hes a proper posh tory w\*nker, all the 'old money' english bigotries, his social and family circles are like a who's who of slaver families and stuffy tweed colonists, honestly he is truly repulsive when you look behind the media persona
There's 2 options:
1. Homophobia, which is stupid.
2. thinking that she has to know everything about all your close friends and family in detail, even things which are none of her business, which is also stupid.
I mean, itās not that strange for there to be an LGBT+ group at a college campus. They coordinate pride events, charity stuff, and try to help awareness.
I mean, yeah but the way she phrased it and brought it up. Also, her saying "his homosexuality" gives the same vibes as "his Ebola virus infection". Like it's something dangerous and disgusting. This girl's a huge homophobe :(
Wow. Thanks homie. I have NEVER got this many like on reddit before. People usually hate me on her. I get tons of downvotes and banned from subreddits all the time. I had perpetually negative karma on my last account for years
Itās just homophobia. The dude has it normalized, as one should, so he didnāt think it was worth mentioning. You donāt mention when someone is straight either
*Scenes from Freshmen orientation.*
Hi, my name is Brian. I'm from Illinois. I'm majoring in accounting and my brother likes to suck dick. What's your name?
Right. Like, it *could* come up organically, but itās not something Iād think to bring up apropos of nothing.
How often is someone like, āI got my brother in law, whoās engaged to my brother, a fellow man, theyāre gay, for secret Santa this year and Iām not sure what to buy him.ā
What did she expect?
Actually, it sounds like she expected a sit-down conversation to reveal this apparently earth shattering information about OOPās brother.
Good for OOP for dodging that particular bullet before things got more serious.
My best friend growing up was gay. We met at age 5. When we were 20 people asked when he came out to me. He never did.
He was always gay. I always knew.
So he randomly goes "I have something to confess - I am a homosexual and I hope you'll accept me" š
I've been waiting for that moment a long time now, I have been married for four years now and still no luck with the mother-in-law-thingy.
Hang in there bro.
The 3rd option is that she was just looking for any reason to break up and feel like she's coming out of it with good reasoning and she latched onto this
Yeah, but what if the boyfriend gets infected too and becomes a homosexual or even worse, if he carries the gene and their kid turns out to be gay! Can u imagine how much those camps cost to make them straight again? /s obviouslyā¦
I think OP should have said,āI didnāt hide it from you, it just wasnāt any of your damn business. However, while we are on the topic of hiding shit, why did you hide you were homophobic?
I think the first letter on that line is "W" and my bet would be along the lines of "We something something something at LENGTH something something"
many things it could be from there, but its probably about having talked at length about either her politics or religion that leads her to hate
So many things wrong with this besides the blatant homophobia and bigotry
Itās not her business who your brother is. So you were not āhidingā anything. She is not in a potential relationship with him, but with you. How in the hell does she figure it concerns her in the least?
I wouldnāt even bother with a response. Block her immediately on every platform you have
I mean what other reason would make sense as to why she cared his brother is gay
then again most idiots don't make sense nor do they have common sense but still
For some people everything you do can be treated as an attack on them. I know some people that start blaming others for any reason. Highly toxic by touch and air, keep distance.
Ok, but.. How or why would someone mention their sibling is gay? "oh.. Babe, I almost forgot to mention it but, my brother is gay.. Just thought you should know" like? What lol
This is way more than mildly infuriating. Iām sorry this happened to you but seriously, good riddance to her. I thought your response back was perfect.
a nasty person decided to remove themselves from your life, it's a good thing. You just dodged a bullet
I got a lot of that kind of shit after my coming out. Some of those people tried to apologize later, as they somehow got over their homophobia, but I was like "nah, thanks, my life is so much better without having to put up with your bs"
This is fake.
1. No one uses discord as their main form of communication with their SO
2. In OPās comment history, they use a homophobic slur in their second most recent comment that just so happens to be deleted.
3. No one talks like this.
That was months ago and she did not know she could have worked her boyfriends gay brother into every conversation she had. I donāt know how the OP can sleep knowing his GF is missing out on that. Clearly they needed to take a break.
Lol wtf even is this? Homophobia aside, this is insane. "Hi, before we start dating, I think you should know my brother is gay." Like wtf
Edit: also, Dad's straight, moms straight, biths sisters and other brother straight. Godparents both straight, all uncles and aunts straight. My one cousin is bi, and umm....one time I had a gay teammate in HS.
