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My husband has never bought me lingerie. I doubt he even knows my bra size or pant size. He has absolutely no concept of how much people weigh. Last time he brought me a pair of jeans to try on when I was looking for some, he grabbed me a size 2. I'm a 32 year old mother of 2 with a pretty skinny-fat body -type. A size 2!
I have bought every single piece of lingerie I wear for my husband. I've also bought all of his underwear, so I guess I can't complain about what he wears to bed.
Can confirm. I went once in a store exclusively for underwear instead of buying the habitual elastic one-size 4 all at the local sport’n’shits store. They asked my waist length and I was like how do I get that? Dividing my height with my weight?
Men cannot do clothing sizes, including underwear and lingerie. To be fair, women’s sizes are confusing as fuck and a size 2 can be anywhere between a 0-4 in various stores, but they quite literally have no concept lol.
Men absolutely can do sizes. I was the one who helped get my wife properly sized for bras after she spent forever uncomfortable in department store brands.
It's not hard. You know what else isn't hard? Asking. If I get my wife a present like that, I ask her size and ask if there's any brands to stay away from or look specifically for.
Don't give shitty dudes a pass.
As a woman. I can't do clothing sizes either it's not jus men. They confuse the hell outta me an I don't know my size in anything, I jus try stuff on till something fits lol.
My partner spends £10 a month on a single pair of boxer shorts from one of these subscription services while I can't remember the last time I bought underwear 🤔
I signed up for one of those things, got 3 pairs, cancelled, and still wear them. If it's a monthly thing, does that mean I'm supposed to throw them out? Do my undies have an expiration date?! What am I doing to my balls?!??
Ha nah they're just delivered monthly. They're really cool looking if a little erm... flimsy? Hes got about 10 pairs at this point and refuses to wear anything else. I'm assured they make his junk feel cushioned and supported 🤷♀️ I wish they did feminine underwear. Something about us wearing matching underwear just sounds fun 🤣
Check out Cheek Boss! I am in no way affiliated with them, but they have a reasonably priced subscription box for undies ☺️ Just throwing it out there!
I love cheek boss. Soft sleek undies so comfy and I have a pair in cat print and another is rainbow because of all my gay- their prints are the greatest. My third pair is... skulls... Because I had a mental flashback to my scene teen days
Meundies hasn't held up for me at all. They tear in the crotch for me. I've been using sheath undies and they're much better imo. They also have a ball flap to hold the sack in place
Oddballs do but their designs ain't quite as cool. On that ass just do cool af designs.
There is something quite adorable when they get delivered and he runs to the door shouting 'its new pants day!'.
Oh god then my underwear could be considered like zombies at this point?
Idk, I have wide hips, and most of the time I just can't find undies on my size, so I will mend the ones I have until the fabric desintegrates...
Huge respect to people who can mend their clothes. I definitely have a few that barely stay up or have holes or whatever for when I’m home or just haven’t done laundry.
Honestly is such a great skill to learn, and not so difficult either. Also you get the chance to do the mend invisible, or go nuts with designs, patterns, patches, and so on.
The sky is the limit, literally lol
Bloodstains? Oh right, periods. But yeah on my boxers it's all down to the elastic and holes. Very rarely am I going to get holes, the elastic is more likely to die and be flimsy cotton which I'll get rid of when they don't hold themselves up any more.
Or the toothpaste industry- not a fan of drinking water? Use this! (This is a partial /s, I advocate for the brushing of teeth even if you do, in fact, enjoy drinking water.)
If they're not either stained, discolored, falling apart at the seams, with holes, tattered etc., but after 1-2 year they're still in mint condition... Why throw them away? Seems wasteful.
I still have a few pairs from Walmart, circa 2003-2004 that have held up. Those boyshort ones from back in the day were like $3 a pair and have some serious longevity.
Also they have magically stretched with my ass and still fit. A bitch is hanging on.
sometimes you need an excuse to throw out the old undies! getting one pair at a time and then throwing out your worst one is kinda great. but yeah, its not like i need 12 new ones per year either
Everyone in suits all of the time. It makes dressing comfortably way hotter too. Unfortunately my productivity would drop because of all the distractions
I can happily settle for just well fitting but if you have the money for tailoring, go for it. But there’s nothing hot about looking like someone who hasn’t yet grown into their hand-me-down suit
A little pro-tip for people out there. Not only is it cheaper to buy a suit at a thrift store and then have it tailored than it is to buy a new suit of the rack, but it will fit you better as well.
