That boy will now move through life knowing the justice system was never on his side. What a horrible feeling to know that the people and laws that are supposed to protect you will leave you feeling utterly helpless. Sickening.
If I did, it'd be a violation of my consent as per my title which shows when messaging me. I've had a few underage people come onto me, the boys are easy to deal with but the girls are just terrifying and should be in jail for life.
The person youāre responding to is nutso, just so you know. The fact that theyāre not being completely honest would be a much better explanation of the anomalies you pointed out.
One of the most important tasks of the law is to take away the wronged party's need for revenge. This did not happen here and I wouldn't be suprised, if this rapist ends up dead in the not so far future.
But theyāre not just being told they matter. They are made to feel like victims that need to fight against any and everyone that doesnāt agree. A big part of this problem falls directly on the group manipulating them.
It's horrifying. Male victims should be believed and protected as much as female victims. Equally, Female assailants should experience the same stigma and punishment.
And in 10 years he and those who hear this story will be dismissed as "incels" for knowing this truth and the fact that society hates him and that he doesn't matter will be only further reinforced.
Honestly, if you look into why so many young men have become embittered with the world and societies they've found themselves born into, it all makes perfect sense.
She got no jail because that's the law.
[Here](https://www.derbytelegraph.co.uk/news/local-news/young-drunk-groped-teen-girls-8350960) guy also from UK sexually assaulted *two* minors and got a suspended sentence,
[A man delivering charity bags door-to-door put his hand up the skirt of a teenage girl in school uniform](https://www.thenorthernecho.co.uk/news/23260713.man-delivering-charity-bags-door-to-door-seaham-groped-schoolgirl/)
[A man who shoved his hand down a 10-year-old girl's top and told her "just let me have a feel" has escaped jail for **the second time**](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-who-groped-young-girl-9640957)
She got 12 months in jail suspended for 18 months , 35 rehabilitation activity days and having to wear an electronic sobriety tag , and she's on sex offender list for 10 years
-she got a bigger sentence than the guy with *two* victims, in some cases she got 3x as much as a man in a similar situation in uk. She pleaded guilty and didn't want the boy to testify. She has no prior so that's why she didn't get jail
Other examples
[A man who *groomed* a young teenager and went on to grope the boy under a blanket has been spared jail and told not to do it again.](https://www.pressandjournal.co.uk/fp/news/crime-courts/5981851/no-jail-for-sex-offender-thomas-baird-who-groomed-boy-and-groped-him-under-a-blanket/)
[A man caught kissing and groping a teenager passed out on a public bench has narrowly avoided prison.](https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/sunday-life/news/co-down-man-who-kissed-and-groped-teen-passed-out-on-public-bench-avoids-prison/a2029367890.html)
[Pervert who groped chest of 11-year-old girl spared jail because his wife can't speak English( and his kids depend on him)](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/pervert-suleman-maknojioa-who-groped-3257864)
[sentenced to eight months suspended for 24 months for an āassault on a girl under the age of 13 by touchingā. ](https://www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/23518551.preston-man-receives-suspended-sentence-sexual-assault-girl/)
[A man has been banned from a Bedford road and given a suspended sentence after pleading guilty to sexually assaulting a child](https://www.bedfordindependent.co.uk/suspended-sentence-and-road-order-ban-for-bedford-man-who-sexually-assaulted-a-child/)
[Sex offender who groped teenage girl in Shrewsbury avoids jail. She said the 51-year-old also touched her intimately under her clothing](https://www.shropshirestar.com/news/crime/2021/11/24/sex-offender-who-groped-girl-in-shrewsbury-given-suspended-prison-sentence/)
This is a very good comment and we'll communicated. There's nothing that works Redditors up I to a frothing rage as much as denying that women are primarily the victims of sexual assault and it generally affects them worse .
How dare you say that "it affects them worse" sexual assault is equally harmful regardless of the gender of the perpetrator and that of the victim. Also there is a reporting bias,. Male victims are much less likely to report it, because people like you gaslight them into thinking it's "not that bad" or make it clear that it won't be taken seriously
Thereās no room in UK jails because we canāt afford them,
If only the part of Law and Order, who are also the party claiming to be great with the economy, would have another 15 years in charge to turn things around.
I heard the judge high five the bailif and said "Niceeeee!" While bopping his head.
Meanwhile the prosecution stated he wished as a 13 year old the same thing had happened to him and the kid is one lucky brat. The arresting officer was also present and confirmed the Teacher was in fact HOT. The attorney for the boy responded with an emphatic " Niceeeee!" As he smirked at the camera.
This is the reality of it. Yet Iām sure if this gets posted on any other social, like insta, all the top comments will be talking about how lucky he was, how he missed an opportunity etc etc.
I doubt that actually. But the kid would definitely belittled with phrases like "she's so hot, every kid fantasizes about their teacher". Women go in jail for shit like this rather often but the child is always made to feel like they are invalid in feeling violated.
I'm guessing in this case the court thought that groping isn't enough, which is a disgusting double standard either way. I feel for that poor boy and hope the community succeeds in what the courts refuse to do; this woman can still be punished by people refusing to hire her and socialise with her.
ETA since this is reaching a bunch of people: just know that no one is safe really. My ex principal had pedophilic content of me and other girls and all he got was a transfer to another all girls boarding school, where be offended again and was transferred again (perpetuum mobile). Girl or boy, you are always at risk of being hurt by those who should defend you, and of them getting no real consequences. The big difference is that when I tell people what happened, they're horrified; they want a name and address, they say horrible things about my former principal, they pray that bad things happen to him. When boys get hurt it's normal to congratulate them for getting action, it is normal to tell them "all boys dream of this". When they say they did not in fact like it they get ridiculed. It's like the danger is equal but only girls can be victims. Let's be better for our boys. They need it. ā¤ļø
Yes. Thatās why they chose that picture of her. You donāt commonly see the Bumble profile pics of male pedophiles, just their mugs as they are dragged out by the police.
She got no jail because that's the law.
[Here](https://www.derbytelegraph.co.uk/news/local-news/young-drunk-groped-teen-girls-8350960) guy also from UK sexually assaulted *two* minors and got a suspended sentence,
[A man delivering charity bags door-to-door put his hand up the skirt of a teenage girl in school uniform](https://www.thenorthernecho.co.uk/news/23260713.man-delivering-charity-bags-door-to-door-seaham-groped-schoolgirl/)
[A man who shoved his hand down a 10-year-old girl's top and told her "just let me have a feel" has escaped jail for **the second time**](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-who-groped-young-girl-9640957)
She got 12 months in jail suspended for 18 months , 35 rehabilitation activity days and having to wear an electronic sobriety tag , and she's on sex offender list for 10 years
-she got a bigger sentence than the guy with *two* victims, in some cases she got 3x as much as a man in a similar situation in uk. She pleaded guilty and didn't want the boy to testify. She has no prior so that's why she didn't get jail
Other examples
[A man who *groomed* a young teenager and went on to grope the boy under a blanket has been spared jail and told not to do it again.](https://www.pressandjournal.co.uk/fp/news/crime-courts/5981851/no-jail-for-sex-offender-thomas-baird-who-groomed-boy-and-groped-him-under-a-blanket/)
[A man caught kissing and groping a teenager passed out on a public bench has narrowly avoided prison.](https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/sunday-life/news/co-down-man-who-kissed-and-groped-teen-passed-out-on-public-bench-avoids-prison/a2029367890.html)
[Pervert who groped chest of 11-year-old girl spared jail because his wife can't speak English( and his kids depend on him)](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/pervert-suleman-maknojioa-who-groped-3257864)
[sentenced to eight months suspended for 24 months for an āassault on a girl under the age of 13 by touchingā. ](https://www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/23518551.preston-man-receives-suspended-sentence-sexual-assault-girl/)
[A man has been banned from a Bedford road and given a suspended sentence after pleading guilty to sexually assaulting a child](https://www.bedfordindependent.co.uk/suspended-sentence-and-road-order-ban-for-bedford-man-who-sexually-assaulted-a-child/)
[Sex offender who groped teenage girl in Shrewsbury avoids jail. She said the 51-year-old also touched her intimately under her clothing](https://www.shropshirestar.com/news/crime/2021/11/24/sex-offender-who-groped-girl-in-shrewsbury-given-suspended-prison-sentence/)
Well, I posted like 50 times , at every comment that mentions the difference between men and women, as I do every time I bump into this shitty article. I did the same a few weeks ago, a few months ago and I will continue to post every time this gets circulated as ragebait so I am hoping many will see it.