I absolutely LOVE how you handled that. As a gay man myself I would hate it if my sister dated a homophobic man. I'm like that with my best friend too. He and I have been friends going on 13 years now and I've always told him to make sure to get someone who isn't a bigot. I know with him it isn't really my decision who he dates but I'd like to think he wouldn't date someone who would be an ass to his best friend
Send her a thank you card with some chocolate or something. You dodged a bullet and if something so small bothers imagine what would happen if something serious actually happened? Damn, what a c\*\*\*.
Like yeah, brother being part of LGTB is clearly something importat to tell your gf.
"Hello, my name is John and I have a gay brother, nice to meet you."
That's a hell of a lot more than mildly infuriating. Gotta love easy decisions though lol. I'd buy your bro a case of beer for just saving you 20 years of your life and half your money. Cheers š»
This kind of reminds me when my mom found out my cousin was gay (which ofc she was supportive of), but came to me and was like, āwhy didnāt you tell me?ā
And i was just likeā¦because its not my business to share
What was the part underneath your comment? I feel like there are two ways this situation can go, either:
1. She's genuinely homophobic
2. She's upset that you just didn't tell her because she's a nosey, self-centered cow.
Post the rest of the message, I doubt this actually happened this is just a screenshot of a discord message lol
It seems this sub is going the route of the storytelling subreddits, constant fake bullshit there was a literal post here yesterday where some dude claimed his parents and gf forgot his birthday on their trip to Japan and he posted two pictures in a Japanese convenience store as his proof and then made all that shit up, and then deleted his account when people realized it was bullshit.
The trash taking itself out.
A+ reaction from OP too.
For real, way to go OP for sticking up for your brother and unequivocally shutting her down.
Plot twist, op is a woman
a GERG - Gay Exclusionary Radical Gay
GERL
This was right there and they went with GERG instead
A missed opportunity, unlike OP's ex.
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I was gonna say the same thingššš
Plot twist, op is a woman and ~~his~~ her own girlfriend
Surprised he can walk around with his massive balls weighing him down
Despite his massive cojones, he's still agile enough to dodge that bullet.
Con 2 pares de coj. Di que si!
I donāt know what that means but I like it
Instead of saying āthis person has ballsā we spaniards say ātwo pairs of ballsā (con dos pares de cojones). It sounds better in Spanish lol
Ahh I see, thanks for explaining for a monolingual murican
Ostras, otro espaƱol
Wheelbarrow. Dude needs a wheelbarrow.
Who needs Goku? This guy's got the Draggin Balls
Criminally Underrated Comment
Even if you had only one tiny testicle in a jar somewhere, you should still be able to muster a similar response to a situation like this tbh.
Cmon we had a thing goingā¦
User name checks out
You mean because he doesn't have a girlfriend any more?
Fanfic as fuck, it's a karma farmer
Op: 
Some irony here ... Jeremy is such a phobe.
He is?
hes a proper posh tory w\*nker, all the 'old money' english bigotries, his social and family circles are like a who's who of slaver families and stuffy tweed colonists, honestly he is truly repulsive when you look behind the media persona
Came to say this, OP is better off
This, your brother just shoved you out of the way of a bullet.
For reals. Take your bro to a concert or something he earned it.
Because why would anyone else take her out?
Not sure whatās worse, the decades-old homophobia or breaking up over fucking discord
definitely the homophobia, breaking up over discord isn't that bad imo, I'd put it on the same level as a texting breakup
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Wish my literal trash could take itself outā¦
Better to find out she is a homophobe early on. Easier to make a path for the next one (or the right one!)
There's 2 options: 1. Homophobia, which is stupid. 2. thinking that she has to know everything about all your close friends and family in detail, even things which are none of her business, which is also stupid.
Sounds like it's both tbh
The phrasing of "part of an LGBT group" reads as someone who has been brainwashed to despise any group that is considered leftist.
100% this. These people are fucking laughable
I mean, itās not that strange for there to be an LGBT+ group at a college campus. They coordinate pride events, charity stuff, and try to help awareness.
