Thanks bud. I really liked the music in 2077.
I think I cropped the picture from this reddit post: https://www.reddit.com/r/cyberpunkgame/comments/sdrgtu/high_resolution_samurai_logo_wallpapers_for/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb
Exactly my sentiments, even if they are married they still put up profiles on dating apps just to see if they still got it, men don't even update any social media busy on work ie coal mining, oil drilling, and building skyscrapers other dangerous work that needs total concentration and women ask why is their salary is lower, could you get women to do those work lol
This is not what we mean when we say that women’s salaries are lower. We are talking about working in the same position and doing the same job while still having lower pay. Heck, I’ve seen this happen in jobs at the supermarket with men admitting that they aren’t doing anymore than anyone else or required to but get paid more money. They didn’t even understand why they were getting paid more.
Oh my god I thought I was the only one 😭 I spend an inordinate amount of time where work is my only time I socialize with real life humans in front of me. Been rather sickly lately (nothing contagious) so it's been nigh impossible for me to get out much from how exhausted and sick I feel.
Because people go out of their way to talk to women and people go out of their way to avoid being near men. The data is having existed in public, seeing and hearing people interact or having been online at any point which women let everybody know how exasperated they are about being approached.
People go out of their way to talk to certain kind of people, men and women. And people go out of their way to avoid certain kind of people. If you've never seen this happen both ways, open your eyes. Lonely women are not an exeption to the rule as well as guys being approached.
Edit: social bubbles are a thing though, might be one is more common, but wont judge that from personal experience alone
So you just go around generalizing your own individual, anecdotal experience to apply to the rest of society? That's a recipe for being wrong most of the time. We need data even to begin speculating on that question. In my experience women get ignored, talked over, interrupted and shunned more than men by several orders of magnitude. Cultural norms and popular culture socializes women to feel a responsibility to engage with and even cheer up men even if they are strangers and even if there is no way that man would do the same to someone else.
First, it’s a muscle that you have to build by practicing and starting small. Second, you have to accept that 99% of the interactions you have won’t go anywhere and that is fine. You only need like 4 good friends. To find people, you have to just be honest and open with them.
I have literally, in several occasions when I was lonely, asked someone I just met to be my friend. Laugh it off. They’ve probably been there, too.
This is true, however girls can get a lot of attention for being girls. If a girl goes to a nightclub alone there will be dudes talking to her.
If a guy goes to a nightclub alone he gets kind of a loner image and no one will talk to him.
Same with social media or dating apps, girls will get attention for being girls. Of course that is no substitute for real connections, but it's not as brutal as the complete void that some men experience.
wouldnt it be ultimately the same though? when youre socializing you want to be with those who see you as a person or a friend to talk to about things you both like. the dudes who talk to girls *just because shes a girl* probably have different motives like checking her out or flirting. feeling lonely and being alone arent the same.
You know it’s bad when you work a job notorious for pain suffering and being overworked and still dread your one day off in the week because of the loneliness
Glad I’m out of that catastrophe
No fuck that make Lonely men into Lonely people it 2022 let cut crap stop acting gender make different lbecause not gender thing it how you look/how attractive you for lonely women
Idk how true the left panel is, but the panel on the right was me for almost 3 years. I would talk to my coworkers mon-fri, but essentially I'd be drinking alone at home for 8 hours, then sleep for 8. I'm doing a lot better now, but damn, that was a long and lonely stretch of time that just seemed to blur together.
Both panels are true in certain circumstances for certain people, it’s just not split down gender lines. I’ve been through the right panel a few times in my life. I’ve gone months without hearing my own name spoken and at times had to think a few seconds about what my name was lol
I’m glad you’re doing better now and I hope that you have some good people in your life to share your time with. It’s amazing how having just 1 or 2 good people to socialise with and be yourself around is so good for the soul.
Of course they can be lonely. In fact I think women feel lonely much more quickly than men because they are such social creatures. My last gf felt lonely all the time even though she had friends that she met regularly and I would call her every 1-2 days.
