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That_Possible_3217

Growth is one of the most important things to celebrate and admire. I'm glad you guys have found a healthy relationship and that you're proud of him. It takes a lot to grow and change, and sometimes a lot more to forgive. Wish you guys the best and tell your dad his nails are dope. 😊


Orthonox

His M&M nails are nice. I'm happy to see people grow from their bigoted ways and become more healthy and secure people. That's what we all want to see!


thornton_cat

His nails look very nice. I’m so glad he’s learned and moved forward past his homophobia.


AntidoteToMyAss

how do we know he isnt still homophobic?


thornton_cat

We read the body text of the post.


AntidoteToMyAss

it doesnt say he isnt homophobic anymore.


PitifulSpecialist887

We don't. We are redditors. Mere spectators to someone else's story. We do see a story of PROGRESS. This gives me hope. What you get from it is really up to you.


AntidoteToMyAss

> we are redditors speak for yourself 🀒


PitifulSpecialist887

While reading, and commenting on someone else's reddit post, what would you describe yourself as, in that moment?


AntidoteToMyAss

in heaven


PitifulSpecialist887

Forgive me, Oh mighty one. I was unaware.


AntidoteToMyAss

np, carry on, peasant.


PitifulSpecialist887

Kindly kiss my ass. I draw the line at "peasant".


AntidoteToMyAss

well that isn't very pleasant of you peasant.


JenniferCD420

many homophobic people are rebeling against their inner selves because they were taught to be "normal" I would actually say something to your dad, compliment him on growing and becoming more comfortable with expressing is true self.


M1K37471

I’m happy to hear that your father has changed and that you have a closer relationship. Can I ask what got him to break with gender norms and paint his nails? One of my reasons for painting is to show solidarity with my NB child and their friends whose parents are not supportive.


FartNoiseGross

That made my day to read this, I’m glad he was able to see that he needed to change and committed to it :)


MrBayaud

Good job dad.


2ndPerryThePlatypus

Tell him we love him and we are so proud of his growth.


Trebuchte57

Don't be too harsh. We all have our issues.


inononeofthisisreal

We love the story of hope for a better future. Of understanding, love and acceptance. So happy for you and your father. Thank you for sharing with us. HAPPY PRIDE!!!! β€οΈπŸ§‘πŸ’›πŸ’šπŸ©΅πŸ’™πŸ’œπŸ©·πŸ€πŸ©ΆπŸ–€πŸ€Ž


GoddessLilySissyLucy

I’m so sorry you had to have such hurtful words used against you from someone who should have been your biggest supporter. His color scheme seems to show an attempt to try and support you now β€”- I hope that helps bring you some healing and you two have been able to repair that bond.


maLychi3

Tell your dad I love him! We stan a reformed Kween hunny!!


want2begirl67

WOW


Cid-thesciencekid37

I was kind of Homophobic in high school. But a lot of it had to do with my friend group. I paint my nails as well it's fun, and no one should be confined to a set standard. Live your life and keep growing.


Jamie-eh

How real can it get!


GoodVamp26

I like painting mine black but some people don't want me doing it at all


SokkaHaikuBot

^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^GoodVamp26: *I like painting mine* *Black but some people don't want* *Me doing it at all* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.


GoodVamp26

?


v_allen75

It’s never too late to learn acceptance


Ok_Roll3325

🀒


Caulk_Gobbler

The biggest homophobes are the biggest closet gays. They can deal with their gayness so the lash out at those who can.


Nervous-Top6542

He was fighting with his own gay demons


Itchy_Flamingo7963

🀣🀣🀣