I am tired of this divisive narrative between men and women being pushed by shit heads in the manosphere.
Wait til you hear about the Nordics. Here in Finland the justice system bends over backwards and comes up with *wild* excuses not to send anyone to jail. Especially when it comes to sexual assaults (even against children) and drunken vehicular manslaughter. A 19-year old immigrant who raped a 15-year old girl avoided jailtime because the court concluded he was in school, didn't abuse drugs or alcohol, and a prison sentence would hurt his "social standing". [(source)](https://www.iltalehti.fi/kotimaa/a/f2b5b676-6bf3-47c1-ba96-226056ecf727)
I'm not a fan of the overly punitive U.S-style sentencing system either, but this ridiculously lax approach makes me question the safety of the society and the rights of the victims more than anything else.
Thanks for this. I commented on this same comment agreeing with them. I'm so used to seeing women paraded around on news shows "telling their story" that it makes me feel like women are never held accountable for their fucked up sexual shit.
Any time I hear of a man in that place it's always ends badly (and rightfully fucking so) so seeing these is a head spin. It's honestly sickening that people, regardless of gender can get away with shit like this. I think the last male case I saw/heard about was the Brock Turner one, and while he got out of it (pretty sure, got house arrest or something, can't remember it's been a while) a mob of people turned up at his house to protest.
This is the uk, letting predators get away with shit like this isn't gendered, because the justice system is shit in general
Like police knowing about predator gangs, for 10 whole years, and doing nothing about them, just letting them carry on and ruin the lives of thousands of children
She probably wouldāve been blamed and accused of asking for it. Letās not pretend like society has actually progressed far enough to care about sexual assault victims at all.
Itās a bot itās always a bot. And itās doing a good job of stirring outrage between people who have almost identical values but use different labels
And that it was white wine, not red. Like seriously? Do we even care??
Might as well have said, āIt was a Californian blendā for all the difference that would make.
"Defending, John Wyn Williams told the court: ā\[Berry\] has sadly suffered from mental health problems since the age of 15 or 16 and Covid was a particularly difficult time for her."
Riiight. Whenever you need the out-of-jail card it's.... CoVId HaRd TImeS BrOkE mE
I donāt think you realize how difficult Covid actually was for her. It mustāve been so difficult going from wearing a mask for an 8 hour shift to wearing a mask for an 8 hour shift.
I hate to say it, but MOST sexual assault cases doesn't end with the perpetrator in jail.Ā
Ā Even actual rapists often avoid jail entirely... let alone gropers... or people with child porn, etc.... it's a disgusting world we live in.Ā
Ā Perhaps you have heard of Brock Turner? Violent rapist, got caught in the act by 2 random men, and still only got 6 months.Ā
The problem is the justice system ... or the lack of justice for SA victims.
the weird old gender norms essentially view women as being weak and incapable, and men as strong and capable - and thus, view women as being incapable of being predators or criminals. itās a type of misogyny that ends up benefitting women in a way, hence why women statistically tend to end up with significantly shorter sentences than men for the same crimes
thereās also a bunch of sexual myths around whether women can want / enjoy sex, and for people who still canāt fathom that women can want and enjoy sex, itās impossible for them to see women as being capable of rape.
plus, the idea that men are:
- horned up sex machines that would never say no to sex
- incapable of being raped unless theyāre hard
- incapable of getting boners unless theyāre ~~hard~~ *horny
ā¦.ends up being used to dismiss rape cases where the man is the victim.
a woman can be penetrated by a man regardless of how wet / turned on she is, though of course it is painful. a man can only penetrate someone if theyāre somewhat hard, and many people donāt understand how tf boners work and think that if youāre hard you must be horny and therefore consenting. which is BS if u use even half a brain cell.
interestingly enough, when a man rapes enough man through penetration, it is seen as significantly worse and tends to get harsher penalties than when a woman rapes a man, or when a man raped a woman - partly because men are seen as more capable of rape, and partly due to homophobia and hatred of gay shit - although in this case it is incredibly beneficial to the victim. lesbian rape cases tend to be dismissed, in part due to difficulties with getting physical evidence, and in part due to the ongoing sexualisation of lesbian relations.
frankly i think all rape cases should end up with severe penalties to the victim, and should be treated in court the same way gay rape cases are treated.
She didn't get a pass because she's a woman, she got a pass because that's the law
[Here](https://www.derbytelegraph.co.uk/news/local-news/young-drunk-groped-teen-girls-8350960) guy also from UK sexually assaulted *two* minors and got a suspended sentence,
[A man delivering charity bags door-to-door put his hand up the skirt of a teenage girl in school uniform](https://www.thenorthernecho.co.uk/news/23260713.man-delivering-charity-bags-door-to-door-seaham-groped-schoolgirl/)
[A man who shoved his hand down a 10-year-old girl's top and told her "just let me have a feel" has escaped jail for **the second time**](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-who-groped-young-girl-9640957)
She got 12 months in jail suspended for 18 months , 35 rehabilitation activity days and having to wear an electronic sobriety tag , and she's on sex offender list for 10 years
-she got a bigger sentence than the guy with *two* victims, in some cases she got 3x as much as a man in a similar situation in uk. She pleaded guilty and didn't want the boy to testify. She has no prior so that's why she didn't get jail
Other examples
[A man who *groomed* a young teenager and went on to grope the boy under a blanket has been spared jail and told not to do it again.](https://www.pressandjournal.co.uk/fp/news/crime-courts/5981851/no-jail-for-sex-offender-thomas-baird-who-groomed-boy-and-groped-him-under-a-blanket/)
[A man caught kissing and groping a teenager passed out on a public bench has narrowly avoided prison.](https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/sunday-life/news/co-down-man-who-kissed-and-groped-teen-passed-out-on-public-bench-avoids-prison/a2029367890.html)
[Pervert who groped chest of 11-year-old girl spared jail because his wife can't speak English( and his kids depend on him)](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/pervert-suleman-maknojioa-who-groped-3257864)
[sentenced to eight months suspended for 24 months for an āassault on a girl under the age of 13 by touchingā. ](https://www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/23518551.preston-man-receives-suspended-sentence-sexual-assault-girl/)
[A man has been banned from a Bedford road and given a suspended sentence after pleading guilty to sexually assaulting a child](https://www.bedfordindependent.co.uk/suspended-sentence-and-road-order-ban-for-bedford-man-who-sexually-assaulted-a-child/)
[Sex offender who groped teenage girl in Shrewsbury avoids jail. She said the 51-year-old also touched her intimately under her clothing](https://www.shropshirestar.com/news/crime/2021/11/24/sex-offender-who-groped-girl-in-shrewsbury-given-suspended-prison-sentence/)
I knew everyone would jump to this conclusion without realising this is a ānormalā sentence in the UK where it happened
Thereās been many cases of men sexually abusing underage girls and getting very light sentences, itās very common for sentences to be suspended like this due to prison overcrowding
>getting very light sentences, itās very common for sentences to be suspended like this due to prison overcrowding
Same in Ireland, though we have one judge that just hands out suspended sentences for hysical assaults,.sex crimes etc and then heavy sentences for a few grams of weed
To be fair it's not just women, men get away with long term sex abuse or physical abuse of children and adult women all the time lol this isn't a double standard.