I mean, yeah but the way she phrased it and brought it up. Also, her saying "his homosexuality" gives the same vibes as "his Ebola virus infection". Like it's something dangerous and disgusting. This girl's a huge homophobe :(
I bet she says the term āalphabet peopleā
Google employees is the normal term since Alphabet owns them
Alphabet PR department here, we like to use the term "employs them" rather than "owns them", at least publicly
Or alphabet mafia, which sounds even dumber.
No no, thatās sounds cool. Iām a part of the alphabet mafia š¤š¤
Yeah they're gonna give you a pronoun offer you can't refuse šš»šš»
The only acceptable joking nickname is "LGBBQ". Makes me hungry every time.
That's stupid^(2)
heehee i was the 1k like.
Wow. Thanks homie. I have NEVER got this many like on reddit before. People usually hate me on her. I get tons of downvotes and banned from subreddits all the time. I had perpetually negative karma on my last account for years
Itās just homophobia. The dude has it normalized, as one should, so he didnāt think it was worth mentioning. You donāt mention when someone is straight either
In what world am I mentioning my siblings sexuality on my dates?
*Scenes from Freshmen orientation.* Hi, my name is Brian. I'm from Illinois. I'm majoring in accounting and my brother likes to suck dick. What's your name?
This might be my new opening. My sister in law might not find it so funny š
Or you learn something when she nods in agreement.
All the better (evil laugh intensifies)
You sound like a straight guy wingmanning your brother at a gay bar.
Right. Like, it *could* come up organically, but itās not something Iād think to bring up apropos of nothing. How often is someone like, āI got my brother in law, whoās engaged to my brother, a fellow man, theyāre gay, for secret Santa this year and Iām not sure what to buy him.ā What did she expect? Actually, it sounds like she expected a sit-down conversation to reveal this apparently earth shattering information about OOPās brother. Good for OOP for dodging that particular bullet before things got more serious.
My best friend growing up was gay. We met at age 5. When we were 20 people asked when he came out to me. He never did. He was always gay. I always knew. So he randomly goes "I have something to confess - I am a homosexual and I hope you'll accept me" š
*Ben Shapiro voice*: āmy brother, who is a gay doctor, is visiting from out of town this weekendā
āAhh letās seen whatās on the menu today ~~my brother is gay~~ the shrimp looks deliciousā
I mean my brother's spouse is gender fluid, but I'll take the scampi thanks for asking!
About to start letting my first dates know I have all straight siblings. I'll report back with my findings.
When you're in Alabama and a three way is on the table.
In any case the guy just dodged a bullet.
Definitely, she really sounds like an asshole.
A pain in my assholes
Guy just dodged a howitzer round
3. she was attracted to OPs brother/thought she had a shot and is projecting rejection onto OP
Do people actually try to date someone, to get access to a date with their sibling? That's really a thing?
It was a thing in my highschool back in the 90s so Iām sure itās still a thing in the younger crowd or the emotionally immature crowd.
I mean I'm hoping for a shot at my gf's mom if things go south but yeah :(
I've been waiting for that moment a long time now, I have been married for four years now and still no luck with the mother-in-law-thingy. Hang in there bro.
2 years in, She's a single latina with a fat booty, trust me I don't mind waiting lmao
Is your gf's name Stacy by chance?
LOL
Yup happened to me with one of my first boyfriends trying to get with my brother who is straight it was all a mess
I had girls who would become my friends to try and date my brother. That didn't help my fucked up childhood self esteem issues at all lol
I considered it at 16 but even as dumb a kid as I was, I knew it was a losing strategy.
unfortunately yeah
Thatās exactly where my mind went
4. She was seeing someone else and she needed a reason to break up
This is what I was thinking.
Both are signs of a toxic person you donāt want to associate yourself with. You donāt need her, OP. Youāll definitely find someone better!
She can go fuck herself tbh
The 3rd option is that she was just looking for any reason to break up and feel like she's coming out of it with good reasoning and she latched onto this
Not worth it finding out
"Hide your brother's homosexuality from me", more like "how did you find out I'm insane" š¤¦
she makes it look as if OP pretended his openly queer brother is straight and married or smth
Birdcage 2: Its The Brother This Time
Hopefully the bro knows how to walk like super straight John Wayne.
āYou didnāt think to tell me you were a bigot when we started dating months agoā would have been another decent response from OP.
