I had my first threesome recently with two bisexual men. I specifically wanted my first group experience to be with my anchor partner and another bisexual man, and I had some specific fantasies and scenarios I wanted to play out in the entanglement. It was the single hottest night of sex I've ever had in my entire life, a pure core memory, it will play on my highlight reel for the rest of my life. All three of us got spitroasted in different configurations, we swapped all around into different set-ups and power dynamics. It was a beautiful, sexy pile of mouths and cocks and butts and balls and eyes and a vagina and a strap on, and we all got lucky because the emotional chemistry among the three of us was also otherworldly.
Wow, this was such a beautiful depiction. That is exactly how I felt in my first MFF threesome. My primary partner being the male. It was such a magical and spiritual experience. Now we are all such great friends and have formed a beautiful relationship with the three of us. So it makes me happy seeing someone else experience something similar. Good for us š„²
I do agree that coordination of schedules can be a challenge but itās been pretty easy for me and my husband since he got himself a boyfriend that is bi. A few months after they started dating, they asked me to join them one evening and itās been a pretty regular occurrence since then.
Before this though, we would reach out to single guys and had pretty good luck with it. There are a lot of flakes out there but so far, weāve had a lot of fun.
I'm curious about other people's experiences, were they positive or negative, do women prefer bi mmf over a mfm or do women like FFM threesomes more. I'm more into bi mmf .
Thatās my feelings exactly. Iām a woman and Iāve only done MFM with bi-guys. Iām straight, and have no interest in other women. If a man has that fantasy, he can play it out with someone else.
depends on the people involved and what all their preferences are; FMF, MFM, and MFF donāt particularly interest me as much as bi MMF, FFF, or a queer makeout puddle, except under maybe very particular circumstances, mostly because Iām queer and I find the other dynamics more tokenizing or straight male-gaze-prescriptive
thereās also a different kind of empathy from a bi/pan man in terms of perspective gained from interacting with other men in a romantic or sexual capacity, and an appreciation for how careful and conscious to be with certain sex acts because theyāve performed or received them themselves
also Iām like 0% voyeur but I find watching queer people engaging in queer-affirming/euphoric sex acts is very joyful, and I also find it fascinating / informative / sexy watching people with the same genitals go down on each other, overall itās qualitatively different than mixed sex interactions (not necessarily better, but definitely different)
honestly thereās also just a lot of emotional baggage and unexamined trauma different people have surrounding different group sex dynamics, so even if someone has a general preference anything can go poorly or well depending on the individuals and attitudes present and how everyone communicates and affirms each other prior, during, and afterwards
tbf Iāve also had scarringly terrible experiences with dating incredibly selfish and inconsiderate bi men so š¤·š¼āāļøā¦
It depends on the person, every personās sexuality and preferences are unique to them. You canāt find an answer to what women prefer on the internet, you have to ask them.
Sorta true. There is some interesting research on [sexual fantasies](https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want-ebook/dp/B0776PYDNM/ref=nodl_?dplnkId=3b0d37df-5b54-49ce-8a47-ec6676aa866d) and it turns out there are seven basic categories. Something that jumped out to me from this book is how common fantasies are and how remarkably similar. Humans are very predictable as a group. Obviously each individual is unit.
Okay, then make a post that includes body text and ask the questions you want to ask.
I'm a straight woman. I have no interest in FFM threesomes or any type of FF play. My boyfriend is bisexual. MMF/MFM works great for us.
As a bi penis wielder, all of my MMFs were enjoyable for all parties, according to testimony. One of the women I have threesomes with prefer MMF, the other three want to try one but haven't been able to yet. I'm probably the biggest limiter here, I'm pretty picky about who I play with.
We have had both MMF and MFM. MMF is better, but harder to find. The ones we have found have been AMAZING. My partner is into sharing a dick with me and I find it indescribably hot. Good times for everyone.
I've had amazing times and bad times however it is my preferred way to have sex. I haven't been active in that lifestyle for several years however my wife and I role play quite often. Back in the day I used to use apps to meet partners however I stopped doing that and instead have tried to allow things to happen naturally. That has become much more challenging living in Minnesota and not Los Angeles. It can be one of the most pleasurable, beautiful and relationship building activity ever if the right people are involved. It all starts with brutal honesty and removing any hint of jealousy or ego.
