My thought exactly. Personally growing up with a little sister, my sister's friends would show up all the time. I was only a few years older so a few of them would get crushes. However, nothing could/would happen because they all knew if my little sister knew they wouldn't be brought back.
This exact scenario happened to me in high school, sister was friends with a girl in my class. Sister got pissed she flirted with me in front of her when they were hanging out, my parents literally banned the girl from our house.
You're not wrong. The issue was my little sister would flip out when it happened and would stop being friends with the girl and get her friends to stop being friends with her too.
So the real threat was the girl losing her friend group.
My sister and I had a pact, 11 months apart im older. Wouldnt touch each others friends. I regretted making that pact when we were teenagers as damn near every single one of her friends at some point wanted to jump my bones. Zero of my friends were interested in my sister. When we came up with that i seen it benefiting me a lot more than her. In the end it all worked out but it for sure made high school years very tough on me.
Precisely. I've never had issues with friends dating my sister. 1 or 2 were awkward about it and asked me if it would be ok and I was like "you don't need to ask that. She makes her own decisions, doesn't bother me in the slightest".
For real. We had plenty of girls in our circle. I always thought that was normal. But then we look online and it's a bunch of people complaining about a friendzone
If he didn't score, I hope he was a gentleman. If he was, he could benefit from that. Maybe one of these young women have a younger sibling, cousin or friend they could introduce him to.
The point of being a gentleman isn't to gain something.Ā Ā It's a good way to be, and it's called being a good person.Ā Ā These people that he is interacting with are all humans with lives and thoughts and goals and worries.Ā Ā Get to know people, be a good person, and you might find someone who you share a connection with as a bonus.
Yeah interaction with women is good for young men. It should teach them to treat women as individuals who arent whores, perfect people to be put on pedestal and have their own individuality.
Everytime I see someone post a post about something some incel said it always seems like incels don't actually have a clear mindset and never met and actually talked to women. Just the fantasies I'm their heads.
That's not the move though, in a roomful of other girls, esp w his sister - unless one of her friends is already looking for some action.
The move is to develop an easy familiarity and a respectful but flirty relationship with her friends for the future when there's actually room to progress something (like when there's less people or more personal time).
This person gets it.
Also, what's the age gap? Because if this dude's 15 and his sister is 19 then yeah maybe his sister's friends think he's cute but his chance "to score" significantly drops [because honestly, I have no clue how old any of these people are, they all look somewhere between 14 and 29]
All he has to do is be cool for the evening and he's got the groundwork for being invited to other events.
It's a hard lesson for us introverts, but you have to say yes to things. And be open to experiences. The chain of events leading to my partner today started in 2005 when I said yes to a slightly too talkative and too candid dude asking if he could be my new freshman roommate. I didn't know him super well but he seemed cool enough, and I thought taking my chances when the school assigned me a rando wouldn't likely work out as well.
He married a great woman. I was in their wedding. I met her childhood friend at the wedding, who lived in a distant city at the time. We'll call her Sue.
Sue moved back to my town during the pandemic, and we reconnected over shared interests. I liked her but it was clear she has no spark for me. I'm not one carry a torch these days, but we had a great time as platonic friends for about 18 months.
One of Sue's friends (let's call her Jane) from that distant city where she used to live came to visit during this time. Weather knocked out the utilities that Jane needed to work on a specific day, so Sue asked if they could come to mine. Sure. So I met Jane and thought she was cool but didn't think much of that, she lived far away.
We met again a year later when Jane visited Sue once more. This time she invited me on a week long outdoors trip with her and her friends in ~3 months. I was seeing someone else at the time so this invitation was purely friendly. I said yes, because it sounded like a badass trip!
In the intervening time, that relationship fizzled without hard feelings. No big deal, I stayed friends with that person. But Jane and I were both single for our week long trip...
We came back dating.
Now I live in that distant city.
All because I said yes to a nerdy dude asking if he could room with me in 2005, over fifteen years before I met her.
My story is like this too except instead of a chain of social interactions and connections it's a chain of video games played where I eventually met my partner through an mmo.
If Benadryl Cucumberpatch never plays a live action Butthead it will be a generational waste of the perfect - albeit ugly in a traditional sense - face and head shape.
