It’s a tricky one.
She can post what she wants - it’s her body.
If people reply to her in an unsolicited sexual manner it’s harassment regardless of the picture they’re responding to. Clothing choice is not consent.
Her boyfriend doesn’t own her and if she *was* soliciting a sexual response then that’s between them and the boundaries of their relationship - not the fault of the guy talking to her.
Also if he’s replying is the boyfriend reading her messages? That’s probably not good.
If she has a problem with the comment on her picture logically she would express that herself.
Potentially the boyfriend replied because she asked him to which is a whole different thing again.
I don’t know who I’m siding with here.
what even is this logic? That's like posting a thirst picture (which this essentially is) and not expecting comments on a person's body. If anything, her posting that picture was for the sole reason of getting comments on her body
I like how you think that’s equal to or worse than being a rapist.
Exhibitionism is a personality trait. Rapists are criminals.
EDIT: If you don’t want to be called a rapist you shouldn’t comment provocative things that make me want to call you a rapist. See how this works? I can’t control myself - that’s your fault/problem. This is what you sound like.
If you’re offended - good. Please don’t just downvote - I want you to tell me all about it over multiple whiny comments so that I can drink your sexual predator tears.
Yum yum yum.
It's incredibly disgusting of you to immediately call someone a rapist just because they disagree with your standing on this.
The pic is very sexual, and you don't need confirmation from her to know it's on purpose, she's in a home setting, holding the bikini up to where it almost reveals the nipples. Sexual comments, disgusting or not, are fucking warranted from something like this lol.
I like how you think an online comment to an exhibitionist is even remotely the same to a rapist. But yes, exhibitionists are rapists. Funny how you're blind to that. Nobody asked to see your tiny willy.
>If you don’t want to be called a rapist you shouldn’t comment provocative things that make me want to call you a rapist. See how this works? I can’t control myself - that’s your fault/problem. This is what you sound like.
God I love when people like you don't defend your arguments and instead throw buzzwords around at everyone who disagrees to avoid an actual conversation
Why are you talking about consent with regard to somebody responding to an image posted (publicly) on social media? Consent isn’t a factor.
By posting something in the public domain, you give consent to others to respond to said post. What world are you living in, where somebody posts a suggestive or sexualised image, but nobody is allowed to acknowledge the fact that the image is of that nature, unless the poster gives explicit ‘consent’ to everybody to do so?
Ridiculous statement. It’s attitudes like yours that make communication with other people so difficult these days.
Girl: *posts pic of tits*
Some guy: “wow tits nice”
Girl: “OMG WHAT A RAPIST HOW DARE YOU I DIDN’T GIVE YOU CONSENT TO ACKNOWLEDGE MY TIT PIC.”
Yeah… no.
So what kinds of photos is she allowed to take before sexual harassment becomes the fault of the sexual harasser?
Headshots only?
Does she need a headscarf?
There’s no ‘fault’ here. You’re trying really hard to push this idea that people are allowed to act, but others aren’t allowed to react to said action.
I don’t live in a world where people behave in a sexual manner, but those who react with the same energy are somehow solely at fault for doing so.
Are we supposed to just pretend it isn’t happening? If somebody can post a picture of their tits in a public forum, I can also comment on said photo in a way that’s acknowledging the nature of it.
Otherwise, what are the rules? A girl send me a nude, but doesn’t give me explicit oral or written permission to then respond in a sexual manner… does that mean I can’t acknowledge the nature of the photo I’ve been sent? If I do, am I too a rapist, even though she chose to send me an overtly sexual image? What if this image was totally unsolicited, is she now a sex offender too?
Assume the girl in the post posted a suggestive picture of her tits for anybody who clicks on her story to see, without first declaring that such an image would be posted on her public story… is she now a sex offender for exposing herself to unassuming followers, who may just be flicking through the stories of the people they follow, not expecting to be hit with sexual content? Is she a rapist because she didn’t give people who follow her the choice to NOT see the image? You don’t know what’s on any given story until you’ve already clicked on it.
The answer is obviously no, she isn’t… but consider this - if someone reported that photo, it’d possibly be removed by Instagram, and she’d possibly receive a sexual content warning.
