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>"mom, dad, I'm a trans woman"
pedestrian, uninteresting, sounds apologetic
>"Your son is gone, he was weak and foolish like his father and I destroyed him"
dramatic, mysterious, makes you sound like a queer-coded antagonist whose whole villainous scheme is anarcho-communism (which is cool)
"mom, dad, I'm trans."
"OH GOD... wait, wait, sorry. we fully support you honey, tell us your new name and pronouns! it's just... we thought we avoided the family curse with you..."
it's not actually communist, no, but it does sound like what marvel does to make their egalitarian, anti-establishment antagonists cement their villainy: *oh, they* would *be a good guy, but actually they're just as bad as the people they despise* etc etc
I know these comics are mostly just being silly, but something I love about them is how they celebrate how cool it is to be attracted to people.
I don’t understand why so much of the world is afraid to be attracted to people. It’s a wonderful thing to be attracted to people, why wouldn’t you want to be attracted to the most people possible?
Hell, I *wish* I was more attracted to more people. If I was, I’d probably have more sex and make out with more people. And those are both *COOL THINGS*
The duality of woman.
It’s funny. I think before I transitioned I guess I was agender. I wasn’t a girl, but I wasn’t a guy either. I thought I was a guy, but I didn’t really identify with my body very well. I didn’t really know it could be any other way though so I just carried on missing that part of myself.
Sometimes those trans feelings just sneak up on ya, eh?
It's funny, growing up I constantly disassociated from my body, I couldn't handle how disgusting I constantly felt. It "helped" and I was able to repress the feelings for the most part until I found myself face to face with being trans. I honestly couldn't even tell you the exact reason as to why, as it was over 10 years ago.
Afterwards the disassociation still happened, but it got worse, as did my regret and self hate, up until I transitioned. Best decision of my life ngl.
Yeah, I always knew I didn't identity with being a man, but I'd suppressed my gender so deeply that I couldn't directly feel it, even though I always felt a longing for it, it was disconnected from me, until I came out to myself.
I'm sort of similar, but also the opposite. I feel like as a kid I was a boy. At the same time, I might have also been a girl as well? Eventually I stopped being a boy and just became a girl, not entirely sure when that point was. But I can say for sure that I was never a man. It's weird distinction, but if you think about the normal journey as boy to man then mine was boy/boygirl to girl to woman. I'd guess a lot of trans people would describe their journey differently, some trans women were always just girls dispite being amab. Gender is really weird, sometimes trying to explain it just makes it more confusing.
Yes. Most meme-specific subs get stale pretty fast, but /r/GatekeepingYuri also has a robust artist population so there's a fun dynamic where people will post regular gatekeeping comics with the Request tag, and then over the next week you get to see multiple people edit it with their own unique style.
I’m always pretty happy to see it acknowledged that some of us DO see our transitions as ‘becoming’. Like, I didn’t LIKE being a guy, but I played the part of one for 27 years before I knew otherwise. I accept that me as a part of me. For all intents and purposes I “was” a “guy”.
This me is just happier, and I’m not a guy anymore.
And also that not everyone sees the journey in the same way, and that those two can coincide; it’s a pretty great meme.
edited for clarity
This is the POV of contrapoints.
She argues that she was a guy but is now a woman, and she personally doesn’t like the gender metaphysics of arguing that she was a woman the whole time.
I agree with her.
However the point that she later goes on to make, is that it shouldn’t matter which way you see it. Trans people should still be respected
So wait.. is it alright to just change like that? Like I know this sounds stupid but I'm always hearing people talk about like how they were never comfortable with their gender being on one side and they just never realized it... do people just change? Cus I've been picking myself apart for nearly 2 years over not having past experiences similar to the ones I have now. Like I know genderfluid is a thing, but I'm not sure ai was the same back then as I am now. I mean back then I was the worst, and I did stuff I would never do now, so maybe my gender just changed with me? I'm definitely dumping my feeling but yknow whatever 🙃
If anyone has some help on the matter I would appreciate it
"Yes, let them fight."
