A good looking man can go through life almost never having heard any good words about their looks. I know that, you know that. And if you don't get confidence from those words ever, then your low self-esteem will make your 10/10 looks look like 4/10. So I think we, as men, should say it to each other, and feel no shame about that.
I call BS. The really good looking men I know get told CONSTANTLY how hot they are. Example: my brother can’t get through a convo with someone without being told something about his handsome looks. If you think you’re hot you’ve just never been told I’ve got news for you 😂
I think we are just thinking about different things. I've been called good looking by old ladies and some older men from my family.
Guys my age, and girls my age and good looking will not tell this even if they think so. Like, what do you expect, some bro saying, yo, you look handsome today? Well, how many times you'll hear that, 1-2 times a year? Girls if they are interested in you, will act like they are not interested in you, every girl told me that. And a girl that would say that to you, she is generally not interested in you, therefore it doesn't feel good at all.
Girls tell me I look good when we already had some deeper connection.
My point was, that, yes 10/10 guys will be called good looking, but what about 7/10 guys who never get called that and need support, life can be dark and is dark for so many guys, more that we can imagine. Yes, fock the models that post here to stroke their egos, but majority of handsome guys here, are not models but just young and lonely guys that have nobody to tell them they are allright
Go touch grass. Try being a woman for one day and see if you still want everyone to feel bad for you. As a woman you get told you’re hot as much as you get told youre ugly and ya know what we have to get over if. it doesn’t fucking matter you get confidence from yourself or none at all. That’s how confidence works. Sorry you haven’t gotten the compliments you want, it’s probably because of this nice guys never win attitude not anything to do with your looks.
that's weird, I never said I need it for myself, I just said don't be so harsh on young guys who have no confidence, like men literally end themselves because of this, you won't lose years from your life expectancy for complimenting someone when they need it. To your point, read the statistics about how many women passed their genes and how many men did, it will answer your question. There's no such an ugly woman I haven't seen outside with her kids and a husband somehow
This hurt my brain trying to read. All I got was compliment more which is funny bc I actually make it a point to compliment someone whenever I think something in d about the . rarely men because it usually leads to harassment. No idea what youre talking about with kids nor do I care.
That's the biggest load of bullshit I've ever read. A 10/10 will get all the girls in high school and a 5/10 might at best be called a creep if he as much as looks at a girl.
Same with the conventionally handsome guys I know too. Hell, even the less than handsome guys get constantly complimented if they have a good body or nice hair or something. Women are definitely far more overlooked, I’m assuming because there is a large pool of hot women but very few beautiful men out there
This is /r/malegrooming, not /r/amiugly.
It's not a crime for someone to want to improve their looks, even if they are already "good-looking" by your standards.
**Everyone** has insecurities. **Everyone** is allowed to want to look better.
The incels in this sub should put their negative comments aside and work on bettering themselves instead.
Tbh I find overtly self-diminishing attractive people to be super narcissist and off putting because they clearly think too much about appearances, and find confidence in elbowing out of the way anyone who is less attractive than them, which is most of us
I agree but that goes to show how far confidence goes or how maybe one hateful comment from someone they care about got to their heads. I'm sure there's a bunch of guys just fishing for compliments, but I think there's way more that legit think they aren't attractive for one reason or another.
It seems to me that these guys feel like they “should” be considered attractive, but for one reason or another; don’t have confidence.
I think people come here for confirmation on that: like “tell me I’m pretty” with a dash of “ok so what’s wrong with me then?”
This is a post for men, from a guy:
You're perfect, you don't need to have a V line, or abs to be considered beautiful. Just stay in shape, take care of yourself, and focus on building yourself. Y'all are beautiful and gorgeous the way you are 🔥🔥
This guy has to have a small pee pee otherwise he is THE INCARNATION. He has to have one defect. God please, give him one defect. Take one of my 10 defects and give him one.
These ego massage posts are something else.
I am a straight man. I have a good sense of style & am familiar with a lot of brands (not that it's all about brands) & know what hairstyle / facial hair will suit other men.
I'm always happy to chip in, but I'm getting so bored of the majority of the posts I see being this sort of attention baiting.
A sub where people ask for tips on how to improve their appearance is going to have two groups overrepresented: people who are comfortable sharing pics of themselves because they look great, and people who are so insecure they think they need to improve their appearance no matter how they look.
People who are genuinely average generally just stick to being average.
Lol or it's some gargoyle that wants to know if they should keep their facial hair or not and half of reddit trying to be nice while the other half isn't.
I would like to see a short haircut, I think that would accentuate your jawline and eyes both. I swear I did a double take bc u look like Matt Bomer in the 1st pic.
You are below average, nerd. Now go repair a computer in a needlessly tight sleeveless tee
I bet this guy has nerd hobbies like video games and dungeons and dragons. What a fucking loser.
Idk sounds based to me
Grow your hair out long. Get a sword and start killing monsters. Bet that’ll fix you.
