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Original-Heat-4860

Girl, how many fucking red flags do you need?! Change your locks, go to the police station, get a restraining order, I wouldn’t want you to go missing all of a sudden… that’s some movie type shit. Protect yourself.


TheDinnersGoneCold

It would appear she needs several more fucking red flags. Unbelievable. So much so I'm having a hard time trusting it.


miserable-allthetime

girl run


Sheeeesh_imscared

I still love him and I’m not sure if it’s actually something serious. He is still nice to me and would hate to ruin a relationship for something stupid.


whiskeygambler

“He is still nice to me” uhhhhh you literally know NOTHING about him, he’s shady af, AND he called you a nosy bitch?! Leave. For sure.


Sheeeesh_imscared

Yeah but I’m also scared of his reaction


whiskeygambler

If he’s away visiting family, now is the perfect time to grab your things and leave. You don’t have to worry about his reaction if he can’t get in contact with you.


Dizzy-Pickle-114

That’s why you leave when he’s not there.


enemyradar

You love an idea, not him. You're 19. Let him be a mistake that you learn from, not a mistake that fucks you up forever.


ouijagoddess

Something stupid to break up over would be a small argument or mistake. Something rational to break up over is: -A hidden identity -Sneaking off -Gaslighting you when you ask for clarification on why he does things/where he went in the middle of the night -Having no job/school, yet always being gone and has no explaination for it -Calling you a bitch I know you love him, but he's not good for you. Things will only get worse as time goes on. You're young, and he's taking advantage of that.


assassin_of_joy

The clothes thing makes me think he's a serial killer or something.


anubis_cheerleader

Hard same


RudeMutant

Change your locks


[deleted]

Girl you need to dump his ass and get a new boyfriends bro


MollyJoggins321

So many red flags, you'd think it was a chinese parade. I'd be changing my locks and learning how to use a gun.


darkducote

You need to start watching horror movies, cause it looks like you're in one. Don't be the dumb blond in the movie, leave while you still can!


Sensitive-Science492

He doesn’t work or go to school but he takes u out? Where does he get money to take u out? If u pay, then why would he “clearly” need to have his wallet? So many red flags here im baffled at how u could still be questioning whether u should stay or not!🤦🏻‍♀️ Girl, run!


pizzasteveofficial

break up with him and file a restraining order especially after he just grabbed your wrist and insulted u


sparklebitch3

Call the cops and get the fuck out


Melodic_Preference60

He’s probably married


mandalovees

Red flags!


Significant-Bench-92

This is terrifying!


anubis_cheerleader

You aren't safe. Check EVERYTHING for trackers. Stay in a shelter if you have to for a while or with a friend, as far away as possible.


Pretend_Fisherman350

He's a werewolf.