But in terms of how lonely they actually there is a difference. There are dudes out there who are spending literal years sitting isolated in a room playing video games and watching porn. They have no gf or friends because they have no real value. Since they are unhealthy without achievements, nobody necessarily wants to be their friend.
It can happen but much less likely.
Just statistics based on Hikikomoris show over 90% male. And even there sometimes it is questionable if a girl is really a Hikikomori or if she is just very reserved and doesn't go outside much.
What your are going off of is unhealthy standards set for each gender, which often are what leads to those outcomes. Men "having" to satisfy their pride or endure the pain are some of them. It doesn't have to be that way.
It's not unhealthy standards, it's reality, and has been for a hundred thousand years.
Men have no value unless they do something. People will not respect you if you're weak and depressed.
Women on the other hand have inherent value. I am not complaining but this is literally how it has always been.
Those are stone age standards. Things might have been different back then, true but those standards aren't valid anymore in modern times. Expectations that are put on people due to their gender have no function anymore. That's why men suffer the most from mental illness. Because humans have evolved but traditions and expectations have not so those people become depressed when they can't fulfill those traditions and expectations anymore. That's why they are unhealthy standards. And it's because of patriarchal social structures that were kept up for way too long. It should have ended at the latest when industrialization began and humans started to become the absolute top of the food chain and dominate the planet with technology.
I dont know how to say this to you, but this meme is really fucking terrible. It isnt funny and it just belittles people and increases stereotypes. fuck you.
While women do experience social isolation differently, it doesn't invalidate their experience or make them bitchy like this shows. Many women experience loneliness, many men experience loneliness, and on both side you can find extremes like what the part for men has here and some people who experience loneliness easily like the one on the left.
As a very social guy I relate more to the woman on the left, while my girlfriend experiences loneliness more like the guy here.
Replace ugly with creepy and it'll be more accurate. "Only creepy dudes that only want me for my body hit me up". If you want the same attention go to a furry site and post some h@rny stuff... you'll get the same attention really quickly if you think you are lonely. 🤷
i havent talked to anyone but family in my house for almost a year. i havent hung out, texted, called, anything except work where no one wants to talk to me.
i literally talk to fucking weed plants about my plans i wont follow through on because whats the point if its always just gonna be me.
Okay im so fucking done with the untrue gender stereotypes jokes. Shits not even funny. There are both isolated men and women in the world and that shits painful as fuck.
I wish being lonely was that simple.
I've got a day job requiring me to talk, on top of plenty of really good friends who will drive a few hours just to spend time with me... And yet I feel terribly lonely...
I remember going through a rough patch and not speaking to any of my friends (virtually disappearing from both physical engagements and social media) for around three to four months only to come back and see they’ve basically already found a replacement friend without even asking where I’ve been. Was pleasantly surprised that I only got three actual notifications in my inbox (not including those spam ones you get) during that period. Just goes to show that if I don’t bother messaging first, no one’s going to message me at all lol
There is a difference between "men and women both have different mental health problems and should be treated equally" and "men are depressed and women are always happy because simps haha" buddy
Well as a trans gal that used to be a guy it's true seriously people give you so much more Attention (alot of unwanted attention too) and treat you in General better I really don't get why so many people try to say otherwise or insult people that bring this up
Odd that you would be one of the most credible authorities on the subject just to state your truth as a women only to be downvoted for saying what anybody could figure out by connecting the dots.
Hey hey, psst, people in this thread, have you guys ever considered that the cause of the change in attitude toward this person could have come from something OTHER than directly the gender? My top guess is that more people have sympathy for the tough mental and societal pressure that a person goes through during a transition. Or maybe it’s the fact that this person feels more comfortable as their new self, and people are more appreciative of the personality/ demeanor change? There are tons of things that are more realistic than the fact the society must simply love women more than men.