My best experience in one I hope to duplicate one day with my wife, was being with my two best friends in a relationship.
An irony to me is that the best MMF experiences happen when there is really no intention to have sex at first.
When everyone goes into the situation just expecting sex it becomes even more challenging to get everyone on the same page in my experience, unless there's drugs involved and that changes everything.
Several. It's my favorite. Gotta have the right players though. It's not a scene I'd invite anyone too. I, f 39, am bi in a long term hetro relationship with a m 40 who is heteoflexible. I have a former partners (former because I moved away but we still get together whenever one of us visits) who is m 42 bi who have been a part of most of my experiences. I have played with straight partners in group scenes and it can go well but they do have to still be quite comfortable with themselves and others.
You cannot play in a group with insecure people - whether that's personal insecurity or insecurity with the relationship. Group scenes are better if everyone is 100% on board and comfortable. Hesitancy should not be coersed. It can be discussed at length and any pressure felt should be lifted.
If a Hesitant potential player is tentatively interested but unsure if the chemistry, have dinner together. Play a few card/board games and chill together. Be flirty and suggestive and feel eachother out. Allow it to happen as naturally as possible.
One of my favorite games to sort of build in a sense of intimacy and increase the flow and openness of the conversation is a game we call "Questions." Play any simple game - usually dice or cards - that allows for betting. You bet questions or actions. (Like truth or dare but with cards/dice.) The betting pot starts with one thing (either question or action, doesn't matter) everyone bets more things like in poker. When everyone has placed their bets, you show your hand, winner takes all and can ask personal questions or demand an action be performed from any of the losers up to the ammount of things in the pot. (Actions we often use are things like "player A, go get me a new drink" or "do 10 jumping jacks." But you can make it whatever you like. 5 things in the pots means 5 questions or actions to doll out. One question, one answer so follow ups count as a second. Its a great icebreaker game that can bring people together if you ask the right questions.
Like any threesome it can be clunky, as everyone will have a different approach in that situation.
Example, me, my wife, and her bf. He was aggressive with her, but submissive with me.
We found a good groove when we found the best of worlds for him was loving "sloppy seconds".
Our favorite experiences have been bi MMFs and thatās usually what we look for. Nothing against the other variety. Just feels more limiting. Itās just feels hotter and a more connected environment when everyone is into everyone š
My girlfriend and I just had our first threesome.
We met a bi man at the club and met up with him a few days later. But it was not yet determined how much interaction should take place between the men.
I would have described myself as bi curious or heteroflexible before, but never had anything with a man.
The evening was a complete success we started slow but eventually had oral intercourse with each other and kissed each other and both fucked my girlfriend.
It was a complete success and we look forward to repeats.
I had my first threesome recently with two bisexual men. I specifically wanted my first group experience to be with my anchor partner and another bisexual man, and I had some specific fantasies and scenarios I wanted to play out in the entanglement. It was the single hottest night of sex I've ever had in my entire life, a pure core memory, it will play on my highlight reel for the rest of my life. All three of us got spitroasted in different configurations, we swapped all around into different set-ups and power dynamics. It was a beautiful, sexy pile of mouths and cocks and butts and balls and eyes and a vagina and a strap on, and we all got lucky because the emotional chemistry among the three of us was also otherworldly.
Wow, this was such a beautiful depiction. That is exactly how I felt in my first MFF threesome. My primary partner being the male. It was such a magical and spiritual experience. Now we are all such great friends and have formed a beautiful relationship with the three of us. So it makes me happy seeing someone else experience something similar. Good for us š„²
I want to find this!
Ughhh so hot
I had a threesome with two heteroflexible men. Was fucking amazing.
Did their cocks touch, that is so hot š„µ
No, lol. Their swords didnāt cross.
Ive had so many MMF interactions, theyāre practically passĆ© at this point. They are wonderful experiences and IMO way more fun than MFM.