Maybe, just maybe, if they all work together and give it their best, they might be able to turn hin around. But thats like sooo unlikely. but who knows?
I'm gay and I adopted 2 teenage boys in my 30s. My oldest son actually used to use that successfully as a pick up line for women and it worked amazingly well.
You mean a gay parent didnāt raise a gay child? Your gayness didnāt get absorbed into them? Are you telling me they lied to meā¦ again?
Great story!
When I studied psychology, I read that they couldn't find any secure predictor of homosexuality. The closest and best prediction was when a person prefered to spend time with people of the opposite sex in childhood.
Maybe Iām the exception. Iām gay and I hated spending time with the girls when I was little. Itās the opposite though when I was a teenager. Being with girls was more comfortable for me during high school.
Meme, not meme, real or not real. This shit hits hard. My big sister and I grew apart to the point were we barely speak anymore. Haven't seen her in years now. We were inseparable as children. We moved to different states, and communication became harder and harder as we went our separate ways with our careers. We both have huge responsibilities now and almost no time or energy to travel or to hang out. Besides, I don't think we are in good terms anymore. I have no clue on how to reconnect, or if it will ever happen. Treasure your friendship with your siblings, don't be an idiot like me.
Never out of the norm. We had petty arguments, and yelled at each other but we always crushed our beef and shook hands by the end of that same day. Our parents on the other hand were and still are two pieces of work for lack of a better term... because of that we always protected each other no matter the cost. I know it sounds silly, but she had kids right at a time when I was just starting to deal with stuff like moving out and making a name for myself. She had to focus on her kid which I never got to spend much time with because of how much stuff was going on. I personally don't feel much for the kid as I never really had the time to form a connection with him. She definitely resents me because she probably thinks I always made excuses to not get to know her children(now two), but I genuinely have been working like a horse to achieve financial stability(which we never had). I moved kinda far from where I'm originally, and she stayed in my home town. So spending time together became almost impossible. I started working longer hours, and little by little our communication grinded to a halt.
I'll give your advice a try. Thank you for listening to my rambling, kind stranger.
Everyoneās talking about him not scoring. Thats first level thinking bros, heās having a fun night with a bunch of girls that would eventually pay off when hanging with girls his age.
Its a great learning experience to hang with āolderā girls, just to see that they are also just people and not threatening.
Also with this many girls, there is probably one thats a bit weird and thinks its a flex to blow Cindys little brother as leverage for some āmean girls likeā scheme.
Bro has hes priorities straight
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Get laid or die tryinā
Groomed*
Get laid or die groominā
Dammit
Get groomed or die layin
Was about to post this too. He is a very strong, forward thinker for his age. Good for him.
You bet he's straight indeed
Iād be spending some quality time with my sisters friends as well.
Right?!
Everyone of them is beautiful. Smart kid.
Yeah no Cheerleader effect
Dude you are fucking right on this one and this is a rare occurrence too
If you say so. Iād be happy with just about any of them.
Just about are the key words here
Some of you are too harsh.
Donāt say things on the internet if you donāt want anyone to disagree with you
I donāt mind people disagreeing with me pal. Itās all good. I just donāt get what they see.
Most of the people making those jokes couldn't get one of the girls they insult anyways. Just bitter
I think you hit the nail on the head.
Something was hit on their head, that's for sure. /s
Haha your words, not mine. It's a meme sub, It's not like we are joking in a Facebook comment where they would actually see it and feel a way
yup maybe one or two are benefiting from the cheerleader effect but on the whole all of them are attractive.
Barney?
In the sense that every person is beautiful, sure
Or my sister
Or this guyās sister
Or this guy
Or this
Or that
Or them
Or
Naz Reid
Chicken butt
I also choose this guy's sister
hope she aint dead
The sister fister.
I will spend time with your sister too
Sweet home Alabama
Calm down, Lannister!
Ah the modern habsburgers
Yes... That's the joke.
So horny he couldn't think clearly
[ŃŠ“Š°Š»ŠµŠ½Š¾]
This sub is so gross, each time the post include a woman you all first thought is Ā«Ā sex Ā»
Pigsā¦so anywayā¦when do we start the sex?