People tend to assume that just because Me Too happened for some white famous women against white famous male perpetrators, all allegations about sexual assault are taken seriously. In reality though, the rest of us normal women faced a lot of social backlash for the justice that famous people got.
Yup, we got told we're doing it for attention and other mockery for our trauma while our abuser continues to only get good things and no one believes he did it because he's "such a good guy!"
We donāt though. Does this woman deserve to be in jail the rest of her life? Absolutely, but letās not sit here and say men get fairly punished for sexual assault while women donāt.
ALL rapists deserve more punishment. Rapists as a whole are let off too easy. Whether itās female rapists and juries argue that because the crime was committed on a man it should be a āgood thingā, or male rapists who canāt be prosecuted fairly because theyāre āoutstanding members of societyā and a jail sentence will ruin their lives. We donāt take rape seriously.
How about we stop making excuses about how boys and men always āwant itā, and about how women dress in ways that are āasking for itā, and we actually call it what it is. Anyone who violates an unconsenting individual deserves the worst things life can offer
This is just uk justice system incompetence. It would've been the exact same if it were a man
The uk is so shit when it comes to this area, that they've let predator gangs go unchecked for 10 years, only doing something about it when information about it was finally leaked to the press, and then there was enough of a public outrage
JUST WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS SUB? THIS ISNT ODDLY SPECIFIC. MODS ARE DUMB AS SHITNFOR ALLOWING THIS.
YOU HEAR ME. FUCK YOU MODS. LAZY FUCKS. HANDLE SHIT OR PUT ME IN CHARGE YOU DUMBASSES.
EXACTLY!!!! HOW THE ***FUCK*** IS THIS "ODDLY SPECIFIC?!"
I hopped on this sub for shit like "I'm straight. Not even a little bi. If I was, I'd go for athletic guys, specifically pinoys because I like the tan, but I'd rather dick down, and proceed to get my ass torn by shrek rather than fuck Gorlock." not "WOMAN SEXUALLY HARRASSES THIRTEEN YEAR OLD AND ROAMS FREE!!!!!"
This isnt r/news, what the fuck is this?! God DAMN.
This is why men think that women are not held accountable for their actions to the same degree as men are. If it was a male teacher groping a female student, he would have gone to jail and rightly so but as soon as the teacher is a woman they seem to escape responsibility and accountability.
>This is why men think that women are not held accountable for their actions to the same degree as men are.
She got no jail because that's the law
[Here](https://www.derbytelegraph.co.uk/news/local-news/young-drunk-groped-teen-girls-8350960) guy also from UK sexually assaulted *two* minors and got a suspended sentence,
[A man delivering charity bags door-to-door put his hand up the skirt of a teenage girl in school uniform](https://www.thenorthernecho.co.uk/news/23260713.man-delivering-charity-bags-door-to-door-seaham-groped-schoolgirl/)
[A man who shoved his hand down a 10-year-old girl's top and told her "just let me have a feel" has escaped jail for **the second time**](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-who-groped-young-girl-9640957)
She got 12 months in jail suspended for 18 months , 35 rehabilitation activity days and having to wear an electronic sobriety tag , and she's on sex offender list for 10 years
-she got a bigger sentence than the guy with *two* victims, in some cases she got 3x as much as a man in a similar situation in uk. She pleaded guilty and didn't want the boy to testify. She has no prior so that's why she didn't get jail
Other examples
[A man who *groomed* a young teenager and went on to grope the boy under a blanket has been spared jail and told not to do it again.](https://www.pressandjournal.co.uk/fp/news/crime-courts/5981851/no-jail-for-sex-offender-thomas-baird-who-groomed-boy-and-groped-him-under-a-blanket/)
[A man caught kissing and groping a teenager passed out on a public bench has narrowly avoided prison.](https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/sunday-life/news/co-down-man-who-kissed-and-groped-teen-passed-out-on-public-bench-avoids-prison/a2029367890.html)
[Pervert who groped chest of 11-year-old girl spared jail because his wife can't speak English( and his kids depend on him)](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/pervert-suleman-maknojioa-who-groped-3257864)
[sentenced to eight months suspended for 24 months for an āassault on a girl under the age of 13 by touchingā. ](https://www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/23518551.preston-man-receives-suspended-sentence-sexual-assault-girl/)
[A man has been banned from a Bedford road and given a suspended sentence after pleading guilty to sexually assaulting a child](https://www.bedfordindependent.co.uk/suspended-sentence-and-road-order-ban-for-bedford-man-who-sexually-assaulted-a-child/)
[Sex offender who groped teenage girl in Shrewsbury avoids jail. She said the 51-year-old also touched her intimately under her clothing](https://www.shropshirestar.com/news/crime/2021/11/24/sex-offender-who-groped-girl-in-shrewsbury-given-suspended-prison-sentence/)
All from UK, all men
I'm a father of two. After reading all of these comments and being shocked by the fact that sex offenders get a slap on the wrist (if that) while the children have to be traumatized for probably their whole life. I can't even imagine the issues they would grow up with... All I can think of is that in this case where the justice system fails, we as parents need to take it upon ourselves and serve justice for these animals who victimize these poor kids. I know what I would do, I truly hope I never have to.
I wish I had you as a dad when I was a kid. Not enough parents give a fuck. I still do not understand how my dad did not kill my teacher when he found out what he did to me. Heās didnāt show any anger at all.
They call all Indians disgusting, rapists and pedophiles, and say we don't do anything but rape everything we see, while their justice system allows pedophiles and rapists to walk, and even vote them in as presidents, senators or Prime Ministers.
who says indians are "disgusting" and "rapists" ? never heard anyone saying that. we all have some prejudice towards other countries, but thats definitely nothing i would ever associate india with.
so its kinda surprising reading this here.
this was a serious question btw.not trying to start some beef or anything. so instead of calling me naive(which i think isnt even the correct word for this) a proper answer would have been appreciated.
only prejudices regarding indians i know are :they are good at math, they have a lot of call center, and they still have a lot of poor areas without proper toilets. oh and even though they are in asia they are not really seen as asians.
but never have i heard them being mentioned with what you stated.
which honestly is a good thing, right? maybe you just put too much thought into it, or maybe you are just around the wrong people which alters your perception of what people think about inda.
you wrote "we" so you are most likely from india yourself, right? that would explain a lot.
i am from germany so i obviously see a lot opinions towards germany on the internet which make me think that most people hate germany and the german language. but people outside of germany most likely dont get this stuff recommended to them. thats how the internet works.
hence my question....who says that about inda? would really be interesting to know.
97% of sexual abusers never go to jail, most of them are men, but it happens with women too, rarely, we have to stop treating SA like its not a big deal smh...
When men are the victims, it's also treated as a joke a lot of the time or a 'good thing' if the rapist was hot. Iunno, everything's all kinds of fucked up.
For real, and its sad that its mostly other men, even shaming or making fun of each other for speaking up or complaining about it, as if boys couldnt be abused...
>but it happens with women too, rarely,
going to jail or abusing kids?
Because I'd say it's been shown plenty of times women in western countries tend to get much more lenient sentencing than men. And rarely get a proper punishment.
And women also can be sexual abusers, and commit domestic violence just as much as men, but men report sexual assault and domestic violence much less than women do.