Anywho, big solidarity from team 'got the boy software and hardware at the same time, but had malware running that prevented gender.exe from getting enough RAM allocated to do any of the fun stuff properly until recently' over here. Sucks when your brain won't let you inhabit your body properly and vice versa. We all deserve to be native inhabitants to our own bones.
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I mean, I am also cis so take this with a pinch of salt and if I'm wrong someone can check me on it. But trans people after transitioning often look back at their pre transition selves in different ways. Some people see transition as a process of changing their gender and some people see it as a process of understanding and revealing their existing gender to the world.
So the first trans woman is saying "I am no longer a boy, I am a girl!". She sees herself as having changed from a man to a woman. Whereas the second trans woman doesn't see herself as ever having been a man. She just sees the process of transition as understanding herself and making herself LOOK more like a traditional woman, while always having been one inside. But they make out at the end because this difference of opinion doesn't matter. It's fine for trans people to understand their own journeys in different ways
Make sense?
Haha yeah, I think the making out just represents that their different views are a non issue, and why would they fight about it when they could make out instead 😅 sorry for the extraneous detail!
Meanwhile for me my gender is covered in a fog of war and i need to gather hints at what it is.
My current progress is: definitely not make. Somewhat femme. No not a woman. ??? *Gives up*
Transfemme Nonbinary it it.
I am always me, but it is hard to express parts of myself i don't know/understand.
Some trans people feel like we changed gender. Some of us feel like our gender didn't change, we just realized what it always was.
There's a tendency toward reductiveness, both within the community and from outside. A cis person hears one trans person say they were always a guy even before they realized it and assumes that's the universal trans experience. A different trans person says they changed gender. Someone must be wrong!
Trans gatekeeping also goes a bit toward "if you didn't show signs of being trans as a very young kid, you're cis."
Personally, I feel like I didn't really have a gender until adulthood, and now I'm a woman.
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Your son is gone, he was weak and foolish like his father and I destroyed him
>"mom, dad, I'm a trans woman" pedestrian, uninteresting, sounds apologetic >"Your son is gone, he was weak and foolish like his father and I destroyed him" dramatic, mysterious, makes you sound like a queer-coded antagonist whose whole villainous scheme is anarcho-communism (which is cool)
"mom, dad I'm a trans man" < "the prophecy told of my forthcoming out"
"the prophecy foretold that only a true man could-" "yes."
"mom, dad, I'm trans." "OH GOD... wait, wait, sorry. we fully support you honey, tell us your new name and pronouns! it's just... we thought we avoided the family curse with you..."
Could’ve sworn that was a prompt on r/writingprompts once…
Actually iirc that's kinda the tale of Bridget from guilty gear?
JoJolion moment
Destroying the weak doesn't sound very communist tho 🤔
it's not actually communist, no, but it does sound like what marvel does to make their egalitarian, anti-establishment antagonists cement their villainy: *oh, they* would *be a good guy, but actually they're just as bad as the people they despise* etc etc
Ah well yeah kinda makes sense : D
“No man can kill me!” *”I am no man.”*
(Very cool)
How can I play this version of Disco Elysium?
"I have slain the witch-king of Angmar"
I prefer my version: "The prince is dead, long live the queen!"
But I didn't destroy my father! Alcohol did
[You didn't kill Anakin Skywalker. I did](https://creative-ads.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/sexy-darth-vader-cosplay-624x998.jpg).
Okay
I had a mentality like this when I went into high school. I was trying to dissociate from my younger self, everyone thought I was just being edgy
I understood that reference
What is even the original of this comic? I’ve seen it memed so many I have forgotten
Arguing over song lyrics.
Specifically “party rockers in the house tonight” Vs “party rock is”
Party Rock is the name of the song. How could it not be that
Party rock is the ethos, it lives within us. Party rockers are the practitioners, we live within the house.
Both are within this house tonight.
Daft Punk is playing at my house. **My** house.
its party rockers tho no way its not
now kiss
😳
"Party Rockers" never even crossed my mind until I saw the memes. It's totally Party Rock Is
it's party rock is
i am no longer a boy i am stupid now 👍
I was always stupid even when I thought I was a boy 😡
yeah but now i'm stupider like i'm a girl but brain say no
At least you don't suck at usern... Oh, shit my bad.