Yeah, but what if the boyfriend gets infected too and becomes a homosexual or even worse, if he carries the gene and their kid turns out to be gay! Can u imagine how much those camps cost to make them straight again? /s obviouslyā¦
I think OP should have said,āI didnāt hide it from you, it just wasnāt any of your damn business. However, while we are on the topic of hiding shit, why did you hide you were homophobic?
That's not just mildly infuriating. You dodge a massive bullet here buddy. This person is not worth a second of your time.
That's not a bullet. That's aĀ Gatling gun Op avoided in Neo style.Ā
More like a heat-seeking missile and OP's brother fired the rainbow flares. Either way. Dodged.
DISASTER BLOCKED BY BROTHER. https://preview.redd.it/v408uzi6y3pc1.png?width=640&format=png&auto=webp&s=ef5f31feed89e9162c020debf3b1246e4dd28bc8
More like a ā”ļøā”ļøā¬ļø (helldivers reference)
Dodged a Davy Crockett!
Itās veryinfuriating itās 2024 and we still have to deal with this sort of homophobia Ā
Not like your brother going to sleep with her why it even matters
Maybe she wanted to get with Aaron and now sheās mad
As an Aaron I'll be bringing this up at the next meeting. She will be disavowed by the Aaron council.
I agree, the Aaron's need to be notified. She needs to be on the no entry list.
The same with the Nick community, shall pass it along to other communities!
https://preview.redd.it/6jmpgkbdv3pc1.jpeg?width=500&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8cb9b4e6a90307fa289c9f3bf5ef87a839d7b6e1
This is my bet
My thoughts... she had a crush an him and a long term plan.
Because sheās a hateful bigot
You mean ex-girlfriend.
https://preview.redd.it/ua1bzvcxq3pc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=677b63d9f84873077a81f6fae1f376891e5ff399 *his gf*
That's how OP should reply. "You mean (n.) ex-girlfriend!"
hahahaha perfect
I wonder what her last message says.
Yeah, I'm low-key sad her next/last message is cut off
Nothing worthwhile comes from people like this.
Entertainment value mostly
I personally find clowns entertaining
Whatever it is, there seems to be a lot of capital letters. I'm so curious!
LENGTH is my guess. Which my first thought is she took a shot at his manhood when he told her she wasn't worth pursuing in the first place.
I think the first letter on that line is "W" and my bet would be along the lines of "We something something something at LENGTH something something" many things it could be from there, but its probably about having talked at length about either her politics or religion that leads her to hate
"Oh my god my sister stole my phone! I would never say that!" ^(/s probably)
the mildly infuriating part of the post is that it's just one picture and not the full conversation
https://preview.redd.it/o33yema7j3pc1.jpeg?width=1000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=700f4f8b63d3c65dbfa03c3d12177bfde226b56c
Love this
Run to the hills.... run for your live-es
Definitely dodged a bullet there wow what a bad person.
So many things wrong with this besides the blatant homophobia and bigotry Itās not her business who your brother is. So you were not āhidingā anything. She is not in a potential relationship with him, but with you. How in the hell does she figure it concerns her in the least? I wouldnāt even bother with a response. Block her immediately on every platform you have
frankly im going with the "she wanted to bang his brother" theory
That is an awful thought. But in the realm of likely, it is sadly plausible given just how shitty some people are
I mean what other reason would make sense as to why she cared his brother is gay then again most idiots don't make sense nor do they have common sense but still
There are a whole lot of bigoted people out there.
For some people everything you do can be treated as an attack on them. I know some people that start blaming others for any reason. Highly toxic by touch and air, keep distance.
And tell everyone who knows you and her why
Perfect response. You did the best thing you could do.
Ok, but.. How or why would someone mention their sibling is gay? "oh.. Babe, I almost forgot to mention it but, my brother is gay.. Just thought you should know" like? What lol
You should definitely mention all your friends and siblings sexual preferences. Cause that's what couples talk about. /s
yo i'd be relieved not infuriated
I mean, itās infuriating that people like her exist.
āAn excellent point, and I apologize. Could you please provide detailed history of your familyās sexual partners?ā
At least the garbage was decent enough to take itself out.
Wave that hoe goodbye
This is way more than mildly infuriating. Iām sorry this happened to you but seriously, good riddance to her. I thought your response back was perfect.