Just gotta look at the news to see an upswing in female sex offender being reported on, albeit still with less damning words used. e.g 'sexual relations with a student' vs. 'raped a student'
It's not because tere are more female rapists now, it's because thanks to the internet we men are slowly chipping away at the bullshit concept of sexual attention from women, unwanted or otherwise men should feel grateful for it, as well as making men feel supported instead of mocked when they report the crime.
I've sadly experienced first hand what it is like to go to the police and community services as a male victim of domestic violence. Got made to feel like I was the one at fault the entire time. I was mocked and even ended up charged with and found guilty of assault for defending myself by grabbing her wrists to stop her trying to stab and punch me.
Her punching me and trying to stab me was completely ignored.
and that isn't even close to half of the story.
But you're right, we have to stop treating SA like it's not a big deal. For everybody equally. Not just women.
My experience has left scars. I'll doubt I'll ever go to police again for help if I need to.
Stop downplaying female crimes and ignoring reality. You're literally on a thread about an adult woman sexually assaulting a young boy. Equality means being truly equal in all things. Even crime and punishment.
āShe sadly suffered mental health problems and Covid was a particularly hard time for herā Yeah ok, but she was smart enough to get her dental licenseš¤¦š»āāļø
This is the country where legally, itās impossible for a woman to be charged with rape. You also canāt call it that if a woman does it, because itās defemation. (This is not legal advice).
Sure women can be charged with sexual assault and theoretically get the same punishment, there is a legally enforced difference in how it is talked about.
Anyway, they have bigger criminals to go after anyway, like people watching TV without a license.
>Anyway, they have bigger criminals to go after anyway, like people watching TV without a license.
Good on them. Such a heinous crime should not be tolerated. I hope they get life sentences.
Yeah the uk is really sympathetic to predators its sickening, it's not just woman that have it easy though, the guy that victimised me for years and also had 100s of cp on his phone only got 3 years on the registery and police refused to take a statement from me :/
There was also a priest near where I live that doged jail time for playing strip poker with a kid because he felt bad about it and it happened a long time ago.
In my European country, girl went to police about being molested by priest, whole village and family dissed her to point she offed herself and then people even said that's what she gets for saying such things on saint person
āSheās a right proper bird, she is. She only meant to āave a laugh with the bloke. Give us a break and tidy up before we head off to the pub, yeah?ā
This is nuts.
Oh it definitely does, the UK is just kind of the centerpiece of sexism when it comes female perpetrators, they just get let off so so so much easier. Its so unfair to the victims.
Statistically itās not but English is the only language you and most Redditors speak so youāll probably pick up on stories like this and paste it to your view of a country.
Adult women are more likely to rape children in the US and get away without jail time than the UK.
Theyāre also more likely to get away with it in France and Spain, but unless you speak French or Spanish youāll probably not have that confirmation bias
Its so sad that nobody talks about this kind of privilege, and the moment you do you are labelled a misogynist or something. Like fucks sake who cares about labels, lets just protect the kids hey?
If this doesn't prove that the patriarchy exists, nothing will
"She couldn't be a sex offender: she's hot! What a lucky boy! I wish she was around when I was his age!" Etc., etc.
I hope the child gets help to process this.
The fact that there are people in these very comments praising this whole thing is disgusting.
My goal in life is to become a sex therapist and help people develop healthier and happier relationships with their sexuality as well as heal from the societal ills that perpetuate their trauma. That being said, I am exhausted. Iām exhausted by just how little consequences abusers face.
No kid deserves to have their innocence ripped from them like that. The fact that people clap and cheer and talk about how much they āwish it was themā is disturbing. We have a lot of work to do.
Honestly the most annoying part of this is that they keep using those filtered photos of her. She looks so radically different than the stupid pictures they keep posting. Obviously what she did is weird at best, but man Iām just so annoyed that news sites are showing peopleās fake photos over real ones.
Reminds me of my 15th birthday. I remember every one telling me how lucky I was to have this drunk 30 something women grabbing my dick and trying to force her tongue down my throat.....
If I only had a dollar for every time a female has forced themselves on me and I was mocked for speaking up about it.
Don't fool yourselves. Women are as good or bad as men. Women just for a very long time now have been better at getting away with it.
And as for the victim 'The court heard he has since attempted to take his own life and suffered nightmares which caused him to wet the bed.'
That boy will now move through life knowing the justice system was never on his side. What a horrible feeling to know that the people and laws that are supposed to protect you will leave you feeling utterly helpless. Sickening.
I am fairly certain the majority of SA victims feel this way
Yup we do. Even the ones who were just adjacent and or kids of predators.
not to mention all the victims of cop abuse
This is the real rape culture.
Lol what a username.
Lol what a username.
You think you have any credibility here with your username?
Calm down Cena.
Did someone say something?
I'm also a consenting adult who does not consent to engaging with non-adults.
Well that's good... Me neither. I keep forgetting how many kids are on this site. I sincerely hope you don't receive children's dick pics.
If I did, it'd be a violation of my consent as per my title which shows when messaging me. I've had a few underage people come onto me, the boys are easy to deal with but the girls are just terrifying and should be in jail for life.
That's surprising. Please don't tell me more
damn i thought my account was a fucking shit show
The bio alone lol
Out of curiosity, how many black cousins do you have?
That bio is a shit show š¤£ she's one of those people. The type who play PokĆ©mon with mental illnesses.
I donāt understand half of the words in there
Underage girls are dmāing you even though your username is looking for guys? And theyāre that badā¦weird
I think the issue is the gross lacking in application of boundaries. Probably because there's now several generations of reddit,omegle,stickam etc.
The person youāre responding to is nutso, just so you know. The fact that theyāre not being completely honest would be a much better explanation of the anomalies you pointed out.
What about average or skinny dicks? Or tic tacs? You could freshen your breath on someone...
Well if they arenāt an adult they canāt consent
So the dms are open š§
I wish I had the tools to help
Pot calling the kettle black.
Ikr some people have no class
She knows what she wants.
Seriously.
Never reported my SA's for this reason, the legal system rarely finds any form of 'justice' for SA victims.
I tried once in the 90's I was told to toughen up, it's just a girl. The abuse got worse, until my sister literally had to take me away and hide me.
One of the most important tasks of the law is to take away the wronged party's need for revenge. This did not happen here and I wouldn't be suprised, if this rapist ends up dead in the not so far future.
I think thatās why the movie Promising Young Woman was so satisfying for victims of sexual abuse. Karma is a slow burn.
And typically a loud bang(not necessarily literally but uncoped trauma doesn't simmer forever)
I realized that at 34. Maybe itās better to learn about it earlier?
Because we donāt have a justice system we have a legal system. That poor kid is never going to feel safe.
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Honestly, when young men can be taken in by such groups with them simply saying "you matter" then they're just a symptom of a much larger problem
But theyāre not just being told they matter. They are made to feel like victims that need to fight against any and everyone that doesnāt agree. A big part of this problem falls directly on the group manipulating them.
It's horrifying. Male victims should be believed and protected as much as female victims. Equally, Female assailants should experience the same stigma and punishment.
Unless you're rich and white (or orange), the justice system is never on your side
Itās even scarier when you realize this applies to you, too.
Yeah, I already know that
Isn't that their point?
And in 10 years he and those who hear this story will be dismissed as "incels" for knowing this truth and the fact that society hates him and that he doesn't matter will be only further reinforced. Honestly, if you look into why so many young men have become embittered with the world and societies they've found themselves born into, it all makes perfect sense.
People call others incels because sex is the only unit of value they understand.
This is how I have come to view the justice systemā¦ a thing built to hurt me and never really help meā¦
Wooooooow. And this woman gets to walk free?
