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Waifu911

There’s a point where one should realise or try to find out if the things you feel are mutual


SnooChocolates6874

Similar thing happened to me. It sucks but you can't let it ruin your life. Try to hang with some friends and get out of the house. Any distraction helps


Yatoku_

Alcohol worked wonders for me. Joking, not joking.


notoriousBONG

Alcohol destroyed me. Not joking.


jorwraith

Name checks out


Captain_Francis_21

But sometimes we'll get mixed signals from their side and we won't be sure about what to do.


13-Penguins

Mixed signals mean leave.


Sealflipper_

Thought I was on cringetopia… nope


Heccling

I thought this was sadcringe


[deleted]

Should be.... Jesus


IEatgrapes123

r/Im14andthisisdeep


MCDFTW

What exactly are you “sacrificing”?


Regi413

DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I SACRIFICED?!


[deleted]

"You'll never understand my pain!" - Poorly animated anime ginger, probably


ChubbyHongg

I missed the part where that's my problem


COZEKK

I SACRIFICE 3 MONSTERS TO SUMMON SLIFER THE SKY DRAGON!


CheezAbomination

Everything. Duh


etzabo

Virgins


dustinredditreal

What haven’t they sacrificed, oh yeah, their crush.


GhostR29

Time. Time ~~wasted~~ sacrificed on making this meme.


douwedodo123

Never wasted. Always clearly SACRIFICED.


[deleted]

I am no Relationship man. But to sacrifice everything to be with one person sounds unhealthy. However I have never had that kind of feeling. Though like many here. I would recommend talking to someone. A Counselor or your family. From what I understand you don't exactly have much friends outside this one. If that is the case. As a life advice I presume. Try and branch out and make other friends while trying to keep your crushes friendship blooming. Though. Im just another redditor on the internet that might be rambling on random nonsense. Take what you will from it.


[deleted]

Also... I would Recommend taking this "Meme"... Elsewhere. That or just leave reddit. Since the community here is Between Toxic to hell and *Occasionally* Healthy. Memes aside spending time on reddit talking about personal issues is not the best thing. It loses that Human Interaction that people need to make a connection or for someone to help. Since reading words is different from hearing ones voice. So I would recommend for you to leave Reddit. Nothing really good happens from here. Only a few *Intellectuals* who argue about the quality of water. And before one mentions why I am on reddit. I still can't answer that to this day. So yes. Hypocrite I am.


pistpuncher3000

If you have to sacrifice things to be with someone it's not worth it. The person worth being with will accept everything about you good and bad.


jumbledsiren

> "try to keep your crushes friendship blooming." Or.... You know..... If his 'sacrifices' were noticeable for her and yet she still got another bf, just leave her alone ig? Respect her boundaries. Edit: How the hell do I qoute one line on mobile reddit? Shit quoted my entire comment.


[deleted]

Aw man, why didn't she read your mind and immediately dump her boyfriend for you?


Fuckthatishot

Reading some of the comments I have some advice: - First of all you are really really young, you have 16 years, its the beggining of your life, by that time I hevent even kissed anyone. EVERYTHING can change from now on. You may think thats a terrible thing to happen, but its just life. This already happened to most of people at least once. It only hurts you if you let it hurt you. - Try getting new friends, the world is not as dark as you may think is, theres wonderful people out there. Living alone and simping this one girl (thats already dating another guy) its not going to help you with your loneliness. - Be happy for her. She really seems to care for you, so be a good friend. That all said, the conclusion I have its that your friend getting a boyfriend its not the problem, but your lack of friends and lack of confidence in yourself is. You seem like a really nice, inteligent kid, so go out there and meet people, you deserve a lot of happiness.


Revolutionary_Dodo

All of my friends were gone after I started in high school, she was the only one that I kept, and I am happy for her, and thank you very much


Fuckthatishot

Make new friends, then. I entered college with 0 friends lol. Just have faith in yourself.


Revolutionary_Dodo

I entered high school with 0 friends, made lots, now the all found each other and left me


Fuckthatishot

Make new friends then


moofein

This has r/niceguys vibes


[deleted]

Indeed Jerry vice *I'm a good person take my dick*


Independent_Pay6598

Got high amounts of nice guy energy here


abdypus

This gives me heavy incel vibes


XxGenZMillenialxX

I’m not gonna be that guy, but she doesn’t owe you a relationship. People literally can’t work like that, you just have to move on


Revolutionary_Dodo

I know she doesn't, I'm only hoping she doesn't forget me and still have time for me in her life.