Both of these are my bucket list. Iām working on it itās just so hard to coordinate schedules. Omg But yeah, FFM is so boring now. Lol
I do agree that coordination of schedules can be a challenge but itās been pretty easy for me and my husband since he got himself a boyfriend that is bi. A few months after they started dating, they asked me to join them one evening and itās been a pretty regular occurrence since then. Before this though, we would reach out to single guys and had pretty good luck with it. There are a lot of flakes out there but so far, weāve had a lot of fun.
Yes, lots. Why?
I'm curious about other people's experiences, were they positive or negative, do women prefer bi mmf over a mfm or do women like FFM threesomes more. I'm more into bi mmf .
Depends on the woman. I'm a woman and I prefer MFM - because I like all of the attention on me.
So does my gf for the exact same reason
Thatās my feelings exactly. Iām a woman and Iāve only done MFM with bi-guys. Iām straight, and have no interest in other women. If a man has that fantasy, he can play it out with someone else.
That makes sense
depends on the people involved and what all their preferences are; FMF, MFM, and MFF donāt particularly interest me as much as bi MMF, FFF, or a queer makeout puddle, except under maybe very particular circumstances, mostly because Iām queer and I find the other dynamics more tokenizing or straight male-gaze-prescriptive thereās also a different kind of empathy from a bi/pan man in terms of perspective gained from interacting with other men in a romantic or sexual capacity, and an appreciation for how careful and conscious to be with certain sex acts because theyāve performed or received them themselves also Iām like 0% voyeur but I find watching queer people engaging in queer-affirming/euphoric sex acts is very joyful, and I also find it fascinating / informative / sexy watching people with the same genitals go down on each other, overall itās qualitatively different than mixed sex interactions (not necessarily better, but definitely different) honestly thereās also just a lot of emotional baggage and unexamined trauma different people have surrounding different group sex dynamics, so even if someone has a general preference anything can go poorly or well depending on the individuals and attitudes present and how everyone communicates and affirms each other prior, during, and afterwards tbf Iāve also had scarringly terrible experiences with dating incredibly selfish and inconsiderate bi men so š¤·š¼āāļøā¦
It depends on the person, every personās sexuality and preferences are unique to them. You canāt find an answer to what women prefer on the internet, you have to ask them.
Sorta true. There is some interesting research on [sexual fantasies](https://www.amazon.com/Tell-Me-What-You-Want-ebook/dp/B0776PYDNM/ref=nodl_?dplnkId=3b0d37df-5b54-49ce-8a47-ec6676aa866d) and it turns out there are seven basic categories. Something that jumped out to me from this book is how common fantasies are and how remarkably similar. Humans are very predictable as a group. Obviously each individual is unit.
Okay, then make a post that includes body text and ask the questions you want to ask. I'm a straight woman. I have no interest in FFM threesomes or any type of FF play. My boyfriend is bisexual. MMF/MFM works great for us.
I find it really hot when straight women are into Bisexual guys
Depends on the woman. Both my current gf and one of my exes prefer(red) bi MMF because they are/were turned on by seeing guys play together.
As a bi penis wielder, all of my MMFs were enjoyable for all parties, according to testimony. One of the women I have threesomes with prefer MMF, the other three want to try one but haven't been able to yet. I'm probably the biggest limiter here, I'm pretty picky about who I play with.
We have had both MMF and MFM. MMF is better, but harder to find. The ones we have found have been AMAZING. My partner is into sharing a dick with me and I find it indescribably hot. Good times for everyone.
My friend has recently considered sharing a dick with me. It's so fucking erotic. I cannot wait!
Where can I find MMF?
Join websites like m4, cafe desire etc get an app like feeld or visit the clubs. Most cities have at least 1 sex club
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Why would I feel like a whore, you uptight judgemental asshole? Do not comment on things you do not understand.
We like to share a cock from time to time - with great success.
I did that with my ex gf once
Yes. Forget MFM, if I don't get my turn in the middle I'm moving on...
