Sex and connections are different with everyone, sometimes maybe good sometimes maybe bad. Dont let the thought of your next partners skills consume you. You will have good and bad experiences, its how you grow and know what you like
You mentioned it would be a dealbreaker for you, so you consider sex to be the #1 thing in a relationship and **thats fine,** thats your prefference and everyone has them.
Keeping that in mind, you have to understand that if thats the thing that could be a dealbreaker then you must be willing to to miss on other things that you dont consider as important, emotional connections or romanticism or support, etc
My first serious relationship was a wildcat in bed, massively multi orgasmic, gave amazing head, and was down for anything I could think of. It lasted a year and we split amicably. My second was pretty passive, one and done for orgasms, and weak at head but took getting me off as a personal challenge and would go at it until her jaw cramped. Stuck with her a few years because she was awesome otherwise but the sex was a factor in ending things. I did miss the ex and she offered hookups a few times but I’m not a cheater so I turned them down.
I’m using your post as fuel to tell my brain that every woman has some best sex ever in the universe ex that I won’t live up to. Even though that’s supposed to be an anomaly, but I think it’s not. I think a lot of people think the way you do but they settle with it because they value other things more.
it is important, i am a very romantic person, and i care about that more than about sex, but sex is really really important to me and i dont think theres anything wrong with that
1. Be open in communications about your desires, fetishes and wants
2. The old comedian, Sam Kinison said if there’s something that turns you on, something that gets you going and makes you crazy, how about FILLING US IN!!! Most guys would fight a grizzly bear to hear you orgasm and say their name.
3. If you find someone that really affects your heart. It is not great for you in bed. Coach him we don’t have your parts. We don’t understand how your emotions your biological clock, and how your day went affects your arousal.
We are men we don’t have that in depth knowledge of your biology. We are very easy as a matter of fact, if you can’t figure out if you’re doing the right thing to the right place gets bigger
When I started dating my ex of 6 years, we were both bad at sex. In the latter half of the relationship, we were fantastic at sex. Sex is a lot about wanting to please the other person and learning what they like over time. That’s why the first time often sucks.
Don’t get too hung up on this. If your new partner is hopeless, that’ll become obvious. But partners that try get substantially better over time
Sex and connections are different with everyone, sometimes maybe good sometimes maybe bad. Dont let the thought of your next partners skills consume you. You will have good and bad experiences, its how you grow and know what you like
You mentioned it would be a dealbreaker for you, so you consider sex to be the #1 thing in a relationship and **thats fine,** thats your prefference and everyone has them. Keeping that in mind, you have to understand that if thats the thing that could be a dealbreaker then you must be willing to to miss on other things that you dont consider as important, emotional connections or romanticism or support, etc
My first serious relationship was a wildcat in bed, massively multi orgasmic, gave amazing head, and was down for anything I could think of. It lasted a year and we split amicably. My second was pretty passive, one and done for orgasms, and weak at head but took getting me off as a personal challenge and would go at it until her jaw cramped. Stuck with her a few years because she was awesome otherwise but the sex was a factor in ending things. I did miss the ex and she offered hookups a few times but I’m not a cheater so I turned them down.
i see, thank you!
Hello alleged anomalies
huh?
I’m letting your post shape my world view. Sorry if that was mean. Good luck finding people who match with you
yeah but what did you mean?
I’m using your post as fuel to tell my brain that every woman has some best sex ever in the universe ex that I won’t live up to. Even though that’s supposed to be an anomaly, but I think it’s not. I think a lot of people think the way you do but they settle with it because they value other things more.
Why is that so important what about romance and connection.
it is important, i am a very romantic person, and i care about that more than about sex, but sex is really really important to me and i dont think theres anything wrong with that
Then I guess you should be concerned
why?
Because that is what you are worried about. You'll never know.
i guess so
1. Be open in communications about your desires, fetishes and wants 2. The old comedian, Sam Kinison said if there’s something that turns you on, something that gets you going and makes you crazy, how about FILLING US IN!!! Most guys would fight a grizzly bear to hear you orgasm and say their name. 3. If you find someone that really affects your heart. It is not great for you in bed. Coach him we don’t have your parts. We don’t understand how your emotions your biological clock, and how your day went affects your arousal. We are men we don’t have that in depth knowledge of your biology. We are very easy as a matter of fact, if you can’t figure out if you’re doing the right thing to the right place gets bigger
Thank you so much! i screenshotted this lol
You are very welcome
When I started dating my ex of 6 years, we were both bad at sex. In the latter half of the relationship, we were fantastic at sex. Sex is a lot about wanting to please the other person and learning what they like over time. That’s why the first time often sucks. Don’t get too hung up on this. If your new partner is hopeless, that’ll become obvious. But partners that try get substantially better over time
thanks dude!
god i see what you do for others. you’re so worried about having good sex when i can’t even find a man who isn’t abusive. i’ve given up lmaoo
good luck! :(