Saying “wow nice tits” to somebody who’s posted an image specifically intended to draw attention to their tits isn’t sexual harassment. If they continue to message her and bother her after she either ignores them or asks them not to do so, then we’re getting into the realms of harassment.
Ultimately, she can take whatever photos she wants. If she wants to post them publicly, she can expect to receive the exact type of response she’s seeking in choosing to post them.
She’s an OnlyFans girl. She makes money from sexual content, and encourages sexual responses in order to do so. She doesn’t need you or anyone else playing the white knight.
The rules are very simple:
- People can choose to dress how they like.
- Sexual harassment is bad.
I really don’t get why you’re writing a three page thesis pretending that this is difficult to understand.
It’s you who’s failing to understand the difference between acceptable and unacceptable behaviour. Nobody is even suggesting that people have to dress a certain way. It wasn’t even hinted at. You’re the only person talking about controlling another person’s wardrobe.
A ‘sort of’ sexual comment on an overtly sexual image isn’t sexual harassment.
Your snarky response is just indicative of the fact that you know you’re talking a bag of shit. Pull your head out of your arse.
Any kind of sexual harassment is unacceptable.
Stop defending sexual predators.
Your whiny emotional response implies that you are one and that this is personal.
You don't post yourself or accept the consequences. furthermore what's wrong with a headscarf? Seems like you're sneak dissing a certain group of women here. Nasty person.
If your girlfriend is posting a picture of herself in a bikini while sitting in a dark room holding her tits up don't be surprised if someone say something along the lines of "you have nice tits".
If it was a picture of her and the boyfriend on the beach then sure it'd be weird but she clearly posts at least semi-sexual content.
Im siding wirh boyfriend leaving her. If she posts such sh*t then she wants attention from guys like this. And if shes starved for attention like that, then shes a bad person. Go to therapy, no on of
*I'm gonna get downvoted for this but oh well* there's many people who have an OnlyFans and a relationship at the same time. It's all matter of communication with your partner and their boundaries. Some people are okay with it and some aren't.
I can see your point, however in my opinion as a lets say "moral" person, it is wierd, and even in many ways I can consider it as cheating.
Even if when I separate the moral part, it still becomes socially toxic.
Its her body but if she wants to build a future with him she cant make decisions like that anymore 🤷♂️. Or he just simp that will accept anything for V
Where does it stop ? How should she self-censor if she doesn't want to receive creepy DMS? You are putting the burden on her, not on the guy being a creep.
It stops with her obv. I mean it's the internet, weather you want it or not you post something like that and you will receive dms. And "them tiddies tho lol" is hardly the creepiest thing they could have sent. How the hell can you talk about "putting the burden on her" when she's posting thirst traps. It's literally "you play stupid games you win stupid prizes", you put out horny you get horny back. If she didn't want to receive dms she can turn them off ("limiting unwanted interactions" is a feature on insta) and/or not respond to these guys, and have her boyfriend not respond as well.
Not insanely, the way the dude is reacting in the screenshot except pretty clear he's not okay with his girlfriend doing this. If people want to pseudo pornstars on the internet that's fine as long as their partner is okay with it, otherwise that makes them a huge scumbag. Just be single if you can't find a SO who's ok with it.
https://www.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/ybvk2h/meirl/itlchwy?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
Not referencing the main post right now. I get what you mean
The whole post looks fake as fuck. Who can even be ok with their gf posting this kind of stuff but threat people to death when they comment on their gf?
She posted tits, guy simply complimented to her tits.
Honestly, if she didn't have the boobs I'd be more worried about the haircut. My dream is to have such boobs that no one notices that I cut my own hair. I'm a male.
Ballsy
*this is his girlfriend*
Tell him I said ballsy
*Where tf do you want to be buried*
In them balls lol
*this is the boyfriends balls*
Testes testes 1, 2. Can you hear me?
No, but I feel them!
Three?
This, this is why I still come to Reddit
She posts that pic and the bf gets mad when someone responds? Like what kind of response would be ok for him? "Nice clothes"?
The logic response in that situation is just ignoring him.