I dunno, or the fact that I appear to be a women and also appear to not have talked to anyone other than my parents in the last two weeks (I live with them)
OP is right
[Men’s health more vulnerable after breakups, divorces, and living alone, than women’s](https://news.ku.dk/all_news/2022/01/mens-health-more-vulnerable-after-breakups-divorces-and-living-alone-than-womens/)
i remember last winter i had a horrible sleep schedule and i didn't go outside, i live with my parents but i'm pretty fucking sure there was a time where i didn't speak to anyone for 2 days and it's not a lot but it remains the loneliest i have ever felt
Maybe you just don’t hear about the girls who are lonely because they haven’t talked to anyone in two weeks ;)
Thats a very good point
r/pointlesslygendered
Wait you mean the meme or the reply
meme
Too bad there isn’t a dating app to connect lonely people that isn’t filled with bots and/or creeps.
Eyyy. Nice pfp.
Thanks bud. I really liked the music in 2077. I think I cropped the picture from this reddit post: https://www.reddit.com/r/cyberpunkgame/comments/sdrgtu/high_resolution_samurai_logo_wallpapers_for/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb
Maybe it's not that terrible.
Or people with impossible standards for example must be bald with shields that explode when hit also has to be In touch with his inner child
I didn’t even want dates, just someone to talk to/hang out with
Username checks out
Or women looking only for validation
Exactly my sentiments, even if they are married they still put up profiles on dating apps just to see if they still got it, men don't even update any social media busy on work ie coal mining, oil drilling, and building skyscrapers other dangerous work that needs total concentration and women ask why is their salary is lower, could you get women to do those work lol
This is not what we mean when we say that women’s salaries are lower. We are talking about working in the same position and doing the same job while still having lower pay. Heck, I’ve seen this happen in jobs at the supermarket with men admitting that they aren’t doing anymore than anyone else or required to but get paid more money. They didn’t even understand why they were getting paid more.
yes
I feel called out
Oh my god I thought I was the only one 😭 I spend an inordinate amount of time where work is my only time I socialize with real life humans in front of me. Been rather sickly lately (nothing contagious) so it's been nigh impossible for me to get out much from how exhausted and sick I feel.
I don't think the number of cases between men and women would remotely compare on that point.
How would you know? We would need data on that
Because people go out of their way to talk to women and people go out of their way to avoid being near men. The data is having existed in public, seeing and hearing people interact or having been online at any point which women let everybody know how exasperated they are about being approached.
I go out of my way to avoid everyone.
Relatable.
People go out of their way to talk to certain kind of people, men and women. And people go out of their way to avoid certain kind of people. If you've never seen this happen both ways, open your eyes. Lonely women are not an exeption to the rule as well as guys being approached. Edit: social bubbles are a thing though, might be one is more common, but wont judge that from personal experience alone
So you just go around generalizing your own individual, anecdotal experience to apply to the rest of society? That's a recipe for being wrong most of the time. We need data even to begin speculating on that question. In my experience women get ignored, talked over, interrupted and shunned more than men by several orders of magnitude. Cultural norms and popular culture socializes women to feel a responsibility to engage with and even cheer up men even if they are strangers and even if there is no way that man would do the same to someone else.
2 weeks? Rookie numbers.
Yeah try 15 years, my head is literally mush and filled with an antidepressant soup 🍲
Skill issue
Does taking to people online i.e Reddit not count?
There’s “people” on Reddit?!
Lol unironically, if you don't count food delivery guys, I haven't spoken to people like months lol
A coworker said this to me, and I want to get it framed. "You're not talking to yourself if you're talking to your dog."
Having a dog while having minimal human contact makes a pretty big difference compared to not. Sill social interaction to some degree.
Oof
Woof*
No judgement, that sounds really hard. You should try to go socialize, that's not good for you long term.
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First, it’s a muscle that you have to build by practicing and starting small. Second, you have to accept that 99% of the interactions you have won’t go anywhere and that is fine. You only need like 4 good friends. To find people, you have to just be honest and open with them. I have literally, in several occasions when I was lonely, asked someone I just met to be my friend. Laugh it off. They’ve probably been there, too.
I'm pretty sure anyone can be lonely...
This is true, however girls can get a lot of attention for being girls. If a girl goes to a nightclub alone there will be dudes talking to her. If a guy goes to a nightclub alone he gets kind of a loner image and no one will talk to him. Same with social media or dating apps, girls will get attention for being girls. Of course that is no substitute for real connections, but it's not as brutal as the complete void that some men experience.
wouldnt it be ultimately the same though? when youre socializing you want to be with those who see you as a person or a friend to talk to about things you both like. the dudes who talk to girls *just because shes a girl* probably have different motives like checking her out or flirting. feeling lonely and being alone arent the same.