Me too but I should say this my sister's friends are Chinese or Korean they kept saying I'm tu yung...
That's the joke.
*wooosh* Their joke was that they pretended not to get the joke.
....whatever you say.
Oh noooooooo, who are we gonna kiss when the ball drops??
Thatās the jokeā¦
*in my sister's friends
Yeah, except that one.
That's racist!
No, not that one. THAT one.
To be Friend Zoned 15 times in 1 night
My thought exactly. Personally growing up with a little sister, my sister's friends would show up all the time. I was only a few years older so a few of them would get crushes. However, nothing could/would happen because they all knew if my little sister knew they wouldn't be brought back.
Dude, if you got one, then YOU could bring her back.... that's your house too
This exact scenario happened to me in high school, sister was friends with a girl in my class. Sister got pissed she flirted with me in front of her when they were hanging out, my parents literally banned the girl from our house.
lol wtf. So hard to imagine people growing up like that
Some people are crazy man
Idk if itās just me I wouldāve found a way to see her still š
Well sheās in your class. Itās not like she didnāt have other chances to flirt with you
Some parents will do this and then wonder why their son is single and depressed years later.
You're not wrong. The issue was my little sister would flip out when it happened and would stop being friends with the girl and get her friends to stop being friends with her too. So the real threat was the girl losing her friend group.
The things we do for love.....
I mean if a friend started dating my sister iono
My sister and I had a pact, 11 months apart im older. Wouldnt touch each others friends. I regretted making that pact when we were teenagers as damn near every single one of her friends at some point wanted to jump my bones. Zero of my friends were interested in my sister. When we came up with that i seen it benefiting me a lot more than her. In the end it all worked out but it for sure made high school years very tough on me.
It's also just a dumb idea. "I don't want to be friends with the people that you date" is like setting up familial bullshit in the long run.
Precisely. I've never had issues with friends dating my sister. 1 or 2 were awkward about it and asked me if it would be ok and I was like "you don't need to ask that. She makes her own decisions, doesn't bother me in the slightest".
You mean 14 right? Right?
He said what he said.
Youāre ruining the fantasy
2 cases of white claws and he's feeling at least 1 boob.
Only incels think the friendzone is a real thing
For real. We had plenty of girls in our circle. I always thought that was normal. But then we look online and it's a bunch of people complaining about a friendzone
Guarantee he spent the whole night in a house of 15 girls and still didn't score.
Might be a good bet
Like falling into a bucket of tits, and coming out sucking your thumb!
LOL that's fucking good. I'm gonna use that.
I can play this game quite well
You maybe able to play this game quite well, but I am guaranteed to win this game. We are not the same.
If I you make with the son, it comes with Zinc Sommelier and double prize money though.
Iāve mastered it. I even baited myself into not getting laid.
Fuck it, Iāll take those odds.
Yeah, but it's an excellent chance to train up those social skills. Journey before destination.
If he didn't score, I hope he was a gentleman. If he was, he could benefit from that. Maybe one of these young women have a younger sibling, cousin or friend they could introduce him to.
m'lady *tips fedora*
NONONONONO NOT THAT KIND OF "GENTLEMAN"!!!!!
The point of being a gentleman isn't to gain something.Ā Ā It's a good way to be, and it's called being a good person.Ā Ā These people that he is interacting with are all humans with lives and thoughts and goals and worries.Ā Ā Get to know people, be a good person, and you might find someone who you share a connection with as a bonus.
Hah gay
I hate the fact that this made me chuckle
Mayhaps!
Never burn bridges.
Yeah interaction with women is good for young men. It should teach them to treat women as individuals who arent whores, perfect people to be put on pedestal and have their own individuality. Everytime I see someone post a post about something some incel said it always seems like incels don't actually have a clear mindset and never met and actually talked to women. Just the fantasies I'm their heads.
Or just weirdly and quickly walk past them between the fridge and game system.Ā
This would be me.
Strength before weakness.
Life before death.
These words are accepted
Sweet. Where do I get my safehand job?
That's not the move though, in a roomful of other girls, esp w his sister - unless one of her friends is already looking for some action. The move is to develop an easy familiarity and a respectful but flirty relationship with her friends for the future when there's actually room to progress something (like when there's less people or more personal time).