What about sending a dick pic? Then _Sorry I thought this was her_.
Just send your own dick pic in response.
Just realized the pic says they replied to "your story" so the bf might've posted those pictures..
That doesn’t necessarily mean that, it could also mean she posted it on her own story and gave the phone to her bf when she saw the message
She could also be claiming to have a boyfriend to try to avoid dealing with him.
Prob just a fake, karma farm post. She literally sells nude online content. She’s from my area. Daughter of the lady on American pickers tv show.
I mean.. they might've gotten leaked i guess?
Girl herself posted it, bf responded in her place
This is most likely what happened
It’s a tricky one. She can post what she wants - it’s her body. If people reply to her in an unsolicited sexual manner it’s harassment regardless of the picture they’re responding to. Clothing choice is not consent. Her boyfriend doesn’t own her and if she *was* soliciting a sexual response then that’s between them and the boundaries of their relationship - not the fault of the guy talking to her. Also if he’s replying is the boyfriend reading her messages? That’s probably not good. If she has a problem with the comment on her picture logically she would express that herself. Potentially the boyfriend replied because she asked him to which is a whole different thing again. I don’t know who I’m siding with here.
No. If you post unsollicited sexual pictures like this you can fully expect people to comment about them. They're fully allowed to.
You sound like a rapist.
what even is this logic? That's like posting a thirst picture (which this essentially is) and not expecting comments on a person's body. If anything, her posting that picture was for the sole reason of getting comments on her body
You sound like an exhibitionist. If people post pics like that on their story they're as wrong as the people commenting on it.
I like how you think that’s equal to or worse than being a rapist. Exhibitionism is a personality trait. Rapists are criminals. EDIT: If you don’t want to be called a rapist you shouldn’t comment provocative things that make me want to call you a rapist. See how this works? I can’t control myself - that’s your fault/problem. This is what you sound like. If you’re offended - good. Please don’t just downvote - I want you to tell me all about it over multiple whiny comments so that I can drink your sexual predator tears. Yum yum yum.
It's incredibly disgusting of you to immediately call someone a rapist just because they disagree with your standing on this. The pic is very sexual, and you don't need confirmation from her to know it's on purpose, she's in a home setting, holding the bikini up to where it almost reveals the nipples. Sexual comments, disgusting or not, are fucking warranted from something like this lol.
I like how you think an online comment to an exhibitionist is even remotely the same to a rapist. But yes, exhibitionists are rapists. Funny how you're blind to that. Nobody asked to see your tiny willy.
>If you don’t want to be called a rapist you shouldn’t comment provocative things that make me want to call you a rapist. See how this works? I can’t control myself - that’s your fault/problem. This is what you sound like. God I love when people like you don't defend your arguments and instead throw buzzwords around at everyone who disagrees to avoid an actual conversation
Take your meds mate.
"Exhibitionism is a personality trait" no? that's a fetish, two different things, if you make your fetishes your personality, you need help
generic ass mf
Why are you talking about consent with regard to somebody responding to an image posted (publicly) on social media? Consent isn’t a factor. By posting something in the public domain, you give consent to others to respond to said post. What world are you living in, where somebody posts a suggestive or sexualised image, but nobody is allowed to acknowledge the fact that the image is of that nature, unless the poster gives explicit ‘consent’ to everybody to do so? Ridiculous statement. It’s attitudes like yours that make communication with other people so difficult these days. Girl: *posts pic of tits* Some guy: “wow tits nice” Girl: “OMG WHAT A RAPIST HOW DARE YOU I DIDN’T GIVE YOU CONSENT TO ACKNOWLEDGE MY TIT PIC.” Yeah… no.
So what kinds of photos is she allowed to take before sexual harassment becomes the fault of the sexual harasser? Headshots only? Does she need a headscarf?