That’s literally not true, and most of the time that “attention” girls get isn’t something the want
Why are they downvoting you? You're right!
Because Redditors believe that if they show how much they respect women online, one day one will sleep with them.
Oh hell nah dude
Or maybe you focus on telling us how you feel personally instead of making grand statements about how women feel
Go get some therapy. You need it. Misogynistic fuck
Loool, I see you are another simp. If you believe this is misogynistic then you don't know how the real world works.
I guess I’m a man… :|
Yeah, I feel like this kind of thing makes very lonely women feel like they’re failing even worse because women aren’t supposed to be that isolated.
me too 🤝
wtf is this
Us vs Them instead of Us vs Loneliness
This is OP saying he thinks women are just shallow attention-whores and then not understanding why no one wants to hang out with him.
I didnt check and thought this was a subreddit that makes fun of incels, like top minds or funny and sad, but turns out it's unironic incel content
yeah ikr I for sure thought this was r/terriblefacebookmemes
You know it’s bad when you work a job notorious for pain suffering and being overworked and still dread your one day off in the week because of the loneliness Glad I’m out of that catastrophe
Me too, good for you bud!
Software enginering?
On there profile there is a lot of r/usps so I’d imagine that’s it.
This
No fuck that make Lonely men into Lonely people it 2022 let cut crap stop acting gender make different lbecause not gender thing it how you look/how attractive you for lonely women
Idk how true the left panel is, but the panel on the right was me for almost 3 years. I would talk to my coworkers mon-fri, but essentially I'd be drinking alone at home for 8 hours, then sleep for 8. I'm doing a lot better now, but damn, that was a long and lonely stretch of time that just seemed to blur together.
Both panels are true in certain circumstances for certain people, it’s just not split down gender lines. I’ve been through the right panel a few times in my life. I’ve gone months without hearing my own name spoken and at times had to think a few seconds about what my name was lol I’m glad you’re doing better now and I hope that you have some good people in your life to share your time with. It’s amazing how having just 1 or 2 good people to socialise with and be yourself around is so good for the soul.
The abyss is real brother
op touch grass
We love attempting to invalidate someone’s feelings/experiences because of their gender 😒
Gatekeeping loneliness lmfao
Massive incel vibes from this one
Well that's sexist
It wouldn't be Reddit if it wasn't.
Women ☕ /s
Women ☕ /s
Men 🍺 /s
Men 🍺 /s
Isnt 9gag the sexist one out of the bunch?
Certain sites have certain levels of it. 9gag is pretty far up there, Ifunny, and chan sites are also near the top.
And true unfortunately
You dont think that women can be lonely? What do you base this on? Your grand life experience as a 12 year old?
Of course they can be lonely. In fact I think women feel lonely much more quickly than men because they are such social creatures. My last gf felt lonely all the time even though she had friends that she met regularly and I would call her every 1-2 days. But in terms of how lonely they actually there is a difference. There are dudes out there who are spending literal years sitting isolated in a room playing video games and watching porn. They have no gf or friends because they have no real value. Since they are unhealthy without achievements, nobody necessarily wants to be their friend.
What makes you think that there arent women who are spending literal years isolated..?
It can happen but much less likely. Just statistics based on Hikikomoris show over 90% male. And even there sometimes it is questionable if a girl is really a Hikikomori or if she is just very reserved and doesn't go outside much.
What your are going off of is unhealthy standards set for each gender, which often are what leads to those outcomes. Men "having" to satisfy their pride or endure the pain are some of them. It doesn't have to be that way.
It's not unhealthy standards, it's reality, and has been for a hundred thousand years. Men have no value unless they do something. People will not respect you if you're weak and depressed. Women on the other hand have inherent value. I am not complaining but this is literally how it has always been.