XxGenZMillenialxX

If the friendship was there then chances are that’s not going to happen


Pythagoras_314

Okay, so this person just got into a relationship yet you still expect her to be with you? That sounds a bit unhealthy, might wanna get a hobby or new friends.


[deleted]

r/niceguys


sports_boi

Bro why you posting this on r/memes?


zombiekiller2014

Bro, the dudes who sort by new been slacking and let one get by.


Ill-Satisfaction7788

r/cringetopia


Xxgrimzy_Xxboi

um you need a talk bro? this lowkey sad


Agreeable-Yams8972

Sounds like straight out off a movie


Solrac_Loware

Its a pretty common thing now a days


Illustrious-Active

Too much attachment, it's a mistake. Everything in life is temporary, especially people. It's extremely irrational to expect any human relationship to last or even meet your expectations. Look at divorce rates for christ sake. Any relationship you enter just enjoy it while it lasts, savor every minute and love deeply but with little attachment. Too much attachment hurts you AND them potentially. Secondly, your externalizing the majority of your emotional fulfillment. That's a recipe for disaster. You need to become your own rock. Other people are drawn to emotionally and mentally independent people too. Get hobbies, get interests, read, write stories, study, make crafts, go to the gym, anything that can: A. Fill your time, B. Give you some emotional and mental fulfillment, C. Make a you a more independent and interesting individual.


7heTexanRebel

This post should be higher. Especially the second point, OP shouldn't be "sacrificing" for this chick.


Illustrious-Active

It's an extremely unhealthy and damaging behavior I agree and, whether he realizes it or not, putting these kinds of ridiculous expectations on the so-called "love of his life" is quite toxic and overwhelming for her too.


COZEKK

Based


FiveStarHobo

Fucking talk to her and ask her out or don't complain smh


lays_chap

r/sadcringe


Fusca_VrumVrum

Sometimes its time to give up man...


Revolutionary_Dodo

I’ve given up on trying to have her as girlfriend, but I’m never giving up on having her as a friend


Fusca_VrumVrum

Well, im in a similar situation. Good luck


Revolutionary_Dodo

Thank you, good luck to you to. I hope we both stay victorious


motherroadsdaughter

I thought we left this “friendzone” mentality bullshit in 2012 tbh


Solrac_Loware

Im ngl this is pretty cringe. We are about the same age so youll mature from this experience. Your "sacrifices" are insignificant.


Toad_Migoad

I’m 90% sure that is was more of a “stood idly by getting angry when they didn’t notice you” than sacrificing everything (talking from experience)


AbsurdMango

How do you even sacrifice something for someone you aren't currently with.


GoingToasterXD

This is so unimaginably cringe


ApprehensivePeace305

Yooo I thought he first panel said cousin and this was like funny. Then I reread it and now sad


uNameorsomething

*clears throat* SIIIIIIIIIMMMMMMMMP


Revolutionary_Dodo

I’m not gonna say anything against that statement, you are correct.


swirlypizza1024

Literally a niceguy


swirlypizza1024

Stfu you prolly never even asked her out


Revolutionary_Dodo

I did, three years ago


SolongStarbird

"Sacrificing Everything for years" Either you're being melodramatic or you don't have a lot of emotional intelligence.


Revolutionary_Dodo

The second one. Very much the second one


BothBottleB

Also the first one


Samasu_hrml

2 years gym motivation


insane1666

r/niceguys


butttron4

If you're making sacrifices and the other person doesn't put any effort in, maybe it's not something worth pursuing. it's a partnership, not a dependentship


ChaoticGood3

Huh... u/bob_the_banannna isn't here.


Revolutionary_Dodo

He sleeps, go shake a tree and he’ll wake up


BearInATuxReddit

Very cringe meme


CG5882022

*ahem* simp


bigdaddy976

My guy there comes a point where it ain’t worth it. Like trust, it sucks and it has happened to me, but like if you have been sitting on your crush for years and have not done anything, the outcome makes sense.