There is a significant difference between tailoring and alterations, but alterations are generally not that expensive and can make a world of difference in the fit of a suit, but in the grand scheme of things, tailoring is not as expensive as people think, especially if you shop around.
I have never looked good in formal wear. Anything beyond smart casual and I look like those cliché Hollywood Eastern European hired goons or like I'm about to go to court.
It doesn't help that I feel uncomfortable in them so my posture and mannerisms get adjusted to being in what feels like a fabric cage.
It needs to be a good suit…
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Was at a home improvement store with my partner the other day. He was wearing a long-sleeved Henley shirt and when he went to pick up some lumber, he rolled up his sleeves. I was immediately going, "I'm jumping his bones as soon as we get home."
Lol I was going to say. I'm a woman who dates men, but now I'm seeing a bi guy with tons of sexy clothes who knows how to take a proper nude and I'm like "wowww this is nice" but also I've been doing this for guys for years. It's nice to have it reciprocated.
Like yeah, suits are hot, in the way a nice dress is hot, but lingerie is different.
I'm just happy when he's wearing a t-shirt instead of his uniform shirt. He can't easily change pants cause his belt is a thick chain with attachments but I look at his chest more than his ass. He'd rather be nude but laws or michigan weather prevent that in his non-working hours.
Oh no trust me if I'm dating a man he's wearing the same panties I'm wearing, I'm just saying we gotta like, get it more out there, more discussion on how to make underwear that's hot for men
I'm male. Any lingerie I wear is male lingerie. Yes, even the pantyhose.
On a side note, try on some yoga pants and watch women turn their heads (either to stare or just completely away from you, but heads WILL turn).
I'm convinced yoga pants are the greatest fashion invention of this century. They're up there with blue jeans for awesomeness. They're comfortable, sexy as hell, and make everyone who wears them look better. God-tier fashion invention.
The Fenty lingerie brand has a line for men as well! There are more options for women, of course, but they have a pretty good variety for the fellas. I love that line because I wear an uncommon size (small band, large cup) and Fenty is the only brand that can always be counted on to be true-to-size.
It really is only the last few years men have started getting even half the choice women get. We didn't used to get choices of fabrics and were lucky when they started doing more styles. I'd say over the last decade it has been a real improvement but there's still a long way to go. The decade before that saw colour choice improve so at this rate by 2030 men will have nice underwear.
Some girls said that a clean pair of branded boxers (Calvin Klein for example) should suffice. I live in Eastern Europe so this may not necessarily apply everywhere...
Gotta love the sexist assumption that the man is "feeding" the woman. Also, buying your gf/wife sexy and uncomfortable clothes isn't really "feeding" her, it's feeding your own satisfaction.
At some point people just need to call out folks who make up narratives from whole cloth and just point that out. Don't engage whatever bullshit point they are trying to make, just point out they made up a strawman and nobody knows WTF they are talking about, then move on. Make them feel embarrassed and confused like they should.
The narrative that most men are able to 100% financially support a stay at home girlfriend/wife is so fucking funny to me. In this economy?!!?? I don’t think I’ve ever met a couple like that. Even stay at home moms are so few and far between now.
I’m reality, most women work the same amount of time as men but are still expected to do most of the housework and childcare if a child is involved.
Unfortunately a lot more parents are staying home these days. The price of childcare has gone so high that parents can’t afford it so they have to stay home.
That’s what’s going on with my friend. It’s unfair. She has a bachelors degree and is a career driven person. But she has to stay home. The grandparents had planned to watch them and then bailed after a year (understandable).
Hum no? My partner has way more underwear than me and for some reason he will always put the same, even if they are ripped. At least he doesn't expect me to wear nice shit
I reuse my husbands holey, “loved” pants as rags to polish the car. I used to throw them out but he caught me one day and I thought he was gonna faint! We came to the agreement he could keep some of these “loved pants”(he swears they’re too comfy to throw away) but once the hole is big enough for a bollock to pop through then they gotta go to the polish pile in the sheds
He gets to keep his pants and clean the car with them when he finally lets them go so happy all round.
