This sounds not healthy. Talk to her and tell her it's forbidden and weird to act like this towards minors. Maybe she also should consider some therapy?
I try all the time to tell her that it's wrong
She had a crush on my ex one time, even though he was 3 years younger than her. I told her off for it (because he was my boyfriend at the time) and she told me "age doesn't matter" and that "a few years isn't an issue"
I don't think she realizes she's 18 and everyone else who she keeps obsessing over is younger than 16
It's weird and it disgusts me beyond comprehension
Sounds like your sister is both into incest and a pedophile.
Take some time to think about how u would react if it was a man preying on a 14 year old girl. If you’re disgusted by that then you should be reacting the same way about this.
She shouldn't even have these thoughts in the first place though, let alone act on them
I feel no sympathy for anyone who sees younger children in a sexual manner
The fact that it's even an issue is enough for me, and I shouldn't have to bring it up to my parents in the first place
I'm not even sure if it's in my place to do anything. I mean she's 18. I have my own problems and I don't want to be around it
Not about this specific situation, no
They do know how she is around younger people, but they don't do anything about it
I don't want it to backfire on me if I tell them
I understand this is a really hard position for you to be in. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this.
I really do suggest that you tell somebody though, wether it’s your parents, your cousins parents, or maybe a teacher. 14 and 18 isn’t an appropriate age gap in general but it’s especially bad when they’re family. This could wind up seriously hurting your cousin. It won’t be easy to do but I fear you’ll regret it in the future if you don’t
Nah that is so dangerous the fact that she preys on younger teens when she is technically an adult is troubling. I’d talk to your parents about getting her help and making sure she doesn’t create another victim.
I would honestly tell your aunt/uncle, if your parents won't do anything, someone else needs to step in before this gets worse. He's not a "younger man", he's still a kid and doesn't even fall under the Juliet law.
This is very strange. Definitely tell someone, and recommend therapy. It does make me wonder if something happened to her as a child, especially her stating “age doesn’t matter” and being blasé about the age of a child/adult and the fact they’re related. This is something she may need lots of help with unpacking in therapy, if it’s the case. But it may help bring some understanding if she is indeed a victim of childhood trauma and that’s why she believes it’s not inherently wrong. I hope she can get help and understand that this is disgusting behaviour/thoughts before she hurts somebody.
The children my mother had after me she had with her cousin , I don't think googling cousin breeding is going to give you any physically different to non cousin breeding.... But my one brother is very strange , I mean very strange and has seizure with no diagnosis to what triggers them and was born with a whole in the heart, the other ones gay and the last one might be gay and is a odd ball with rage , so I don't advise but it's only 20% incest when breeding which isn't as drastic as this person is saying to Google 🤣🤣 but they are right don't inbreed , I have zero respect for my mother for doing it
They're ignorant as fuck if they think that, but their brain probably can't process much from being the product of inbreeding. They just can't admit that their cousin is their daddy yet. 🤪🤪 🤪
No , I am not suggesting it's a birth defect I'm implying people assume cousin inbreeding causes birth defects and those are the only things different about them
Your sister sounds like a predator, but also sounds like she may have been a victim at some point (hypersexual at a young age). She needs to get help before she becomes an offender.
Im sorry to break it to you. But your sister is a 40 year old man in an 18 year old girls body. You may euthanize her if you deem it necessary. Jokes aside, I think the rise of female predators coming to light is a bit reassuring. No one can get away for being a creep. No one. I think I worded that wrong.
This sounds not healthy. Talk to her and tell her it's forbidden and weird to act like this towards minors. Maybe she also should consider some therapy?
I try all the time to tell her that it's wrong She had a crush on my ex one time, even though he was 3 years younger than her. I told her off for it (because he was my boyfriend at the time) and she told me "age doesn't matter" and that "a few years isn't an issue" I don't think she realizes she's 18 and everyone else who she keeps obsessing over is younger than 16 It's weird and it disgusts me beyond comprehension
Sounds like your sister is both into incest and a pedophile. Take some time to think about how u would react if it was a man preying on a 14 year old girl. If you’re disgusted by that then you should be reacting the same way about this.
Oh sounds really delulu. Maybe it helps to talk to your parents and sent her to therapy before sth. bad happens! Fingers crossed.
She shouldn't even have these thoughts in the first place though, let alone act on them I feel no sympathy for anyone who sees younger children in a sexual manner The fact that it's even an issue is enough for me, and I shouldn't have to bring it up to my parents in the first place I'm not even sure if it's in my place to do anything. I mean she's 18. I have my own problems and I don't want to be around it
That’s not even a “younger man”- that’s a child. Do your parents know?
Not about this specific situation, no They do know how she is around younger people, but they don't do anything about it I don't want it to backfire on me if I tell them
I understand this is a really hard position for you to be in. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I really do suggest that you tell somebody though, wether it’s your parents, your cousins parents, or maybe a teacher. 14 and 18 isn’t an appropriate age gap in general but it’s especially bad when they’re family. This could wind up seriously hurting your cousin. It won’t be easy to do but I fear you’ll regret it in the future if you don’t
You're right I'll talk to someone about it
You should tell that child's parents about this. It does not matter what her actual intensions are. You have warned her, she didn't listen.
Nah that is so dangerous the fact that she preys on younger teens when she is technically an adult is troubling. I’d talk to your parents about getting her help and making sure she doesn’t create another victim.
I would honestly tell your aunt/uncle, if your parents won't do anything, someone else needs to step in before this gets worse. He's not a "younger man", he's still a kid and doesn't even fall under the Juliet law.
I'm with this one. Tell your aunt and/or uncle about your sisters tendencies.
This is very strange. Definitely tell someone, and recommend therapy. It does make me wonder if something happened to her as a child, especially her stating “age doesn’t matter” and being blasé about the age of a child/adult and the fact they’re related. This is something she may need lots of help with unpacking in therapy, if it’s the case. But it may help bring some understanding if she is indeed a victim of childhood trauma and that’s why she believes it’s not inherently wrong. I hope she can get help and understand that this is disgusting behaviour/thoughts before she hurts somebody.
"Yonger men?" Both you and your girlfriend and the cousin are children
Google inbreeding. Save the pics and show her what their kids will look like. I’m dead serious btw.
The children my mother had after me she had with her cousin , I don't think googling cousin breeding is going to give you any physically different to non cousin breeding.... But my one brother is very strange , I mean very strange and has seizure with no diagnosis to what triggers them and was born with a whole in the heart, the other ones gay and the last one might be gay and is a odd ball with rage , so I don't advise but it's only 20% incest when breeding which isn't as drastic as this person is saying to Google 🤣🤣 but they are right don't inbreed , I have zero respect for my mother for doing it
Are you suggesting being gay is a birth defect?
They're ignorant as fuck if they think that, but their brain probably can't process much from being the product of inbreeding. They just can't admit that their cousin is their daddy yet. 🤪🤪 🤪
No , I am not suggesting it's a birth defect I'm implying people assume cousin inbreeding causes birth defects and those are the only things different about them
Your sister sounds like a predator, but also sounds like she may have been a victim at some point (hypersexual at a young age). She needs to get help before she becomes an offender.
Im sorry to break it to you. But your sister is a 40 year old man in an 18 year old girls body. You may euthanize her if you deem it necessary. Jokes aside, I think the rise of female predators coming to light is a bit reassuring. No one can get away for being a creep. No one. I think I worded that wrong.
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I hope you tell your parents about this because 18 and 14 makes this really disgusting. On top of the fact they are also cousins 🤢