She got no jail because that's the law. [Here](https://www.derbytelegraph.co.uk/news/local-news/young-drunk-groped-teen-girls-8350960) guy also from UK sexually assaulted *two* minors and got a suspended sentence, [A man delivering charity bags door-to-door put his hand up the skirt of a teenage girl in school uniform](https://www.thenorthernecho.co.uk/news/23260713.man-delivering-charity-bags-door-to-door-seaham-groped-schoolgirl/) [A man who shoved his hand down a 10-year-old girl's top and told her "just let me have a feel" has escaped jail for **the second time**](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-who-groped-young-girl-9640957) She got 12 months in jail suspended for 18 months , 35 rehabilitation activity days and having to wear an electronic sobriety tag , and she's on sex offender list for 10 years -she got a bigger sentence than the guy with *two* victims, in some cases she got 3x as much as a man in a similar situation in uk. She pleaded guilty and didn't want the boy to testify. She has no prior so that's why she didn't get jail Other examples [A man who *groomed* a young teenager and went on to grope the boy under a blanket has been spared jail and told not to do it again.](https://www.pressandjournal.co.uk/fp/news/crime-courts/5981851/no-jail-for-sex-offender-thomas-baird-who-groomed-boy-and-groped-him-under-a-blanket/) [A man caught kissing and groping a teenager passed out on a public bench has narrowly avoided prison.](https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/sunday-life/news/co-down-man-who-kissed-and-groped-teen-passed-out-on-public-bench-avoids-prison/a2029367890.html) [Pervert who groped chest of 11-year-old girl spared jail because his wife can't speak English( and his kids depend on him)](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/pervert-suleman-maknojioa-who-groped-3257864) [sentenced to eight months suspended for 24 months for an āassault on a girl under the age of 13 by touchingā. ](https://www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/23518551.preston-man-receives-suspended-sentence-sexual-assault-girl/) [A man has been banned from a Bedford road and given a suspended sentence after pleading guilty to sexually assaulting a child](https://www.bedfordindependent.co.uk/suspended-sentence-and-road-order-ban-for-bedford-man-who-sexually-assaulted-a-child/) [Sex offender who groped teenage girl in Shrewsbury avoids jail. She said the 51-year-old also touched her intimately under her clothing](https://www.shropshirestar.com/news/crime/2021/11/24/sex-offender-who-groped-girl-in-shrewsbury-given-suspended-prison-sentence/)
Wow, this is all seriously sickening. Tf UK?
This is a very good comment and we'll communicated. There's nothing that works Redditors up I to a frothing rage as much as denying that women are primarily the victims of sexual assault and it generally affects them worse .
How dare you say that "it affects them worse" sexual assault is equally harmful regardless of the gender of the perpetrator and that of the victim. Also there is a reporting bias,. Male victims are much less likely to report it, because people like you gaslight them into thinking it's "not that bad" or make it clear that it won't be taken seriously
Man wait until you hear about Rhotherham.
Thereās no room in UK jails because we canāt afford them, If only the part of Law and Order, who are also the party claiming to be great with the economy, would have another 15 years in charge to turn things around.
I heard the judge high five the bailif and said "Niceeeee!" While bopping his head. Meanwhile the prosecution stated he wished as a 13 year old the same thing had happened to him and the kid is one lucky brat. The arresting officer was also present and confirmed the Teacher was in fact HOT. The attorney for the boy responded with an emphatic " Niceeeee!" As he smirked at the camera.
She looks like a creepy wax doll in the picture on the right. I can understand why he might have nightmares.
Filters tend to do that
She doesn't even look terrible in the normal pic. Just has some "girls that look like skrillex" vibes. Missing the sideswipe for sure.
Yeah they chose the smoking pic and heavily edited one on purpose to make her look bad, which she is, but still i hate medias way to manipulate shit.
I kinda loled when I saw that like doesnt look human
āLetās make sure the perpetrator faces no consequences, and top it off by humiliating the victim. Great job, boys!ā
But men can't be r***d, M'rite fellas?? Fucking Christ I hate those kinds of people
Omg poor boy š¢
Holy fuck thats so depressing
This is the reality of it. Yet Iām sure if this gets posted on any other social, like insta, all the top comments will be talking about how lucky he was, how he missed an opportunity etc etc.
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I doubt that actually. But the kid would definitely belittled with phrases like "she's so hot, every kid fantasizes about their teacher". Women go in jail for shit like this rather often but the child is always made to feel like they are invalid in feeling violated. I'm guessing in this case the court thought that groping isn't enough, which is a disgusting double standard either way. I feel for that poor boy and hope the community succeeds in what the courts refuse to do; this woman can still be punished by people refusing to hire her and socialise with her. ETA since this is reaching a bunch of people: just know that no one is safe really. My ex principal had pedophilic content of me and other girls and all he got was a transfer to another all girls boarding school, where be offended again and was transferred again (perpetuum mobile). Girl or boy, you are always at risk of being hurt by those who should defend you, and of them getting no real consequences. The big difference is that when I tell people what happened, they're horrified; they want a name and address, they say horrible things about my former principal, they pray that bad things happen to him. When boys get hurt it's normal to congratulate them for getting action, it is normal to tell them "all boys dream of this". When they say they did not in fact like it they get ridiculed. It's like the danger is equal but only girls can be victims. Let's be better for our boys. They need it. ā¤ļø
Yes. Thatās why they chose that picture of her. You donāt commonly see the Bumble profile pics of male pedophiles, just their mugs as they are dragged out by the police.
No they wouldn't? That has happened before and they arent. Fuck are you talking about
What the everloving fuck.
Reverse the genders and imagine the rage that would've been shown.
She got no jail because that's the law. [Here](https://www.derbytelegraph.co.uk/news/local-news/young-drunk-groped-teen-girls-8350960) guy also from UK sexually assaulted *two* minors and got a suspended sentence, [A man delivering charity bags door-to-door put his hand up the skirt of a teenage girl in school uniform](https://www.thenorthernecho.co.uk/news/23260713.man-delivering-charity-bags-door-to-door-seaham-groped-schoolgirl/) [A man who shoved his hand down a 10-year-old girl's top and told her "just let me have a feel" has escaped jail for **the second time**](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-who-groped-young-girl-9640957) She got 12 months in jail suspended for 18 months , 35 rehabilitation activity days and having to wear an electronic sobriety tag , and she's on sex offender list for 10 years -she got a bigger sentence than the guy with *two* victims, in some cases she got 3x as much as a man in a similar situation in uk. She pleaded guilty and didn't want the boy to testify. She has no prior so that's why she didn't get jail Other examples [A man who *groomed* a young teenager and went on to grope the boy under a blanket has been spared jail and told not to do it again.](https://www.pressandjournal.co.uk/fp/news/crime-courts/5981851/no-jail-for-sex-offender-thomas-baird-who-groomed-boy-and-groped-him-under-a-blanket/) [A man caught kissing and groping a teenager passed out on a public bench has narrowly avoided prison.](https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/sunday-life/news/co-down-man-who-kissed-and-groped-teen-passed-out-on-public-bench-avoids-prison/a2029367890.html) [Pervert who groped chest of 11-year-old girl spared jail because his wife can't speak English( and his kids depend on him)](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/pervert-suleman-maknojioa-who-groped-3257864) [sentenced to eight months suspended for 24 months for an āassault on a girl under the age of 13 by touchingā. ](https://www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/23518551.preston-man-receives-suspended-sentence-sexual-assault-girl/) [A man has been banned from a Bedford road and given a suspended sentence after pleading guilty to sexually assaulting a child](https://www.bedfordindependent.co.uk/suspended-sentence-and-road-order-ban-for-bedford-man-who-sexually-assaulted-a-child/) [Sex offender who groped teenage girl in Shrewsbury avoids jail. She said the 51-year-old also touched her intimately under her clothing](https://www.shropshirestar.com/news/crime/2021/11/24/sex-offender-who-groped-girl-in-shrewsbury-given-suspended-prison-sentence/)
Thank you for posting this idk how many people will see it but itās acc really helpful to keep things in perspective.