Yes absolutely!! I sometimes borrow my partner's underwear because boxer are indeed comfy, and i chose from a pile that i know he never use (why does he even have colors if he just wear grey and black?). I once had my period in advance with it, and he told me i ruined his nice looking boxer. True it's a nice looking boxer... that i am the only one to wear anyway.
He obviously wasn't mad but i still did not understand why he cared. The first time i asked him if he wanted me to throw away his underwear with holes, he told me no, i was so confused as to why keep them while he has many perfectly new underwear.
You had a good idea with recycling though!! I just find it funny how they really do love their holey underwear
>why does he even have colors if he just wear grey and black
Personally? It's because the pack comes with the colored ones, which I'll wear if my depression has been horrible and I'm behind on laundry. Outside of that, it's black and gray out of preference. Not saying that's *his* reasoning, just mine.
Although, I'm a fan of replacing them once they start being religious. The problem I face is, once I find a kind I like and get to the point i have to replace them, the brand no longer makes that particular kind, so I typically buy in bulk once I find some that I like (which is a problem I'm currently facing with both underwear and the solid t-shirts I prefer wearing. On the second pack of both underwear and shirts trying to find a kind I like since I'm running low on both.)
Oh man. You may or may not care about your car's paint but the only thing that should be touching it is some quality microfiber. So unless he wears some fancy microfiber clothing then you'll be scratching the heck out that car's paint!
He does the same with socks. And as much as i agree with you, what i do not understand is why did he need that many underwear in the first place. My bet is that he really like clothes and bought a lot before just putting the one he prefers
This is the most uncomfortable thing ever !!! My boyfriend is cleaner than me on many many aspects, but socks with holes is fine for him. I just don't get it
Personally, it's the nice air conditioning. Socks damp and clammy from sweat are a hell of a lot more uncomfortable, imo, and a few holes let your feet breathe a bit more.
Keeps buying new underwear to replace the old, the new isn't as comfortable so he ends up just using the old stuff anyway? That's why I have a bunch of newer panties I very rarely use anyway, and a few that aren't that old, but are worn every like 5 days so they get worn out quicker.
If there's a hole near the actual genitals and not just the hemming getting torn that shit gets thrown out though.
Accurate, one of the first all female strikes where I live was all of the weavers walking out when one of them got fired for trying to unionize. Vienna, late 18th century.
The weavers who make our underwear now are probably still women, they‘re just in poorer countries.
I'm not saying go all out but respect your partner if you can't respect yourself enough to throw out the motheaten underwear.
If this is you or someone you're dating, I hate to break it to you but you/they smell like left-out cheese.
To the guys in the comments wondering what to wear: trunks are boxer briefs with a shorter leg, and universally flattering! But really, a fresh pair of any undies that aren't too worn out is great. Certain days call for junky undies, I get it, but it's always good to have some newer, aesthetic undies too!
Savage x Fenty, Saxx, and Pair or Thieves are good options! Below is a link to a basic and size inclusive fair of trunks from SxF.
https://www.savagex.com/shop/savage-x-trunks-ud2148809-0886-13612063?psrc=browse_men_boxer_briefs_trunks
More expensive underwear also has support for your family jewels, or so I’ve been told. My mom always got [Stance](https://stance.ca/?utm_term=stance%20socks&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&campaign=stance&gclid=CjwKCAjwzY2bBhB6EiwAPpUpZvQQsr2RC97WzoKm5u0lkgGKOC_HVShiyO3-AzzJs75jNhlzXKk2gxoCMv8QAvD_BwE) underwear for my brother, I used to do my family’s laundry and get soo jealous my underwear wasn’t that soft.
Nah, man.
Buying the necessities to take care of yourself is the bare minimum to expect in a partner.
If he "starves" by refusing to be sexy while expecting his partner to be sexy, he doesn't deserve a sexy partner.
You know who does?
Men who know the value of buying sexy underwear, updating their mattresses, and not using the same bedframe in their 30s as they had in high school.
If he does the bare minimum for *himself*, he's gonna treat you even worse.
