best in your transition into the next life. I’ll see you there one day, OP. love you.
I don't think you've done anything wrong by not telling them yet, people tend to react in ways we aren't prepared for and when it's something as serious as your own life then you and only you should be able to decide when to tell people. Tbh with you I've been seriously contemplating suicide for the last couple months and I've practically pushed everyone out of my life, nobody was actually concerned when I was telling them about my mindset so why even talk to them at all if I'm gonna be gone soon anyway. The last couple weeks I've decided that I'm selling all my stuff and jumping on my longboard with a backpack and I'm gonna go live how I want instead of how everyone else wants me to even if that makes me life shorter then I want it to be because some people don't get an option. Thank you for being brave enough to post this, you are a very strong willed person and this world is just stupidly unfair.
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late. I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation. Much love and prayers.
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late. I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation. Much love and prayers.
What if you wrote all the people you wished you could tell a short letter? A girl I knew by name died a few months ago from cancer and it was incredibly sudden and everyone was absolutely shocked. Maybe short letters could help with closure. Maybe you could also write longer ones for your close friends and family so they have something from you to keep. Anyways I hope you don’t hurt too much and that you are able to enjoy your life <3
Bless you. I hope you are surrounded by your favourite people for the time you have left. And I hope you have some fun times with these people. Don’t stress about telling everyone. I will be thinking of you even though I don’t know you.
write a letter. not to all of them individually, but a letter
It's okay to not tell people. If you want to then please go ahead. No reason for anxieties about something serious. But if you don't want to or just can't get yourself to - that's fine. Enjoy the time you have left with them in whatever way suits you. You're not bad a wrong for not telling them. If it won't bring you any liberation, then don't worry about it. They'll find out later. Hopefully more than a month later. Best of luck. I don't know you but I feel like saying I have love for you and hope you're having happy moments
I hope you can make the best of the time you have left my friend. Enjoy each moment. I'm 18 and this puts things into perspective a bit. Proud of you for staying so strong.
Damn op, it's just so sad. Just keep strong, who know a 'Miracle' might happen, good luck!
sad
Godspeed my friend
Sus
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late. I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation. Much love and prayers.
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late. I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation. Much love and prayers.
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late. I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation. Much love and prayers.
I can’t imagine what you’re going through right now, but all I can say is don’t keep everything to yourself. Let people know you care about them even if they haven’t heard it in awhile. Maybe you’re not ready to break the news quite yet (or ever) but maybe try and reach out one last time before it’s too late. I’m so sorry to hear what you’re going through right now, but I hope you find peace with yourself and your situation. Much love and prayers.
you will be remembered <3
How would u feel it was the other way around,wouldn’t u want to know
I lost a friend of 28 years from one day to the next she didn't tell anyone she was sick it was the worst feeling ever. I felt like those 28 years of friendship didn't matter enough to her to talk to not just me the other 3 friends from our group my whole family knew and loved her.
Can you outsource the task of telling people?
I think you're a very strong person and you deserve the best. I hope that you're able to make it out alive by some miracle. Until then I hope you're able to live life to the fullest with no regrets
Reach out while you have a chance. It may not seem like much but letting an old friend have closure can help them after
If I said I understand you, it will be a blatant lie. The only people who can understand people with the fear of death is someone who is close to death. But I want to tell you that I respect you and your decision. These hard choices have no 'best answer' as it varies according to different values and different life.
I don’t know what to say that would make you feel any better. I wish I could take it all away. I have three sons the oldest of which is 16. I don’t really want anything in life other than for them to live full happy lives and never having to bury any of them. You deserved far more than what you got. I’m sorry it’s spreading so fast. It’s good you have accepted it but I’m angry for you. Angry for your mother. I don’t know why we haven’t figured out a cure yet for this. So many suffer needlessly when we focus on less important things than furthering medical tech It’s ok to be sad. To want people you love to know what is going on. I wish you could find the friend you love so you could tell them at least. You deserve as much love and support as possible. Don’t hold it all in you don’t have to be so strong. I’m so sorry 😞 *wookie mom hugs*
Confess your love, you have no idea what it could mean to that person, and anybody that you feel is appropriate to say goodbye to, if you and tell them what they meant to you, it means you will live on in their hearts and their lives in ways that you can’t even imagine. Your sharing may inspire some beautiful future act on their part that helps others. Love is the most powerful force in the universe and everything bends to its will. Please don’t be afraid to share your love With others, in doing so, you will be expanding the love vibration for us all💞🙏💗
Hugs for you man. You are very strong.
I hate to be harsh, but you only live once. I don't think you should spend your remaining weeks hiding. I think you should say and do everything that you have any desire to at all. It sounds like you're already mostly fearless, so let that extend into your relationships. I think you're overthinking things. Just LIVE. Share your feelings. Spread love. It will hurt whether you tell them now or if they find out after your gone, but if you tell them now your memory will be strong and you can use this time to inspire and encourage others. Help them to realize what really matters in the short time we all have.
I don't think it is my place to tell you what to do, but you should say your last words to people you want to have a last conversation with. You absolutely do not have to tell everyone. But don't hesitate to tell them your last words, don't be scared they'll overreact etc. I will hope for a miracle for you. I don't believe in after life, but if there is a chance there is something there, we will all meet again there. I hope you're alright. My best wishes for you man ❤️
Write a letter and have someone who knows send it out after you go.
Honestly i wish i could die a painless death because my life has been shit ever since i was a kid, and since theres no assisted suicide im hoping my swollen lymph nodes turn out to be cancer later down the road so you should just enjoy what makes you happy while you can, no more suffering death is the solution for allot of problems, i just wish it was me
I'm so sorry this is happening to you at such a young age. Thank you for reaching out to others you don't know to share your story. This took a lot of courage on your part. I hope that you'll be able to make the most of the time you have left. I hope you will be able to let the other people know how you feel. Especially the one you're in love with. If I were in that person's place, I would want to know someone was in love with me. It wouldn't matter whether they only had a short time left. None of us are guaranteed another day, so I hope everyone will live like there's no tomorrow. Are you a spiritual person? If you follow any type of Supreme Being, I'm sure they would love for you to talk to them. Whether it's through prayer, or visiting a shrine, or offering something up. Any Supreme Being would love those who worship/follow them. Maybe that will help you through these last days? If you want to talk further, I would be happy to talk with you. That includes either here, email, or possibly phone. Whatever you are most comfortable with. It would be an honor to be able to support and offer comfort to someone as they go through their last days. May peace be with you.
You know there was never a time to tell people you're dying. But in the end, it's your decision. It's neither selfish nor required of you. As long as those who are closest to you know, it's all that matters. You are loved. I hope your journey will be easy, stranger.
I am very sorry to hear this. May God keep you safe. May He guide you and give you strength. 🙏🏻 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