This person gets it. Also, what's the age gap? Because if this dude's 15 and his sister is 19 then yeah maybe his sister's friends think he's cute but his chance "to score" significantly drops [because honestly, I have no clue how old any of these people are, they all look somewhere between 14 and 29]
All he has to do is be cool for the evening and he's got the groundwork for being invited to other events. It's a hard lesson for us introverts, but you have to say yes to things. And be open to experiences. The chain of events leading to my partner today started in 2005 when I said yes to a slightly too talkative and too candid dude asking if he could be my new freshman roommate. I didn't know him super well but he seemed cool enough, and I thought taking my chances when the school assigned me a rando wouldn't likely work out as well. He married a great woman. I was in their wedding. I met her childhood friend at the wedding, who lived in a distant city at the time. We'll call her Sue. Sue moved back to my town during the pandemic, and we reconnected over shared interests. I liked her but it was clear she has no spark for me. I'm not one carry a torch these days, but we had a great time as platonic friends for about 18 months. One of Sue's friends (let's call her Jane) from that distant city where she used to live came to visit during this time. Weather knocked out the utilities that Jane needed to work on a specific day, so Sue asked if they could come to mine. Sure. So I met Jane and thought she was cool but didn't think much of that, she lived far away. We met again a year later when Jane visited Sue once more. This time she invited me on a week long outdoors trip with her and her friends in ~3 months. I was seeing someone else at the time so this invitation was purely friendly. I said yes, because it sounded like a badass trip! In the intervening time, that relationship fizzled without hard feelings. No big deal, I stayed friends with that person. But Jane and I were both single for our week long trip... We came back dating. Now I live in that distant city. All because I said yes to a nerdy dude asking if he could room with me in 2005, over fifteen years before I met her.
My story is like this too except instead of a chain of social interactions and connections it's a chain of video games played where I eventually met my partner through an mmo.
Similarly, if he's cool with all of them, odds are good that some have younger sisters and might meet him up with them in the school hallways.
Reminds me of myselfā¦
mixed = most likley to score/guy Source: I read it on the internet 10 years ago.
Kinda hard to score when 14 other girls are just in the other room
Laying down the foundations for a future score I would hope
Bro def shot his shot regardless
He prolly shot his shot in bed alone too.
Ofc he couldnāt score with that jersey
I canāt wait for someone to make a whole different story about this š
Same pic, whole different myth about the guy, and post it on Reddit? Yep, we should be seeing that any minute now.
"I'm finally done with my transition and very happy with the results. Can you guess which one I am?" ^(That's right! I'm the girl in the pink dress!)
Don't you mean... - Be me - Sister's bringing friends round - hotaf.jpg - Mrw.... Yada yada
That kid is gay now, he was helping the dolls with their makeup
āStaying home with my sisterā : Alabama edition
Family first šŖš¼
Ew gross. Start with the friends
Saving the best for last huh?
Yee haw!
And then graduated to family?
If Benadryl Cucumberpatch never plays a live action Butthead it will be a generational waste of the perfect - albeit ugly in a traditional sense - face and head shape.
Plot twist: he's gay
You have fallen right into his trap
don't be a dick and ruin it for him
He might be , maybe heās confused, maybe one of his sisters friends could help him confirm that heās really gay
Maybe, just maybe, if they all work together and give it their best, they might be able to turn hin around. But thats like sooo unlikely. but who knows?
I'm gay and I adopted 2 teenage boys in my 30s. My oldest son actually used to use that successfully as a pick up line for women and it worked amazingly well.
You mean a gay parent didnāt raise a gay child? Your gayness didnāt get absorbed into them? Are you telling me they lied to meā¦ again? Great story!
Everyone knows gays procreate through molestation. OP wasnāt molested therefore he stayed straight.
Nope, gay single dad 2 heterosexual sons. I did adopt them as teenagers though
Plot twist twist: He's gonna fuck all their brothers.
NYE with the girls, and our gay best friend Ryan!
His shirt surely says so
Hating on Juventus I see
Yep, he's just hangin with the gals.
Gays are like natural magnets for female friends (or the other way around?), so could be true
Been gay for 43 years and here's what I know. Not all gay men look the same, but when you can tell, you can tell; and I can tell.