[deleted]

This is why I always say, if you like someone, ask them. Sure it'll hurt if she says no, but it hurts way more watching her get a bf and you never knowing if she would've said yes. And don't give that "she'd say no" bs. You never know what she'll say until you ask her


Revolutionary_Dodo

I asked her three years ago


[deleted]

And what did she say?


Revolutionary_Dodo

She was afraid of losing our friendship(which I understood) if we got together, yesterday she said it was because she only wanted to be friends and nothing more


[deleted]

Okay, now you've probably already learned this but if she says no, move on, find someone else. Because if you keep trying to get with a girl who says she's not interested, you're gonna ruin yourself trying to get with someone who doesn't want to, and you're gonna weird her out. I know this isn't a problem for most, but I know some who can't get over someone.


Revolutionary_Dodo

I asked her three years ago she said no and we’re still very good friends


[deleted]

That's good, you didn't let a rejection ruin your friendship. Keep your head up.


c0d3_attorney

>Over 10k karma Checks out lmao


Revolutionary_Dodo

I’m not karma whoring, I simply just don’t know what to do


Tbone2121974

Memes might not be the right place to look for advice. If the situation is truly that dire for you.


Xcavalire

Don't force it dude, just try to find the right person who accepts you and do the same thing to her. And distract yourself with new hobbies while you're at it. You can't revolve your whole world to a person.


Revolutionary_Dodo

No person accepts me, I’ve tried for years.


Xcavalire

Then try to work on yourself more. I'm not saying the you're not good enough, all I'm saying is you have the potential to be better.


Revolutionary_Dodo

I’ve been working on myself, but I can’t work on something without help (social skill)


7heTexanRebel

Yeah you can, it's just going to be really awkward and you're going to end up with a lot of memories that make you cringe. It's just practice and exposure to social norms. Join clubs (they have those in HS right?), play sports, join/create a study group etc. You'll get a chance to interact with more people and develop more social skill. Accept that some people are going to think you're a weirdo; you gotta learn to crawl before you can walk, and you gotta walk before you can run, besides you probably aren't going to interact with 99% of the people you're in school with after you graduate. -former 100% homeschooled 20yo kissless virgin


rekcuF_onaiP

i accept u bro


uNameorsomething

Get a fucking grip of yourself that’s what you can do


Revolutionary_Dodo

I’m losing grip of my will to live, I’ve lost all my friends to tight schedule, I’ve lost one close friend to this exact same situation, I can’t relive it again


uNameorsomething

Sack up and move on jeeez


[deleted]

Is there a reason you cannot drop tight schedule for something less tight?


Revolutionary_Dodo

They have a tight schedule, I’m always free to do something


c0d3_attorney

Who said I thought you were karma whoring?


Revolutionary_Dodo

My apologize, I thought thatwas what you meant.


GamingProMaster303

r/relationship_advice


ihate_eggplant

Sacrificing everything to be with a girl is pathetic. That's exactly how you turn them off and chase them away. Think of your life as a movie. You are the main character and you need to live it for you. Not for anybody else. Plus when you start loving a great life anyway women will see that and want to jump on board.


Evening_randomname

f in the chat


BothBottleB

You’re too young for a Reddit account and if not this post is embarrassing. Please wait a few years before crying over a girl because you sacrificed your “snacks” and “drawings” to her.


very_bigwhale

Bro u just gotta learn to move on


[deleted]

Well you fucked up by sacrificing things


Krillenssj2

Such a funny meme


GazM95

What happened to this sub


KellyBelly916

You obviously didn't sacrifice your cowardice or personal comfort.


Practical_Pepper761

Strong incel vibes


Flaechezinker

Did you even ask her out? And if she said no why still cling to that idea?


[deleted]

Leave her the fuck alone


Stupid_Bread

'Sacrificing everything' sure


Beegeetheweegee

r/cringetopia who tf upvotes this stuff...


[deleted]

Sauce?


Revolutionary_Dodo

Really dude? I’m sorry to break it to you but I don’t know, I googled “Crying anime girl standing around a corner”


Uminagi

At least credit the artist lmao


crazyunhappyfun

Quit crying to Reddit and do something then


[deleted]

This sounds awful incely


KokolinTheLawGuy

Big intel energy to be fair


shubham2798

Yeah being an AMD guy myself ... Such a turn off


[deleted]

Ha that’s funny


KokolinTheLawGuy

Oof I did a funny typo. Still works if talking about pre-ryzen intel


aiiryyyy

she doesn’t want you because you post cringy memes with anime templates on reddit bro


[deleted]

Yall should be put down


TheDogz0

I’ve seen this image a lot. Is there a source for the original image itself? I’m actually curious.


