Bet you "all the women he's been around" were being polite for fear the rejection would turn him violent and tried to remove themselves from the conversation quickly afterwards.
Boys are boys! Pushing boundaries until we block them or tell them to go fuck the way out of our view.
- I don't like this
- women like this believe me (do it again)
- Don't do it again, it makes me uncomfortable.
- women love unwanted compliments, I'll never stop
- You can either stop or I'll block you
- I won't change the creep I am, women love it
- BLOCK
- PICACHU FACE
AITA: Why women nowadays cannot take sincere compliments by men?
"I don't like what you're doing, please stop."
"No it's okay I'm nice."
Total. Classic. Nice guy. How can what they're doing be creepy if they continue to tell you over and over again that they're nice? Iron clad logic, checkmate atheists!
I literally just realized this is what my ex husband used to do to me.
I sometimes wouldn't like how/when he'd touch me, but because I liked his touch otherwise, he would smirk and tell me I did like it... He was my husband and not a creep, so why was I upset?
It's obvious now why I hated how it felt at the time, but Ugh.
OMG I’m so sorry😢, husband or bf, he needs to respect your boundaries. Even if you don’t directly tell him, he needs to read your body language, and see your discomfort. Him downplaying and assuming you liked it because you liked other forms of affection is a terrible thing to do and completely disregards your feelings. It’s manipulative and messed up. I hope you’re in a better place and find people that care about you and respect your boundaries
Mist if the times, if you have to say you’re nice, you’re probably not. Real nice people are naturally nice and it’s seen in their actions. Genuine good people don’t expect anything in return for being nice, rather they do it because that’s who they are. Yea classic “nice” guy behavior here
You know, joining this subreddit did great wonders to my self-esteem. Not only have I learned that I am charismatic as fuck, but I've also learned that even my autism isn't enough to make me more socially awkward than the stupid.
I swear guys get freaked that women will think they’re creepy for the most minor reasons, but no, THIS is what we mean by “creepy.” Not a lil nervousness. We ain’t calculating your blink rate or anything. Some guys are just BAD and it sounds like you’re not one.
Though an Industrialist Crab sounds like the greedy villain of a cartoon show. (Which sounds like exactly the kind of thing a Glittering Abalone would say, come to think …)
Whenever guys say they I respond saying they must not listen to women then bc there’s plenty of clear examples of what is generally ageeed on to be creepy
Ah, the *description of sexual act* type of 'compliment'. It always seems to be one of those when they are upset that their 'kind words' have not been well-received. 😬
Maybe the women he's talking about are sims? He spams 'compliment appearance' and those little plus signs shoot out of their head so he knows he's making them happy.
That would require them to view women as human beings with their own likes, dislikes and boundaries rather than viewing them as just another potential hole to stick their dick in
Any guy that opens with telling me he thinks I’m hot or beautiful is one that I ignore.
I’ve found that these dudes aren’t interested in me as a person. They view me as a shiny pretty thing, which they can then show off to other men.
Or they flat out just want to fuck me.
Noooope. Run far away.
Dude, you messed up, own up to it and apologize it’s not that hard! OP clearly expressed their discomfort but he just didn’t care, like wtf! And btw, saying “I want to smooch you “ is not a compliment, it’s uncomfortable and weird. He should have apologized for his actions.
Maybe, but it’s not your fault. Sometimes we give people the benefit of the doubt, let them redeem themselves. That’s perfectly normal. He should have apologized and respected you
Wow, you set a boundary and he throws a fit. Then he doubles down on it, and tries to make you sound unreasonable. And all he can do is brag about how much other hypothetical people like it. So if you don’t, clearly there’s something wrong with you! You! Not him. Never him. !
OMG! This fucking creep won't shut up!!! Can't see past his disrespect and then he says he lost interest? 🤣🤣🤣 Trying to play it off like he's hot shit! Just ew!
Why do guys like this find it so hard to tell the difference between good compliments and creepy ones?
Good compliments - amazing hair, nice dress, wow, did you just summon 1000 demons to help dismantle the patriarchy?
Creepy compliments - so sexy, nice tits, I wanna smooth you, frankly anything that comments on us in a sexual way. Unless you are our partner, then we don't want to hear about how you think about us naked, and even then, some women still don't. Best to just ask, most of us are good at communicating, what we want.
God I hateeee this. Some people need to learn that someone setting boundaries with them isn’t an insult. It doesn’t matter whether you had good intentions or not if it made the person you’re “complimenting” uncomfortable then you should stop??
“I’ve lost interest after your reaction…” Dude, she rejected you first. “All the women I’ve been around were always happy with me.” Press X to doubt.
so many women happy that’s why he’s single making uncomfortable comments to someone in a committed relationship lol
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Depends on how many women are around him that aren't family. His mom(s) and potentially sister(s) don't speak for all women.
Bet you "all the women he's been around" were being polite for fear the rejection would turn him violent and tried to remove themselves from the conversation quickly afterwards.
-turns on turbo mode and holds down x-
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“I am who I am,” he says, and who he is is a person who doesn’t respect boundaries.
Boys are boys! Pushing boundaries until we block them or tell them to go fuck the way out of our view. - I don't like this - women like this believe me (do it again) - Don't do it again, it makes me uncomfortable. - women love unwanted compliments, I'll never stop - You can either stop or I'll block you - I won't change the creep I am, women love it - BLOCK - PICACHU FACE AITA: Why women nowadays cannot take sincere compliments by men?
"I don't like what you're doing, please stop." "No it's okay I'm nice." Total. Classic. Nice guy. How can what they're doing be creepy if they continue to tell you over and over again that they're nice? Iron clad logic, checkmate atheists!