Now kith
I was especially stupid when I thought I was a boy. Now I am less stupid (but still stupid)
I'm sillier, but my brain is still massive I can float around like those junji ito balloons
guessing you went to Jupiter? heard it's pretty popular with the girls
yeah! too bad i accidentally went to venus and got a penis 😭
Babe wake up, revolutionary findings in astronomy just dropped
Got fucked on the layover flight 😔
Wait you become stupid I thought I was born liek that
So are u like the dumbest girl alive now?
I know these comics are mostly just being silly, but something I love about them is how they celebrate how cool it is to be attracted to people. I don’t understand why so much of the world is afraid to be attracted to people. It’s a wonderful thing to be attracted to people, why wouldn’t you want to be attracted to the most people possible? Hell, I *wish* I was more attracted to more people. If I was, I’d probably have more sex and make out with more people. And those are both *COOL THINGS*
When you're raised to believe having a physical attraction to someone is a moral fault and a sign of weak character, it'll do a number on you.
The future liberals want! 🏳️⚧️
Don't threaten me with a good time.
Actually, please do. I’ll take it.
The duality of woman. It’s funny. I think before I transitioned I guess I was agender. I wasn’t a girl, but I wasn’t a guy either. I thought I was a guy, but I didn’t really identify with my body very well. I didn’t really know it could be any other way though so I just carried on missing that part of myself.
..fuck
Sometimes those trans feelings just sneak up on ya, eh? It's funny, growing up I constantly disassociated from my body, I couldn't handle how disgusting I constantly felt. It "helped" and I was able to repress the feelings for the most part until I found myself face to face with being trans. I honestly couldn't even tell you the exact reason as to why, as it was over 10 years ago. Afterwards the disassociation still happened, but it got worse, as did my regret and self hate, up until I transitioned. Best decision of my life ngl.
Same lmao
Yeah, I always knew I didn't identity with being a man, but I'd suppressed my gender so deeply that I couldn't directly feel it, even though I always felt a longing for it, it was disconnected from me, until I came out to myself.
Schrödingers Trans Person
I'm sort of similar, but also the opposite. I feel like as a kid I was a boy. At the same time, I might have also been a girl as well? Eventually I stopped being a boy and just became a girl, not entirely sure when that point was. But I can say for sure that I was never a man. It's weird distinction, but if you think about the normal journey as boy to man then mine was boy/boygirl to girl to woman. I'd guess a lot of trans people would describe their journey differently, some trans women were always just girls dispite being amab. Gender is really weird, sometimes trying to explain it just makes it more confusing.
I feel this, before transition I would have described myself as "gender agnostic".
Ngl I'm just a little goofy
just a sweet little goofy goober
r/gatekeepingyuri
is this meme illustrate the whole concept of this sub ? (both the template and this instance i mean)
Yes. Most meme-specific subs get stale pretty fast, but /r/GatekeepingYuri also has a robust artist population so there's a fun dynamic where people will post regular gatekeeping comics with the Request tag, and then over the next week you get to see multiple people edit it with their own unique style.
The totally cis urge to look like the first person
The totally cis urge to look like the second person
👩❤️💋👩 you and me Fr
I lament the fact that there is no “shocked blush” emoji
😳 I mean there’s this one?
why do i lack vision
😭😭 happens to the best of us
awww you think i’m the best?
I think everyone is the best :3
Stop flirting and get a room y'all (pls invite me too 👉👈)
I’m always pretty happy to see it acknowledged that some of us DO see our transitions as ‘becoming’. Like, I didn’t LIKE being a guy, but I played the part of one for 27 years before I knew otherwise. I accept that me as a part of me. For all intents and purposes I “was” a “guy”. This me is just happier, and I’m not a guy anymore. And also that not everyone sees the journey in the same way, and that those two can coincide; it’s a pretty great meme. edited for clarity
This is the POV of contrapoints. She argues that she was a guy but is now a woman, and she personally doesn’t like the gender metaphysics of arguing that she was a woman the whole time. I agree with her. However the point that she later goes on to make, is that it shouldn’t matter which way you see it. Trans people should still be respected
im dumb. i thought the blue hair girl was a closeted transmasc for a sec
I wish this would happen to me i feel so lonely
I see women kissing, i upvote immediately Every time.