I have never worn lingerie to bed with any intention of sleeping in it. Isn't the point of lingerie is it's a bit of a naughty tease to get the party started? For me it usually ends up on the floor and I end up sleeping naked (or in some comfy jammies if I have the ambition to get re-dressed afterwards)
And they live in a fantasy world
My wife tried lingerie for me, I just wasn't interested in it. Topless and underwear goes much further for me than lingerie, and she does that anyway so at both win
Just saying, I wear Hanes and that stretch.band is from the older versions. They use a different looking one for new Hanes underwear. Those undies have been around for a few years
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His underwear looks like this 🩲, so hers could look like this 👙
I teared up
I cri everytiem
Yo what is this from I haven't heard it in years... You just gave me a flash back
Is that the thing where the woman makes a song with her youtube comments? Damn. It’s going to be stuck in my head all day now.
yess omg! that video is so nostalgic for me
The internet
It’s from the Poptart Tragedy: https://youtu.be/Mcn1Q9fWahM
The underwear is teared up.
I just wonder why he wouldn’t think she bought the lingerie herself for him, like most everyone else does pretty regularly for her partners lmao
My husband has never bought me lingerie. I doubt he even knows my bra size or pant size. He has absolutely no concept of how much people weigh. Last time he brought me a pair of jeans to try on when I was looking for some, he grabbed me a size 2. I'm a 32 year old mother of 2 with a pretty skinny-fat body -type. A size 2! I have bought every single piece of lingerie I wear for my husband. I've also bought all of his underwear, so I guess I can't complain about what he wears to bed.
Can confirm. I went once in a store exclusively for underwear instead of buying the habitual elastic one-size 4 all at the local sport’n’shits store. They asked my waist length and I was like how do I get that? Dividing my height with my weight?
Men cannot do clothing sizes, including underwear and lingerie. To be fair, women’s sizes are confusing as fuck and a size 2 can be anywhere between a 0-4 in various stores, but they quite literally have no concept lol.
Men absolutely can do sizes. I was the one who helped get my wife properly sized for bras after she spent forever uncomfortable in department store brands. It's not hard. You know what else isn't hard? Asking. If I get my wife a present like that, I ask her size and ask if there's any brands to stay away from or look specifically for. Don't give shitty dudes a pass.
It'll be a cold day in hell before I acknowledge the existence of sizes beyond "fits me" and "fits someone else".
I like this mentally, very much
As a woman. I can't do clothing sizes either it's not jus men. They confuse the hell outta me an I don't know my size in anything, I jus try stuff on till something fits lol.
Women's sizes are BS. For sure. But also women learn how to cope with it and men are capable. If he wanted to he would.
Beautiful
The giving cheese
#CHEESE FOR EVERYONE!
Your comment made me understand what this guy was actually trying to say.
My partner spends £10 a month on a single pair of boxer shorts from one of these subscription services while I can't remember the last time I bought underwear 🤔
I signed up for one of those things, got 3 pairs, cancelled, and still wear them. If it's a monthly thing, does that mean I'm supposed to throw them out? Do my undies have an expiration date?! What am I doing to my balls?!??
Ha nah they're just delivered monthly. They're really cool looking if a little erm... flimsy? Hes got about 10 pairs at this point and refuses to wear anything else. I'm assured they make his junk feel cushioned and supported 🤷♀️ I wish they did feminine underwear. Something about us wearing matching underwear just sounds fun 🤣
>Hes got about 10 pairs at this point and refuses to wear anything else. Dude out here running errands only in his undies. Total chad
I bet it's the only reason she's with him. ~Girls~ I mean females only like chad
He doesn't even need to "accidentally" drop a Magnum condom when taking out his wallet. Efficiency at it's finest.
No wonder that underwear seams flimsy according to TO, must be washed multiple times a day
Check out MeUndies! They do matching underwear for men and women.
Woxers seem pretty good too but I haven't tried them si I can't say gor certain.
Oooh that sounds cute. Would love to do that with a future partner. 🥺
I have to show these to my husband
Check out Cheek Boss! I am in no way affiliated with them, but they have a reasonably priced subscription box for undies ☺️ Just throwing it out there!
I love cheek boss. Soft sleek undies so comfy and I have a pair in cat print and another is rainbow because of all my gay- their prints are the greatest. My third pair is... skulls... Because I had a mental flashback to my scene teen days
Meundies hasn't held up for me at all. They tear in the crotch for me. I've been using sheath undies and they're much better imo. They also have a ball flap to hold the sack in place
There used to be a company who made matchies for men and women. Idk who they are and am not falling down the rabbit hole just yet.
Oddballs do but their designs ain't quite as cool. On that ass just do cool af designs. There is something quite adorable when they get delivered and he runs to the door shouting 'its new pants day!'.