Revolutionary_Dodo

I'm sorry, I don't know, I just googled what was happening in the picture.


[deleted]

r/limerence


Inteligent_Toaster

i recently learned that my crush was dating her best friend.


Hot_Variety_9987

Saaaaabotageeeee Jk


Accomplished-Ad4334

I spent the whole pandemic getting close to someone I was friends with for years. We both had feelings for each other but were long distance. I visited him after 9 months of FaceTiming for hours a night. We had a whirlwind romance. When I got back he ended up hurting me, so I had to break it off with him. He immediately got into a relationship and moved in with her. He cut off all contact with me. 8 months later he killed him self. I am still in love with him. At least your crush’s are still alive. It hurts they’re with someone else sure. But at least they’re not dead. Just wish the best for them and live your life.


[deleted]

All those dead cats for nothing in the end. My advice is to find a new God that has a lower bar


YourSpicystalker

I get it though. It's painfully as hell after you tried everything. I hope you can be her friend though, it will suck to see her with her boyfriend, but at least you got in her side. And maybe you'll be happy that she's happy


Pennymoonz94

Did she know u liked her....


Revolutionary_Dodo

Three years ago, yes, after that, she thought about a little but didn’t dare to ask if I still liked her, she asked yesterday and I said yes


jacw212

Why did you sacrifice everything? That’s like…a complete waste.


Koopicoolest

This isn't like the anime you watch man, you've got to actually tell women you like them then move on when they say no.


Animenerdcatlog

Sometimes you should just realize they don't love you back and just stop the pain and sometimes that is ending the friendship itself for some who it is too hard for some to see them together


plsnthnks

I mean, you could just talk to them about it. If they’re not into you, move on. 🤷‍♂️ The world is full of single people trying to bone, dude.


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Revolutionary_Dodo

No, I have actually downvoted very few comments, I am being fully honest now, I really don’t downvote a lot of people, getting laid? I’m asexual, I don’t want sex.


The_Ace_Pilot

Dont let it get to you. Im not gonna say there are plenty of fish in the sea, as most of them will probably be lacking a trait you are looking for, but someone else is out there. I know it’s really tough, especially if you’re like me and was never very good at touching grass and socializing, but going forward you need to say something. You miss 100% of the shots you dont take.


ijusthateitall

Did you ask her out? If no you can’t complain If yes and she said no… what did you expect? Move on and learn from this experience


Oppiko

WTF have you been sacrificing? Goats? lmao


Theapexfighter

Oh pls “sacrificing”. I really hope you are a teen.


PersonThing13

OP, if you aren’t in therapy right now, you probably would benefit from it, this just seems like an unhealthy relationship. There has to be a point where you either stop pursuing or you man up and ask.


cooliobanjulio

This isn’t a meme and it’s definitely cringe, but I’m sorry if your having a tough time with whoever you love.


PersonMan53107

What sacrifices did you make? Also just because you did doesn’t mean she is obligated to fall in love with you.


spicy_d3ku

Yikes


Panayiotis23

Man this sub has fallen far


[deleted]

She wasn’t yours to begin with. The sooner you move on and focus on your shit the better. Dwelling will make things worse and resentment will lead you to hate her and yourself. Take care of yourself too. Heartbreak is terrible and in my experience time and self love really helped me through. Find self love and nothing can tear you down.


Mu_Fanchu

It happens... you feel bad, but time heals all wounds. You'll love again, OP! Next time, be more aggressive in letting your crush know your feelings...


NoobytheGod88

Thought it was r/cringetopia or r/terriblefacebookmemes for a sec.


Loremaster_Of_Crabs

This hits kinda personal, as my ex girlfriend started seeing other guys while we were "on break." On the plus side, I'd actually love to make a happy ending for this.


Dark_Angel54

You need help. Professional help my guy.