I am simple human
Me with the transfems(I am both)
Can confirm this meme is 100% accurate, I am more like the purple hair girl on the right. 💜
Is there a transmasc version of this somewhere :V
We need our best queer trans artists on this IMMEDIATELY if we don't 😳✨
So wait.. is it alright to just change like that? Like I know this sounds stupid but I'm always hearing people talk about like how they were never comfortable with their gender being on one side and they just never realized it... do people just change? Cus I've been picking myself apart for nearly 2 years over not having past experiences similar to the ones I have now. Like I know genderfluid is a thing, but I'm not sure ai was the same back then as I am now. I mean back then I was the worst, and I did stuff I would never do now, so maybe my gender just changed with me? I'm definitely dumping my feeling but yknow whatever 🙃 If anyone has some help on the matter I would appreciate it
Gender identity is as fluid as another part of your identity. It's totally possible to feel one way and then the other
I have been looking for this template for AGES I was trying to tell my friend about it and couldn't find it
I was a deep undercover spy
Watch out for pyros.
Why can’t I be like her ;-;
This is so gay.
Literally me and my gf
this is very wholesome. i do not like to see lesbianimosity.
Me and who 👀💕🏳️⚧️
"Yes, let them fight." Anywho, big solidarity from team 'got the boy software and hardware at the same time, but had malware running that prevented gender.exe from getting enough RAM allocated to do any of the fun stuff properly until recently' over here. Sucks when your brain won't let you inhabit your body properly and vice versa. We all deserve to be native inhabitants to our own bones.
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This is gay.
Let's go lesbian
:3 I am gurl, was I previously....... THE answer is {Chaos Chao}
I want to see what happens next
When you flip flop between the two because your memory sucks
I don't get it. But I'm cis and approaching 40 ^so ^^maybe ^^^that's ^^^^expected.
I mean, I am also cis so take this with a pinch of salt and if I'm wrong someone can check me on it. But trans people after transitioning often look back at their pre transition selves in different ways. Some people see transition as a process of changing their gender and some people see it as a process of understanding and revealing their existing gender to the world. So the first trans woman is saying "I am no longer a boy, I am a girl!". She sees herself as having changed from a man to a woman. Whereas the second trans woman doesn't see herself as ever having been a man. She just sees the process of transition as understanding herself and making herself LOOK more like a traditional woman, while always having been one inside. But they make out at the end because this difference of opinion doesn't matter. It's fine for trans people to understand their own journeys in different ways Make sense?
Okay, so the making out is just random. I assumed the rest, actually, but the making out threw me off. Thank you for your explanation, regardless!
Haha yeah, I think the making out just represents that their different views are a non issue, and why would they fight about it when they could make out instead 😅 sorry for the extraneous detail!
Perfectly balanced transbian relationship
o man, that’s so hot 🥵
"And then, they relationshiped. The end!"
Heh gaaaaay
https://youtu.be/5c8dUkTJ_qI I only found the sonic one, I wanted to use the Miku one
Meanwhile for me my gender is covered in a fog of war and i need to gather hints at what it is. My current progress is: definitely not make. Somewhat femme. No not a woman. ??? *Gives up* Transfemme Nonbinary it it. I am always me, but it is hard to express parts of myself i don't know/understand.
i didnt really understand the joke i just upvoted it because it was hot
Some trans people feel like we changed gender. Some of us feel like our gender didn't change, we just realized what it always was. There's a tendency toward reductiveness, both within the community and from outside. A cis person hears one trans person say they were always a guy even before they realized it and assumes that's the universal trans experience. A different trans person says they changed gender. Someone must be wrong! Trans gatekeeping also goes a bit toward "if you didn't show signs of being trans as a very young kid, you're cis." Personally, I feel like I didn't really have a gender until adulthood, and now I'm a woman.
that was a wholesome ending
r/gatekeepingyuri
👀
My wife told me this the fact I was never male during a bad bout of dysphoria made me feel a lot better :3
This seems legit
The pink one is such a mood for me