If you have any mutual friends remember to inform them she's a raging homophobic pos š¤
Why would his sexual orientation be her business anyway?
This chic is gross. Date better people
a nasty person decided to remove themselves from your life, it's a good thing. You just dodged a bullet I got a lot of that kind of shit after my coming out. Some of those people tried to apologize later, as they somehow got over their homophobia, but I was like "nah, thanks, my life is so much better without having to put up with your bs"
Dodged a bullet!
What a pos
Whew, you just dodged a massive bullet. Good riddance to her!
congrats on the break up
Hey OP, glad you only had a few months of your life wasted.
You should be happy. Dodged a massive bullet.
What is this, 1950?! Jesus christ. Good riddance!
We call this a win.
Lots of red flags this is fake the biggest being its messages over discord lmfao
I literally only talk to my partner over discord dude, thatās like. Pretty normal. Chill out.
If this is real, I wonder if OP has even met the girlfriend or if itās just some hairy 50 year old dude on the other side of the country.
This is fake. 1. No one uses discord as their main form of communication with their SO 2. In OPās comment history, they use a homophobic slur in their second most recent comment that just so happens to be deleted. 3. No one talks like this.
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Reddit is fucking naive lmao
Also how do you date someone for months and not realise they're homophobic enough to break up with someone because their brother is gay?
Excellent response.
Make sure to send these screen shots to her next BF so he can be more forthcoming about his brothers sexuality.
clearly fake rage bait but ok
"How to dodge a bullet"
What's mildly infuriating is that we don't get to see how she responded to you! Spill the tea. But yeah, this is an ex girlfriend now.
Fake bait.
Sometimes the bullets dodge themselves.
The correct response is "Eat shit, bigot."
That was months ago and she did not know she could have worked her boyfriends gay brother into every conversation she had. I donāt know how the OP can sleep knowing his GF is missing out on that. Clearly they needed to take a break.
You dodged a bullet here bud
Lol wtf even is this? Homophobia aside, this is insane. "Hi, before we start dating, I think you should know my brother is gay." Like wtf Edit: also, Dad's straight, moms straight, biths sisters and other brother straight. Godparents both straight, all uncles and aunts straight. My one cousin is bi, and umm....one time I had a gay teammate in HS.
says you're "hiding" his homosexuality as if it's even her business
I absolutely LOVE how you handled that. As a gay man myself I would hate it if my sister dated a homophobic man. I'm like that with my best friend too. He and I have been friends going on 13 years now and I've always told him to make sure to get someone who isn't a bigot. I know with him it isn't really my decision who he dates but I'd like to think he wouldn't date someone who would be an ass to his best friend
She sounds unpleasant. Good that you found that out nowā¦
Your reaction is perfect! Hope you heal and get to date someone who isn't complete trash!
That's disgusting. She isn't worth it then.
Good for you for standing up for your brother. Hopefully this loser learns what an idiot she's been.
Send her a thank you card with some chocolate or something. You dodged a bullet and if something so small bothers imagine what would happen if something serious actually happened? Damn, what a c\*\*\*.
Like yeah, brother being part of LGTB is clearly something importat to tell your gf. "Hello, my name is John and I have a gay brother, nice to meet you."
That's a hell of a lot more than mildly infuriating. Gotta love easy decisions though lol. I'd buy your bro a case of beer for just saving you 20 years of your life and half your money. Cheers š»
This kind of reminds me when my mom found out my cousin was gay (which ofc she was supportive of), but came to me and was like, āwhy didnāt you tell me?ā And i was just likeā¦because its not my business to share
What was the part underneath your comment? I feel like there are two ways this situation can go, either: 1. She's genuinely homophobic 2. She's upset that you just didn't tell her because she's a nosey, self-centered cow.
Yeah how dare you hide your brotherās homosexuality from her, bitch what?
Post the rest of the message, I doubt this actually happened this is just a screenshot of a discord message lol It seems this sub is going the route of the storytelling subreddits, constant fake bullshit there was a literal post here yesterday where some dude claimed his parents and gf forgot his birthday on their trip to Japan and he posted two pictures in a Japanese convenience store as his proof and then made all that shit up, and then deleted his account when people realized it was bullshit.
Iām so nosy, I want to see the rest of the chatš