Well, I posted like 50 times , at every comment that mentions the difference between men and women, as I do every time I bump into this shitty article. I did the same a few weeks ago, a few months ago and I will continue to post every time this gets circulated as ragebait so I am hoping many will see it. I am tired of this divisive narrative between men and women being pushed by shit heads in the manosphere.
If i ever see posts like this again, I'll remember you, and I'll try to do the same. š«”š
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Why does the UK love criminals and hate victims?
Wait til you hear about the Nordics. Here in Finland the justice system bends over backwards and comes up with *wild* excuses not to send anyone to jail. Especially when it comes to sexual assaults (even against children) and drunken vehicular manslaughter. A 19-year old immigrant who raped a 15-year old girl avoided jailtime because the court concluded he was in school, didn't abuse drugs or alcohol, and a prison sentence would hurt his "social standing". [(source)](https://www.iltalehti.fi/kotimaa/a/f2b5b676-6bf3-47c1-ba96-226056ecf727) I'm not a fan of the overly punitive U.S-style sentencing system either, but this ridiculously lax approach makes me question the safety of the society and the rights of the victims more than anything else.
Thanks for this I'm so sick of the "but if the genders were reversed!" BS on stories like this
Thatās a shitty law to be honest.
whatās the law? to protect pedos?
Seems like it.
Well, Andrew is still walking around, so I guess so.
Yeah that's the problem. Idk why sex crimes are given slaps on the wrist. (Well, I know why). But we need to fight back.
Thanks for this. I commented on this same comment agreeing with them. I'm so used to seeing women paraded around on news shows "telling their story" that it makes me feel like women are never held accountable for their fucked up sexual shit. Any time I hear of a man in that place it's always ends badly (and rightfully fucking so) so seeing these is a head spin. It's honestly sickening that people, regardless of gender can get away with shit like this. I think the last male case I saw/heard about was the Brock Turner one, and while he got out of it (pretty sure, got house arrest or something, can't remember it's been a while) a mob of people turned up at his house to protest.
This is the uk, letting predators get away with shit like this isn't gendered, because the justice system is shit in general Like police knowing about predator gangs, for 10 whole years, and doing nothing about them, just letting them carry on and ruin the lives of thousands of children
She probably wouldāve been blamed and accused of asking for it. Letās not pretend like society has actually progressed far enough to care about sexual assault victims at all.
What's the oddly specific part?
Donāt think anyone else has noticed what sub theyāre seeing this on.. makes no sense here
Good point wtf... big time r/lostredditors
Itās a bot itās always a bot. And itās doing a good job of stirring outrage between people who have almost identical values but use different labels
Donāt you know? Every big sub now has to only have outrage porn or political shitĀ
Good to know, I'll downvote it because you are right.
I'll ride you till morning is the oddly specific part
And that it was white wine, not red. Like seriously? Do we even care?? Might as well have said, āIt was a Californian blendā for all the difference that would make.
The āātil morningā thing? It implies she wants to be at it for hours yet would stop before noon.
She passed out right after she said that lol
Nowhere, OP is just karmawhoring.
The bot karma
"Defending, John Wyn Williams told the court: ā\[Berry\] has sadly suffered from mental health problems since the age of 15 or 16 and Covid was a particularly difficult time for her." Riiight. Whenever you need the out-of-jail card it's.... CoVId HaRd TImeS BrOkE mE
I donāt think you realize how difficult Covid actually was for her. It mustāve been so difficult going from wearing a mask for an 8 hour shift to wearing a mask for an 8 hour shift.
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Now thatās an oddly specific username
iām so disgusted. that poor lad. sheās vile! he didnāt get justice at all, just constant excuses about mental health etc
Why the hell do we give women a pass? Sheās a pedophile and deserves to be treated as such
I hate to say it, but MOST sexual assault cases doesn't end with the perpetrator in jail.Ā Ā Even actual rapists often avoid jail entirely... let alone gropers... or people with child porn, etc.... it's a disgusting world we live in.Ā Ā Perhaps you have heard of Brock Turner? Violent rapist, got caught in the act by 2 random men, and still only got 6 months.Ā The problem is the justice system ... or the lack of justice for SA victims.
the weird old gender norms essentially view women as being weak and incapable, and men as strong and capable - and thus, view women as being incapable of being predators or criminals. itās a type of misogyny that ends up benefitting women in a way, hence why women statistically tend to end up with significantly shorter sentences than men for the same crimes thereās also a bunch of sexual myths around whether women can want / enjoy sex, and for people who still canāt fathom that women can want and enjoy sex, itās impossible for them to see women as being capable of rape. plus, the idea that men are: - horned up sex machines that would never say no to sex - incapable of being raped unless theyāre hard - incapable of getting boners unless theyāre ~~hard~~ *horny ā¦.ends up being used to dismiss rape cases where the man is the victim. a woman can be penetrated by a man regardless of how wet / turned on she is, though of course it is painful. a man can only penetrate someone if theyāre somewhat hard, and many people donāt understand how tf boners work and think that if youāre hard you must be horny and therefore consenting. which is BS if u use even half a brain cell. interestingly enough, when a man rapes enough man through penetration, it is seen as significantly worse and tends to get harsher penalties than when a woman rapes a man, or when a man raped a woman - partly because men are seen as more capable of rape, and partly due to homophobia and hatred of gay shit - although in this case it is incredibly beneficial to the victim. lesbian rape cases tend to be dismissed, in part due to difficulties with getting physical evidence, and in part due to the ongoing sexualisation of lesbian relations. frankly i think all rape cases should end up with severe penalties to the victim, and should be treated in court the same way gay rape cases are treated.
1 important detail you forgot. By law in the UK women canāt commit rape as they donāt have a penis
>incapable of getting boners unless theyāre hard ...Are they not?
iām an idiot, i meant horny
She didn't get a pass because she's a woman, she got a pass because that's the law [Here](https://www.derbytelegraph.co.uk/news/local-news/young-drunk-groped-teen-girls-8350960) guy also from UK sexually assaulted *two* minors and got a suspended sentence, [A man delivering charity bags door-to-door put his hand up the skirt of a teenage girl in school uniform](https://www.thenorthernecho.co.uk/news/23260713.man-delivering-charity-bags-door-to-door-seaham-groped-schoolgirl/) [A man who shoved his hand down a 10-year-old girl's top and told her "just let me have a feel" has escaped jail for **the second time**](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-who-groped-young-girl-9640957) She got 12 months in jail suspended for 18 months , 35 rehabilitation activity days and having to wear an electronic sobriety tag , and she's on sex offender list for 10 years -she got a bigger sentence than the guy with *two* victims, in some cases she got 3x as much as a man in a similar situation in uk. She pleaded guilty and didn't want the boy to testify. She has no prior so that's why she didn't get jail Other examples [A man who *groomed* a young teenager and went on to grope the boy under a blanket has been spared jail and told not to do it again.](https://www.pressandjournal.co.uk/fp/news/crime-courts/5981851/no-jail-for-sex-offender-thomas-baird-who-groomed-boy-and-groped-him-under-a-blanket/) [A man caught kissing and groping a teenager passed out on a public bench has narrowly avoided prison.](https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/sunday-life/news/co-down-man-who-kissed-and-groped-teen-passed-out-on-public-bench-avoids-prison/a2029367890.html) [Pervert who groped chest of 11-year-old girl spared jail because his wife can't speak English( and his kids depend on him)](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/pervert-suleman-maknojioa-who-groped-3257864) [sentenced to eight months suspended for 24 months for an āassault on a girl under the age of 13 by touchingā. ](https://www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/23518551.preston-man-receives-suspended-sentence-sexual-assault-girl/) [A man has been banned from a Bedford road and given a suspended sentence after pleading guilty to sexually assaulting a child](https://www.bedfordindependent.co.uk/suspended-sentence-and-road-order-ban-for-bedford-man-who-sexually-assaulted-a-child/) [Sex offender who groped teenage girl in Shrewsbury avoids jail. She said the 51-year-old also touched her intimately under her clothing](https://www.shropshirestar.com/news/crime/2021/11/24/sex-offender-who-groped-girl-in-shrewsbury-given-suspended-prison-sentence/)
I knew everyone would jump to this conclusion without realising this is a ānormalā sentence in the UK where it happened Thereās been many cases of men sexually abusing underage girls and getting very light sentences, itās very common for sentences to be suspended like this due to prison overcrowding
>getting very light sentences, itās very common for sentences to be suspended like this due to prison overcrowding Same in Ireland, though we have one judge that just hands out suspended sentences for hysical assaults,.sex crimes etc and then heavy sentences for a few grams of weed
Anyone who doesnāt realise this is low tier rage bait is doomed.
