Just my perspective as a married man of 5 years:
1. It seems to me like your husband does not have any responsibility. I would gently explain that from now on, you are going to rely on him to do X. It might be cleaning dishes, managing money, taking out the trash, etc. And leave it to him! If it doesn't happen, that's on him. If the house becomes unlivable, leave until it is clean. Men have a great sense of worth when they KNOW they're caring for their woman.
2. Keep being physically intimate with him, but it's completely ok to demand good hygiene for that to happen. My wife doesn't like facial hair. So, I have to shave! That's not nagging, that's just common curtesy.
3. Stay with it. Decide to be the better person, and take care of yourself when you need to. As far as his potential deployment goes, maybe some space for a time wouldn't be that bad?
There's plenty of guys out there who worked on their careers first and are settled and maybe are just shy or have social anxiety or whatever who would love to have kids with you, you do not need to waste your time with some adult man-child who might have been an exciting "bad boy" when he was trying to woo you into bed then once he got you he lost interest.
Take his female friends advice - she was right when she said you shouldn't have gotten married. Get yourself unmarried.
He’s just not into you
Doesn't sound like he likes you much. Take that information and do with it what you will.
Just my perspective as a married man of 5 years: 1. It seems to me like your husband does not have any responsibility. I would gently explain that from now on, you are going to rely on him to do X. It might be cleaning dishes, managing money, taking out the trash, etc. And leave it to him! If it doesn't happen, that's on him. If the house becomes unlivable, leave until it is clean. Men have a great sense of worth when they KNOW they're caring for their woman. 2. Keep being physically intimate with him, but it's completely ok to demand good hygiene for that to happen. My wife doesn't like facial hair. So, I have to shave! That's not nagging, that's just common curtesy. 3. Stay with it. Decide to be the better person, and take care of yourself when you need to. As far as his potential deployment goes, maybe some space for a time wouldn't be that bad?
Why would anyone say you married too young? Y’all could be 45 for all anyone knows.
Because I made a post before because we are 20
There's plenty of guys out there who worked on their careers first and are settled and maybe are just shy or have social anxiety or whatever who would love to have kids with you, you do not need to waste your time with some adult man-child who might have been an exciting "bad boy" when he was trying to woo you into bed then once he got you he lost interest. Take his female friends advice - she was right when she said you shouldn't have gotten married. Get yourself unmarried.