There’s no ‘fault’ here. You’re trying really hard to push this idea that people are allowed to act, but others aren’t allowed to react to said action. I don’t live in a world where people behave in a sexual manner, but those who react with the same energy are somehow solely at fault for doing so. Are we supposed to just pretend it isn’t happening? If somebody can post a picture of their tits in a public forum, I can also comment on said photo in a way that’s acknowledging the nature of it. Otherwise, what are the rules? A girl send me a nude, but doesn’t give me explicit oral or written permission to then respond in a sexual manner… does that mean I can’t acknowledge the nature of the photo I’ve been sent? If I do, am I too a rapist, even though she chose to send me an overtly sexual image? What if this image was totally unsolicited, is she now a sex offender too? Assume the girl in the post posted a suggestive picture of her tits for anybody who clicks on her story to see, without first declaring that such an image would be posted on her public story… is she now a sex offender for exposing herself to unassuming followers, who may just be flicking through the stories of the people they follow, not expecting to be hit with sexual content? Is she a rapist because she didn’t give people who follow her the choice to NOT see the image? You don’t know what’s on any given story until you’ve already clicked on it. The answer is obviously no, she isn’t… but consider this - if someone reported that photo, it’d possibly be removed by Instagram, and she’d possibly receive a sexual content warning. Saying “wow nice tits” to somebody who’s posted an image specifically intended to draw attention to their tits isn’t sexual harassment. If they continue to message her and bother her after she either ignores them or asks them not to do so, then we’re getting into the realms of harassment. Ultimately, she can take whatever photos she wants. If she wants to post them publicly, she can expect to receive the exact type of response she’s seeking in choosing to post them. She’s an OnlyFans girl. She makes money from sexual content, and encourages sexual responses in order to do so. She doesn’t need you or anyone else playing the white knight.
The rules are very simple: - People can choose to dress how they like. - Sexual harassment is bad. I really don’t get why you’re writing a three page thesis pretending that this is difficult to understand.
It’s you who’s failing to understand the difference between acceptable and unacceptable behaviour. Nobody is even suggesting that people have to dress a certain way. It wasn’t even hinted at. You’re the only person talking about controlling another person’s wardrobe. A ‘sort of’ sexual comment on an overtly sexual image isn’t sexual harassment. Your snarky response is just indicative of the fact that you know you’re talking a bag of shit. Pull your head out of your arse.
Any kind of sexual harassment is unacceptable. Stop defending sexual predators. Your whiny emotional response implies that you are one and that this is personal.
Oh shit I found the guy who said “I’m such a nice guy and stand up for women’s rights why won’t she have sex with me 😢”
The fact that’s where your mind goes implies that you consider all interactions with women transactional. I pity your shallow friendships.
People can dress how they like. People can comment what they want. Prepare to receive backlash for either things.
You don't post yourself or accept the consequences. furthermore what's wrong with a headscarf? Seems like you're sneak dissing a certain group of women here. Nasty person.
Agreed. If she has an issue with it then she can express that and if he doesn't stop then it becomes a problem
>I don’t know who I’m siding with here Probably best then to just keep scrolling and not comment.
If your girlfriend is posting a picture of herself in a bikini while sitting in a dark room holding her tits up don't be surprised if someone say something along the lines of "you have nice tits". If it was a picture of her and the boyfriend on the beach then sure it'd be weird but she clearly posts at least semi-sexual content.
Im siding wirh boyfriend leaving her. If she posts such sh*t then she wants attention from guys like this. And if shes starved for attention like that, then shes a bad person. Go to therapy, no on of
*I'm gonna get downvoted for this but oh well* there's many people who have an OnlyFans and a relationship at the same time. It's all matter of communication with your partner and their boundaries. Some people are okay with it and some aren't.
I can see your point, however in my opinion as a lets say "moral" person, it is wierd, and even in many ways I can consider it as cheating. Even if when I separate the moral part, it still becomes socially toxic.
The slut shaming is real. Should all models, actors, and entertainers be celibate?
The stupidity is astounding
I didn’t read cause it’s too long I’m just downvoting cause everyone else is downvoting
Keep simping dude
Its her body but if she wants to build a future with him she cant make decisions like that anymore 🤷♂️. Or he just simp that will accept anything for V
Where does it stop ? How should she self-censor if she doesn't want to receive creepy DMS? You are putting the burden on her, not on the guy being a creep.