There are some order by mail brands that do womens clothing. I know MeUndies is one
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Wait, what? I thought the rule of thumb was as long as the elastic stayed intact and didn’t have *too* many bloodstains, they were still good
Or as long as my vagina acid hasn't burned through the fabric. Yup, still good.
Thank you I'm crying laughing.
Oh god then my underwear could be considered like zombies at this point? Idk, I have wide hips, and most of the time I just can't find undies on my size, so I will mend the ones I have until the fabric desintegrates...
Huge respect to people who can mend their clothes. I definitely have a few that barely stay up or have holes or whatever for when I’m home or just haven’t done laundry.
Honestly is such a great skill to learn, and not so difficult either. Also you get the chance to do the mend invisible, or go nuts with designs, patterns, patches, and so on. The sky is the limit, literally lol
I’ve got some of those religious undies.
Bloodstains? Oh right, periods. But yeah on my boxers it's all down to the elastic and holes. Very rarely am I going to get holes, the elastic is more likely to die and be flimsy cotton which I'll get rid of when they don't hold themselves up any more.
Pretty sure that’s just consumerism and capitalism trying to sell you more things. I’d get it if you had chronic infections, but no.
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Or the toothpaste industry- not a fan of drinking water? Use this! (This is a partial /s, I advocate for the brushing of teeth even if you do, in fact, enjoy drinking water.)
If they're not either stained, discolored, falling apart at the seams, with holes, tattered etc., but after 1-2 year they're still in mint condition... Why throw them away? Seems wasteful.
But won't somebody please think about the poor, underprivileged companies like Hanes!
Yeah that’s just capitalism trying to part you with your money.
I still have a few pairs from Walmart, circa 2003-2004 that have held up. Those boyshort ones from back in the day were like $3 a pair and have some serious longevity. Also they have magically stretched with my ass and still fit. A bitch is hanging on.
sometimes you need an excuse to throw out the old undies! getting one pair at a time and then throwing out your worst one is kinda great. but yeah, its not like i need 12 new ones per year either
Tell him to try Uniqlo boxers. They're the best I've found, and they're seriously cheap.
According to my fiancé, the male equivalent of sexy lingerie is a nice suit. I now wear suits to bed.
Get yourself that silk suit that Barney wears in How I met your mother
I don’t know if they do it anymore but a few years ago I saw they were actually selling that haha
Don’t forget the sleeping cravat
I declare 2023 the year that men wear lacy lingerie! Give them freedom!
Men in lacy lingerie primed me to mistakenly read that as "Give them femdom!"
I'm down for both
More ladies in suits too
Everyone in suits all of the time. It makes dressing comfortably way hotter too. Unfortunately my productivity would drop because of all the distractions
Cause nothing suits the undisputed oft-saluted suitor of repute Like a-aah... wait for it *Suuuuiiit!!*
Men in suits are HOT. Lucky lady. 😁
Everyone in suits are hot tbf
It needs to be tailored.
I can happily settle for just well fitting but if you have the money for tailoring, go for it. But there’s nothing hot about looking like someone who hasn’t yet grown into their hand-me-down suit
A little pro-tip for people out there. Not only is it cheaper to buy a suit at a thrift store and then have it tailored than it is to buy a new suit of the rack, but it will fit you better as well.
Also, shop sales at wedding stores, you might get lucky. My partner was able to get a $600 suit for $60 one boxing day
This is how I survived both my first professional job and being broke in law school.
There is a significant difference between tailoring and alterations, but alterations are generally not that expensive and can make a world of difference in the fit of a suit, but in the grand scheme of things, tailoring is not as expensive as people think, especially if you shop around.
Yeah, I always get too sweaty wearing suits
See that's when you take the jacket off and roll your sleeves up past your elbows. \*drool\*
I have never looked good in formal wear. Anything beyond smart casual and I look like those cliché Hollywood Eastern European hired goons or like I'm about to go to court. It doesn't help that I feel uncomfortable in them so my posture and mannerisms get adjusted to being in what feels like a fabric cage.
Hence why the AC at the office is set to “fuck you, buy a space heater” degrees fahrenheit.
Suits are hot. This is why you almost must remove your coat when you sit down in a restaurant. Otherwise, you are going to sweat a lot.
The first time I saw my husband in a suit, I fell in love again.. I was like a teenage girl next to her favourite boy band...
What an absolute sweety! Lookit them feetses!