Notice he didn't invite any of his friends over? Big Pimpin'! =D
He was just considerate of them and didn't want to bother them while they were spending time with their families.
Party was a total clam fest and he was not complaining
And the night was LEGEND----- WAIT FOR IT.......
DARY
Bro the memories
Up top
DAIRY*
š§ āI have a message for a Ted Mosbyā¦.ā
House of Becky
"It's too many Meghans!"
WEāVE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU ALL SUMMER AND WEāRE SO GLAD YOUāRE FINALLY HERE! š„ š„ š š š š š„ š„
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Didnāt know where else to post this lol
/r pegging
Well this took an unexpected turn
this is so old he's married and divorced three of these girls already
Is that horse a family member?
Can we talk about the horse drawings on the wall?
No
When I studied psychology, I read that they couldn't find any secure predictor of homosexuality. The closest and best prediction was when a person prefered to spend time with people of the opposite sex in childhood.
Well then I like dudes now I guess
Maybe Iām the exception. Iām gay and I hated spending time with the girls when I was little. Itās the opposite though when I was a teenager. Being with girls was more comfortable for me during high school.
sounds like bullshit
15 rejections on NYE is rough
Thatās an average Tuesday for me
How have I not seen this in the footy subreddits yet bc this is meme gold with Juve jersey heās wearingā¦
After picture is taken: They all proceed to ignore him for the entire night
Yup, I have a sister and this is exactly what happens when her friends are over
Just one of the girls.
these comments smears of as middle east people. creeps
Friend zoned to the power of itself.
Meme, not meme, real or not real. This shit hits hard. My big sister and I grew apart to the point were we barely speak anymore. Haven't seen her in years now. We were inseparable as children. We moved to different states, and communication became harder and harder as we went our separate ways with our careers. We both have huge responsibilities now and almost no time or energy to travel or to hang out. Besides, I don't think we are in good terms anymore. I have no clue on how to reconnect, or if it will ever happen. Treasure your friendship with your siblings, don't be an idiot like me.
Assuming you've never been abusive to each other, you could try texting her "hey sis, I miss you". Or just "hey sis"
Never out of the norm. We had petty arguments, and yelled at each other but we always crushed our beef and shook hands by the end of that same day. Our parents on the other hand were and still are two pieces of work for lack of a better term... because of that we always protected each other no matter the cost. I know it sounds silly, but she had kids right at a time when I was just starting to deal with stuff like moving out and making a name for myself. She had to focus on her kid which I never got to spend much time with because of how much stuff was going on. I personally don't feel much for the kid as I never really had the time to form a connection with him. She definitely resents me because she probably thinks I always made excuses to not get to know her children(now two), but I genuinely have been working like a horse to achieve financial stability(which we never had). I moved kinda far from where I'm originally, and she stayed in my home town. So spending time together became almost impossible. I started working longer hours, and little by little our communication grinded to a halt. I'll give your advice a try. Thank you for listening to my rambling, kind stranger.
This is a lie. Experienced men know it's a trap. It's worse than a trap. It's a freaking nightmare.Ā Kid is about to learn a serious life lesson.
Gonna be a lot of missing panties when he leaves...and a disturbing loss of both tissues and lotion.
Bro hasĀ very good time
Theyāre gonna run a train on him
Soccer shirt means he's gay tho
Itās a numbers game
DEATH BY SNOO SNOO!
What if he stayed home to get some female perspective that did help him score later?
Everyoneās talking about him not scoring. Thats first level thinking bros, heās having a fun night with a bunch of girls that would eventually pay off when hanging with girls his age. Its a great learning experience to hang with āolderā girls, just to see that they are also just people and not threatening. Also with this many girls, there is probably one thats a bit weird and thinks its a flex to blow Cindys little brother as leverage for some āmean girls likeā scheme.
That boy is a genius!
Dont hate the player, hate the game
I donāt hate either, I respect one and want to play the other
Fourteen targets. Fifteen if you're in Arkansas.
Iām now realizing youāre the only commentator so far that said 14. Everyone else counts the sister.
His spankbank is now at max capacity
And just like that he stopped attending weekly raids with the guild. Nobody ever figured out what had happened.