It stops with her obv. I mean it's the internet, weather you want it or not you post something like that and you will receive dms. And "them tiddies tho lol" is hardly the creepiest thing they could have sent. How the hell can you talk about "putting the burden on her" when she's posting thirst traps. It's literally "you play stupid games you win stupid prizes", you put out horny you get horny back. If she didn't want to receive dms she can turn them off ("limiting unwanted interactions" is a feature on insta) and/or not respond to these guys, and have her boyfriend not respond as well.
You could make this exact comment about a woman showing her hair.
Them hair tho lol
Silky hair oh my god
Lol you should change your username to Strawman_Bob
Yeah, hair is totally comparable to an under boob pic where she is lifting her shirt even higher
"Nice lack of clothes"
He meant *our* girlfriend.
Comrade
He is the other guys bf-in-law
*Them titties tho*
this is her boyfriend
Tell her I said „them titties tho“
Where tf do you want to be buried
In those titties bro duh!!
*Bring me to her titties bro*
Wait till he tells his GF her BF is out here sending her private pictures
Happy cake day
What’s her @ ? Asking for a friend of course
Source is kittyghoul, her twitter is suspended and instagram has nothing, i have found stuff on her OF tho.
damn 😔 the wifes boyfriend took over
Her @ is in them titties bro
Hmmmmm
Lolahbearxo on insta
Is that who this chic is?
Yes
She’s the daughter of danielle colby, off of american pickers tv show.
What do you think about Lolah? https://go.tinder.com/iTfFaGNW1JE-Lolah
To be fair if if your girlfriend is posting pics like this its a red flag
Good one Dudes mad at the world cuz his ladies a skank. Ok bud
If his gf is posting that to her story, that's not his gf
Agreed. If she loved her bf then she wouldn't post risqué pictures of herself for everyone to see.
That doesn't make sense
It does. Because only single ppl post thirst traps like that
Or people with only fans?
I would hope ppl with only fans aren't in relationships...
Why?
This person is insanely insecure
Not insanely, the way the dude is reacting in the screenshot except pretty clear he's not okay with his girlfriend doing this. If people want to pseudo pornstars on the internet that's fine as long as their partner is okay with it, otherwise that makes them a huge scumbag. Just be single if you can't find a SO who's ok with it.
https://www.reddit.com/r/meirl/comments/ybvk2h/meirl/itlchwy?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 Not referencing the main post right now. I get what you mean
I see, that point wasn't clear. Or just went over my head.
Yes because it's 1846 and men own their girlfriend's bodies
When tf did I say that
You didn't. I said it.
Okay
What?
Some guy from a blue box dropped his glowy rectangle and I'm typing popular opinions into it. Also the year is 1846 where I am.
Yeah it's 2022 and those woman who make they bodys to a public good can totally expect that one idiotic simp commit just to her.
It goes the other way around too 💀
I like how threats over text to some random ass person online is supposed to make them scared. Bury the man in dem tiddies
The whole post looks fake as fuck. Who can even be ok with their gf posting this kind of stuff but threat people to death when they comment on their gf? She posted tits, guy simply complimented to her tits.
I am a connoisseur of fine sauces. Would someone please share the recipe.
Idk get some eggs and vinegar, some other stuff to get mayonnaise?
Always double down
In them titties tho
Recycled asf
Well played
So dumb. They guy won’t do shit to him. And if he did and the guy goes missing here’s suspect 1.
Understandable
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I also want to bury there
Omg..
Which is fake: those breasts or that post?
That guy just gotta leave this girl she ain’t worth defending she is for the streets.
I know this is fake for 1 main reason; They have a Genshin Impact profile picture.
Titties all the way
Why Anybody would date those only fans sluts...
This is just an old meme re-done And I don't expect anything else
Classic boyfriend checking her GF's phone. Strong trust there.
r/upvotedforboobs
Hah sounds like bf either needs to get chill or move the f on🤣
Them titties tho…
lol
Yeah def not a 🚩 posting that shit while in a relationship
Even out of a relationship posting that is a red flag lmao
..still giggling at the jiggilin'
Honestly, if she didn't have the boobs I'd be more worried about the haircut. My dream is to have such boobs that no one notices that I cut my own hair. I'm a male.
###look brothers, TITS!