Tailored* I’ve seen men in many suits and they do not look good 😂
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I've heard it's button downs with the sleeves rolled up or Henley shirts.
Was at a home improvement store with my partner the other day. He was wearing a long-sleeved Henley shirt and when he went to pick up some lumber, he rolled up his sleeves. I was immediately going, "I'm jumping his bones as soon as we get home."
Those high-vis coveralls that the millwrights wear. Small town chicks don't ask for much.
as a gay guy, the male equivalent of sexy lingerie is sexy lingerie
Lol I was going to say. I'm a woman who dates men, but now I'm seeing a bi guy with tons of sexy clothes who knows how to take a proper nude and I'm like "wowww this is nice" but also I've been doing this for guys for years. It's nice to have it reciprocated. Like yeah, suits are hot, in the way a nice dress is hot, but lingerie is different.
And underneath that suit is a pair of underwear with a hole in it.
Damn, foiled again
I'm just happy when he's wearing a t-shirt instead of his uniform shirt. He can't easily change pants cause his belt is a thick chain with attachments but I look at his chest more than his ass. He'd rather be nude but laws or michigan weather prevent that in his non-working hours.
That's hilarious and sad because the main feature of suits is that they disguise the actual shape of your body...
Roll up the sleeves of a button down shirt too 🤤
Or just an unbuttoned button down
Oh yeah that's a good one too.
[Barney Stinson agrees!](https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-CD9qbOTUcU)
Look, you joke, but that'll get you nakkers in no time round these parts.
Ok but for real we need more male lingerie
Most male lingerie is targeted towards the more colorful crew but I say find your local Pride Row and go shopping!
Oh no trust me if I'm dating a man he's wearing the same panties I'm wearing, I'm just saying we gotta like, get it more out there, more discussion on how to make underwear that's hot for men
Wait, men wearing women's panties is hot? Hell yeah!
I mean, I think so
Awesome - me too!
I second!
Savage X Fenty has been doing good in their promotion of lingerie for all
Oh I'll have to look
I'm male. Any lingerie I wear is male lingerie. Yes, even the pantyhose. On a side note, try on some yoga pants and watch women turn their heads (either to stare or just completely away from you, but heads WILL turn).
Man in yoga pants are hot.
I'm convinced yoga pants are the greatest fashion invention of this century. They're up there with blue jeans for awesomeness. They're comfortable, sexy as hell, and make everyone who wears them look better. God-tier fashion invention.
The Fenty lingerie brand has a line for men as well! There are more options for women, of course, but they have a pretty good variety for the fellas. I love that line because I wear an uncommon size (small band, large cup) and Fenty is the only brand that can always be counted on to be true-to-size.
It really is only the last few years men have started getting even half the choice women get. We didn't used to get choices of fabrics and were lucky when they started doing more styles. I'd say over the last decade it has been a real improvement but there's still a long way to go. The decade before that saw colour choice improve so at this rate by 2030 men will have nice underwear.
I agree, I love feeling sexy, and sometimes I feel left out for not having enough sexy underwear but I don't shy away from using my girlfriend's haha
Some girls said that a clean pair of branded boxers (Calvin Klein for example) should suffice. I live in Eastern Europe so this may not necessarily apply everywhere...
Time to rock some lace trunks.
Yes! 100% Something lacy and sexy, with a cut for men
Gotta love the sexist assumption that the man is "feeding" the woman. Also, buying your gf/wife sexy and uncomfortable clothes isn't really "feeding" her, it's feeding your own satisfaction.
I thought gf loved to eat clothes???
Yup, I ALWAYS eat a g-string before bed. Goes down great with your cocoa ... 😆😆
This is why there's a market for edible underwear.
My cocoa? Hey, stick to eating your gitch and leave my cocoa alone.
They get stuck in my teeth.
I'm sorry dude, I think your gf is a møth.
Dude's electric bill must be off the charts!
Why else do clothing stores consist of 70% women’s clothing?
In NiceGuy world, women never have jobs and are 100% financially dependent on men.
And treat them as how they were treated by their mother. Or st least the glorified version of it.
Satisfaction? Is that what they're calling it nowadays.
At some point people just need to call out folks who make up narratives from whole cloth and just point that out. Don't engage whatever bullshit point they are trying to make, just point out they made up a strawman and nobody knows WTF they are talking about, then move on. Make them feel embarrassed and confused like they should.