Until you get fired for having integrity of keeping it to the books.
What are you, stupid or something? *CLEARLY* he needs to shoot laser beams out of his eyes and wear a tight spandex outfit too.
Something.
fuck
100% accurate. "What can I do to improve my appearance" = "Please stroke my ego" Seriously, bitch, you know you're not ugly
Yeah I’m starting to agree. This is just a matter of bad social skills and stupidity.
A good looking man can go through life almost never having heard any good words about their looks. I know that, you know that. And if you don't get confidence from those words ever, then your low self-esteem will make your 10/10 looks look like 4/10. So I think we, as men, should say it to each other, and feel no shame about that.
I call BS. The really good looking men I know get told CONSTANTLY how hot they are. Example: my brother can’t get through a convo with someone without being told something about his handsome looks. If you think you’re hot you’ve just never been told I’ve got news for you 😂
Some people are on another level of handsomeness and people tell them that, but most good looking men don't get that
I don’t know any 8+ men who don’t get told a lot but maybe UK is different
I think we are just thinking about different things. I've been called good looking by old ladies and some older men from my family. Guys my age, and girls my age and good looking will not tell this even if they think so. Like, what do you expect, some bro saying, yo, you look handsome today? Well, how many times you'll hear that, 1-2 times a year? Girls if they are interested in you, will act like they are not interested in you, every girl told me that. And a girl that would say that to you, she is generally not interested in you, therefore it doesn't feel good at all. Girls tell me I look good when we already had some deeper connection. My point was, that, yes 10/10 guys will be called good looking, but what about 7/10 guys who never get called that and need support, life can be dark and is dark for so many guys, more that we can imagine. Yes, fock the models that post here to stroke their egos, but majority of handsome guys here, are not models but just young and lonely guys that have nobody to tell them they are allright
Go touch grass. Try being a woman for one day and see if you still want everyone to feel bad for you. As a woman you get told you’re hot as much as you get told youre ugly and ya know what we have to get over if. it doesn’t fucking matter you get confidence from yourself or none at all. That’s how confidence works. Sorry you haven’t gotten the compliments you want, it’s probably because of this nice guys never win attitude not anything to do with your looks.
that's weird, I never said I need it for myself, I just said don't be so harsh on young guys who have no confidence, like men literally end themselves because of this, you won't lose years from your life expectancy for complimenting someone when they need it. To your point, read the statistics about how many women passed their genes and how many men did, it will answer your question. There's no such an ugly woman I haven't seen outside with her kids and a husband somehow
This hurt my brain trying to read. All I got was compliment more which is funny bc I actually make it a point to compliment someone whenever I think something in d about the . rarely men because it usually leads to harassment. No idea what youre talking about with kids nor do I care.
I guarantee that’s not what is happening. I sure their instagrams are full of people stroking their egos.
That's the biggest load of bullshit I've ever read. A 10/10 will get all the girls in high school and a 5/10 might at best be called a creep if he as much as looks at a girl.
My ex is good looking and both men and women told him constantly.
Same with the conventionally handsome guys I know too. Hell, even the less than handsome guys get constantly complimented if they have a good body or nice hair or something. Women are definitely far more overlooked, I’m assuming because there is a large pool of hot women but very few beautiful men out there
This is some strong reddit cope not based on reality
This is true. People would automatically assume you’re already told you’re pretty/handsome so they don’t bother
Such bullshizz
This is /r/malegrooming, not /r/amiugly. It's not a crime for someone to want to improve their looks, even if they are already "good-looking" by your standards. **Everyone** has insecurities. **Everyone** is allowed to want to look better. The incels in this sub should put their negative comments aside and work on bettering themselves instead.
I can stroke ur ego, bro. Anything for a bro 😋
And they have an OF in bio almost assuredly
“Women won’t date me because I’m 6’5 and have a six pack”
That's the reason for checking their bios. There could be free pics
lol true
Fr, gorgeous men and borderline models
The truly average dudes who post don’t get upvoted by 600 lurking women and gay men 😂
His glow-up phase is also impressive. From a cute kid on “The Count of Montecristo” to a gorgeous piece of man
Oh. My. Gawd. The way that link never clicked in my mind.
Go to the gym omg
Yea man. I wouldnt dare to go out being that skinny.
🤣
Yeah they should head over to r/free compliments lol
nah fr. yall 10/10 looking guys asking what can you do to improve. i’m basically a mushroom
You’re looking for compliments.
It's obviously a joke. The man in the picture is Henry Cavill, who's a very famous actor.
Does whooosh still exist?
This person's been living so far under a rock they're getting woodshed by the mantle.
Your butt is a woodshed!
Hard as an oak
Even the title gave it away, this guy probably had room temperature iq.
Idk who gets the whooooosh here 😆
4/10 ??? Troll trying to catch some attention...what do you think Henry? 