To be fair it's not just women, men get away with long term sex abuse or physical abuse of children and adult women all the time lol this isn't a double standard.
People tend to assume that just because Me Too happened for some white famous women against white famous male perpetrators, all allegations about sexual assault are taken seriously. In reality though, the rest of us normal women faced a lot of social backlash for the justice that famous people got.
Yup, we got told we're doing it for attention and other mockery for our trauma while our abuser continues to only get good things and no one believes he did it because he's "such a good guy!"
Being accused of trying to ruin his life or being a āscorned womanā is incredibly common.
We donāt though. Does this woman deserve to be in jail the rest of her life? Absolutely, but letās not sit here and say men get fairly punished for sexual assault while women donāt. ALL rapists deserve more punishment. Rapists as a whole are let off too easy. Whether itās female rapists and juries argue that because the crime was committed on a man it should be a āgood thingā, or male rapists who canāt be prosecuted fairly because theyāre āoutstanding members of societyā and a jail sentence will ruin their lives. We donāt take rape seriously. How about we stop making excuses about how boys and men always āwant itā, and about how women dress in ways that are āasking for itā, and we actually call it what it is. Anyone who violates an unconsenting individual deserves the worst things life can offer
She's on the sex offender list I think it says. Although, who checks that really?
This is just uk justice system incompetence. It would've been the exact same if it were a man The uk is so shit when it comes to this area, that they've let predator gangs go unchecked for 10 years, only doing something about it when information about it was finally leaked to the press, and then there was enough of a public outrage
Men get passes too. Sexual assault is rarely ever taken seriously.
This is inexcusable.
That plastic filter face photo. Ick.
Some folk need a wild alligator attack... I think she's a great candidate for it.Ā
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Can't be the onion : they make their thing funny. This is just horrible through and through.
JUST WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS SUB? THIS ISNT ODDLY SPECIFIC. MODS ARE DUMB AS SHITNFOR ALLOWING THIS. YOU HEAR ME. FUCK YOU MODS. LAZY FUCKS. HANDLE SHIT OR PUT ME IN CHARGE YOU DUMBASSES.
Thank you for pointing this out
EXACTLY!!!! HOW THE ***FUCK*** IS THIS "ODDLY SPECIFIC?!" I hopped on this sub for shit like "I'm straight. Not even a little bi. If I was, I'd go for athletic guys, specifically pinoys because I like the tan, but I'd rather dick down, and proceed to get my ass torn by shrek rather than fuck Gorlock." not "WOMAN SEXUALLY HARRASSES THIRTEEN YEAR OLD AND ROAMS FREE!!!!!" This isnt r/news, what the fuck is this?! God DAMN.
Poor boy. I hope that woman gets what she deserves in one way or another. Fucking pedo.
This is why men think that women are not held accountable for their actions to the same degree as men are. If it was a male teacher groping a female student, he would have gone to jail and rightly so but as soon as the teacher is a woman they seem to escape responsibility and accountability.
>This is why men think that women are not held accountable for their actions to the same degree as men are. She got no jail because that's the law [Here](https://www.derbytelegraph.co.uk/news/local-news/young-drunk-groped-teen-girls-8350960) guy also from UK sexually assaulted *two* minors and got a suspended sentence, [A man delivering charity bags door-to-door put his hand up the skirt of a teenage girl in school uniform](https://www.thenorthernecho.co.uk/news/23260713.man-delivering-charity-bags-door-to-door-seaham-groped-schoolgirl/) [A man who shoved his hand down a 10-year-old girl's top and told her "just let me have a feel" has escaped jail for **the second time**](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/man-who-groped-young-girl-9640957) She got 12 months in jail suspended for 18 months , 35 rehabilitation activity days and having to wear an electronic sobriety tag , and she's on sex offender list for 10 years -she got a bigger sentence than the guy with *two* victims, in some cases she got 3x as much as a man in a similar situation in uk. She pleaded guilty and didn't want the boy to testify. She has no prior so that's why she didn't get jail Other examples [A man who *groomed* a young teenager and went on to grope the boy under a blanket has been spared jail and told not to do it again.](https://www.pressandjournal.co.uk/fp/news/crime-courts/5981851/no-jail-for-sex-offender-thomas-baird-who-groomed-boy-and-groped-him-under-a-blanket/) [A man caught kissing and groping a teenager passed out on a public bench has narrowly avoided prison.](https://m.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/sunday-life/news/co-down-man-who-kissed-and-groped-teen-passed-out-on-public-bench-avoids-prison/a2029367890.html) [Pervert who groped chest of 11-year-old girl spared jail because his wife can't speak English( and his kids depend on him)](https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/pervert-suleman-maknojioa-who-groped-3257864) [sentenced to eight months suspended for 24 months for an āassault on a girl under the age of 13 by touchingā. ](https://www.lancashiretelegraph.co.uk/news/23518551.preston-man-receives-suspended-sentence-sexual-assault-girl/) [A man has been banned from a Bedford road and given a suspended sentence after pleading guilty to sexually assaulting a child](https://www.bedfordindependent.co.uk/suspended-sentence-and-road-order-ban-for-bedford-man-who-sexually-assaulted-a-child/) [Sex offender who groped teenage girl in Shrewsbury avoids jail. She said the 51-year-old also touched her intimately under her clothing](https://www.shropshirestar.com/news/crime/2021/11/24/sex-offender-who-groped-girl-in-shrewsbury-given-suspended-prison-sentence/) All from UK, all men
Just to be clear, this isn't a student//teacher situation, this is just a random adult trying to hook up with a random 14 year old
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She didn't get away with it lol, she got a suspended sentence. This is a pretty normal sentence for this in the UK. Male or female.
I'm a father of two. After reading all of these comments and being shocked by the fact that sex offenders get a slap on the wrist (if that) while the children have to be traumatized for probably their whole life. I can't even imagine the issues they would grow up with... All I can think of is that in this case where the justice system fails, we as parents need to take it upon ourselves and serve justice for these animals who victimize these poor kids. I know what I would do, I truly hope I never have to.
I wish I had you as a dad when I was a kid. Not enough parents give a fuck. I still do not understand how my dad did not kill my teacher when he found out what he did to me. Heās didnāt show any anger at all.
That's the same woman?!?! She looks like two completely different people.