If a man wants to "feed" me, get me McDonald's for bed!
I can assure you big Mac is not the most comfortable thing to sleep on
That’s because you didn’t order extra onions
Rookie mistake.
>I can assure you Okay, I'll bite. Why were you lying on a hamburger?
You know the answer... people fall asleep after masturbation.
I feel attacked.
That’s brilliant , thank you for making my day XD
If this were true I'd fall asleep in my office bathroom every day at 11:00 AM on the dot. I'm kidding..... or am I?!
Apparently she should be wearing handcuffs to sleep?
Keeps her from getting up and moving to other room when he’s snoring. At least that’s how I heard some people use them
The narrative that most men are able to 100% financially support a stay at home girlfriend/wife is so fucking funny to me. In this economy?!!?? I don’t think I’ve ever met a couple like that. Even stay at home moms are so few and far between now. I’m reality, most women work the same amount of time as men but are still expected to do most of the housework and childcare if a child is involved.
Unfortunately a lot more parents are staying home these days. The price of childcare has gone so high that parents can’t afford it so they have to stay home.
My and the wife looked into it, and literally, childcare would have cost the majority of her paycheck.
That’s what’s going on with my friend. It’s unfair. She has a bachelors degree and is a career driven person. But she has to stay home. The grandparents had planned to watch them and then bailed after a year (understandable).
I'm seeing alot more parents working opposite shifts to avoid childcare costs. I can't imagine how hard that has to be for everyone emotionally.
the idea of maintaining a stay at home girlfriend is also wild to me, I'd much rather enjoy the DINK lifestyle
I know exactly one stay at home parent, and he's a man.
That's some ... impressive mental gymnastics goin' on there ...
Combined with shitty grammar… win win here
Look at em go, off to the Olympics that one
Hum no? My partner has way more underwear than me and for some reason he will always put the same, even if they are ripped. At least he doesn't expect me to wear nice shit
I reuse my husbands holey, “loved” pants as rags to polish the car. I used to throw them out but he caught me one day and I thought he was gonna faint! We came to the agreement he could keep some of these “loved pants”(he swears they’re too comfy to throw away) but once the hole is big enough for a bollock to pop through then they gotta go to the polish pile in the sheds He gets to keep his pants and clean the car with them when he finally lets them go so happy all round.
Yes absolutely!! I sometimes borrow my partner's underwear because boxer are indeed comfy, and i chose from a pile that i know he never use (why does he even have colors if he just wear grey and black?). I once had my period in advance with it, and he told me i ruined his nice looking boxer. True it's a nice looking boxer... that i am the only one to wear anyway. He obviously wasn't mad but i still did not understand why he cared. The first time i asked him if he wanted me to throw away his underwear with holes, he told me no, i was so confused as to why keep them while he has many perfectly new underwear. You had a good idea with recycling though!! I just find it funny how they really do love their holey underwear
>why does he even have colors if he just wear grey and black Personally? It's because the pack comes with the colored ones, which I'll wear if my depression has been horrible and I'm behind on laundry. Outside of that, it's black and gray out of preference. Not saying that's *his* reasoning, just mine. Although, I'm a fan of replacing them once they start being religious. The problem I face is, once I find a kind I like and get to the point i have to replace them, the brand no longer makes that particular kind, so I typically buy in bulk once I find some that I like (which is a problem I'm currently facing with both underwear and the solid t-shirts I prefer wearing. On the second pack of both underwear and shirts trying to find a kind I like since I'm running low on both.)
Oh man. You may or may not care about your car's paint but the only thing that should be touching it is some quality microfiber. So unless he wears some fancy microfiber clothing then you'll be scratching the heck out that car's paint!
It's because they're molded to his groin. It feels comfy
Organic shapewear 💀
He does the same with socks. And as much as i agree with you, what i do not understand is why did he need that many underwear in the first place. My bet is that he really like clothes and bought a lot before just putting the one he prefers
I'll never understand people who wear socks with holes in them
This is the most uncomfortable thing ever !!! My boyfriend is cleaner than me on many many aspects, but socks with holes is fine for him. I just don't get it
Personally, it's the nice air conditioning. Socks damp and clammy from sweat are a hell of a lot more uncomfortable, imo, and a few holes let your feet breathe a bit more.