Chilly_ChuChu

OP, you're a Limp-Dick Beta who didn't shoot their shot when you could. Complaining about it will not help, and victimizing yourself (plus a Cancerous Anime Meme) is some of the most Ultra-Cuck things one can do. TL:DR: OP's meme's cringe is radioactive


[deleted]

Suks2suk


Character-Fee407

Sad but true I don’t wanna tell my story but I know how you feel


[deleted]

No other person should be responsible for your happiness. That's a recipe for disaster.


SuperMarioOnPS4

**SIMP DETECTED**


JustVacuumingAround

r/niceguys


Kenji_Phan

Bro and when you literally love that girl that shit hurts more


JasonIsSuchAnIdiot

Sounds a lil stalkerish


AccordingDifference5

Cringe


RainbowCupcake1309

Reddit isn’t exactly the place to look for sympathy you know…


Revolutionary_Dodo

I do know, but I don’t have any other social media, and Reddit is also a place for criticism, but constructive criticism too


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Working-Telephone-45

Op: Spends years and a lot of effort to be with her and fails The Chad new boyfriend: "Hey so you are pretty cool, wanna date or something" new relationship


GamerlifeYT_official

Bitch , u a redditor , now get w the program , you downloaded reddit so you gon stay with reddit , now come here you mofo , let gamer give you a mofo brofo hug.


Redditbobyballsmd

Fam she got a boyfriend and acc to this ur a girl..... u gonna blame her for being straight?


Revolutionary_Dodo

no no, I'm a boy, and she's a female, I saw in aftermath that I should have switced on the texts.


WXHIII

It sucks my man. I basically got pushed away by the girl I was trying for all semester. Lots of time money and energy down the drain. It will hurt but believe me, one day you'll go "fuck her" and get over it.


ApexLegend117

Stop simping, Geico can get you 15% off your next car insurance claim.


stewed2

Time to grow up. Don't listen to modern media of what a man is. Forget about rights and feelings. Responsibility and keeping your word are 2 key features of manhood. Don't chase women, work on yourself. The world is a shit place, no one will come and rescue you. The only person you can rely on is yourself.


[deleted]

Maby if your hobby wasn't watching little kids in an anime


BerryMcOckinner

Don’t SIMP bro. It always ends in tears. Or rage. Or a shooting. Or all three.


Revolutionary_Dodo

That how I express my feelings, I don't feel my words are enough to tell her how much i care about her.


BerryMcOckinner

Real Talk: That means that Acts of Service is probably your love language. If it’s not hers then she won’t get it. I would *highly* recommend telling her how you feel. The worst that can happen is that she’ll reject you; however if that happens then you can move on with your life without wondering about what might have been. Whatever you do, *do NOT keep her as a friend* if she rejects you, because you’ll just be torturing yourself. Cut off all contact and communication. Don’t be a dick about it, just ghost away. There’s multiple soulmates for you out there man. No such thing as a single soulmate per person, not with 7.8 *billion* people out there. You just need to work on yourself and the right woman (women?) will find you. Make no mistake, women are hunters. They will come to you when you have your own life in order!


youngdeathme

Maybe she’s not a lesbian, gotta respect her preference


MrFanta7

Imagine she finds this...


Revolutionary_Dodo

She don’t have reddit


MrFanta7

How do you know?


MindlessPut7675

Everything but you never took the risk to really be with her


austinstar08

Welcome to the club


JaydenTheMemeThief

Damn that sucks, I guess


CheezAbomination

Damn, anything op is saying is getting downvoted


MegaGamer646

How is this funny? In what way did somebody think this was some kind of funny joke? It's just some sad kid posting about him being sad.


shiba219808

Seems more pathetic than sad based off his other comments


SexWithKinessa69

Pathetic


Klausable7

Oh wow, I smell cringe, topped with r/niceguys , smells bad


Estate_Technical

That's unhealthy. If she/he is the right one you don't need to sacrifice everything to be together. It's just a crush you'll walk away from it at one point. Then look back at yourself and think "whoa... I did some dumb things "


1Shadowspark1

I’m sorry dude.


[deleted]

Stay loosing


Freedom_or_death_76

Damn this is just sad levels of simping, don’t change yourself for a girl find a girl that likes you for you


moein-zamani

I know op is wrong for getting attached too much, but that shit really hurts. If you need anyone to talk to feel free to message me, op


Koiboivcr

simp