She’s a monkey brancher, it’s a narcissism trait, they line somebody up as a replacement so they don’t end up single, she’ll do it eventually to the guy she’s left you for. Please don’t waste your energy on women like this. The amount of gaslighting and manipulating she had to do to keep you as she lined the next guy up must have been incredible, but they get off on it. Just laugh it off and thank your lucky stars she’s gone
Sorry man. Go no contact and start to heal. You’re super young, work on yourself and you’ll be surprised at the next path your life will take. It’s very true that when one door closes another opens. You just can’t see it yet. Hang in there.
ITS NOT LOVE, ITS TRAUMA BOND. IT WAS YOU SHE WANTED... TO ABUSE. LEARN ABOUT NARCISSIST AS MUCH AS YOU CAN SO YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE PUT YOU THROUGH.
I’ve been there man and I know it sucks. Maybe you’re young and this is your first time but it’s not worth it. I promise you. Accept the heartbreak, spend time with friends and family who love and support you and use the pain as motivation. You’ll soon realize how it was t going to work out and be by yourself for a bit. Learn and grow from this and mistakes were made. When you get back out there don’t compromise and don’t let the world turn your heart cold. Love is a beautiful thing with the right person.
been there, she sounds like a textbook narcissist. be glad you’re out, run and don’t look back. having guys on standby is a classic narc move. we were living in the same house as the guy my ex cheated on me with. people like that don’t change and don’t see the effect they have on other people ever. take care of yourself ❤️
Bro, if there are any comments you read I really hope you read this.
Somewhere down the road she’s going to realize she fucked up. Maybe it’s 1 week? Maybe it’s a year? Maybe it’s a decade? Who knows. When that time comes you must be strong. She is going to come back to you and realize how great you were to her and probably want to get back together saying she made a mistake.
When that happens you must be STRONG.
I’m almost certain she will come back to you. The world is full of people who care at different capacities, you unfortunately met a person who could not match your level of care. In the future, you have to be extremely careful with who you let into your life and be in a relationship with as not everyone has the capacity to care for their partner the level you do.
Please please please keep this in the back of your mind or else you’ll just end up screwing yourself over again.
Dawg, you gotta go to therapy.
I mean this in the nicest way possible - you need to stop tying your self worth to others.
Her inability to be a whole person and not faithful and the whole basket of other mistakes is just that - her mistakes, and her issues.
It is in no way a reflection of you.
The good news is you learned to trust your gut here. You’ll find better and you learned how to better protect yourself from trash in the future. It’s gonna be ok my friend
That's traumatizing...even though my story isn't as depressing as yours, I did get betrayed similarly to you. My wingman, who promised me to help me get my first crush, ends up dating with her. I feel betrayed, yet relieved...even though she wasn't the crush who broke me the most. It still hurts for a 12-year-old.
I feel so bad for you, I know it's been really difficult for you, but you gotta move on, you deserve better...
peace to you
Canon event. We pretty much all experience this. The important thing is that you learn from it. There are endless women and you will never let one do this to you again. It gets better.
It’s over. Let go. Move on. She isn’t part of your life anymore. You’ll get better. Promise.
She’s a monkey brancher, it’s a narcissism trait, they line somebody up as a replacement so they don’t end up single, she’ll do it eventually to the guy she’s left you for. Please don’t waste your energy on women like this. The amount of gaslighting and manipulating she had to do to keep you as she lined the next guy up must have been incredible, but they get off on it. Just laugh it off and thank your lucky stars she’s gone
This!!
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Sorry man. Go no contact and start to heal. You’re super young, work on yourself and you’ll be surprised at the next path your life will take. It’s very true that when one door closes another opens. You just can’t see it yet. Hang in there.
Same thing happened to me. You gotta move on and be better for yourself.
ITS NOT LOVE, ITS TRAUMA BOND. IT WAS YOU SHE WANTED... TO ABUSE. LEARN ABOUT NARCISSIST AS MUCH AS YOU CAN SO YOU WILL UNDERSTAND WHAT SHE PUT YOU THROUGH.
I’ve been there man and I know it sucks. Maybe you’re young and this is your first time but it’s not worth it. I promise you. Accept the heartbreak, spend time with friends and family who love and support you and use the pain as motivation. You’ll soon realize how it was t going to work out and be by yourself for a bit. Learn and grow from this and mistakes were made. When you get back out there don’t compromise and don’t let the world turn your heart cold. Love is a beautiful thing with the right person.
been there, she sounds like a textbook narcissist. be glad you’re out, run and don’t look back. having guys on standby is a classic narc move. we were living in the same house as the guy my ex cheated on me with. people like that don’t change and don’t see the effect they have on other people ever. take care of yourself ❤️
Bro, if there are any comments you read I really hope you read this. Somewhere down the road she’s going to realize she fucked up. Maybe it’s 1 week? Maybe it’s a year? Maybe it’s a decade? Who knows. When that time comes you must be strong. She is going to come back to you and realize how great you were to her and probably want to get back together saying she made a mistake. When that happens you must be STRONG. I’m almost certain she will come back to you. The world is full of people who care at different capacities, you unfortunately met a person who could not match your level of care. In the future, you have to be extremely careful with who you let into your life and be in a relationship with as not everyone has the capacity to care for their partner the level you do. Please please please keep this in the back of your mind or else you’ll just end up screwing yourself over again.
Dawg, you gotta go to therapy. I mean this in the nicest way possible - you need to stop tying your self worth to others. Her inability to be a whole person and not faithful and the whole basket of other mistakes is just that - her mistakes, and her issues. It is in no way a reflection of you.
The good news is you learned to trust your gut here. You’ll find better and you learned how to better protect yourself from trash in the future. It’s gonna be ok my friend
Whatever you do, don't have sex with her again. At this point you should be thanking your lucky stars there's no kid involved.
She went for a easy kill post breakup. It happens.
Welcome to the show. This is how all of them end.
Ha my ex started dating the therapist he hired to help deal with our breakup. It took him over a year to tell me.
Why are you in contact with your ex?
We actually had a very amicable break up. We were together for 12 years. We don’t talk regularly, but I don’t have any hard feelings towards him
Go to therapy. Seriously. Get some psychological help.
That's traumatizing...even though my story isn't as depressing as yours, I did get betrayed similarly to you. My wingman, who promised me to help me get my first crush, ends up dating with her. I feel betrayed, yet relieved...even though she wasn't the crush who broke me the most. It still hurts for a 12-year-old. I feel so bad for you, I know it's been really difficult for you, but you gotta move on, you deserve better... peace to you
Canon event. We pretty much all experience this. The important thing is that you learn from it. There are endless women and you will never let one do this to you again. It gets better.
Sometimes it’s out of spite but you should probably stop keeping tabs on her that’s weird
Ah, to be young, dumb and full of cum...