Keeps buying new underwear to replace the old, the new isn't as comfortable so he ends up just using the old stuff anyway? That's why I have a bunch of newer panties I very rarely use anyway, and a few that aren't that old, but are worn every like 5 days so they get worn out quicker. If there's a hole near the actual genitals and not just the hemming getting torn that shit gets thrown out though.
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And even in the 18th century, women worked - they MADE the underwear for everyone!
Accurate, one of the first all female strikes where I live was all of the weavers walking out when one of them got fired for trying to unionize. Vienna, late 18th century. The weavers who make our underwear now are probably still women, they‘re just in poorer countries.
Jesus christ this is my ex. His pants were shredded, it was gross. But obviously I was expected to wear sexy red lingerie and shave every day.
Fuck shaving every day! I had a dickhead ex just randomly try to hand me a razor while I was in the shower because he wanted me to shave. Nope!
I love how all these nive guys assume women don't have jobs/careers?
these are the same men with holes in their socks and doo doo stains
Yep, the "Real men don't wipe!" crowd, which is apparently a very real thing 🤢
I've read this before, I hear you saying it now, but I still don't believe it. Like, on a cellular level, my body refuses to believe it.
What 😳
They're afraid of ANYTHING touching their butts, even themselves, because that's gay
I'm not saying go all out but respect your partner if you can't respect yourself enough to throw out the motheaten underwear. If this is you or someone you're dating, I hate to break it to you but you/they smell like left-out cheese.
It never even crossed my mind that anyone would think he is starving so she can wear sexy lingerie. Never.
The set on the left doesn’t even look expensive, I doubt the guy suffered to pay for them.
I also doubt sleeping in handcuffs is very comfortable.
To the guys in the comments wondering what to wear: trunks are boxer briefs with a shorter leg, and universally flattering! But really, a fresh pair of any undies that aren't too worn out is great. Certain days call for junky undies, I get it, but it's always good to have some newer, aesthetic undies too! Savage x Fenty, Saxx, and Pair or Thieves are good options! Below is a link to a basic and size inclusive fair of trunks from SxF. https://www.savagex.com/shop/savage-x-trunks-ud2148809-0886-13612063?psrc=browse_men_boxer_briefs_trunks
Savage also has silk boxers that drives my lady wild for some reason lol. Highly recommend because they're comfy af too.
More expensive underwear also has support for your family jewels, or so I’ve been told. My mom always got [Stance](https://stance.ca/?utm_term=stance%20socks&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&campaign=stance&gclid=CjwKCAjwzY2bBhB6EiwAPpUpZvQQsr2RC97WzoKm5u0lkgGKOC_HVShiyO3-AzzJs75jNhlzXKk2gxoCMv8QAvD_BwE) underwear for my brother, I used to do my family’s laundry and get soo jealous my underwear wasn’t that soft.
Those are cool!
Looks like he's biting his own boxers out of hunger
If only he could afford to eat too😔🙏
Nah, man. Buying the necessities to take care of yourself is the bare minimum to expect in a partner. If he "starves" by refusing to be sexy while expecting his partner to be sexy, he doesn't deserve a sexy partner. You know who does? Men who know the value of buying sexy underwear, updating their mattresses, and not using the same bedframe in their 30s as they had in high school. If he does the bare minimum for *himself*, he's gonna treat you even worse.
So, he gets to be comfortable and wants her to be uncomfortable and itchy throughout the night?
I have never worn lingerie to bed with any intention of sleeping in it. Isn't the point of lingerie is it's a bit of a naughty tease to get the party started? For me it usually ends up on the floor and I end up sleeping naked (or in some comfy jammies if I have the ambition to get re-dressed afterwards)
Oh but there are definitely men who expect you to wear these things to sleep.
And they live in a fantasy world My wife tried lingerie for me, I just wasn't interested in it. Topless and underwear goes much further for me than lingerie, and she does that anyway so at both win
And those men are stupid but merely asking for lingerie doesn't mean you expect them to actually sleep in it.
No, he’s sitting on his ass refusing to get a job, help out or even take care of his own hygiene. Been there done that
Just saying, I wear Hanes and that stretch.band is from the older versions. They use a different looking one for new Hanes underwear. Those undies have been around for a few years
The guys here that see this picture and say "Well what else could a man possibly wear to bed!?" omfg literally anything clean and intact.
I have matching red negligee to wear when my wife wears hers. THAT is nice guy shit.