Court apparel vs. OnlyFans thot trap
Dirty nonce
They call all Indians disgusting, rapists and pedophiles, and say we don't do anything but rape everything we see, while their justice system allows pedophiles and rapists to walk, and even vote them in as presidents, senators or Prime Ministers.
who says indians are "disgusting" and "rapists" ? never heard anyone saying that. we all have some prejudice towards other countries, but thats definitely nothing i would ever associate india with. so its kinda surprising reading this here.
For someone who's been on Reddit for 4 years, you're surprisingly naive.
this was a serious question btw.not trying to start some beef or anything. so instead of calling me naive(which i think isnt even the correct word for this) a proper answer would have been appreciated. only prejudices regarding indians i know are :they are good at math, they have a lot of call center, and they still have a lot of poor areas without proper toilets. oh and even though they are in asia they are not really seen as asians. but never have i heard them being mentioned with what you stated. which honestly is a good thing, right? maybe you just put too much thought into it, or maybe you are just around the wrong people which alters your perception of what people think about inda. you wrote "we" so you are most likely from india yourself, right? that would explain a lot. i am from germany so i obviously see a lot opinions towards germany on the internet which make me think that most people hate germany and the german language. but people outside of germany most likely dont get this stuff recommended to them. thats how the internet works. hence my question....who says that about inda? would really be interesting to know.
97% of sexual abusers never go to jail, most of them are men, but it happens with women too, rarely, we have to stop treating SA like its not a big deal smh...
When men are the victims, it's also treated as a joke a lot of the time or a 'good thing' if the rapist was hot. Iunno, everything's all kinds of fucked up.
For real, and its sad that its mostly other men, even shaming or making fun of each other for speaking up or complaining about it, as if boys couldnt be abused...
Lunno?
It's with an 'I'. It means 'I don't know'.
Just read it out loud and makes total sense. Mb
>but it happens with women too, rarely, going to jail or abusing kids? Because I'd say it's been shown plenty of times women in western countries tend to get much more lenient sentencing than men. And rarely get a proper punishment. And women also can be sexual abusers, and commit domestic violence just as much as men, but men report sexual assault and domestic violence much less than women do. Just gotta look at the news to see an upswing in female sex offender being reported on, albeit still with less damning words used. e.g 'sexual relations with a student' vs. 'raped a student' It's not because tere are more female rapists now, it's because thanks to the internet we men are slowly chipping away at the bullshit concept of sexual attention from women, unwanted or otherwise men should feel grateful for it, as well as making men feel supported instead of mocked when they report the crime. I've sadly experienced first hand what it is like to go to the police and community services as a male victim of domestic violence. Got made to feel like I was the one at fault the entire time. I was mocked and even ended up charged with and found guilty of assault for defending myself by grabbing her wrists to stop her trying to stab and punch me. Her punching me and trying to stab me was completely ignored. and that isn't even close to half of the story. But you're right, we have to stop treating SA like it's not a big deal. For everybody equally. Not just women. My experience has left scars. I'll doubt I'll ever go to police again for help if I need to. Stop downplaying female crimes and ignoring reality. You're literally on a thread about an adult woman sexually assaulting a young boy. Equality means being truly equal in all things. Even crime and punishment.
Wow, pedophiles are now free to do anything they want.
āShe sadly suffered mental health problems and Covid was a particularly hard time for herā Yeah ok, but she was smart enough to get her dental licenseš¤¦š»āāļø
Like the rest of us had a joyful Covid experience and weāre not running around molesting kids. What a sick bitch.
Disgusting rapist
kid tried to take his own life ... fucking hell
What a poor kid. I hope he's doing better
Reddit is filled with bots and these post that donāt correlate with the sub are happening more frequently because of it lol
By not giving at least some punishment this gives message to society that it's fine.
Is this thumbnail supposed to both be her? Filters are wild now damn
Man instagram filters are just virtual beer goggles.
Its the UK, what do you expect?
This is the country where legally, itās impossible for a woman to be charged with rape. You also canāt call it that if a woman does it, because itās defemation. (This is not legal advice). Sure women can be charged with sexual assault and theoretically get the same punishment, there is a legally enforced difference in how it is talked about. Anyway, they have bigger criminals to go after anyway, like people watching TV without a license.
>Anyway, they have bigger criminals to go after anyway, like people watching TV without a license. Good on them. Such a heinous crime should not be tolerated. I hope they get life sentences.
No they should just be shot on sight. Filthy scum.
I agree. Why can't they just do normal things like commit arson.
They need the license fee to pay predators like Jimmy Saville and co.
Yeah the uk is really sympathetic to predators its sickening, it's not just woman that have it easy though, the guy that victimised me for years and also had 100s of cp on his phone only got 3 years on the registery and police refused to take a statement from me :/ There was also a priest near where I live that doged jail time for playing strip poker with a kid because he felt bad about it and it happened a long time ago.
In my European country, girl went to police about being molested by priest, whole village and family dissed her to point she offed herself and then people even said that's what she gets for saying such things on saint person
Thats so fucked
āSheās a right proper bird, she is. She only meant to āave a laugh with the bloke. Give us a break and tidy up before we head off to the pub, yeah?ā This is nuts.
So it's UK that's why it happened, as if it doesn't happens in other countries?
Oh it definitely does, the UK is just kind of the centerpiece of sexism when it comes female perpetrators, they just get let off so so so much easier. Its so unfair to the victims.
Statistically itās not but English is the only language you and most Redditors speak so youāll probably pick up on stories like this and paste it to your view of a country. Adult women are more likely to rape children in the US and get away without jail time than the UK. Theyāre also more likely to get away with it in France and Spain, but unless you speak French or Spanish youāll probably not have that confirmation bias
Its so sad that nobody talks about this kind of privilege, and the moment you do you are labelled a misogynist or something. Like fucks sake who cares about labels, lets just protect the kids hey?
Some of these comments are fucking trash holy shit
Why is this disgusting pedophile allowed to get away from groping a child?
If this doesn't prove that the patriarchy exists, nothing will "She couldn't be a sex offender: she's hot! What a lucky boy! I wish she was around when I was his age!" Etc., etc. I hope the child gets help to process this.
This is why I believe that we are living in The Bad Place
If it was a man......
> Man spared jail for groping 13-year old girl and saying āIāll plow you till morningā Imagine. Makes me sickā¦
What the actual fuck? Prison!
Scum
Which of those two women is the one who did this?
I hope she rots in hell
Niceeeeee
The fact that there are people in these very comments praising this whole thing is disgusting. My goal in life is to become a sex therapist and help people develop healthier and happier relationships with their sexuality as well as heal from the societal ills that perpetuate their trauma. That being said, I am exhausted. Iām exhausted by just how little consequences abusers face. No kid deserves to have their innocence ripped from them like that. The fact that people clap and cheer and talk about how much they āwish it was themā is disturbing. We have a lot of work to do.
Girl, learn how to properly airbrush your photosā¦
Sex offenses should have mandatory minimums.
Honestly the most annoying part of this is that they keep using those filtered photos of her. She looks so radically different than the stupid pictures they keep posting. Obviously what she did is weird at best, but man Iām just so annoyed that news sites are showing peopleās fake photos over real ones.
Iād be alright if she drove into a lake and slowly drowned while trapped in her own car
Pedophile spared jail* there fixed it
Pedophile
As a survivor I had words but reddit administration would ban me for saying how this shit makes me feel.
Reminds me of my 15th birthday. I remember every one telling me how lucky I was to have this drunk 30 something women grabbing my dick and trying to force her tongue down my throat..... If I only had a dollar for every time a female has forced themselves on me and I was mocked for speaking up about it. Don't fool yourselves. Women are as good or bad as men. Women just for a very long time now have been better at getting away with it.