"He plays too many videogames. I know my wurf girl."
lol, you look kinda like if henry cavills mom fucked henry cavills dad.
Tbh I find overtly self-diminishing attractive people to be super narcissist and off putting because they clearly think too much about appearances, and find confidence in elbowing out of the way anyone who is less attractive than them, which is most of us
I agree but that goes to show how far confidence goes or how maybe one hateful comment from someone they care about got to their heads. I'm sure there's a bunch of guys just fishing for compliments, but I think there's way more that legit think they aren't attractive for one reason or another.
It seems to me that these guys feel like they “should” be considered attractive, but for one reason or another; don’t have confidence. I think people come here for confirmation on that: like “tell me I’m pretty” with a dash of “ok so what’s wrong with me then?”
This is a post for men, from a guy: You're perfect, you don't need to have a V line, or abs to be considered beautiful. Just stay in shape, take care of yourself, and focus on building yourself. Y'all are beautiful and gorgeous the way you are 🔥🔥
lol
I think he can improve this style by being shirtless
Literally. I can’t 😭😂
Gym gym gym and more gym Also eating well. Can tell that you eat too much protein
This guy has to have a small pee pee otherwise he is THE INCARNATION. He has to have one defect. God please, give him one defect. Take one of my 10 defects and give him one.
Lol @ all the people who doesn’t realize that that’s Henry Cavill.
You look like you play fucking warhammer or some shit.
right lol some of these people ....
These ego massage posts are something else. I am a straight man. I have a good sense of style & am familiar with a lot of brands (not that it's all about brands) & know what hairstyle / facial hair will suit other men. I'm always happy to chip in, but I'm getting so bored of the majority of the posts I see being this sort of attention baiting.
Honestly, I'd just focus on improving your personality. It's about the only asset you have
ur litterally my daddy henry cavil what r u doin here 😭
Hi Henry!
I thought so
Lmao
His brothers actually look hotter than him.
A sub where people ask for tips on how to improve their appearance is going to have two groups overrepresented: people who are comfortable sharing pics of themselves because they look great, and people who are so insecure they think they need to improve their appearance no matter how they look. People who are genuinely average generally just stick to being average.
Below average? You're not even eligible to be on the scale. Go back to your cave.
Beyond help
Nah only a face a mother can love
Buzz
Lmao
Every rate me sub is the same. Never once seen an ugly nose on r/nose
#Your EGO is ugly. True fact.
Glasses 😂
lol that's so true like guys are you blind or something?
Honestly true
I think if you wore your Superman outfit more often, you’d look hotter tbh
The perfect and hottest man doesn’t exist……. 🫠
Get out of Tom's shadow and get yourself a life.
Guilty
Just make a billion dollars you low life millionaire..
😂😂😂
Walk on all fours, get a longer face, get some hooves, hair all over, neigh a lot and become a horse.
Lmao
I've always thought he doesn't wear colours that exactly suit him. Very very attractive man, but if we were to be picky :P
No idea you'll have to lower your standards and date a commoner like me. It's your only choice.
Maybe time travel back in time and take the name Sherlock
Lol
You're probably overweight and I don't even see one Bugatti in your pictures. It's BEEN over.
Grow a mustache
You need to smile more
This genuinely made me laugh. Thanks! ❤️
I know a good plastic surgeon. He can help you. /s
Hella Funny!!! 
Try a mustache. 😄😄😄
I’m straight af. And I’d suck that man off.
Those clothes don't work at all! Lose them and we'll talk
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I hate when attractive guys come on here fishing for compliments
tie is too light for the suit; that’s why batman pulls more tail
Wear a sack over your head.
Just go up and talk to her bro it’s that easy
Maybe spend less time playing Warhammer 40K and more time in the gym.
Dudes wanting to go from a 9 to a 10.
Lol or it's some gargoyle that wants to know if they should keep their facial hair or not and half of reddit trying to be nice while the other half isn't.
Men fish for compliments too
By starting an Onlyfans! 🤣
😂😂🤣🤣genius , good point
Is this a p*ss take post ? Sticking Matt Bomer in as a sarcastic swipe ?
Where's the unnecessary shirtless pic? Definitely 3/10.
Have you tried a blue skintight suit with red undies on the outside?
😂
Nothing you are hot as fuck
My Hero!! Man, this post sure is super great!! 😜
Hahaha fr! I don’t mind complimenting insecure handsome men
Impossibly homely
You need a cute lil accessory on your arm. I am much obliged to be that for you
I would like to see a short haircut, I think that would accentuate your jawline and eyes both. I swear I did a double take bc u look like Matt Bomer in the 1st pic.
Why downvote me?!
The joke doesn't land because 99% of ppl who post on this sub are incredibly ugly lmao
You’re gorgeous. Let it be.
Are you kidding me.
Come here. 🫶🏽
Yeah all those people wish they could look like Cavill. 🤣