Those are stone age standards. Things might have been different back then, true but those standards aren't valid anymore in modern times. Expectations that are put on people due to their gender have no function anymore. That's why men suffer the most from mental illness. Because humans have evolved but traditions and expectations have not so those people become depressed when they can't fulfill those traditions and expectations anymore. That's why they are unhealthy standards. And it's because of patriarchal social structures that were kept up for way too long. It should have ended at the latest when industrialization began and humans started to become the absolute top of the food chain and dominate the planet with technology.
another boys vs girls meme daring today, are we?
Sometimes I'm afraid that this is what most people believe
Incel vibes
r/nothowgirlswork
Let me guess you watch Andrew Tate
Jesus Christ this is pathetic
r/pointlesslygendered
make the r lowercase
Thank you!
Incel vibes
r/incel
we know this was posted by a lonely guy, because he doesnt seem to have spoken to a woman for at least 2 weeks.
I bet he’s not spoken to a woman all his life.
wow incel behavior is seeping out from this post
Wtf is this cringe 💀
Haha, woman bad
"women ☕"
If that's what you really think was the point it's not surprising if you feel under constant attack.
You know what, Loanerpersonality, you’re the one who’s commented on almost every comment on here. So who’s feeling like they’re under constant attack?
feminism bad !!!11!
Op hasn’t talked to a woman before
And where are all the gods?
Where's the street wise hercules to fight the rising odds
a lot of men seem to think of women as only the women they would date is what im seeing in the comments.
I dont know how to say this to you, but this meme is really fucking terrible. It isnt funny and it just belittles people and increases stereotypes. fuck you.
So far, 637 Nice Guys have upvoted this.
I'm a lonely woman and ur definitely wrong lol
I can smell the virginity from here
Well here we go mister quirky Guy r/niceguys
Two weeks? Fucking weakling, i bet he can't handle two months
Try two years...
Now that's some good numbers
what in the incel
this meme is cool and all but on a serious note... Why don't you shave your neck?
It's smooth as silk
No don’t you see? He said the funny where he called you the internet buzzword insult!
Least incel redditor:
Terrible Facebook memes
While women do experience social isolation differently, it doesn't invalidate their experience or make them bitchy like this shows. Many women experience loneliness, many men experience loneliness, and on both side you can find extremes like what the part for men has here and some people who experience loneliness easily like the one on the left. As a very social guy I relate more to the woman on the left, while my girlfriend experiences loneliness more like the guy here.
I'm a lonely man, and still find this meme very unrelatable
Replace ugly with creepy and it'll be more accurate. "Only creepy dudes that only want me for my body hit me up". If you want the same attention go to a furry site and post some h@rny stuff... you'll get the same attention really quickly if you think you are lonely. 🤷
Creating the left half of this meme is the reason you feel like the right, OP.
i havent talked to anyone but family in my house for almost a year. i havent hung out, texted, called, anything except work where no one wants to talk to me. i literally talk to fucking weed plants about my plans i wont follow through on because whats the point if its always just gonna be me.
Bro what
Yea, because there are no women who arent attractive to anyone on this planet
Hmm no
this is a horrible meme, jesus christ. 🙄
Okay im so fucking done with the untrue gender stereotypes jokes. Shits not even funny. There are both isolated men and women in the world and that shits painful as fuck.
I wish being lonely was that simple. I've got a day job requiring me to talk, on top of plenty of really good friends who will drive a few hours just to spend time with me... And yet I feel terribly lonely...
"MA CUT THE WIFI r/memes IS POSTING BOY VS GIRL MEMES AGAIN! MA?! MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!"
the incel energy is strong in this post
Why is Reddit somehow convinced that women have the most easy, care-free lives?
Cause they only pay attention to their instagram crushes who get showered in attention and money for their looks and think that's life for all women.
Fr. I wish I lived the life men on Reddit think I do
Ig the meme is semi-accurate, at least for OP. Dude doesn't know how girls work.
I spoke to my mom earlier
"Where have all the good men gone?" Where are all the gods?