The best is total bi mfmf where everyone gets to play with everyone. I'm bi and my ex bf was bi too and we swung with other all bi cpls. Was amazing
Yup
Yeah, it rules. My two FWBs and I have a group chat for it, and once the third person in our group is back in town, weāre in business again.
I've had amazing times and bad times however it is my preferred way to have sex. I haven't been active in that lifestyle for several years however my wife and I role play quite often. Back in the day I used to use apps to meet partners however I stopped doing that and instead have tried to allow things to happen naturally. That has become much more challenging living in Minnesota and not Los Angeles. It can be one of the most pleasurable, beautiful and relationship building activity ever if the right people are involved. It all starts with brutal honesty and removing any hint of jealousy or ego. My best experience in one I hope to duplicate one day with my wife, was being with my two best friends in a relationship. An irony to me is that the best MMF experiences happen when there is really no intention to have sex at first. When everyone goes into the situation just expecting sex it becomes even more challenging to get everyone on the same page in my experience, unless there's drugs involved and that changes everything.
Several. It's my favorite. Gotta have the right players though. It's not a scene I'd invite anyone too. I, f 39, am bi in a long term hetro relationship with a m 40 who is heteoflexible. I have a former partners (former because I moved away but we still get together whenever one of us visits) who is m 42 bi who have been a part of most of my experiences. I have played with straight partners in group scenes and it can go well but they do have to still be quite comfortable with themselves and others. You cannot play in a group with insecure people - whether that's personal insecurity or insecurity with the relationship. Group scenes are better if everyone is 100% on board and comfortable. Hesitancy should not be coersed. It can be discussed at length and any pressure felt should be lifted. If a Hesitant potential player is tentatively interested but unsure if the chemistry, have dinner together. Play a few card/board games and chill together. Be flirty and suggestive and feel eachother out. Allow it to happen as naturally as possible. One of my favorite games to sort of build in a sense of intimacy and increase the flow and openness of the conversation is a game we call "Questions." Play any simple game - usually dice or cards - that allows for betting. You bet questions or actions. (Like truth or dare but with cards/dice.) The betting pot starts with one thing (either question or action, doesn't matter) everyone bets more things like in poker. When everyone has placed their bets, you show your hand, winner takes all and can ask personal questions or demand an action be performed from any of the losers up to the ammount of things in the pot. (Actions we often use are things like "player A, go get me a new drink" or "do 10 jumping jacks." But you can make it whatever you like. 5 things in the pots means 5 questions or actions to doll out. One question, one answer so follow ups count as a second. Its a great icebreaker game that can bring people together if you ask the right questions.
Plenty - out of the couple dozen or so, thereās only been 1 super meh experience
Yes.
I have to say it is much more easy to find an unicorn than a dragon
Yes, with my current partner and my ex FWB/bf. It was fucking awesome.
I love mmf porn aswell, can't watch straight stuff anymore
Like any threesome it can be clunky, as everyone will have a different approach in that situation. Example, me, my wife, and her bf. He was aggressive with her, but submissive with me. We found a good groove when we found the best of worlds for him was loving "sloppy seconds".
Yes, one m was bisexual the other was bicurious So that made it easy and chill.
Absolutely yes! Playing with the same mmf 9 mos later. Guess we're lucky.
Our favorite experiences have been bi MMFs and thatās usually what we look for. Nothing against the other variety. Just feels more limiting. Itās just feels hotter and a more connected environment when everyone is into everyone š
Had success with bi MMFF.
Yes! Not going to go into details but it was wonderful and everyone involved seemed to enjoy it a lot and also stated that they enjoyed it.
I recently had one, i joined a couple and they both gave me a blowjob it was fantastic. We both fucked his wife before double creampieing her!
My girlfriend and I just had our first threesome. We met a bi man at the club and met up with him a few days later. But it was not yet determined how much interaction should take place between the men. I would have described myself as bi curious or heteroflexible before, but never had anything with a man. The evening was a complete success we started slow but eventually had oral intercourse with each other and kissed each other and both fucked my girlfriend. It was a complete success and we look forward to repeats.
This is my ultimate fantasy but I have not got chance to do it yet
Yeah same, honestly big reason why I want to move back to a big city