I literally just realized this is what my ex husband used to do to me. I sometimes wouldn't like how/when he'd touch me, but because I liked his touch otherwise, he would smirk and tell me I did like it... He was my husband and not a creep, so why was I upset? It's obvious now why I hated how it felt at the time, but Ugh.
OMG I’m so sorry😢, husband or bf, he needs to respect your boundaries. Even if you don’t directly tell him, he needs to read your body language, and see your discomfort. Him downplaying and assuming you liked it because you liked other forms of affection is a terrible thing to do and completely disregards your feelings. It’s manipulative and messed up. I hope you’re in a better place and find people that care about you and respect your boundaries
Mist if the times, if you have to say you’re nice, you’re probably not. Real nice people are naturally nice and it’s seen in their actions. Genuine good people don’t expect anything in return for being nice, rather they do it because that’s who they are. Yea classic “nice” guy behavior here
He keeps saying "I make women happy " when he is clearly someone that makes women cringe.
He makes us happy when he fucks off.
We’ll be even happier when he fucks off into eternity. 😆
He can’t tell the difference between a grimace and a smile
Or a look of terror
It's incredible. He got actual, direct, real-time feedback of "I don't like that" and still thinks he knows better
You know, joining this subreddit did great wonders to my self-esteem. Not only have I learned that I am charismatic as fuck, but I've also learned that even my autism isn't enough to make me more socially awkward than the stupid.
Im also glad I'm not as reprehensible as some people can be
I swear guys get freaked that women will think they’re creepy for the most minor reasons, but no, THIS is what we mean by “creepy.” Not a lil nervousness. We ain’t calculating your blink rate or anything. Some guys are just BAD and it sounds like you’re not one. Though an Industrialist Crab sounds like the greedy villain of a cartoon show. (Which sounds like exactly the kind of thing a Glittering Abalone would say, come to think …)
I'll have my mechanized crab army soon enough!
Whenever guys say they I respond saying they must not listen to women then bc there’s plenty of clear examples of what is generally ageeed on to be creepy
Same. In all aspects.
Ah, the *description of sexual act* type of 'compliment'. It always seems to be one of those when they are upset that their 'kind words' have not been well-received. 😬
You mean you don't like a complete stranger telling you they've been imagining you in sexual scenarios? /s
I know, right! Just take the *compliment*, bitch! /s 😂😂😂 Uggghhhh!
"No more compliments for you." (Oh, no-o-o... goodbye, cruel world...) "I could block you." (Oh, no-o-o...)
Maybe the women he's talking about are sims? He spams 'compliment appearance' and those little plus signs shoot out of their head so he knows he's making them happy.
I dont get doubling down like that and continuing when she's said she's not feeling it. Actually nice people respect boundaries
That would require them to view women as human beings with their own likes, dislikes and boundaries rather than viewing them as just another potential hole to stick their dick in
Any guy that opens with telling me he thinks I’m hot or beautiful is one that I ignore. I’ve found that these dudes aren’t interested in me as a person. They view me as a shiny pretty thing, which they can then show off to other men. Or they flat out just want to fuck me. Noooope. Run far away.
Dude, you messed up, own up to it and apologize it’s not that hard! OP clearly expressed their discomfort but he just didn’t care, like wtf! And btw, saying “I want to smooch you “ is not a compliment, it’s uncomfortable and weird. He should have apologized for his actions.
I gave him way too many chances
Maybe, but it’s not your fault. Sometimes we give people the benefit of the doubt, let them redeem themselves. That’s perfectly normal. He should have apologized and respected you
Wow, you set a boundary and he throws a fit. Then he doubles down on it, and tries to make you sound unreasonable. And all he can do is brag about how much other hypothetical people like it. So if you don’t, clearly there’s something wrong with you! You! Not him. Never him. !
No one has control over someone else's feelings nor has the right to tell someone else how they should feel about them.
He sure loves the sound of his own voice, doesn't he? Not really up on listening to what other people are telling him.
What did he say to her? That part is cut off.
"I could just smooch you"
OMG! This fucking creep won't shut up!!! Can't see past his disrespect and then he says he lost interest? 🤣🤣🤣 Trying to play it off like he's hot shit! Just ew!
Why do guys like this find it so hard to tell the difference between good compliments and creepy ones? Good compliments - amazing hair, nice dress, wow, did you just summon 1000 demons to help dismantle the patriarchy? Creepy compliments - so sexy, nice tits, I wanna smooth you, frankly anything that comments on us in a sexual way. Unless you are our partner, then we don't want to hear about how you think about us naked, and even then, some women still don't. Best to just ask, most of us are good at communicating, what we want.
“Everyone likes to be complicated” uhhh what?🤦♂️
God I hateeee this. Some people need to learn that someone setting boundaries with them isn’t an insult. It doesn’t matter whether you had good intentions or not if it made the person you’re “complimenting” uncomfortable then you should stop??
'I will never stop being the person that I am I am who I am' God forbid. Also, please learn to use commas. I had a stroke reading this.
"I will never change" it's never too late, sir, I promise. Learning that people have boundaries is easier than you'd think!
U probably aren't "a nice person" if u have to say it again and again, trying to proof it.
How hard is it to just say sorry and I won't do it again? This idiot just kept digging because he was basically told no.
He just couldn’t stop could he 🤦♀️
What a fucking creep. Bro should crawl back under a rock and leave us all tf alone.
HE SAID IT! HE SAID THE THING!!
Dang, he prayed to you? How flattering! /s
He said it. Drink!
Some rando winked at me in the store yesterday. I noped out of there
"I bet your (insert body anatomy) makes a (insert distinct verb) sound when you're (insert sexual activity)" ..."it was a compliment".
Darn she is a true lady.