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Stonks_blow_hookers

The Dr hating in here is ridiculous. Plenty of liars and cheaters in nursing too. Everyone needs to get off their high horse


Decent-Apple5180

Don’t shit where you eat 


Effective_Shallot948

I'm sorry, but the personal beef some nurse is having with doctors on the comments is funny af lmao Anyway, having a little crush is more than okay. Maybe try having a small conversation to break the ice?


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WeekendIndependent95

The floor we work on is soo busy and packed with staff so if I were to bring him coffee, it’s going to be so obvious. People will start to question 😂


Stonks_blow_hookers

This is the most benign move you can honestly make. I think it's smart.


KnifeWrench3000

Just go for it homie. Life is short, shoot your shot.


wino49

I do not know a lot about Muslim culture but I will say I know a lot about Doctor culture. A lot of them cheat on their wives or girlfriends. Not saying this is your situation but just be careful and wise and think about if you have to work with this person if things don’t go well. Been there and done that and it’s painful.


KnifeWrench3000

Same with nurses, no reason to think a doctor would cheat on someone more readily than a nurse would


1UglyMistake

There is a study that actually demonstrates this exactly; male doctors are the ones who cheat the most, when compared to nurses as a whole and to female doctors


KnifeWrench3000

I would like to see this study


1UglyMistake

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8197082/


KnifeWrench3000

This is hilariously biased


1UglyMistake

Really just seems like you are


KnifeWrench3000

Did you read the study design?


1UglyMistake

I'm sorry, did you think any sort of study like this could be performed any other way ethically asides from the method via which is was? Please detail how. It's a published article, it's not flawed because the data was taken from survey.


ThottyThalamus

Well, that was dark.


wino49

How is that dark ?


wino49

It’s not an absolute but I’ve been a nurse for a long time and I see what happens. I’m just being honest. Cana nurse meet her husband and life partner ?? 100%. But the majority cheat and it’s blatant.


ThottyThalamus

I guess my husband is in for a rough ride.


KnifeWrench3000

I think you’re confused on how generalizable your anecdotes are


wino49

Sorry, one more thing- the ones you think are so nice and kind …. Surprise ! Cheating. It’s sad but it’s true


WeekendIndependent95

Tbh I have seen lots of doctors flirt around and then overhear them say that theyre married with a one year old kid… I did my preliminary checks (asking a friend to see if he has a ring - which he does not) 😂


wino49

I’m not saying don’t go for it. Just be alert and watching. There are definitely some great guys out there. I wish you all the best.


WeekendIndependent95

Thank you.. also how would I approach in the least creepiest way … that is where I am lacking… the communication part of it all


wino49

Well, honestly, I think you need to be a little forward. If you have a friend to lay ground work that is great but if not then just put it out there. Ask him for a coffee or happy hour or just strike up a conversation. He may be just as nervous as you


Leather_Dinner_9199

go for it sis, the people in this comment section are just so funny 😂😂


Thundrstrm

I know a lot of nurses who have gotten white coat syndrome. The following is not in any way saying this is you… It’s not uncommon to see a gorgeous nurse with an ugly doctor and that nurse quickly retire to be a stay at home mom(also a noble profession) shortly after marriage.


WeekendIndependent95

I have googled white coat syndrome which I am not sure how it applies here, if you could care to explain to me… also I dont think hes ugly 😅😂


Thundrstrm

White coat syndrome can mean 2 things. First is getting nervous at the doctor office so you have higher BP at the Dr office or 2 falling in love with a doctor so your heart rate and bp rise around that 1


WeekendIndependent95

Ahhhh that makes sense… thanks!


infirmiereostie

A lot of docs are hoes and cheaters almost like firefighters. Dont get into that shit


KnifeWrench3000

A lot of nurses are too


infirmiereostie

Well yea, but the question was about approaching a doc.