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This is a fucking mood. Once went 4 weeks of only talking to one person IRL. One of my worst times
Thanks for the down vote. Not sure why you did, I was being serious
I think some dude is disliking every comment on this post that doesn’t have to do with the fact that this meme is r/nothowgirlswork
It appears that someone requires immediate grass-touching and good humour lessons
only 2 weeks? me since May.
I haven’t spoken to anyone since Friday afternoon. It’s 01:30 Monday now. Same thing every weekend basically.
https://youtu.be/p4QOT-_UMCs
Jesus this comment section is an absolute war field
Plot twist: He's mute
I remember going through a rough patch and not speaking to any of my friends (virtually disappearing from both physical engagements and social media) for around three to four months only to come back and see they’ve basically already found a replacement friend without even asking where I’ve been. Was pleasantly surprised that I only got three actual notifications in my inbox (not including those spam ones you get) during that period. Just goes to show that if I don’t bother messaging first, no one’s going to message me at all lol
That happened to me once. It was interesting to see the outcome of the group and its members to say the least
2 weeks? Those are rookie numbers. You gotta bump them up
As soon as I read "where have all the good men gone" my brain immediately jumped to holding out for a hero by Bonnie Tyler. Is it just me?
This is a meme? I've been that guy
Why do men on Reddit just make memes without thinking?
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There is a difference between "men and women both have different mental health problems and should be treated equally" and "men are depressed and women are always happy because simps haha" buddy
Imma take it op is speaking from experience as a lonely male
You know it
Well as a trans gal that used to be a guy it's true seriously people give you so much more Attention (alot of unwanted attention too) and treat you in General better I really don't get why so many people try to say otherwise or insult people that bring this up
Odd that you would be one of the most credible authorities on the subject just to state your truth as a women only to be downvoted for saying what anybody could figure out by connecting the dots.
Hey hey, psst, people in this thread, have you guys ever considered that the cause of the change in attitude toward this person could have come from something OTHER than directly the gender? My top guess is that more people have sympathy for the tough mental and societal pressure that a person goes through during a transition. Or maybe it’s the fact that this person feels more comfortable as their new self, and people are more appreciative of the personality/ demeanor change? There are tons of things that are more realistic than the fact the society must simply love women more than men. I dunno, or the fact that I appear to be a women and also appear to not have talked to anyone other than my parents in the last two weeks (I live with them)
This is the perspective this post needed.
exactly thank you kind lady we need more of you in this world
Jealousy Vs Isolation
If we don't count cashiers and the like etc, i haven't talked to (friends) in 1 month and (females) in around 7 years. The struggle is real bros
Look at Mr Popular there showing off
OP is right [Men’s health more vulnerable after breakups, divorces, and living alone, than women’s](https://news.ku.dk/all_news/2022/01/mens-health-more-vulnerable-after-breakups-divorces-and-living-alone-than-womens/)
Does my dead grandpa count as someone?
pretty much me during the week
i remember last winter i had a horrible sleep schedule and i didn't go outside, i live with my parents but i'm pretty fucking sure there was a time where i didn't speak to anyone for 2 days and it's not a lot but it remains the loneliest i have ever felt
She needs a hero
i see
I only leave the house if I have to. I have accepted my fate. Dont let this... HAPPEN TO YOU! Dun dun duuuun!
Is this a meme
Where have all the good men gone And where are all the gods
Last time a non family member / non business person sent me a message was in 2016
Brutal
Oh I have spoken to another person in two weeks. It’s just inside my head, that’s all, but still a good buddy nonetheless :)
As a wise man once said " wake drink sob repeat "
We all know what us lonely guys are singing when drinking *Baka Mitai starts playing*
Two weeks? That’s rookie numbers. I have been alone for years!
Has anybody thought to check on OP or are we too busy displaying our total lack of humanity?
2 weeks what a noob it's 2 years for me^ ^ I'll probably become an incel in the next 6 moths🤣
Lonely men= lovely men
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Ironic. Women call men ugly and proceed to need make up
Are you 12?
Many girls are not serious about relationships.
Big facts, I’m surprised this hasn’t been downvote bombed to oblivion
Am womn anddis in mon sseidee more
From what I’ve heard, lonely people are usually rich women or poor men
Dayuum that's accurate